Blog: What helps keep a bond special? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 5/29/24! 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever it is going on, just know that you are loved and and you are doing amazing and I am so proud of you! Don't give up! I love y'all so much! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Monday's blog! On Monday, I talked about the difference between discouraging vs encouraging! When people are discouraging you, it can bring you down along with your self confidence and low self esteem which is sad because you need people who can lift you up and not bring you down! When you are around people who are encouraging, you are around people who are positive and have a positive influence in your life and that's what you need in your life! Those people are worth having in your life and for me, I feel very blessed to have those type of people in my life including my boyfriend! He encourages me everyday and I am so happy that he does! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, the blog episode is called "The difference between discouraging vs encouraging. Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what helps keep a bond special? In this blog episode, I will be talking about what are 3 things that keep a bond special? Why are those 3 things keep a bond special? Out of those 3 things, what makes a bond more special? Why does that thing make a bond more special? What is the significance behind that thing making a bond more special? Why is it significant? Now, let's get our thinking blog caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

How do I keep me and my boyfriend's bond so special? Why do I keep me and my boyfriend's bond so special? 

How do I keep me and my boyfriend's bond so special? I think what keeps me and my boyfriend's bond so special is us talking to each other everyday and supporting one another! When you get into a relationship, you want to keep a bond going between you and your significant other and for me, when it comes to my boyfriend, I want to support him in anything he does whether it has to do something with his church or just sending out his devotions and I love how our bond is special! To me, our bond will always be special and I will always love our bond! I also love how I have a good bond with his mom and his sister! I feel like his family is special to me and I will always have a good bond with my boyfriend and his family! Why do I keep me and my boyfriend's bond so special? I think the reason why I keep me and my boyfriend's bond so special is because I feel like we get along so good and the way we care about one another and the way we support one another is very important to have that especially when you have that bond! Always create a good bond with the people who you think will stick around because those bonds are special! 

3 things that keep a bond special! 

What are 3 things that keep a bond special? I think the 1st thing that makes a bond special is having a good connection with one another! When you have a good connection with someone, you never want to lose that connection and chemistry with that person! The 2nd thing that makes a bond special is how you support that person! When you support that person and that person supports you, it shows how strong a bond is and I think it is very important to support one another! The 3rd and final thing that makes a bond special is communication! When something is not going right, always communicate through whatever y'all are going through! You don't want to lose a good bond because y'all are not communicating through y'all's problems! Always communicate whatever y'all are going through! 

Why?

Why are those 3 things keep a bond special? The 1st reason why having a good connection with one another keeps a bond special is because when you a good connection, you don't want to lose that bond with each other and it is important to have a good connection with each other and if y'all don't have a good connection or chemistry with one another, it might not end well! The 2nd reason why support that person keeps a bond special is because when you show support to one another, it strengthens a bond and I feel like it is important to support one another and for me, it can strengthens not only a bond but also a friendship or even a relationship and it is good to have a person who will support you and be there for you! The 3rd and final reason why communication keeps a bond special is because when you are going through a tough time or something is going wrong between the two of y'all, I think communication is very important to have especially when it comes to having a good bond with one another! When me and my boyfriend have problems, we communicate with each other and I love how our bond strengthens because we discussed what is going on and I love that!

Makes a bond more special? 

Out of those 3 things, what makes a bond more special? I think what makes a bond more special is having a good connection with one another! When I think about having a bond with someone, I think about how well y'all get along well? To me, when you get to know someone, you are wondering if you will get along with that person? Having a good connection with someone is very important and I feel like me and my boyfriend have a good connection! I feel like we get along very well and if we didn't, we wouldn't be here today as a couple! Always have a good connection with someone! If you feel like y'all are not having that chemistry with one another, go y'all separate ways! Don't force a good connection! It won't be good at all!

Why?

Why does that thing make a bond more special? The reason why having a good connection with one another makes a bond more special is because if you and the person is not getting along, end whatever it is going with y'all and go y'all's separate! If y'all don't have a good connection and the bond is falling apart, then don't worry about fixing it if you are the only person who wants to fix the relationship or the friendship! I think it is important to have a good connection with that person to see how y'all are going to click and if y'all click good, that is a good thing! With me and my boyfriend, I was worry if we would click or not but I am glad that we do because we wouldn't be where we are at today!

The significance!

What is the significance behind that thing making a bond more special? I think the significance behind having a good connection when it comes to making a bond more special is every time when you meet a person, you wonder if y'all will have a good connection or not and to me, if y'all's personalities don't click, find a person who will click with you or find a person who can relate to you what you have been through! When you find a person who can relate to you or know what you have been through, it is important to have a person who can relate to you or know what you have been through on a person and it feels good to know that person can help you and be there for you every step of the way! It feels good to have a good friend who knows what you have been through! I feel like it is important to have those people who can help you through troubles and tribulations! I feel like having a good connection with someone is extremely important and I pray to all of my Blogger Dreamers can have a good connection with someone and have a good bond with that person! When you have a good bond with someone, it is important to keep that bond forever!

Why? 

Why is it significant? I think it is significant is because when you have a good bond with someone and you get along with that person very well, y'all's friendship or relationship can go a long way but if y'all's relationship or friendship is not going well and y'all are loosing the bond, that is not good at all! You want to find a person who you can be really good friends with or be in a good relationship with! Having a friendship or relationship that can last a long time is really special and for me, I love having a good relationship where we can be best friends and lovers and I love that so much! I also have a few friends who truly care about me and who is there for me when I need them! It feels good to know that having people who care about you and cheer you on, it warms my heart a lot! I feel supported and I hope and pray that those friends know that I am going to continue to support them, no matter what! Always find people who love you and will do anything for you! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, when you are creating this bond with someone, you don't want to lose that friendship or that bond with that person! When you have a special bond with someone and you feel like you are loosing that bond, you are going to do anything to fix that bond and to me, that is very important to fix a bond! When you are trying to fix the bond but the other person doesn't want to fix it, just give up on it because it seems that person doesn't care about the bond that y'all used to have! That's okay because you are going to find people who is worth your time and who is worth having around for a long time! I know in my heart, I found people who are worth keeping around for a long time and I am so blessed to find people who I can have a good bond with and it makes me happy to know that they are for me in the long run such as I am there for them in the long as well! For my tip of the day, it is find people who is worth having around for a long time and who is worth having a good bond with because once you find a good bond with, you don't want to lose that person! I feel really blessed to have find really good people in my life! I feel really blessed and I can't wait to see how me and my boyfriend's bond will continue to grow soon! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! The moral of this blog is find a person or people who you can have a good bond with because once you find a person who you can have a good bond with, you don't want to lose that bond with that person or people! Having a good bond with someone is very important because that person can help you through a hard time and that person will love you for who you are and that's important! I am very blessed to have people who love me for me and I am planning to keep those people around and I am praying that they can keep me around for a long time because I am a good person to keep around! I love how each bond can be special! Find people who are worth keeping and people who aren't worth keeping! For today's quote of the day, it goes a little something like this: "Fill Your Mind With God's Word And You Will Have No Room For Satan's Lies". -Toby Mac! I absolutely love this quote a lot because God's word is full of words of God and with God by your side, he will never let anyone bully you including Satan! Don't let Satan fill your head with lies because Satan is a liar and you are much better than that! I love y'all and I am praying that everyone will have a good Wednesday or in other countries, a good Thursday and I will see y'all on Friday where I will be talking about what am I looking forward to this summer? Stay tuned! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams". I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💙

Today's quote of the day! I love this quote of the day so much because Satan is a liar who is trying to fill your head with lies and instead of listening to those lies, listen to God's word! His word is much powerful and stronger! 

"Two hearts, each
unique and imperfect. 
come together to 
create a bond that is 
stronger than the sum 
of its part".
-Relationship Diary! I love this quote so much when two people with an unique and imperfect heart for one another and they create a bond, you never want to lose that bond because if you are happy, never lose that bond!

"There is 
something 
even 
stronger 
than love: 
bonding".
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because nothing sounds good than bonding and when you bonding with someone, you are getting to know that person and you wondering if this bond that you have with someone might take you somewhere and you praying it does because you are starting to feel happy and that's important!

"You Forge Different 
Bonds With Friends 
Than With Family, 
Tell Different 
Secrets".
~ Jenna Morasca~ I couldn't agree with quote more because you have a different bond with friends and family and that's okay to have different bonds with family and friends! 

I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! I love y'all and always stay true to yourself! Peace! ✌💜💛

                                         💔Blog: The difference between discouraging vs encouraging. Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, May 27th, 2024! 💖 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where on this blog page, I talk about anything from personal things such as bullying or mental health! I even did a blog about meeting my boyfriend for the 1st time! I love that blog so much! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever the problems that are facing, you are never alone and I care about y'all so much! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but here is a recap of last week's blog episodes! On Monday, I talked about how would I describe my outfit that I wore for my birthday? Honestly, if I could describe my outfit, I would describe my outfit as gorgeous! That outfit was absolutely beautiful and I love that outfit a lot! Such a cute outfit! On Wednesday, I talked about what outfits would I wear for summer? Part 2! One of the outfits that I picked out that sticks out in my mind is the pink dress with the ruffle collar! To me, that screams out summer! I feel like hot pink is such a summer color and it fits just perfectly! On Friday, I talked about makeup looks that I would do for the summer, part 3! I love each makeup look that I put together! Each makeup look gives off summer vibes which I love a lot! I think the pink look will look amazing for the summer and I can't wait to do that look for the summer! If y'all haven't read those and you would love to check them out, you can check them out at: makeup and fashion blog page! Please, go check them out, whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! For this week's blogs, I will be talking about the difference between discouraging vs encouraging, what helps keep a bond special, and what am I looking forward to this summer? Stay tuned for this week's blogs and without further ado, let's get our thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this week's song of the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about the difference between discouraging vs encouraging. In this blog episode, I will be talking what is the difference between discouraging and encouraging? Why is there a difference between the two? When someone is not being encouraging, what does that do to a person? Why does that thing do to a person when someone is not being encouraging? What is my words of wisdom to my Blogger Dreamers who are feeling discouraged? Why would I give those words of wisdom to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? I choose to talk about today's blog episode is because I feel like we don't encourage each other enough which is absolutely sad! I feel like we should always encourage one another and never bring each other down! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I choose "Take Your Time" by: Sam Hunt! When I listen to this song, I think about how my boyfriend wanted to take his time getting to know me and getting to know who I am as a person and I love that about my boyfriend! Why did I choose this week's song of the week? The reason why I chose this week's song of the week is because when I think about the times where me and my boyfriend started talking, he was taking his time to get to know me and I love when a man is trying to get to know a woman and not trying to rush into things! Always take time to get to know a man or a woman! Don't rush things!

When I think about the words "discouraging" and "encouraging", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? 

When I think about the words "discouraging" and "encouraging", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "discouraging", I think about someone who brings others down without uplifting that person whereas when I think about the word "encouraging", I think about someone who uplifts someone and wants to inspire others not to ever give up! It is hard to find people who are very encouraging! People are nothing but critics and we have enough of that already! We need to uplift people and encourage them! Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind when I think about "discouraging" is because there is a lot of people who doesn't like to inspire others or uplift one another and unfortunately, there isn't people like that and that's sad! The reason why I think about "encouraging" like that is because there are some people who like to encourage others! I am one of those people! I love seeing people who feel inspire by what I do or how I can help them and that makes my heart happy! If I am doing my job right, then I am doing my job right and I couldn't be more proud of the person that I am today! Let's encourage one another instead of being an discourager! 

The difference between discouraging and encouraging! 

What is the difference between discouraging and encouraging? There is a lot of differences between the two and one of them is when you discourage someone, it makes them think you don't believe in them which is incredibly sad! No one should ever have to feel that someone doesn't believe in them or encourage them! You need to find someone who encourage you! Having someone who can be encouraging can be a life changing thing! Having someone who believes in you is a blessing within itself! It's better than having someone who discourages you all the time! We have a world full of critics and we need to stop critiquing people unless we are telling them how to fix it in a nice way!

Why? 

Why is there a difference between the two? The reason why there is difference between the two is because people are mean when they are discouraging you and tearing you down! People are nice when they are reassuring you and that's amazing! When you have people to reassure that that you are doing amazing and they are proud of you, it warms your heart a lot! I know that it does for me because there are times where I felt like no one believed in me but when my boyfriend came along, he tells me how proud he is of me on occasions which is nice to hear! I feel like he tells me how proud he is of me more than people in my family which is incredibly sad but again, it doesn't matter because I know that I am proud of myself and I am doing incredible things for myself! 

Someone not being encouraging... 

When someone is not being encouraging, what does that do to a person? When someone is not being encouraging, it can do a lot of things to a person but for me, I feel like it destroys my self esteem a lot and it tears me apart! For me, I am that person who likes to encourage people and sometimes, I get some encouragement from others but there have been times where people tear me down which is sad! Don't believe in tearing others down and giving them harsh criticism! I believe in giving someone some positive vibes and telling them know that they have someone who believes in them! It is important to have people who believe in you and who don't give up on you! It is hard to find people who are like that! 

Why?

Why does that thing do to a person when someone is not being encouraging? The reason why it can destroy a person's self esteem or my self esteem and it can tear me apart is because people are harsh on other people and I don't believe in people being harsh on others because if you are harsh on others, it shows them that you don't believe in them which is incredibly sad and we need to show people who that we need to encourage one another, not tear people down around us! It's not worth it and if you tear others around you, you are taking their self confidence away from them and it is making them not comforted by what you are saying to them! I'm just saying!

Words of wisdom for my Blogger Dreamers who are feeling discouraged! 

What is my words of wisdom to my Blogger Dreamers who are feeling discouraged? If I could give words of wisdom to my Blogger Dreamers who are feeling discouraged, it would be no matter how many times people have knocked you down or no matter how hard life can get, you keep going and not give up! Don't get discouraged! You got this! You are doing such an amazing job and I am proud of you! Keep doing what you loved doing and you should be proud of yourself for how far you have come! Keep going and don't give up trying! 

Why? 

Why would I give those words of wisdom to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give those words of wisdom to my Blogger Dreamers is because people tend to want to give up people they are feeling discouraged and that shouldn't have to happen! If you are feeling discouraged and people are telling you "you should give up and quit", don't listen to that because for starters, you are doing awesome and I am proud of you for how far you have come! You are doing amazing and you are working really hard towards your dreams! If people decide to discourage you because of your dreams, don't let them do that because you are wonderful and got through this far! Don't quit trying! You have people who care about you so much!

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, people can encourage you or discourage you but the ones who discourage you, they will tear you down and make you feel like you are not good which you are good enough! You are doing amazing and there might not be enough people who might not support you, but that's fine because you already have enough support and that's still good! Don't give up because people are bringing you down! Keep pushing through and think about how far you have come in your life! God got me where I need to be today and I can't thank God enough for getting me this far! I'm a fighter and everyone is a fighter as well! Don't give up! Y'all got this! For today's tip of the day, it is don't let people discourage you! Instead of people discouraging you, let them encourage you instead! I love y'all so much!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode! The moral of this blog is let's encourage one another instead of bring others down because if you are bringing others down, you are making them feel like crap and that's not right for them to feel like that at all! That person might have a goal in their head but instead, you are discouraging them and tearing them down or you are trying to up one them and honestly, that's not right at all! People don't realize that you are trying your best and they don't care because they are trying to better than you! Don't let anyone tear you down! I'm so proud of you! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "Trust Him. Even When He Says No". -Toby Mac! I love this quote a lot because when God says no, still trust him because he is doing a lot for you! God might not say "yes" yet, eventually, he will! Trust his timing and only his timing! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and I pray that everyone will have or had a good day! Always remember "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog where I will be talking about what helps keep a bond special? Stay tuned! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! I love y'all! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜

Today's quote of the day! I love this quote of the day is because when God says "no", still trust him! God's timing is never wrong! Trust God because he can help you! Don't give up on God!

"Sometimes the 
people closest to 
you will hurt you the 
most. Don't be discouraged. Draw 
nearer to God. He
loves you the most. 
God is faithful".
-Unknown. I couldn't agree with this quote more because people are going to make you discourage you and the only one won't do that is God because God is the most faithful person there is and he loves you so much! Never forget that! 

"You Are A True
Success When 
You Help Others 
Be Successful".
-Unknown. I love this quote a lot because you are showing others that you can be successful by encouraging others and that's an amazing thing to do! Don't let one person or multiple people stop you from encouraging others! You are doing an amazing job!

"If People Are 
Doubting How
Far You Can Go,
Go So Far
That You Can't 
Hear Them 
Anymore".
-Michele Ruiz. I love this quote so much because if you have people who are discouraging you and bringing you down, show them that you can do it because I know that you can do it! Don't give up hope!

"At the end, it's not
about what you have
or even what you've
accomplished. It's 
about who you've
lifted up, who you've 
made better. It's about
what you've given back".
-Denzel Washington. I love this quote so much because in life, it doesn't matter what you have but what matters is, who you have encouraged in the long run and you should be proud of yourself for that! Encourage as much people as you can! You are doing amazing! 

To end's blog episode for today, for this week's song of the week, I chose "Take Your Time" by Sam Hunt! I love this song so much because I want to take all the time to get to know someone and know the person for who they are! When I listen to this song, I think about my boyfriend because before we started dating, we were getting to know each other and I feel like he was taking the time that he needs to get to know me which I love that about him!

                                           💔  Blog: What 3 things make me weak? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, May 10th, 2024!! 😢

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an weekly blog episode where on Monday's, Wednesday's, and Friday's, I do blogs and the days where I don't do blogs, I do tiktoks! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is bothering y'all or whatever it is bringing y'all down, just know that you are loved and I love y'all from the bottom of my heart! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but before I get into today's blog episode, here is a blog recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about what quotes describe my life? Part 2! The one quote that stands out in my mind and the one that relates to my life is "Be An Encourager. The World Has Plenty Of Critics Already". -Toby Mac! I feel like I could relate this quote into my life is for me, I want to encourage people who need encouraging and who need motivation to get through whatever that person is going through! I want people to know that I will never criticize them and I just want them to do their best in everything that they do! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, please go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank y'all so much! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what 3 things make me weak? In this blog episode, if I could pick 3 things that makes me weak, what would those 3 things be? Why does those things make me weak? Out of the 3 things that make me weak, which one makes me the weakest? Why does that thing make me the weakest? Now, without further ado, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

3 things that make me strong! Why does those 3 things make me strong? 

What 3 things make me strong? The 1st thing that make me strong is having a strong attitude! For me, despite what I have been through or how I went through it, I always have a strong attitude and I don't give up! The 2nd thing that makes me strong is caring for others! Whatever I am going through, I am always caring about others and I am always there for others when they need me! The 3rd and final thing that makes me strong is my faith! When I am going through a hard time, the only thing that makes me strong is my faith! For me, I have to have faith because I can't quit or give up! Faith keeps me going! Why does those 3 things make me strong? The 1st reason why the 1st thing keeps me strong is because when you are having a bad day and you just want to give up, for me, I have to keep my attitude strong and not give up! The 2nd reason why the 2nd thing that makes me strong is because despite what I am going through at that moment, I am caring about others and I can't give up on them! The 3rd and final reason why the 3rd thing makes me strong is because I have to faith and I can't give up on faith! I need to have faith in myself and God because God will help me through my darkest moments and I need to have faith that he will never give up on me which I know he won't! Never give up faith!

3 things that make me weak! 

If I could pick 3 things that makes me weak, what would those 3 things be? If I had to pick the 1st thing that makes me the weakest, the 1st thing that makes me the weakest is being kind to others when no one else is! I have been kind to others but when I need kindness, I feel like it hurts because I don't get it back! I have been kind to others but a lot of people haven't been kind to me and it makes me weak! The 2nd thing that makes me weak is having a kind and soft heart! I have had a kind and soft hear since I could remember! When I am there for others, I am there but no one is there for me, it breaks my heart and it makes me weak! The 3rd and final thing that makes me weak is feeling left out! I don't like feeling left out or leaving me out in the loop and it hurts! When someone replaces me, it kind of hurts but at the same time, people need to realize once you replace me, I am no longer available for you! If you want to leave me out in the loop or leave me, be my guest! I will hurt but I will get over it eventually! 

Why?

Why does those things make me weak? The 1st reason why the 1st thing makes me weak is because I have been kind to others but when I need kindness, I never get it and makes me feel weak! There has been times where I will be kind to others but I will have someone being mean to me for no reason and it would make me feel weak and want to shut down! The 2nd reason why the 2nd thing makes me weak is because I always had a soft and kind heart since I could remember but once someone uses me, I tend to want to get rid of that person because using that person is hurtful and it makes them rethink you as their friend which is not good at all! The 3rd and final reason why the 3rd thing makes me weak is because being left is hurtful but another thing that is hurtful is being replaced! When people don't talk to me or not there for me, I feel hurt and being left out in the loop but honestly, if people want to leave me, make sure you don't get hit with the door on the way out! Yes, being left out is a hurtful thing but once you get used to it like I am, I try to not bother me but it makes me feel weak and it hurts!

Makes me the weakest!

Out of the 3 things that make me weak, which one makes me the weakest? Honestly, if I had to pick the one that makes me the weakest, it would have to be having a kind and soft heart! Yes! I always had this soft and kind heart and people would take advantage of me which hurts a lot! That person would never take my feelings into consideration which hurts a lot and not only that, people might think I am an easy target and I could shut down but what that person doesn't know is I have a voice I will stand up for myself and protect myself from anything but I also have a boyfriend who is very protective and will protect me at all cost, so I would be careful if I were you! What people realize is I have been used and people think that I am a doormat that they can run over all they want to but that's the thing, I am not a doormat and I will never be one! I might have a soft and kind heart but don't make me lose my heart of gold because I have a heart of gold and I don't want to lose it!

Why?

Why does that thing make me the weakest? The reason why I chose having a kind and soft heart as me being the weakest is because when you help people, I would help people who need help but when I need help, I would be feeling no one want to defend me and I have to protect myself from danger! People had used me and bring me down, but just know that I will never give up and I will never quit but just know that I am not person who you can use over and over again because I am not that person who you can run to when you are trouble! If you can't help me through my difficult and trouble times, then I can't help you with yours! It works both ways! I am not going to be here for you if you can't be here for me! That's not how my heart works! If you can't help me, then I can't help you! I am going to be used over and over again! I'm sorry! I don't need people like that!

In closing/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?

In closing, when I am feeling weak, it is because of either 3 things and those 3 things have hurt me since the day I could remember and for me to have this soft and kind heart, it never lost its gold which I'm glad it didn't because if I lost my gold in my heart, I would become this cold hearted person which that isn't me at all but I am not going to let people use me as a doormat because that is wrong of those people to use me as a doormat and that is not who I am! When I have been kind to people but people haven't been so kind to me, honestly, it hurts me so much because I have been so kind to others but when it's my turn for kindness, I don't get it and that honestly hurts! Being left out hurts as well! When I have been there for a lot people but once I am needed, I am left out which hurts but honestly, if people don't need me, I won't be here for those people and I will living my own life! Here is my tip and question of the day? My tip of the day is don't let people use you as doormats because you don't need that type of behavior in your life! You stand up for yourself and show that person that you are much better person without them in your life! Don't let people hurt you because you don't need that in your life! Here is my question of the day? My question of the day is what 3 things make you weak? Why would those things make you weak? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read and respond to those comments! Please! Thank you all so much!! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog for today! I pray that someone can relate to this blog for today! It is hard to have this heart of gold and yet, people have hurt me on a daily basis which is hard to deal with! In my head, I feel like a lot of people don't need me and that hurts me a lot but at the same time, I came to realization that I don't need a lot of people in my life either! I feel like I am much better without them! If people don't see me as a person that they need in their life, I am okay with that! I am an adult and I came to acceptance that I will be okay without the people who don't need me! Those people have hurt me and I am moving on with my life! I will worry about those people who care about me and who love me! I am tired of feeling left out or people using me or using my kind heart! I don't need those type of people anymore! For today's Bible verse of the day, it goes something like this: In John 14:1, it says "Let not your heart be troubled; you believe in God, believe also in Me". I absolutely love this Bible verse a lot because not only you need to believe in God but you also need to believe that Jesus died for you! I believe that God is an amazing God and that Jesus died for me! Believe in God and Jesus! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Always remember "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all next week on my 1st blog page where I will be talking about analyzing the song "Eye of the storm" feat. Gabe Real, Ryan S, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden, celebrating 3 years of blogging, and what are chapters 4-6 of my book about? Stay tuned! I love y'all and stay safe! This blogger queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💕

Today's bible verse of the day! I love this bible verse a lot because not only we need to believe in God, but we also need to believe in Jesus because Jesus died for us and God is walking on this journey we are going through called life! 

"Treat others with 
kindness, but don't 
let them take
advantage of your 
kindness". 
-Unknown! I couldn't agree with this quote more because we should never take advantage of someone's kindness! Let's be kind to one another and be there for one another! 

"Having a soft
heart in a cruel 
world is a 
courage, not 
weakness". 
-Katherine Henson. I love this quote so much because this world can be a cruel world and people can take advantage of your heart and how kind it is! Having a kind heart in this world is courage because you are standing up for who you are and you are protecting yourself from this cruel world! 

"I'm that person everyone 
replaces after a while".
-Unknown. This quote hits home because I have been replaced by plenty of people and after while, it hurts but I start to realize that you don't need those people anymore and I feel like I am much better off without those people! I don't need people who will need me one minute and then, the next minute, don't need me at all or feeling out of the loop! I am much better off and I am okay with that!

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! For this week's song of the week, I chose "Nobody" by Casting Crowns ft Matthew West! The reason why I chose this song is because I am just a nobody who telling people about who saved me and that is Jesus! Jesus saved my soul and he can save yours as well before it is too late! I love y'all and enjoy your weekend! 

                                        Blog: What quotes describe my life? Part 2. Date of blog: Wednesday, 5/8/24! 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today where I talk about anything that comes to mind whether it is poems or even songs! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is bothering y'all or weighing y'all down, just know that everything is going to be okay! Don't give up because you are doing amazing and I am so proud of y'all! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap from Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I analyzed the song "Nobody" by: Casting Crowns, ft. Matthew West! Every time I listen to that song, I think about how I am a nobody who just telling people how much I love my Jesus because I know that Jesus saved me and he can save you as well! If y'all haven't read that blog and would love to check it out, please go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what quotes describe my life? Part 2! In this blog, I will be talking about besides the quotes that I chose that describe my life, what other quotes would I choose to describe my life? Why would I choose those quotes to describe my life? Out of the quotes that I chose, which one describes my life more? Why does that quote describe my life more? What is the significance behind that quote? Why is there significance behind that quote? Now, without any further disruptions or distractions, let's get on our blogging imagination and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

How can I describe my life? Why did I describe my life like that? 

How can I describe my life? I can describe my life as a little challenging but there are fun parts of my life and I am blessed for what I have! I am not that type of a girl who doesn't care about partying or even drinking! I am that girl who loves to read her Bible and listen to music and talk to my boyfriend! I love my life! I have my moments that are good but then, I have moments where they are not so good but I always managed to get through! Why did I describe my life like that? The reason why I describe my life like that is because I feel like I have challenges where they are harder than others but I tend to push through no matter what I go through! I love my life and I will always enjoy my life, no matter what! 

Quotes that describe my life! 

Besides the quotes that I chose that describe my life, what other quotes would I choose to describe my life? If I could pick the 1st quote that could describe my life, it would have to be "We try to hide our feelings, but we forget that our eyes speak". -Unknown. I feel like this quote describes my life! I have been that person who tends to try and hide my feelings but my eyes say it all and I pretend that everything is okay but if you look into my eyes, you tell something is wrong! The 2nd quote that describe my life is "Read the Bible. Talk to God. He will get you through anything". -Unknown. I read my Bible every morning and every night before bed and I also talk to God because I feel like it is important to talk to him! God can help you whatever you going through! The 3rd and final quote that describe my life is "Be An Encourager. The World Has Plenty Of Critics Already". -Toby Mac! I feel with this quote, I want to be an encourager to others and not put others down! For me, I feel like people should be encourage by others but instead, we have people who are hard on other people and love to tear others down! Don't tear others down if you don't know what they are going through! We should encourage one another, not discourage one another!

Why?

Why would I choose those quotes to describe my life? The 1st reason why I picked the 1st quote to describe my life is because with me, I tend to hide my feelings and pretend that everything is okay but once I am not around people, I will burst into tears because I don't want others what I am going through! The 2nd reason why I picked the 2nd quote to describe my life is because I love getting up and reading my Bible and talk to God because I know that he is going to help me through everything that I am going through! God will help you as well because God is an amazing God that who will help anyone and I love that about God! The 3rd and final reason why I picked the 3rd quote to describe my life is because I want to encourage others and I don't want people to feel discourage! I want people to know that I am here to give advice and I want people to know that they are never alone and I am always here for them, no matter what!

The quote that describes my life more? 

Out of the quotes that I choose, which one describes my life more? If I had to pick the one quote that describes my life more, it would have to be the 1st quote! I hide my feelings more than anything and I pretend that everything is okay but my eyes tend to give it away! I am that type of a person who acts like everything but deep down, I am not fine which is hard to admit to anyone! I don't want to put my feelings on others but sometimes, I tend to tell others what is wrong and what I am going through! I feel like it helps to have people to listen to you and help you what you are going through! Who knows? That person might of gone through it as well! To know that you have someone who is willing to help you through everything is a blessing within itself! Don't be afraid to tell someone what you are going through because they can help as well!

Why?

Why does that quote describe my life more? I think the reason why I picked the 1st quote as the quote that describe my life more is because I tend to hide my feelings a lot and I try to not to hide my feelings but sometimes I do it because I don't want people to worry and not only that, I don't want to tell my feelings to someone who is going to judge me and tear me down! It is not worth of telling someone what you are feeling and then, they are throwing it in your face! That is wrong of those people and you need to find people who can understand your feelings! It is better to have people who understand you than not people who don't understand you at all! I feel blessed to have people who understand what I go through and who is willing to listen to me and not throw it in my face!

The significance behind that quote!

What is the significance behind that quote? The significance behind that 1st quote is when you or someone is going through something tough, they usually say "I'm fine! I am okay" but their eyes say it all! Sometimes, when you look into someone's eyes, you can tell what is going on and usually, that person can tell you what is going on and sometimes, it can be sad and that's hard for a person tell another person what they are going through! When another person tells another person what they are going through, they usually get judged or that person helps me which is a blessing within itself! Let someone help you because they might understand what you are going through!

Why?

Why is there significance behind that quote? The reason why there is significant behind that quote is because sometimes, when people say "I'm okay" but their eyes say it all! When you look into a person's eyes, you can tell what's wrong with them and they are either hiding what they are feeling and not to worry others because if you don't tell someone how you are feeling, you are going to feel like you are drowning and no one should ever have to feel like they are drowning because that is the worst feeling in the world! When you can't tell people how you are feeling, it is the worst feeling in the world because you are afraid that they might throw it in your face which is horrible! Find people who can understand what or how you are feeling! Those are the best people to talk to!

In closing/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day? 

In closing, I tend to hide my feelings towards others except my boyfriend because my boyfriend can read me like a book and nothing can go by him and he will ask me what's wrong until I tell him and then, I ended up telling him! Reading my Bible every morning and night and talking to God is the best feeling in the world! When you talk to God about what you are going through, the best feeling is when he doesn't judge you! God will never judge you about your past or the past relationships! God will never do that! For me, I love encouraging others! I don't like be a critic because there are plenty of them in this world and I feel like people don't realize that we need more people who can encourage or inspire others and I pray that one day, people can inspire and encourage others! Here is my tip and question of the day! My tip of the day is don't let people bring you down because of your past! You are amazing and you are doing amazing for yourself! My question of the day is if you could pick 3 quotes that describe your life, what would those quotes be? Why would you pick those quotes? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read and respond to everyone's comments! Please! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just made it to the end of today's blog for today! I hope and pray that everyone enjoyed today's blog episode because I know that I did! For me, when I was picking out quotes that described my life, the one quote that stood out to me was the 1st quote and the reason why that quote stood out to me is because I always hide my feelings but if you look into my eyes, you can tell what is wrong or by my voice as well! I like to hide my feelings because I don't like worrying others about how I am feeling and it hard for me to tell someone how I am feeling without crying! I am a crier and I can't help it! Don't let someone throw your past in your face because that is wrong and disrespectful! Always push through, no matter what! For today's Bible verse of the day, it goes something like this: In Ephesians 2:10, it says "For we are His workship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them". I love this Bible verse more than anything is because we need to work for Christ Jesus and we need to walk like Jesus and if God gave us work, we need to work hard for that work! Don't let that work go to waste! If God blessed you with a gift, use it! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on Friday where I will be talking about what 3 things make me weak? Stay tuned! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜

Today's Bible verse of the day! I love this Bible verse a lot because if God wants you to work hard at what you love to do or walk with Jesus, walk with Jesus! 

"We try to hide 
our feelings, but we 
forget that our eyes
speak". I couldn't agree with this quote more because we try to hide what we are feeling, but our eyes speak it all and that sad because when someone looks into our eyes, they can tell what is wrong and it is sad when people can look at your eyes and automatically say "Are you okay"? Always check on the people who you care about because they might be dealing with a difficult thing in their life!

"Read the Bible. 
Talk to God.
He will get 
you through 
anything". 
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because for me, reading my Bible and talking to God soothes my soul and I know that if I talk to God, he will help me get through anything that I am going through because God cares about me and he loves me and he will do the same exact thing for y'all! Just believe in God! 

"Be An Encourager.
The World Has Plenty Of Critics Already".
-Toby Mac! I couldn't agree more with this quote because people are so mean and not only that, they like to critique others but not give encouragement! Give encouragement to others because your encouragement could go along way! Be an encouragement to someone who might need the encouragement! 

I pray that everyone will have or had a good day! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Please, stay safe and don't do anything reckless and get hurt! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart! I love y'all! ❤💜❤💜

                                     Analyzing the song "Nobody" by: Casting Crowns ft. Matthew West, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Monday, May 6th, 2024! 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I blog three times a week about anything that comes to mind whether it is about my poems or songs that I enjoy listening to! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that my Blogger Dreamers are doing okay and well! Whatever it is dragging y'all down or whatever it is bothering y'all, just know that y'all are loved and I love y'all more than anything because I care about y'all so much! Before I get into this week's blog episodes, here is a recap of last week's blog episodes! On my 1st blog page, Monday I talked about the song "Good Times Go By Too Fast" by: Dylan Scott, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! I am not going to lie, time is a thief a lot of the times! When you are watching your kids grow up or you having a good time with the people who you love, you don't want time being wasted but when time goes by too fast, you blink and time goes by too fast! Don't waste time with the people who care about you because those people care about you and they love you! On Wednesday, I talked about what I learned over the years? One of the things that I learned over the 26 years that I have been alive is true friendships! True friendships are rare to find but once you find them, you want to keep them and never let them go! I am blessed to have true friendships in my life and I feel blessed! On Friday, I talked about my poem "Looking back". I feel like the only time you should look back is when you feel like you did a good job! For me, I feel like I have grown a lot and I feel like I never gave up because no matter how many people hurt me, I never let them hurt me! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to check them out, you can check them out at "brandeemariedarden.blogspot.com". I love y'all! On this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about the song "Nobody" by Casting Crowns ft. Matthew West, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden, what quotes describe my life, and what 3 things make me weak? Stay tuned for this week's blog episodes and now, without any further ado, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing the song "Nobody" by: Casting Crowns ft. Matthew West, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I listen to this song, what comes to mind? Why does that thing come to mind? When I think about the lyrics, what does the lyrics mean to me? Why does the lyrics mean to me? How did God save me? Why did God save me like that? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I choose to talk about today's blog episode is because when I listen to this song, it became a part of my life and I am just a nobody who loves to worship God and praise in Jesus name! Jesus died for my sins and everyone else around me as well! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "Nobody" by: Casting Crowns ft. Matthew West! I absolutely love this song so much and I am a nobody who loves to worship God and praise Jesus name! Why did I choose this song for the week? I choose this song for the week because I love my God and I love Jesus! Jesus died for my sins and everyone else's sins as well! 

What lyrics stand out to me? Why does those lyrics stand out to me? 

What lyrics stand out to me? The lyrics that stand out to me is "Cause I'm just a nobody

Trying to tell everybody

All about somebody who saved my soul

Ever since You rescued me

You gave my heart a song to sing

I'm living for the world to see 

Nobody but Jesus

I'm living for the world to see

Nobody but Jesus( come on, crew)". When I see these lyrics as a stand out to me, I am a nobody who wants to share about Jesus and share the gospel! God has helped me in so many ways and he sent his darling son to die on the cross for our sins! We should let the whole world know that Jesus died on the cross for our sins and we need to let everyone know that he did and we need to let anyone know that God is an awesome God! Why does those lyrics stand out to me? The reason why those lyrics stand out to me because I am a nobody who wants to tell someone that Jesus saved my soul and God helped me as well! You can share the Gospel with someone because they can go to Jesus! 

What comes to mind? 

When I listen to this song, what comes to mind? When I listen to this song, the thought that comes to my mind is I'm a nobody who is trying to tell everyone that God sent his only begotten son to die for our sins! We need to share the gospel with the people who don't know him and we need people to see that Jesus saved us and we need to see that God changed our lives for the better! God knows what you are going through and let God help you because if you let God help you, he will help you! Let him help you! You are a somebody who wants to share the Gospel and share that Jesus did I for us and we need to turn to God and Jesus!

Why?

Why does that thing come to mind? The reason why the thought of I'm a nobody who is trying to tell everyone that God sent his only begotten son to die for our sins because Jesus did do that! He went to mount Calvary and went to die on the cross! He was crucified and on the 3rd day, he rose again from the dead! He died and rose again! This world is really scary and without Jesus or God, I don't know where I would be! Through sad and scary times, God has helped me through everything and I am a nobody who wants to share about Jesus and one day, I would go to door to door to share about the Gospel because reading the Bible has helped so much!

What does the lyrics mean to me? 

When I think about the lyrics, what does the lyrics mean to me? When I think about lyrics, I think before I believed in Jesus and that God led me to Jesus, I was a nobody but now, I am a somebody who wants to spread and share the Bible! When I read the Bible and I think about what Jesus went through when he was on the cross, not only it broke my heart but it made think that we need to appreciate Jesus because while he was on the cross, he was thinking about us! God didn't have to send his son on the cross but he did because God cares about! God send his only son and for that, I am thanking God for doing that! I used to be a nobody who believed in God in my head not my heart, but now I am a somebody who is willing to share the Bible with someone one day! 

Why?

Why does the lyrics mean to me? The reason why the lyrics mean to me is because I believed in God in my head but on March 15th, 2023, everything changed for me when I share that I believe in God and that Jesus died for me! I am a nobody who wants to tell people about my Jesus and my God! We live in a scary world but with Jesus and God on my side, I feel safe because I know they will protect me and they will protect y'all as well! Believe that they will protect you and help you! God will never throw things in your face or Jesus wouldn't betrayed you! I am a somebody who will share the Gospel for the people who don't know who is God or Jesus! I am a somebody and I love my God and Jesus!

God saved me? 

How did God save me? There are so many ways that God saved me but the way that God save me was from the evil thoughts in my head! I have been dealing with evil thoughts in my head but with God, he reminded me that I am worthy and I am good enough! God will never throw things in your face like people have done to you! God will help you and help you get through difficult times! He wouldn't leave you in the dirt! Don't let the evil thoughts take over and let God help you!

Why? 

Why did God save me like that? The reason why God saved me is because God saw my worth when no one else did! Instead of people would nick pick on what I am doing wrong or making feel like crap about myself, God told me to keep trying and I kept trying from this point forward! There has been times where I would want to give up but I kept pushing through because God would want me to keep pushing forward! God would want me to not quit because he cares about me and I know that he does! God cares about y'all as well! Don't forget that!

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, God cares about everyone in this world! God will never stop caring about everyone in the world! Jesus died for us and while he was on the cross, he was thinking about us! When I listen to the song "Nobody" by Casting Crowns ft. Matthew West, I think about how I am nobody who wants to share the Gospel with people who I come in contact with and I feel like this song hits me a lot! God is there for us and he will never stop caring about everyone! God sees your troubles and what you are going through because he sees everything! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is God sees your worth and if he sees how worthy you are, don't give up because he is what you are going through but he wants you to keep going! Keep going and don't give up! I love y'all so much!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! God knows how worthy that you are and while Jesus was the cross, he was thinking about us and we should give him the praise because he gave up his life for us! God sent his son to die on the cross for us! God wouldn't care about us if he didn't care about sending his son to die! With Jesus, he rose on the 3rd day! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes something like this: in Psalm 9:1, it says "I will praise you, o Lord, with my whole heart; I will tell of all your marvelous works". I love this Bible verse a lot because God is doing marvelous works in your life! You may not know what you are doing with your life but God does know what he is doing and he will lead you to the right direction! Believe in him! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Always remember: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog episode where I will be talking about what quotes describe my life? Stay tuned! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💖

Today's Bible verse of the day! I love this Bible verse a lot because I will praise the Lord's name and thank him for doing a lot in my life because I don't know where I would be without him! God is amazing and he would do marvelous works in your life as well! 

Lyrics to "Nobody" by: Casting Crowns ft. Matthew West! These lyrics stand out to me because Jesus saved my soul and he rescued me from things that I couldn't rescue myself! Let Jesus rescue you!

"When You Have Faith
In God, You Don't Have 
To Worry About The 
Future. You Just
Know It's All In His
Hands. You Just Go To 
And Do Your Best".
-Elder Bryan. I absolutely love this quote because when you have faith in God, there is nothing to worry about because it is all in God's hands! God is taking care of it as I am typing this! Let God take care of it and don't worry about it! 

"If You Have Faith In God, 
If You Believe That God
Can Use You, If You Are
Willing To Take A Step Of 
Faith Here And There,
Then God Can Do
Incredible Things
Through You".
-Greg Laurie. I couldn't agree with this quote even more because God is able to use you somewhere whether it is helping people out or praying for those people in your life or in a school! God can use you! God can use everyone! Have faith in God!

To end this blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "Nobody" by Casting Crowns, ft. Matthew West! I love this song so much because I am a nobody that Jesus saved and rescued me from dangerous times in my life! He can do the same thing if you just believe in Jesus and God as well!