💔 Blog: What 3 things make me weak? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, May 10th, 2024!! 😢
Intro to my blog!
Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an weekly blog episode where on Monday's, Wednesday's, and Friday's, I do blogs and the days where I don't do blogs, I do tiktoks! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is bothering y'all or whatever it is bringing y'all down, just know that you are loved and I love y'all from the bottom of my heart! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but before I get into today's blog episode, here is a blog recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about what quotes describe my life? Part 2! The one quote that stands out in my mind and the one that relates to my life is "Be An Encourager. The World Has Plenty Of Critics Already". -Toby Mac! I feel like I could relate this quote into my life is for me, I want to encourage people who need encouraging and who need motivation to get through whatever that person is going through! I want people to know that I will never criticize them and I just want them to do their best in everything that they do! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, please go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank y'all so much! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what 3 things make me weak? In this blog episode, if I could pick 3 things that makes me weak, what would those 3 things be? Why does those things make me weak? Out of the 3 things that make me weak, which one makes me the weakest? Why does that thing make me the weakest? Now, without further ado, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!
3 things that make me strong! Why does those 3 things make me strong?
What 3 things make me strong? The 1st thing that make me strong is having a strong attitude! For me, despite what I have been through or how I went through it, I always have a strong attitude and I don't give up! The 2nd thing that makes me strong is caring for others! Whatever I am going through, I am always caring about others and I am always there for others when they need me! The 3rd and final thing that makes me strong is my faith! When I am going through a hard time, the only thing that makes me strong is my faith! For me, I have to have faith because I can't quit or give up! Faith keeps me going! Why does those 3 things make me strong? The 1st reason why the 1st thing keeps me strong is because when you are having a bad day and you just want to give up, for me, I have to keep my attitude strong and not give up! The 2nd reason why the 2nd thing that makes me strong is because despite what I am going through at that moment, I am caring about others and I can't give up on them! The 3rd and final reason why the 3rd thing makes me strong is because I have to faith and I can't give up on faith! I need to have faith in myself and God because God will help me through my darkest moments and I need to have faith that he will never give up on me which I know he won't! Never give up faith!
3 things that make me weak!
If I could pick 3 things that makes me weak, what would those 3 things be? If I had to pick the 1st thing that makes me the weakest, the 1st thing that makes me the weakest is being kind to others when no one else is! I have been kind to others but when I need kindness, I feel like it hurts because I don't get it back! I have been kind to others but a lot of people haven't been kind to me and it makes me weak! The 2nd thing that makes me weak is having a kind and soft heart! I have had a kind and soft hear since I could remember! When I am there for others, I am there but no one is there for me, it breaks my heart and it makes me weak! The 3rd and final thing that makes me weak is feeling left out! I don't like feeling left out or leaving me out in the loop and it hurts! When someone replaces me, it kind of hurts but at the same time, people need to realize once you replace me, I am no longer available for you! If you want to leave me out in the loop or leave me, be my guest! I will hurt but I will get over it eventually!
Why?
Why does those things make me weak? The 1st reason why the 1st thing makes me weak is because I have been kind to others but when I need kindness, I never get it and makes me feel weak! There has been times where I will be kind to others but I will have someone being mean to me for no reason and it would make me feel weak and want to shut down! The 2nd reason why the 2nd thing makes me weak is because I always had a soft and kind heart since I could remember but once someone uses me, I tend to want to get rid of that person because using that person is hurtful and it makes them rethink you as their friend which is not good at all! The 3rd and final reason why the 3rd thing makes me weak is because being left is hurtful but another thing that is hurtful is being replaced! When people don't talk to me or not there for me, I feel hurt and being left out in the loop but honestly, if people want to leave me, make sure you don't get hit with the door on the way out! Yes, being left out is a hurtful thing but once you get used to it like I am, I try to not bother me but it makes me feel weak and it hurts!
Makes me the weakest!
Out of the 3 things that make me weak, which one makes me the weakest? Honestly, if I had to pick the one that makes me the weakest, it would have to be having a kind and soft heart! Yes! I always had this soft and kind heart and people would take advantage of me which hurts a lot! That person would never take my feelings into consideration which hurts a lot and not only that, people might think I am an easy target and I could shut down but what that person doesn't know is I have a voice I will stand up for myself and protect myself from anything but I also have a boyfriend who is very protective and will protect me at all cost, so I would be careful if I were you! What people realize is I have been used and people think that I am a doormat that they can run over all they want to but that's the thing, I am not a doormat and I will never be one! I might have a soft and kind heart but don't make me lose my heart of gold because I have a heart of gold and I don't want to lose it!
Why?
Why does that thing make me the weakest? The reason why I chose having a kind and soft heart as me being the weakest is because when you help people, I would help people who need help but when I need help, I would be feeling no one want to defend me and I have to protect myself from danger! People had used me and bring me down, but just know that I will never give up and I will never quit but just know that I am not person who you can use over and over again because I am not that person who you can run to when you are trouble! If you can't help me through my difficult and trouble times, then I can't help you with yours! It works both ways! I am not going to be here for you if you can't be here for me! That's not how my heart works! If you can't help me, then I can't help you! I am going to be used over and over again! I'm sorry! I don't need people like that!
In closing/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?
In closing, when I am feeling weak, it is because of either 3 things and those 3 things have hurt me since the day I could remember and for me to have this soft and kind heart, it never lost its gold which I'm glad it didn't because if I lost my gold in my heart, I would become this cold hearted person which that isn't me at all but I am not going to let people use me as a doormat because that is wrong of those people to use me as a doormat and that is not who I am! When I have been kind to people but people haven't been so kind to me, honestly, it hurts me so much because I have been so kind to others but when it's my turn for kindness, I don't get it and that honestly hurts! Being left out hurts as well! When I have been there for a lot people but once I am needed, I am left out which hurts but honestly, if people don't need me, I won't be here for those people and I will living my own life! Here is my tip and question of the day? My tip of the day is don't let people use you as doormats because you don't need that type of behavior in your life! You stand up for yourself and show that person that you are much better person without them in your life! Don't let people hurt you because you don't need that in your life! Here is my question of the day? My question of the day is what 3 things make you weak? Why would those things make you weak? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read and respond to those comments! Please! Thank you all so much!! I love y'all!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog for today! I pray that someone can relate to this blog for today! It is hard to have this heart of gold and yet, people have hurt me on a daily basis which is hard to deal with! In my head, I feel like a lot of people don't need me and that hurts me a lot but at the same time, I came to realization that I don't need a lot of people in my life either! I feel like I am much better without them! If people don't see me as a person that they need in their life, I am okay with that! I am an adult and I came to acceptance that I will be okay without the people who don't need me! Those people have hurt me and I am moving on with my life! I will worry about those people who care about me and who love me! I am tired of feeling left out or people using me or using my kind heart! I don't need those type of people anymore! For today's Bible verse of the day, it goes something like this: In John 14:1, it says "Let not your heart be troubled; you believe in God, believe also in Me". I absolutely love this Bible verse a lot because not only you need to believe in God but you also need to believe that Jesus died for you! I believe that God is an amazing God and that Jesus died for me! Believe in God and Jesus! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Always remember "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all next week on my 1st blog page where I will be talking about analyzing the song "Eye of the storm" feat. Gabe Real, Ryan S, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden, celebrating 3 years of blogging, and what are chapters 4-6 of my book about? Stay tuned! I love y'all and stay safe! This blogger queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💕
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Today's bible verse of the day! I love this bible verse a lot because not only we need to believe in God, but we also need to believe in Jesus because Jesus died for us and God is walking on this journey we are going through called life!  kindness, but don't let them take advantage of your kindness". -Unknown! I couldn't agree with this quote more because we should never take advantage of someone's kindness! Let's be kind to one another and be there for one another!  heart in a cruel world is a courage, not weakness". -Katherine Henson. I love this quote so much because this world can be a cruel world and people can take advantage of your heart and how kind it is! Having a kind heart in this world is courage because you are standing up for who you are and you are protecting yourself from this cruel world!  replaces after a while". -Unknown. This quote hits home because I have been replaced by plenty of people and after while, it hurts but I start to realize that you don't need those people anymore and I feel like I am much better off without those people! I don't need people who will need me one minute and then, the next minute, don't need me at all or feeling out of the loop! I am much better off and I am okay with that! To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! For this week's song of the week, I chose "Nobody" by Casting Crowns ft Matthew West! The reason why I chose this song is because I am just a nobody who telling people about who saved me and that is Jesus! Jesus saved my soul and he can save yours as well before it is too late! I love y'all and enjoy your weekend! |
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