Blog: What am I looking for when it comes to marriage? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, June 23rd, 2025!! This blog is dedicated to anyone who is getting married or who is married!! This blog episode is for y'all!! 
Intro to my blog!!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about from my poems or even what God will put my heart!! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through or whatever it is bringing y'all down, I'm always here for y'all, no matter what!! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode? I know that I am but 1st, a blog recap from last weeks blogs! On Monday, I talked about what is Father's Day about? To me, Father's Day is all about fathers or father figures in your life or even mothers who played both roles!! A father is not watching your kids to be born! No! A father is someone who leads, directs, and guides their children on the right path of life! That is what a father is!! On Wednesday, I analyzed my poem "Feeling loved by a certain person". The person who I typed up about is about my fiancé! He makes feel loved more than I can imagine! Everyday, he shows me how much he loves me by supporting me and just being there fore me and I love that about him!! On Friday, I analyzed my other poem "No longer can't trust you". When I think about not trusting someone, it makes me feel like I have put so much trust into a person but then, they go behind my back and stabbed me, it truly hurts so much! Want to know more about these blogs? Well, please go check them out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much!! I will leave the link right here: →1st blog page!! Please, go check them out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! For this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about what am I looking for when it comes to marriage, the importance of engagement, and what 3 things do I love about my fiancé? Now, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode!! Shall we? We shall!!
Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song of the week?
For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what am I looking for when it comes to marriage? This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who is getting married or is married! This blog episode for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when it comes to marriage, what are 3 things am I looking for? Why are those the 3 things that I am looking for in a marriage? Out of those 3 things, which one am I looking for when it comes to marriage? Why am I looking for when it comes to marriage the most? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I choose to talk about today's blog episode is because marriage is an important step in life and at some point, you are going to have to take that step and it can be difficult but at the same time, you get to spend the rest of your life with the person that you love forever and that's good!! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I choose "Mona Lisa" by: J-Hope of BTS! When I listen to this song, I think about how a guy will fall in love with a girl and he will be like "she is so pretty. She is my type" or an ex of hers would call her up, but in the back of her head, she is in love with the guy who likes her for her!! Why did I choose this song of the week? I choose this song because it such a good song and it just reminds me that I don't need no validation!!
What is my point of view of marriage? Why is that my point of view on marriage?
What is my point of view of marriage? My point of view on marriage is everyone sometimes downplay it like it is a bad thing and I don't like that at all! To me, I think marriage is the most beautiful thing!! When you find your person who you want to spend the rest of your life, that's your person and you are happy that you find your person who you want to spend the rest of your life with!! Why is that my point of view on marriage? The reason why that is point of view on marriage is because people tend to look down on marriage a lot and when two people are happy and they are in love and they have God in the middle of the relationship, then that's all that matters and I will always think marriage is a beautiful thing!!
3 things that I am looking for in a marriage!!
When it comes to marriage, what are 3 things am I looking for? When it comes to marriage, the 1st thing that I am looking for is communication! If me and my husband are going to have an argument, I want us to talk it out and communicate!! The 2nd thing that I am looking for is laugh together!! Instead of being serious at times, I want us to laugh too!! I want us to laugh and have a good time as well!! The 3rd and final thing that I am looking for is supporting one another! I am firm believer in supporting one another! If we are not supporting one another, then that is not a marriage!!
Why?
Why are those the 3 things that I am looking for in a marriage? The 1st thing that I am looking for in a marriage is communication and the reason why I am looking for in a marriage is because communication is a big thing when it comes to relationships! I believe in talking about the problems that y'all might be facing and if y'all don't talk out those problems, then everything will be brewing and everything will cause trouble at the end!! Talk out your problems!! The 2nd thing that I am looking for in a marriage is laugh together and the reason why I am looking for in a marriage is because life shouldn't have to be serious all the time or a marriage shouldn't have to be serious all the time, there should be some laughter as well! I believe laughter can make a marriage!! If y'all are not laughing all the time and y'all are just being serious all the time, then is that really a marriage? Laughter can be the medicine!! Have laughter in your marriage! The 3rd and final thing that I am looking for in a marriage is supporting one another and the reason why I am looking for in a marriage is because I have always been a firm believer of supporting your partner's dreams and if you are not supporting your partner's dreams or vice versa, that's going to hurt y'all in the long run!! If your partner doesn't support your dreams and you don't your support your partner's dreams, fix that because y'all need to support one another!!
one of those things!
Out of those 3 things, which one am I looking for when it comes to marriage? Out of those 3 things, I think the one that I am looking for when it comes to marriage the most is laugh together! When I think about marriage, I think about laughing or cutting up together instead of being serious all the time! You can be serious at times but at the same time, y'all need to laugh together too!! Laughter is the best medicine and I want to laugh with my partner as well and I am firm believer that there should be laughter in a marriage!!
Why?
Why am I looking for when it comes to marriage the most? The reason why I am looking for in a marriage when it comes to marriage the most is laugh together is because I feel like we make life so serious and we never laugh at times and I believe that in a marriage, you and your partner should laugh at times! Yes, communicating your problems and supporting one another is important but also, laughing with your partner and having a good time is also important as well because y'all need to have good times in life to look back at and for me, I believe in having good memories in my marriage!! I don't want to look back at 30 or 50 years and been like "why weren't we not laughing"? I want us to have good memories to look back and thank God for those memories!!
In closing/ Tip of the day!
In closing, I think marriage is a beautiful thing and people tend to downplay marriage a lot!! I feel like people jump into marriage too quickly instead of taking the time to be with the person and enjoying the memories that you and your partner have together!! I feel like communicating your problems is important when it comes to marriage because every marriage will have arguments and if you and your partner don't communicate your problems, then their will be more problems in the long run and I believe in communication!! I also believe in having laughter in a marriage as well! It's okay to be serious at times but I also believe in having laughter in a marriage as well! I believe we need to laugh at times because life is always serious and y'all need to add some laughter in the marriage as well!! I am a firm believe in supporting one another's dreams! If y'all don't support each other's dreams, then that's not a marriage!! Support one another! Here is my tip of the day: To my people who are married, engaged, or even in a relationship- my tip of the day is instead of being serious about things all the time, make each other laugh at times because having laughter in your relationship is important and that's the key to make each other happy!! To my Blogger Dreamers who are single, my tip of the day is wait for the right one to come around because once you get into the right relationship, y'all are stuck like glue and that's important!! I love y'all!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached today's blog episode for the day!! For me, I want to have communication, having laughter, and supporting one another in my fiancé and I's marriage! So far in our entire relationship, we have communicated, laughed, and always supported each other, no matter what and I am a firm believer that it will continue into our marriage and I am looking forward to being married to my best friend and the person who I want to spend the rest of my life with!! I feel like people want to downgrade marriage a lot and that is sad because marriage is a beautiful thing!! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "You need to work on your performance instead of looking into other people's lives". -Seo Ari. I absolutely love this quote so much because instead of focusing on other people's lives, you need to focus on what you could do better for your life and how you can better your life!! I love y'all and so does Jesus and stay tuned for Wednesday's blog episode where I will talk about the importance of engagement!! Stay tuned, but until then always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's share how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today!! I love y'all and I will see y'all on the flip side! I love y'all!! Peace! ❤❤❤❤
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Today's quote of the day by Seo Ari. I love this quote so much because we need to focus on what is going on in our lives instead focusing on other people's lives!! Your life is important and you need to focus on how to make your life better!!  When Two People Who Deeply Love God Decide To Love Him Together". -Stephanie May Wilson. I love this quote so much because when you two people love God and they put God in the middle of the marriage, that's important!! Having God in the middle of your marriage is important!!  imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other". - Dave Willis. I love this quote so much because when you are in a marriage, there isn't such a thing as a perfect marriage!! When you are in love with one another, I believe that two imperfect people can make a marriage work!!  "I promise to love until I stop loving you". It's "I Promise To Make A Conscious Decision To Continue To Love You Even When It's Hard Because I'm Aware No One Is Perfect, But You Are Worth It'. -unknown author. I love this so much because once you are married, you have to make decisions based on what is right for y'all because there isn't a thing such as "I", but it is more "we this or we that". To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "Mona Lisa" by: J-Hope of BTS!! When I listen to this song, I think about how a guy has the eyes for this girl and her ex is calling!! It is such a good song and I love the song so much!! I love y'all and so does Jesus and have a blessed day!! |
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