Wednesday, June 25, 2025

Blog: The importance of engagement! blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date of blog: Wednesday, 6/25/25!!!

                                         Blog: The importance of engagement! Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date of blog: Wednesday, 6/25/25!! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who is engaged and is planning a wedding or planning to be engaged! This blog is for y'all! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode for an all new weekly blog episode!! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through or whatever got you down in the dumps, I'm here for y'all and just know that y'all are loved!! Who is ready for an all new blog for the day? I know that I am but 1st, here is a blog recap of Monday's blog!! On Monday, I talked about what am I looking for when it comes to marriage? One of things that I am looking for in a marriage is communication! For me, communication is key to solving things because if you leave things unsolved, everything is going to be caused in a argument and that's not good at all!! Want to know more about this blog episode? Well, you can check it out right here: →What am I looking for when it comes to marriage? Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about the importance of engagement! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who is engaged and is planning a wedding or planning to be engaged! This blog episode is for y'all!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about in my opinion, what is the importance of engagement? Why is that the importance of an engagement? What am I looking the most forward to me and my fiancé's wedding? Why am I looking the most forward to me and my fiancé's wedding? Without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Do I believe in short engagements or long engagements? Why do I believe in one but not another? 

Do I believe in short engagements or long engagements? I believe in long engagements!! I am not that type of a girl who wants to get married in flash! I am that girl who wants to take things slow and think about what I am getting into before in making a decision!! I know that marriage is a big step in life and I believe taking things slow and enjoying the moments!! Why do I believe in one but not another? The reason why I believe in long engagements but not short engagements is because what is the point with getting engaged and then rush into getting married? I don't think you should rush into things!! I believe in taking things slow and enjoy the moments before getting married!! 


The importance of engagement! 

In my opinion, what is the importance of engagement? The importance of engagement is to have time to plan a wedding!! Once you get engaged, you want to take the time and plan the wedding of your dreams! You don't want to jump into planning a wedding to soon!! Don't plan a wedding too fast!! You want to enjoy the engagement and make good memories when it comes to your engagement!! 

Why?

Why is that the importance of an engagement? The reason why that the importance of an engagement is to have time to plan a wedding is because you don't want to rush things! You want to take your time and enjoy the wedding planning as much as you can because once you start to wedding plan, it will get busy from there and once it gets busy from there, it will definitely be busy!! You want to enjoy the moments of being engaged and I think that is very important because once you are engaged, make the best memories that you can!! 


Wedding? 

What am I looking forward the most forward to me and my fiancé's wedding? The thing that I am looking forward the most to me and my fiancé's wedding is spending with the people that we love!! I am looking forward to the day that we get to spend with the people who loves us and who will do anything for us!! When I think about our wedding day, I think about the people who will drop anything just spend the day with us to make our dream wedding come true!! I know there is people who will do anything for us in a heartbeat and I know that they will make our dream wedding come true!! I am looking forward to spend with the people that I love!! 

Why?

Why am I looking the most forward to me and my fiancé's wedding? The reason why I am looking the most forward to spending with the people that we love for me and my fiancé's wedding is because weddings aren't about how many people show up or how much food we have or who is in the wedding, but it is about the people who is there for us and no matter how many people show up that day for us, what is important is the people who cares about us because the people who shows us care is the most important people in the world!! That is what is important and I believe that in my whole heart!! Weddings aren't about the wedding dress or the wedding party, it is about how much people love you and that's so important!! I believe in no matter how many people show up, that's not what it is important! What is important is the love that is there for me and my fiancé and that is important for us! 


In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, being engaged is the most important time of your life because your planning the wedding of dreams and you are taking things slow!! Your wedding should be about you and the person that you are marrying! It shouldn't be about anyone else because that's y'all's special day and it is about the rest of y'all's life!! Planning a wedding can be a little difficult at times but at the end, it is going to be worth it!! When I think about our dream wedding, I think about how beautiful it is going to be! I think about how the yellow sunflowers is going to look with the maroon and white flowers! I think about how everyone is going to look great together with the men with the maroon vests and the ladies with their maroon dresses!! I am looking forward to see how everything will look and I can't wait to see how everything is going to clash together!! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is Enjoy your engagement because once you start planning the wedding of your dreams, it will get absolute busy from there! Don't let anyone ruin your engagement because y'all's engagement is about you and the person that your marrying! That's it! Enjoy the memories that y'all are making!! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! Y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day!! I hope and pray that everyone enjoyed today's blog episode for the day! The moral of this blog episode is enjoy your engagement! Your engagement is suppose to be the most important day of your life and you want to enjoy the memories that you make along the way!! I know that for me and my fiancé's engagement hasn't been the easiest but we are making it work and I am so blessed to be making decisions along the way concerning the wedding and I am looking forward to see how our wedding is going to look! I think everything will look beautiful and absolutely stunning!! Everything is going to match well and look great together!! For today's quote of the day, it is "Life was a journey of finding myself in my subconscious and the human's ego wore masks according to the situation". -Big Mouth! I love this quote so much because life is journey when you trying to figure out who you are as an induvial person! Once you are trying to figure out who you really are, then people are going to love you or dislike you!! Don't let your ego ruin the person that you are!! I love y'all and so does Jesus and stay tuned for Friday's blog episode where I will be talking about what 3 things do I love about my fiancé? Stay tuned for that and until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's show the whole world how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace!!🤍🤍🤍 

Today's quote of the day! I love this quote so much because when you go on this journey  called life, you are finding out who you really are and your ego starts to come out and your ego can't be good!! Don't let your ego ruin you!! 


"He stole 
my heart, 
so I'm 
going to 
steal his
last 
name". 
-Unknown. I love this so much because nothing is better than having your partner's last name and I can't wait to have my partner's last name! I am looking forward to having his last name!! 


"Every 
love story 
is 
beautiful, 
but ours is 
my 
favorite". 
-Unknown! I love this so much because every love story has a beautiful story but my favorite love story is me and fiancé's love story because he has been there for me through my hardest times in my life! 


"I may never find 
words beautiful enough
to describe all 
that you mean to me, 
but I will spend
the rest of my life
searching for them".
-Unknown. I love this so much because there would be no words that I could describe the love that I have for my fiancé and our love is so strong that I can't begin to tell you how our love is for one another!! We have a strong connection! 


I usually don't add a song but I feel like this song is so fitting because God bless the broken road for me and I didn't know at the time, but I am blessed that God sent me a good man in life because my man means so much to me!! I love y'all and have a wonderful day! Be safe!! 









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