💔Blog: The difference between discouraging vs encouraging. Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, May 27th, 2024! 💖 
Intro to my blog!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where on this blog page, I talk about anything from personal things such as bullying or mental health! I even did a blog about meeting my boyfriend for the 1st time! I love that blog so much! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever the problems that are facing, you are never alone and I care about y'all so much! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but here is a recap of last week's blog episodes! On Monday, I talked about how would I describe my outfit that I wore for my birthday? Honestly, if I could describe my outfit, I would describe my outfit as gorgeous! That outfit was absolutely beautiful and I love that outfit a lot! Such a cute outfit! On Wednesday, I talked about what outfits would I wear for summer? Part 2! One of the outfits that I picked out that sticks out in my mind is the pink dress with the ruffle collar! To me, that screams out summer! I feel like hot pink is such a summer color and it fits just perfectly! On Friday, I talked about makeup looks that I would do for the summer, part 3! I love each makeup look that I put together! Each makeup look gives off summer vibes which I love a lot! I think the pink look will look amazing for the summer and I can't wait to do that look for the summer! If y'all haven't read those and you would love to check them out, you can check them out at: makeup and fashion blog page! Please, go check them out, whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! For this week's blogs, I will be talking about the difference between discouraging vs encouraging, what helps keep a bond special, and what am I looking forward to this summer? Stay tuned for this week's blogs and without further ado, let's get our thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!
Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this week's song of the week?
For today's blog episode, I will be talking about the difference between discouraging vs encouraging. In this blog episode, I will be talking what is the difference between discouraging and encouraging? Why is there a difference between the two? When someone is not being encouraging, what does that do to a person? Why does that thing do to a person when someone is not being encouraging? What is my words of wisdom to my Blogger Dreamers who are feeling discouraged? Why would I give those words of wisdom to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? I choose to talk about today's blog episode is because I feel like we don't encourage each other enough which is absolutely sad! I feel like we should always encourage one another and never bring each other down! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I choose "Take Your Time" by: Sam Hunt! When I listen to this song, I think about how my boyfriend wanted to take his time getting to know me and getting to know who I am as a person and I love that about my boyfriend! Why did I choose this week's song of the week? The reason why I chose this week's song of the week is because when I think about the times where me and my boyfriend started talking, he was taking his time to get to know me and I love when a man is trying to get to know a woman and not trying to rush into things! Always take time to get to know a man or a woman! Don't rush things!
When I think about the words "discouraging" and "encouraging", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that?
When I think about the words "discouraging" and "encouraging", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "discouraging", I think about someone who brings others down without uplifting that person whereas when I think about the word "encouraging", I think about someone who uplifts someone and wants to inspire others not to ever give up! It is hard to find people who are very encouraging! People are nothing but critics and we have enough of that already! We need to uplift people and encourage them! Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind when I think about "discouraging" is because there is a lot of people who doesn't like to inspire others or uplift one another and unfortunately, there isn't people like that and that's sad! The reason why I think about "encouraging" like that is because there are some people who like to encourage others! I am one of those people! I love seeing people who feel inspire by what I do or how I can help them and that makes my heart happy! If I am doing my job right, then I am doing my job right and I couldn't be more proud of the person that I am today! Let's encourage one another instead of being an discourager!
The difference between discouraging and encouraging!
What is the difference between discouraging and encouraging? There is a lot of differences between the two and one of them is when you discourage someone, it makes them think you don't believe in them which is incredibly sad! No one should ever have to feel that someone doesn't believe in them or encourage them! You need to find someone who encourage you! Having someone who can be encouraging can be a life changing thing! Having someone who believes in you is a blessing within itself! It's better than having someone who discourages you all the time! We have a world full of critics and we need to stop critiquing people unless we are telling them how to fix it in a nice way!
Why?
Why is there a difference between the two? The reason why there is difference between the two is because people are mean when they are discouraging you and tearing you down! People are nice when they are reassuring you and that's amazing! When you have people to reassure that that you are doing amazing and they are proud of you, it warms your heart a lot! I know that it does for me because there are times where I felt like no one believed in me but when my boyfriend came along, he tells me how proud he is of me on occasions which is nice to hear! I feel like he tells me how proud he is of me more than people in my family which is incredibly sad but again, it doesn't matter because I know that I am proud of myself and I am doing incredible things for myself!
Someone not being encouraging...
When someone is not being encouraging, what does that do to a person? When someone is not being encouraging, it can do a lot of things to a person but for me, I feel like it destroys my self esteem a lot and it tears me apart! For me, I am that person who likes to encourage people and sometimes, I get some encouragement from others but there have been times where people tear me down which is sad! Don't believe in tearing others down and giving them harsh criticism! I believe in giving someone some positive vibes and telling them know that they have someone who believes in them! It is important to have people who believe in you and who don't give up on you! It is hard to find people who are like that!
Why?
Why does that thing do to a person when someone is not being encouraging? The reason why it can destroy a person's self esteem or my self esteem and it can tear me apart is because people are harsh on other people and I don't believe in people being harsh on others because if you are harsh on others, it shows them that you don't believe in them which is incredibly sad and we need to show people who that we need to encourage one another, not tear people down around us! It's not worth it and if you tear others around you, you are taking their self confidence away from them and it is making them not comforted by what you are saying to them! I'm just saying!
Words of wisdom for my Blogger Dreamers who are feeling discouraged!
What is my words of wisdom to my Blogger Dreamers who are feeling discouraged? If I could give words of wisdom to my Blogger Dreamers who are feeling discouraged, it would be no matter how many times people have knocked you down or no matter how hard life can get, you keep going and not give up! Don't get discouraged! You got this! You are doing such an amazing job and I am proud of you! Keep doing what you loved doing and you should be proud of yourself for how far you have come! Keep going and don't give up trying!
Why?
Why would I give those words of wisdom to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give those words of wisdom to my Blogger Dreamers is because people tend to want to give up people they are feeling discouraged and that shouldn't have to happen! If you are feeling discouraged and people are telling you "you should give up and quit", don't listen to that because for starters, you are doing awesome and I am proud of you for how far you have come! You are doing amazing and you are working really hard towards your dreams! If people decide to discourage you because of your dreams, don't let them do that because you are wonderful and got through this far! Don't quit trying! You have people who care about you so much!
In closing/ Tip of the day!
In closing, people can encourage you or discourage you but the ones who discourage you, they will tear you down and make you feel like you are not good which you are good enough! You are doing amazing and there might not be enough people who might not support you, but that's fine because you already have enough support and that's still good! Don't give up because people are bringing you down! Keep pushing through and think about how far you have come in your life! God got me where I need to be today and I can't thank God enough for getting me this far! I'm a fighter and everyone is a fighter as well! Don't give up! Y'all got this! For today's tip of the day, it is don't let people discourage you! Instead of people discouraging you, let them encourage you instead! I love y'all so much!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode! The moral of this blog is let's encourage one another instead of bring others down because if you are bringing others down, you are making them feel like crap and that's not right for them to feel like that at all! That person might have a goal in their head but instead, you are discouraging them and tearing them down or you are trying to up one them and honestly, that's not right at all! People don't realize that you are trying your best and they don't care because they are trying to better than you! Don't let anyone tear you down! I'm so proud of you! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "Trust Him. Even When He Says No". -Toby Mac! I love this quote a lot because when God says no, still trust him because he is doing a lot for you! God might not say "yes" yet, eventually, he will! Trust his timing and only his timing! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and I pray that everyone will have or had a good day! Always remember "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog where I will be talking about what helps keep a bond special? Stay tuned! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! I love y'all! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜
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Today's quote of the day! I love this quote of the day is because when God says "no", still trust him! God's timing is never wrong! Trust God because he can help you! Don't give up on God! people closest to you will hurt you the most. Don't be discouraged. Draw nearer to God. He loves you the most. God is faithful". -Unknown. I couldn't agree with this quote more because people are going to make you discourage you and the only one won't do that is God because God is the most faithful person there is and he loves you so much! Never forget that!  Success When You Help Others Be Successful". -Unknown. I love this quote a lot because you are showing others that you can be successful by encouraging others and that's an amazing thing to do! Don't let one person or multiple people stop you from encouraging others! You are doing an amazing job!  Doubting How Far You Can Go, Go So Far That You Can't Hear Them Anymore". -Michele Ruiz. I love this quote so much because if you have people who are discouraging you and bringing you down, show them that you can do it because I know that you can do it! Don't give up hope!  about what you have or even what you've accomplished. It's about who you've lifted up, who you've made better. It's about what you've given back". -Denzel Washington. I love this quote so much because in life, it doesn't matter what you have but what matters is, who you have encouraged in the long run and you should be proud of yourself for that! Encourage as much people as you can! You are doing amazing! To end's blog episode for today, for this week's song of the week, I chose "Take Your Time" by Sam Hunt! I love this song so much because I want to take all the time to get to know someone and know the person for who they are! When I listen to this song, I think about my boyfriend because before we started dating, we were getting to know each other and I feel like he was taking the time that he needs to get to know me which I love that about him! |
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