Who are the strongest women and Kpop female idols in my life?

                                 Who are the strongest women and Kpop female idols in my life? By: Brandee Darden. Wednesday, March 9th, 2022! 

Intro to my blog!

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Welcome to another blog episode! It's your girl aka your blogger queen, Brandee here! I hope everyone is having an amazing Wednesday or in other countries, an amazing Thursday! If you are not having an amazing Wednesday or Thursday, that's okay! Everything will be okay! On Monday's blog episode, I talked about my biggest pet peeves which are when people leave me on read, when people say they are there for me, but really they are not there for me, judging other people for what they like, and when people lie to me. When people lie to me or say "I am always here for you no matter what" but they instantly turn your back on you that type of people hurts me a lot. When you have been there for other people but when you need someone there for you, those people turn your back on you and that hurts you a lot! When people lie to me, that hurts a lot as well. The reason why that hurts a lot is because when you people lie to you or they don't tell you the full truth, it hurts a lot. When you are talking to other people and they want the truth, tell them the full truth that way they can understand the truth and nothing but the truth! Never beat around the bush! Tell people who you care about the full truth! Telling the person that you love and that you care about the full truth is very important! On today's blog episode, I will be talking about who are the strongest women and Kpop female idols in my life? I will be talking about since March 8th was international women's day, who are the strongest women and Kpop female idols in my life? Why do I considered those women strong? What kind of influence did these women put in my life? Why did these women influenced me and my life? When I think about women empowerment, what do I think of? Why do I think about women empowerment like that? Let's get started with a new blog! Shall we? We shall!!! 

Talking about what does International Women's Day means to me? Why does International Women's Day mean to me? 

When I think of International Women's Day, I think of women who mean a lot to me! I think of Kpop female idols who influenced me and my life! I think of women who came into my life and cheered me on when I had a rough patch in my life or helped through life!! What does International Women's Day mean to me? International Women's Day means to me is the women who came into my life for a reason! Those women who came into my life for reason means a lot to me! They have gave me guidance in my life and they taught me things that I didn't know how to do! I am so blessed to have those women in my life and I am so blessed that they love me for who I am! Why does International Women's Day mean to me? The reason International Women's Day mean to me is because those women who influenced me in my life or love me for who I am means a lot to me! They are a blessing to my life and they will always be a blessing in my life! I am blessed to say that I have amazing women in my life who would guide me in the right direction and lead me the right way to my life! I'm very grateful to live my life as a woman and try to make the right choices as I can!

Since March 8th was International Women's Day, who are the strongest women and the Kpop female idols in my life? 

Since March 8th was international women's day, who are the strongest women and the Kpop female idols in my life? I had a ton of women who came into my life but the ones who I considered the strongest women and the Kpop female idols in my life are my mom, my sister, Brandy, my sister, Tyna, BlackPink, Twice, and Jessi! The first person who I considered as a strong woman in my life is my mom, Peggy! Me and my mom had a rocky relationship in the beginning but as time went on, our relationship got better and I'm very grateful for that. I love my mom more than anything and I am so blessed to have her in my life! She reads my blogs and supports me through my blogging journey! I love my mom a lot! The second person who I consider strong is my sister, Brandy! My sister, Brandy is an amazing mom, wife, bonus mom, gammy, aunt, and sister. She shares my blogs with her friends when she doesn't have to but she does because she wants to share my blogs and my work! I love my sister more than anything in this world! She is so supportive and I'm so blessed to have an amazing sister in my life! The third and final person who I consider as strong in my life is my sister, Tyna! Let me tell you about my sister, Tyna! She is one heck of a fighter! By the grace of God, she beat not just one, not two, but three cancers! She had three cancers but she is cancer free! She is one heck of a fighter! She helped me through school and always supported me through everything and I love her so much! She is awesome! My mom and my two sisters are a huge blessing to my life and I love them so much! The Kpop female idols that I consider strong in my life is BlackPink, Twice, and Jessi! Do you what all of these Kpop female idols have all in common? When they do a music video or perform in concert, they all perform in heels and that takes guts to perform in heels!! 

Why do I considered those women strong? 

The reason why I considered those women strong is because they are all strong in their own way! The three women in my life aka my two sisters and my mom all have an attitude where we are strong and we got this! We can get through anything but if you get in our way, we are going to knock you out!! Us three women are very strong and if you get in our way, chances are you will get knocked out or you might regret what we will do to you next! Never mess with us women because we are strong in our own way! We got this and we can fight through our way if you get in our way! The reason why I considered BlackPink, Twice, and Jessi as strong women is because when they are doing a concert or a show or even a music video, they wear high heels! That take skill to dance in high heels and hopefully, don't hurt themselves as well. I can't imagine to dance in high heels and all of the sudden, break a heel or an ankle! That is crazy! I applaud these women for wearing high heels! I can't even wear high heels because I'm afraid that I might fall face first and break an ankle! Another reason why I considered these women strong is because with BlackPink and Twice, they have rappers in the group! That also takes skill because I can't rap worth a darn and when the women rap, I think it is amazing! When Jessi, a Kpop idol and a soloist that I like so much, she can rap and sing and she is so good! I feel like in the music industry, there isn't a lot of female rappers and I feel like there should be more female rappers because a lot of female rappers are so good and I am very impressed with the singing and raping as well! The third and final reason why I could considered those women strong because they are strong in their own way and I love BlackPink, Twice, Jessi, my two sisters, and my mom so much! They are all fighters and I love how even though they are tired, they still make time to talk to their family or the people are surrounded by them! I love that!! 

What kind of influence did these women put in my life? Why did these women influenced me and my life? 

What kind of influence did these women put in my life? The kind of influence that my mom put in my life is when you work two jobs, it can be tiring at times but just know that she did it because she cared about me! The kind of influence that my sister, Tyna put in my life is always be positive no matter what. Things can be hard at times but just know life is worth living! She always helped me through school and with her cancer diagnosis, it was hard for me and it opened her eyes a lot and my eyes as well! The kind of influence that my sister, Brandy put in my life is never give up on God or your faith because God can lead you the way and help you with every step of the way!!! The kind of influence that BlackPink put in my life is to never give up on your dreams because if you give up, your dreams won't come true! The influence that Twice put in my life is their is someone who will support you and make you feel special! The kind of influence that Jessi put in my life is you don't need a man to make yourself happy! All you need is yourself because I'm a strong and independent woman! I don't need a man to make me happy! Why did these six women influenced me and my life? The reason why these 6 women influenced me and my life is because they all taught me something different about life and I am a proud woman because of these 6 women!! I love my mom, my two sisters, BlackPink, Twice, and Jessi so much! They will always have a place in my heart and I will always enjoy BlackPink, Twice, and Jessi music so much! Their music is so good and I love their music so much! 

When I think about women empowerment, what do I think of? Why do I think about women empowerment like that? 

When I think about women empowerment, i think of all women should be treated equally and with respect! I feel like a lot of women aren't treated equally and with respect especially by men. I feel like men walk over women. Not all men do that, but some men don't treat women with respect and that's wrong. I feel like some men disrespect women because they think it is right to do that but I know not all men don't do that and I appreciate that a lot. I had guys treat me with disrespect or who weren't nice to me at all. Most guys that I have encountered or that I have talked to were very nice to me or very mean to me. The ones who were nice to me, I appreciate that a lot. Another thing that I think about women empowerment is when a woman stands up for what they believe in or stand up to man for cheating on her or for abusing her. Most women wouldn't stand up for what they believe in or stand up to a man for cheating on her or for abusing her, that takes guts and it shows how strong that woman is! Always show how strong you are and never give up! Why do I think about women empowerment like that? The reason why I think about women empowerment like is because it takes a special woman to stand up to a guy and ask the guy for respect or stand up for what they believe in or stand up to their husbands or boyfriends who cheated on them or has been an abusive relationships, it takes guts and it takes courage to do it! I clap for those women! Those women are strong and brave! I had guys who did treat me with respect and had some guys who were very mean to me but I respect the guys who were very nice to me because there is some guys who would treat a lady right and I respect a guy for that!! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?

In conclusion, women are very strong in their own way! Women have ups and downs, but at the end of the day, we can get through it no matter what! I am very blessed to have amazing women in my life! Women are so strong and there is women who played two parts as parents. Women who play the mom and the dad, I have mad respect for y'all! Women who has given birth, I also have mad respect for y'all as well! Women who beat any cancer and who also chased your dreams, mad respect for y'all as well. Not being a single parent isn't easy! I never experienced it but I can tell that one day in the future that I never want to go through it! It takes a special women to be a single parent or gives birth or chases their dreams! Our health is very important and we need to take care of our health because I feel like it is very important! I have respect for women because as a women myself, I feel like other women should always respect other women no matter what! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is ladies, treat each other with respect because I think it is very important to be there for each other through the hard times and good times! Men, treat your girlfriend, wife, mom, or even your sisters with some respect. Ask her if she is doing okay because if she say "I'm not doing okay", then as a brother, you need to protect her and comfort her the best way that you can. Always protect the women in your life because they are very important. Protect those females that you love and care about so much!! My question of the day is Who is the strongest women in your life? Who do you look up for guidance? Sound off below and let me know in the comments down below! I would love to read your comments and answer them! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all so much!! 

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies!! Y'all have reached the end of my blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog post! Tell the women who you love so much because you never know when the last day could be for them, so enjoy those women in your life! Always tell them that you love them so much and hug them very tightly! For my Shinning Star Butterflies who are in school and that are taking exams, I just want to wish you good luck on your exams! I know y'all got this! I will always believe in y'all! My advice about tests and exams is always do your best no matter what! I hope everyone enjoys your day or night, wherever y'all maybe be at and have a happy Wednesday or in other countries, a happy Thursday! Stay safe and I will see y'all on Friday! I love y'all and stay safe! Your blogger girl is out! Peace! 💜💜

Me and my two sisters, Brandy and Tyna! I love these two women so much! I am a very blessed little sister two have these two big sisters in my life! I love y'all so much!! 

This song is called "Scars To Your Beautiful" by Alessia Cara. I love this song because every woman is beautiful in their own way! Be proud of your stretch marks! Every woman and girl is beautiful in your own way! 

Me and my momma! We may not a good relationship but now, we have a good relationship now and I am very blessed! I love my momma so much!

The female groups and soloist that I look up to!! 

My biggest pet peeves! By: Brandee Darden.

                            My biggest pet peeves! By: Brandee Darden. Monday, March 7th, 2022! 

Intro to my blog!

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies!! It's your girl, Brandee back with all new blog episodes for the week! I hope everyone has an amazing weekend and if not, that's okay! I hope everyone has a safe and great week! If anyone has exams coming up, I just want to wish y'all good luck! Study hard but not too hard! Don't overwork yourself and take breaks in between your study sessions! Y'all got this! I believe in y'all 210%. Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! On last week's blog post, I talked about the blogs I like/ Which one was hard to talk about it, my future jobs, and analyzing the song "Dynamite" by BTS. When I was talking about which blog was the hardest for me to talk about, when I mentioned my blog my "My story about my suicide attempt", that was really hard for me because in 2018, that was a hard period for me! I was moving and I was missing my grandpa a lot! My grandpa, Flex went to be with Jesus on February 5th, 2017 and to be honest with my Shinning Star Butterflies, that was so hard for me! He wasn't my real grandpa, but I claimed him as my grandpa because he was there for me and supported me through everything! I'm glad that I got to speak about my suicide attempt and got to share my story with everyone around the world! Talking about something like my suicide attempt isn't the easiest to talk about! It is very hard to talk about and I'm glad that I got to talk about it and share it with everyone!! If you know someone who is battling with suicide thoughts or even yourself, just know that you are not alone! You are not alone in this battle and don't let these thoughts win! I am here for anyone if anyone needs someone to talk to! 

Talking about what kind of blogs that I am doing this week? What is today's blog going to be about? What is the song of week?

For this week's blogs, I will be talking about my biggest pet peeves, who are the strongest women in my life and Kpop female idols, and analyzing my poem "Fake Love" by me aka Brandee Darden. I am so excited about these blogs! Stay tuned these blog episodes!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about my biggest pet peeves. I will be talking about if I had to pick my 4 biggest pet peeves, what would they be? Why would I pick those as my pet peeves? Why did I pick a pet peeve like when people leave me on read? Why don't I like when people leave me on read? If I have any advice on people leaving you on read, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice? What is the significance behind that advice? Why is the advice so significant? For this week's song of the week, I chose "Glow" by Bear Bear and Friends! I love this song so much and actually, one of my Shinning Star Butterflies suggested to me! Thank you so much to one of Shinning Star Butterflies for suggesting this song to me! Thank you so much! Let's get started with this blog episode! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about the different pet peeves and why is there different pet peeves??

The different pet peeves that I think of is when you go into a room and all of a sudden, you forget what you are getting or another pet peeve could if someone chews loudly and it drives you crazy. A third pet peeve could be if someone touches your stuff without your permission! That would drive me crazy!! The fourth and final pet peeve you could have is when someone said that they are going to be there for you but in reality, they are not. I have this as a pet peeve and I will explain here in a little bit on why I have it but I am going to explain it here! That drives me crazy when someone say "I'm always here for you no matter what" and then, they are not there for you when you are going through a hard time! The reason why there is different pet peeves is because sometimes, different things can drive you crazy or one of your pet peeves could be you going to a room and you forget what you went in there for. Everyone has different pet peeves and everyone has something that will bothers them! I have different things that bother me and that's okay!!! 

If I had to pick my 4 biggest pet peeves, what would they be? Why would I pick those as my pet peeves? 

If I had to pick my biggest pet peeves, they would be when people leave me on read, when people say they are there for me, but really they are not there for me, judging other people for that like, and when people lie to me! The first pet peeve is when people leave me on read! The reason why I picked that as a pet peeve is because when people leave me on read, it drives me! I get inside of my head of "are they going to talk to me"? "Do they like me"? "Did I say something wrong"? Those things run through my head so many times and I am not afraid to admit that I leave people on read sometimes and I don't think it is okay to leave people on read. The second pet peeve that I have is when people say "they are there for me" but really, they are not there for me! I don't like when people say "I'm always here for you no matter what" but then, they either turn their back on me or they stopped talking to me! That hurts me to the core! I have learned to let those type of people go when they do those things to me! They aren't worth your time! Let them go! The third pet peeve that I have is judging other people for what they like or what their skin color is or their sexuality is or who they like! I don't like when people judge other people because of what they like, what their skin color is, their sexuality is, or even what sex they want to be! I don't have any problem with any of that but when people judge other people for what they like or what their skin color is or any of the other stuff that I mentioned, that is when I will get mad and that is when I will protect that person, even I don't know them! Never judge a book by its cover because you don't know what they have been through! The fourth and final pet peeve that I have is when people lie to me! OMG! I don't like when people lie to me! The reason why I picked this as my pet peeve is because when people lie to me, it hurts me so much to the point where I am mad and hurt because when someone I thought I could trust and all of the sudden, I can't trust them because they lied to me, it hurts me. That's why I have trust issues! When people lie to me, I can't trust them anymore! It takes time for me to trust that person again!

Why did I pick a pet peeve like when people leave me on read? Why I don't I like when people leave me on read?

The reason why I pick a pet peeve like when people leave on read is because I get into my head a lot about "Do they want to talk to me"? "Do they like me"? I get so much anxiety when they leave me on read but I learned how to move on past it and just accept it! I learned to move on from it and learned that some people aren't meant to talk to for along time and carry on a conversation! I learn to move past it because it is in the past! If you move on from the past, then you will be okay! Why don't I like when people leave me on read? The reason why I don't like when people leave me on read is because I get a bunch of things in head or maybe they don't want to carry a conversation with me and that's okay! I learn that not every person would want to carry a conversation and that's okay! I have learned to carry on with life and continue to be happy! Besides, I rather be happy then talking to someone for a long time! I rather be alone at times and then, talking to someone about nonsense! That's kind of boring! 

If I have any advice on people leaving you on read, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice? 

If I have any advice on people leaving you on read, what is my advice? My advice is leave that person in the past! If you sent a message to a person and they leave you on read, they either don't want a long conversation or they are just really busy! If they don't want to talk to you, move on and take sometime to yourself! Time to yourself is well worth it and having sometime to yourself is absolutely amazing and it is worth it! Why would I give that advice? The reason why I would give this advice is because yes, it is nice to have someone to talk to but if they don't want to talk to you and leave you on read, chances are they don't want to carry on a conversation or they just don't want to talk to you! Sometimes, some people don't want to talk for a long time especially me because after I am done with my blog episode for the day, my brain turns to a puddle or a mud and I can't think at that right moment and I am tired because I did a lot of thinking and I am just tired that I don't want to carry on a conversation or I just want to talk to anyone! If someone leaves you on read, let it be! It's not worth being sad over someone who leaves you on read! Don't dwell on someone leaving you on read! Don't even make a huge fuss about it! Not even worth it and besides, having a time to yourself is much better than talking to someone who doesn't want to talk to you or is talking nonsense! Enjoy that time alone and be happy!! Being happy by yourself is much better!! 

What is the significance behind that advice? Why is the advice so significant? 

What is the significance behind that advice? The significance behind that advice is when people don't want to talk to you, they usually leave you on read! Sometimes when people do that to me, I usually get mad, but now I move on from it and just keep going with life! Life is too precious and it's not worth getting mad or upset if someone leaves you on read! If that person doesn't want to talk to you, chances are that they are very busy or just don't want to talk to you and it's not worth getting upset or mad over! It's not! Move on from it and make yourself happy! Your happiness is worth much more than a conversation with someone who doesn't want to talk to you or they are talking a bunch of nonsense! Why is the advice so significant? The reason why the advice is so significant is because sometimes, people don't understand me when I don't want to talk to that person and some people don't understand that talking to other people can be so annoying at times and if you don't want to talk to that person, just leave them on read! I know it sounds wrong to do, but if you want to enjoy that time alone and want some space from people, just leave them on read! Maybe, give them a taste of their own medicine and show them what it is feels like to be left on read! Just move on from them and talk to someone else who is worth your time and who will be there for you no matter what!

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?

In conclusion, if people leave you on read or say "they will always be there for you no matter what" or they lie to you, just know to never trust that person or people ever again. It is hard to trust someone who just hurt you and you thought you would supported you but they went behind your back and stabbed you! If that person lied to you or tell you "I'm always here for you" or they judge you because of your skin color or what you like or even your sexuality, chances are they are haters and they are jealous! If that person leaves you on read, chances are they are really busy, they don't want to talk to you, or they just don't care about the conversation! Just carry on with your life! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is if someone is judging you or someone is leaving you on read or someone lied to you, don't worry about those people! They aren't worth your time! Don't waste your tears on that person because they hurt you! Don't give them the time of day because it's not worth it! It's not worth it and don't pay attention to them! Not worth it!! My question of the day is what is y'all's pet peeves? What bothers you the most? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read and respond to y'all's comments! Please! Thank you so much!! I love y'all so much!! 

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog episode for today! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog episode! To any of my Shinning Star Butterflies who are students and are taking exams, I just want to say good luck on your exams! You got this! I believe in y'all 210%. Good luck! I believe in y'all! I hope everyone stays safe and I hope everyone has a good week ahead! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! I love y'all very much! Stay Gold! Shine bright like a star that y'all are! Fly like a butterfly and chase your dreams! I love y'all and I will see y'all on Wednesday! I love y'all! Your blogger queen is out! Peace! 💜✌

This quote is for when people say they are there for me, but really they are not there for me:
"Stop
ignoring actions and trusting words.
Stop giving your all to a person 
who gives you nothing.
Stop hanging on to someone who has let go of you.
Stop expecting change from a person
who doesn't want to be changed. 
Stop letting the fear of loneliness cause you 
to settle for less than what you deserve.
Stop letting the wrong reasons 
keep you in a relationship that isn't right for you.
Stop breaking your own heart."
-Trent Shelton. I love this quote because all of this is true! Stop breaking your own heart by being in a relationship or even a friendship that might hurt you in the end! You deserve to have a friend or be in a relationship that is much better!! 

This quote is for the people who are judging other people: 
"No one 
likes feeling 
judged. 
Back off and 
let people live.
We're all on 
some type of 
journey, all
evolving and 
growing." 
-Unknown. I love this quote because all of us are on some type of a journey together! We are learning different things and we are growing!! Don't judge other people and tear them down! That's not right!! 

This quote is for when people lie to me:
"Tell a lie once, and all your 
truths become questionable".
-Unknown. I love this quote because if you tell me a lie once, how am I going to trust you again? If you lie to me over and over, chances are that I will never believe you ever again and it is going to take some time to rebuild our trust again!! 

This quote is for people who leave me on read! 
"When people don't text 
back I get so much 
anxiety... am I bugging 
you? are you mad at 
me? are we even 
friends? why do I care
so much"?
-Unknown! I like this quote because these things run through my head a lot and I wonder if I am bugging my friends or why do I care so much? 

The song of the week is "Glow" by Bear Bear and Friends! I love this song so much because it is so good and amazing! One of my Shinning Star Butterflies recommend this song to me and it is so good!! 

What has my life taught me? By: Brandee Darden

                                  💜What has my life taught me? By: Brandee Darden. Friday, February 18th, 2022! 💜

Intro to my blog!

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Welcome back to another blog episode! How's everyone doing? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Just pray to God and pray that everything will be okay! Just know that everyone of my Shinning Star Butterflies is loved and I love y'all so much!! On Wednesday's blog episode, I talked about updating on my life! When you want to update on your life, you want to tell people around you what is going on and you don't want to leave any details out especially if it is important. You want to tell people what is going on because if you are not doing well, they might be able to help you get through a hard time or a rough patch in your life! Always ask people if they are doing okay or not because if they are not doing okay, ask them what's wrong and ask them is there anything is anything that you can help them because if you help someone, your help can go along way!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what has my life taught me? Yes! I will be talking about if I could choose 3 things that life has taught me, what 3 things taught me? Why did life taught me those 3 things? What is the significance behind those 3 things? Why those 3 life lessons so significant? Now, let's get started with a new blog episode! Shall we? I think we shall!!

Talking about life in general and why life is important?? 

When I think about life or my life in general, I think of what my life has taught me or what my life has thrown at me. Life is too precious to give up or life is very important! There is people who love you so much and life is very time limited! You never know when your last day on earth could be until it is too late. You should never hold grudges towards people who are mean to you or you should never go to bed angry because it is not good for you. It can be bad for you! When you are mad at someone, you should talk about it and resolve the issue or the problem that way you can have proper sleep. Never take your anger on a another person. If you are angry, don't take your anger on the person who didn't make you mad. Never yell or fight in front of another person! When someone fights in front me, my anxiety goes through the roof and it is not good for me! Never fight in front of another person because it could cause their anxiety to go through the roof! Life is too precious and life is so important! Never fight with anyone and never hold grudges!! Why life is important? The reason life is important is because you don't know what your last day on Earth could be until it is too late! Enjoy every moment with your friends and your family!! Enjoy the memories that you have with everyone and be happy in the moment!! 

If I could choose 3 things that life has taught me, what 3 things taught me?

If I could choose 3 things that life has taught me, what 3 things taught me? The first thing that life taught me is people are going to walk out of your life but the true people are going to stay in your life no matter what. I had people walk out of my life and honestly, that hurt me more than anything but I realized that the true people who are in my life will stay in my life!! The second thing that life taught me is people are going judge you no matter what. In life, you are going to have haters in life and they are going to judge you no matter what. They are going to judge you by what you wear, what you like, or how you look at certain things. You are going to have haters in your life and you need to ignore those haters because those haters aren't WORTH your time or your energy! They aren't worth your tears!!! The third and final thing that life has taught me is never say anything that you might regret later on. When you get in a fight with someone like a friend or a family member and you say something out of anger like "I hate you". One day, that is going to haunt you and bite you in the butt because you said something like that to a family member or a friend who cares about you so much. What if something bad happened to them? You will regret it later down the road. That's why you have to be careful what you say because you don't know when that person's last day could be and you said something that you might regret later down the road! Don't say something that is hurtful. What you do is if the situation gets heated, walk away from the situation and calm down! Don't make the situation worse!! Go on a walk or listen to music to calm yourself down!! 

Why did life taught me those 3 things??

The reason why life taught me those things is because people are going to walk out of your life but the true people would stay by your side every step of the way and support you through thick and thin! They will support you no matter what! The second reason why life taught me those 3 things is because you are going to have people who are either jealous of you or they are going to hate on you for no reason. They are going to bully you for no reason and being mean to you as well. They are going to judge you  because you like certain things or you dress a certain way. If they hate on you, stand up for yourself and don't let their words tear you down. You dress how you want and you like things that you want to like! It's your life! You live your life how you to want to! Don't let anyone tell you differently!! The third and final reason why life taught me 3 things in life is because if you get in a heated argument with a friend or a family member and you say "I hate you. I wish you didn't existed". That would hurt a family member or a friend! I had one of my friends tell me that they hated me for no reason. Honestly, that hurt me so bad and the worst part is that we weren't in an argument! But, if you do get in an argument and you say something that, that person will get be hurt and that would hurt them a lot. What if that was the last thing that you said to them and something happened to them, you will regret it later down the road!! When you and a family member or you and a friend get in an argument, step away from the situation and collect yourself. Listen to music or go for a walk or write in your journal! Write in a journal and write down how you feel and let all of your emotions out! You will feel better after you are done writing in your journal! When I have a lot emotions going through me and I start writing, I feel so much better! Always write down how you feel! 

What is the significance behind those 3 things? 

The significance behind those 3 things aka my life lessons is each one is so significant!! People are going to walk out of your life and your friends are going to stop talking to you after high school but your family and your true friends are going to stay by your side and support you no matter what! Those true friends and your family are going to love you no matter what! Your parents are going to love you and support you no matter what as well! Those people who stayed in your life forever! There are people who aren't meant to stay in your life no matter what! If those people aren't meant to stay in your life, then they aren't meant to stay in your life!! You are going to have people who are going to hate on you because you don't like the same things as you or they don't dress the same style as you! You live your own life and you dress how you want to! It's your body! Dress how you want to because everyone's fashion sense is very different and no one doesn't dress them same as everyone else! You dress comfortably and if you are happy dressing how you want, then that's awesome! Don't dress to impress someone else. Dress to impress yourself and that's it!! When you get into arguments with family or friends, we say something that we usually don't mean but it might hurt the person who say it to! If something bad happened to that person, you will regret it and that is going to hurt you and to the person who you told it to. You have to be careful what you say and tell your family and friends that you love them and that you care about them no matter what! Always love your family and friends because you don't know when their last day could be and don't regret anything you say to them. 

Why those 3 life lessons so significant??

The reason why those 3 life lessons are so significant is because you want to live your life how you want to! You should never listen to other people or let other people tell you how you should live your life! You should live your own life and be happy in your own life! You should always keep those people who are always by your side very close because you don't know when their last day could be! You should like or dress however you want to! You like a certain band or a certain type of music genres and be happy with it! If people don't like the way you dress or don't like the things that you like, that's not your problem! You can dress how you want to dress! You should feel comfortable how you want to dress! Don't let anyone tell how to dress! It's your body, not their body! Always tell your family, your parents, and friends that you love them. Never argue with them and say something that you might regret because if you, it would hurt you a lot and it might eat you up inside! Always be careful what you say and love the people in your life! Those people are very important in your life and they have always stayed by your side no matter what! Don't be hateful towards those people who stayed by your side through your hardest times and your good times! I'm blessed to say that I have good friends, family, and parents who love me as I am! I'm lucky!!! I love my mom, my dad, my bonus mom, my sisters, my brothers, my nieces, my nephews, my great nieces, my great nephews, and so many more family and my friends as well. I'm grateful and blessed!! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day??

In conclusion, life is too precious to argue with people who love all the time! Life is a time to enjoy the people around and enjoy their company! You should always love the people around you because some of those people were there for you whenever you needed them the most! Never listen to the haters who hate on you or judge for what you wear! What you like and what you wear is your business, not anyone else's. The kind of music you like isn't anyone's business! For example, I love Kpop music but most of my friends and family don't like it but they respect me for listen to it. Me and my siblings have different styles but I don't judge them what they wear and they don't judge me for what I wear! If I get in an argument with someone, I try to get away from that situation because once I am mad, I am mad and it is not pretty when I am mad. Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is love the people who are in your life because you don't know when their last day could be! Always tell them you love them and hug them! Dress how you want to dress and like what you want to like! It's up to you, not up to anyone else!! My question of the day is what 3 life lessons did life teach you? Why did life teach you those lessons? Sound off in the comments down below and tell me what life taught you and what kind of life lessons did you learn throughout life! Please! I would love to read y'all's comments!! I love y'all so much!! 

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog episode for today! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog post! Just remember to love the people around you and be careful with your words! Don't regret anything that you would say down the road! I love each and one of Shinning Star Butterflies so much! I hope everyone has an amazing weekend ahead and I hope everyone stays safe! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I love y'all and I will see y'all next week on my Makeup/ Fashion blog page! Stay Gold! Shine bright like a star that y'all are! Fly like a butterfly and chase your dreams! I love y'all and stay safe! Your blogger queen is out! Peace!! ✌💛

"Life has taught me I am 
not always in control. 
Life is full of 
experiences, lessons, 
heartbreak, and pain.
But, it has also shown me 
love, beauty, possibility, 
and new beginnings. 
Embrace it all. It makes 
us who we are, and after 
ever storm comes a clear 
sky."
-Unknown. I love this quote because we can't control the things that we get thrown in our life but we can control the things that we have control of! Life can teach you a lot of things! Life can give you so much heartbreaks and lessons throughout your life and we make mistakes along the way but we are HUMAN! We learn from those mistakes and we move on from them!! 

The Kpop bands that I like!!! 

BTS!!! I love BTS so much!! 

BlackPink, my favorite girl Kpop group ever! I love these girls so much!!! 

I love this outfit so much! I wore this outfit on Monday, February 14th aka Valentine's Day! Such a cute outfit!!! 

The song is called "Brand New Way" by Damon. I love this song so much because you are fighting through life and no matter what you are out of breath, you still keep fighting until you are completely out of breath. Life is about taking chances and if you want to take a chance with your life, go ahead! Don't let anyone stop you!! 

To end today's blog episode, here is song of the week which is "Million Reasons" by Lady Gaga! I absolutely love this song so much! Lady Gaga is such an amazing singer and this song is amazing! 



 

Update on my life! By: Brandee Darden!

                               💙  Update on my life! By: Brandee Darden! Wednesday, February 16th, 2022!! 💙 

Intro to my blog! 

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! I will be here for anyone who needs me to talk to or just to listen! I will not put anyone down or bash anyone!! On Monday's blog episode, I talked about my dream date and what kind of flowers would I like to receive on the date! Talking about my dream date and what kind of flowers would I like to receive on the first date to me thinking about it, sounds crazy but when I talk about it, I feel like in the future, it could happen! I think watching movie and eating a home cook meal or even takeout sounds absolutely amazing or even going to the park and having a picnic while watching the stars also sound wonderful. A third option for a date would go to the beach and watch the sunset while having a picnic sounds so beautiful and amazing! With the flowers, I wouldn't mind receiving fake flowers because I love fake flowers! I think fake flowers are absolutely gorgeous and you can keep them alive forever! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about an update on my life! Yes! I will be talking about what has been going on in my life? Why have I been doing those things in my life? How am I doing mentally and physically? How is my exercising going? If someone isn't doing okay and they feel alone, what is my advice to them? Why would I give someone that advice? Before I get started with this blog, today is one of Shinning Star Butterflies birthday! Happy birthday to my best friend slash little brother! Happy birthday, Djarno! I hope you have an amazing day like you deserve! Thank you so much for always being there for me! Happy birthday! Now, let's get started with this blog! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about the importance of updating everyone about your life and what's going within your life, like important things? Why is it important to update everyone about your life? 

When it comes to your life, I feel like it is important to update about your life or talk about what is going on in your life that is very important such as important events in your life such as relationships or anniversaries or even the small things in your life. I also feel like updating people about how you are physically and mentally is also important because if you don't tell people how you are, they are going to assume that you are doing okay but in reality, you're not doing okay and I want to tell people that you are okay or not okay! Why is it important to update everyone about your life? The reason why I think it is important to update everyone about your life is because I want people to know that you're doing okay and that you're doing well or tell them something important that is going on your life! I feel like talking about what is going on in your life is very important and I feel like talking about what is going on in your life can be very important especially if it is something big like a promotion that you got at your job or a good grade at school or even the small things such as learning how to cook or learning how to drive! If people ask you "how are you doing", tell them the truth! Don't lie or beat around the bush! Always tell your family and your friends the truth because if you tell them the truth, they might be able to help you get through a hard or even a good time! Friends and family are very good people to have around when you are struggling!!! 

What has been going on in my life? Why have I been doing those things in my life?

What has been going on in my life? Well, a lot of things have been going on in my life! Not too long ago, I started exercising and trying to eat right. When I do those exercises, it makes my body sore but I wouldn't trade it for the world! I have been losing weight and I am extremely proud of myself! Most of my clothes are getting too big but that's okay! I completely cut out sodas! I only drink sodas when I go out to eat or go to a fast food restaurant and that's it. I would have one glass every blue moon but a lot of the times, you would find me drinking a water! Another thing that is going on in my life is that I'm still blogging. Yes! I am still blogging but I love it more than anything! I love waking up early and drinking cup of ice coffee and sometimes, eating breakfast and then, I will make my bed. Then, I will start blogging for the day on Monday's, Wednesday's, and Friday's. This is what I love to do. I love making people happy and giving them advice that might help them in the long run. I might not be the best at giving advice, but I sure do try and I am proud of myself for trying! The third and final thing that has been going on in my life is I love waking up early and making my bed! I love waking up early and making my bed. When I wake up, I feel refreshed and I feel better! When I make my bed, I feel better because my bed isn't a mess and I hate a messy bed. I don't like it! Why have I been doing those things in my life? The reason why I have been exercising is because I want to do better for my life. I want to feel better about being who I am and I was just tired of being big! The second thing why I have been blogging is because when I blog, I feel so much better! I love doing it and it has become my daily routine. The third and final reason why I have been making my bed and why it has become apart of my life is because before, I wouldn't mind not making my bed because at that time, I didn't mind messy but after me and my ex boyfriend broke up in 2020, I realized that I need to make my bed and it is needs to be clean. Now, I like my bed clean and neat!! 

How am I mentally and physically? 

How am I mentally and physically? Well, physically I am doing good and well! Mentally, I have my hard times! There would be times where I want to give up because I don't feel happy at times and I just feel like crying all the time, but I remember I have my family and my friends who love me which I am truly grateful and blessed for. I also have my Shinning Star Butterflies who have supported me since the beginning of my blogging journey! Even though I am mentally doing okay, I am trying my hardest to get through everything that has been put in my way. Even though for me it is mentally hard, I am not that type of a person who doesn't give up easily! Yes, there would be times where I feel like I am drowning and I feel no one is going to save me, but there is people who would save me from drowning! I feel like right now if I think positive and not negative, I will get through it. I am strong and I don't give up easily! I am proud of who I am and I am proud of what I am becoming! I am becoming a better person then I was before. I am proud of who I am and I am not afraid to be who I am. I am not afraid to show my emotions and I am not afraid to wear my feelings on my heart! I am a strong woman who goes through problems like everyone else, but I don't give up and I am proud of myself! I'm strong and if anyone is going through any mental health issues, just know that you are strong! You are amazing! You are loved by everyone including myself! Never give up because you can fight through it!!! 

How is my exercising going? 

Y'all maybe wondering "Brandee, how is your exercising going"? Well, my exercising is going very well! I exercise almost everyday! There is some days I don't exercise and the reason why I don't exercise almost everyday is because I don't want to work myself to hard. Right now as I am typing up my blog episode for today, my legs hurt so bad but I don't regret working out and doing these dance workouts! I enjoy doing them a lot and I am proud of myself for how far I have come! I have come such a long way in my weight loss and seeing the difference from when I was in high school to now is unbelievable! I am so proud of myself and I am going to continue to work hard and not give up on my weight loss journey! I will continue to see the results and I will continue to work on myself because working on myself is the most important thing. I feel like working on myself to make myself happy and trying to make myself happy with my body is very important because you want to  love yourself and your body as well. If you love yourself but not your body, that's a problem! I loved my body and myself but I was just tired of being big! I was just tired of being overweight, so I had to change and that is what I did! I started exercising and I am so proud of myself for starting to workout and do those dance workouts! Those dance workouts are fun but you do get a workout out of them and that's for sure! It is way better than going to the gym and not only that, you can do it in your living room which is nice!! 

If someone isn't doing okay and they feel alone, what is my advice to them? Why would I give someone that advice?

If someone isn't doing okay and they feel alone, what is my advice to them? If someone isn't doing okay and they feel alone, my advice to them is don't give up! I know you feel like you are alone, but you have people here for you who love you! Don't give up! Everyone is strong in their own way! Everyone goes through different struggles, but at the end, they will end up victorious! They will be able to say "I did it! I didn't give up"! Everyone is strong and you have people who are supporting you and rooting for you! Never give up! Giving up isn't an option! Please, if anyone needs someone to talk to, I'm here for my Shinning Star Butterflies! I am not that type of a person who gives up on people! I keep fighting for them until they are doing okay! I want people to know that they are loved and that there is someone is who is there for them and that person is me! I will be there for someone until the end of time!! Why would I give someone that advice? The reason why I would give someone that advice to someone is because i want them to know that they are never alone. They are never will be alone! I don't want my friends or my family to never that they are never alone! I know that feeling and that feeling stinks! At times, I would feel so alone that I feel like no one is there for me but i know that there is people there for me and they will continue to be there for me no matter what! No one shouldn't have to go through their battles by themselves. If you are battling through something, just know that you are never alone! You have people supporting you along the way and I am one of those people! Don't give up!! You got this!

In conclusion/ Tip of the day!!! 

In conclusion, whatever you are going through in life, you should always update people about how you are doing or whatever what you are going through! Tell those people about your achievements or what has been going on! Don't hide anything from them because if you lie to them, they are going to think you are lying or they are going to assume that you are okay but deep down, you are not okay! Always update the people around you because you don't know when your last conservation with them could be! Always update people who you love and support you no matter what because those people will love you unconditionally and will always support you in anything you do! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is you are never alone in this world! You have people who love you and will always be there for you no matter what! You have people who will cheer you on when you need to be cheered up! Just know that you will never be alone and you have people who you can talk to when you feel like you are alone! I'm here for anyone who needs support, love, and I will cheer you up to the best ability that I can! I will always be here for anyone who needs people to be there for them! You are not alone and I am here for anyone! I love each and one of my Shinning Star Butterflies so much and I will drop everything for my Shinning Star Butterflies and I will do anything in my power to make sure that everyone is comforted!! I love y'all so much and never give up! Your life is worth so much more and you are worth so much more! Don't give up! I love y'all!

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog post for today! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog post episode for the day! Just know that you're never alone and I'm here for anyone who needs my support! I love y'all so much! Happy birthday to my best friend and one of my Shinning Star Butterflies, Djarno! Thank you so much for supporting me and being there for me! Happy birthday! I hope everyone has a great Wednesday or in other countries, a great Thursday! I love y'all and I will see y'all on the next blog post! Always remember Stay Gold! Shine like a bright star that y'all are! Fly like a butterfly and chase your dreams! I love y'all and your blogger queen is out! Peace! ✌💙 

"Wellness
Make your physical and mental health a priority"!
-Unknown. I love this quote because your physical and your mental health is very important. You need to take care of yourself first before you can focus on anything else. Always take care of yourself! 
 

"Everything will be okay
in the end. 
If it's not okay, 
it's not the end."
-Unknown. I love this quote because everything will be okay! Never give up or never loose hope. If it is not okay, it is not the end. It is okay not to be okay. Everyone goes through struggles! It is okay to have hard days but don't give up because you are loved by so many people! 

I'm screaming happy birthday from Mississippi to the Netherlands!!! Happy birthday to my best friend and my little brother and one of Shinning Star Butterflies, Djarno! I hope you had a great day like you deserved! Happy birthday! 

"There is hope, even 
when your brain tells 
you there isn't."
-John Green. I love this quote so much because at the end of the light, there will be hope. You just have to believe that there is hope and if you believe your brain, then it will bring you down and you need to believe that there is hope!!!

This song is called "You never walk alone" by: BTS! I absolutely love this song so much! This song reminds me of when I think I am alone but really, I'm not because I have people by my side forever and I feel like I am reminded that I will never have to walk alone and none of my Shinning Star Butterflies shouldn't have to walk alone either!! 

My dream date!! By: Brandee Darden

                               💖My dream date! By: Brandee Darden. Monday, February 14th, 2022!! 💖 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Welcome to a new blog week! It's your girl, Brandee here with some new blogs for the week! I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If you are not doing well and amazing, that's okay! Everything will be okay! You have to believe and give everything to God! Last week, I talked about my dream blogging room slash office, my dream home style, and decorations that I would pick for my dream home! Honestly, just thinking about my dream blogging office or my dream home style or even the future decorations for my future home, makes think that one day, I could have my own home and it makes me super excited! I can't wait to have my future home! On this week's blog posts, I will be talking about my dream date, update on my life, and what has life taught me? I would love to give y'all aka my Shinning Star Butterflies on my life! On a new episode on Brandee's new blog day, I will be talking about my dream date! Yes! I would be talking about if I could describe my dream date, how would I describe it? Why would I describe my dream date like that? What kind of flowers would I want from my date? Why would I want my date to bring me fake flowers than real flowers? What is the significance behind the fake flowers and the dream date? Why are those two so significant? Oh! Before I start my blog post, I want to wish everyone a Happy Valentine's Day to all to the people who are in a relationship or who is single like me! If you don't have a Valentine, that's okay! Spoil yourself a little bit! You deserve it! Now, let's get started with a new blog! Shall we? We shall!! 

When I think about dates, what does it make me think of? Why does it make me think of that thing? If a guy came up and asked me on a date, how would I feel? Why would I feel this way??

When I think about dates, what does it make me think of? When I think of dates, I think going out to dinner or go see a movie or even stay home and cook and watch a movie together together. Another thing when I think of dates is going to a park and have a picnic! I think having a nice picnic for a date and after, a nice walk around the park while it is night out sounds awesome and nice. Why does it make me think of that thing? The reason why it makes me think of that thing is because to me, I think chilling at home and cook something or even takeout or even a nice evening while walking around the park is nice. I am not that type of a girl who like fancy dinners or nice restaurants. Yes, fancy dinners and nice restaurants are nice but I am not that type of girl who you don't need to impress! If you are nice to me and you treat me like a queen that I deserve, then I'm all set. I don't care about fancy things. I just wanted to be treated with respect!! If a guy came up and asked me on a date, how would I feel? Honestly, if a guy came up and asked me "Would you like to go on a date"? I would feel excited and happy but also nervous! Why would I feel this way? The reason why I would feel this way is because I feel like I deserve to be happy and excited and also, the reason why I would feel nervous because first dates can be kind of nerve wracking at times and you are meeting someone for the first time, it can be nerve wracking but once y'all start to talk and get comfortable with each other, then the nerves go away!!

If I could describe my dream date, how would I describe it? Why would I describe my dream date like that?

If I could describe my dream date, how would I describe it? I would describe it as a nice evening at a park while having a picnic or a nice evening at home and watching a movie while eating snacks. I like a nice and simple date not something fancy! I wouldn't mind eating takeout or homemade instead of a restaurant. I wouldn't mind enjoying a sunset while on the beach for my date! I would like that actually!! Why would I describe my dream date like that? The reason why I would describe my dream date like that is because I am that girl who is very simple and I am not big on fancy things. If you took me to the mall on a first date, I would love that because I love malls. I wouldn't mind going to the beach or having a picnic at the park and after that, walk around and get to know each other a little bit. I am not that hard to please. I am just a girl who loves simple things and watching a movie and eating snacks as a date sounds wonderful to me. I don't mind that at all or going to the beach while watching the sunset. I would enjoy the sunset a lot! I am a simple girl who loves simple things and I am not a hard person to please! It doesn't take long to please me at all! I don't care about the fancy restaurants. All I care about is if a guy is really nice to me and if he will treat me like a queen that I am!! 

What kind of flowers would I want from my date? Why would I want my date to bring me fake flowers than real flowers? 

What kind of flowers would I want from my date? The flowers that I want my date to bring for me is fake flowers. Any color and any flower is perfectly fine for me! If they are fake, I'm all set and ready to go! I'm that girl who loves fake flowers! I don't like real flowers because I don't have a green thumb and if I have real flowers, I would let them die! Why would I want my date to bring me fake flowers than real flowers? The reason why I want my date to bring me fake flowers than real flowers is because I think fake flowers are really pretty and you can keep them alive longer! Also, if y'all think about it, since the flowers are fake and you can keep the flowers alive longer, your love will also stay alive and the first date can lead to the second date and third date! I love fake flowers and I will always love fake flowers! Fake flowers are really pretty and I rather have fake flowers than real flowers because I can't keep real flowers alive and I don't have a green thumb to plant or keep real flowers alive! That's not me at all!! 

What is the significance behind the fake flowers and the dream date? Why are those two so significant? 

The significance behind the fake flowers and the dream date is when you think about your first date and your dream date on where you want to go, you think to yourself "would the guy or girl like me? Would they like the same things as me"? You wonder if they would have stuff in common with you and you don't want to be nervous around them! With me, I am that type of a girl who isn't hard to please at all. I don't like expensive things such as jewelry or even makeup. If you got me an eye shadow palette from Walmart or jewelry at Walmart, chances are that I am going to like it! The significance behind the fake flowers is to me, fake flowers represent real love never dies. When you give someone real flowers like myself, I would let them die. I don't like real flowers! I like fake flowers better! If you got me a bouquet of fake flowers with jewelry and makeup from Walmart, I would honestly be happy! I wouldn't throw a fit or nothing! I would be happy as I can be! Why are those two so significant? The reason why these two are so significant is because I think finding someone who likes the same things as you and see what y'all have in common is very important! I think having something's in common is very important. Another thing that is very important for a first date is to never be nervous around the person. Always be yourself! The reason why the fake flowers is so significant is because I think fake flowers are beautiful. I think real flowers are beautiful as well but they die quick and I want to keep something that means a lot to me alive! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day? 

In conclusion, first dates can be really nerve wracking at times but you just have to be yourself and be proud of who you are! Don't be nervous around the person who you are going on a date with because if you do, they are going to sense that you're nervous as well and I don't know! They might be nervous as well. Here is my tip and question of the day!? My tip of the day is be who are! Don't be afraid to hide anything from your date! The more you open up, the more your date knows about you! Don't hide anything and just be yourself! My question of the day is if you could describe your dream date, how would you describe it? Why would you describe your date like that? Are you a simple person or not so simple person? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know in the comments! Please! I would love to read y'all's comments!! Thank you so much! I love y'all so much!! Thank you to my Shinning Star Butterflies for supporting me! I appreciate it a lot! Thank you so much!! 

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of today's blog post! Before I end this blog post, I just want to say thank you so much for praying for me and my family while we were going through a hard time. My sister and one of my Shinning Star Butterflies, Tyna is cancer free! I am so happy! She is still in a lot of pain from her surgery. So, please continue to pray for her! Please. Thank you so much! I hope everyone enjoyed this blog post episode for today! I hope everyone has a great week ahead! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Stay Safe and Happy Valentine's Day! Stay Gold! Shine Bright like a star that y'all are! Fly like a butterfly and chase your dreams!! I love y'all! Your blogger queen is out! Peace! 💜✌

A picture of a park at night! This would be so pretty!! 

A beautiful sunset on the beach! Have a nice picnic while watching the sunset! So gorgeous!! 

 

A movie date like this at home with snacks would be absolutely amazing!!! 

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! This song of the week is "Million Reasons" by Lady Gaga! I absolutely love this song so much because the way Lady Gaga carries the notes and this song is so beautiful. I love this song so much!!