💜What has my life taught me? By: Brandee Darden. Friday, February 18th, 2022! 💜
Intro to my blog!
Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Welcome back to another blog episode! How's everyone doing? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Just pray to God and pray that everything will be okay! Just know that everyone of my Shinning Star Butterflies is loved and I love y'all so much!! On Wednesday's blog episode, I talked about updating on my life! When you want to update on your life, you want to tell people around you what is going on and you don't want to leave any details out especially if it is important. You want to tell people what is going on because if you are not doing well, they might be able to help you get through a hard time or a rough patch in your life! Always ask people if they are doing okay or not because if they are not doing okay, ask them what's wrong and ask them is there anything is anything that you can help them because if you help someone, your help can go along way!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what has my life taught me? Yes! I will be talking about if I could choose 3 things that life has taught me, what 3 things taught me? Why did life taught me those 3 things? What is the significance behind those 3 things? Why those 3 life lessons so significant? Now, let's get started with a new blog episode! Shall we? I think we shall!!
Talking about life in general and why life is important??
When I think about life or my life in general, I think of what my life has taught me or what my life has thrown at me. Life is too precious to give up or life is very important! There is people who love you so much and life is very time limited! You never know when your last day on earth could be until it is too late. You should never hold grudges towards people who are mean to you or you should never go to bed angry because it is not good for you. It can be bad for you! When you are mad at someone, you should talk about it and resolve the issue or the problem that way you can have proper sleep. Never take your anger on a another person. If you are angry, don't take your anger on the person who didn't make you mad. Never yell or fight in front of another person! When someone fights in front me, my anxiety goes through the roof and it is not good for me! Never fight in front of another person because it could cause their anxiety to go through the roof! Life is too precious and life is so important! Never fight with anyone and never hold grudges!! Why life is important? The reason life is important is because you don't know what your last day on Earth could be until it is too late! Enjoy every moment with your friends and your family!! Enjoy the memories that you have with everyone and be happy in the moment!!
If I could choose 3 things that life has taught me, what 3 things taught me?
If I could choose 3 things that life has taught me, what 3 things taught me? The first thing that life taught me is people are going to walk out of your life but the true people are going to stay in your life no matter what. I had people walk out of my life and honestly, that hurt me more than anything but I realized that the true people who are in my life will stay in my life!! The second thing that life taught me is people are going judge you no matter what. In life, you are going to have haters in life and they are going to judge you no matter what. They are going to judge you by what you wear, what you like, or how you look at certain things. You are going to have haters in your life and you need to ignore those haters because those haters aren't WORTH your time or your energy! They aren't worth your tears!!! The third and final thing that life has taught me is never say anything that you might regret later on. When you get in a fight with someone like a friend or a family member and you say something out of anger like "I hate you". One day, that is going to haunt you and bite you in the butt because you said something like that to a family member or a friend who cares about you so much. What if something bad happened to them? You will regret it later down the road. That's why you have to be careful what you say because you don't know when that person's last day could be and you said something that you might regret later down the road! Don't say something that is hurtful. What you do is if the situation gets heated, walk away from the situation and calm down! Don't make the situation worse!! Go on a walk or listen to music to calm yourself down!!
Why did life taught me those 3 things??
The reason why life taught me those things is because people are going to walk out of your life but the true people would stay by your side every step of the way and support you through thick and thin! They will support you no matter what! The second reason why life taught me those 3 things is because you are going to have people who are either jealous of you or they are going to hate on you for no reason. They are going to bully you for no reason and being mean to you as well. They are going to judge you because you like certain things or you dress a certain way. If they hate on you, stand up for yourself and don't let their words tear you down. You dress how you want and you like things that you want to like! It's your life! You live your life how you to want to! Don't let anyone tell you differently!! The third and final reason why life taught me 3 things in life is because if you get in a heated argument with a friend or a family member and you say "I hate you. I wish you didn't existed". That would hurt a family member or a friend! I had one of my friends tell me that they hated me for no reason. Honestly, that hurt me so bad and the worst part is that we weren't in an argument! But, if you do get in an argument and you say something that, that person will get be hurt and that would hurt them a lot. What if that was the last thing that you said to them and something happened to them, you will regret it later down the road!! When you and a family member or you and a friend get in an argument, step away from the situation and collect yourself. Listen to music or go for a walk or write in your journal! Write in a journal and write down how you feel and let all of your emotions out! You will feel better after you are done writing in your journal! When I have a lot emotions going through me and I start writing, I feel so much better! Always write down how you feel!
What is the significance behind those 3 things?
The significance behind those 3 things aka my life lessons is each one is so significant!! People are going to walk out of your life and your friends are going to stop talking to you after high school but your family and your true friends are going to stay by your side and support you no matter what! Those true friends and your family are going to love you no matter what! Your parents are going to love you and support you no matter what as well! Those people who stayed in your life forever! There are people who aren't meant to stay in your life no matter what! If those people aren't meant to stay in your life, then they aren't meant to stay in your life!! You are going to have people who are going to hate on you because you don't like the same things as you or they don't dress the same style as you! You live your own life and you dress how you want to! It's your body! Dress how you want to because everyone's fashion sense is very different and no one doesn't dress them same as everyone else! You dress comfortably and if you are happy dressing how you want, then that's awesome! Don't dress to impress someone else. Dress to impress yourself and that's it!! When you get into arguments with family or friends, we say something that we usually don't mean but it might hurt the person who say it to! If something bad happened to that person, you will regret it and that is going to hurt you and to the person who you told it to. You have to be careful what you say and tell your family and friends that you love them and that you care about them no matter what! Always love your family and friends because you don't know when their last day could be and don't regret anything you say to them.
Why those 3 life lessons so significant??
The reason why those 3 life lessons are so significant is because you want to live your life how you want to! You should never listen to other people or let other people tell you how you should live your life! You should live your own life and be happy in your own life! You should always keep those people who are always by your side very close because you don't know when their last day could be! You should like or dress however you want to! You like a certain band or a certain type of music genres and be happy with it! If people don't like the way you dress or don't like the things that you like, that's not your problem! You can dress how you want to dress! You should feel comfortable how you want to dress! Don't let anyone tell how to dress! It's your body, not their body! Always tell your family, your parents, and friends that you love them. Never argue with them and say something that you might regret because if you, it would hurt you a lot and it might eat you up inside! Always be careful what you say and love the people in your life! Those people are very important in your life and they have always stayed by your side no matter what! Don't be hateful towards those people who stayed by your side through your hardest times and your good times! I'm blessed to say that I have good friends, family, and parents who love me as I am! I'm lucky!!! I love my mom, my dad, my bonus mom, my sisters, my brothers, my nieces, my nephews, my great nieces, my great nephews, and so many more family and my friends as well. I'm grateful and blessed!!
In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day??
In conclusion, life is too precious to argue with people who love all the time! Life is a time to enjoy the people around and enjoy their company! You should always love the people around you because some of those people were there for you whenever you needed them the most! Never listen to the haters who hate on you or judge for what you wear! What you like and what you wear is your business, not anyone else's. The kind of music you like isn't anyone's business! For example, I love Kpop music but most of my friends and family don't like it but they respect me for listen to it. Me and my siblings have different styles but I don't judge them what they wear and they don't judge me for what I wear! If I get in an argument with someone, I try to get away from that situation because once I am mad, I am mad and it is not pretty when I am mad. Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is love the people who are in your life because you don't know when their last day could be! Always tell them you love them and hug them! Dress how you want to dress and like what you want to like! It's up to you, not up to anyone else!! My question of the day is what 3 life lessons did life teach you? Why did life teach you those lessons? Sound off in the comments down below and tell me what life taught you and what kind of life lessons did you learn throughout life! Please! I would love to read y'all's comments!! I love y'all so much!!
Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog episode for today! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog post! Just remember to love the people around you and be careful with your words! Don't regret anything that you would say down the road! I love each and one of Shinning Star Butterflies so much! I hope everyone has an amazing weekend ahead and I hope everyone stays safe! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I love y'all and I will see y'all next week on my Makeup/ Fashion blog page! Stay Gold! Shine bright like a star that y'all are! Fly like a butterfly and chase your dreams! I love y'all and stay safe! Your blogger queen is out! Peace!! ✌💛
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| "Life has taught me I am not always in control. Life is full of experiences, lessons, heartbreak, and pain. But, it has also shown me love, beauty, possibility, and new beginnings. Embrace it all. It makes us who we are, and after ever storm comes a clear sky." -Unknown. I love this quote because we can't control the things that we get thrown in our life but we can control the things that we have control of! Life can teach you a lot of things! Life can give you so much heartbreaks and lessons throughout your life and we make mistakes along the way but we are HUMAN! We learn from those mistakes and we move on from them!! The Kpop bands that I like!!!   The song is called "Brand New Way" by Damon. I love this song so much because you are fighting through life and no matter what you are out of breath, you still keep fighting until you are completely out of breath. Life is about taking chances and if you want to take a chance with your life, go ahead! Don't let anyone stop you!! To end today's blog episode, here is song of the week which is "Million Reasons" by Lady Gaga! I absolutely love this song so much! Lady Gaga is such an amazing singer and this song is amazing! |
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