Who are the strongest women and Kpop female idols in my life?

                                 Who are the strongest women and Kpop female idols in my life? By: Brandee Darden. Wednesday, March 9th, 2022! 

Intro to my blog!

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Welcome to another blog episode! It's your girl aka your blogger queen, Brandee here! I hope everyone is having an amazing Wednesday or in other countries, an amazing Thursday! If you are not having an amazing Wednesday or Thursday, that's okay! Everything will be okay! On Monday's blog episode, I talked about my biggest pet peeves which are when people leave me on read, when people say they are there for me, but really they are not there for me, judging other people for what they like, and when people lie to me. When people lie to me or say "I am always here for you no matter what" but they instantly turn your back on you that type of people hurts me a lot. When you have been there for other people but when you need someone there for you, those people turn your back on you and that hurts you a lot! When people lie to me, that hurts a lot as well. The reason why that hurts a lot is because when you people lie to you or they don't tell you the full truth, it hurts a lot. When you are talking to other people and they want the truth, tell them the full truth that way they can understand the truth and nothing but the truth! Never beat around the bush! Tell people who you care about the full truth! Telling the person that you love and that you care about the full truth is very important! On today's blog episode, I will be talking about who are the strongest women and Kpop female idols in my life? I will be talking about since March 8th was international women's day, who are the strongest women and Kpop female idols in my life? Why do I considered those women strong? What kind of influence did these women put in my life? Why did these women influenced me and my life? When I think about women empowerment, what do I think of? Why do I think about women empowerment like that? Let's get started with a new blog! Shall we? We shall!!! 

Talking about what does International Women's Day means to me? Why does International Women's Day mean to me? 

When I think of International Women's Day, I think of women who mean a lot to me! I think of Kpop female idols who influenced me and my life! I think of women who came into my life and cheered me on when I had a rough patch in my life or helped through life!! What does International Women's Day mean to me? International Women's Day means to me is the women who came into my life for a reason! Those women who came into my life for reason means a lot to me! They have gave me guidance in my life and they taught me things that I didn't know how to do! I am so blessed to have those women in my life and I am so blessed that they love me for who I am! Why does International Women's Day mean to me? The reason International Women's Day mean to me is because those women who influenced me in my life or love me for who I am means a lot to me! They are a blessing to my life and they will always be a blessing in my life! I am blessed to say that I have amazing women in my life who would guide me in the right direction and lead me the right way to my life! I'm very grateful to live my life as a woman and try to make the right choices as I can!

Since March 8th was International Women's Day, who are the strongest women and the Kpop female idols in my life? 

Since March 8th was international women's day, who are the strongest women and the Kpop female idols in my life? I had a ton of women who came into my life but the ones who I considered the strongest women and the Kpop female idols in my life are my mom, my sister, Brandy, my sister, Tyna, BlackPink, Twice, and Jessi! The first person who I considered as a strong woman in my life is my mom, Peggy! Me and my mom had a rocky relationship in the beginning but as time went on, our relationship got better and I'm very grateful for that. I love my mom more than anything and I am so blessed to have her in my life! She reads my blogs and supports me through my blogging journey! I love my mom a lot! The second person who I consider strong is my sister, Brandy! My sister, Brandy is an amazing mom, wife, bonus mom, gammy, aunt, and sister. She shares my blogs with her friends when she doesn't have to but she does because she wants to share my blogs and my work! I love my sister more than anything in this world! She is so supportive and I'm so blessed to have an amazing sister in my life! The third and final person who I consider as strong in my life is my sister, Tyna! Let me tell you about my sister, Tyna! She is one heck of a fighter! By the grace of God, she beat not just one, not two, but three cancers! She had three cancers but she is cancer free! She is one heck of a fighter! She helped me through school and always supported me through everything and I love her so much! She is awesome! My mom and my two sisters are a huge blessing to my life and I love them so much! The Kpop female idols that I consider strong in my life is BlackPink, Twice, and Jessi! Do you what all of these Kpop female idols have all in common? When they do a music video or perform in concert, they all perform in heels and that takes guts to perform in heels!! 

Why do I considered those women strong? 

The reason why I considered those women strong is because they are all strong in their own way! The three women in my life aka my two sisters and my mom all have an attitude where we are strong and we got this! We can get through anything but if you get in our way, we are going to knock you out!! Us three women are very strong and if you get in our way, chances are you will get knocked out or you might regret what we will do to you next! Never mess with us women because we are strong in our own way! We got this and we can fight through our way if you get in our way! The reason why I considered BlackPink, Twice, and Jessi as strong women is because when they are doing a concert or a show or even a music video, they wear high heels! That take skill to dance in high heels and hopefully, don't hurt themselves as well. I can't imagine to dance in high heels and all of the sudden, break a heel or an ankle! That is crazy! I applaud these women for wearing high heels! I can't even wear high heels because I'm afraid that I might fall face first and break an ankle! Another reason why I considered these women strong is because with BlackPink and Twice, they have rappers in the group! That also takes skill because I can't rap worth a darn and when the women rap, I think it is amazing! When Jessi, a Kpop idol and a soloist that I like so much, she can rap and sing and she is so good! I feel like in the music industry, there isn't a lot of female rappers and I feel like there should be more female rappers because a lot of female rappers are so good and I am very impressed with the singing and raping as well! The third and final reason why I could considered those women strong because they are strong in their own way and I love BlackPink, Twice, Jessi, my two sisters, and my mom so much! They are all fighters and I love how even though they are tired, they still make time to talk to their family or the people are surrounded by them! I love that!! 

What kind of influence did these women put in my life? Why did these women influenced me and my life? 

What kind of influence did these women put in my life? The kind of influence that my mom put in my life is when you work two jobs, it can be tiring at times but just know that she did it because she cared about me! The kind of influence that my sister, Tyna put in my life is always be positive no matter what. Things can be hard at times but just know life is worth living! She always helped me through school and with her cancer diagnosis, it was hard for me and it opened her eyes a lot and my eyes as well! The kind of influence that my sister, Brandy put in my life is never give up on God or your faith because God can lead you the way and help you with every step of the way!!! The kind of influence that BlackPink put in my life is to never give up on your dreams because if you give up, your dreams won't come true! The influence that Twice put in my life is their is someone who will support you and make you feel special! The kind of influence that Jessi put in my life is you don't need a man to make yourself happy! All you need is yourself because I'm a strong and independent woman! I don't need a man to make me happy! Why did these six women influenced me and my life? The reason why these 6 women influenced me and my life is because they all taught me something different about life and I am a proud woman because of these 6 women!! I love my mom, my two sisters, BlackPink, Twice, and Jessi so much! They will always have a place in my heart and I will always enjoy BlackPink, Twice, and Jessi music so much! Their music is so good and I love their music so much! 

When I think about women empowerment, what do I think of? Why do I think about women empowerment like that? 

When I think about women empowerment, i think of all women should be treated equally and with respect! I feel like a lot of women aren't treated equally and with respect especially by men. I feel like men walk over women. Not all men do that, but some men don't treat women with respect and that's wrong. I feel like some men disrespect women because they think it is right to do that but I know not all men don't do that and I appreciate that a lot. I had guys treat me with disrespect or who weren't nice to me at all. Most guys that I have encountered or that I have talked to were very nice to me or very mean to me. The ones who were nice to me, I appreciate that a lot. Another thing that I think about women empowerment is when a woman stands up for what they believe in or stand up to man for cheating on her or for abusing her. Most women wouldn't stand up for what they believe in or stand up to a man for cheating on her or for abusing her, that takes guts and it shows how strong that woman is! Always show how strong you are and never give up! Why do I think about women empowerment like that? The reason why I think about women empowerment like is because it takes a special woman to stand up to a guy and ask the guy for respect or stand up for what they believe in or stand up to their husbands or boyfriends who cheated on them or has been an abusive relationships, it takes guts and it takes courage to do it! I clap for those women! Those women are strong and brave! I had guys who did treat me with respect and had some guys who were very mean to me but I respect the guys who were very nice to me because there is some guys who would treat a lady right and I respect a guy for that!! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?

In conclusion, women are very strong in their own way! Women have ups and downs, but at the end of the day, we can get through it no matter what! I am very blessed to have amazing women in my life! Women are so strong and there is women who played two parts as parents. Women who play the mom and the dad, I have mad respect for y'all! Women who has given birth, I also have mad respect for y'all as well! Women who beat any cancer and who also chased your dreams, mad respect for y'all as well. Not being a single parent isn't easy! I never experienced it but I can tell that one day in the future that I never want to go through it! It takes a special women to be a single parent or gives birth or chases their dreams! Our health is very important and we need to take care of our health because I feel like it is very important! I have respect for women because as a women myself, I feel like other women should always respect other women no matter what! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is ladies, treat each other with respect because I think it is very important to be there for each other through the hard times and good times! Men, treat your girlfriend, wife, mom, or even your sisters with some respect. Ask her if she is doing okay because if she say "I'm not doing okay", then as a brother, you need to protect her and comfort her the best way that you can. Always protect the women in your life because they are very important. Protect those females that you love and care about so much!! My question of the day is Who is the strongest women in your life? Who do you look up for guidance? Sound off below and let me know in the comments down below! I would love to read your comments and answer them! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all so much!! 

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies!! Y'all have reached the end of my blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog post! Tell the women who you love so much because you never know when the last day could be for them, so enjoy those women in your life! Always tell them that you love them so much and hug them very tightly! For my Shinning Star Butterflies who are in school and that are taking exams, I just want to wish you good luck on your exams! I know y'all got this! I will always believe in y'all! My advice about tests and exams is always do your best no matter what! I hope everyone enjoys your day or night, wherever y'all maybe be at and have a happy Wednesday or in other countries, a happy Thursday! Stay safe and I will see y'all on Friday! I love y'all and stay safe! Your blogger girl is out! Peace! 💜💜

Me and my two sisters, Brandy and Tyna! I love these two women so much! I am a very blessed little sister two have these two big sisters in my life! I love y'all so much!! 

This song is called "Scars To Your Beautiful" by Alessia Cara. I love this song because every woman is beautiful in their own way! Be proud of your stretch marks! Every woman and girl is beautiful in your own way! 

Me and my momma! We may not a good relationship but now, we have a good relationship now and I am very blessed! I love my momma so much!

The female groups and soloist that I look up to!!