Analyzing my poem "Fake Love" by me aka Brandee Darden!

                        💜   Analyzing my poem "Fake Love" by me aka Brandee Darden. Friday, March 11th, 2022! 💖

Intro to my blog!!

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Welcome to another blog post! It's your girl aka your blogger queen, Brandee Darden in the building! How's everyone doing? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I hope everyone is staying safe and staying hydrated! I am so glad y'all came back to read another blog of mine! I really enjoy working on these blogs! They make me really happy! On Wednesday, I talked about who are the strongest women and Kpop female idols in my life? I just want to say thank you so much for reading that blog episode! Thank you so much for showing a lot of love to my blog! It means a lot! That blog post means a lot to me because I had a lot of women come in life and I had listened to a lot of Kpop idols that were females but the people who stand out to me is my mom, my two sisters, Brandy and Tyna, BlackPink, Twice, and Jessi! I love these ladies a lot because they each taught me something differently and I am very blessed to have them in my life! On today's blog episode, I will be analyzing and talking about my poem "Fake Love" by me aka Brandee Darden! I will be talking about what is this poem about? Why did I write this poem about? When I was writing this poem, what was I thinking? Why was I thinking about that thing? If I could give anyone advice about giving themselves "Fake Love, what advice would I give anyone who is struggling with giving themselves Fake Love? Why would I give that advice to anyone who is struggling with Fake Love? Let's get started with this blog! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about when did I start giving myself fake love? Why did I give myself fake love instead of real love?

When did I start giving myself fake love? I started giving myself fake love in 2017, I believe. I had struggle with loving myself for a long time. While I was struggling with giving myself "real love", I was also battling with suicidal thoughts, which wasn't good at all. For a long time, I couldn't come to terms with loving myself. I had other people loving me for who I am, but I couldn't love myself because my mind wouldn't let me. I think loving yourself and giving yourself real love is extremely important because when you are going through hard times, you have to be there for yourself and you have to help yourself through those hard times! Why did I give myself fake love instead of real love? The reason why I gave myself fake love instead of real love is because I felt like I didn't deserve real love at time and I felt like I didn't deserve real love towards myself at all which is so untrue! I know that I do deserve real love but the truth is at that time, I didn't know how to love myself until BTS came into my life and that's when everything changed for me! BTS taught me how to give myself real love when I didn't know how to and I am so glad that BTS taught me how to give myself real love because I don't deserve to give myself real love at all!! No one deserves to give themselves fake love at all! 

What is this poem about? Why did I write this poem about?

I wrote a poem called "Fake Love" and it goes like this:

"Fake Love" by 

Brandee D.

The way that 

I can describe 

Fake Love is

giving yourself 

the love that 

you don't deserve!

You get inside 

your head and 

you tell yourself 

"You don't deserve 

the love you 

should give yourself"

but you do! 

You deserve 

real love! Everyone 

does!

-Love, Brandee D. I love this poem so much because what I said in the poem is all true! Most of us think to ourselves "We don't deserve to give ourselves real love", but in reality, we do deserve the real love we get from ourselves or even the people around us. We deserve to have real love no matter what! What is this poem about? This poem is about giving yourself fake love when you think you do deserve it but in reality, you don't deserve it! We get in our heads and we think to ourselves "I don't feel loved and I don't deserve this love" and that feeling stinks. We all deserve to have love whether it is from yourself, your family, or even your friends. Always love yourself no matter what! Why did I write this poem about? The reason why I wrote this poem about is because sometimes, when we feel low on ourselves, we tell ourselves "I don't love myself. I don't deserve this type of love. I'm not going to love myself". At times, I have felt like that a lot and that feeling is the worst feeling ever. You should always love yourself no matter what because loving yourself is the most important thing ever and if you don't love yourself, how are you going to love other people? Always love yourself through the difficult times because the only person who would l be there for you through your lowest point is yourself! Always love yourself no matter what and be there for yourself no matter what! 

When I was writing this poem, what was I thinking? Why was I thinking about that thing?

When I was writing this poem, what was I thinking? When I was writing this poem, a lot of things were going through my brain! I was going through so many emotions because I remember the times where I couldn't love myself because I was really hard on myself! I felt like I couldn't love myself because I felt like I didn't deserve the love that I deserve but instead, I gave myself fake love because I felt like I deserve that more than anything! In realistic, I deserved real love and from that point forward, I started to give myself real love because that is what I deserve and I will keep on giving myself real love no matter what! No matter what you are going through or how you are feeling, always give yourself real love because you deserve real love not fake love! Why was I thinking about that thing? The reason why I was thinking about thing is because fake love can happen to anyone! It can happen to people who are in relationships or it can happen individually and with me, I struggled with loving myself for a long time! Yes, I was giving everyone real love around me but I was giving myself fake love I thought I deserve that and at that time, I did. Now in 2022, I don't deserve that! I deserve real love and I am giving myself real love because I do deserve it and I think it is very important to come to terms to loving yourself and stop giving yourself fake love because no one and I mean no one doesn't deserve fake love! Never give yourself fake love because you don't deserve it!! 

If I could give anyone advice about giving themselves "Fake Love", what advice would I give anyone who is struggling with giving themselves Fake Love? Why would I give that advice to anyone who is struggling with Fake Love? 

If I could give anyone advice about giving themselves "Fake Love", what advice would I give to  anyone who is struggling with giving themselves Fake Love? My advice is don't give yourself fake love because it's not worth it. Everyone deserves real love not fake love. Loving yourself for who you are and giving yourself the real love that you deserve is well worth it. The only person who is going to be there for you at the end and loving you is yourself. Give yourself all the real love that you deserve because it is worth it! Give yourself sometime to yourself and pamper yourself because it is worth it! Look at the mirror and tell yourself that "your beautiful or handsome and that you love yourself". Please, love yourself! It's worth it! Why would I give that advice to anyone who is struggling with fake love? The reason why I would give that advice to anyone who is struggling with fake love is because for anyone who is struggling with self love or who is struggling within themselves, just know that you are never alone! Struggling with giving yourself fake love is hard. I remember going through it and it was really hard on me but I came to terms about loving myself and stop with all the fake love back in 2019 because of BTS! My Shinning Star Butterflies, y'all don't deserve the fake love y'all give to yourself. No one doesn't deserve that and if you are struggling with giving yourself real love and you are giving yourself fake love, stop doing it! Please! It is not worth it and it will never be worth it! Give yourself real love because you deserve it more than anything in this world! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Challenge of the day!! 

In conclusion, giving myself "fake love" isn't in my vocabulary! Giving myself "real love" is though! Always love yourself because you are one person and you need to be there for that one person and that one person is yourself!! You deserve to love yourself and give the real love that you absolutely deserve. It doesn't matter what anyone says to you, as long as you love yourself, that is all that matters! You loving yourself and giving yourself the real love is earn! You earn that real love! The only thing you don't need to earn is fake love! Here is my tip and challenge of the day!! My tip of the day if you know someone or even yourself that is giving yourself fake love, just know that you don't need that fake love! Get rid of that fake love and throw it in the garbage! You don't need it and it doesn't need it! Give yourself real love and have some alone time. Tell yourself that you are worthy of love or give yourself some encouragement because that is what you deserve! My challenge of the day is from this point forward, I want my Shinning Star Butterflies to stop giving fake love to yourself! It is NOT worth it anymore! That pain that you put yourself through when you are giving yourself "fake love" is not only hurting you but also, it is hurting me because I care about my Shinning Star Butterflies and I love y'all so much! Please, give yourself real love, not fake love! I love y'all so much!

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog episode for today! I hope y'all enjoyed this blog post for today! Just know that you earn that real love not that fake love! Just know that you are loved by so many people! The first person that you need to love first is yourself because you are very important! Always love yourself first and don't give yourself fake love!! I hope everyone stays safe and have an amazing weekend! I love y'all so much! Please, stay safe! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Stay Gold! Shine bright like a star that y'all are! Fly like a butterfly and chase your dreams! I will see y'all on my next blog! Your blogger queen is out! Peace! ✌💜

I love this picture because "Fake Love" by BTS is a song about giving yourself fake love! It's not about someone giving you fake love, it's about giving yourself fake love which to me is really sad! No one should ever have to give themselves fake love! 

The song of the week is "Glow" by Bear Bear and Friends! I love this song so much! It is such an amazing and one of my Shinning Star Butterflies suggested to me! Her name is Saniya! Thank you so much, Saniya for suggesting this song to me! 

"Real love is 
something you feel it, you 
see it, you show it! But 
fake love is just words and nothing more". 
-Unknown. I love this quote because if you show some action towards yourself that you love yourself, then you are good but if you tell yourself that you love yourself but you don't show any action, then you are giving yourself fake love!! 

"Fake Love" by BTS is about giving yourself fake love not anyone else giving you fake love! I love this song so much and this song was the first BTS song that I got into!!