💔 The fear of abandonment. Blog episode by: Brandee Marie Darden. Wednesday, September 21st, 2022!! 💔 
Intro to my blog!!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers and welcome back to a all new blog episode! I'm so happy to have my fandom back on a Wednesday or in other countries, a happy Thursday! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! It's a brand new day and it's a new blog kind of a day! Before I talk about today's blog episode, let's talk about Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about how to deal with rejection? When someone rejects you or even a job rejects you, that hurts! I have been rejected before and it is not a good feeling at all! My only advice about getting rejected is if someone rejects you, just know that you are much better without that person and there are better jobs for you! Everything will be okay!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about a subject that hit home for me which is the fear of abandonment! Yes, this subject does hit home for me because I know what it is like to be abandoned and it doesn't feel good at all! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about having a fear of abandonment, what does it make me think of? Why does it make me think of that thing or things? In my opinion, where does my fear of abandonment come from?? Why does my fear of abandonment come from that? If I have any advice about being abandoned, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without further ado, let's get started with a new blog episode! Shall we? We shall!! Happy Blog Wednesday!!
What does feeling abandoned like? Why does feeling abandoned like that?
What does feeling abandoned like? Feeling abandoned is like when you see a house that is empty for so long that someone abandoned it and it looks dirty or when a dog can't find its owner because the owner abandoned it. That is what feeling abandoned is like! Feeling abandoned makes you feel sad and alone that it feels like you have no one to trust, love, or support you which is so sad. I feel like everyone deserves love and be supported. No one should ever not feel loved or supported because everyone deserves that and if no one doesn't love you or supported you, well I am here for you and I will gladly take you under my wing!! Why does feeling abandoned like that? The reason why feeling abandoned is like abandoning a house or even a dog because it feels like no one wants to take care of the house or a dog! Taking care of a dog or even house is a big responsibility and if you got that house or even a pet, why in the heck would you abandon it? It is hard to be abandon by someone who you thought they loved you but they obviously didn't because they wouldn't stopped loving you and wouldn't stop caring about you! If you ever feel abandoned and not loved, this Blogger queen is here and she cares about you so much!! Never forget that, Blogger Dreamers!!
What does it make me think of? Why does it make me think of that thing or things??
When I think about having a fear of abandonment, what does it make me think of? When I think about having a fear of abandonment, several things comes to my mind!! The first thing that comes to my mind when it comes to having a fear of abandonment is when you a family member or even a parent who would be there for you one minute and then, the next minute, they are not there for you and they have abandoned you! That is the most hurtful thing in the world! When I think about having a fear of abandonment, the second thing that comes to my mind is when your friends where talking to one minute and then, the second thing you know, they stopped completely talking to you! When your friends were talking to you one minute and the next minute, they stopped talking to you and they completely forgot about you! That is hurtful! It hurts because I had that happened to me before! It is not a good feeling at all! When I think about having a fear of abandonment, the third and final thing is when you feel like you can't trust or depend on and those people who you thought you could trust and depend on, completely abandoned you! I had people who I thought I could trust and depend on when I need help, but they abandoned me and it is so hurtful! When those people completely left me and abandoned me, I was hurt and I thought I could trust them, but they showed me that I can't! Why does it make me think of that thing or things? The reason why I thought of having a fear of abandonment and why those things came to my mind is because when you felt abandoned, you feel alone and it sucks when you feel alone! That is how I felt at times when I felt abandoned! I felt alone and I felt like I didn't have any friends who I couldn't trust but I do but at the same time, not really!!
My opinion! Why does my fear of abandonment come from that?
In my opinion, where does my fear of abandonment come from?? I think my fear of abandonment comes from my friends and certain people walking in and out of my life! I had people walk in and out of life that I was scared of them abandoning me! I was scared that they were going to walk out of my life completely and stopped talking to me!! I was scared that everyone will forget about me and never talk to me ever again! I had people stopped talking to me and that hurt me so much! My fear of abandonment hurts me so much and it sucks! I feel like I have come "clingy" to some of my friends that I am afraid that my friends might leave me because I become clingy to them! I hate feeling alone but I like be alone but I am scared of people leaving me. Why does my fear of abandonment come from that? The reason why my fear of abandonment come from that is because I had people walk in and out of my life and it sucked so bad! I have this fear where if I make any new friends, they might leave me and it felt like they have abandoned me which would hurt me so much! I don't want to become clingy to those friends that I already have and them leave me as well! It would hurt me a lot!!
My advice! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers??
If I have any advice about being abandoned, what is my advice? If I have any advice about being abandoned, my advice is yes, it is going to hurt for a while but you need to realize if those people that you thought you could trust and depend on, you thought wrong! If those people chose to walk out on your life and chose to abandoned you, you don't need those people! You can't trust those people and those people left you! I know it hurts, but you don't need those people in your life anymore! Those people are horrible and awful! Don't depend on people who are going to walk out in your life!! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I know what is like to feel abandoned and I know what is like to have people who walked out of my life! Yes, it hurt me but at the end of the day, I realized that I don't need those people and apparently, those people don't need me because they seem fine without me which is hard for me to say, but it is the honestly truth!!
In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day??
In conclusion; yes, I do have a fear of abandonment! I can't help it that when people walk out of my life, I tend to feel hurt and betrayed because those people hurt me and they left me! Sometimes, I over think that I am clingy to my friends because I am scared that they might leave me which is terrifying to me to think of! I don't want a friend or friends to walk out of my life and then, abandoned me! It is a scary thought to think of! Being abandoned sucks and it doesn't feel good at all! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is I know it hurts to have people who abandoned you, but you are going to see their true colors and you are going to see that you are much better without them in your life! Believe me! When I had certain people leave me, I was hurt but at the same time, I realized I was better without them in my life!! My question is to my friends who have known me for a long time, am I clingy or no? If so, what makes me clingy?? Another question of the day is, do you have a fear of abandonment? If so, where does your fear of abandonment come from? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all! Remember, you are never alone because I'm here!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your Blogger Queen here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! It hurts to be abandoned! Believe me, I know that feeling and it is the most hurtful feeling in the world! It feels like you have people around you but it doesn't in a way!! I am here for anyone to support them and be here to help them out in anyway! You are loved by this Blogger Queen!! For today's bible verse, it goes like this: "The Lord My God Lights My Darkness". -Psalm 18:28. I love this bible verse a lot because the Lord my God can lead me to the light and out of the darkness. If you believe that God can lead you out of the darkness and the funk that you have going on in your life, then he can lead you out of the darkness and lead you to the light! I hope everyone will have a great day or in other countries, a great evening! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Don't forget our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams". Stay safe and I will see y'all on Friday where I will be talking about the fear of rejection!! I love y'all and please, stay safe! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! 💜✌
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The bible verse for today!! Such a beautiful bible verse for today!! I know the Lord, my God will lead me out of the darkness and into the light out of the funk that I am in!!  replaced and abandoned and betrayed and hated and worthless to everyone at this point. I have no one". -Unknown. This quote is a representation of how I am feeling at times! When I am at lowest, I feel like I have no one and it sucks!!  to get close to anyone because everyone that said "I'll always be here for you" left". -Unknown. A quote that I can relate to because I had people say to me "I'm always here for you and I will never leave you", but they ended up leaving me.  unimportant to the people that are the most important to me." -Unknown. When I will be there for people, but when I need support, I have anyone and it hurts so much! I hate that feeling unimportant. It is so hurtful!! |
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