💔 The fear of rejection! Blog episode by: Brandee Marie Darden. Friday, September 23rd, 2022!! 💔 
Intro to my blog!!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the queen herself, it's Brandee Darden! Welcome back to a new blog episode! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Just take it a day at a time! On my latest blog, I talked about fear of abandonment! When you or someone has a fear of abandonment, it makes you not want to trust someone because the person who you used to trust before, broke it and abandoning you because they didn't want nothing to deal with you anymore which sucks!! Being abandoned stinks and it is not a good feeling at all! On today's blog episode, I will be talking about the fear of rejection by yours truly, Brandee Marie Darden. I will be talking about on Monday, I talked about how to deal with rejection and with fear of rejection, how hard can it be dealing with the fear of rejection? Why dealing with the fear of rejection can be hard at times? When you have a fear of being rejected by a school you want to go to or there is a job that you always wanted but you are worried about being rejected, how can that affect your mindset? Why can that thing affect your mindset? If I have any advice about having a fear of rejection, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers?? Now, without a further ado, let's get started!! Shall we? We shall!! #newblogiscoming!!
The fear of rejection! When I think about the words, "fear of rejection", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind?
When I think about the words, fear of rejection, what comes to mind? When I think about the words "fear of rejection", the first thing that comes to mind is having a fear of rejection! Picture this: When you have a crush on someone and when you thought that it was your time to ask your crush on a date, but all of sudden, your crush says the word "no". That totally leaves you broken hearted and sad! Here is another scenario: Imagine applying a job that you have always dreamed about! You are filling out the paperwork and everything and you went for your interview! You thought you nailed the interview! Right? Nope because the next day, you got a call saying that "you didn't get the job". It leaves you really sad because you were looking forward to getting that job or even going on a date with your crush, but it didn't happen because you got rejected! Being rejected stinks and it doesn't feel good at all! When you have that fear of rejection, it can scare you and it makes you think to yourself, "I'm not going to get this job. They are not going to hire me". When you get into a negative mindset, it affects you a lot! Why does it come to mind? The reason why it comes to mind is because when you have this fear of rejection and it is scary! You don't want to be rejected by all means but at the same time, you get nervous and anxious because you either want your crush to like you or you want the job that you want so bad.
How hard can it be dealing with the fear of rejection? Why dealing with the fear of rejection can be hard at times?
On Monday, I talked about how to deal with rejection and with fear of rejection, how hard can it be dealing with the fear of rejection? People deal with fear rejection very differently! Some people deal with it calmly or some people break down and cry or even freak out! When dealing with rejection, I tend to freak out and panic! I don't like to be rejected but it is apart of life and you have to accept it or not. Dealing with rejection isn't easy but at the end of the day, you have to accept that job isn't meant for you or your crush might not like you in a romantic way, but y'all were meant to be friends and that's it!! Why dealing with the fear of rejection can be hard at times? I think dealing with the fear of rejection can be hard at times because when you live in fear of "oh! Someone isn't going to like me because I look quirky" or "What if I can't do the job right". You should never live in fear of rejection because it is not good for you and you should be proud of who you are, not afraid to be who you are!!
How can that affect your mindset? Why can that thing affect your mindset?
When you have a fear of being rejected by a school you want to go to or there is is a job that you always wanted but you are worried about being rejected, how can that affect your mindset? When you get into a mindset where you like "No one isn't going to like me. The job interview is going to go wrong. I just know it" and stuff like that, you are entering yourself into a negative mindset where you are feeling negative about yourself and you are putting yourself down! Never ever put yourself down and never doubt yourself! Never put those negative thoughts in your head! Why can that thing affect your mindset? The reason why the negative thoughts in your head can affect your mindset is because you are self sabotaging yourself that you won't get the job or if you crush will like you! Who knows? You and your crush might have something in common but you never know because you are putting these negative thoughts into your brain and you are putting yourself down! Don't put yourself down and never self sabotage yourself because it's not worth it!
My advice! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers??
If I have any advice about having a fear of rejection, what is my advice? If I have any advice about having a fear of rejection, my advice is let that fear go! If you didn't get that dream job that you have always wanted or if your crush doesn't like you, then that's the company's lost and your crush's fault for rejecting you, not yours. Don't ever self sabotage yourself because it's not worth it! Don't ever be afraid of being rejected because if you get rejected, it might hurt for a little while but at the end of the day, at least you tried and you tried your best! That's all that matters!! Don't self sabotage yourself! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because if you self sabotage yourself, you are basically setting yourself up for failure and you don't want to do that! It's not even worth it! Everyone gets rejected every once in a while and that's okay! If that company doesn't want you, that's fine! Move on from that company and don't cry over it because you got rejected! Find a different company that deserves you and if your crush doesn't like you, move on from them and find someone who does like you for who you are! Don't settle for less because you don't deserve that!! Be proud of who you are!!
In conclusion/ Tip of the day!!
In conclusion, having a fear of rejection can be hard at times but everyone needs to realize that we all get rejected from something whether it is from a job offering or even a crush who might not like you romantically but that's okay because you deserve someone who likes you for who you are or find a company who sees your work ethic! If that company doesn't see your work ethic just from your resume, then that's their lost! Not yours! There is plenty of job offerings around you and don't be afraid being rejected because that is apart of life! Never give up and don't feel defeated!! Here is my tip of the day!! My tip of the day is don't self sabotage yourself and never be afraid of rejection because you will get rejected but that's fine because you are strong and you don't need to give up! You got this and hang your head way high and don't show everyone that you are sad because you are strong and you got this!!! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers!! Never give up!!
Alright, my Blogger Dreamers!! It's the Blogger Queen here to tell y'all that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! Just know that being rejected is apart of life and just know if y'all get rejected, just know that y'all are amazing and don't give up because I love y'all!! Never give up!! For today's bible verse, it goes something like this: "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." -Proverbs 4:23. I love this bible verse so much because you should always protect your heart at all cost! Guard it from getting your heart broken because you don't deserve to get your heart broken! None of my Blogger Dreamers do! Always protect your heart no matter what! I love y'all so much and I hope everyone will have a great weekend ahead! Please, stay safe and always remember our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams"!! I love y'all and I will see y'all on my makeup and fashion blog page where I will be talking about Jin and Namjoon's fashion, Suga and J-Hope's outfits, and BlackPink's outfits from their music video, "Pink Venom". Stay tuned for those blogs next week!! Have a great weekend and Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! 💜✌
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Bible verse of the day! I love this bible verse so much!! Always protect your heart no matter what!!!  holding you back". -Unknown. I love this quote because don't let rejection hold you back! Never let rejection get you down! It's not worth it!!  Mean That You Aren't Good Enough. It Means The Other Person Failed To Notice What You Have To Offer." -Mark Amend. I love this quote because if the person fails to see how nice you are or if the company sees how hard working you, it shows they notice nothing about you and it shows that they don't care about how nice you are or how hard working you are!!  Rejection Is Worse Than Rejection Itself". -Nora Profit. I love this quote because the fear of rejection can be quite scary and be rejected can be a difficult thing to overcome but at the end of the day, my Blogger Dreamers can overcome it!! To end today's blog episode, let's end the blog with the song of the week which is "Left and Right" by Charlie Puth featuring Jungkook from BTS! I love this song so much! Such an amazing song and it has a good tempo to the song as well!! I love it so much! |
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