Wednesday, January 22, 2025

Blog: Favorite blogs of 2024! by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date of blog: Wednesday, 1/22/25!!

Blog: Favorite blogs of 2024!!! By: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date of blog: Wednesday, 1/22/25! Dedicated to anyone who has a favorite blog by me or whose favorite blogs are the ones that I mentioned! This blog is for y'all!

Intro to my blog!!

How would I describe my blogging? Why would I describe my blogging like that?

How would I describe my blogging? The way I would describe my blogging is motivational and giving advice to anyone who needs advice through my blogs! When it comes to blogs, I want my Blogger Dreamers to know that they are never alone and I am always here for them, no matter what! I know what it feels to be alone or to feel abandoned and to be honest, it hurts and it is a lonely feeling! I never want anyone to feel like they are alone because I know how it feels! I am here to tell you that if anyone needs someone to talk to, I'm here! Why would I describe my blogging like that? The reason why I would describe my blogging like motivational and giving advice is because I want my Blogger Dreamers to know that they are never alone or they shouldn't have to feel alone!!! I want to motivate someone to do great things!! I want to inspire someone!! I want someone to feel loved!! My blogs are for people who might need a pick me up!! I don't want anyone to feel alone and I pray that no one doesn't feel alone! I love y'all!

My favorite blogs from 2024!

If I had to pick my top 3 favorite blogs the year 2024, which blogs would be my favorite? If I had to pick my 1st favorite blog of 2024, it would have to be my poem called "storm before the calm". We go through storms before it gets calm but once it gets calm, you are at peace and I have been through a lot of storms and now, I am officially at peace where I am at with my life! If I had to pick my 2nd favorite blog of 2024, it would have to be my blog called "my happy color". If anyone knows me, pink will always be my happy color! I love that color so much and when I wear it, I feel happy wearing it and I just love the color so much!! It will always be my favorite color, no matter what!!! If I had to pick my 3rd and final favorite blog of 2024, it would have to be "talking about meeting my boyfriend for the 1st time". I will never forget when I talked about that blog episode!! That blog episode means so much to me and when I talked about the day I met my amazing boyfriend and I was working on my blog, all I can think about the time we met and how amazing he was to me and how is church family was super nice to me!! I love that blog so much and I loved my other blogs as well!!

Why?

Why would those blogs be my favorite? The 1st reason why I would pick the 1st blog as my favorite is because I have been through enough storms in life and to me, I wanted everything to be okay! I wanted to share my storms before the calms and if I could do that, I am so glad that I could do that! The 2nd reason why I would pick the 2nd blog as my favorite is because if anyone knows me, I love the color pink! Pink is my happy color and it will always be my happy color, no matter what! When I think about pink, I think girly and a powerful color! It is bright and I love it so much!! The 3rd and final reason why I pick the 3rd blog as my favorite is because it was a special moment in my life that I wanted to talk about it in a blog and I am so glad that I got to do that because if I didn't talked about, it would made me sad but I am so glad that I got to! Would I go back to that time where I met my boyfriend? Yes, I would because I was happy in that moment and I loved every moment we spend time together!! It was a special moment for me and my boyfriend's life in our relationship and I would go back to that moment!! It was wonderful!!

My most favorite!

Out of those blogs that I picked as my favorite, which one is my most favorite? If I had to pick my most favorite blog, it would have to be talking about meeting my boyfriend for the 1st time! That blog means so much to me! Every time I go to bed and I dream, my brain goes back to that moment because it was absolutely special to us! When we talk about it from time to time, I get happy that we met almost a year ago which is hard to believe!! It was a special moment in our life and it will always be a special moment in our life!! Don't get me wrong, I love my other blogs but to me, that particular blog sticks out in my brain and I pick that blog over and over again and I would always love that blog, no matter what!!

Why?

Why would I pick that blog as my favorite the most? The reason why I chose the blog "Talking about meeting my boyfriend for the 1st time" is because to me, that blog is my most favorite and to me, if I could go back to a time where I was the happiest, it would be that time because just being around my man just give me happiness and when we met, I never felt so much happiness and that day, I felt so happy!! He is the only person who could ever make me happy and that's the most important thing in life! If a man can't make you happy, then you don't need the man that you are with! Find that man who can make you happy! I am very blessed to have a good man in my life who can make me happy! I loved that blog so much!! It means so much to me and I am happy that I got to talk about it and I will always think about that moment!

In closing/ Questions of the day?

In closing, I have done so many blogs in 2024 and I love all the blogs that I have done because each one is special to me, but if I could pick my top 3 blogs, it would be my poem "Storm before the calm", "my happy color", and "talking about meeting my boyfriend for the 1st time". When I think about the 1st blog, I went through storms in my life to point where I never thought it would be calm but God intervened into my life and to be honest, I am so glad that he did because if he didn't, I would continue to be a hot mess and I would feel like I was a falling apart! God can work in mysterious ways and he has worked in my life in mysterious ways and I am glad that he did! When I think about my happy color, I think about the color "pink" and the reason why I would think about the color, pink is because when I look at it, I get happy! I love the color so much and I have people tell me that pink is my color and I love it so much!! I love that color so much! To me, it is such a pretty color!! When I think meeting my boyfriend, I think about the moment I felt so much happiness to be around him and how amazing it was to meet him!! It was a big step for our relationship and I am glad that we got to meet each other for the 1st time! Here is my questions of the day: To my Blogger Dreamers who read my blogs, if y'all had to pick y'all's top 3 favorite blogs by me, what 3 blogs would be y'all's favorite? Why would those blogs be your favorite? Sound off the in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read and respond to everyone's comments! Please! Thank you all so much! I love y'all!

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's I, the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I have been blogging for almost 4 years and when I think about the amount of support that I have received from each person who takes the time and reads my blogs, I want to thank everyone so much from the bottom of my heart! It means so much to me and I want to thank you so much!! When I think about my favorite blogs, I think about how much those blogs mean to me! Don't get me wrong, I love each blog that I have done, but to me, when I think about the blog where I talked about meeting my boyfriend for the 1st time, it was such special blog to me and it will continue to be the most special blog to me! I love that blog so much!! For today's quote of the day by Lauren Fortenberry, it goes something like this: "And she let God lead her heart. Into grace. Into forgiveness. Into trust. And He filled her days with purpose". -Lauren Fortenberry. I absolutely love this quote of the day so much because let God lead your heart! God will put grace, forgiveness, and trust into your heart! God will give you purpose for your life! Always trust in what God has in store for you because God is an amazing God!! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day!! I will see y'all on the next blog episode where I will be talking about the word "Encouragement". Stay tuned and let's always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's show the whole world that God's love is amazing and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all and I will see y'all on the flip side! I love y'all! See ya! ❤❤❤

Today's quote of the day!! I absolutely love this quote so much because God will lead your heart! He will give you grace, he would show you how to forgive that person, and he will show you how to trust again just to fill your days with purpose! Everyone has a purpose in their life and God will give you a purpose in life! Remember that!

My 1st favorite blog that I did about my poem "Storm before the calm". I have been through the storms in my life before it calm but God made everything better! Without God, I don't know where I would be without God! He will calm the waves before things will get crazy!

My 2nd blog blog that I did about "My Happy Color". When I think about my happy color, I think about the color pink because I love all kinds of pink! To me, every pink is gorgeous especially the hot pink! I love it so much and I will continue to love it, no matter what!

My 3rd and my most favorite blog that I did about "talking about meeting my boyfriend for the 1st time". I will never forget when I was working on this blog episode, all I could think about is the memories that we made that day and how wonderful the people were to me and my parents! It was a special day to me and my boyfriend! I would do anything to relive that moment again because it was special!!

I love y'all so much from the bottom of my heart! Stay warm and always share God's love wherever y'all go and show people how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all so much!! See ya on Friday! 🩷🩷🩷

Monday, January 20, 2025

Blog: Analyzing the song "Make It Through" by: Leanna Crawford, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!!! Date: Monday, 1-20-25!!

❤ Blog: Analyzing the song "Make It Through" by: Leanna Crawford, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!!! Date: Monday, 1-20-25!! 🩷 This blog is dedicated to anyone who is struggling right now, you are going to make it through!! I love y'all!

Intro to my blog episode!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through, don't let the enemy bring you down and tear you apart! You are loved beyond measures and you have people who care about you so much!! I love y'all! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but 1st, here is a blog recap from last week! On my fashion and makeup blog page, on Monday, I talked about my outfit and makeup for Sunday, December 22nd, 2025! The way the makeup and outfit matched well together and the way it looked, it looked phenomenal and gorgeous together! I would pair those two again!! The red boots looked perfect as well! On Wednesday, I talked about my favorite outfits from 2024! If I could pick an outfit that I loved and it sticks out in my mind, it would have to be my navy blue dress with the pearls and red boots! That was the cutest outfit and I absolutely loved it so much! I would wear that outfit again because I loved it so much!! On Friday, I talked about the jewelry set that I made! One jewelry set that I made is my wedding set that I am saving for when the time is right, that I get to married my boyfriend one day! To me, it is giving me wedding vibes which I love! If y'all haven't read these blogs from last week and would love too, link right here: →Makeup and fashion blog page! Please, go give them a read! Please! Thank you all so much! For this week's blog episodes, I will be analyzing the song "Make It Through" by: Leanna Crawford, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden, favorite blogs of 2024, and talking about the word "Encouragement". Stay tuned and without any further ado, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song as the song of week?

For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing the song "Make It Through" by: Leanna Crawford, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! This blog is dedicated to anyone who is struggling right now, you are going to make it through! I love y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the song, what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? How do I make it through? Why do I make it through like that? What is my advice to anyone who is trying to make it through? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? I choose to talk about this blog episode for today is because it breaks my heart to know that people are struggling! My thoughts and prayers goes to anyone who are struggling through hard times! What is this week's song of the week? For the song of the week, I choose "Make It Through" by: Leanna Crawford! No matter what we are going through, we are going to make it through and we are not going to give up! Why did I choose this song as the song of the week? I choose this song because no matter what we are going through in life, we are going to make it and we are not going to give up!

Talking about the lyrics! How can I apply these lyrics to my life? Why can I apply these lyrics to my life?

Leanna wrote a song called "Make It Through" and here is some lyrics: "Long day, tough night

Just one of those weeks

I feel stressed out, run down

Like you wouldn't believe

When I'm staring in the mirror

I can hear You whisper

"Just breathe, trust me"

Yeah, even on a long day

Tough night, tough year". How can I apply these lyrics to my life? The way I can apply these lyrics to my life there would be days where I had a long day and it was a tough night and I would feel stressed out and a little run down! There would be times where I would want to give up but I need to push through and keep going! I have people rooting for me and I have people who love me as well! I need to realize that I am loved and I need to realize no matter what I am going through, I need to keep pushing through!! Why can I apply these lyrics to my life? The reason why I could apply these lyrics to my life is because I struggle with feeling stressed out a lot of times! I will get into my life head a lot and think to myself "Is this blog going to be good"? Or "Are people going to like this blog", but I need to stop overthinking, being stressed, and just breathe because I know that God is in control and I know that God will guide me in every direction in my life!!

The song!

When I think about the song, what comes to mind? When I think about the song, the thing that comes to mind is the song title! I know there are days where I want to give up trying but I need to keep going! People expect me to keep pushing through! Yes, I am a child of God but sometimes, I want to give up but I need to realize that I have God on my side and I need to tell God "Thank you for everything". We are going to have a long day and feel stressed, but we need to keep pushing through! We have people watching us and they want us to keep going and not give up!!

Why?

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because I have days where I feel stressed out and want to give up, but I can't give up because God want me to keep going and push through! I might overthink and that would make me feel tired, but at the end of the day, God has my back and God is there for me when I want to talk to him and I love talking to God because with God, he won't judge me when I tell him about how I am feeling or he will comfort me through difficult times when I don't have anyone! He will comfort me when I am having anxiety!! God will be there for me, no matter what!!

I make it through?

How do I make it through? The way I make it through is praying that each day will be okay! I never know if I am going to have a good day or a bad day or if my anxiety is going to act up or if I am going to overthink a lot! I never know how my mental is going to act so I try to act everything is alright and keep pushing through! I try to cover everything with "I'm okay" but deep down, there are times where I am like "God, please help me" or if people are constantly complaining and it is honestly annoying and I can't take it at times! I try to ignore it but it is hard!! I keep pushing through and let God take care of it from there!!

Why?

Why do I make it through like that? The reason why I make it through like that is because there are days where my anxiety is fine but then, my anxiety will start acting up!! When I go to Walmart or anywhere where there is a lot, my anxiety will start to act up and it will get the best of me!! I try not let my anxiety get the best of me but it is so hard and I try to let God take care of it! Overthinking hurts me a lot times because when I overthink, it can lead into many scenarios in my head and it can lead to overthinking and that is hard for me but I try to let God handle it and I try let God help me through it because I know that God will lead me on the right path!!

My advice!

What is my advice to anyone who is trying to make it through? To anyone who is trying to make it through, my advice is everything will be okay! Take a deep breathe and think about the times where you felt the most happiest! Think about the people who love you so much and who makes you the most happiest! I know there might be times where you want to throw the towel and call it quits, but you need to give it to God! God will handle it and guide you on the right path! I know things are tough and I know that you might be stressed out, but everything will be alright! Give it to God and let God handle it! You are loved beyond measure and people are rooting for you! You have people who have passed on who don't want you to give up!! Keep pushing through and pray to God! God can hear you!

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I want to help out someone who is feeling stressed out or who is struggling with something right now! If you give it to God, God is going to lead you on the right path! God is going to tell you "Go to bed! I got this" and he does! Life might be hard right now but you got this! Don't give up trying because God doesn't want you to give up! I know you feel stressed right now, but think about the people who love you and care about you! To my Blogger Dreamers who have a significant other, think about your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or even wife and your significant other wants you to keep going!! Keep going because I know that life is hard but you got this!

In closing/ Tip of the day!

In closing, I know that things might be tough right now, but God has a lot in store for you! You are going to make it through because God is there by your side and you have people who are rooting for you!! You have people who love you so much! You have people who care about you! We are going to make it through because God would want you to make through! Never give up because you are going to make it through! When I listen to this song, I think about I know that I have days where I want to give up and I cry to myself "I give up! I quit" but God hears me and tells me "Brandee, you don't need to give up! You have made it so far! I am so proud of you"! If people don't tell you they are not proud of you, God will tell you how proud he is of you because God cares about you and he loves you so much! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is God is so proud of you for how far you have come! God sees you pushing through each day and he knows that you want to give up, but he wants you to give him all your problems and turn to him because if you give him your problems, he is going to take care of it and he will! Trust in God! I love y'all so much!!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to let you know that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! The moral of this blog is you are going to make through! Life might be tough right now but believe in me that everything will be okay!! God will help you through it!!! Please, don't give up on life! You have so much life to live through and you have people who love you so much! If you don't have people who love you, I love you because I care about y'all so much! You can do it!! You are going to make it through and you are going to be okay! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "Spiritual growth isn't about what we know; it's about what we surrender". -Unknown! I absolutely love this quote so much because when you go on a spiritual journey, your spiritual growth isn't about what you know or how much you know, but it's about what you surrender! You might of gave things up that is not glorifying God and that's okay! I had people who left me and I am okay with that! I don't fit in with the world because I choose to read my Bible and listen to Christian music and I am totally okay with that! I am okay with glorifying God because he deserves al the glory! I love y'all so much and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Stay tuned for an all new blog episode coming your way on Wednesday where I will be talking about favorite blogs of 2024! Stay tuned! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's show the world how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all!! See ya on the flip side! ❤❤❤

Today's quote of the day! I absolutely love this quote so much because your spiritual growth shouldn't be about what you know but it should be about what you surrender and how far you have come! People should see how you are glorifying God and if people don't see that, are you really glorifying God? Glorify God!!

The lyrics to "Make It Through" by: Leanna Crawford! We have long days and tough nights or we have one of those weeks, but we are going to make it through! Don't give up!!

"There are
some things
you can only
learn in
a storm"
-Unknown! I absolutely love this quote so much because there are so many things you can learn from the storms that you have been through and you can learn from those lessons! Don't give up!!

"When The
Going Gets
Tough,
The
Tough Get
Going".
-Joe Kennedy. I love this quote so much because when it is tough getting going, once it is hard to getting going, you wonder if you would keep it going! Life is tough but you can keep going!!

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week!! I chose "Make It Through" by: Leanna Crawford! I love this song so much because when you are going through tough times, you are going to make it through! Life might be hard right now, but with God on your side, you are going to make it through! I love y'all and have a wonderful day! ❤❤❤

Friday, December 20, 2024

Blog: What happens when you and your partner miscommunicates? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, 12/20/24!!

Blog: What happens when you and your partner miscommunicates? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, 12/20/24!! This blog is dedicated to anyone who is dating and they are having miscommunication problems! This blog episode is for y'all!

Intro to my blog!!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! I am so happy to have y'all on a new blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through or whatever it bringing y'all down, y'all are loved and I love y'all so much! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday!! Before I get into today's blog episode or do a blog recap on Wednesday's blog episode, I just want to remind everyone that I will be taking a break for two weeks to enjoy the holidays and refresh for the new year! I just want to remind everyone!! On Wednesday, I talked about what is the difference between a lady and a girl? I think what makes a lady and a girl is different is a girl will flirt with any guy while they are in a relationship while a lady will stay loyal in her relationship!! It makes my blood boil to know anyone will cheat in their relationship!! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, I will leave the link right here: →A lady and a girl? Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about what happens when you and your partner miscommunicates? This blog episode goes out to anyone who is dating and they are having miscommunication problems! This blog episode is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about what are 3 things when you and your partner miscommunicate? Why does those things happen when you and your partner miscommunicate? Out of those 3 things, in my opinion, which one can happen when you and your partner miscommunicate? Why in my opinion can that thing happened when you and your partner miscommunicate? What is my advice to anyone who is in a relationship and they are having miscommunication issues? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are in a relationship? Now, without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!

When I think about miscommunication, what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that?

When I think about miscommunication, what comes to mind? When I think about miscommunication, I think about fighting and something got mis-spoken and you and your partner are arguing about it! Arguing and fighting over the problem will not solve anything!! It will make things worse!! Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because people think arguing and fighting over something will solve anything but it doesn't solve anything at all! It makes things worse with you and your partner and that's not good at all! Talk calmly and be careful what you say!

3 things when you and your partner miscommunicate!

What are 3 things when you and your partner miscommunicate? The 1st thing when you and your partner miscommunicate is fighting and arguing! When you and partner are fighting and arguing, it really doesn't solve anything!! Y'all are not getting anything solved!! The 2nd thing when you and your partner miscommunicate is y'all are not really solving anything when their is an argument involved! When you and your partner is fighting, y'all are arguing and that is not solving anything!! When you get into an argument with your partner, it usually doesn't end well and that's not good at all!! The 3rd and final thing when you and your partner miscommunicate is making up! After fighting and arguing and saying the wrong things to one another, y'all decided to make up and say "I'm sorry" to one another! When y'all argue, it is usually best to forgive and move on! If y'all miscommunicate about something, y'all can fix it without any arguing and move on!! We need to learn how to talk calmly and not raise our voices!!

Why?

Why does those thing happen when you and your partner miscommunicate? The 1st thing is when you and your partner miscommunicate is fighting and arguing and the reason why it happens when you and your partner miscommunicate is because if you say something that sets off the other person, it would not be good and we need to learn how to be calm when we are talking!! The 2nd thing is when you and your partner miscommunicate is y'all are not really solving anything when their is an argument involved and the reason why it happens because when y'all are arguing, y'all are not solving anything but making everything worse! When y'all are raising y'all's voices at each other, it makes things worse and it never ends well! The 3rd and final thing is when you and your partner miscommunicate is making up and the reason why it happens is because when y'all are done miscommunicating, y'all need to make up and fix things! Arguing and fighting will not solve anything but it will make things worse! Y'all need to learn how to fix things and be there for one another if y'all love each other! If y'all don't love each other, y'all need to learn how to move on and go y'all separate ways and be civil about things!!

Can happen when you and your partner miscommunicate?

Out of those 3 things, in my opinion, which one can happen when you and your partner miscommunicate? Out of those things, the one that can happen is the 3rd thing which is making up! For me, I am that type of a person who is willing to fix things with someone and not leaving things unsolved! I feel like leaving an argument unsolved will make things worse so for me, I rather fix things than leave things unsolved! If you and your partner can't fix things, just be civil and move on from each other! Y'all are going to argue all the time, then move on from each other and be friends! Quit arguing and move on!!

Why?

Why in my opinion can that happened when you and your partner miscommunicate? The reason why making up can happened when you and your partner miscommunicate is because after you and your partner had time to calm down, y'all had time to calm down and after y'all had time to calm down, y'all decide to talk about things and trying to fix things!! When you try to fix things, y'all are trying to figure out what is best for y'all's relationship! Everyone has their moments in their relationship and not every relationship is perfect, but if you think y'all's relationship isn't working, y'all might need to move on from each other and focus on yourself! Y'all tried to fix things but nothing is working so y'all best bet is to move on from each other!! Don't make things worse by arguing, but move on and focus on your well being!!

My advice!

What is my advice to anyone who is in a relationship and they are having miscommunication issues? To any of my Blogger Dreamers who are in a relationship and y'all are having miscommunication issues, my advice is instead of arguing back and fourth, take a break and learn how to calm down instead of making things worse! After calming down, talk about things and try to fix things without any yelling or screaming! That is how you make things worse! When you get into a argument and y'all are miscommunicating about something, yelling and screaming at one another makes things worse and that's not good at all! The only way y'all need to fix things is by calming down first and then, talk things out! Don't start screaming at one another! It's not a screaming match!!

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are in a relationship? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are in a relationship is because when you are in a relationship, y'all are suppose to love each other and be there for one another! I mean it is okay to have arguments every once in a while but don't have screaming match at one another because that doesn't solve anything! At that, it makes things worse!! When y'all are arguing and y'all are screaming, how does that solve anything? Because in reality, it makes things worse and y'all are not going to solve anything just by screaming at one another! Talk calmly to each other and fix things!!

In closing/ Tip of the day!

In closing, when you and your partner have miscommunication problems, y'all need to fix them! When y'all have an argument, y'all start yelling at each other and screaming at one another, in reality- it doesn't fix anything and that's really sad! When you love someone and you are in a relationship, y'all need to learn how to fix things and quit arguing about the smallest things! When you are arguing, y'all are not solving anything because it going to lead to fighting and that's not good at all! Fix those miscommunication problems and learn how to talk to one another! I feel like one the things that can happen is making up! After y'all are done arguing, y'all are made up and y'all want to talk things in a calmly manner and want to fix things! Fixing things is better than leaving things unsolved! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is never go to bed angry and never go to bed leaving unsolved because if you leave things unsolved, it is not going to leave anything good out if that argument! Be careful what you say and fix things with your partner!! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day!! The moral of this blog is if y'all are in a relationship, fix y'all's problems and don't miscommunicate! Always communicate what is going on with your partner because how does y'all partner know what to fix or what not to fix? You know! Please, always communicate what is going on because you can fix things with that person if you love them too much! If you love and care about that person so much, communicate with them and talk to them! Don't argue and leave things unsolved because if you leave things unsolved, it won't help y'all's relationship but make things worse and that's not good at all! Always leave things resolved because if you leave things resolved, y'all are communicating and everything will be okay! Fix things while you can! For today's Bible Verse of the day. it is taken from Psalms 127: 3 and it says "Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him". I absolutely love this Bible Verse of the day because children are such a gift!! I love being around children because they can do funny things and they can make you laugh so hard!! They are such a gift and cherish that gift! Enjoy that gift from God because they can be gone in a split second and they can grow up so fast!! Enjoy those memories! I love y'all and until next time "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all next year where on my 1st blog page, I will talk about my goals for 2025, analyzing my poem "Feeing safe", and analyzing my poem "Backstabber" ! Stay tuned and enjoy the holidays!! I love y'all and let's show people how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! ❤❤❤❤❤

Today's Bible Verse of the day! I absolutely love this Bible Verse of the day so much because children are such a gift from the Lord and they would do anything to make you laugh and they will give such a crazy look and it is so funny!! Enjoy the time you have with them because they can grow up and they move out and have their own family! Enjoy the time you have!!

"If you don't clear
your
misunderstanding
in time they become
the reason for
distance forever".
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because if you and your partner don't miscommunicate about things, the distance between y'all are going to separate y'all and that won't be good at all! Communicate y'all are problems and fix them!!

"The worst prison in the world
is a home without peace. Be
careful who you marry or fall
in love with".
-Unknown. I couldn't agree more with this quote because if you get into a relationship and you are not at peace with that person and y'all are constantly arguing and not communicating, y'all are not going to have peace with one of another! Please, communicate with one another and talk to each other about problems!!

"A Partner That
Can't Answer Your Questions,
Without Getting Defensive,
Is Often Keeping
More From You
Than The Answer".
-Unknown. I love this because if your partner can't answer a question without getting defensive and ignoring what you are asking them, they are ignoring what you are asking them and they are not communicating with you!!

To end today's blog episode, for this week's song of the week, I chose "4X4XU by: Lainey Wilson! Every time I listen to this song, I think about how me and my boyfriend drive each other crazy but I wouldn't have it in any other way!! I love y'all and enjoy the holidays and be safe!!

Wednesday, December 18, 2024

Blog: What is the difference between a lady and a girl? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 12/18/24!

Blog: What is the difference between a lady and a girl? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 12/18/24! This blog is dedicated to any guy who is getting treated wrong by a girl and wanting to date a woman! This blog is for y'all!

Intro to my blog!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all might be facing or whatever it is bringing y'all down, just know that I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is my blog recap from Monday! On Monday, I talked about my boyfriend and celebrating his birthday! Celebrating his birthday for the 3rd year in a row has been a blessing and I rather celebrating him than any of my exes because my boyfriend means a lot to me! One of the things that I love that is absolutely my favorite about my boyfriend is the way he loves me! He will make sure that I am loved and make sure that I am happy! That is a real man should do! If your man doesn't show you love, then you are with the wrong man! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to, link right here:→talking about my boyfriend and celebrating his birthday! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! For today's blog episode, I will be talking what is the difference between a lady and a girl? This blog is dedicated to any guy who is getting treated wrong by a girl and wanting to date a woman! This blog is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about what 3 things that make a lady different from a girl? Why do those 3 things make a difference between a lady and a girl? As a lady, what things can I work on? Why can I work on those things? To my guys who is taking an advantage of by a girl, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my guys who are getting taken an advantage of by girls? Now, without any disruptions or distractions, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!

In my opinion, what is a difference between a lady and a girl? Why in my opinion is that a difference between a lady and a girl?

In my opinion, what is a difference between a lady and a girl? The difference between a lady and a girl is when a girl bumps to a guy, she will be flittering with him despite her having a boyfriend but a real lady would never do that! If a real lady gets bumped into a guy, she would tell the guy that she is sorry and move on! Some girls like to flirt while they are in a relationship and that's wrong! Why in my opinion is that a difference between a lady and a girl? The reason why that is a difference between a lady and a girl is because a girl wouldn't considered the guy's feelings but the lady will!

3 things that make a lady different from a girl!

What 3 things that make a lady different from a girl? The 1st thing that makes a lady different from a girl is a girl can't stand on her own but a lady can stand on her own! While a girl isn't quite strong enough to stand on her own, a strong independent lady can stand on her own! The 2nd thing that makes a lady different from a girl is a girl can flirt while being in a relationship but a lady can stay loyal in a relationship! Like guys, a girl can flirt in a relationship and be a cheater as well but a loyal woman would never do that to her man!!! The 3rd and final thing that makes a lady different from a girl is a girl cares about herself and herself only while the lady cares about everyone around her! A girl will make sure that is taken care of herself and herself only but the lady would make sure that everyone is okay and well! A lot of girls would care about themselves but a lady will make sure everyone is doing okay and well!

Why?

Why do those 3 things make a difference between a lady and a girl? The 1st reason why the 1st thing make a lady different from a girl because a girl is afraid to be strong and not quite ready to stand on her own but the lady isn't afraid to stand by herself and stand up to anyone who gets in her way!! A girl is afraid to stand up to anyone who gets in her way!! The 2nd reason why the 2nd thing make a lady different from a girl because a girl would flirt with another guy while being in a relationship but a lady will stay loyal to her man and tell her man "you are the only person that I need". I can't stand cheating at all! I don't care if you are being flirty or not, but if you are in a relationship and you are flirting back and fourth with each other, I hate to burst your bubble, but that does consider cheating and you are not a real man or a real lady if you are cheating on your partner!! Do not flirt with another person if you are in relationship! I am just saying!! The 3rd and final reason why the 3rd thing make a lady different from a girl because a girl would spoil herself with a new purse or make sure that everything is always about her and her about her only but a lady would take care of the people around her that she loves! She would make that they are happy and they are loved!!

Things that I need to work on!

As a lady, what things can I work on? The 1st thing that I need to work on is patience! I feel like I am not waiting and I need to be patient with certain things!! The 2nd thing that I need to work on is realizing that I am beautiful! I need to realize that I am beautiful despite what I am wearing or how I am feeling that day! There are days where I don't feel beautiful but in head, I know that I am beautiful but I don't feel like it at times!!! The 3rd and final thing that I need to work on as a lady is my self worth! I need to keep reminding myself that I am worthy to love myself despite what I have been through! I don't need to keep hurting myself and bringing myself down!! I need to keep reminding myself that I am loved despite what I have been through! I need to remind myself that I am loved because God loves me!! I need to learn how to work on these things and I will!

Why?

Why can I work on those things? The 1st reason why I need to work on is patience is because I feel like I am always impatient and I feel like I need to get everything done immediately and I am always stressing myself at the last minute and I need to be patient about everything!! The 2nd reason why I need to work on realizing that I am beautiful is because I know that I am beautiful but there have been times where I don't feel beautiful! I can wear a beautiful outfit and people can say "you look beautiful" but in my head, I don't feel beautiful because the devil is messing with my head and I need to quit telling myself that "I am not beautiful" because I know that I am but I need to remind myself that!! The 3rd and final reason why I need to work on is my self worth is because there are times where I would beat myself up because I feel like I am not loving myself for who I am and I need to work on that! I need to work on reminding myself that God loves me for who I am and God will take care of me at times where I feel alone! I need to stop beating myself up!!

My advice to the guys!

To my guys who is taking an advantage of by a girl, what is my advice? To my guys who is getting taken advantage of by a girl, my advice is if a girl is using you for your money and doesn't care about your feelings at all, leave her! If she only cares about your money only, she is a gold digger and she only cares about the most expensive things in life! Don't tolerate a girl who isn't going to take care of you! Find a real lady who cares about how she is treated and one of the ways that you can spoil her is by showing her how much you love her by spending time with her and spoiling her with your attention! Real ladies love that!! Don't continue to being with someone who isn't worth being! If you are not happy in a relationship where the girl is taken an advantage of you, leave her! Guys can be unhappy too!! Don't be unhappy!!

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my guys who are getting taken an advantage of by girls? The reason why I would give that advice to my guys who are getting taken an advantage of by girls is because sometimes, girls would use guys for money and not care about them at all which is completely wrong! For me, I don't care how much in your wallet! If you are willing to take care of me and deal with my attitude on a daily basis, I am cool with that! I don't care about the money you have! I care about the attention you give me! If you are not giving me the attention that I need, I am walking out of that door and leaving!! Guys, if a girl doesn't care about your feelings and only cares about your money, just tell her "I'm leaving and I am finding love somewhere else". Guys need love to!! I'm just saying!!

In closing/ Tip of the day/ Questions of the day?

In closing, I could give more reasons why girls are different from ladies but for me, one of the difference between a girl and a lady is a girl can't be loyal in a relationship and a lady can be loyal in a relationship!! To me, if you are going to be in a relationship, be loyal and don't cheat on your partner because that is wrong on so many levels!! A strong lady can stand on her own and a girl really can't and she can't stand up for herself!! I feel like one of the things that I need to work on being patient! I feel like I have zero patience and I need to work on that so much! I am praying that I can work on that and get the patience that I need!! Here is today's tip of the day and questions of the day? For today's tip of the day, it is ladies, treat a guy right because despite them being guys, they need love to and it hurts to know that certain guys don't get the love they deserve and guys need love as well! If you see a guy being down, tell them "everything is going to be alright"! For my questions of the day, for my ladies out there- What 3 things that you need to work on? Why do you need to work on those 3 things? For my guys- What 3 things does your lady need to work on? Why does your lady need to work on those things? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read and respond to your comments! Please! Thank you all so much!! I love y'all!!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today!! I hope and pray that everyone enjoyed today's blog episode for today! The moral of this blog episode is every lady is different! They are either a girl or a strong independent woman who knows how to treat a guy right because despite being in a relationship, I find it completely wrong to cheat and to me, you are not a lady for doing that! As a matter of fact, to me, that's girl and guys to but I look at that as a boy!! I believe in loyalty and if a guy or a girl suspects you of cheating, just own up to it!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from Psalm 128:1 and it says "Blessed are all who fear the Lord, who walk in obedience to him". I absolutely love this Bible Verse of the day a lot because we need to have obedience to God!! If we are not showing obedience to God, then we are disobeying him and we need to obey him! I love y'all and have a wonderful Wednesday or in other countries, a wonderful Thursday! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog episode where I will be talking about what happens when you and your partner miscommunicate? Stay tuned! Let's show how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all and see y'all on the flip side!! ❤❤❤❤

Today's Bible Verse of the day!! I absolutely love this Bible Verse because we need to be obedient to God and we need to walk with the Lord by our side! We don't be disobedient to God because if we are disobedient to him, we are hurting him and we don't need to hurt him!!

"Know the difference
between a woman & a
girl. Same gender,
different breed".
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because a woman and a girl is the same gender, but different breed because one is stronger than the other!!

"A strong woman
stands up for herself. A
stronger woman stands
up for everybody else".
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because yes, it is okay to stand for yourself but it is also okay to stand up for other people who you care about because if someone is talking bad about the person that you, you are going to stand up for them!

"Some girls are a
'Once in a lifetime' type of girl...
there's no upgrade after her bro.
Treat her right".
-Unknown author. I love this quote a lot because once you treat a girl wrong, you lost your chance!! If you hurt her, she is never dating someone like you ever again! Remember that!

I pray that everyone will have a wonderful day or had a wonderful day!! Don't let something ruin your day! I love y'all and show someone how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all! ❤❤❤

Monday, December 16, 2024

Blog: Talking about my boyfriend and celebrating his birthday!! Date of blog: Monday, December 16th, 2024!

💙Blog: Talking about my boyfriend and celebrating his birthday!! Date of blog: Monday, December 16th, 2024! ❤ This blog episode is dedicated to my amazing and my wonderful boyfriend! Happy birthday, baby! I love you so much!

Intro to my blog!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode of the day! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all might be facing or whatever it has brought y'all down, just know that y'all are loved and if y'all need a shoulder to cry on, I am here for y'all! I love y'all! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Before I get into today's blog episode and do a blog recap, I want to remind everyone that I will be taking a two- week break to refresh and take a break to enjoy the holidays but on Monday, January 6th, 2025, I will officially come back from my two week break, so stay tuned for new blogs coming soon! I love y'all! Now, into blog recap!! Last week on my makeup and fashion blog page, on Monday, I talked about outfits that I would wear with my new shirts! One of the outfits that I would wear with my new shirts would be my snake print shirt with my black pants and white shoes! I would wear that out somewhere nice or maybe just to the mall! I think it would be a cute outfit!! On Wednesday, I talked about makeup looks that I would wear with my new eyeshadow palette! One of the looks that I would wear would be Cindy LouWho with Santy Claus which is a pinkish with a red glitter, a orange blush or my new pink blush which also came from the grinch collection, a silver highlighter, and a nude lip! I am so excited to wear this makeup look next Sunday! This makeup look is going to look amazing and so beautiful!! On Friday, I talked about my top 3 favorite outfits that I have worn to Wednesday church, part 2! One of my favorite outfits that I have worn to Wednesday church, it would have to be my snake print shirt with my black ruffle skirt and grey and brown wedges! To me, that outfit was really cute and I love that outfit so much!! If y'all haven't read these blog episodes and would love to check them out, link right here: → makeup and fashion blog page! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to check them out, please go check them out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! Now, for this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about my boyfriend and celebrating his birthday, what is a difference between a lady and a girl, and what happens when you and your partner miscommunicate? Now, without any distractions and without any disruptions, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I chose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song for the week? Why did I choose this song for the week?

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about talking about my boyfriend and celebrating his birthday! This blog is dedicated to my amazing and my wonderful boyfriend! Happy birthday, baby! I love you! In this blog episode, I will be talking about what are my 3 favorite things that I love about my boyfriend? Why are those my favorite things about my boyfriend? Out of those favorite things that I love about my boyfriend, which is my most favorite? Why is that my most favorite thing about my boyfriend? Why did I chose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I chose to talk about today's blog episode is because there is so many things that I absolutely love about my boyfriend and knowing that this is my 3rd year celebrating my man's birthday means a lot to me! I wouldn't want to celebrate someone than my man! What is this week's song for the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "4 x 4 x u" by: Lainey Wilson! When I listen to this song, I think about how much I drive my boyfriend crazy and I rather drive him crazy than someone else! He is my world and my home! Why did I choose this song for the week? The reason why I choose this song for the week is because I love the song but also, I love driving my boyfriend crazy because at times, he drives me crazy which I don't care!

How do I feel about celebrating my man for the 3rd year in a row? Why do I feel a certain way?

How do I feel about celebrating my man for the 3rd year in a row? The way I feel about celebrating my man for his birthday in the 3rd year in a row is I feel amazing and great! I wouldn't mind celebrating him than anyone else! This man is my world and my life! When I look into his eyes, I feel at home and safe! Ladies, if you look into a guy's eyes and you can how much he cares about you, you know you found the right guy in your life!! I know that I found the right guy in my life! He is my forever! Why do I feel a certain way? The reason why I feel a certain way about celebrating my man's birthday is because I love celebrating my man and knowing that I get to celebrating him is best feeling in the world! I'm proud to call him MINE because he is mine!!!

3 favorite things that I love about my boyfriend!

What are my 3 favorite things that I love about my boyfriend? The 1st thing that I love about my boyfriend is the way he loves me! He would do anything to make sure that I am loved and to make sure that I get the love that I deserve and I love that about him so much! The 2nd thing that I love about my boyfriend is the way he cares about me! Throughout our entire relationship, he has showed me how much he has cared about me and never gave up on me! Despite what I have been through, he has been there for me and for that, I am so blessed to have a good man in my life! The 3rd and final thing that I love about my boyfriend that is my favorite is he is very supportive! The way this man is so supportive which I love about him! When I do blogs or even my tiktok videos, he always tells me "Good luck on your tiktok or blog episode, babe! You got this". That's how i know I have a good man! He is such an supportive man and I love that so much!

Why?

Why are those my favorite things about my boyfriend? The 1st reason that I love my boyfriend for is the way he loves me and the reason why it is my favorite is because he will show me what real love feels like which I love about him! He is a real man who knows how to love and I love that about him so much!! The 2nd reason that I love my boyfriend for the way he cares about me and the reason why it is my favorite is because throughout our relationship, he has showed me time after time how much he cares and I love that about him! To me, he is the most caring man in the world and I can't thank God enough to giving me a good man in my life because good men are hard to find! The 3rd and final reason why I love my boyfriend for he is very supportive and the reason why it is my favorite is because when I do a blog or even a tiktok video, he will tell me "Good luck on your blog or tiktok, babe! You are going to hit it out the park". It shows me that he is has a lot of confidence in what I do and I love that about him! Not only it gives me a lot of confidence in what I do, but it also shows me that I have a man who believes in me, no matter what!!

My most favorite thing!

Out of those favorite things that I love about my boyfriend, which is my most favorite? If I had to pick my most favorite thing that I love about my boyfriend, it would have to be the way he loves me! I have never felt loved by someone until I met the love of my life! With this man, he showed me what a real man should be and I am so blessed to have a good man in my life who has shown me what real love is and I feel blessed to have a good man who knows how to treat a woman right! He is so different from any other guy that I have dated and to me, I feel blessed to call this man my boyfriend! Without him, I would feel empty and my life would be so dark!!

Why?

Why is that my most favorite thing about my boyfriend? The reason why I picked the way he loves me as my most favorite thing about my boyfriend is because a real man knows how to love their girl and knows how to take care of their girl and my man knows how to love me! Throughout my life, my dad was the real man who knows how to love me and when my man came into my life, I know the real meaning of true love and that is my boyfriend in a nutshell! This man knows how to love with his whole heart and I am so blessed to know that he is my man and I know that I don't have to worry about not feeling loved by him because I know that I am loved by a good man who is willing to take care of me and to make sure that I am okay!!

In closing/ Tip of the day!

In closing, happy birthday to the man who loves me for who I am! Happy birthday to the man who has been by my side as long as I can remember!! When I didn't have nobody, my man was there for me which means so much!! The way he cares about me, the way he loves me, and the way he supports me, he is the best man for me and I am so blessed that the girls who had before him let him go because I wouldn't have him and I am so blessed to have a good man in my life! I love the way he supports me and I can't thank God enough for giving me a good man who is willing to love me through my mental health or through times where I am moody! That never bothered him and I am glad it doesn't! Here is my tip of the day: my tip of the day is Ladies- find a man who is willing to take care of you, not because it is his job, but it comes naturally to him! Find a man who is willing to say to "I want to marry her, one day". Guys- find a woman who is willing to take care of you the way you take care of her as well! Find a woman who you want to marry one day! I love y'all!!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! This blog means so much to me because it is my man's birthday today and I couldn't be anymore blessed than I already am that I get to celebrate with him for the 3rd year in a row! To know that I get to celebrate with him is a blessing within itself! He is the most amazing human being in the world! The way he cares about everyone around him is amazing!! The one thing that I absolutely love about him that is my favorite is the way he loves me! I have never felt so much love by a man like him! My exes never showed me the same love like my man and honestly, I am so glad that I am not with any of those exes because I have me such a good man and I couldn't thank God for this man in my life! My boyfriend was raised by amazing people and they showed him how to be respectful and I love that!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from Romans 12:12 and it goes something like this: "Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer". I absolutely love this Bible Verse of the day is because when we have hope in God, we need to be joyful because God never breaks his promises! We need to be patient what God has in store for us!! We need be faithful and talk to God on a daily because he can hear us what we go through and he will guide us through everything! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog where I will be talking about what is a difference between a lady and a girl? Stay tuned! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out and let's show the world how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today!💙💙💙💙💙

Today's Bible Verse of the day! I absolutely love this Bible Verse of the day is because we need to have joy in hope because God will give us hope and he never breaks his promises! We need to be patient in what God has in store for us!! We need to be faithful in our prayer life because God hears us!!!

One of my favorite pictures of me and my man!! I love this picture and this man so much!!

"You have got the arms I want
to be wrapped in. You have
got the eyes I want to get lost in.
You have got the smile I can
never resist. You have got the
voice I want to listen to for hours.
I decided on you, I want
you and only you".
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because I only want to my man's arms around me! I will get lost into his eyes!! His smile melts my heart!! He has a voice I can listen to hours and hours on end! I only want him because I don't want any other guy!! My man is the only one I want!

Another picture that I love so much!!! The height difference is unbelievable!! I can't believe how tall he is compare to me!! I still love him!!

This week's song of the week! I love this song so much because there is no one who I rather drive crazy than my man!! I love driving my man crazy and I love teasing him so much and he enjoys when I tease him as well!! I love my man and happy birthday to him!!