Blog: What is the difference between a lady and a girl? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 12/18/24! This blog is dedicated to any guy who is getting treated wrong by a girl and wanting to date a woman! This blog is for y'all! 
Intro to my blog!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all might be facing or whatever it is bringing y'all down, just know that I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is my blog recap from Monday! On Monday, I talked about my boyfriend and celebrating his birthday! Celebrating his birthday for the 3rd year in a row has been a blessing and I rather celebrating him than any of my exes because my boyfriend means a lot to me! One of the things that I love that is absolutely my favorite about my boyfriend is the way he loves me! He will make sure that I am loved and make sure that I am happy! That is a real man should do! If your man doesn't show you love, then you are with the wrong man! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to, link right here:→talking about my boyfriend and celebrating his birthday! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! For today's blog episode, I will be talking what is the difference between a lady and a girl? This blog is dedicated to any guy who is getting treated wrong by a girl and wanting to date a woman! This blog is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about what 3 things that make a lady different from a girl? Why do those 3 things make a difference between a lady and a girl? As a lady, what things can I work on? Why can I work on those things? To my guys who is taking an advantage of by a girl, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my guys who are getting taken an advantage of by girls? Now, without any disruptions or distractions, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!
In my opinion, what is a difference between a lady and a girl? Why in my opinion is that a difference between a lady and a girl?
In my opinion, what is a difference between a lady and a girl? The difference between a lady and a girl is when a girl bumps to a guy, she will be flittering with him despite her having a boyfriend but a real lady would never do that! If a real lady gets bumped into a guy, she would tell the guy that she is sorry and move on! Some girls like to flirt while they are in a relationship and that's wrong! Why in my opinion is that a difference between a lady and a girl? The reason why that is a difference between a lady and a girl is because a girl wouldn't considered the guy's feelings but the lady will!
3 things that make a lady different from a girl!
What 3 things that make a lady different from a girl? The 1st thing that makes a lady different from a girl is a girl can't stand on her own but a lady can stand on her own! While a girl isn't quite strong enough to stand on her own, a strong independent lady can stand on her own! The 2nd thing that makes a lady different from a girl is a girl can flirt while being in a relationship but a lady can stay loyal in a relationship! Like guys, a girl can flirt in a relationship and be a cheater as well but a loyal woman would never do that to her man!!! The 3rd and final thing that makes a lady different from a girl is a girl cares about herself and herself only while the lady cares about everyone around her! A girl will make sure that is taken care of herself and herself only but the lady would make sure that everyone is okay and well! A lot of girls would care about themselves but a lady will make sure everyone is doing okay and well!
Why?
Why do those 3 things make a difference between a lady and a girl? The 1st reason why the 1st thing make a lady different from a girl because a girl is afraid to be strong and not quite ready to stand on her own but the lady isn't afraid to stand by herself and stand up to anyone who gets in her way!! A girl is afraid to stand up to anyone who gets in her way!! The 2nd reason why the 2nd thing make a lady different from a girl because a girl would flirt with another guy while being in a relationship but a lady will stay loyal to her man and tell her man "you are the only person that I need". I can't stand cheating at all! I don't care if you are being flirty or not, but if you are in a relationship and you are flirting back and fourth with each other, I hate to burst your bubble, but that does consider cheating and you are not a real man or a real lady if you are cheating on your partner!! Do not flirt with another person if you are in relationship! I am just saying!! The 3rd and final reason why the 3rd thing make a lady different from a girl because a girl would spoil herself with a new purse or make sure that everything is always about her and her about her only but a lady would take care of the people around her that she loves! She would make that they are happy and they are loved!!
Things that I need to work on!
As a lady, what things can I work on? The 1st thing that I need to work on is patience! I feel like I am not waiting and I need to be patient with certain things!! The 2nd thing that I need to work on is realizing that I am beautiful! I need to realize that I am beautiful despite what I am wearing or how I am feeling that day! There are days where I don't feel beautiful but in head, I know that I am beautiful but I don't feel like it at times!!! The 3rd and final thing that I need to work on as a lady is my self worth! I need to keep reminding myself that I am worthy to love myself despite what I have been through! I don't need to keep hurting myself and bringing myself down!! I need to keep reminding myself that I am loved despite what I have been through! I need to remind myself that I am loved because God loves me!! I need to learn how to work on these things and I will!
Why?
Why can I work on those things? The 1st reason why I need to work on is patience is because I feel like I am always impatient and I feel like I need to get everything done immediately and I am always stressing myself at the last minute and I need to be patient about everything!! The 2nd reason why I need to work on realizing that I am beautiful is because I know that I am beautiful but there have been times where I don't feel beautiful! I can wear a beautiful outfit and people can say "you look beautiful" but in my head, I don't feel beautiful because the devil is messing with my head and I need to quit telling myself that "I am not beautiful" because I know that I am but I need to remind myself that!! The 3rd and final reason why I need to work on is my self worth is because there are times where I would beat myself up because I feel like I am not loving myself for who I am and I need to work on that! I need to work on reminding myself that God loves me for who I am and God will take care of me at times where I feel alone! I need to stop beating myself up!!
My advice to the guys!
To my guys who is taking an advantage of by a girl, what is my advice? To my guys who is getting taken advantage of by a girl, my advice is if a girl is using you for your money and doesn't care about your feelings at all, leave her! If she only cares about your money only, she is a gold digger and she only cares about the most expensive things in life! Don't tolerate a girl who isn't going to take care of you! Find a real lady who cares about how she is treated and one of the ways that you can spoil her is by showing her how much you love her by spending time with her and spoiling her with your attention! Real ladies love that!! Don't continue to being with someone who isn't worth being! If you are not happy in a relationship where the girl is taken an advantage of you, leave her! Guys can be unhappy too!! Don't be unhappy!!
Why?
Why would I give that advice to my guys who are getting taken an advantage of by girls? The reason why I would give that advice to my guys who are getting taken an advantage of by girls is because sometimes, girls would use guys for money and not care about them at all which is completely wrong! For me, I don't care how much in your wallet! If you are willing to take care of me and deal with my attitude on a daily basis, I am cool with that! I don't care about the money you have! I care about the attention you give me! If you are not giving me the attention that I need, I am walking out of that door and leaving!! Guys, if a girl doesn't care about your feelings and only cares about your money, just tell her "I'm leaving and I am finding love somewhere else". Guys need love to!! I'm just saying!!
In closing/ Tip of the day/ Questions of the day?
In closing, I could give more reasons why girls are different from ladies but for me, one of the difference between a girl and a lady is a girl can't be loyal in a relationship and a lady can be loyal in a relationship!! To me, if you are going to be in a relationship, be loyal and don't cheat on your partner because that is wrong on so many levels!! A strong lady can stand on her own and a girl really can't and she can't stand up for herself!! I feel like one of the things that I need to work on being patient! I feel like I have zero patience and I need to work on that so much! I am praying that I can work on that and get the patience that I need!! Here is today's tip of the day and questions of the day? For today's tip of the day, it is ladies, treat a guy right because despite them being guys, they need love to and it hurts to know that certain guys don't get the love they deserve and guys need love as well! If you see a guy being down, tell them "everything is going to be alright"! For my questions of the day, for my ladies out there- What 3 things that you need to work on? Why do you need to work on those 3 things? For my guys- What 3 things does your lady need to work on? Why does your lady need to work on those things? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read and respond to your comments! Please! Thank you all so much!! I love y'all!!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today!! I hope and pray that everyone enjoyed today's blog episode for today! The moral of this blog episode is every lady is different! They are either a girl or a strong independent woman who knows how to treat a guy right because despite being in a relationship, I find it completely wrong to cheat and to me, you are not a lady for doing that! As a matter of fact, to me, that's girl and guys to but I look at that as a boy!! I believe in loyalty and if a guy or a girl suspects you of cheating, just own up to it!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from Psalm 128:1 and it says "Blessed are all who fear the Lord, who walk in obedience to him". I absolutely love this Bible Verse of the day a lot because we need to have obedience to God!! If we are not showing obedience to God, then we are disobeying him and we need to obey him! I love y'all and have a wonderful Wednesday or in other countries, a wonderful Thursday! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog episode where I will be talking about what happens when you and your partner miscommunicate? Stay tuned! Let's show how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all and see y'all on the flip side!! ❤❤❤❤
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Today's Bible Verse of the day!! I absolutely love this Bible Verse because we need to be obedient to God and we need to walk with the Lord by our side! We don't be disobedient to God because if we are disobedient to him, we are hurting him and we don't need to hurt him!!  between a woman & a girl. Same gender, different breed". -Unknown. I love this quote so much because a woman and a girl is the same gender, but different breed because one is stronger than the other!!  stands up for herself. A stronger woman stands up for everybody else". -Unknown. I love this quote so much because yes, it is okay to stand for yourself but it is also okay to stand up for other people who you care about because if someone is talking bad about the person that you, you are going to stand up for them!  'Once in a lifetime' type of girl... there's no upgrade after her bro. Treat her right". -Unknown author. I love this quote a lot because once you treat a girl wrong, you lost your chance!! If you hurt her, she is never dating someone like you ever again! Remember that! I pray that everyone will have a wonderful day or had a wonderful day!! Don't let something ruin your day! I love y'all and show someone how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all! ❤❤❤ |
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