Blog: What happens when you and your partner miscommunicates? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, 12/20/24!! This blog is dedicated to anyone who is dating and they are having miscommunication problems! This blog episode is for y'all! 
Intro to my blog!!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! I am so happy to have y'all on a new blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through or whatever it bringing y'all down, y'all are loved and I love y'all so much! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday!! Before I get into today's blog episode or do a blog recap on Wednesday's blog episode, I just want to remind everyone that I will be taking a break for two weeks to enjoy the holidays and refresh for the new year! I just want to remind everyone!! On Wednesday, I talked about what is the difference between a lady and a girl? I think what makes a lady and a girl is different is a girl will flirt with any guy while they are in a relationship while a lady will stay loyal in her relationship!! It makes my blood boil to know anyone will cheat in their relationship!! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, I will leave the link right here: →A lady and a girl? Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about what happens when you and your partner miscommunicates? This blog episode goes out to anyone who is dating and they are having miscommunication problems! This blog episode is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about what are 3 things when you and your partner miscommunicate? Why does those things happen when you and your partner miscommunicate? Out of those 3 things, in my opinion, which one can happen when you and your partner miscommunicate? Why in my opinion can that thing happened when you and your partner miscommunicate? What is my advice to anyone who is in a relationship and they are having miscommunication issues? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are in a relationship? Now, without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!
When I think about miscommunication, what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that?
When I think about miscommunication, what comes to mind? When I think about miscommunication, I think about fighting and something got mis-spoken and you and your partner are arguing about it! Arguing and fighting over the problem will not solve anything!! It will make things worse!! Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because people think arguing and fighting over something will solve anything but it doesn't solve anything at all! It makes things worse with you and your partner and that's not good at all! Talk calmly and be careful what you say!
3 things when you and your partner miscommunicate!
What are 3 things when you and your partner miscommunicate? The 1st thing when you and your partner miscommunicate is fighting and arguing! When you and partner are fighting and arguing, it really doesn't solve anything!! Y'all are not getting anything solved!! The 2nd thing when you and your partner miscommunicate is y'all are not really solving anything when their is an argument involved! When you and your partner is fighting, y'all are arguing and that is not solving anything!! When you get into an argument with your partner, it usually doesn't end well and that's not good at all!! The 3rd and final thing when you and your partner miscommunicate is making up! After fighting and arguing and saying the wrong things to one another, y'all decided to make up and say "I'm sorry" to one another! When y'all argue, it is usually best to forgive and move on! If y'all miscommunicate about something, y'all can fix it without any arguing and move on!! We need to learn how to talk calmly and not raise our voices!!
Why?
Why does those thing happen when you and your partner miscommunicate? The 1st thing is when you and your partner miscommunicate is fighting and arguing and the reason why it happens when you and your partner miscommunicate is because if you say something that sets off the other person, it would not be good and we need to learn how to be calm when we are talking!! The 2nd thing is when you and your partner miscommunicate is y'all are not really solving anything when their is an argument involved and the reason why it happens because when y'all are arguing, y'all are not solving anything but making everything worse! When y'all are raising y'all's voices at each other, it makes things worse and it never ends well! The 3rd and final thing is when you and your partner miscommunicate is making up and the reason why it happens is because when y'all are done miscommunicating, y'all need to make up and fix things! Arguing and fighting will not solve anything but it will make things worse! Y'all need to learn how to fix things and be there for one another if y'all love each other! If y'all don't love each other, y'all need to learn how to move on and go y'all separate ways and be civil about things!!
Can happen when you and your partner miscommunicate?
Out of those 3 things, in my opinion, which one can happen when you and your partner miscommunicate? Out of those things, the one that can happen is the 3rd thing which is making up! For me, I am that type of a person who is willing to fix things with someone and not leaving things unsolved! I feel like leaving an argument unsolved will make things worse so for me, I rather fix things than leave things unsolved! If you and your partner can't fix things, just be civil and move on from each other! Y'all are going to argue all the time, then move on from each other and be friends! Quit arguing and move on!!
Why?
Why in my opinion can that happened when you and your partner miscommunicate? The reason why making up can happened when you and your partner miscommunicate is because after you and your partner had time to calm down, y'all had time to calm down and after y'all had time to calm down, y'all decide to talk about things and trying to fix things!! When you try to fix things, y'all are trying to figure out what is best for y'all's relationship! Everyone has their moments in their relationship and not every relationship is perfect, but if you think y'all's relationship isn't working, y'all might need to move on from each other and focus on yourself! Y'all tried to fix things but nothing is working so y'all best bet is to move on from each other!! Don't make things worse by arguing, but move on and focus on your well being!!
My advice!
What is my advice to anyone who is in a relationship and they are having miscommunication issues? To any of my Blogger Dreamers who are in a relationship and y'all are having miscommunication issues, my advice is instead of arguing back and fourth, take a break and learn how to calm down instead of making things worse! After calming down, talk about things and try to fix things without any yelling or screaming! That is how you make things worse! When you get into a argument and y'all are miscommunicating about something, yelling and screaming at one another makes things worse and that's not good at all! The only way y'all need to fix things is by calming down first and then, talk things out! Don't start screaming at one another! It's not a screaming match!!
Why?
Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are in a relationship? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are in a relationship is because when you are in a relationship, y'all are suppose to love each other and be there for one another! I mean it is okay to have arguments every once in a while but don't have screaming match at one another because that doesn't solve anything! At that, it makes things worse!! When y'all are arguing and y'all are screaming, how does that solve anything? Because in reality, it makes things worse and y'all are not going to solve anything just by screaming at one another! Talk calmly to each other and fix things!!
In closing/ Tip of the day!
In closing, when you and your partner have miscommunication problems, y'all need to fix them! When y'all have an argument, y'all start yelling at each other and screaming at one another, in reality- it doesn't fix anything and that's really sad! When you love someone and you are in a relationship, y'all need to learn how to fix things and quit arguing about the smallest things! When you are arguing, y'all are not solving anything because it going to lead to fighting and that's not good at all! Fix those miscommunication problems and learn how to talk to one another! I feel like one the things that can happen is making up! After y'all are done arguing, y'all are made up and y'all want to talk things in a calmly manner and want to fix things! Fixing things is better than leaving things unsolved! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is never go to bed angry and never go to bed leaving unsolved because if you leave things unsolved, it is not going to leave anything good out if that argument! Be careful what you say and fix things with your partner!! I love y'all!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day!! The moral of this blog is if y'all are in a relationship, fix y'all's problems and don't miscommunicate! Always communicate what is going on with your partner because how does y'all partner know what to fix or what not to fix? You know! Please, always communicate what is going on because you can fix things with that person if you love them too much! If you love and care about that person so much, communicate with them and talk to them! Don't argue and leave things unsolved because if you leave things unsolved, it won't help y'all's relationship but make things worse and that's not good at all! Always leave things resolved because if you leave things resolved, y'all are communicating and everything will be okay! Fix things while you can! For today's Bible Verse of the day. it is taken from Psalms 127: 3 and it says "Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him". I absolutely love this Bible Verse of the day because children are such a gift!! I love being around children because they can do funny things and they can make you laugh so hard!! They are such a gift and cherish that gift! Enjoy that gift from God because they can be gone in a split second and they can grow up so fast!! Enjoy those memories! I love y'all and until next time "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all next year where on my 1st blog page, I will talk about my goals for 2025, analyzing my poem "Feeing safe", and analyzing my poem "Backstabber" ! Stay tuned and enjoy the holidays!! I love y'all and let's show people how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! ❤❤❤❤❤
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Today's Bible Verse of the day! I absolutely love this Bible Verse of the day so much because children are such a gift from the Lord and they would do anything to make you laugh and they will give such a crazy look and it is so funny!! Enjoy the time you have with them because they can grow up and they move out and have their own family! Enjoy the time you have!!  your misunderstanding in time they become the reason for distance forever". -Unknown. I love this quote so much because if you and your partner don't miscommunicate about things, the distance between y'all are going to separate y'all and that won't be good at all! Communicate y'all are problems and fix them!!  is a home without peace. Be careful who you marry or fall in love with". -Unknown. I couldn't agree more with this quote because if you get into a relationship and you are not at peace with that person and y'all are constantly arguing and not communicating, y'all are not going to have peace with one of another! Please, communicate with one another and talk to each other about problems!!  Can't Answer Your Questions, Without Getting Defensive, Is Often Keeping More From You Than The Answer". -Unknown. I love this because if your partner can't answer a question without getting defensive and ignoring what you are asking them, they are ignoring what you are asking them and they are not communicating with you!! To end today's blog episode, for this week's song of the week, I chose "4X4XU by: Lainey Wilson! Every time I listen to this song, I think about how me and my boyfriend drive each other crazy but I wouldn't have it in any other way!! I love y'all and enjoy the holidays and be safe!! |
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