🩷 Blog: Having a few people close to you. Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 9/23/24!! To the people who have stayed by my side for years, this blog episode is for you! 🩵 
Intro to my blog!!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is going on in your life or whoever is bringing you down, just know that y'all are loved and y'all have people who do care about you and if you don't feel like you have anyone that cares about you, I care about y'all and I will always care about y'all, no matter what! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but 1st, a blog recap from last week! Last week, I did blogs on my 1st blog page! On Monday, I analyzed a song called "Cruel" by: Jackson Wang, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! When I think about the word "cruel", I think about someone who is mean and cruel and doesn't care about others feelings but their own feelings and that's incredibly sad! On Wednesday, I talked about how sneaky can grief can sneak up on you? Grief is so sneaky! One minute, you are totally fine doing things that you love so much and then, the next thing you know, you are sobbing and crying because you miss that person so much and that hurts you a lot! I think about my Grandpa Flex everyday and wishing he was here! I think about him everyday!! On Friday, I talked about when you close our eyes. When I have my eyes closed, a lot of thoughts pop in my head at one time and one of those thoughts is how many more hours until I get to facetime my boyfriend? When me and my boyfriend facetime, it feels like we are totally in a different universe and I absolutely love it! If y'all haven't read last week's blogs and would love to check them out, I will leave the link right here: →1st blog page! Please, go give them read! Please! Thank you all so much! For this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about having a few people close to you, what 3 songs represents my life, and what are 3 good qualities in a person? Stay tuned for an all new blog episodes for this week and without any further ado, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!
Today's blog episode for today! Why did I chose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I chose that song for the week?
For today's blog episode, I will be talking about having a few people close to you. To the people who have stayed by side for years, this blog episode is for you! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about having a few people close to you, what comes to mind? Why does that thought come to mind? Do I rather have fake people in my corner or a few close people in my corner? Why do I want that thing better than the other? What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who don't have close friends? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I chose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I chose to talk about today's blog episode for today is because throughout my entire life, I had people who showed up for me when it was "convenient" but I had people who stayed by my side throughout times when I was in trouble and I can't thank those people enough!! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "I'm Ok" by: iKon. Every time I listen to this song, I think to myself if I am really okay! Yes, I have days where they are harder but trust me, I am truly okay and I will be okay because I have people on my side who care about me! Why did I chose that song for the week? The reason why I chose that song for the week is because there would be days where I am not okay but that's okay because I will get through it and I know that I am loved by so many people who care about me!!
When I think about the people who truly cares about me, who comes to mind? Why do those people who come to mind?
When I think about the people who truly cares about me, who comes to mind? When I think about the people who truly cares about me, the 1st person that comes to mind is my boyfriend! Throughout our friendship and the course of our relationship, he has done nothing but support me and been there for me and I feel appreciative when it comes to him! The 2nd person or people that comes to mind is his family! His family has been nothing but nice to me and I can't thank God enough for them and being there for me!! The 3rd and final people who have truly care about me is my dad, my bonus mom, and my bonus mom's family!! They have been there for me more than anything and I can't thank God enough for sending them my way! I feel so blessed and I can't thank God enough for giving me the right people in my life!! Why do those people who come to mind? The reason why my boyfriend came to mind is because when I had no one else, my boyfriend was there! My boyfriend never gave up on me when everyone else did and for that, I feel appreciative! The 2nd reason why his family came to mind is because when we went through a horrible storm, his family especially his parents where asking him "How she doing" and stuff like that and I can't thank God enough for sending my boyfriend's family in my life!! The 3rd and final reason why my dad, bonus mom, and bonus mom's family came to mind is because more than anyone in this world, my dad has been there for me, my bonus mom has been there for me, and my bonus mom's family have truly cared about me more than anything in this world and to me, I feel cared by them than the people who have been in my life since I could remember! I feel truly blessed to have real people who care about me and I feel blessed to know that I have a brother and sister who care about me than the people who are in my family! I have people who have in my life for along time but the people who I mentioned are the main ones who have been there for me!! I am blessed!
Having a few people close to you...
When I think about having a few people close to you, what comes to mind? When I think about having a few close people to me, I think how those people are extremely important in your life! You are going to have people who will leave you and you are going to have people who is going to stay by your side through thick and thin and that to me is the most important thing ever! When you have those people who care about you, those are the people you want to keep in your life! When you have people who are close to you, you never want to lose them! Those people care about you the most and that's important!!
Why?
Why does that thought come to mind? The reason why that thought come to mind is because I rather have people who are close to me than people who come in and out of my life! I had people walk in and out of my life and leave me and I want to have close people who is close to me than someone who walks out on my life which has happened before! I had people walk out of my life before and it stinks! I had a lot of people walk out of my life and stop talking to me and it hurts to think about the people who walk out of my life and stopped talking to me! I have cared about a lot of those people and when I need someone to care about me, it doesn't bother them and it doesn't hurt them! I had to pick myself up when I was hurting! People didn't care about me but the people that were close to me, they cared about me and that's what important to me the most!!
Do I rather?
Do I rather have fake people in my corner or a few close people in my corner? In all honesty, I rather have a few close people in my corner than have fake people in my corner! When you have people who are fake in your corner, they don't care about you and they don't care about your feelings at all but instead, they only care if you are for them and that's it! When you have people who are close to you, those are the most important people who will love you until there is no tomorrow and those are people who will pick you up when you fell and pick you up when you are falling apart! Those are the true and rare people that you need in your life and don't lose them! Don't lose those people who you are close with! Love them until the very end!
Why?
Why do I want that thing better than the other? The reason why I want a few close people in my corner than having fake people in my corner is because when you have fake people in your corner, they are going to use you and hurt you over and over again and you don't need that in your life! When you have people who are close to you and they are going to be there for you, no matter what and that is the most important people that you can ask for! I only have a few close friends and to me, I am fine with having a few close friends because I know those friends won't hurt me! I know that my boyfriend will always be there for me, no matter what! I know that my brother and my sister in law (sister) will never leave me! I know that I have a good bonus mom and my dad who loves me, no matter what! I surely know that I have a God who will never break my heart and leave me! I am so blessed to have people who are close to me and who hasn't left me!!! I feel blessed!!
My advice!!
What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who don't have close friends? To my Blogger Dreamers who don't have close friends, my advice to y'all is be your own close friend! When you are your own close friend, you won't get hurt and you are going to be there for you from beginning to end and that is the most important thing in the world! Be there for yourself when you are in trouble! You are going to pick yourself up and you are going to stick around when no one isn't there for you! People are going to come and go, but when you find someone who is close to you, you want to keep those people whether your significant partner or even yourself! It's okay to have yourself as a close friend! There have been times where I was my close friend for a little while and I am totally okay with that! I know that I won't hurt myself!
Why?
Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when you feel like you have no one, you have to be your own friend because there are people who you think might care about you, but deep down, they don't and that is sad! Be there for yourself when you are going through a tough time because when you are there for yourself, it is showing yourself how strong you are and you are being tough! Be your own friend and God will be your own friend as friend! God cares about you and he loves you so much!!
In closing/ Tip of the day!!
In closing, you are going to have people who are going to love you through thick and thin but you are also going to have people who are going to not care about you and that's okay because you have close people in your corner and if you don't have that, I am here for you, no matter what! There are people in this world who is going to love and care about you but you are also going to have people who are very self centered and don't care about your feelings at all which is sad! Focus on those people who do care about you and don't focus on those people who don't care about your feelings at all! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is focus on people who is going to be there for you through thick and thin and find people who is willing to look at you in the eyes and say "I am here for you and I am willing to stay with you until the end". Those people matter what the most!! I love y'all so much!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! The moral of this blog is you are going to have people who will leave you and you are going to have people who won't leave you because those people are the ones who need to stay close to! Those are people who is willing to comfort you when you need comfort! When my boyfriend and I were friends at the time, he lost his grandma and I was there for him when he needed someone! He was there for me when I needed someone as well! Having people close to you is important! It is okay to have 1 or 2 or even 3, but what matters is having people who love you for you and not use you! That's what is important!! Don't ever forget that!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taking from Revelation 22:7 and it says, "Behold, I Am Coming Soon. Blessed Is The One Who Keeps The Words Of Prophecy In This Book". I absolutely love this Bible Verse a lot because Jesus is coming soon! We don't know when but he will come soon and when I read the Bible, I will share the words that are in the Bible! I am going to share the Gospel with anyone who I come in contact with and tell them what God has done for me and why Jesus died for me! Jesus will be coming soon and we need to be ready! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Stay tuned where on Wednesday, I will be talking about what 3 songs represents my life? Any guesses on what songs I would pick? Sound off in the comments what 3 songs that I would pick! I would love to hear y'all's guesses! I love y'all and until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog episode! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ✌️🤗🩷🤍
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Today's Bible Verse of the day! I absolutely love this Bible Verse a lot because Jesus will be coming soon! Don't know when but Jesus will be coming soon and we need to keep his words in our hearts and share the words that are in the Bible!!  smile, who checks up on you often to see if you're okay, who watches out for you and wants the very best for you, don't let them go. Keep them close and don't take them for granted. People like that are hard to find". -Unknown-. This quote hits home for me because when you have people who make you smile or checks up on you to see if you are okay or who wants the best for you, those are the most important people and you never want to lose those people! Never take them for granted either!  who are close to you, it's not about who's real to your face. What really matters is who stays real behind your back and proves that they have your back". -Unknown! I love this quote so much because when you have people who are close to you, you want them to prove to you day and day out that they will be behind you every step of your journey through life and they prove to you that they are always there for you, no matter what and that's what matters to you!!  you find good people, keep them close to you". -Unknown! I absolutely love this quote so much because when you find good people who are good to you and who care about you, keep those people because good people are hard to find and they will love you until the end!! To end today's blog episode for today, for this week's song of the week, I chose "I'm Ok" by: iKon. I feel like I could relate to this song in my life because there are days where I am okay but I will have days where I want to collapse because things are tough, but I try to get through it and I will try to make it! I love y'all and have a good Monday or in other other countries, a good Tuesday! Please, be safe! I love y'all! 🩷🩷🩷 |
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