💙😁 Blog: Celebrating me and my bf's friendship anniversary! blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date: Friday, 9/6/24!! This blog is dedicated to my amazing boyfriend who has been there for me 4 years!! Cheers to many more!! ❤ 
Intro to my blog!!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is going wrong in your life or whatever it is bringing y'all down, just know that I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Don't give up and don't quit! Y'all are amazing and y'all are loved!! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but first, a blog recap from Wednesday!! On Wednesday, I analyzed the word "justice". When I think about the word "justice", I think about finding out what happened to a friendship and you want justice for why that friendship ended and you wanted to get the bottom of it!! You always want to get justice for something that is going on this world and I pray that bullying and mental health can get the justice that they deserve because bullying and mental health shouldn't go unknown and I feel like it does and it shouldn't! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, I will leave the link right here: →The word "justice". Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please, thank you all so much! For today's blog episode, today's blog episode is dedicated to my amazing boyfriend who has been there for me for 4 years! Cheers to many more! For today's blog, I will be celebrating me and my bf's friendship anniversary!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about how do I feel about our 4 year friendship anniversary? Why do I feel a certain way about it? What has changed over the course of 4 years? Why those things changes over the course of 4 years? What sticks out in my mind that I think changed the most? Why does that thing stick in my mind the most? What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who is in a relationship but also wants to keep that friendship as well? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without any further disruptions, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!
How did me and my boyfriend meet? Why did we meet that way?
How did me and my boyfriend meet? We meet through a mutual friend!! We became friends on Instagram and then, he messaged me on Instagram and then, he messaged on Snapchat! I am not going to lie, I wasn't too fond of my boyfriend at the time and I honestly thought we would become friends! I was getting out of a relationship and I was still heartbroken at time and I didn't want to talk to guys at the moment but he came into my life and I feel blessed to have someone who would stick by my side and never left me! I feel like I hit a jackpot when it comes to a good man because he surely is a good man!! Why did we meet that way? The reason why we met that way is because I think God wanted us to meet that way and he wanted not only become friends but also boyfriend and girlfriend down the road!! God can work in mysterious way and I feel blessed to have a good boyfriend and a best friend!!!
My feelings!
How do I feel about our 4 year friendship anniversary? My feelings about being me and my bf's 4 year friendship anniversary is happiness! I feel happy! To be best friend to this man has been a blessing! At first, I wasn't too fond of him but getting to know him has been a blessing and he makes me laugh everyday and I love the way he makes me laugh! He makes me the happiest girl in the world and I couldn't ask for a better best friend than my man!! I feel happy and blessed!!
Why?
Why do I feel a certain way about it? The reason why I feel certain way about being our 4 year friendship anniversary is because God blessed me with a good best friend who I didn't know who would turn into my boyfriend but God knew and that's okay because God always plans for our lives and God did have a plan for me and my boyfriend's life which I am totally fine with that! I think God knew what he was doing when he put me and my boyfriend in each other's lives! I think God knew what he was doing and I love having a special bond with my man because he gets me which I love about him! He is special!!
Changed over the course of 4 years?
What has changed over the course of 4 years? I think what has changed over the course of 4 years is our friendship has blossomed and it went from being more than just friends to being in a relationship which has been a blessing within itself!! I feel like another thing that changed over the course of 4 years is we met each other for the 1st time! Meeting him for the 1st time was such a big blessing! I was so happy but also a little nervous to meet him but more than anything, I was excited to meet him! He was so wonderful and so nice! I was happy to hug him and hold his hand for the 1st time! It was such a blessing and I would do it all over again if I had to!!
Why?
Why those things changed over the course of 4 years? I think the reason why the 1st thing changed is because God knew what he was doing when he put us together and he knew that we weren't just be friends forever and he wanted us to be partners forever! I knew he would be my boyfriend but I was just scared to admit it to myself because I was hurt in my last relationship because the person that was with cheated on me and it hurt me to the core and I didn't know how to deal with another relationship when I have been cheated on but God knew what he was doing! I think the 2nd and final thing why the 2nd thing changed is because God knew when we were suppose to meet and he knew we were going to meet in his house! It was just a great Sunday and going to church and being with my man on that day was perfect to me! I wouldn't want to spend my Sunday in any other way!! It was special and I would go back to that day and live that day all over again because it was such a perfect day for us and it was a good day as well!
Sticks out in my mind?
What sticks out in my mind that I think changed the most? I think what sticks out in my mind that I think changed the most is becoming boyfriend and girlfriend! Over the course of us being friends, I remembered him asking me along the lines of "How would you feel if we became more than friends" and I told him "I wouldn't mind just being friends" but I didn't know I had feelings brewing up and I didn't know how it would work with the long distance so I didn't give it too much thought and I just really didn't thought about us being in a relationship until it finally happen and honestly, not only he is a good best friend but he also a good man! He knows how to make me happy and he knows how to take care of me when I am sad and he knows how to laugh! He makes me the most happiest girl in the world and I can't thank God for sending me the right man for me! I wish I knew where he was when I was dating those other guys because this has been the best relationship that I have been! I'm just saying!
Why?
Why does that thing stick in my mind the most? I think the reason why us that changed the most is becoming boyfriend and girlfriend sticks out in my mind the most is because I wanted us to remain friends and nothing more but as time went on, I couldn't ignore my feelings anymore but I honestly didn't know how to tell him until he asked me to be his girl on November 1st, 2022 and that day will always be engraved in my mind forever and always! There are special dates that I will remember which is Sunday, February 25th, 2024- the day we met! September 6th, 2020- the day we became friends! November 1st, 2022- the day he asked me to be his girl! December 16th, 1996- the day my man was born! These dates are very special to me and I will always remember these dates forever as long as I live! I am so glad that God knew what he had in store for us and I am so blessed to have an amazing best friend like him!! He is so great!
My advice!
What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who is in a relationship but also wants to keep that friendship as well? To my Blogger Dreamers who is in a relationship but also wants to keep that friendship as well, here is my advice: My advice is y'all are always going to be the best of friends! Y'all's friendship will never go away and when you get into a relationship, that friendship is going to stay! I thought our friendship will go away but our friendship stayed and I love that! My advice to my Blogger Dreamers who isn't in a relationship is you are going to find someone out there for you but before you get into a relationship, become friends with a person first! If you see this friendship taking off, then it was meant to be but if you don't see this friendship taking off, then move on and don't pay attention to it! You want the right person for you and not only the right person for you, but you want to have a good friendship as well and I think it is very important to have in a relationship! Becoming friends is very important!
Why?
Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give the 1st advice to my Blogger Dreamers who is in a relationship is because y'all's friendship will never go away! Y'all will always remain friends together forever and I think the best way to get into a relationship is to become friends and I love that a lot! Being in a relationship with your best friend is the best feeling in the world!! The 2nd reason why I would give the 2nd advice to my Blogger Dreamers who aren't in a relationship is because before you get into a relationship, you want to become friends and I believe in a strong foundation of a relationship is friendship and if y'all don't have that, it is going to crumble and I don't want that for y'all! I want y'all to remain forever and be happy!!
In closing/ Tip of the day!
In closing, celebrating 4 years of friendship with my best friend is the most amazing thing in the world! I honestly thought we would become friends let alone become boyfriend and girlfriend but honestly, I wouldn't have it in any other way! He is always there for me when I need him the most and he knows how to make me laugh when I need a laugh! He knows how to be a good listener when you someone to talk to which I love so much! A lot of guys aren't good listeners, but my man is a very good listener which I love about him! The way he cares about me which I also love about him! He is very different when it comes to guys and I love how he can get along with his family! He is a good person but don't see that which is sad but it is what it is! I am very blessed that the girls who were with him let him go because he is mine and he will remain mine forever! No questions asked! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is find a good person who will become your best friend and your partner because having the best of both worlds is the best feeling in the world and I am so blessed to find mine!! I feel happy!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! The moral of today's blog episode is having someone who will be best friend but also your partner for life is the best feeling in the world! Some guys only care about being your friend but there are guys who cares about being your best friend and your partner! Don't lose that because it is hard to find a good guy who will stay in your life! Never lose that! I feel blessed to have a good man in my life who is very caring and I love that about him!! He is so different which I love about him! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "Regret is the most painful thing you can experience in Life". -Vincenzo Cassano! I love this quote so much because when you do something that you will regret later, it is going to hurt later! Don't regret something that you love later! Do it now while you can! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my makeup and fashion blog page where I will be talking about what kind of outfits would I wear for fall? Part 4, makeup looks that I would wear for fall, part 3, and what do I love about fashion? Stay tuned! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good Friday or in other countries, a good Saturday! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜😊
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Today's quote of the day! I love this quote so much because if you don't do something that you love now, you are going to regret later on and you never want to regret something that you didn't do! Do something now while you can! friend who is just a friend but the whole universe thinks he is not just a friend". -Nikita Gill. I couldn't agree with this quote more because in my mind, I thought we would remain friends forever but someone in my family knew that was something more going on and I feel like we were just meant to be! .jpg)  You Can Tell Your Hopes And Dreams And Know They Won't Laugh". -Unknown. I absolutely love this quote so much because I can tell him anything and he won't laugh at me! I can tell him anything and he won't judge and I love that about him so much!! He is different! To end this blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "Smile On My Face" by: EXO because no matter what we do in life or if we are hurting, we have to do something and put a smile on our faces!! We act like everything is okay but deep down, we are hurting and we need to push through!! I love y'all and have a good day and a good weekend!! Stay safe! |
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