Blog: My advice on how to forgive others? By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 4/19/24! 
Intro to my blog!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that is on my mind whether it be about my poems or whatever it is personal to me! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the problems that y'all are facing or whatever it is dragging you down, you are never alone and I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode? I know that I am but before we get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I analyzed the word "blessing". We should never take our blessings for granted because God can take those away in a heartbeat! Be blessed on what you have and don't get upset when someone gets what they have always wanted! For me, I am blessed to have what I got! I am blessed to have a good boyfriend whose family loves me for who I am! I am very blessed on that! If y'all want to check out this blog episode, please go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! I love y'all! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about my advice on how to forgive others? By: Brandee Marie Darden! On this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the word "forgiving", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? What is the purpose on forgiving others? Why is that the purpose on forgiving others? If I have any advice on how to forgive others, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without any further ado, let's get our blogging imagination brains on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!
What are ways to forgive others? Why are those ways to forgive others?
What are ways to forgive others? The 1st way to forgive others is to accept what they did and learn to move on from what they did! Instead of dwelling on what they have done, learn to accept what they have done and move on! The 2nd way to forgive others is to know that you forgive them! Forgiving others is the best way to forgive them and to know that you forgive them, it gives you a peace of mind knowing that you forgive them and that you are moving on with your life! The 3rd and final way to forgive others is to know that you love and care about them and you are not holding nothing against them! For me, I want people to know no matter how much you have hurt me or what you did to me, I will never hold anything against them and i am moving on! Don't hold anything against people! Why are those ways to forgive others? The 1st reason why that is the 1st way to forgive others is because just accept people what they have done and learn to move on! People are going to make mistakes and people aren't perfect! The 2nd reason why that is 2nd way to forgive others is because you want to give yourself a peace of mind knowing that you are moving on with your life and you are okay with that! The 3rd and final reason why that is the 3rd way to forgive others is because you don't want to hold grudges towards others for what they have done! They might have done something that was hurtful, but that doesn't mean to hold a grudge someone! That's wrong! Forgive what they have done and move on!
The word "forgiving".
When I think about the word "forgiving", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "forgiving", I think about someone who forgives what the other person has done to that person and they move on! When I forgive someone, I tell them I forgive them and I move on with my life! I don't dwell what they have done to me and let it hurt me! I move on with my life and focus on things that are more positive instead of negative! I don't want to focus on what that person did to me! Instead, I want to move on from what they have done to me and just focus on what's good in my life! If I focus on what that person did to me, it is not going to get me anywhere but instead, it is going to bring me down a road that I don't want to be , so I will focus on forgiving that person and move on!
Why?
Why it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because when someone does something to another person, they end up apologizing and moving on from that situation but there is a lot of people who would hold a grudge towards that person for what they have done and you should never hold a grudge! Yes, what that person might of have done is hurtful but holding on to a grudge is wrong and you should just move on and forgive that person! You can forgive a person but you can't forget they have done! Don't let that person and their mistakes bother you because you are much better than that and you can move on from the person's mistakes! Don't let the person's mistakes hold you back because if you let their mistakes hold you back, it is going to bring you down! Don't let it bring you down! Keep going and don't give up!
The purpose of forgiving other!
What is the purpose on forgiving others? I think the purpose of forgiving others is to move on and not focus on what they may have done to you! Whatever that person might have done to you, forgive them and move on! For example, my boyfriend has made me mad plenty of times but I move on and forgive him because he is the one person that I could never stay mad at! Everyone can make you mad but you need to learn how to forgive and move on! You can forgive others and move on! Don't let their mistakes bother you! It's not worth it and you can focus what is going good in your life! Don't let the little things bother you! You are much better than that and you should never let a person what they have done to you bother you! You are amazing and don't y'all ever forget that! Forgive others the way people forgive you!
Why?
Why is that the purpose on forgiving others? The reason why that is the purpose of forgiving others is because whatever that person might of done to you that was bad, you can learn to forgive but you can't forget what they have done to you! Never dwell on someone's mistakes because if you dwell on what that person has done to you, it is going to hurt you more and you don't need that in your life! Don't let another person's mistakes hurt you because it is going to make you keep remembering what they have done to you and you don't need that! Forgive them and move on! Don't keep dwelling in the past! Focus on what is in front of you!
My advice!
If I have any advice on how to forgive others, what is my advice? To my Blogger Dreamers who want to forgive others, my advice is don't dwell on their past because if you continue to throw their past in their face, it is going to make them feel like a bad person and don't make them feel like a bad person! Instead of throwing their past in their face, let's forgive them and move on! When you forgive that person, you feel so much better and you are not focusing on what that person has done to you! Forgive them and move on! Don't focus on the past!
Why?
Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because if you continue to throw what they have done in their face, you are never going to learn that the person is sorry and they know what they did is wrong! Don't throw their past in their faces! I think it is wrong and disrespectful! People do bad things but that doesn't mean you can throw what they have done in the past in their face again! Learn how to forgive that person and move on! Learning what they have done and moving on with your past is much better than focusing on what they done and keep throwing it in their face! Forgive that person and move on! Don't focus on the past! Focus on the present!!
In closing/ Tip of the day!
In closing, I think the significance on forgiving others is to let people know that you forgive them and that you are moving on from what they have done to you! When you forgive that person, it shows that you are being the bigger person and you are standing up for yourself! Why is it so significant on forgiving others? The reason why it is significant to forgive others is because when a person did something, you can get mad at what they have done to you but you can learn to accept their apology and move on from what they did! Don't dwell on what they have done because if you continue to dwell on what they have done, it is going to bring you down and that is not good for your mental health! Focus on what is good for your mental health and move on! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is learn how to forgive others the way others forgive you! You might have done something wrong that hurt that person and that person might have done something wrong to hurt you! Whatever that person did to you and whatever you did to that person, learn how to forgive and move on! Don't hold each other for your past mistakes! Learn from your mistakes and forgive each other! I love y'all!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! The moral of this blog episode is always forgive each other in whatever that person has done! Once you forgive that person, you will feel so much better! Don't let someone hurt you because of they have done to you! Move on and don't focus on what hurt you! Instead of focusing on what hurt you, focus on what can make you strong and how can grow from it! Don't let mistakes hurt you but let the mistakes make you grow because you can learn from the mistakes from others and it can make you grow! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: ~Live however you want, it's yours anyway ~ -BTS! I love this quote so much because this is your life! Live how you want to and make yourself happy! Live your life how you want but once you make the wrong mistakes, you need learn from that mistake! I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Stay safe and always remember: "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog episode where I will be at my Makeup and fashion blog page where I will be talking about my easter outfit, what I would I wear on my birthday, and 3 American celebrities who I would love to style one day! Stay tuned! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💙
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Today's quote of the day! I love this quote a lot because I am going to live my life on how I want to and whatever mistakes that I make, I will learn from those mistakes and move on from them! In life, we learn from those mistakes and we grow and whatever mistakes that I make, I will grow from them! I am going to live my life and be okay with that! doesn't change the past but it changes the future". -Unknown. I love this quote because forgiveness won't change what happen in the past but it will change what will happen in the future! Work on forgiveness to change what will happen in the future!  not because they deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace". -Mel Robbins. I love this quote because you deserve peace and forgiving others can bring you a peace of mind!! Don't go to sleep without knowing that you forgive that person! Go to sleep at night knowing that you did forgive that person and you are moving on with your life!  extends to the worst offenders and to anyone who wishes to receive it- not because of who we are, but because of who He is". -Charles Swindoll. I find this quote hitting to me is because God will reach out his hand and he will forgive anyone! Whatever you did wrong, God will forgive you! To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! For this week's song of the week, I chose "Drowning" by Mew Suppasit. He is a Thai singer and he also acts as well! I feel like I could relate to this song because there have been times where I feel like I am drowning and I need to remind myself that I can safe myself from these negative thoughts and I need to stop myself from focusing on those negative thoughts! I love y'all and see y'all next week! |
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