Blog: The word "miscommunication" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 2/19/24!! 
Intro to my blog!!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! Welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about my poems or songs or anything that comes to mind! I am so happy to have y'all back back on a new blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is bothering y'all or whatever it is going through y'all's minds, just know that y'all are never alone and I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! I hope and pray that everyone had an amazing weekend!! I know that I did! Before I get into today's blog episode or this week's blog episodes, here is a recap of last week's blog episodes! Last week on my 1st blog page, on Monday, I talked about what makes me different? There is a lot of things that makes me different and unique! I think what makes me different is I don't care about partying or alcoholic drinks! I don't mind family gatherings but I tend to stay away from bars because that's not who I am! On Wednesday, I talked about my top 3 dream dates, part 2! To me, a candle light dinner sounds romantic and lovely! I would love to go on a date like that with my boyfriend in the future! On Friday, I talked about what does the word "inspire" mean to me? When I think about the word "inspire", I think about someone who tells their story and someone can relate to it! When someone tells their story to you, they are showing you how courageous they are and to me, that's inspiring! If y'all haven't read this week's blogs and would love to check them out, you can read them at "brandeemariedarden.blogspot.com". I love y'all! For this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about the word "miscommunication" and my two poems "Focusing on yourself" and "When people's words bother you". Stay tuned for new blog episodes! Now, let's get our blogging brains on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!
Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose that song for the week?
For today's blog episode, I will be talking about the word "miscommunication". In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the word "miscommunication", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? What are 3 ways to fix the miscommunication problem? Why are those 3 ways to fix the miscommunication problem? What is my advice to anyone who is having a miscommunication problem? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I choose to talk about today's blog episode is because there is miscommunication problems in relationships or friendships or even families and for me, I feel like communication is so important! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "miracle" by: NSB! When I listen to this song, I think about in life, we are given miracles and to me, miracles are precious! Why did I choose that song for the week? The reason why I choose this song is because I love the song and it is such a good song!
The importance of communication! Why is communication important?
What is the importance of communication? The importance of communication is talking about what is going on or what can it be fixed? To me, communicating about what's going on and fixing it is much better than keeping it inside and not talking about it at all! Not fixing the problem is going to be much worse and it can lead into problems in relationships or friendships! Always discuss things with the people who you love! Why is communication important? I think the reason why communication is important because when you bottle things up inside, it can lead to so many problems and if you don't communicate with your significant other or your friend or even your family about it, it is going to lead to problems and that is not good at all! Fix the problem or it is going to lead into bigger problems!!
The word "miscommunication".
When I think about the word "miscommunication", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "miscommunication", the thought that comes to mind is how much it can lead to so many problems? When someone miscommunicate something to you, it can lead to arguing and fighting and you should avoid that at all cost! When you miscommunicate your problems to someone and they take it as something as, y'all should discuss the matter of the situation and fix the problem! Don't leave the problems unsolved because if you leave those things unsolved, it can lead to bigger problems! Don't miscommunicate problems with people who care about! They are willing to listen to you and be there for you!
Why?
Why does it come to mind like that? The reason it came to mind like that is because when there is a miscommunication issue, you should always fix it! You should always talk out the problems with the people who you love because if you leave things not fixable, chances are every time y'all are going to talk, things could potentially blow up and that's not good at all! I rather fix things with people than walking away from the situation unsolved! To me, fixing things is much better than leaving things unsolved! Fixing things is much better to me!! That's just my opinion! Don't leave things unsolved!
3 ways!
What are 3 ways to fix the miscommunication problem? There can be many ways to fix the miscommunication problem but the 1st way to fix a miscommunication is to talk about it! Discuss the problem or what is causing the problem! The 2nd way to fix a miscommunication problem after discussing the issue is talk about how someone can fix the issue! After figuring what the problem is, find out ways to fix it! Talk about what is going on in the relationship or how you and your significant other can fix the relationship or you and a family member can fix the relationship! After figuring out what the issue is and what is going on in the relationship, the 3rd and final way to fix a miscommunication is to hug it out and tell someone how much you love them and you will tell them that you will communicate with them better! Things are so much better when you talk things out and hug it out! Don't leave the situation mad at at each other! Just fix things while you can!!
Why?
Why are those 3 ways to fix the miscommunication problem? The 1st reason why is to talk about it because when you talk about what is going on, you feel much better telling that person what is going on and you feel much better not having build up in your heart! The 2nd reason why is to discuss how to fix the issue is because when you discuss what the issue is, you can fix it head on and discuss it without any issues at all!! I rather talk about what is going on or what the issue is than leave it! The 3rd and final reason why you should hug it out and tell them that you love them and you will communicate with them better is because after talking about what is going on and how you should fix it, once that is done, telling that person you love them and that you will communicate with them better is much better than fighting and leaving things unsolved! For me, I am that type person where if I see a problem, I need to fix immediately! I can't stand when I leave things unsolved! When me and my boyfriend have a miscommunication issue, I will tell him "let's fix this" and we always fix the issue! Always fix the issues because it can cause an argument and arguments aren't good at all! Always discuss the issues!!
My advice!
What is my advice to anyone who is having a miscommunication problem? To all of my Blogger Dreamers who might be having a miscommunication problem with your significant other or anyone in your family, my advice is always talk out your problems with them! Don't leave until problem is resolved and y'all are good again! Always talk about the problems that y'all are having! Talk about what is going instead of going to bed angry at one another! Don't do something that you might regret later on because what if something bad happens and you will think to yourself "I should of gotten things right with that person". Don't go to bed angry because it is not good for your mental health! Always discuss things!
Why?
Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when you leave things not in good terms, it can hurt you and that's not good at all! When you and your partner are having problems in y'all's relationship, discuss what is the problem is and figure out how to fix because if you go ahead and fix it now, it is better resolved and y'all can quit arguing about it! Don't argue with someone who you love because something bad can happen within an instant and you will regret something that you wish you didn't do! Always tell the person that you love them after an argument because if you tell them that you are truly sorry and that you will do better, it shows them reassurance to their mind! Always give that person a reassurance to their mind because it show them that you care! Show that person that you care and you will do better by communicating your problems better!
In conclusion/ Tip of the day!
In conclusion, always have open communication with the person or people that you love because if you don't, it can lead to miscommunication problems and fighting and non of that is not good at all! Miscommunication is the worst thing ever because when you discuss how you are feeling or what is going on in your life, people are going to assume everything fine when deep down, nothing is fine! Don't let your problems consume you because that is not good for you at all! At times, me and my boyfriend will have miscommunication issues but we always communicate what is going on because I feel like with my boyfriend, we can discuss about anything and he understands me very well! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is always discuss what is the issue is within your relationships or friendships because whatever it is going on within those relationships or friendships, it is better to resolve it now than later! I love y'all!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! The moral of today's blog episode is always communicate with your significant other or someone within your friend group or family because it can lead to really big arguments and that cannot be good at all! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "I see everybody's aura fading. They can't be themselves without being anxious. I was afraid to be judged so I hide amongst the regular". -Rocket (Seventeen). I would say this hits hard because there has been times where I couldn't be myself because I feel like people would judge me and it made me anxious but I came to realize it is okay to be who I am! Always be yourself, no matter what what! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have an amazing day or had a good day! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog episode where I will be talking about my poem "focusing on yourself". I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜
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Today's quote of the day!! Never be anxious by being yourself! Always be proud to be yourself, no matter what!!  And what is meant and not said. Most love is lost". -Khalid Gibran! I love this quote a lot because when someone said something completely, love be can lost and that is not good at all!  distance between two people is misunderstanding". -Unknown! I love this quote a lot because sometimes, there be some misunderstanding and that is not good at all! Fix the misunderstanding!!  avoided by the simple act of asking someone what they mean or how they feel instead of assuming". -Unknown! I love this quote because when you think you know how a person is feeling, in reality, you don't because you are just assuming! Don't assume how a person is feeling! Ask them how they are feeling!! Here is this week's song of the week! I love this song a lot because it is upbeat but also soft at the same time which I love! Such a good song!! |
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