Wednesday, November 15, 2023

Blog: A birthday tribute to my dad!! Blog by Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 11/15/23!!

                                              💙 Blog: A birthday tribute to my dad!! Blog by Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 11/15/23!! 💚 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today where on this blog page, I talk about anything from my poems to anything that comes to my mind! First and further more, how are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever you are going through right now, you are just going though a bad storm in your life! You will get through it and please, don't give up! I am rooting for you! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I analyzed the song "Painting in the rain" by Todrick Hall, blog by Brandee Marie Darden! When I listen to the song and think about the lyrics, I think about the times where I would be held back or I was afraid of standing up for myself but now, I am not afraid to stand up for myself! If y'all would love to read that blog from Monday, please go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! For today's blog episode, I will doing a birthday tribute to my dad! This blog episode is not just a regular blog episode but to me, this blog is special because it is for my dad! In today's blog episode, I will be talking about if I could describe my dad in 3 words, what would those words be? Why would I describe my dad in those 3 words? What makes my dad an amazing dad that he is? Why do those things make my dad an amazing dad that he is? What is the one lesson that I learned from my dad? Why did I learned that lesson from my dad? Now, without any further ado, let's jump into a new blog episode and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

What makes my dad so special? Why does that thing make my dad so special? 

What makes my dad so special? I think what makes my dad so special is how strong and how funny he is! No matter what he is going through, he always remain strong for me and the people around him! He will make you laugh within an instant! My dad has been a special person in my life and no matter what I do in life, he is always supporting me, no matter what! My dad is special to me and no matter what, I will forever always be his little girl!! Why does that thing make my dad so special? I think the reason why how strong and how funny my dad can be is because he doesn't talk people's crap and he will always be there for you, no matter what and he would do anything to make you smile and for me, he can make me smile more than anything! He is an amazing dad and I couldn't be more blessed to have a dad like him!

3 words that I could describe my dad! 

If I could describe my dad in 3 words, what would those 3 words be? If I could describe my dad, the 1st word would be great! My dad has always been a great dad since the day I could remember! My dad was there for me when no one else was and I appreciate him so much! The 2nd word that I could describe my dad is funny! My dad can make you laugh so hard, like no one could ever do! My dad has this sense of humor and I love that about him! The 3rd and final word that I could describe my dad is caring! My dad has a caring heart! He cares about others and he will always care about other people! He cares about me when my other parent never cared about me! My dad is the most caring dad in the world and I am so blessed to have a caring dad in the world!!


Why?

Why would I describe my dad in those 3 words? The 1st word that I describe my dad is great and the reason why I described him as great is because he can cook great and he is a great person over all! The 2nd word that I describe my dad is funny and the 2nd reason why I would describe him as funny is because when he laughs, it is so funny that you can't help but laugh your butt off! He has this sense of humor that if he says something funny, you can't help but laugh and I am thinking that is where I got my sense of humor from my dad!! The 3rd and final word that I would describe my dad is caring and the 3rd and final reason why I would describe my dad caring is because he would do anything for anyone! Throughout my 25 years of living, he made sure that I was taking care of along with my nephew or anyone who he cared about! My dad is the most caring person who you will ever meet! He might looked imitating at first but once you get to know him, he is a good guy! You think you might be scared of him but he is not that scary! He is just a big teddy bear who has a soft heart! He even cried at my baptism which is rare for him to do! He is such an amazing dad and I am so blessed that God gave me a dad like him!! He is a wonderful dad!! 


Makes my dad an amazing dad? 

What makes my dad an amazing dad that he is? I think what makes my dad an amazing dad is how much he cares about me and he will take the time to learn about my dislikes and likes are! I feel like it is important to learn about your children and what they like or dislikes and for my dad, I remember him watching "RuPaul's drag race" with me and he was learning that I liked that show and for him to watch it with me, it is good to know that he was learning what I like and didn't like! He didn't care if I listened to Kpop music in the car because he knew that I like that type of music! My dad is a type of dad where he has a few rules but he isn't that strict at all! My dad is kind of lay back but he is the type of a person who wants best for you and I don't mind having dad who is very supportive and loving! I love having an amazing dad who will do anything for me!

Why?

Why do those things make my dad an amazing dad that he is? I think the reason why those things make my dad an amazing dad that he is because when he was learning about my likes and dislikes, he knew what I liked or what I didn't like and with him, he didn't care what I liked as long as I was happy about what I liked, he didn't care! My dad took care of me when I didn't have one parent in my life! My dad made sure that I had everything for school and he made sure that I am well taking care of! My dad was that dad where he was playing both the mom and dad and for him, I love that about him! He made sure if I was okay, he was okay to!! My dad is my best friend and will always be my best friend, no matter what! No matter how old I get, I will always be his little girl, no matter what and I am okay with that!!


The one lesson that I learned from my dad! 

What is the one lesson that I learned from my dad? If I could pick one lesson from my dad, it would have to be if you can't be nice to someone, don't be nice at all! That has always stuck with me! If you can't be nice to someone, don't be nice at all! If you can't be nice to that one person who has been there for you and always stuck at your side, don't be nice to someone who isn't there for you! My dad raised me to be kind to others even when they aren't nice to me at all but if they aren't nice to me, I just walk away from the toxicity from that person!! My dad raised me to be kind, not someone who is mean! I don't have a mean bone in my body! I always want to treat others with kindness because I believe in treating people with kindness is important because if you treat someone with kindness, you are most likely are going to get it back!!

Why?

Why did I learned that lesson from my dad? The reason why I learned that lesson from my dad is because my dad raised me to be the young lady that I am and he taught me if you can't be nice to someone, don't be nice to them at all and I realized that if someone can't be nice to me, I will just walk away from the situation and I will gladly walk away from someone who doesn't know how to be nice to me! I will walk away because I will not tolerate someone who can't be nice to me! If you are going to disrespect me, I don't need you in my life! You are just a waste of my time who doesn't care about me! I am going to keep that lesson from my dad and always apply it to my life!! 


In closing/ Question of the day?

In closing, happy birthday to the most amazing dad in the entire world! I'm so blessed to have a dad who is amazing, caring, and loving! My dad would do anything to make sure that I am okay and to make sure that I am doing right in my life! He might get on my nerves but at the end of the day, you only get one dad and I am pretty happy with the dad I have in my life! I wouldn't trade my dad for the world! Some people might not be as blessed like me but I know that there is someone who truly loves you whether it is a grandparent or a mom! I love my dad with all my heart and soul and I am always going to be a daddy's girl, no matter what! I am always going to cherish the memories that I have with him! There are times where he does get on my nerves but I still love him, no matter what! My question of the day is what is the one lesson that someone in your life that either your dad, mom, grandparent, or whoever raised you taught you? Why did you learned that lesson from that person? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know what kind of lesson that you learn! I would love to read y'all's comments and respond to them!! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode because I know that I did! This is the second blog episode that I did about my dad that landed on a blog day and I am so blessed that I get to do a blog about my dad because my dad is someone who has been there for me and cheer me on when I needed someone the most! My dad is my best friend and no matter how old I get, I will forever be daddy's little girl, no matter what! I will forever love my dad forever and always! For today's quote of the day, it is "No one is really busy. It all depends on what number you are on their priority list". -therandomvibez.com. I love this quote but I also find this quote very relatable because it doesn't matter how busy that person is but if they can make sometime or a priority for you, then you don't mean a lot to that person! You should always make time for others, no matter what! It doesn't matter how busy you are, what matters if you are there for them!! I love y'all so much! Have a great Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday and until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"! I will see y'all on Friday where I will be talking about things that stood out to me in 2023! Stay tuned for that! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌☮💙

Today's quote of the day! Such an amazing quote! I find it relatable a lot because if I am not on your priority list, then I guess I am not important to you!! 




Little Brandee with her dad when my dad was coaching softball!! I had my own jersey, shorts, and cleats!!! After the game was over, I would run around the fields! I was a cute little girl!! Love this picture so much! 


Me and my dad at my graduation in 2017! Also love this picture a lot!! 


Me and my dad's favorite picture ever! There is meaning behind this picture!! When my dad was being mean to my sister, Brandy I was getting on to him and at that right moment, my sister took that picture and to this day, I still love this picture!! This picture will always remain my favorite!! 




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