💔 My insecurities! Part 2! By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog episode: March 8th, 2023! 💔 
Intro to my blog!!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! How are my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing fine and well! If not, it's a new brand new day and we get to start fresh! When we have bad days, it's not the end of the world! We go to bed the night before and then, we get up the next morning and start fresh! We will have good days and bad days, but we will get through it no matter what! On Monday, I analyzed the song "Rescue" by Lauren Daigle which is the song of the week!! Every time I listen to this song, I think about the people who pulled me out of a funk in my life! I had rescued people from their funk in their life as well! For me, when I see people sad or upset or unhappy, I want to make sure that they are doing okay because I care about people so much!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about my insecurities part 2! In today's blog episode, I will be talking about since I got over my other insecurities, which insecurities am I still fighting? Why am I fighting over those insecurities? How am I going to fight over that insecurity or insecurities? Why am I going to fight over that insecurity or insecurities? To my Blogger Dreamers who are fighting over their insecurities, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice? Now, without any further ado, let's embark on this blogging adventure and get this new blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!
The word insecurity! How would I define the word, insecurity? Why would I define the word insecurity like that?
How would I define the word, insecurity? You can define the word, insecurity in so many ways! You can look it up in the dictionary, online, or the way I define is you are insecure about something physically or even mentally! When you don't you like something about yourself physically, it can hurt you so much! It can destroy your self-esteem and you can end up tearing yourself down which is not good! With mentally, you can think to yourself that "you're not good enough" and you can get insecure about that because everyone might be good at that one thing better than you and it hurts you that you can't do or get something that the other person can do! I struggle with math and for me, I feel a little insecure because everyone can be good at math but here I am and I struggle with it! Math is hard! Don't let your insecurities get to the best of you! Why would I define the word, insecurity like that? The reason why I define insecurity like that is because sometimes, people can feel insecure physically whether it is their appearance or the way they look in a certain outfit! The way you can feel insecure mentally is you can think "I look good today" but in another part of you can say "you don't look good today. Go take that outfit off", that can mess you up and you can be very insecure about it! Don't let your mind take you down!!
The insecurities that I am fighting with!
Since I got over my other insecurities, which insecurities am I still fighting? The first insecurity that I am still fighting is not feeling good about myself! I struggle with feeling good about myself! There are days where I think feel good about myself but then, there have been times where I'm like "I don't look good in this" and it is really hard for me because for me, I usually look good but sometimes my mind doesn't come to an agreement which stinks! My second insecurity that I am still fighting is dealing with the voices in my head! I get insecure about that a lot! If I tell someone about the voices in my head, they will tell me "fight it" and sometimes, I struggle with it! For example, last night before I got into my pajama's, I wore my new pajama set that I got at Walmart last week! When I was wearing the pajama set, I was a little hesitant to wear it and the voices where getting into my head and that was hard for me to handle but I fight off the best way that I could! The third and final insecurity that I deal with is doubting myself! No matter what I do whether it is blogging or something completely different, I am doubting myself! I get in my head so much and it is hard for me to doubt myself because sometimes, I feel like I am never good enough no matter what I do or what I am good at!!
Why am I fighting over those insecurities?
The reasons why I am fighting over those insecurities is because there have been times where I was not feeling good about myself and I get into my head way too much and that is hard for me! There has been times where I questioned myself if I am a good daughter, good sister, good friend, and even a good girlfriend! I even question myself my writing abilities and it is hard to questioned myself because I want to be good enough but at times, I don't feel good enough! With the voices in my head, it is so hard to get rid of them because when I am wearing a good outfit, sometimes I feel good about it or the there is a negative voice coming in and I feel insecure about it and for me, it's hard but I try to push through it! I have always doubted myself! This isn't a new insecurity but I am still fighting with it! Every time I work on my blog episode, I always doubt myself because I wonder if people are going to like it or if people are going to hate on it which for me it hard to deal with because I enjoy blogging but it is hard for me to continue to doubt myself but I want to stop doubting myself!! I really do!
How am I going to fight over that insecurity or insecurities? Why am I going to fight over that insecurity or insecurities?
How am I going to fight over that insecurity or insecurities? With my first insecurity which is not feeling good enough about myself and how I am going to fight over it is I will start writing down things that I love about myself and fix the things that I don't like about myself! The second insecurity that I have which is dealing with the voices in my head and how am I going to fight over it is I am going to try to ignore those voices and keep telling myself that I am good and that I am amazing! The third insecurity that I have which is doubting myself and how I am going to fight it is I am going to stop doubting myself and stop worrying what people think about my blogs and focus on how good I can make my blogs! Why am I going to fight over that insecurity or insecurities? The reason why I am going to fight over those insecurities is because I know that I am good enough, I just have to prove it to myself! I have to prove to myself that I need to ignore those voices in my head because if I continue to listen to them, it is going to bring me down and it is going to hurt me so much and I don't want to continue to hurt myself! I am also going to prove to myself that I can stop doubting myself that I can show people how good my blogs are and that one day, I will be strong and show people that I got this!! If I show people that I got over these insecurities, then I can show people that they can do it as well!! Never give up!!
My advice!
To my Blogger Dreamers who are fighting over their insecurities, what is my advice? To my Blogger Dreamers who are fighting over their insecurities, here is your advice: Whatever you are fighting with whether it is doubting yourself or you don't like your appearance or you are listening to the voices in your head, don't let doubting yourself tear you down because you are amazing! Whatever you don't like your appearance, you look amazing just the way you are! To my ladies out there, y'all are gorgeous and y'all are goddesses! To my guys out there, y'all are amazing! Don't let no man or ladies tear you down because y'all don't deserve that! Don't listen to the voices in your head because if you, it is going to make you feel worse and I don't want my Blogger Dreamers feel worse about themselves! Y'all are amazing and you are loved! If someone doesn't love you for who you are, then I love you for who you are! Don't change for someone because your body looks different or get plastic surgery for someone who doesn't like you, but do it for you and that's it! Don't change who you are because someone told you that your nose looks awful! Don't let anyone tear you down!
Why would I give that advice?
The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because sometimes, your insecurities can get to you and they can bring you down which is hard for someone because if you are judging yourself for your own appearance, that's hard for you or someone is telling you to change your appearance, then you are getting your head and you are starting to feel insecure about yourself! Don't let anyone bring you down or don't listen to the voices in your head because if you continue to listen to those voices in your head, it will bring you down and you will feel insecure about it and I don't want my Blogger Dreamers to ever feel insecure and I want them to love themselves for who they are!
In closing/ Tip of the day/ Challenge of the day!!
In closing, dealing with insecurities can be a difficult thing to deal with on a daily basis because you are dealing with the voices in your head or you might be hearing it from other people which can be hard because people can be so mean and cruel to other people and sometimes when people are mean to other people or people are judging other people for the way dress or how their bodies look, you are bringing their self-esteem down and that is not good for them! Here is my tip and challenge of the day!! My tip of the day if you see someone bullying other people and bringing their self-esteem down, you go stop them and you turn to the person and them "you look amazing" because that make their entire day special! My challenge of the day is write down however many insecurities that you have and you write how you are going to fight those insecurities! I am praying that my Blogger Dreamers do the challenge! I love y'all so much!!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! Just remember that you can fight your insecurities! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers! Y'all are much better than someone telling you that you're ugly because you're not ugly! Don't listen to people because people are mean! Don't listen to your voices in your head because you are much better than that! You are good enough! Please, don't doubt that! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "A Lion Doesn't Lose Sleep Over The Opinion of Sheep". -Unknown. I love this quote so much because when someone tells you their opinion about you or someone else, they are just a bunch of sheep telling you about their opinions about certain things and you shouldn't loose sleep over that because it's not worth it! People are stupid and you shouldn't loose sleep over that! I love y'all and I will see y'all on the next blog where I will be talking about how life can be a challenge? Until next time, happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday and remember: "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"! Stay fabulous and stay you! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌💛
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Today's quote of the day! I love this quote so much! Such an amazing quote!! I love it a lot!! Good Enough About Yourself, Being Good Enough For Somebody Else Will Be The Least Of Your Concerns". -Unknown. I love this quote because if you focus on yourself and make yourself good enough for you, don't worry about being good enough for someone else!!  To Talk To Me". -Unknown! I love this quote because sometimes when you get into your head a lot, there is a lot of voices who want to talk to you and sometimes, those voices like to bring you down and that's hard sometimes!!  Cause Of Your Own Pain, Forgive, Accept, And Love Yourself". -Akirouq Brost! I love this quote so much because when you doubt yourself, you are putting yourself through pain and you need to forgive and accept that when you are doubting yourself, people are putting you down and you need learn that it hurts and you need to move on and love yourself! Don't doubt yourself!! |
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