How life can be a challenge? By: Brandee Darden.

                                             Blog topic: How life can be a challenge? By: Brandee Darden. Date of blog: 3/10/23!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! How is my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing fine and well! If not, that's okay because we are going to get through it no matter what! Life is hard and I understand that but we can't give up! Before I talk about today's blog episode, I will be talking about Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about my insecurities part 2! Dealing with insecurities is so hard, especially if you are insecure with your body or if you are self doubting yourself at times! If any of my Blogger Dreamers are dealing with insecurities, you can fight through them no matter what! You got this! I believe in y'all! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about how life can be a challenge? In this blog episode, I will be talking about in my opinion, what are things that make life so challenging? Why in my opinion does those things make life challenging? How do I get through life that is challenging me? Why do I do that thing to get through life that is challenging me? If I have any advice about things that are challenging such as life, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice? Now, let's embark the blogging journey and jump into a new adventure so we can get started on a new blog episode! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about my life challenges! Why would I talk about my life challenges?  

What life challenges have I been through in my life? The first challenge that I have been through in my life is bullying! Throughout school or through my family, I have been bullied because of my weight! To me, when someone bullies someone else, that is low and mean! It hurts other people and it hurt me a lot! I got through though which I am proud of myself! The second challenge that I have been through in my life is almost committing suicide! That is not something that I am not proud of! Around my middle school or when I graduated from high school, I felt suicidal and I am not proud of that but that was a life challenge that I got through and I am so lucky that I did! The third and final life challenge that I have been through in my life is going through heartbreaks! I had plenty of heartbreaks through my life and those heartbreaks challenge me in life but I go through it and I am so proud of myself! Why would I talk about my life challenges? The reason why I would talk about my life challenges is because if people went through the same life challenges as me then they would see if I got through it, then you can get through it! Being bullied or feeling suicidal or having your heartbreak shouldn't be apart of your life, but sometimes when you are being bullied or feeling suicidal or even a heartbreak is apart of life and we need to get through it, no matter what! 

My opinions about what makes life challenging? 

In my opinion, what are things that make life so challenging? I think the first thing that makes life challenging is if someone has depression or any mental health issues! When someone is dealing with depression or any mental health issues, it makes it hard for someone to get out of bed everyday because there would be times that they don't want to get out of bed which so sad! Depression can drain you so much! The second thing that makes life challenging is the weight of the world! My Blogger Dreamers is probably wondering, "Brandee, what do you mean by that"? Well, my Blogger Dreamers- what I mean by that is when tells you there problems and then, dealing with your own problems, it can be a life challenge at times! When you are trying to help someone but you want to help yourself, it can be draining at times which is so hard on you! It feels when someone tells you their problems and it feels the weight of the world is on you because they expect you to help and give them the best advice that you can but when you give them advice, sometimes it can be hard for them to take it because sometimes, people don't like getting advices but sometimes, people just have to deal with it! The third and final thing that makes life challenging is people pleasing other people! Yes, I know people who want to please other people and in life, you shouldn't have to please other people! That's not your job to please other people and don't put that challenge on yourself!! It will make your life a challenge if you continue to please other people! Don't do that! 

Why in my opinion does those things make life challenging? 

Why in my opinion does those things make life challenging? The first reason why that thing makes life challenging which is if someone has depression or any other mental health issues is because when someone has depression, they never want to get out of bed! They feel sad and it's not their fault that they are going through that or if someone has anxiety, they feel like if they go into a store with a lot of people, they might start to freak out because there is a lot of noise and when I go into somewhere like a store, I just want to get out of there because there is a lot of people and I tend to freak out inside because I don't like being in there or I start sweat and get hot! The second thing that can make life challenging is weight of the world and the reason why I said that is because when someone people expect you to do something for them or they expect you to help them with their problems but what they don't understand is you are dealing with your own problems and when you are trying to get through your problems, you are also helping another person's problems which life is challenging at times when you are dealing with your problems and another person's problems! The third and final reason why that thing makes life challenging which is people pleasing other people and the reason that makes life challenging is because people expect to always please other people or society expects us to dress how we should dress and we are expect to please others but the only person that you need to please is yourself, that's it!! Don't please other people!!

How do I get through life that is challenging me? Why do I do that thing to get through life that is challenging me? 

How do I get through life that is challenging me? The way I get through life that is challenging me is when life is getting hard or throwing challenges at me, I listen to music and think about the happiest moments in my life! When I listen to music and think about the lyrics, I feel like I can battle through everything and I know that I can get through a challenge that life throw at me! If I believe that I can do it, then my Blogger Dreamers can do it! Life is hard and challenging times but if someone throws me a challenge, I will try to handle it the best way that I can handle!! Why do I do that thing to get through life that is challenging me? The reason why I listen to music and think about the happiest moments in my life is because when I listen to music or think about my happiest in my life, I feel much better and when you are handling something hard in life, it can mentally drain you and that's not good! When you feel mentally drained, it can take a mental toll on you and it is so hard on you! For me, listening to music and thinking about happy thoughts help me get through life because life is a pain in the butt and it can hurt sometimes!!

My advice! Why would I give that advice?

If I have any advice about things that are challenging such as life, what is my advice? If I have any advice about things that are challenging such as life, my advice is just take it a day at a time! Life is hard and life is challenging, but you can't give up because if you give up, people are around you are going to give up as well! Never give up because there is so much worth to life than just giving up! You have so much worth to give in this world that if I can't give up, then you can't give up! There are people who are cheering you on and I am one of those people! Please, don't give up! You got this! Just take a day at a time because life is worth living! Why would I give that advice? The reason why I would give that advice is because life is worth living and yes, you might have a job that might be hard or someone in friend group or your family even that might be giving you a hard time, but at the end of the day, you can do it because if I can do it, y'all can do it! Don't give up fighting because if you keep fighting, you will be worth it at the end! Fight for your life and you will get through it!! 

In closing/ tip of the day!! 

In closing, life is a challenging thing that we go through everyday! We go through mental health issues, physical issues, or whatever is going through our mind everyday! When people deal with mental health issues such as depression or anxiety or even both, it can be hard on a person because they put on this "fake" smile because at the end of the day, they crying behind close doors and sometimes, I will put on a fake smile because I don't want people to know that I am hurting and why I am hurting! People who might of gotten hurt from a car accident or they might have a torn muscle, it hurts them to get through life everyday because they might be hurting and that stinks for them that they are hurting! Pain can hurt people and when you see people in your life who you love and care about and they might be crying or hurting, all you want to do is comfort them the best way that you can! Life is hard but whatever challenge God throws at you, you can get through it! For today's tip of the day, it goes like this: Don't give up because yes, life has its challenges, but you get through it! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers! Please, whatever y'all do, don't give up because this Blogger Queen loves you so much!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's I, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope everyone understands that no matter how hard life can get at times, we can't give up! Before I forget or let it slip out of my mind, next week, I will be taking a break and there won't be new blogs but don't worry, I will be coming back soon! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Inside A Person You Know, There Is A Person You Don't Know". -Unknown. I love this quote a lot because you might know that person very well, but deep down inside, you might not know what they are hiding like a secret or what they are going through in life! I hope everyone enjoyed this blog episode and I hope everyone will have a great or had a great day! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I will see y'all on Monday, March 20th on my Makeup slash fashion blog page! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and this Blogger Queen will see y'all again soon! Peace! I love y'all! ✌💜

"Life's challenges 
are not supposed 
to paralyze you; 
they're supposed 
to help you discover
who you are".
-Bernice Johnson Reagon. I love this quote a lot because life challenges are supposed to help you! You shouldn't be afraid of something that could potentially shape you as a different person! 

Today's quote of the day! I love this quote so much! Such an amazing quote and I love it a whole lot! You don't know what that person can be hiding until you find out from another person, so be careful!!

"No matter how 
much it hurts
now, someday 
you will look 
back and realize 
your struggles 
changed your 
life for the better". 
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because when you go through those struggles in your life, you did it! You got through it and you should be proud of yourself because you didn't give up!! 

My tiktok that I did about How life can be a challenge? 

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! This week's song of the week, I chose "Rescue" by Lauren Daigle because I love this song so much and it holds so much meaning to which I love so much!! I pray that my Blogger Dreamers love this song as well! I love y'all and stay safe!!