The fear of rejection!

                                  💔   The fear of rejection! Blog episode by: Brandee Marie Darden. Friday, September 23rd, 2022!! 💔 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the queen herself, it's Brandee Darden! Welcome back to a new blog episode! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Just take it a day at a time! On my latest blog, I talked about fear of abandonment! When you or someone has a fear of abandonment, it makes you not want to trust someone because the person who you used to trust before, broke it and abandoning  you because they didn't want nothing to deal with you anymore which sucks!! Being abandoned stinks and it is not a good feeling at all! On today's blog episode, I will be talking about the fear of rejection by yours truly, Brandee Marie Darden. I will be talking about on Monday, I talked about how to deal with rejection and with fear of rejection, how hard can it be dealing with the fear of rejection? Why dealing with the fear of rejection can be hard at times? When you have a fear of being rejected by a school you want to go to or there is a job that you always wanted but you are worried about being rejected, how can that affect your mindset? Why can that thing affect your mindset? If I have any advice about having a fear of rejection, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers?? Now, without a further ado, let's get started!! Shall we? We shall!! #newblogiscoming!! 

The fear of rejection! When I think about the words, "fear of rejection", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind? 

When I think about the words, fear of rejection, what comes to mind? When I think about the words "fear of rejection", the first thing that comes to mind is having a fear of rejection! Picture this: When you have a crush on someone and when you thought that it was your time to ask your crush on a date, but all of sudden, your crush says the word "no". That totally leaves you broken hearted and sad! Here is another scenario: Imagine applying a job that you have always dreamed about! You are filling out the paperwork and everything and you went for your interview! You thought you nailed the interview! Right? Nope because the next day, you got a call saying that "you didn't get the job". It leaves you really sad because you were looking forward to getting that job or even going on a date with your crush, but it didn't happen because you got rejected! Being rejected stinks and it doesn't feel good at all! When you have that fear of rejection, it can scare you and it makes you think to yourself, "I'm not going to get this job. They are not going to hire me". When you get into a negative mindset, it affects you a lot! Why does it come to mind? The reason why it comes to mind is because when you have this fear of rejection and it is scary! You don't want to be rejected by all means but at the same time, you get nervous and anxious because you either want your crush to like you or you want the job that you want so bad.

How hard can it be dealing with the fear of rejection? Why dealing with the fear of rejection can be hard at times? 

On Monday, I talked about how to deal with rejection and with fear of rejection, how hard can it be dealing with the fear of rejection? People deal with fear rejection very differently! Some people deal with it calmly or some people break down and cry or even freak out! When dealing with rejection, I tend to freak out and panic! I don't like to be rejected but it is apart of life and you have to accept it or not. Dealing with rejection isn't easy but at the end of the day, you have to accept that job isn't meant for you or your crush might not like you in a romantic way, but y'all were meant to be friends and that's it!! Why dealing with the fear of rejection can be hard at times? I think dealing with the fear of rejection can be hard at times because when you live in fear of "oh! Someone isn't going to like me because I look quirky" or "What if I can't do the job right". You should never live in fear of rejection because it is not good for you and you should be proud of who you are, not afraid to be who you are!! 

How can that affect your mindset? Why can that thing affect your mindset? 

When you have a fear of being rejected by a school you want to go to or there is is a job that you always wanted but you are worried about being rejected, how can that affect your mindset? When you get into a mindset where you like "No one isn't going to like me. The job interview is going to go wrong. I just know it" and stuff like that, you are entering yourself into a negative mindset where you are feeling negative about yourself and you are putting yourself down! Never ever put yourself down and never doubt yourself! Never put those negative thoughts in your head! Why can that thing affect your mindset? The reason why the negative thoughts in your head can affect your mindset is because you are self sabotaging yourself that you won't get the job or if you crush will like you! Who knows? You and your crush might have something in common but you never know because you are putting these negative thoughts into your brain and you are putting yourself down! Don't put yourself down and never self sabotage yourself because it's not worth it!

My advice! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers??  

If I have any advice about having a fear of rejection, what is my advice? If I have any advice about having a fear of rejection, my advice is let that fear go! If you didn't get that dream job that you have always wanted or if your crush doesn't like you, then that's the company's lost and your crush's fault for rejecting you, not yours. Don't ever self sabotage yourself because it's not worth it! Don't ever be afraid of being rejected because if you get rejected, it might hurt for a little while but at the end of the day, at least you tried and you tried your best! That's all that matters!! Don't self sabotage yourself! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because if you self sabotage yourself, you are basically setting yourself up for failure and you don't want to do that! It's not even worth it! Everyone gets rejected every once in a while and that's okay! If that company doesn't want you, that's fine! Move on from that company and don't cry over it because you got rejected! Find a different company that deserves you and if your crush doesn't like you, move on from them and find someone who does like you for who you are! Don't settle for less because you don't deserve that!! Be proud of who you are!! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day!! 

In conclusion, having a fear of rejection can be hard at times but everyone needs to realize that we all get rejected from something whether it is from a job offering or even a crush who might not like you romantically but that's okay because you deserve someone who likes you for who you are or find a company who sees your work ethic! If that company doesn't see your work ethic just from your resume, then that's their lost! Not yours! There is plenty of job offerings around you and don't be afraid being rejected because that is apart of life! Never give up and don't feel defeated!! Here is my tip of the day!! My tip of the day is don't self sabotage yourself and never be afraid of rejection because you will get rejected but that's fine because you are strong and you don't need to give up! You got this and hang your head way high and don't show everyone that you are sad because you are strong and you got this!!! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers!! Never give up!! 

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers!! It's the Blogger Queen here to tell y'all that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! Just know that being rejected is apart of life and just know if y'all get rejected, just know that y'all are amazing and don't give up because I love y'all!! Never give up!! For today's bible verse, it goes something like this: "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." -Proverbs 4:23. I love this bible verse so much because you should always protect your heart at all cost! Guard it from getting your heart broken because you don't deserve to get your heart broken! None of my Blogger Dreamers do! Always protect your heart no matter what! I love y'all so much and I hope everyone will have a great weekend ahead! Please, stay safe and always remember our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams"!! I love y'all and I will see y'all on my makeup and fashion blog page where I will be talking about Jin and Namjoon's fashion, Suga and J-Hope's outfits, and BlackPink's outfits from their music video, "Pink Venom". Stay tuned for those blogs next week!! Have a great weekend and Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! 💜✌

Bible verse of the day! I love this bible verse so much!! Always protect your heart no matter what!!! 

"Fear of rejection is 
holding you back". 
-Unknown. I love this quote because don't let rejection hold you back! Never let rejection get you down! It's not worth it!!

"Rejection Doesn't 
Mean That You 
Aren't Good 
Enough. It Means 
The Other Person 
Failed To Notice 
What You Have 
To Offer."
-Mark Amend. I love this quote because if the person fails to see how nice you are or if the company sees how hard working you, it shows they notice nothing about you and it shows that they don't care about how nice you are or how hard working you are!! 

"The Fear of 
Rejection Is 
Worse Than 
Rejection 
Itself". 
-Nora Profit. I love this quote because the fear of rejection can be quite scary and be rejected can be a difficult thing to overcome but at the end of the day, my Blogger Dreamers can overcome it!! 

To end today's blog episode, let's end the blog with the song of the week which is "Left and Right" by Charlie Puth featuring Jungkook from BTS! I love this song so much! Such an amazing song and it has a good tempo to the song as well!! I love it so much! 

The fear of abandonment. By: Brandee Marie Darden.

                                         💔 The fear of abandonment. Blog episode by: Brandee Marie Darden. Wednesday, September 21st, 2022!! 💔 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers and welcome back to a all new blog episode! I'm so happy to have my fandom back on a Wednesday or in other countries, a happy Thursday! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! It's a brand new day and it's a new blog kind of a day! Before I talk about today's blog episode, let's talk about Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about how to deal with rejection? When someone rejects you or even a job rejects you, that hurts! I have been rejected before and it is not a good feeling at all! My only advice about getting rejected is if someone rejects you, just know that you are much better without that person and there are better jobs for you! Everything will be okay!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about a subject that hit home for me which is the fear of abandonment! Yes, this subject does hit home for me because I know what it is like to be abandoned and it doesn't feel good at all! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about having a fear of abandonment, what does it make me think of? Why does it make me think of that thing or things? In my opinion, where does my fear of abandonment come from?? Why does my fear of abandonment come from that? If I have any advice about being abandoned, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without further ado, let's get started with a new blog episode! Shall we? We shall!! Happy Blog Wednesday!! 

What does feeling abandoned like? Why does feeling abandoned like that? 

What does feeling abandoned like? Feeling abandoned is like when you see a house that is empty for so long that someone abandoned it and it looks dirty or when a dog can't find its owner because the owner abandoned it. That is what feeling abandoned is like! Feeling abandoned makes you feel sad and alone that it feels like you have no one to trust, love, or support you which is so sad. I feel like everyone deserves love and be supported. No one should ever not feel loved or supported because everyone deserves that and if no one doesn't love you or supported you, well I am here for you and I will gladly take you under my wing!! Why does feeling abandoned like that? The reason why feeling abandoned is like abandoning a house or even a dog because it feels like no one wants to take care of the house or a dog! Taking care of a dog or even house is a big responsibility and if you got that house or even a pet, why in the heck would you abandon it? It is hard to be abandon by someone who you thought they loved you but they obviously didn't because they wouldn't stopped loving you and wouldn't stop caring about you! If you ever feel abandoned and not loved, this Blogger queen is here and she cares about you so much!! Never forget that, Blogger Dreamers!! 

What does it make me think of? Why does it make me think of that thing or things?? 

When I think about having a fear of abandonment, what does it make me think of? When I think about having a fear of abandonment, several things comes to my mind!! The first thing that comes to my mind when it comes to having a fear of abandonment is when you a family member or even a parent who would be there for you one minute and then, the next minute, they are not there for you and they have abandoned you! That is the most hurtful thing in the world! When I think about having a fear of abandonment, the second thing that comes to my mind is when your friends where talking to one minute and then, the second thing you know, they stopped completely talking to you! When your friends were talking to you one minute and the next minute, they stopped talking to you and they completely forgot about you! That is hurtful! It hurts because I had that happened to me before! It is not a good feeling at all! When I think about having a fear of abandonment, the third and final thing is when you feel like you can't trust or depend on and those people who you thought you could trust and depend on, completely abandoned you! I had people who I thought I could trust and depend on when I need help, but they abandoned me and it is so hurtful! When those people completely left me and abandoned me, I was hurt and I thought I could trust them, but they showed me that I can't! Why does it make me think of that thing or things? The reason why I thought of having a fear of abandonment and why those things came to my mind is because when you felt abandoned, you feel alone and it sucks when you feel alone! That is how I felt at times when I felt abandoned! I felt alone and I felt like I didn't have any friends who I couldn't trust but I do but at the same time, not really!! 

My opinion! Why does my fear of abandonment come from that? 

In my opinion, where does my fear of abandonment come from?? I think my fear of abandonment comes from my friends and certain people walking in and out of my life! I had people walk in and out of life that I was scared of them abandoning me! I was scared that they were going to walk out of my life completely and stopped talking to me!! I was scared that everyone will forget about me and never talk to me ever again! I had people stopped talking to me and that hurt me so much! My fear of abandonment hurts me so much and it sucks! I feel like I have come "clingy" to some of my friends that I am afraid that my friends might leave me because I become clingy to them! I hate feeling alone but I like be alone but I am scared of people leaving me. Why does my fear of abandonment come from that? The reason why my fear of abandonment come from that is because I had people walk in and out of my life and it sucked so bad! I have this fear where if I make any new friends, they might leave me and it felt like they have abandoned me which would hurt me so much! I don't want to become clingy to those friends that I already have and them leave me as well! It would hurt me a lot!! 

My advice! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers?? 

If I have any advice about being abandoned, what is my advice? If I have any advice about being abandoned, my advice is yes, it is going to hurt for a while but you need to realize if those people that you thought you could trust and depend on, you thought wrong! If those people chose to walk out on your life and chose to abandoned you, you don't need those people! You can't trust those people and those people left you! I know it hurts, but you don't need those people in your life anymore! Those people are horrible and awful! Don't depend on people who are going to walk out in your life!! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I know what is like to feel abandoned and I know what is like  to have people who walked out of my life! Yes, it hurt me but at the end of the day, I realized that I don't need those people and apparently, those people don't need me because they seem fine without me which is hard for me to say, but it is the honestly truth!! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?? 

In conclusion; yes, I do have a fear of abandonment! I can't help it that when people walk out of my life, I tend to feel hurt and betrayed because those people hurt me and they left me! Sometimes, I over think that I am clingy to my friends because I am scared that they might leave me which is terrifying to me to think of! I don't want a friend or friends to walk out of my life and then, abandoned me! It is a scary thought to think of! Being abandoned sucks and it doesn't feel good at all! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is I know it hurts to have people who abandoned you, but you are going to see their true colors and you are going to see that you are much better without them in your life! Believe me! When I had certain people leave me, I was hurt but at the same time, I realized I was better without them in my life!! My question is to my friends who have known me for a long time, am I clingy or no? If so, what makes me clingy?? Another question of the day is, do you have a fear of abandonment? If so, where does your fear of abandonment come from? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all! Remember, you are never alone because I'm here! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your Blogger Queen here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! It hurts to be abandoned! Believe me, I know that feeling and it is the most hurtful feeling in the world! It feels like you have people around you but it doesn't in a way!! I am here for anyone to support them and be here to help them out in anyway! You are loved by this Blogger Queen!! For today's bible verse, it goes like this: "The Lord My God Lights My Darkness". -Psalm 18:28. I love this bible verse a lot because the Lord my God can lead me to the light and out of the darkness. If you believe that God can lead you out of the darkness and the funk that you have going on in your life, then he can lead you out of the darkness and lead you to the light! I hope everyone will have a great day or in other countries, a great evening! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Don't forget our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams". Stay safe and I will see y'all on Friday where I will be talking about the fear of rejection!! I love y'all and please, stay safe! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! 💜✌

The bible verse for today!! Such a beautiful bible verse for today!! I know the Lord, my God will lead me out of the darkness and into the light out of the funk that I am in!! 

"I feel forgotten and 
replaced and 
abandoned and 
betrayed and hated 
and worthless to 
everyone at this 
point.

I have no one". 
-Unknown. This quote is a representation of how I am feeling at times! When I am at lowest, I feel like I have no one and it sucks!! 

"Shes a little scared 
to get close to anyone 
because everyone that said 
"I'll always be here for you"
left".
-Unknown. A quote that I can relate to because I had people say to me "I'm always here for you and I will never leave you", but they ended up leaving me.

"I hate feeling 
unimportant to the 
people that are the
most important to me."
-Unknown. When I will be there for people, but when I need support, I have anyone and it hurts so much! I hate that feeling unimportant. It is so hurtful!! 

How to deal with rejection? By: Brandee Marie Darden.

                                        How to deal with rejection? Blog episode by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog episode: Monday, September 19th, 2022!! 

💜Intro to my blog!! 💙

Hello, my wonderful and amazing Blogger Dreamers! Welcome back to a all new blog episode! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday!! How is my wonderful Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Just take it a day at a time!! I hope everyone had a good weekend and if you didn't, that's okay because it is a brand new week and since it is a brand new week, that means new blogs! Yay!! I am so excited for new blogs but before we talk about this week's blogs, let's talk about last week's blogs! On my first blog page, I talked about my poem 9/11, analyzing the song, "Equal Sign" by J-Hope, and another one of my poems, "Dear people who hurt me". On Monday, I talked about my poem "9/11". On September 11th, it changed history forever! It was so sad what happened on that day! It was a terrorist attack that I wished it didn't happened! A lot of people lost their lives that day and people lost their sons, daughters, moms, dads, and so much more! Never take life for granted because you don't know what will happen until it actually happens! On Wednesday, I talked about the song "Equal Sign" by J-Hope, a band member and the sunshine of the group of BTS! I enjoy this song so much! When I listen to this song, it reminds me that it doesn't cost nothing to be nice! Always be kind to someone even if they are having a bad day! Be kind to one another and treat people how you want to be treated! Last but not least, I talked about my poem "Dear people who hurt me". That poem was dedicated to those people who hurt me! The people who weren't there for me through my hardest times or who said mean and awful things, this poem was for them and I hope and pray that the people who hurt me, I hope they understand hurting people is wrong! For this week's blogs, I will be talking about How to deal with rejection, the fear of abandonment, and last but not least, the fear of rejection!! Now without further ado, let's get started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! What is this blog going to be about? Why did I choose to talk about this type of a subject?? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week? 

What is this blog episode going to be about? This blog is going to be about how to deal with rejection? I am going to talk about when a person or a job rejects you and you feel sad about it, what are things that might cheer you up or in my case, might cheer me up? Why would those things cheer me up? If you asked some to go on a date and they say "no", how would you about that or how I would feel about it? Why would I react to how I feel about that rejection? If I have any advice about rejection or being rejected, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I choose to talk about this type of a subject? The reason why I choose to talk about this type of a subject is because I know the feeling of being rejected! Being rejected doesn't feel good at all! Not a good feeling! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I choose "Left and Right" by Charlie Puth featuring Jeon Jungkook aka JK from BTS! I love this song so much! It is such an amazing song and it has a good beat to it! Why did I choose this song for the week? I choose this song because when I first heard it for the first time, I thought it was amazing and it had a good beat to it! I love the music video to it so much! I think Charlie Puth is an amazing music artist and I love a song that he did with Wiz Khalifa which is called "See You Again" which is such a beautiful song! When I listen to that song, I cry because it makes me think about my grandpa, Flex because I miss him so much! I think Charlie Puth is a great singer and with him and JK's vocals, it was a great pairing!! 

The word "Rejection". When I think about the word "Rejection", comes to mind? Why does it come to mind? 

When I think about the word "rejection", comes to mind? When I think about the word "rejection", I think of being rejected by your dream job that you have always wanted or your dream college! Being rejected is so hard! It's like you asking out your crush out and they said "sorry but no". Like, that is so hard to handle! Being rejected is so hard and sometimes, it hurts to the core! Why does it come to mind? The reason why I think about "rejection" like that is because when you had this dream about going to your dream college but they rejected you, it hurts you so much that you felt defeated and you don't know what to do or you have dreamed about your future job as a nurse or even a news caster and you go applied for it and you had an interview for that job and they say "I'm sorry but you didn't get the job", to think about that you didn't get the job that you wanted, it hurts you to the core! You dreamed about this job since you were a little girl or little boy and it slipped through your fingers, but that's okay because you keep trying and you don't quit!! 

Cheer me up!! Why would those things cheer me up??

When a person or a job rejects you and you feel sad about it, what are things that might cheer you up or in my case, might cheer me up? If I ever get rejected which I have, the things that cheer me up is listening to music, talking to my friends, and listen to more music!! I actually have been rejected before and it hurt so much! I remember asking this guy to prom and he said no and that he had a date! I was bummed and so, I just listened to music, talked to my friends, and listen to more music! Being rejected is so hard and it stinks being rejected but you just have to go on with your life and don't need to give up! Why would those things cheer me up? The reason why listen to music, talking to my friends, and listen to more music would cheer me up is because I love listening to music and I love talking to my friends or family, whichever I am in the mood to talk to the most!! For me, music is the most calming thing ever and I think music is my best friend because when I listen to music, I feel calm but when I talk to some of my friends, I feel calm as well! I pray that I never get rejected from a job because if I do, then I will be listening to music!! 

My reaction to someone saying "no" to my date proposal. Why would I react to how I feel about that rejection? 

If you asked someone to go on a date and they say "no", how would you feel about that or how I would feel about it? For the guys, if you asked a girl or a guy for a movie date or a picnic and the girl said, "sorry, but no", you would feel pretty bummed! Would you? Probably so! For the ladies, you ask a guy or a girl who might be your crush to either a dance at your school or even to go to the mall, but they turned down your date proposal, y'all would feel pretty bummed! Wouldn't y'all? If a guy turned down a date proposal from me, honestly, I would feel sad but at the end of the day, I would moved on from it and stick to myself! Why would I react to how I feel about that rejection? The reason why I would feel pretty bummed about it but move on from it because there is nothing to be sad over a date proposal and besides for me, there is plenty of guys in the sea and I will be okay because I'm a strong and independent woman who doesn't need a man to make her happy because I have 7 guys who make me happy and they are BTS, just in case anyone forgot!! 

My advice about rejection or being rejected, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? 

If I have any advice about rejection or being rejected, what is my advice? If I have any advice about rejection or being rejected, my only advice is it is okay to cry over someone who rejected you or a job rejected you, but you are much better than that! God might have someone better for you or even a better job for you in line! Never be sad because you didn't get the girl or guy of you dreams or even the job of your dreams! There is plenty of guys and girls in the sea and there is new opportunities out there in this world! Never give up! Love yourself for who you are and be there for yourself! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when you see a guy or even the girl that you want to be with for the rest of your life but they turned you down because they are simply not interested you or they have an eye for someone else, you get bummed out and it makes you sad that you can't have that girl or guy but there is plenty of guys and girls in the sea and everything will be okay! With the job rejecting you, there is plenty of job opportunities for you! There might be one or more of your dream job that you always wanted! Don't give up on your dream job just because you didn't get the first time! Always keep trying, no matter what!! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day? 

In conclusion, being rejected can be a hard thing to handle especially when go to a job interview with a positive mindset and then, they either tell you that you got it or that you didn't get it, it is so hard because that is the job that you wanted so bad but you didn't it! You applied for a certain college but you didn't get in! That can be hard at times but that's okay because there is countless of opportunities all over and if you believe in God that he would give you the right job or get you in the right college, then don't give up! You are going to have countless of rejections in life but that doesn't mean you have to give up! Never give up! Here is my tip of the day and question of the day?! My tip of the day is never give up! Always keep trying no matter what! Never give up on a opportunity that God will give you! The sky is the limit! Y'all got this! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers! My question of the day is have y'all been rejected before? If so, how hard was that for you? Why was that hard for you? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read y'all's comments! Please! Thank y'all so much! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl, Brandee here and y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog episode! It's okay to be rejected! I know it hurts but y'all will get through it! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers! Never give up because the sky is the limit!! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: "Keep on waiting. It will happen". -Habakkuk 2:3. I love this bible verse because if you believe that opportunity is meant for you, take it! You kept waiting for it and it happened for you! If you believe in miracles, then that was a miracle for you! If you want that dream job or get into that college that you have always dreamed about, keep on waiting because it will happen! All you have to do is believe! I hope everyone will have a great day or great evening, wherever y'all might be in this world! I love y'all and stay hydrated! Never forget our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams"!! I love y'all and I will see y'all on Wednesday where I will talk about "The fear of abandonment". See y'all on Wednesday! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! 💜✌

Bible verse of the day! I love this bible verse so much!! Such a good bible verse!!! 

"Rejection is the 
reason why people 
deny their true 
feelings". 
-Unknown. I love this quote because when someone asks you on the date but you reject them because you don't want to admit to yourself that you like them! So, you deny it and deny it! 

"Human 
rejection 
can be 
God's 
divine 
protection".
-Unknown. I love this quote a lot because God will protect us at all times and even when we get rejected, he is always there for us no matter what! 

"Rejection is the universe's 
way of letting you know that 
you're better that what you 
just tried to settle for". 
-Kylie Francis. I love this quote so much because if you settled for less, you are not going to be happy! Even though rejection is hard, you can handle it! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers!! 

To end today's blog episode, I will be ending my blog episode with the song of the week which would be "Left and Right" by Charlie Puth featuring Jungkook of BTS! I love this song so much! It is very upbeat and I love it so much!! 

 

Analyzing my poem "When things get tough" by Brandee Darden.

                                     Analyzing my poem "When things get tough" blog and poem by Brandee Darden. Friday, September 2nd, 2022!!  

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl, Brandee and welcome back to a new blog episode! I'm happy to have y'all on a new blog episode!! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I can't believe that it is already September! Half a year is gone and before y'all know it, it will be the new year! So crazy! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Before I talk about today's blog or talk about Wednesday's blog, I want to thank everyone who has been supporting me through my blogging journey! Y'all have been an amazing fandom to me and I can't thank you enough! My blog episode about "Insecurities and how I overcame" reached over 143 readings and my blog episode about "A story about my suicide attempt" reached 180 readings both on my first blog page! I'm thankful for the support from my family, friends, and lastly, my fans!! Thank you so much, my Blogger Dreamers!! I love y'all so much!! Now, on Wednesday, I talked about the song "Blood Sweat and Tears" by BTS! I love that song so much! It is such an amazing song and every time I think about the words blood, sweat, and tears, I think about putting 200% into my blogging and my writing! For today's blog episode, I am going to be talking about my poem "When things get tough" by Brandee Darden. I am going  to be talking about what is this poem about? Why did I write this poem about? When things get tough, what are the thing or things that help me? Why do those things help me through a rough time? If I could give any advice to my Blogger Dreamers, what would my advice be? Why would I give that advice about when things get tough to my Blogger Dreamers? What is the significance behind my advice? Why would my advice be so significant? Now, let's get started with a new blog! Shall we? We shall!! #HappyBlogFriday!! 

Talking about my poem!! When I think about things getting tough, what comes to my mind? Why does it come to my mind?? 

On Saturday, October 21st of last year, I wrote a poem called "When things get tough". My poem goes a little something like this: "When things get tough"! By: Brandee Darden. 

"When things 

get tough, just 

remember you're 

strong! Don't 

ever give up! 

Everyone is 

strong in their 

own way! No matter 

how hard life 

can get sometimes! 

Just know that 

you're loved and 

everyone is here 

for you! Don't 

give up! 

When things get 

tough, don't 

give up! You 

got this! 

I believe in 

you"! 

~Love, 

Brandee D. I love this poem so much!! This poem holds a special place in my heart! We go through things that can be tough and a bit of an challenge at times but we have to remind ourselves, we are much stronger than that and we got this!! We should never give up no matter what! When I think about things getting tough, what comes to my mind? When I think about things getting tough, I think about some people immediately wanting to give up! When things or life get tough, people want to through in the towel and just give up but life doesn't work that way! You have to keep trying no matter what! Why does it come to my mind? The reason why it comes to my mind is because when I think about life, life can be very challenging! You get thrown with a lot of curve balls and all you want to do is quit! In reality, you can't quit! Life is a challenge but that's okay because you get through the challenges that you get thrown at and you should never give up no matter what!! 

What is this poem about? Why did I write this poem about? 

What is this poem about? This poem is about when things get tough, you can't give up! Yes, life can be challenging at times and life is a hard thing to get through, but at the end of the day, you can't give up because something is hard! You have to keep pushing through and you can't give up! Life is a difficult thing and challenging, but you always have to keep pushing through the hardest moments in life no matter what! Never give up because something in your life is not going right or you got the job that you wanted but it wasn't what you imagined your job to be! Never give up and always push through no matter what! My Blogger Dreamers are strong and if you are going through something in life, just remember to never give up! Don't quit because life is getting hard! Life might be hard but you got this!! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers!! Why did I write this poem about? The reason why I wrote this poem about when things get tough, you can't give up because yes, there are things that might be going on in your life whether it is a breakup, a nasty divorce, or life is just hurting you, you can't give up because life isn't going your way! Just because life isn't going your way that doesn't mean you automatically have to give up! You have to keep pushing through and keep fighting until you can't fight anymore and don't ever quit! Keep pushing through because all of my Blogger Dreamers are much stronger than that!! Y'all are loved by everyone including myself! I love y'all so much and please, don't give up! Life is so precious!! Don't quit!! 

Thing or things that help me!! Why do those things help me through a rough time?? 

When things get tough, what are the thing or things that help me? Everyone is different when it comes to getting through a rough time! Some people like to read or listen to music! When things get tough and I feel like I want to cry at times, the first thing that helps me is listening to music! When things are going really bad or I feel like giving up, I love to listen to music!! When I listen to music especially when it comes to Kpop music, I feel so much better! The second thing that helps me get through a hard time is cuddling with my panda! When I am having a bad day or if nothing is going right, I love to cuddle with my panda!! It helps me calm down after a bad day or if I am going through some rough! The third and final thing that helps me is thinking about how lucky I am to have amazing family and friends who love me for me! When things are rough and I feel like giving up, I think about how luck to have my friends and my family who love me!! Why do those things help me through a rough time? The reason why listening to Kpop music helps me is because I love the lyrics behind each song especially when it is soft Kpop music! I love listening to how the artists is feeling when they are singing or even rapping! The second reason why I love to cuddle with my panda is because my stuff panda is so soft! When I hold something, I feel so much better! It helps me calm down and I feel better if I hold something! The third and final thing that help me through a rough time is thinking about how lucky I am to have amazing family and friends who love me for me! Instead of me crying, I think about how lucky I am to have family and friends who love for me and there for me when I need them the most! Instead of crying and moping all the time, I think about my family and friends! It is okay to cry but at the same time, I rather think about my family and friends!! They mean a lot to me and I'm thankful for them!! 

My advice! Why would I give that advice about when things get tough to my Blogger Dreamers? 

If I could give any advice to my Blogger Dreamers, what would my advice be? If I could give any advice about when things get rough to my Blogger Dreamers, my advice is to never give up! When things are getting tough, always remember that you are much stronger whatever you are going through! Don't let something bring you down because if you let something or someone bring you down, it is going to hurt you and it is going to drain you! Just because you are having a rough time, that doesn't mean that you have to give up! Keep pushing through and never give up! You got this! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers!! Why would I give that advice about things get tough to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give this advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I feel like some people want to give up and just throw in the towel! Just because life is hard, it doesn't mean that you have to give up! Life isn't about giving up! Life is all about pushing through, even through your hardest times! Life is all about enjoying the big things or even the little things in life! It doesn't matter what you are going through in life, never give up! Don't ever quit!! 

The significance behind my advice!! Why would my advice be so significant? 

What is the significance behind my advice? The significance behind my advice is sometimes when life gets hard, people tend to want to give up on life or something that is hard that they can't handle it anymore! For example, when people are in a relationship and when spouse is willing to work on the relationship, but the other spouse is not willing to work on the relationship! It is showing that the husband or the wife is willing to give up on the relationship and that is not right for the wife or even the husband and that goes for boyfriends and girlfriends as well! Another example is when you got your dream job that you always dreamed about but it is not going how you want it to be but because it is not going right or how you dreamed about, that doesn't mean that you have to give up on it! When things get rough, you have to keep pushing through no matter what! Don't let the little things or even big things bug you! It's your life but you don't need to give up on your life! Your life is so precious and you have to enjoy what you have and the people you have in life! Why would my advice be so significant? The reason why my advice be so significant is because life isn't about giving up or something isn't going right, you can quit! NO! You can't quit because something is going rough! If something is going rough in your life, you have to keep pushing through and pray about it! If you believe that everything will be okay, keep pushing through and don't give up!! Life goes on and you have to live on!! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Challenge of the day!! 

In conclusion, when things get tough, your first instinct is to give up! Right? NO! When things get rough, you have to keep pushing through! Life can be a challenging thing at times, but you have to enjoy the little things and not let anything bother you! What can be sad at times is when people say "I can't do this anymore. I quit". I have actually have said those things before and it was hard for me say things like that because for me, I usually push through and say to myself "I got this" but sometimes, when I am having a hard day, all I want to do is cry and beat myself up but I can't do that because I don't deserve to cry or beat myself up for something that I did! Life is about pushing through and don't beat yourself up! It's not worth it! Here is my tip and challenge of the day!!! My tip of the day is don't beat yourself up or nit pick at yourself! Even though life is rough at times, you got this! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers! Never give up trying! My challenge of the day is write down things that might get you down and then, burn the paper! It might make you feel better!! If you write down things that might be bothering you, chances are that you might feel better after doing it because it is releasing tension and you might feel relaxed after writing down what has been bothering you or what is going on in your life!! Never give up! You are loved and you got this!! 

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your blogger queen here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog! Just remember if you are going through a rough time, just know that you are in control of your life! Just know whatever you are going through or what is bothering you, write it down and never look at it ever again! Let go of the negative energy and forget about it!! For today's quote slash lesson of the day, it goes like this: "Stop being always available to people who are just there for you when it's convenient for them". -Unknown Author. I love this quote so much because honestly, I feel like I go through this because I because every time I check on people, they either don't respond and they leave me on read or they don't look at the message at all which both scenarios are both hard for me!! I am going to stop being there for people when it is convenient and stop being there for people who aren't there for me! Period!! Always remember our slogan: "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"!! I love y'all and I hope everyone will have a great day or evening, wherever y'all might be at in this world! Have an amazing weekend and I will see y'all on Monday on my makeup slash fashion blog page! This blogger queen is out! Peace!! ✌💙

Today's lesson slash quote of the day! I love this quote a lot! Such a good quote!! 

My poem!! I love this poem so much!! 

"Tough times 
Never last,
but tough 
people do."
-Robert H. Schuller. I love this quote so much because tough times don't last very long , but tough people do and if you are tough, you got this! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers!! 

For this week's song of the week, I picked "Blood Sweat and Tears" by BTS because I love this song so much and it is such an amazing song! It reminds me that to always put your blood sweat and tears into my blogging and writing!! 

"Remember ...
no matter how 
much it hurts right 
now, one day you'll look 
back and realize it 
made you stronger".
-Kristen Butler!! I love this quote so much because the things that you went through or the things that put you down, made you way stronger and you got through it!!