The word "Grief". Blog by: Brandee Darden! Monday, July 11th, 2022! 
Intro to my blog!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers!! Welcome back to a new blog episode! It's your girl aka your blogger queen, Brandee here! I hope everyone had a good week and a good weekend! I hope everyone stayed safe and hydrated! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! I am so happy to have y'all on a new blog episode! Before I get into this week's blogs and today's blog episode, let's talk about last week's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about reviewing the song "Yet To Come" by BTS! Every time I listen to that song, I want to ball my eyes out and cry because it reminded me that my best is yet to come and I need to have patience! On Wednesday, I talked about the meaning about "Life". Life is so precious because you have to enjoy the moments that we have with everyone around us! The people around us is so important to us because we don't know how much longer with our family or our friends, so make each day count and always remember the days that y'all have with your family and friends! On Friday, I talked about my poem "What kills you make you stronger" by me aka Brandee Darden. The way I can describe my poem is there is a lot of things where can tear us down and want to kill us but the things that kill us, makes way stronger and the way we can get over those things is by moving on from those things and forget those things! If we move on from those things, we will become stronger and we will forget about them! For this week's blogs, I will be talking about the word "Grief", the word "Friendship", and lastly, but not least, analyzing my poem "Fighting through the pain" by Brandee Marie Darden. Now, without further a do, let's get started! Shall we? We shall!
Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about this blog episode? What song did I choose for the week? Why did I chose this song for the week?
For today's blog episode, I will be talking about the word "Grief". I will be talking about when I think about the word "grief", what comes to mind? Why it comes to my mind? Everyone handles grief differently but, how do I handle grief? Why do I handle grief the way I handle grief? What are things that I try to do to make myself happy when after I lost a loved one? Why do I do those things? If I could give any advice about loosing a love one or even a pet or even a friend, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I choose to talk about this blog episode? The reason why I choose to talk about this blog episode is because loosing someone can be a hard and difficult process! It can be hard to handle loosing someone who you love! I will talk about it more in the next paragraph! What song did I choose for the week? The song that I choose for the week is "For Youth" by BTS! Every time I listen to this song, I think about my friends and my Blogger Dreamers! Every time I think about my friends and my Blogger Dreamers, I think about if I didn't meet them, where would I be today? Where I would be right now if I didn't have this amount of supporters? I feel very happy and blessed! Why did I chose this song for the week? The reason why I did chose this song for the week is because this song means everything to me! There is a line that stands out to me and it goes like this "You're my best friend For the rest of my life" and I think about those friends who have stood by my side because those friends are the ones who mean a lot to me and who care about me so much! I love those friends so much and those friends are actually my Blogger Dreamers which I am truly blessed! I feel loved by those friends who became my family!
Think about the word "grief". Why it comes to my mind?
When I think about the word, "grief", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "grief", I think getting over a loved one, or a pet, or even a friend who passed away! Another thing I think about the word "grief" is when a friend breaks up a friendship or even your boyfriend or girlfriend breaks up y'all's relationship! When you loose a friend, a family member, or even a pet, it hurts you to the core because you were either so close with them and you went from seeing each other everyday to now, not seeing each other everyday because your loved one or a friend or even your pet passed away! I remember when my grandpa, Flex went to be with Jesus and I remember pretty much seeing him every single day but there isn't a moment where I don't think about him! When your friend or boyfriend or girlfriend breaks up your relationship, it hurts you so much and your pretty grieving over the friendship or the relationship because you think it can be saved but chances are it can't be saved because y'all might have problems and that can't be good! Grieving can go two ways and I remember going through both of them and it sucks so bad! Why it comes to my mind? The reason why it comes to my mind both ways because when you loose a loved one, it hurts or even a friend calls off your friendship, it hurts so either way, you are hurting which stinks so much and you can't help but cry because it feels like someone stabbed you in the heart! You felt like you could trust that friend or even your boyfriend or girlfriend but they went behind your back which hurts you so much!
How I handle grief? Why do I handle grief the way I handle grief?
Everyone handles grief differently but, how do I handle grief? The way I handle grief is I cry! I cry until there is nothing left such as tears! I will feel so numb and my body would hurt because I lost a loved one who I cared about so much or when me and boyfriend of a year broke up! That was a big grief in itself which stinks! When I went through that break up, I was heart broken and my heart was hurting for days and days and months but over time, I realized that I don't need a man to make me happy! Who needs a man when in my case, I got BTS on my mind 24/7? BTS helped me through my breakup and not only my breakup, just everyday life! Grief can be hard to handle because when you loose a loved one, it hurts you so much to the point where you really don't know how to handle but it's okay because you are doing okay and you got this! Why do I handle grief the way I handle grief? The reason why I handle grief the way I handle grief is because I am that type of a person who lets all of her emotions out and just cry until her head hurts, literally! When I cry, I get a headache and it stinks to the core but I can't just keep my emotions in, I have to let it all out! After I cry, I will listen to music or write out my feelings which is better for me anyways!! When I write in my journal, I feel much better and I love to write out my feelings! Journaling helps me in a way and I'm glad that I do that! Journaling helps in a way which is a good thing!
The things that I do to make me happy! Why do I do those things?
What are things that I try to do to make myself happy when after I lost a loved one? When I lost a loved one, all I can think about how are my other loved ones doing? Are they doing okay? Just stuff like that! When I loose a love one or when I went through a break up, the things that I did that made me happy was listening to music, write in my journal, watching YouTube videos, and making my bed! Before, I didn't care if my bed was made or not but now, I care about making my bed because I think it looks nice when it is made and I love it a lot! When I listen to music or watch YouTube or how my great nieces and great nephew calls it "Doo Doo", I feel at ease and I feel so much better! When I write in my journal, I feel much better when I write down my feelings! I rather write down how am I feeling than keep everything in! I feel much better to write all my feelings because if I write down my feelings, then I am writing down my feelings and showing my vulnerable side than not showing my vulnerable side! Why do I do those things? The reason why I do those things is because those things help me get through a hard time and when I listen to music like BTS, I feel at ease and I feel better! When I make my bed, I feel better and happy when it is clean! These type of things make me happy! Call me weird but I don't care because I am going to do me and I'm proud of being me! I rather do things that make me happy than sit in my bed and cry all day long! Just saying!
My advice/ Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers?
If I have any advice about loosing a love one or even a pet or even a friend, what is my advice? If you are going through a hard time of a loved one or a friend or boyfriend or girlfriend broke heart and you are grieving over that relationship, here is my advice: For the loosing a family member, a pet, or friend, if your friend past away or even a family member or a pet, just know that they are always with you no matter what! They are your guardian angel and they are looking over you to make sure that you are okay! You are never alone and they will always love you no matter what! For when a friend or a girlfriend or even a boyfriends calls off a relationship, and you are grieving over that, just know that you are much better without them! They are not worth your tears because if you are crying over them, then it is hurting you much as them because it shows that they don't care about you and they will never care about you which in reality, it hurts but the truth hurts though! Am I right? There is so many people who will be there for you and who will care about you no matter what! You just have to find the right people who will be there for you no matter what! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when you loose a loved one, hurts and all you want to do is cry and cry but everyone needs to realize that they are not hurting anymore and they are happy and not only that, if you go through a friendship break up or a relationship break up, you are much better without that person! You don't need that person in your life who might be toxic in your life! You are an amazing person and plus, you have angels who are looking out for you! I know that I do!
In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?
In conclusion, going through the grieving process can be a difficult time because you feel like you have no one or no one isn't there for you and it is hard for you! When a friend calls off a friendship, that hurts a lot! I almost had to go through that and just thinking about it right now makes me want to cry but I'm glad that me and my friend didn't have to go through that but I did block him for 10 days because he was being mean but we are good now! When you go through a break up, that is a grieving process within itself because all you want to do is cry and never forget those memories but in my case, after finding out that he cheated on me, I was done and over with it! I wasn't going to grieve over something that I can already move on from it! Loosing a loved one is so hard but they are your guardian angels and they are going to look over you and protect you through your hardest times! They are always going to love you no matter what! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is always love your friends, family, and even your pets no matter what! If you are grieving over a friendship breakup or a breakup in general, just know that person isn't worth your tears! My Blogger Dreamers are amazing and don't you ever forget that! My question of the day is when you think about the word "grief"? Why does it come to your mind like that? Sound off in the comments down below and comment down below! Please! I would love to read y'all's comments! I love y'all so much!
Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! Y'all know what time it is! That's right! Y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog episode! Just know that your loved ones are always with you no matter what! They are always watching over you to make sure that you are doing okay! I know that I have my angels protecting me! My quote of the day is: "Kindness begins with the understanding that we all struggle". -Charles Glassman. I love this quote a lot because if you are kind to other people, they are going to be kind to you back! If you are struggling, someone is going to help you no matter what! There is someone understands you very well and they are going to be there for you no matter what! I hope everyone stays safe and stay hydrated! Never forget our slogan here on the Blogger Dreamers: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams"!! I love y'all and I will see y'all on Wednesday where I will talk about the word "Friendship". I love y'all and see y'all on Wednesday! Your Blogger Queen is out! Peace! 💜💖💜
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Quote of the day! I love this quote a lot!!  it changes. It's a passage, not a place to stay. Grief is not a sign of weakness, nor a lack of faith... It is the price of love." -Unknown. I love this quote because never ends but I know in my heart that my loved ones who I love so much don't want to see me crying because they are gone! They rather see me happy and smiling than see me heartbroken!  out of control. Life is moving forward yet I am stuck in the moment when you left me." -Sandra Heavensbook Angels. I love this quote because when I had loved ones left me, I felt like everything was moving forward, but when my loved ones left me, I felt stuck because it hurts to know that my loved ones left me but I feel stuck because I feel sad.  of love we have to give to those we loved. Where there is deep grief, there was great love." -Unknown. I love this quote so much because we can show how much we love our love ones by remembering them by their memories of them and not forgetting about them. Their memory lives on forever! For this week's song of the week, I choose "For Youth" because I love this song so much and it holds a special place in my heart forever! I will forever listen to this song and think about my friends who has been there for me which only has been a few of them! |
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