The word "Friendship" blog episode by Brandee Marie Darden. Wednesday, July 13th, 2022! 
Intro to my blog!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the blogger queen, Brandee here and welcome back to a new blog episode for today! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Take a deep breathe and stay calm! Everything will be okay! Stay calm and never give up! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Before I jump into today's blog episode, let's talk about Monday's blog! On Monday, I talked about the word "grief". When I think about the word "grief", I think about grieving over a loved one or a friendship or a relationship that is completely over because y'all didn't last long and y'all couldn't make it work! Sometimes, relationships can't last because you can't trust one another or your partner cheated on you! That's okay because you shouldn't be grieving over something like that you don't deserve someone like that! You deserve love not get cheated on! When you grieve over a family member, it hurts because you loved them so much that you miss them so deeply! Always remember the memories that you had with that family member! On today's blog episode, I will be talking about the word "Friendship". I will be talking about when I think about the word "friendship" or even the word "friends", what comes to my mind? Why does things come to my mind? What kind of qualities do I look in a friend or even in a friendship? Why do I look for those qualities in a friend? What is the significance behind the qualities that I look within a friend or even a friendship? Why is it so significant? Now. let's get started! Shall we? We shall!
When I talk about my friends or the friendships that I have with my friends, how does it make me feel? Why does it make me feel this way?
When I talk about my friends or the friendships that I have with my friends, how does it make me feel? Honestly, it makes me feel really good to know that I have friends or even friendships that will last a long time! I have friends who treat me like their sister or who is very protective over me! I feel like two of my guy friends are really over protective of me! I mean, it feels good to have friends who can be over protective of me! It makes me feel really good and happy all at the same time! Why does it make me feel this way? The reason why it makes me feel this way is because you have friends who will look out for you and they will do anything to make sure that you are doing okay or to ask you "Have you eaten"? Yes, I had a friend who asked me "have you eaten today"? My answer to her is always "yes, I have eaten". To know that I have friends who treat me as there older sister feels really good and happy because I have people who look up to me as their older sister and I feel happy about it! I will always make sure that my friends are okay and make sure they are safe! I'm very protective of my friends who are like family to me! I have a special place in my heart for my friends and I don't want my friends to get hurt and go through anything by themselves because if you have a problem, then it is my problem as well! If you have a problem or problems, then your problem or problems are also my problems as well!
What comes to my mind? Why does it come to my mind?
When I think about the word "friendship" or even the word "friends", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "friendship" or even the word "friends", I think of people who are going to make impact in your life and stick by your side until forever or people who are going to leave you and never talk to you again! After I graduated high school, the people who I was friends with stopped talking to me except 3 of them! I lost connect with one of them for a while but we remain connect after that which I am so glad! When I think about the word "friendship" or "friends", I think about when some of your friends actually become family which is a good feeling and I say that because when those friends care about you like family, it means a lot to you! If those friends treat you like family, keep those friends because they are worth to keep forever in your life! Why does it come to my mind? The reason why it come to my mind is because when those friends treat you like family, it honestly makes you feel good! It shows that they care for you like family and they completely understand you which is the best feeling in the world! When I lost contact with my so called "friends" after high school, it hurt so much but after a while, I realized that I don't need those people anymore and I'm okay with the people who actually do care about me and who do understand me more than anything and also, I rather have friends who treats me like family than not family at all! You loose some friends and you also gain friends as well! If you loose some friends, that's okay because those friends who stood by your side the most, are the main people who you need the most and they will care about you through your hardest moments in your life time so with that being said, don't loose those friends because they matter and it is hard to find some new friends to replace! Just saying!
The qualities of a friend/ Why do I look for those qualities in a friend?
What kind of qualities do I look in a friend or even in a friendship? When I think about the qualities that I look in a friend, with other people, they might say "the qualities that I look in a friend is I want them to be nice" but with me, the qualities that I look for in a friend is trust, being supportive, and giving out comments out like "I'm so proud of you" and stuff like that! When I think about the word "trust", I think about trusting people with my whole heart! I feel like when it comes to a friendship or even a relationship, I think trust is the main thing because if you don't have that trust in a friendship or even a relationship, then you don't need to have a friend who isn't trustworthy or be in a relationship where it is based on trust! The second quality that I look friend is being supportive! When I think about that, I think about supporting each other whether it is there interest or even helping through a hard time! When I have a friend who I can count on the most, I want them to know that I will always support them no matter what because I want them to know that my support means a lot and I want to show them that I care about them! The third and final quality that I look in a friendship is giving out comments like "I'm so proud of you". When I hear comments from a friend of mine like "I am so proud of you, you're strong, or you got this", to be honest, it makes my heart melt because those comments mean a lot to me or even if they ask me "How are you doing"? I love those little comments! Why do I look for those qualities in a friend? The reason why I look for those in friend is because I feel like trusting a friend is very important because if you don't have trust in a friend, then how are you going to trust that friend? I feel like those qualities are very important to me and I think it is good to have those qualities because it will show how much your friend or friends will mean a lot to you!!
The significance/ Why is it so significant?
What is the significance behind the qualities that I look within a friend or even s friendship? The significance behind the first quality which is trust is if you can't trust someone such as your friend, what is the point in trusting someone like your best friend? I feel like trust and communication should be a big part of a friendship and the reason why I say that is because if there is a miscommunication, y'all can fix it which is nice because y'all don't want to end y'all's friendship over something silly? Right? Right! The second quality which is being supportive and the significance behind that is if you support me in what I like or if you are supporting me through a hard time and helping me through my depression or you are just supporting me just to be supportive, then I am going to do the same exact thing! If you show me the same support, then I'm going to do the same thing as well! Being supportive towards my friends to me is so important! I rather be a supportive friend than not a supportive friend! The third and final quality that I look in a friend is giving out comments like "I'm so proud of you" and stuff like that! The significance behind that is when my friends tell me "you're doing your best or your best is good for me or even if they "I am so proud of you", it means a lot to me! When I hear those things, it shows how much they care about me and how much they mean a lot to me! Why is it so significant? The reason why it is so significant is because having trust, someone being supportive, and hearing those comments are very important to me! I rather have support than none at all! I rather have trust in someone than none at all! I rather re read those comments about me than none at all! Those little things mean a lot to me and I love how some of my friends tell me "I'm so proud of you or your doing your best". It means a lot to me!!
In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day??
In conclusion, I think having trust in a friend is extremely important because if you don't have trust within them, then how are you going to trust someone when you can't trust them at all? You know what I mean! The way I look at trust is if you don't give me a reason to trust you and you broke my heart, then how you can trust you again? With me, once you broke my trust, good luck fixing it because once you broke my trust, there is no repairing at all! When it comes to a friendship, I will always be there for a friend because I love my friends so much but if my friends are not the same with me, then I don't need you anymore! If you show me the same thing as I show you, then we are good! Good friends are rare to find and you find a good friend, keep them because they can be a thing your life and they can care about you a lot! Here is my tip of the day and question of the day?! Always communicate with your best friend no matter what! Show them that you are willing to listen to them no matter what! Always have open ears and let them express their side of their story, even it is wrong! Still listen to them! My question of the day is what qualities do you look in a friend? Why do you look for qualities in friend? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read y'all's comments!! Please! Thank you so much!! I love y'all!
Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! Y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone enjoyed this blog episode for today! Always have open communication with friends because it is very important to listen to your friends and be there for your friends no matter what! Always help them through a hard time because they might need you and it is only right to help them! Help those friends who need help and support them no matter what! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this "If you see someone without a smile, give them one of yours". -Dolly Parton. I love this quote because if you see your friends not smiling, give them something to smile about! If they are going through a hard time in their life, give them a smile because if they smile, at least you know that you are the reason behind that smile! Always remember my slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams"! I hope everyone will have a good Wednesday or in other countries, a good Thursday and please, stay safe and hydrated! I love y'all and I will see y'all on Friday! This blogger queen is out! Peace! 💜✌💟
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The quote of the day! I love this quote so much! Such a good quote!  go, like the waves of the ocean, but the true ones stay, like an octopus on your face." -Anonymous. I love this quote because those friends who you thought you could trust aren't your friends but the ones who stayed by your side, are the true people that you need to keep forever!!  accepts who you are, but also helps you become who you should be". -Unknown. I love this quote because you are going to find people who will accept you for who you are but they are going to help you along the way and support you, no matter what! That is a true friend and keep that friend no matter what!  Are Like Stars, You Don't Always See Them But You Know They Are There". -Unknown. I love this quote so much because at night, stars come out and it is rare to find good friends who are caring and trusting! When you find a good friend or friends, keep those people in your life because you never know when you will find a good friend again! |
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