Analyzing my poem "People Who Judge You" by Brandee Darden!

                                  Analyzing my poem "People Who Judge You" by Brandee Darden. Wednesday, March 30th, 2022! 

Intro to my blog! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! I hope everyone had an amazing day or an okay day! I had an okay day on Tuesday! I worked out and then, went on a walk! It was a nice walk! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! On Monday's blog episode, I talked about my favorite  Thai actors and Thai shows! As y'all can tell, I love anything in a different language such as Thai and Korean. I love learning new languages because I think it is so fun and I think learning a new language by watching a show in a different language is really fun! When I was picking my favorite actor as my number one spot, it was so hard because I love Saint but also love Mew but when I laid my eyes on Mew, he is so hot and I mean any person would be lucky to have him as a boyfriend! He is so handsome! Okay! Enough of me rambling! On today's blog episode, I will be talking about analyzing my poem "People Who Judge You" by yours truly, Brandee Darden. I will be talking about when I wrote this poem, what was going through in my mind? Why was that thing going through my mind? What is this poem about? Why did I write this poem about? What is the significance behind this poem and the meaning behind this poem? Why is this poem and the meaning behind this poem so significant? If I have any advice about anyone being judged because they like different things or because of their weight, sexuality, or skin color, what would my advice be? Why would I give that advice to someone? Now, let's get started with this blog! Shall we? We shall get started! Buckle up, my Blogger Dreamers! I hope y'all will enjoy my new blog episode! 

Talking about my poem and why I do think judging is wrong? 

I wrote a poem called "People Who Judge You" by Me aka Brandee Darden. It goes like this:

"People Who Judge You" by Brandee Darden. 

People who judge

you because 

They are either 

jealous or they 

are very 

judgemental! 

Ignore people 

like that! They 

aren't worth 

your time! 

Be who you 

are and be 

proud of who 

you are 

because 

the person who 

you are is 

amazing! Never

forget that! 

-Love, 

Brandee Darden. This poem holds a special place in my heart! In this world, there can be very judgmental because you see a guy wearing a dress or an interracial couple are holding hands! Another example that I can think of is two guys holding hands and being loving towards each other! I don't understand why people can be so judgemental at times. That makes me very upset and it is very wrong to judge other people! If you see a guy wearing a dress or two guys holding hands or an interracial couple holding hands, my advice for you is to mind your own business! Don't judge other people! It is wrong and very disrespectful! Mind your own business and they will mind their own business! Why do I think judging is wrong? The reason why I think judging is wrong is because you are disrespecting the person or the couple. Judging is wrong and if you don't like someone who dresses differently or the kind of music they like or their sexuality or if they are transgender or not, leave them alone and go about your business! Please! Thank you so much! If you see someone who is getting judged or even bullied, stand up for that person and tell them how special they are!! Please! Thank you so much!

When I wrote this poem, what was going through in my mind? Why was that thing going through my mind?

When I wrote this poem, what was going through in my mind? Well, I wrote this poem on Saturday, November 6th, 2021! What was going through my mind was sometimes, people judge other people for no reason at all! People judge other people because of their skin color or their gender because sometimes, people want to transition to male to female or female to male and that's okay to do that! Some people though have a problem with it which doesn't make sense because if that person is unhappy with their signed gender, let them transition. Let them be happy! If someone is gay or lesbian or bisexual or even pansexual, let them be happy! If someone likes other things that you don't like, let them like whatever they want to like! It is okay to be different! Everyone was born different and everyone likes different things! It is not right to judge other people! It is wrong and it is disrespectful! Why was that thing going through my mind? The reason why that thing was going through my mind is because I don't like when people hate on anyone who is gay or bisexual or even transgender people. I don't like when two gay guys are just holding hands and someone might look at them weird! What saddens me? What saddens me when transgender women get murdered for no reason! I have no problem with people who are bisexual or transgender or gay or even a lesbian or even pansexual. If you are nice to me and you treat me as your friend, then I am there for you no matter what! I don't have a problem with anyone who is apart of the LGBTQ community at all! Love is Love and if you love someone, then you love someone! I don't have a problem with people who love different races. I have no problem with that whatsoever! I don't know why we live in a judgemental world! Just move on and if you don't accept anyone for who they are then move on and don't judge them! MOVE ON!! 

What is this poem about? Why did I write this poem about? 

This poem is about people being judgemental and judging what you like! It doesn't matter what you like! As long as your happy being who you are as a person, then that's fine! You don't need anyone's approval! It is your life! Live your life however you want to! Don't let the haters hate on you because you like the same gender as you or you are transitioning or you like Kpop or fashion or makeup or whatever it is that everyone likes! It's your life and you need to be happy with it because you are only going to get one life and that's it! People are going to judge regardless and if those people want to be judgemental, let them be judgemental! Ignore them because they are not worth your time at all! Why did I write this poem about? The reason why I wrote this poem about is because people are so judgemental and so mean and that's what I don't understand! People are people! People have feelings as well! We have a heart and it beats and we can't control what we love! I can't help it that I love men from South Korea! My heart can't control what I love! Whatever you like or whoever you love, let your heart lead you to that person or thing and be happy with it! It is your life and if you want to love someone who is the same gender as you, you go ahead! If you want to go by the pronouns they or them, you go ahead! There is no judgement here! On the Blogger Dreamers, you are loved by me and I am going to love you for who you are because you are special and I love you for who you are because the person that you are is absolutely amazing and you are loved by me!! 

What is the significance behind this poem and the meaning behind this poem? Why is this poem and the meaning behind this poem so significant? 

The significance behind this poem is people don't realize that trans women are getting judged everyday and even murdered which is so wrong on so many levels! People shouldn't get judged because they love the same sex or you are unhappy with the gender that you were signed with at birth, you can transition! You can like whatever you like! With me, I love Kpop music, fashion, makeup, and blogging. When I first got into Kpop, my family would tell me "They look like girls. They should wear makeup". It bothered me but now, if they something, I would walk away because they are just hating! The reason why this poem is so significant is because people need to know that are special in their own way and that they are loved! There is someone is loves them and who cares about them who won't judge them and that's me! I won't judge no one because judging is so wrong and disrespectful!! The significance behind the meaning of this poem is the meaning behind this poem is so significant! It holds a special place in my heart! I don't like any hate at all! The meaning behind this poem is when someone is being judged, they feel hurt or they aren't special enough! Well, they are special and the significance behind it is everyone is special in their own way! It is okay to be different! It is okay to love someone like you! It is okay if you are not happy in the gender that you were signed at birth! It's okay to feel different! It's okay to be different! I don't care if you have mental issues or a disability, as long as you treat me right, I will be there for you no matter what! The reason why the meaning behind this poem is so significant is because people need to know that they are loved and that they are special in their own way! Don't let anyone tell you differently because everyone is amazing in their own way and don't you ever forget that!! 

If I have any advice about anyone being judged because they like different things or because of their weight, sexuality, or skin color, what would my advice be? Why would I give that advice to someone?

If I have any advice about anyone being judged because they like different things or because of their weight, sexuality, or skin color, what would my advice be? My advice is to ignore the ignorant people in the world! People are so ignorant and so stupid that they might actually be jealous of you! Everyone is special in their own way! I love you for who you are! You are loved by so many people including me! If someone starts judging you because you are dressed a different way or you like the same sex as you or you like a different race, you tell that person and you say "I was born this way and if you got a problem with it, leave me alone and mind your own business". Everyone was born differently and that's okay! It's okay to be who you are and be proud of who you are because the person who you are is amazing! Don't forget that! Why would I give that advice to someone? The reason why I would give that advice to someone is because yes, everyone is born differently! It is okay to be different! It is okay to be proud of who are because the person who you are is worth to be proud of who you are as a person and if you stand up for the person who you are, then people who judged you will leave you alone and realize that you are proud of who you are because of the person who you are today! Be who you are as a person because you are absolutely amazing and don't you ever forget that! I love y'all! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day!

In conclusion, it's okay to be YOU! You should be proud of who you are! Never be ashamed to be who you are because if you are ashamed of who you are then, you are not happy within yourself! If you are not happy with yourself, change whatever you are not happy with! If someone is judging you, don't let them judge you because you are worth so much in life! If they are jealous of you, let them be jealous of you! Don't waste your time on them because they are not worth the time and energy! Don't waste your time! Here is my tip of the day: don't let anyone judge you because you are different! Be proud of who you are and don't be ashamed of yourself! It is okay to be different and it is okay to show how proud you are of yourself! Love yourself for who you are because you deserve to love yourself more and more everyday! You are amazing! My Blogger Dreamers are amazing and please, don't y'all ever forget that! You are loved by me and I love y'all for who you are! Don't change for who you are because someone is judging you! Don't let them bully you either! I love y'all so much! Y'all are worth so much in life! 

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! Y'all have reached the end of the blog episode for today! Just know that you are loved by me and will always have love from my heart! Be proud of who you are and don't be afraid of who you are! Show the people who are judging you that you are amazing and that you are loved by so many people! I love y'all so much! I hope everyone has an amazing day or night, wherever y'all maybe be at! Please, be careful and please, stay hydrated! Always remember the slogan: Dream Big! Don't Give Up On Your Dreams! Always aim high and never give up! I love y'all! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! I will see y'all on Friday! I love y'all! Your blogger queen is out! Peace! ✌💙💜

"When it comes to 
being happy there is 
no right or wrong.
It's just a battle 
between your 
happiness and their 
judgement."
-Unknown. I love this quote because if people can't accept that your happy, that's their problem not your problem! If people can't accept that your happy, that's their fault! You deserve to be happy and you deserve to have happiness in your life! 

"Let them judge you.
Let them misunderstand you.
Let them gossip about you.
Their opinions aren't your problem.
You stay kind, committed to love, 
and free in your authenticity.
Non matter what they do or say 
don't you dare doubt your worth 
or the beauty of your truth.
Just keep on shining like you do."
-Scott Stable. I love this quote because you are going to have people judge you no matter what! Never doubt you because you are an amazing person and you are loved no matter what! Stay kind to yourself and love yourself no matter what. Let them gossip about you because they are jealous of you! 

My poem "People Who Judge You". This poem means a lot to me and I love this poem a lot!






 

This song is called "Born This Way" by Lady Gaga! I love this song because everyone was born differently and if anyone doesn't like who you are, then they can kiss your foot! Don't let anyone tell you differently!! 

Talking about my favorite Thai actors and Thai shows!!

                               Talking about my favorite Thai actors and Thai shows!! By: Brandee Darden. Monday, March 28th, 2022! 

Intro to my blog!

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It is your girl aka the queen of blogging, Ms. Brandee is in the house! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! How's everyone doing? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay because you're strong and amazing! Never forget that! You know what today is? That's right! It's a new blog day but before I talk about this week's blogs, let me talk about last week's blogs! On last week's episodes, I talked about mental health and how it can take a toll on a person? On this blog, I talked mental health and how it can take a toll on a person? Having mental health and acting like everything okay can be extremely hard and exhausting! Another blog episode that I talked about is my future book! When I started blogging, I have dreamt about becoming an author! I could see myself as an author and I think me becoming would be a good thing! The third and final blog episode that I talked about last week was my workout routine and why did I started working out? Ever since I could remember, I have always struggled with loosing weight and people would bully me. Honestly, that hurt me a lot and I decided to loose weight and I couldn't be any happier. Loosing weight can be hard but if you stick with it, you would feel a lot better and you would feel good about yourself! On this week's blogs, I will be talking about my favorite Thai actors and Thai shows, my poem "People who judge you", and my poem "The word hurt". For this week's song of the week, I choose "Thanos" by Mew Suppasit. The reason why I choose that song is because I love that song a lot and it is such an amazing song! It is very sad but it is so beautiful! Mew has very good vocals and I love it a lot! It is a very good song! Now, let's get started with the blog! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about this week's blog episode! Why did I choose this topic to talk about? 

On this week's blog episode, I will be talking about my favorite Thai actors and Thai shows. If I had to pick my favorite Thai actors and Thai shows, who are my favorite Thai actors and what are my favorite Thai shows? Why did I pick those actors and those Thai shows as my favorite? Which Thai actor and Thai show as my number one, who would be in my number one spot and what Thai show would be in my number one spot? Why did I choose that actor and that show as my number one spot? What is it about that Thai actor and that Thai show that I like so much? Why do I like them so much? The reason I choose this topic to talk about is because a while back on January 21st, 2022, I decided to talk about my favorite my favorite Korean shows and why I like them so much! Talking about Korean shows, on March 17th, I finally finished "My Shy Boss" and OMG! It was so good! I loved so much! If any of my Blogger Dreamers likes Korean shows, I highly recommend it! It is so good and I love it a lot. I choose to talk about this topic because since I talked about my favorite Korean shows, I wanted to talk about my favorite Thai Shows and my favorite Thai actors as well. If you want to learn who are my favorite actors and my favorite shows, then please keep on reading! Please! 

How did I get into Thai shows? Why did I get into them?

How did I get into Thai shows? Well, I got into Thai shows by someone in my family. Someone in my family introduce me to my very first Thai drama which is called "Love by Chance". I started watching "Love by Chance" in 2019. It is such a good drama and I loved it a lot! When I started watching the show, I was getting mad at a few episodes and I don't want to spoil anything but there is a character that will make you mad because this character really made me mad so bad to the point where I want to punch the TV! That's how bad this character made me mad!! Why did I get into them? The reason why I got into Thai dramas is because they are really good and the way they eat is kind crazy to me! They eat with a fork and a spoon which to me is crazy but weird at the same time but that's okay! That is apart of their cultural and I am not here to judge. Shoot! People might think some of our cultural stuff might be weird and that's okay with me because I honestly don't blame anyone who thinks some of our cultural stuff here in the United States is very weird and I am okay with that. The reason why I am okay with that because some of the stuff that we do here in the United States can be a little weird and unpredictable at times and that is okay!! I like living in the United States! 

If I had to pick my favorite Thai actors and Thai shows, who are my favorite Thai actors and what are my favorite Thai shows? Why did I pick those actors and those Thai shows as my favorite?  

If I had to pick my favorite Thai actors and Thai shows, who are my favorite Thai actors and what are my favorite Thai shows? Well, I have two favorite actors and two favorite shows. My two favorite actors are Suppapong Udomkaewkanjana, nicknamed Saint. He is from the Thai show "Love By Chance". He is a very sweet guy and I love him so much! My second favorite Thai actor is Suppasit Jongcheveevat, nicknamed Mew. I swear! When I saw this man, I thought he was a literal angel! I kid you not! This man is so handsome and you can see the veins in his arms! He is so good looking and he can sing very well! I love these two men so much! The reason why I did pick these two has my favorite actors is because they are really good at acting and they seem so sweet and I love them both so much! My favorite Thai dramas are "Love by Chance" and "Tharn&Type". Let me paint the scene for you for "Love by Chance". It was an afternoon where Pete played by Saint was playing on his phone and the guy who was riding his bicycle. His name is Ae played by Perth. Ae and Pete both in love and the bicycle accident brings two young men together in a way they really didn't expect at all. Let me paint another picture for you! Y'all ready? Well, in "Tharn&Type, Type played by Gulf hates his roommate aka Tharn played by Mew because Tharn is gay but spoiler alert! They fell in love with each other and they love each other so much which I think it is so cute!! Oh! By the way, these two are boy and boy dramas and I love them both so much! The reason why I picked these two as my favorite is because they are both amazing and they have some amazing actors in the show!!! Both dramas are so great and I like them a lot!

Which Thai actor and Thai show as my number one, who would be in my number one spot and what Thai show would be in my number one spot? Why did I choose that actor and that show as my number one spot?

If I had to choose between Saint and Mew as my top one favorite actor, I would have to choose Mew because I love Mew so much but I also love Saint as well but Mew attracts my attention more and I love his singing voice so much. Mew's singing voice is so good and he is so talented! I love him so much! The reason why I chose Mew as my number one favorite actor is because when I watched "Tharn&Type" for the first time, I was like "OMG! This man looks like an angel". He was so handsome and there would be times where he would look so cute. Mew captured my heart forever and I will forever love this man so much! He is so talented and I love him a lot! If i had to choose between "Love by Chance" or "Tharn&Type" as my number one spot for the Thai drama, it would be "Tharn&Type". Even though I got into "Love by Chance" first, I love "Tharn&Type". The way Mew and Gulf played those characters and acting like the hated each other was some good acting! I love this show so much! When I watched for the first time, I loved it! Yes, I am not going to lie but there was a few episodes that made me mad but I could see Type's point of view. What he went through when he was a kid was horrible. I don't want to spoil anything but yeah! The drama is very good and I like it a lot! The reason why I chose this drama as my number one spot is because I love it a lot and it is so good. Mew and Gulf did so good in the drama and I would watch it again because it was so good! I love it! 

What is it about that Thai actor and that Thai show that I like so much? Why do I like them so much?

What is it about Mew that I like so much? Well, there is many things that I like about him so much! I love the way he sings! His singing voice is so good and so amazing! I could listen to his singing voice all day and everyday! Shoot! If I had him as a boyfriend, I would ask him to sing to me every night before I went to bed! He is so cute and so handsome at the same time! I love the way he smiles! Every time I see a photo of Mew smiling, I think to myself "OMG! He is so cute"! I love the way he smiles! It's adorable! What is that I like "Tharn&Type" so much? Well, I love the way Tharn played by Mew takes care of Type played by Gulf when he was sick! It was so cute and adorable! I wish someone would take care of me like that if I was sick. The way Mew sings to Gulf in the show is so cute! He sings to Gulf like he would stare at him at a loving way and just sing to him. I find that very cute and adorable! It melts my soul so much! I love it so much! Why do I like them so much? The reason why I like them so much is because Mew is a very talented actor and a person who can sing and the drama itself is so good! I love it so much and I love the actors in the show as well! It is so great and so amazing! I enjoy the drama so much and I enjoy Mew's singing voice so much!! I could listen to Mew's voice all day and not really get tired of it at all! Just saying! I am the same way with BTS as well! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of day?

In conclusion, I really enjoy these two dramas a lot and I absolutely love Saint and Mew a lot. It is so hard for me to pick my favorite but I love Mew a lot! Saint is a very good actor as well and I love his acting skills but I just love Mew with all my heart and soul! My heart attracted to Mew and I fell in love with him! His smile melts just melts my heart every time I see it and I love it a lot!! Don't get me wrong, I loved "Love by Chance" but I love "Tharn&Type" a lot more just because I love seeing how Tharn takes care my Type while he was sick and I just loved how their relationship went from hating each other to loving each other. It was so cute!! I will always love these dramas no matter what! To me, I will love all the actors in the shows no matter what. I follow some of the actors on Instagram so it is nice to see what they are doing now days and see the different projects they are doing or seeing what they are doing in their daily life! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is find a show or a movie that you enjoy a lot! Find a drama that you might enjoy! If you want to watch a show in another language, go ahead! Don't let anyone judge you! It is not nice to judge other people who likes shows that are in another language! Find something that you will enjoy and love a lot! My question of the day is what kind of shows do you like in another language? Please, sound off in the comments down below and let me know what kind of shows do like in another language? Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all! 

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! Y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! As y'all can see, I love to watch anything in other language! I don't mind it at all! I want to learn different languages like Korean and Thai one day! It would be such a fun learning experience to learn another language! Today is the last Monday in March or if you are in another country, it is the last Tuesday in March! I hope you had some good memories in March and if not, that's okay! I pray that you make some good memories in April! I love y'all so much and I hope my blogger dreamers enjoy their morning, day, or evening wherever y'all maybe be at! Remember the slogan: Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams! Never give up on your dreams! I love y'all and I will see y'all on Wednesday! Peace! Stay safe! 💜✌

This is Mew! I love this man so much! Just look at this smile! My heart is melting just by looking at this smile! Gosh! I love this man! 

This Thai drama is called "Tharn&Type". I love this drama a lot and it is good! 

This Thai show is called "Love by Chance". I love this drama a lot! It is so good and I love the characters a lot! A lot of good acting in it! 

This is Saint! He plays in "Love By Chance" and he also plays in other Thai show called "Let's Fight Ghost" which you can watch on Netflix!! 

The song of the week is "Thanos" by Mew Suppasit! I love this song so much! This song is sad but it is so good! I love it so much and I love this man a lot! 

Analyzing my poem "Fake Love" by me aka Brandee Darden!

                        💜   Analyzing my poem "Fake Love" by me aka Brandee Darden. Friday, March 11th, 2022! 💖

Intro to my blog!!

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Welcome to another blog post! It's your girl aka your blogger queen, Brandee Darden in the building! How's everyone doing? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I hope everyone is staying safe and staying hydrated! I am so glad y'all came back to read another blog of mine! I really enjoy working on these blogs! They make me really happy! On Wednesday, I talked about who are the strongest women and Kpop female idols in my life? I just want to say thank you so much for reading that blog episode! Thank you so much for showing a lot of love to my blog! It means a lot! That blog post means a lot to me because I had a lot of women come in life and I had listened to a lot of Kpop idols that were females but the people who stand out to me is my mom, my two sisters, Brandy and Tyna, BlackPink, Twice, and Jessi! I love these ladies a lot because they each taught me something differently and I am very blessed to have them in my life! On today's blog episode, I will be analyzing and talking about my poem "Fake Love" by me aka Brandee Darden! I will be talking about what is this poem about? Why did I write this poem about? When I was writing this poem, what was I thinking? Why was I thinking about that thing? If I could give anyone advice about giving themselves "Fake Love, what advice would I give anyone who is struggling with giving themselves Fake Love? Why would I give that advice to anyone who is struggling with Fake Love? Let's get started with this blog! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about when did I start giving myself fake love? Why did I give myself fake love instead of real love?

When did I start giving myself fake love? I started giving myself fake love in 2017, I believe. I had struggle with loving myself for a long time. While I was struggling with giving myself "real love", I was also battling with suicidal thoughts, which wasn't good at all. For a long time, I couldn't come to terms with loving myself. I had other people loving me for who I am, but I couldn't love myself because my mind wouldn't let me. I think loving yourself and giving yourself real love is extremely important because when you are going through hard times, you have to be there for yourself and you have to help yourself through those hard times! Why did I give myself fake love instead of real love? The reason why I gave myself fake love instead of real love is because I felt like I didn't deserve real love at time and I felt like I didn't deserve real love towards myself at all which is so untrue! I know that I do deserve real love but the truth is at that time, I didn't know how to love myself until BTS came into my life and that's when everything changed for me! BTS taught me how to give myself real love when I didn't know how to and I am so glad that BTS taught me how to give myself real love because I don't deserve to give myself real love at all!! No one deserves to give themselves fake love at all! 

What is this poem about? Why did I write this poem about?

I wrote a poem called "Fake Love" and it goes like this:

"Fake Love" by 

Brandee D.

The way that 

I can describe 

Fake Love is

giving yourself 

the love that 

you don't deserve!

You get inside 

your head and 

you tell yourself 

"You don't deserve 

the love you 

should give yourself"

but you do! 

You deserve 

real love! Everyone 

does!

-Love, Brandee D. I love this poem so much because what I said in the poem is all true! Most of us think to ourselves "We don't deserve to give ourselves real love", but in reality, we do deserve the real love we get from ourselves or even the people around us. We deserve to have real love no matter what! What is this poem about? This poem is about giving yourself fake love when you think you do deserve it but in reality, you don't deserve it! We get in our heads and we think to ourselves "I don't feel loved and I don't deserve this love" and that feeling stinks. We all deserve to have love whether it is from yourself, your family, or even your friends. Always love yourself no matter what! Why did I write this poem about? The reason why I wrote this poem about is because sometimes, when we feel low on ourselves, we tell ourselves "I don't love myself. I don't deserve this type of love. I'm not going to love myself". At times, I have felt like that a lot and that feeling is the worst feeling ever. You should always love yourself no matter what because loving yourself is the most important thing ever and if you don't love yourself, how are you going to love other people? Always love yourself through the difficult times because the only person who would l be there for you through your lowest point is yourself! Always love yourself no matter what and be there for yourself no matter what! 

When I was writing this poem, what was I thinking? Why was I thinking about that thing?

When I was writing this poem, what was I thinking? When I was writing this poem, a lot of things were going through my brain! I was going through so many emotions because I remember the times where I couldn't love myself because I was really hard on myself! I felt like I couldn't love myself because I felt like I didn't deserve the love that I deserve but instead, I gave myself fake love because I felt like I deserve that more than anything! In realistic, I deserved real love and from that point forward, I started to give myself real love because that is what I deserve and I will keep on giving myself real love no matter what! No matter what you are going through or how you are feeling, always give yourself real love because you deserve real love not fake love! Why was I thinking about that thing? The reason why I was thinking about thing is because fake love can happen to anyone! It can happen to people who are in relationships or it can happen individually and with me, I struggled with loving myself for a long time! Yes, I was giving everyone real love around me but I was giving myself fake love I thought I deserve that and at that time, I did. Now in 2022, I don't deserve that! I deserve real love and I am giving myself real love because I do deserve it and I think it is very important to come to terms to loving yourself and stop giving yourself fake love because no one and I mean no one doesn't deserve fake love! Never give yourself fake love because you don't deserve it!! 

If I could give anyone advice about giving themselves "Fake Love", what advice would I give anyone who is struggling with giving themselves Fake Love? Why would I give that advice to anyone who is struggling with Fake Love? 

If I could give anyone advice about giving themselves "Fake Love", what advice would I give to  anyone who is struggling with giving themselves Fake Love? My advice is don't give yourself fake love because it's not worth it. Everyone deserves real love not fake love. Loving yourself for who you are and giving yourself the real love that you deserve is well worth it. The only person who is going to be there for you at the end and loving you is yourself. Give yourself all the real love that you deserve because it is worth it! Give yourself sometime to yourself and pamper yourself because it is worth it! Look at the mirror and tell yourself that "your beautiful or handsome and that you love yourself". Please, love yourself! It's worth it! Why would I give that advice to anyone who is struggling with fake love? The reason why I would give that advice to anyone who is struggling with fake love is because for anyone who is struggling with self love or who is struggling within themselves, just know that you are never alone! Struggling with giving yourself fake love is hard. I remember going through it and it was really hard on me but I came to terms about loving myself and stop with all the fake love back in 2019 because of BTS! My Shinning Star Butterflies, y'all don't deserve the fake love y'all give to yourself. No one doesn't deserve that and if you are struggling with giving yourself real love and you are giving yourself fake love, stop doing it! Please! It is not worth it and it will never be worth it! Give yourself real love because you deserve it more than anything in this world! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Challenge of the day!! 

In conclusion, giving myself "fake love" isn't in my vocabulary! Giving myself "real love" is though! Always love yourself because you are one person and you need to be there for that one person and that one person is yourself!! You deserve to love yourself and give the real love that you absolutely deserve. It doesn't matter what anyone says to you, as long as you love yourself, that is all that matters! You loving yourself and giving yourself the real love is earn! You earn that real love! The only thing you don't need to earn is fake love! Here is my tip and challenge of the day!! My tip of the day if you know someone or even yourself that is giving yourself fake love, just know that you don't need that fake love! Get rid of that fake love and throw it in the garbage! You don't need it and it doesn't need it! Give yourself real love and have some alone time. Tell yourself that you are worthy of love or give yourself some encouragement because that is what you deserve! My challenge of the day is from this point forward, I want my Shinning Star Butterflies to stop giving fake love to yourself! It is NOT worth it anymore! That pain that you put yourself through when you are giving yourself "fake love" is not only hurting you but also, it is hurting me because I care about my Shinning Star Butterflies and I love y'all so much! Please, give yourself real love, not fake love! I love y'all so much!

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog episode for today! I hope y'all enjoyed this blog post for today! Just know that you earn that real love not that fake love! Just know that you are loved by so many people! The first person that you need to love first is yourself because you are very important! Always love yourself first and don't give yourself fake love!! I hope everyone stays safe and have an amazing weekend! I love y'all so much! Please, stay safe! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Stay Gold! Shine bright like a star that y'all are! Fly like a butterfly and chase your dreams! I will see y'all on my next blog! Your blogger queen is out! Peace! ✌💜

I love this picture because "Fake Love" by BTS is a song about giving yourself fake love! It's not about someone giving you fake love, it's about giving yourself fake love which to me is really sad! No one should ever have to give themselves fake love! 

The song of the week is "Glow" by Bear Bear and Friends! I love this song so much! It is such an amazing and one of my Shinning Star Butterflies suggested to me! Her name is Saniya! Thank you so much, Saniya for suggesting this song to me! 

"Real love is 
something you feel it, you 
see it, you show it! But 
fake love is just words and nothing more". 
-Unknown. I love this quote because if you show some action towards yourself that you love yourself, then you are good but if you tell yourself that you love yourself but you don't show any action, then you are giving yourself fake love!! 

"Fake Love" by BTS is about giving yourself fake love not anyone else giving you fake love! I love this song so much and this song was the first BTS song that I got into!! 

Who are the strongest women and Kpop female idols in my life?

                                 Who are the strongest women and Kpop female idols in my life? By: Brandee Darden. Wednesday, March 9th, 2022! 

Intro to my blog!

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Welcome to another blog episode! It's your girl aka your blogger queen, Brandee here! I hope everyone is having an amazing Wednesday or in other countries, an amazing Thursday! If you are not having an amazing Wednesday or Thursday, that's okay! Everything will be okay! On Monday's blog episode, I talked about my biggest pet peeves which are when people leave me on read, when people say they are there for me, but really they are not there for me, judging other people for what they like, and when people lie to me. When people lie to me or say "I am always here for you no matter what" but they instantly turn your back on you that type of people hurts me a lot. When you have been there for other people but when you need someone there for you, those people turn your back on you and that hurts you a lot! When people lie to me, that hurts a lot as well. The reason why that hurts a lot is because when you people lie to you or they don't tell you the full truth, it hurts a lot. When you are talking to other people and they want the truth, tell them the full truth that way they can understand the truth and nothing but the truth! Never beat around the bush! Tell people who you care about the full truth! Telling the person that you love and that you care about the full truth is very important! On today's blog episode, I will be talking about who are the strongest women and Kpop female idols in my life? I will be talking about since March 8th was international women's day, who are the strongest women and Kpop female idols in my life? Why do I considered those women strong? What kind of influence did these women put in my life? Why did these women influenced me and my life? When I think about women empowerment, what do I think of? Why do I think about women empowerment like that? Let's get started with a new blog! Shall we? We shall!!! 

Talking about what does International Women's Day means to me? Why does International Women's Day mean to me? 

When I think of International Women's Day, I think of women who mean a lot to me! I think of Kpop female idols who influenced me and my life! I think of women who came into my life and cheered me on when I had a rough patch in my life or helped through life!! What does International Women's Day mean to me? International Women's Day means to me is the women who came into my life for a reason! Those women who came into my life for reason means a lot to me! They have gave me guidance in my life and they taught me things that I didn't know how to do! I am so blessed to have those women in my life and I am so blessed that they love me for who I am! Why does International Women's Day mean to me? The reason International Women's Day mean to me is because those women who influenced me in my life or love me for who I am means a lot to me! They are a blessing to my life and they will always be a blessing in my life! I am blessed to say that I have amazing women in my life who would guide me in the right direction and lead me the right way to my life! I'm very grateful to live my life as a woman and try to make the right choices as I can!

Since March 8th was International Women's Day, who are the strongest women and the Kpop female idols in my life? 

Since March 8th was international women's day, who are the strongest women and the Kpop female idols in my life? I had a ton of women who came into my life but the ones who I considered the strongest women and the Kpop female idols in my life are my mom, my sister, Brandy, my sister, Tyna, BlackPink, Twice, and Jessi! The first person who I considered as a strong woman in my life is my mom, Peggy! Me and my mom had a rocky relationship in the beginning but as time went on, our relationship got better and I'm very grateful for that. I love my mom more than anything and I am so blessed to have her in my life! She reads my blogs and supports me through my blogging journey! I love my mom a lot! The second person who I consider strong is my sister, Brandy! My sister, Brandy is an amazing mom, wife, bonus mom, gammy, aunt, and sister. She shares my blogs with her friends when she doesn't have to but she does because she wants to share my blogs and my work! I love my sister more than anything in this world! She is so supportive and I'm so blessed to have an amazing sister in my life! The third and final person who I consider as strong in my life is my sister, Tyna! Let me tell you about my sister, Tyna! She is one heck of a fighter! By the grace of God, she beat not just one, not two, but three cancers! She had three cancers but she is cancer free! She is one heck of a fighter! She helped me through school and always supported me through everything and I love her so much! She is awesome! My mom and my two sisters are a huge blessing to my life and I love them so much! The Kpop female idols that I consider strong in my life is BlackPink, Twice, and Jessi! Do you what all of these Kpop female idols have all in common? When they do a music video or perform in concert, they all perform in heels and that takes guts to perform in heels!! 

Why do I considered those women strong? 

The reason why I considered those women strong is because they are all strong in their own way! The three women in my life aka my two sisters and my mom all have an attitude where we are strong and we got this! We can get through anything but if you get in our way, we are going to knock you out!! Us three women are very strong and if you get in our way, chances are you will get knocked out or you might regret what we will do to you next! Never mess with us women because we are strong in our own way! We got this and we can fight through our way if you get in our way! The reason why I considered BlackPink, Twice, and Jessi as strong women is because when they are doing a concert or a show or even a music video, they wear high heels! That take skill to dance in high heels and hopefully, don't hurt themselves as well. I can't imagine to dance in high heels and all of the sudden, break a heel or an ankle! That is crazy! I applaud these women for wearing high heels! I can't even wear high heels because I'm afraid that I might fall face first and break an ankle! Another reason why I considered these women strong is because with BlackPink and Twice, they have rappers in the group! That also takes skill because I can't rap worth a darn and when the women rap, I think it is amazing! When Jessi, a Kpop idol and a soloist that I like so much, she can rap and sing and she is so good! I feel like in the music industry, there isn't a lot of female rappers and I feel like there should be more female rappers because a lot of female rappers are so good and I am very impressed with the singing and raping as well! The third and final reason why I could considered those women strong because they are strong in their own way and I love BlackPink, Twice, Jessi, my two sisters, and my mom so much! They are all fighters and I love how even though they are tired, they still make time to talk to their family or the people are surrounded by them! I love that!! 

What kind of influence did these women put in my life? Why did these women influenced me and my life? 

What kind of influence did these women put in my life? The kind of influence that my mom put in my life is when you work two jobs, it can be tiring at times but just know that she did it because she cared about me! The kind of influence that my sister, Tyna put in my life is always be positive no matter what. Things can be hard at times but just know life is worth living! She always helped me through school and with her cancer diagnosis, it was hard for me and it opened her eyes a lot and my eyes as well! The kind of influence that my sister, Brandy put in my life is never give up on God or your faith because God can lead you the way and help you with every step of the way!!! The kind of influence that BlackPink put in my life is to never give up on your dreams because if you give up, your dreams won't come true! The influence that Twice put in my life is their is someone who will support you and make you feel special! The kind of influence that Jessi put in my life is you don't need a man to make yourself happy! All you need is yourself because I'm a strong and independent woman! I don't need a man to make me happy! Why did these six women influenced me and my life? The reason why these 6 women influenced me and my life is because they all taught me something different about life and I am a proud woman because of these 6 women!! I love my mom, my two sisters, BlackPink, Twice, and Jessi so much! They will always have a place in my heart and I will always enjoy BlackPink, Twice, and Jessi music so much! Their music is so good and I love their music so much! 

When I think about women empowerment, what do I think of? Why do I think about women empowerment like that? 

When I think about women empowerment, i think of all women should be treated equally and with respect! I feel like a lot of women aren't treated equally and with respect especially by men. I feel like men walk over women. Not all men do that, but some men don't treat women with respect and that's wrong. I feel like some men disrespect women because they think it is right to do that but I know not all men don't do that and I appreciate that a lot. I had guys treat me with disrespect or who weren't nice to me at all. Most guys that I have encountered or that I have talked to were very nice to me or very mean to me. The ones who were nice to me, I appreciate that a lot. Another thing that I think about women empowerment is when a woman stands up for what they believe in or stand up to man for cheating on her or for abusing her. Most women wouldn't stand up for what they believe in or stand up to a man for cheating on her or for abusing her, that takes guts and it shows how strong that woman is! Always show how strong you are and never give up! Why do I think about women empowerment like that? The reason why I think about women empowerment like is because it takes a special woman to stand up to a guy and ask the guy for respect or stand up for what they believe in or stand up to their husbands or boyfriends who cheated on them or has been an abusive relationships, it takes guts and it takes courage to do it! I clap for those women! Those women are strong and brave! I had guys who did treat me with respect and had some guys who were very mean to me but I respect the guys who were very nice to me because there is some guys who would treat a lady right and I respect a guy for that!! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?

In conclusion, women are very strong in their own way! Women have ups and downs, but at the end of the day, we can get through it no matter what! I am very blessed to have amazing women in my life! Women are so strong and there is women who played two parts as parents. Women who play the mom and the dad, I have mad respect for y'all! Women who has given birth, I also have mad respect for y'all as well! Women who beat any cancer and who also chased your dreams, mad respect for y'all as well. Not being a single parent isn't easy! I never experienced it but I can tell that one day in the future that I never want to go through it! It takes a special women to be a single parent or gives birth or chases their dreams! Our health is very important and we need to take care of our health because I feel like it is very important! I have respect for women because as a women myself, I feel like other women should always respect other women no matter what! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is ladies, treat each other with respect because I think it is very important to be there for each other through the hard times and good times! Men, treat your girlfriend, wife, mom, or even your sisters with some respect. Ask her if she is doing okay because if she say "I'm not doing okay", then as a brother, you need to protect her and comfort her the best way that you can. Always protect the women in your life because they are very important. Protect those females that you love and care about so much!! My question of the day is Who is the strongest women in your life? Who do you look up for guidance? Sound off below and let me know in the comments down below! I would love to read your comments and answer them! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all so much!! 

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies!! Y'all have reached the end of my blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog post! Tell the women who you love so much because you never know when the last day could be for them, so enjoy those women in your life! Always tell them that you love them so much and hug them very tightly! For my Shinning Star Butterflies who are in school and that are taking exams, I just want to wish you good luck on your exams! I know y'all got this! I will always believe in y'all! My advice about tests and exams is always do your best no matter what! I hope everyone enjoys your day or night, wherever y'all maybe be at and have a happy Wednesday or in other countries, a happy Thursday! Stay safe and I will see y'all on Friday! I love y'all and stay safe! Your blogger girl is out! Peace! 💜💜

Me and my two sisters, Brandy and Tyna! I love these two women so much! I am a very blessed little sister two have these two big sisters in my life! I love y'all so much!! 

This song is called "Scars To Your Beautiful" by Alessia Cara. I love this song because every woman is beautiful in their own way! Be proud of your stretch marks! Every woman and girl is beautiful in your own way! 

Me and my momma! We may not a good relationship but now, we have a good relationship now and I am very blessed! I love my momma so much!

The female groups and soloist that I look up to!! 

My biggest pet peeves! By: Brandee Darden.

                            My biggest pet peeves! By: Brandee Darden. Monday, March 7th, 2022! 

Intro to my blog!

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies!! It's your girl, Brandee back with all new blog episodes for the week! I hope everyone has an amazing weekend and if not, that's okay! I hope everyone has a safe and great week! If anyone has exams coming up, I just want to wish y'all good luck! Study hard but not too hard! Don't overwork yourself and take breaks in between your study sessions! Y'all got this! I believe in y'all 210%. Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! On last week's blog post, I talked about the blogs I like/ Which one was hard to talk about it, my future jobs, and analyzing the song "Dynamite" by BTS. When I was talking about which blog was the hardest for me to talk about, when I mentioned my blog my "My story about my suicide attempt", that was really hard for me because in 2018, that was a hard period for me! I was moving and I was missing my grandpa a lot! My grandpa, Flex went to be with Jesus on February 5th, 2017 and to be honest with my Shinning Star Butterflies, that was so hard for me! He wasn't my real grandpa, but I claimed him as my grandpa because he was there for me and supported me through everything! I'm glad that I got to speak about my suicide attempt and got to share my story with everyone around the world! Talking about something like my suicide attempt isn't the easiest to talk about! It is very hard to talk about and I'm glad that I got to talk about it and share it with everyone!! If you know someone who is battling with suicide thoughts or even yourself, just know that you are not alone! You are not alone in this battle and don't let these thoughts win! I am here for anyone if anyone needs someone to talk to! 

Talking about what kind of blogs that I am doing this week? What is today's blog going to be about? What is the song of week?

For this week's blogs, I will be talking about my biggest pet peeves, who are the strongest women in my life and Kpop female idols, and analyzing my poem "Fake Love" by me aka Brandee Darden. I am so excited about these blogs! Stay tuned these blog episodes!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about my biggest pet peeves. I will be talking about if I had to pick my 4 biggest pet peeves, what would they be? Why would I pick those as my pet peeves? Why did I pick a pet peeve like when people leave me on read? Why don't I like when people leave me on read? If I have any advice on people leaving you on read, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice? What is the significance behind that advice? Why is the advice so significant? For this week's song of the week, I chose "Glow" by Bear Bear and Friends! I love this song so much and actually, one of my Shinning Star Butterflies suggested to me! Thank you so much to one of Shinning Star Butterflies for suggesting this song to me! Thank you so much! Let's get started with this blog episode! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about the different pet peeves and why is there different pet peeves??

The different pet peeves that I think of is when you go into a room and all of a sudden, you forget what you are getting or another pet peeve could if someone chews loudly and it drives you crazy. A third pet peeve could be if someone touches your stuff without your permission! That would drive me crazy!! The fourth and final pet peeve you could have is when someone said that they are going to be there for you but in reality, they are not. I have this as a pet peeve and I will explain here in a little bit on why I have it but I am going to explain it here! That drives me crazy when someone say "I'm always here for you no matter what" and then, they are not there for you when you are going through a hard time! The reason why there is different pet peeves is because sometimes, different things can drive you crazy or one of your pet peeves could be you going to a room and you forget what you went in there for. Everyone has different pet peeves and everyone has something that will bothers them! I have different things that bother me and that's okay!!! 

If I had to pick my 4 biggest pet peeves, what would they be? Why would I pick those as my pet peeves? 

If I had to pick my biggest pet peeves, they would be when people leave me on read, when people say they are there for me, but really they are not there for me, judging other people for that like, and when people lie to me! The first pet peeve is when people leave me on read! The reason why I picked that as a pet peeve is because when people leave me on read, it drives me! I get inside of my head of "are they going to talk to me"? "Do they like me"? "Did I say something wrong"? Those things run through my head so many times and I am not afraid to admit that I leave people on read sometimes and I don't think it is okay to leave people on read. The second pet peeve that I have is when people say "they are there for me" but really, they are not there for me! I don't like when people say "I'm always here for you no matter what" but then, they either turn their back on me or they stopped talking to me! That hurts me to the core! I have learned to let those type of people go when they do those things to me! They aren't worth your time! Let them go! The third pet peeve that I have is judging other people for what they like or what their skin color is or their sexuality is or who they like! I don't like when people judge other people because of what they like, what their skin color is, their sexuality is, or even what sex they want to be! I don't have any problem with any of that but when people judge other people for what they like or what their skin color is or any of the other stuff that I mentioned, that is when I will get mad and that is when I will protect that person, even I don't know them! Never judge a book by its cover because you don't know what they have been through! The fourth and final pet peeve that I have is when people lie to me! OMG! I don't like when people lie to me! The reason why I picked this as my pet peeve is because when people lie to me, it hurts me so much to the point where I am mad and hurt because when someone I thought I could trust and all of the sudden, I can't trust them because they lied to me, it hurts me. That's why I have trust issues! When people lie to me, I can't trust them anymore! It takes time for me to trust that person again!

Why did I pick a pet peeve like when people leave me on read? Why I don't I like when people leave me on read?

The reason why I pick a pet peeve like when people leave on read is because I get into my head a lot about "Do they want to talk to me"? "Do they like me"? I get so much anxiety when they leave me on read but I learned how to move on past it and just accept it! I learned to move on from it and learned that some people aren't meant to talk to for along time and carry on a conversation! I learn to move past it because it is in the past! If you move on from the past, then you will be okay! Why don't I like when people leave me on read? The reason why I don't like when people leave me on read is because I get a bunch of things in head or maybe they don't want to carry a conversation with me and that's okay! I learn that not every person would want to carry a conversation and that's okay! I have learned to carry on with life and continue to be happy! Besides, I rather be happy then talking to someone for a long time! I rather be alone at times and then, talking to someone about nonsense! That's kind of boring! 

If I have any advice on people leaving you on read, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice? 

If I have any advice on people leaving you on read, what is my advice? My advice is leave that person in the past! If you sent a message to a person and they leave you on read, they either don't want a long conversation or they are just really busy! If they don't want to talk to you, move on and take sometime to yourself! Time to yourself is well worth it and having sometime to yourself is absolutely amazing and it is worth it! Why would I give that advice? The reason why I would give this advice is because yes, it is nice to have someone to talk to but if they don't want to talk to you and leave you on read, chances are they don't want to carry on a conversation or they just don't want to talk to you! Sometimes, some people don't want to talk for a long time especially me because after I am done with my blog episode for the day, my brain turns to a puddle or a mud and I can't think at that right moment and I am tired because I did a lot of thinking and I am just tired that I don't want to carry on a conversation or I just want to talk to anyone! If someone leaves you on read, let it be! It's not worth being sad over someone who leaves you on read! Don't dwell on someone leaving you on read! Don't even make a huge fuss about it! Not even worth it and besides, having a time to yourself is much better than talking to someone who doesn't want to talk to you or is talking nonsense! Enjoy that time alone and be happy!! Being happy by yourself is much better!! 

What is the significance behind that advice? Why is the advice so significant? 

What is the significance behind that advice? The significance behind that advice is when people don't want to talk to you, they usually leave you on read! Sometimes when people do that to me, I usually get mad, but now I move on from it and just keep going with life! Life is too precious and it's not worth getting mad or upset if someone leaves you on read! If that person doesn't want to talk to you, chances are that they are very busy or just don't want to talk to you and it's not worth getting upset or mad over! It's not! Move on from it and make yourself happy! Your happiness is worth much more than a conversation with someone who doesn't want to talk to you or they are talking a bunch of nonsense! Why is the advice so significant? The reason why the advice is so significant is because sometimes, people don't understand me when I don't want to talk to that person and some people don't understand that talking to other people can be so annoying at times and if you don't want to talk to that person, just leave them on read! I know it sounds wrong to do, but if you want to enjoy that time alone and want some space from people, just leave them on read! Maybe, give them a taste of their own medicine and show them what it is feels like to be left on read! Just move on from them and talk to someone else who is worth your time and who will be there for you no matter what!

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?

In conclusion, if people leave you on read or say "they will always be there for you no matter what" or they lie to you, just know to never trust that person or people ever again. It is hard to trust someone who just hurt you and you thought you would supported you but they went behind your back and stabbed you! If that person lied to you or tell you "I'm always here for you" or they judge you because of your skin color or what you like or even your sexuality, chances are they are haters and they are jealous! If that person leaves you on read, chances are they are really busy, they don't want to talk to you, or they just don't care about the conversation! Just carry on with your life! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is if someone is judging you or someone is leaving you on read or someone lied to you, don't worry about those people! They aren't worth your time! Don't waste your tears on that person because they hurt you! Don't give them the time of day because it's not worth it! It's not worth it and don't pay attention to them! Not worth it!! My question of the day is what is y'all's pet peeves? What bothers you the most? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read and respond to y'all's comments! Please! Thank you so much!! I love y'all so much!! 

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog episode for today! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog episode! To any of my Shinning Star Butterflies who are students and are taking exams, I just want to say good luck on your exams! You got this! I believe in y'all 210%. Good luck! I believe in y'all! I hope everyone stays safe and I hope everyone has a good week ahead! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! I love y'all very much! Stay Gold! Shine bright like a star that y'all are! Fly like a butterfly and chase your dreams! I love y'all and I will see y'all on Wednesday! I love y'all! Your blogger queen is out! Peace! 💜✌

This quote is for when people say they are there for me, but really they are not there for me:
"Stop
ignoring actions and trusting words.
Stop giving your all to a person 
who gives you nothing.
Stop hanging on to someone who has let go of you.
Stop expecting change from a person
who doesn't want to be changed. 
Stop letting the fear of loneliness cause you 
to settle for less than what you deserve.
Stop letting the wrong reasons 
keep you in a relationship that isn't right for you.
Stop breaking your own heart."
-Trent Shelton. I love this quote because all of this is true! Stop breaking your own heart by being in a relationship or even a friendship that might hurt you in the end! You deserve to have a friend or be in a relationship that is much better!! 

This quote is for the people who are judging other people: 
"No one 
likes feeling 
judged. 
Back off and 
let people live.
We're all on 
some type of 
journey, all
evolving and 
growing." 
-Unknown. I love this quote because all of us are on some type of a journey together! We are learning different things and we are growing!! Don't judge other people and tear them down! That's not right!! 

This quote is for when people lie to me:
"Tell a lie once, and all your 
truths become questionable".
-Unknown. I love this quote because if you tell me a lie once, how am I going to trust you again? If you lie to me over and over, chances are that I will never believe you ever again and it is going to take some time to rebuild our trust again!! 

This quote is for people who leave me on read! 
"When people don't text 
back I get so much 
anxiety... am I bugging 
you? are you mad at 
me? are we even 
friends? why do I care
so much"?
-Unknown! I like this quote because these things run through my head a lot and I wonder if I am bugging my friends or why do I care so much? 

The song of the week is "Glow" by Bear Bear and Friends! I love this song so much because it is so good and amazing! One of my Shinning Star Butterflies recommend this song to me and it is so good!!