Blog: How do I feel about my blogging anniversary being last Thursday? by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date: Friday, 5/23/25!!

                                    Blog: How do I feel about my blogging anniversary being last Thursday? By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, 5/23/25!! This blog is dedicated to anyone who has been apart of my blogging journey from the very beginning! This blog is for y'all! I love y'all! 

Intro to my blog!!  

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about my poems to the songs that I love to so many more things!! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all might be going through, just know that you are loved by so many people including myself and I'm here for anyone who might need a shoulder to cry on!! I love y'all and so does Jesus! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday!! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for the day? I know that I am but 1st, a blog recap from Wednesday! On Wednesday, I ended up talking about what gave me strength this year so far? If I could pick one thing that made strong or gave me the strength this year so far, it would have to be people being there!! To know that I have people there for me and supporting me gives me a lot of comfort!! It reminds me that I am not alone and people are there for me, no matter what! Want to know more about this blog? I will leave the link right here: →Gave me strength this year so far? Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! I love y'all! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about how do I feel about my blogging anniversary being last Thursday? This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who has been apart of my blogging journey from the very beginning! This blog is for y'all! I love y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about how do I feel about blogging anniversary being last Thursday? Why do I have that feeling? What do I want to say to my Blogger Dreamers who have been there for me through my blogging journey in the beginning? Why would I say that to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, with that being said, let's get our thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

How has this blogging journey been within these past 4 years? Why has been like that? 

How has this blogging journey been within these past 4 years? The past 4 years of my blogging journey has been amazing! I can't thank everyone for the amount of support from everyone who has been there for me since the start of it!! May 15th, 2021 is when I started and I am still doing it to this day!! I feel happy when I am blogging!! Sharing what I have been to my thoughts about my poems to my thoughts about a song, it just means a lot to me! I am so blessed that I can share stuff with my Blogger Dreamers and I pray that y'all can stay on this journey with me!! Why has been like that? The reason why it has been amazing because I thank everyone including my fiancé who hasn't really been there from the beginning but day in and day out, he shares my blog episodes with people that he knows and to me, that means a lot!! I am so blessed that he takes his time out of his time just to share my blogs!! It means a lot to me!! I am so appreciative!! This blogging journey has been amazing and I can't wait to see what God has in store for me within this blogging journey! 

My feelings!  

How do I feel about my blogging anniversary being last Thursday? Last Thursday, 4 years ago, I started blogging and my feelings about my blogging anniversary being last Thursday, it is unbelievable and the way I get so much love for my blogs!! It makes my heart happy the way my Blogger Dreamers love my blogs and I can't thank y'all enough for loving my blogs and for supporting me through my blogging journey!! It means the world to me and thank you!! 

Why?

Why do I have that feeling? The reason why I have a feeling of unbelievable is because for me, it is hard to believe that last Thursday, I started 4 years ago blogging and to look where I am at today, it is crazy!! To think I have so many supporters who support me from the very beginning and who are still supporting me to this day, I couldn't be anymore happy that I already am and I want to thank to all of my Blogger Dreamers who has my back and who has been supporting since the beginning of my blogging journey! I can't thank y'all enough for supporting me and helping me through this journey! I love y'all so much!! 

To my Blogger Dreamers!! 

What do I want to say to my Blogger Dreamers who have there for me through my blogging journey in the beginning? To my Blogger Dreamers who have been there for me from the very beginning, thank you from the bottom of my heart! Thank you for the support that y'all have given me and without y'all, I don't know where I would be without y'all! I don't know if I would still be doing blogging! There has been times where I almost gave up on blogging! I had people telling me what to do with my blogs and how I should write them to the point where I wanted to give up but I didn't! My dad never raised a quitter and I am not giving up on something that I absolutely love and that I am passionate about!! Thank you to my Blogger Dreamers who has so much faith in me and never stopped believing in me! Y'all are amazing!! I love y'all! 

Why?

Why would I say that to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would say that to my Blogger Dreamers is because I honestly don't know where I would be without y'all! Y'all make this happen and everyday, I wake up feeling happy because I know who is supporting me through my blogs and who isn't and to be honest, I want to thank you to anyone who takes the time out of their time to read my blogs! From the bottom of my heart, I want to thank you because y'all support means everything to me!! I don't know where I would be without y'all and I don't know if I would be this far without y'all!! My heart is so happy and I can't wait to see what the next 4 years would look like!! I am excited to see what the next blogs would be about!! Stay tuned!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, to feel so much love from the people who do read my blogs means everything to me!! It means so much to me that it makes my heart so happy! Day in and day out, I put so much heart and soul into my blogs and despite how exhausted I am each morning, I still do it because I have so much passion for my blogging and how much I love it!! When I put time into something that I absolutely love, I don't give up and quit! That's not who I am! I keep going and keep pushing through!! I love blogging so much and I love writing or typing up poems because when I write things down, I feel so much better afterwards!! When I write something down, I feel better knowing that I got off my chest or when I talk to someone this is how I feel and I tell them how I feel, I feel great and so much better!! That is how I am with blogging!! Once I am done with typing up what I want to talk about, I feel so much better and nothing makes me more happy!! It feels good to get everything off my chest! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is if you have a passion for something, go for it! Don't give up and don't quit because that is what Satan wants you to do!! He wants you to give up and quit but you got this!! Believe in yourself and never give up! I love y'all!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! The moral of this blog episode is if you have passion for something, go for it! Don't let someone or something stop you from chasing your dreams! I almost had people stop me from giving up blogging but did I? No because I kept going and I kept pushing through!! I love blogging so much that I never wanted to give it up! Don't let someone tell that you are not good at something if they haven't seen you do it before! If you have a passion for something, keep doing it until you can't do it anymore! To be where I am at today, I'm proud of myself! I'm proud of where I am at today because of the people who believed in me!! I am not here because of the people that didn't believe in me but I am here because of the people who do believe in me!! I am proud of where I am at and I can't wait to see where the next 4 years take me!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from Ezekiel 36:26 and it says "A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you: and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you an heart of flesh". I absolutely love today's Bible Verse of the day is because when you get saved, your heart changes!! Your prospective on life changes and your view changes on people as well! The way you look at things!! When you give your life for Christ, you have a change of heart and you are a new person!! Change your heart!! I love y'all and so does Jesus and stay tuned for next week's blog episodes where on my 1st blog page, I will be talking about the song "Far away" by: Nickelback, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden, what happens when you stay angry at a person, and why should we be careful what we say? Stay tuned for those and without further saying, always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's show the whole world how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all and this blogger queen is out! Peace! ✌❤✌❤✌❤✌❤✌❤✌❤

Today's Bible Verse of the day! I absolutely love this Bible Verse of the day so much is because when you give your life to Christ, you have new heart and you also have a new flesh! You have the holy spirit in you and you look at things differently!! 

"Rome wasn't 
built in a day. 
Neither are 
great blogs". 
-Margaret Bourne. I couldn't agree more with this quote because Rome wasn't built in one day or overnight! Blogging doesn't happen overnight either!! As time goes on, you get better at it and once you find your rhythm of things, keep that flow going!! 

"The first thing you need to 
decide when you build 
your blog is what you
want to accomplish with
it, and what it can do if 
successful". 
-Ron Dawson. I love this quote a lot because when you are starting to blog, you need something that will grab the readers attention or you need to have a foundation to start your blog and that is very important to have that foundation to start your blog!! 

"Bloggers 
have a way 
with words, 
but 
sometimes 
we just
make stuff
up and 
hope for  the 
best". 
-Unknown. I love this so much because as we go and blog, we make things up as we are typing and as we are typing, we are praying that it sounds right and pray that it can touch someone's heart!! For me, I think about if I am going to touch someone's heart today or if someone won't like it but I pray for the best and go along with it!!! 

To end today's blog episode. here is this week's song of the week!! I chose BTS "Spring Day" and the reason why I chose that song because of the soft melody it has! When you listen to this song, for me, I want to fall asleep to the song because of the soft melody it has!! It has such a good melody and I love it!! I love y'all and please, be safe and have an amazing weekend ahead! I love y'all and so does Jesus!! Brandee, the Blogger Queen is out!! Peace! ❤❤❤❤

Blog: What gave me strength this year so far? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date of blog: Wednesday, May 21st, 2025!!

                                        Blog: What gave me strength this year so far? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, May 21st, 2025!! This blog is dedicated to anyone who felt close to people who might of given them the strength throughout the year! This blog is for y'all! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever you are going through or whatever has you in the dumps, just know that you are never alone and that you are loved by so many people who do care about you!! I care about y'all!! I love y'all! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but 1st, blog recap from Monday! On Monday, I talked about what caused me pain so far this year? I think what cause me pain this year so far is not having people there for me! I can be there for people all day all long but who is there for me? No one and that's hurts! Be there for people when they are in trouble!! Want to know more about this blog? You can check it out right here: →What caused me pain so far this year? Please, go give this blog episode a read! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what gave me strength this year so far? This blog is dedicated to anyone who felt close to people who might of given them the strength throughout the year! This blog is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could pick 3 things that gave me strength so far this year, what would those things be? Why would I pick those 3 things that brought me strength this year so far? Out of those things, which one brings me the most strength? Why did that thing bring me the most strength this year so far? Now, let's get our thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

My definition of strength! Why would I give that as my definition of strength? 

If I could give my definition of strength, what would that be? If I could give my definition of strength, that would be someone who stays strong for everyone else while that person is struggling themselves!! Sometimes, when a person is trying to stay strong for other people, maybe because that person doesn't want other people to struggle either!! You always want to stay strong for other people but it can be a challenge at times!! Why would I give that as my definition of strength? The reason why I would give that as my definition of strength is because it is hard to stay strong for others when you are feeling weak yourself but you hide that from others and that can be a challenge at times!! Don't hide your weakness from others because people could pick up on it!! I know my fiancé could pick up when I am not fine!!! I could tell him that I am fine but deep down, he knows that I am not fine!! He is good!! 

3 things that give strength so far this year? 

If I could pick 3 things that gave me strength so far this year, what would those 3 things be? If I had to pick 3 things that gave me strength so far this year, the 1st thing that gave me strength is having people supportive!! When I think about that, it makes me realize how blessed I am to have people who is willing to support me and be there for me through difficult times!! It makes me realize that without those people, I don't know if I would be this strong!! The 2nd thing that gave me strength is people being there! Having people there for me when I need them the most gives me some strength! When I need someone, I know there are a lot of people who will be there for me and that gives me a lot of comfort!! Knowing that I have people who will be there for me and supporting me, it gives me a lot of strength!! The 3rd and final thing that gave me strength this year so far is feeling loved by others!! To have that feeling of feeling loved by others is the most amazing feeling in the world! Nothing gives me more comfort than knowing that I am loved by others!! To me, I know that I am loved and cared for and I know people love me a lot!! I feel loved by others who shows me the love that I need!! 

Why?

Why would I pick those 3 things that brought me strength this year so far? The 1st reason why I would pick having people supportive as the 1st thing that gave me strength this year so far is because when you have people in your corner who understands what you are going through and knows that they will do anything to support you, it makes you realize how blessed you are and for me, I fee very blessed! Ever since me and my fiancé got engaged, we had so much support from his family, his church family, and so much more and I can't thank God for that!! The 2nd reason why I would pick people being there as the 2nd thing that gave me strength this year so far is because to know that I have people who is willing to drop anything just to be there for me is the most amazing feeling in the world!! To know that people will help me through anything that I am going through or willing to listen to me when I need someone to talk to is an amazing feeling and I can't thank God for the people who will listen to me and be there for me!! The 3rd and final reason why I would pick feeling loved by others as the 3rd thing that gave me strength this year so far is because to know that you have people who love you is the best feeling in the world! To know that people who love you just the way you are and you don't have to change for them is the most amazing feeling in the world!! I feel blessed that I have people who love me the way I am and they accept me the way I am!! It is a blessing!! 

Most strength!! 

Out of those things, which one brings me the most strength? If I had to pick the one thing that brings me the most strength, it would have to be feeling loved by others as the one that give me the most strength!! When I think about feeling loved by others, to know that I am loved especially loved by my fiancé, it makes safe and secure!! All of my life, all I wanted to feel safe and secure and I have finally come to a place where I do feel safe and secure and I am so blessed to have a few people who do make me safe and secure and one of those people is my fiancé!! When I stayed with him and his older sister, I felt safe and secure by them! In my head, I knew that they wouldn't have anything bad happened to me and I know that they would do anything to keep me safe and I love them for that!! Having a lot of people who love me whether it is my family or even my fiancé's family or even his church family, I feel so blessed to have them!! 

Why? 

Why did that thing bring me the most strength this year so far? The reason why I chose feeling loved by others as the that give me the most strength this year so far is because throughout my life, I never found people who would love me for me or I was afraid to be who I am around others but now, I don't care about being afraid to be who I am and the reason why I am not afraid anymore is because those people love me for who I am, not the pretend version!! The love the real version of me and to know people love the real version is amazing!! I love having people in my life who love me for me, not a pretend version of me!! They love the person who struggles, the one who is going through a lot, and the one who is happy and has God in her life!! I am blessed to have people who truly love me!!! I am blessed!! 

In closing/ Reminder of the day! 

In closing, this year has brought me some days where people hurt me or I had people being there for me and to those people who have been there for me, thank you for being there for me! I love y'all! This year gave me a lot of strength as well!! To have people who are supportive, to people being there, to feeling loved by others is the most amazing feeling in the world! To the ones who have been supportive, I want to thank you for not giving up on me because your support means everything to me! I feel loved by the amount of support! Thank you!! I feel so blessed to have people who love me for me! People love the real me and to know that, it feels wonderful and amazing!! I have never felt safe and secure until the few people I have in my life and I am so blessed!! I have so much strength because of the people who make me feel loved!! I am so thankful for the people who love me!! Here is my reminder of the day: My reminder of the day is find people who will love the real authentic you! Don't pretend to be someone else to have people love you!! If the people in your life don't love the real and authentic you, then you don't need those people in your life anymore! Don't pretend to be someone else!! I love y'all!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! This is your Blogger Queen, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! The moral of this blog is people are going to be there for you when they want to but the real people are going to be there for you in a heartbeat! The real people are going to love the real you, not the fake you!! People are going to be there for you and support you through everything that you are going through!! Having people who will be there for you and supporting you through everything, it means a lot!! You want people who is willing to drop everything just being there for you!! I love those people!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from Psalm 103:2 and it says " Bless the Lord, O My Soul, and forget not all his benefits:". I love this Bible Verse of the day so much because we can't forget what the Lord has done for us and he wants us to have a good life!! We need to trust what the Lord wants for our life!! I love y'all and happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday and stay tuned for Friday's blog episode where I will be talking about how do I feel about my blogging anniversary being last Thursday? Stay tuned and always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's share how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all and so does Jesus! This Blogger Queen is out!! Peace! ✌❤✌❤✌❤✌❤✌❤✌❤

Today's Bible Verse of the day! I love this Bible Verse of the day so much because we can't forget the benefits that Lord has given us and he wants us to trust him and he wants us to give thanks!! 

"Surround 
yourself with 
supportive 
people". 
-The inspiring Lifestyle. I couldn't agree with this quote more because once you surround yourself with supportive people, you never want to lose those people who are supportive! Having people who are supportive is the best feeling in the world!! 

"There are rare people, 
who will show up at the right time, 
help you through the hard times and 
stay into your best times. 
Those are the keepers". 
-Thoughts. I love this quote a lot because people are rare when they drop everything to show up the right time, help you through hard times, and stay by your side at your best times! Those people are keepers!! Those people will help you get through a hard time and they will show up at the right time and stay by your side when you are having best times in your life!! Keep those people!! 

"It's about those who 
have good hearts, 
are full of love, 
living their life with
honest and beautiful 
intentions, and treating 
others with respect". 
-Prettypaper. I love this so much because there are people who have good hearts and have the right intentions to be there for people who needs love and care!! There are people who also treating them respect as well! Find people who will treat you with respect!! 

I love y'all so much! Please, be safe out there and let's share how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today!! I love y'all and does Jesus! This Blogger Queen is out!! Peace! ✌❤

Blog: What cause me pain so far this year? by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date of my blog: Monday, 5-19-25!!

                                       Blog: What cause me pain so far this year? by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of my blog: Monday, 5-19-25!! This blog is dedicated to anyone who has been mean to or no one supported you! This blog is for y'all! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for the day!! How y'all are doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all might be going through or whatever it is dragging y'all down, just know that you are loved and you have people who do support you and if people don't support you, I support you, no matter what!! I love y'all and you know who else loves you? Jesus does!! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday!! Who is ready's for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but 1st blog recap from last week!! Last week on my makeup and fashion blog page- on Monday, I talked about the meaning behind my promise ring!! The meaning behind my promise ring is that me and my fiancé will do life forever together!!! When I think about, it sounds nice because I can't picture my life without him!! He is my world!! On Wednesday, I talked about my top 3 outfits for my dream dates with my fiancé! If I could pick an outfit to wear on our dream date, it would have to be a navy blue dress with white wedges and I would wear my white hair bow along with my pearl with gold bow, pearl with diamonds stacked bracelet, pearl and diamond bracelet, and diamond earrings!! This outfit would be so cute to wear on a picnic date!! On Friday, I talked about makeup looks with my outfits for dream dates with my fiancé! One of the makeup looks that I would wear is a light brown with a gold glitter on top, pink blush, silver highlighter, and a red lipstick!! I would wear this makeup look with my red dress which look so cute and so beautiful!! Want to know more about these blog episodes? Well, you are in luck because the link would be right here: →Makeup and fashion blog page!! Please, go check them out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! Now, for this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about what caused me pain so far this year, what gave me strength this year so far, and how do I feel about my blogging anniversary last Thursday? Now, without any further ado, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started!! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose this blog topic to talk about? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what cause me pain so far this year? This blog is dedicated to anyone who has been mean to or no one supported you!! This blog is for y'all!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could pick 3 things that caused me pain so far this year, what would those 3 things be? Why did those things cause me so much pain? Out of those things, which one cause me the most pain this year so far? Why did that thing cause me the most pain? Why did I choose this blog topic to talk about? The reason why I choose to talk about this topic is because a lot of things has caused me pain this year so far and it is hard to let those things run pass in my mind each and everyday and when you have been in so much pain, it is hard to think about what caused you pain!! What is this week's song of the week? I choose a BTS song called "Spring day". When I think about that song, I think about the soft beat it has and I think about the meaning of the song!! Why did I choose this song for the week? The reason why I choose this song is because I love the soft beat to the song and I love how good the song is!! 

How would I describe this year so far? Why did I describe this year so far?

If I could describe this year so far, how would I describe this year so far? If I could describe this year so far, I would describe it as full of surprises and emotions!! After not seeing my boyfriend at the time for almost a year, I got to spend a week with him and that was amazing!! When I got to his sister's house, he surprised me with a promise which meant a lot to me! Then, on May 4th, I got to see him for my birthday weekend and not only I got to spend the day with him, but also we went to his sister's house and he proposed to me and now, I am his fiancée!! Ah!!! To think that I am his fiancée is unbelievable!! I am still surprised!! Why did I describe this year so far? The reason why I would describe this year as full of surprises and emotions is because my fiancé surprise me with a promise ring on Valentines day weekend but also on my birthday weekend, I got proposed to!! I am still in shock but I am also happy!! I am ready to spend the rest of my life with my man by my side forever!! 

3 things that caused me pain so far this year!!  

If I could pick 3 things that caused me pain so far this year, what would those 3 things be? If I could pick 3 things that caused me pain so far this year, the 1st thing that caused me pain so far would have to be people being mean to me! I had some people who were mean to me this year so far and to be honest, it honestly hurts! I never have felt so hurt other than people who were mean  to me!! The 2nd thing that caused me pain so far this year would have to be people not being there for me when I need them the most! It hurts when you have been there for people but people are not there for you when you need them the most and that it is it for me!! I would be there for people day in and day out, but who is there for me when I need support? No one!! The 3rd and final thing that caused me pain so far this year would have to be people not being supportive!! What hurts me the most is when people are not being supportive during the good times in your life time and that is what it is happening to me! Ever since me and my fiancé got engaged, there has been some people who haven't been supportive and that hurts a lot! To think about that, it truly does hurt!! 

Why? 

Why did those things cause me so much pain? The 1st reason why people being mean to me caused me so much pain so far this year is because when people are mean to me, I tend to want to shut down and not talk to others!! When people are mean to me, I don't want to talk to that person and for me, it hurts me when a person is mean to me! I don't believe in people being mean to others and if you are mean to others, you are evil and I don't want anything to deal with you!! The 2nd reason why people not being there for me when I need the most caused me so much pain so far this year is because there has been times where I would be there for people but who is there for me? No one! When I need someone, no one is there for me except a few people and that's it!! The 3rd and final reason why people not being supportive caused me so much pain so far this year is because being engaged is the most important time of your life but a few people in me and my fiancé's life aren't really being supportive and that hurts me a lot!! It is sad that people don't want to be supportive but that's okay!! One day, it will come back to hunt them!! 

Most pain? 

Out of those things, which one cause me the most pain this year so far? If I had to pick the the one thing that caused me so much pain this year so far, it would have to be people not being supportive!! On May 4th of this year, me and fiancé got engaged and we had a people been supportive but there are few people who haven't been supportive throughout this journey and to be honest, it hurts!! It hurts so much to the point where I don't want to talk to those people or even think about those people!! When you engaged, that is supposed to be the most amazing time in your life but there can be some people who don't want to be supportive and that's fine but those people who have been supportive means a lot to me!! It shows me who is really there for us in this journey and who isn't!!! I love my fiancé a lot and I am glad that we get to do this journey together!! 

Why? 

Why did that thing cause me the most pain? The reason why people not being supportive caused me the most pain so far this year is because when you don't have that support from people who you thought would support you but they are not being supportive, it hurts a lot and sometimes, I wish those people would be more supportive but it is what it is because if you don't have those people in your life who won't support you, then you don't need them in your life!! I know that I don't need those people who won't support me and my fiancé on this journey! Our engagement is the most important thing in our life and I am blessed that we are on this journey together!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!!  

In closing, people are going to be mean to you, people are not going to be there for you, and people are not going to be supportive when it comes to you but you know what, that's okay because you don't need those people in your life because those people aren't worth it and they are not worth it to be in your life anymore! If people don't want to be nice to you, that's fine because if they aren't nice towards you, then you don't need to be nice to them! If people aren't going to be there for you, don't be there for them anymore!! If people aren't going to be supportive, then don't be supportive towards those people because they weren't supportive towards you!! Show the people who were mean to you! Show the people who didn't show up for you!! Show people that you don't need their support because you don't need them anymore!! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is If people don't want to be nice to you, don't be nice to them!! If people don't want to be there for you, don't show up for those people who don't want to be there for you!! If people don't want to support you, don't support those people because if people don't want to support you, then forget about them!! I love y'all so much and so does Jesus!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day!! You know, this year has taught me a lot this year so far and I am glad that it has because when I saw people's true colors, it made me realize that I never needed them in the beginning and I am glad that they made me realize that!! Those people who have been mean to me, I don't need them to be mean anymore because I have people behind me who are going to stand up for me!! Those people who aren't there for me, that's okay because I have people who is there for me and I am okay with those people!! Those people who haven't been supportive, I don't need your support because I have a ton of people who will support me and I love that for me!! I am okay with the people in my life because they keep me going and I love that for me!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from John 1:5 and it says "And the light shineth in darkness; and the darkness comprehended it not". I love this Bible Verse of the day a lot because God's light will over power the darkness that is in our life because when you have God in your life, the darkness will fade and you will have light in your life because of God!! Have light in your life!! Stay tuned for Wednesday's blog episode where I will be talking about what gave me strength this year so far? Stay tuned but for now, always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and Show people how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today!! I love y'all and Jesus also loves you!! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Today's Bible Verse of the day! I love this Bible Verse of the day so much because God's light will brighten up while the darkness will fade and that's good because when you have God's light in your life, the darkness will fade!! 

"People can 
be mean. 
Don't take it 
personally. It 
says nothing 
about you, 
but a lot 
about them". 
-Unknown. I couldn't agree with this quote because people are mean but don't take it personally because it is not worth it and they might be jealous of you and if they are, that's fine!! You don't need them in your life!! 

"Don't expect people to be
there for you just because 
you're always there for them.
Not everyone has the same
heart as you". 
-Unknown. I love this quote a lot because don't expect people being there for you when you are there for them because no has a good heart like you! When you have a heart of gold and everyone has darkness in their heart, don't lose that golden about your heart!! 

"Always take note of 
who supports you
genuinely.
Those are the people 
you should always keep 
around". 
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because always take note who always shows up and supports you because those people will always be there for you, no matter what!! Those people matter!! 

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week!! I chose "Spring Day" by: BTS!! I chose this song for the week because of how soft it is and how meaningful this song is!! It is such a good song and I love it so much! I love y'all and so does Jesus!! Have a blessed day or had a blessed day! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday!! I love y'all!! 

Blog: How was my birthday? By: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date of my blog: Friday, 5/2/25!!

                                     Blog: How was my birthday? By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of my blog: Friday, 5/2/25!! This blog is a shoutout to everyone who wished me a happy birthday!! Y'all know how to make a girl feel loved!!! Thank you! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay today!! Whatever y'all are going through, I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but first, a blog recap from Wednesday!! On Wednesday, I talked about how would I describe my life lately? If I could describe how life is lately, I would describe my life as up and down and full of emotions! Despite what I have been through, I will conquer through it all!! I have a supportive boyfriend who supports me through everything and I am so blessed to have someone like him!! If y'all want to know more about this blog and would love to check it out, I will leave the link right here: →My life lately!! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! I love y'all!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about how was my birthday? This blog is a shoutout to everyone who wished me a happy birthday! Y'all know how to make a girl feel loved!! Thank you! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could describe my birthday, how would I describe my birthday? Why would I describe my birthday like that? What am I looking forward in the year 27? Why am I looking forward in the year 27? Now, without any further disruptions or distractions, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about my poem! What is the meaning behind my poem? Why is there meaning behind my poem? 

On Tuesday, April 29th of this year, I typed up a new poem called "The year 27" and this is how it goes: "The year 27" by: Brandee Marie Darden! "The year 27 means new 

opportunities! The year 27 

means new adventures! The 

year 27 means new beginnings 

to an all new era! The year 27 

will be new adventures! Let 

the year 27 be a good year"! 

Love, Brandee Marie Darden!! What is the meaning behind my poem? The meaning behind my poem is the year 27 for me is new adventures and new beginnings! A new year is always new beginnings and new adventures!! It also means new opportunities in life!! Whatever God has in store for me, I am looking forward to it!! Why is there meaning behind my poem? The reason why there is meaning behind my poem is because a new year means new beginnings!! A new year means new adventures and new opportunities! Whatever God has in store for me, I will be happy with it!! I am excited where God will be taking me this new year of life!! 

My birthday! 

If I could describe my birthday, how would I describe my birthday? If I could describe my birthday, I would describe it as amazing and very well relaxed!! It was a day where I wanted to relax and enjoy my special day and I am glad that I got to do that!! It was a day where I want to enjoy my day and I am glad that I enjoy my day relaxing and working on blog stuff!! I love working on blog stuff!! 

Why?

Why would I describe my birthday like that? The reason why I would describe my birthday like that is because after I was done working on blog stuff, I ended up relaxing which was really nice!! When I work on blog stuff, I love to relax and love to relax because it gives me time to breathe and have a little time to myself which I think it is really nice!! I love having the time to relax and breathe after either a long day or even to enjoy time to myself which is nice! Relaxing on my birthday was great!!! 

Looking forward in the year 27? 

What am I looking forward in the year 27? I think what I am looking forward in the year 27 is what kind of new opportunities that God will give me and what kind of adventures would God present me!! New opportunities and new adventures will always present itself, no matter what and when a new opportunities or adventures present themself, I will take that opportunity or adventure and run with it!! If God gives you an opportunity or adventure, take it! You never know what God wants you to do in life and if he wants you to do that thing, do it!! I can't wait to see what the next thing will come into my life and can't wait to see what kind of adventures I will go on!! 

Why?

Why am I looking forward in the year 27? The reason why I am looking forward in the year 27 is because I feel like God will present me a new opportunity or even an adventure that I should go on and if God wants me to go on that adventure or even take that opportunity in my life, then I will gladly take that opportunity or go on that adventure, whatever that opportunity or adventure is!! If God is telling you something, then take it!! Don't sit on it and ponder on it!! If God wants you to go on adventure, go on an adventure with either friends or your significant other!! Don't waste time!! Spend time and catch-up with friends!!! Let God present you countless opportunities and adventures because you never know what God has in store for you!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, my birthday was amazing and very well relaxed because all I did was worked on blog stuff, talked with my future sister-in-law, my boyfriend, and video chat with my man as well! I had an amazing birthday!! I felt incredibly loved by people who loved me for me! Receiving so much on my 27th birthday was more than I could ever imagined!! I felt so much loved by everyone who wished me a happy birthday! It was the best day that I could ever imagine!! I am looking forward to this weekend and I can't wait to catch up with friends soon!! I am looking forward what God will be doing in the year 27 for me and I can't wait to see what kind of adventures that I will be doing! I am just excited to see what God will be doing for me!! I feel like conquered, fought, and never gave up to get where I am at today!! I am so proud of myself!! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is enjoy life until you can't anymore because once you can't enjoy life anymore, it will be hard for you!! Life is worth living and you want to make those memories count! Enjoy your life and enjoy the people who are in your life! I love y'all so much!! 

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! I can't express enough gratitude and love that I received yesterday for my birthday! Every message, phone call, text message, and Facebook post made my heart melt! I can't express enough how much it meant to me! Y'all know how to make a girl feel loved and I surely felt the love yesterday! Thank you everyone who wished me a happy birthday and made me feel special! I felt it yesterday!! I am looking forward to new adventures and new opportunities in my life! I can't wait to see what God will do for my life in the year 27! I am excited and I am looking forward to it!! For today's quote of the day, it is by Song-Yi and it goes something like this: "You in the time I know and you in the time I don't know about, I love you both". -Song- Yi. I absolutely love this quote so much because when you think you know a lot about person but you really don't know about a person but the more you get to know them more, you fall in love with them! You fall in love with them because of how quirky they are or how funny they are and you get to see how they really are and you love them for them!! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Stay tuned for next week's blog episodes where I talk about my poems, "Feeling trapped", "Set me free", and "Watch your back". Stay tuned and until next time, always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's show the whole world how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all and so does Jesus! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! 💙✌💙✌💙✌💙✌💙✌

Today's quote of the day! I absolutely love this quote so much because when you get to know what a person is like, you end up loving the side you didn't know before and you did know and when you love both sides, you love with your whole heart!! Always love both sides!! 

My poem that I typed up on Tuesday! The meaning behind this poem is I am looking forward to see what this year of 27 will bring me and I can't wait to see what the next adventure or opportunity will be bring me! I am excited! I know that God won't fail me!! 

"Nothing will ruin your 
20's more than thinking 
you should have your life
together already". 
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because you think you already have everything right now but deep down, you don't have everything together!! There are so much more you have to figure out in your life! Your life is not going to be figured out and that's okay!! Don't get upset because your life isn't figured out! You can figured it out on the way!! I am still figuring out stuff and I'm 27 years old!! 

"To my 23-28 year olds, you've reached the age 
where people around you are starting to give up
on themselves because they think it's too late. 
Don't let that energy rub off on you. This 
moment is critical. Push through". 
-Nate. I love this so much because there are people will give up or throw in the towel and that's hard because that energy will start to rub off of you and you don't need to throw in the towel either because you have so much to live for! Don't give up and keep pushing through!! 

To end today's blog episode, for this week's song of the week, I chose "Overthinking" by: Samantha Ebert. I chose this song for the week because when you have a war in your head, you think about what a person that you love is doing and you sends you to overthinking mode and it stinks so much! When you have a war in your head, it is mentally draining!! Don't let overthinking kill your joy! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day!! Remember that Jesus love you too!! 

Blog: How would I describe my life lately? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 4/30/25!!

                                         Blog: How would I describe my life lately? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 4/30/25!! This blog is dedicated to anyone who might be going through a lot or who might be struggling or wanted to know how life is going for me, this blog is for y'all! I love y'all! 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode for today where I talk about anything from my poems to songs that mean a lot to me and so much more! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all might be going through, I am here for you and I will support y'all, no matter!! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a blog recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I analyzed the song "Overthinking" by: Samantha Ebert, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! One of the things that make me overthink is not feeling good enough!! Sometimes, I overthink and reminding myself that I am not good enough and that hurts a lot!! If y'all want to know more about this blog, I will leave the link right here: →"Overthinking" by: Samantha Ebert. Please, go check out this blog episode! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about how would I describe my life lately? This blog is dedicated to anyone who might be going through a lot or who might be struggling or wanted to know how life is going for me, this blog is for y'all! I love y'all!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could describe my life lately, how would I describe my life? Why would I describe my life like that? What kind of changes did i make to my life? Why did I make those changes to my life? Now. let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

How would I describe life? Why would I describe life like that? 

How would I describe life? The way I could describe life is busy and full of ups and downs!! Sometimes, life gets real busy that we don't realize how busy we are until our schedules are full!! We need to make time with the people who we care about!! Those people are important to us and we need to make sure that they are loved!! Why would I describe life like that? The reason why I would describe life like that is because we can get caught up being busy and don't realize that we are wasting time being busy!! We need to focus on the people who we love and be there for them, no matter what! Find people who you haven't talked in a while and catch up with them!! They would love that!! 

My life lately! 

If I could describe my life lately, how would I describe my life? If I could describe my life here lately, I would describe it as full emotions but through it all, I will conquer!! There would be days where they are hard, but I never give up!! I never been the one to give up and quit!! I keep trying and keep pushing forward!! As a child of God, I keep going and not giving up! If I give up, I am letting Satan win and he doesn't deserve to win!! I will push forward and conquer!! 

Why?

Why would I describe my life like that? The reason why I would describe my life like that is because if I give up now, that would make me a quitter and I am not a quitter and I have never been a quitter in my life time!! Yes, days might be tough at the moment but I keep pushing forward because that's what God would want me to do and I am proud of where I am at today!! The woman that I am today is the woman that I should be!! I will never give up because that is not who I am! I will keep pushing through and not give up!! 

Changes in my life? 

What kind of changes did I make to my life? The 1st change that I made for myself is focusing on what made me happy!! I am making decisions that are based on my judgement!! The 2nd change that I made for myself is making myself happy! Instead of making someone else happy, I am making myself happy!!! For once, I want to make myself happy instead of making everyone else happy!! The 3rd and final change that I made for myself is focusing on what I want, instead of whatever everyone else wants!! Instead of me focusing on what everyone wants in their life, I have focused on what I want in my life! Whatever I want, I go for it and I pray for it! I don't care what everyone wants! I worry about what Brandee wants and that's it! My life is what counts and to me, that is what matters the most!! 

Why?

Why did I make those changes to my life? The 1st change that I made for myself is focusing on what made me happy and the reason why I made this change to my life is because I wanted to make myself happy for once in my life! Instead of worrying about making someone else happy, I want to make myself happy and to me, that what matters to me the most!! The 2nd change that I made for myself is making myself happy and the reason why I made this change to my life is because I was tired of seeing myself unhappy at times and I need to learn how to make myself happy and I am trying different ways to make me happy and I am trying to make myself happy in different ways that I can! My happiness is what counts in my life and I need to make myself happy for once! I am always make others happy but for once, it is my turn to make myself happy!! The 3rd and final change that I made for myself is focusing on what I want and the final reason why I made this change to my life is because instead of me not focusing what I want, it was more listening to what others want in their life! Instead of focusing what I want, in head, I didn't know what I want but now, I do know what I want and I need to go for it and not give up!! I need to stop worrying what everyone thinks and focus on what I think!! 

In closing/ Reminder of the day! 

In closing, I know that somethings are tough but I need to remember that God is on my side and I don't give up easily! I don't need people tell me what is good for my life when I am the only person that knows what is good for my future!! People might think they know everything about your life, but in reality, they don't and that's okay because this is your life and you live your life on how you want to, not according to what people want you to!! For the longest time, I was more focusing on making everyone else happy while I wasn't worry about making me happy but now, I try to make myself happy and that's what counts in my life for me! I need to make myself happy and that's it! Here is your reminder of the day: The reminder of the day instead of making everyone else around you happy, focus on your happiness because your happiness is what counts in your life and you need to focus on what makes you happy!! Don't worry about whatever the other wants! Focus on what you want and that's it!! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! The moral of this blog is sometimes, I might struggle but at the end of the day, I will conquer and fight until I have no fight in me anymore!! There will be days where I want to give up trying, but at the end of the day, I will keep pushing forward and if I keep pushing forward, my Blogger Dreamers can keep pushing forward as well! Don't give up! Y'all are doing great and I am so proud of y'all! Tomorrow is new day and you are loved by so many people who care about you so much! Don't worry about what others think about you because the only person that needs to think about is yourself and God and God thinks you are pretty amazing and great! Don't y'all forget that! For today's quote of the day, it is by Kim Yoon Shik/ Kim Yoon Hee and it goes something like this "I don't want to live in fear of a tomorrow that has not yet come". -Kim Yoon Shik/ Kim Yoon Hee. I absolutely love this quote so much because we shouldn't have to live in fear about tomorrow! Instead of living in fear, focus on what tomorrow can bring!! Tomorrow could bring positive vibes and we need to think positive about that! I love y'all so much! Stay tuned for Friday's blog episode where I will be talking about how was my birthday? Stay tuned! Until next time, always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's show the whole world how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all and see y'all on the flip side!  Peace! ✌💚✌💚✌💚✌💚

Today's quote of the day! I absolutely love this quote so much because we shouldn't have to fear on what is going to happen tomorrow!! Instead of having fear about tomorrow could bring, let's focus on what tomorrow could bring positively!!! 

"There is a 
past version
of you  that is 
so proud
of how far you have 
come". 
-Unknown. I love this so much because if my past self could see where I am today, she will be so proud! Life here lately hasn't been easy but I never gave up and my past self would but here I am, pushing forward!! 

"Life Isn't Meant To Be
Lived Perfectly...
But Merely To Be Lived. 
Boldly, Wildly,
Beautifully, 
Uncertainly, 
Imperfectly, Magically
Lived". 
- Mandy Hale. I love this quote a lot because I might not have a perfect life but that doesn't mean I live my life as boldly as I can!! I live my life how I want to and that's that!! 

"Be happy not 
because life is perfect, 
but because you
choose to see all its 
perfect moments". 
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because my life is not perfect, but I enjoy the perfect moments that I have with the people that I love and adore so much and I make each moment count!!

I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Stay safe and let's share how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and let's be kind to one another! I love y'all! 🩷🩷🩷

Blog: Analyzing the song "Overthinking" by: Samantha Ebert, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 4/28/25!!

                                        Blog: Analyzing the song "Overthinking" by: Samantha Ebert, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 4/28/25!! This blog is dedicated to my overthinkers who tend overthink a lot! You are not alone! I love y'all! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that comes to mind whether it is about a new poem that I did or even a song!! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all might be going through, I am always here for y'all, no matter what!! I love y'all! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! It is officially my birthday week and I couldn't be any more excited than anything!! Not only it is my birthday week but it is also new blog episodes for the week as well! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for the week? I know I am but 1st, a blog recap from last week! On my makeup and fashion blog page, on Monday, I talked about what kind of makeup looks would I put together? Thin Mints eyeshadow palette edition! One of the makeup looks would I put together from this palette would have to be a light brown eyeshadow with a brown and green glitter with a red blush, gold highlighter, and a nude lipstick! This makeup look would look so gorgeous and so pretty!! On Wednesday, I talked about what kind of makeup looks would I put together? Coconut Caramel eyeshadow palette edition! One of makeup looks would I put together from this palette would have to be a light almost white with a pinkish red glitter with a red blush, pinkish purple highlighter, and a nude lipstick!! This makeup look would be so gorgeous for spring or even summer!! This makeup look would look so beautiful!! On Friday, I talked about the meaning behind my Easter outfit! The meaning behind my Easter outfit is I wanted something that was springy and give off spring vibes!! If y'all want to know more about these blogs, well you are in luck because I will leave the link right here: →Makeup and fashion blog page! Please, go give them a read whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! Now, for this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about the song "Overthinking" by: Samantha Ebert, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden, how would I describe my life lately, and how was my birthday? Now, without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing the song "Overthinking" by: Samantha Ebert, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! This blog episode is dedicated to my overthinkers who tend to overthink a lot! You are not alone! I love y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about how does overthinking kill joy? Why does overthinking kill joy? What 3 things made me to overthink at times? Why does those 3 things tend to make me overthink? What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who tend to overthink? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I choose to talk about talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I choose to talk about today's blog episode is because I tend to overthink a lot and it stinks at times because I get over my head a lot and there are a lot of scenarios that go through my head and it is hard for me!! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I choose "Overthinking" by: Samantha Ebert! When I listen to this song, I think about the times where I go into overthinking mode and it is hard on me!! Why did choose this song for the week? The reason why I choose this song for the week is because overthinking can kill your mood at times and it can be hard at times! Never let your overthinking kill your mood because it can lead to losing friendships and relationships as well!! 

The lyrics! How can I relate to the lyrics to my life? Why can I relate to the lyrics to my life? 

This year, on January 17th, Samantha Ebert came out with a song called "Overthinking" and here are some of the lyrics go: "There's an ache that's so persistent 

There's a battle in my mind

Trying not to let the fear win

But I can't seem to close my eyes

I wanna know that it will be okay

But I'm running out of synonyms to pray

Do I tell you I feel hopeless? 

Do I tell you that I'm scared? 

Do I ask you for some clarity and say, "This isn't fair"?

When I think that you didn't notice'

Is when you show me just how much you care

When I'm sinking, overthinking, I know

That you won't leave me there, oh". How can I relate to the lyrics to my life? The way I can relate these lyrics to my life is I will have times where I feel scared and tend to overthink on a lot of things which brings me down a lot!! There are times where I feel hopeless and let fear win!! Why can I relate to the lyrics to my life? The reason why I can relate to the lyrics to my life is because I am trying not to let fear when but sometimes, fear can defeat me and it is hard at times!! There is always a battle inside my head but people don't know that and that's hard!! 

Overthinking=kill joy?

How does overthinking kill joy? The way overthinking kill joy is when you have a battle going on inside your head, you can't enjoy the things that you love doing! You are constantly on edge and you can't be around people that you love and that's hard! Sometimes, people can make you overthink which is hard! Sometimes, it is hard to be around people who can make you overthink or their actions can make you overthink and that can kill your joy! You just have to be careful who you are around and tell them what they are doing is wrong!! 

Why?

Why does overthinking kill joy? The reason why overthinking kill joy is because when you are around people who are constantly complaining or they did something that triggers you, it can make you overthink and overwhelmed and it can kill your joy!! Sometimes, it can trigger you because sometimes, it can make you think of a person that did the exact same thing and that can be hard at times! That person needs to be careful what they are doing because it can trigger you and send you to overthink and that is not good at all!! 

3 things made me overthink? 

What 3 things made me to overthink at times? There are a lot of things that made me overthink a lot and the 1st thing that makes me overthink is when someone doesn't give me that reassurance of everything is going to be okay! When I am struggling, I want to be reminded that everything is okay and if I am not reminded of that, then my mind goes 95 miles an hour and it can be difficult at times!! The 2nd thing that makes me overthink is not feeling like I am not good enough! There will be times where I feel like I am not doing a good job or I feel like I am not making anyone proud and that sends me to overthinking mode and that is hard for me!! There are times where I want to make someone proud and in my head, if I am not making anyone proud, my mind goes crazy and I go down to overthinking mode and that can be hard at times!! The 3rd and final thing that makes me overthink is when someone doesn't respond to my messages! When I send them a message and they don't respond to me and leave me on read, it makes me overthink at times and it makes me wonder "am I not good enough for a conversation" and that's hard for me to understand or I will hear from that person for a while but then, I won't hear from them for a while and it sends me to overthink and that's hard!! For me, overthinking hurts me and it stinks!! 

Why?

Why does those 3 things tend to make me overthink? The 1st thing that makes me overthink is when someone doesn't give me that reassurance of everything is going to be okay and the reason why that makes me overthink is because I believe in reassurance and if I am struggling, I want to be reminded that everything is okay and if anyone doesn't tell me that it is not going to be okay, my mind goes around the world and it hurts me a lot!! The 2nd thing that makes me overthink is not feeling like I am not good enough and the 2nd reason why that makes me overthink is because there are times where that person is doing a good job but in head, I feel like I am not doing a good job at all and I feel like I am not good enough and that's hard on me!! Sometimes, I get into my head a lot and it hurts me so much!! The 3rd and final thing that makes me overthink is when someone doesn't respond to my messages and the final reason why that makes me overthink is because I would hear from that person and then, I won't hear from them for a while and it is hard on me! Sometimes, I will reach out to a person and that person will not reach out to me and that hurts me!! It hurts when I don't hear from a person!!! 

My advice! 

What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who tend to overthink? To my Blogger Dreamers who tend to overthink, my advice is remind that person what they are doing to you can send you to overthink and tell them what they are doing is wrong! Reminding them what they are doing can give you a lot of peace and it will put  your mind at ease!! When a person overthinks, it can send them a downward spiral and that's hard on a person!! You want to put that person's mind at ease! I believe in my whole heart that you remind a person that everything is going to be okay, their mind will be at ease and I know that for me, that puts my mind at ease!! 

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I wanted to give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I know what it is like to overthink when someone does a certain thing or they don't respond to you and it can trigger you sometimes and that's hard on you!! There are times where I have to remind my boyfriend that what he is doing can send me to overthink and I had to talk to him about it!! When you talk to that person about what is going on, your mind is at ease and when your mind is at ease, you feel better and when you feel better, you can relax and that's good for your mind!! Don't overthink!!

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, overthinking can hurt you at times! It can bring down and take you down in a downward spiral and that can be hard at times! When a person does something that can trigger you, you have to remind them "Hey! What you are doing is wrong and please, don't do that". You need to speak up to that person and remind them about it because they are not going to know about it!! Whatever you do, talk to that person because what they are doing can be triggering for you and they don't know it until you say something! For me, there will be times where I don't feel like I am not good enough but people can tell me that I am but my overthinking can go over the edge and that's hard for me!! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is don't let your overthinking rob you from having joy in  your life! You deserve to have a lot of joy in your life and if you tend to overthink a lot, then you are going to brought down and that's not good for your mental health and you don't need that in your life!! Please, don't let your mental health bring you down and don't let your overthinking rob you from having joy in your life!! I love y'all!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! The moral of this blog is overthinking can kill your joy and rob you from it!! You need to be careful what you do or who you hang around with because when you do things or hang around people, it can make you overthink and you need to be careful what you are doing!! For me, some people might think I am good enough but in head, I don't feel like I am not good enough because I feel like people can't see that I am trying and that's hard for me!! Sometimes, I feel like I am not doing a good job but my boyfriend will remind me from time to time and I love how he reminds me of that! You always want to find people who will remind you that you are doing a good job because they want you to know that you are doing a good job and that you are loved by so many people!! Overthinking can rob you from having joy in your life and you don't want that! To end this blog episode, here is today's quote of the day by Jang Geun- Soo and it goes like this: "When you don't expect anything, you don't get disappointed". -Jang Geun- Soo. I can relate to this quote a lot because when I have been let so many times and that person is not there for me through the good times and bad times, I don't really get disappointed from them because I am not expecting a lot from them and I really don't want a lot from people who have hurt me a lot because of how much they have let me down!! Don't expect the unexpected because when they let you down a lot, you don't want nothing to do with them! Don't ask from them a lot! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day!! Stay tuned for Wednesday's blog episode where I will be talking about how would I describe my life lately, so stay tuned for that! Until next time, always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on dreams" and let's show the whole world how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today!! I love y'all!! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌❤✌❤✌❤✌❤✌❤

Today's quote of the day! I can relate to this quote a lot because I don't expect a lot of things from people because if people can be there for me, I don't get disappointed and go on with my life!!! 

Lyrics to "Overthinking" by Samantha Ebert! When I think about these lyrics, I think about how sometimes, I feel like I am sinking and overthinking about certain things in my life and that is hard for me!! 

"Overthinking Will
Destroy Your Happiness
And Your Mood. It'll Make 
Everything Worse Than 
It Actually Is. Take A 
Deep Breath, Exhale And 
Have Faith. What's Meant 
To Be Will Be". 
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because overthinking will kill and destroy your happiness and your mood! Don't let overthinking get the best of you and steal your happiness away from you!! You be happy!!! 

"Overthinking is just a 
painful reminder that
you care entirely too
much, even when you
shouldn't". 
-Unknown. I love this quote a lot because in life, I care about people more than I should have cared about them but it is hard to care about that person when you want nothing but the best for them and that's how I feel about certain people who don't care about me!! 

To end today's blog episode for today, here is this week's song of the week which is "Overthinking" by: Samantha Ebert! When I listen to this song, I think about how overthinking robs my life a lot of times but I don't need to let rob my life anymore! I need to stop overthinking a lot of times!! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day!! 🩵🩵🩵