Blog: What cause me pain so far this year? by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of my blog: Monday, 5-19-25!! This blog is dedicated to anyone who has been mean to or no one supported you! This blog is for y'all! 
Intro to my blog!!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for the day!! How y'all are doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all might be going through or whatever it is dragging y'all down, just know that you are loved and you have people who do support you and if people don't support you, I support you, no matter what!! I love y'all and you know who else loves you? Jesus does!! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday!! Who is ready's for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but 1st blog recap from last week!! Last week on my makeup and fashion blog page- on Monday, I talked about the meaning behind my promise ring!! The meaning behind my promise ring is that me and my fiancé will do life forever together!!! When I think about, it sounds nice because I can't picture my life without him!! He is my world!! On Wednesday, I talked about my top 3 outfits for my dream dates with my fiancé! If I could pick an outfit to wear on our dream date, it would have to be a navy blue dress with white wedges and I would wear my white hair bow along with my pearl with gold bow, pearl with diamonds stacked bracelet, pearl and diamond bracelet, and diamond earrings!! This outfit would be so cute to wear on a picnic date!! On Friday, I talked about makeup looks with my outfits for dream dates with my fiancé! One of the makeup looks that I would wear is a light brown with a gold glitter on top, pink blush, silver highlighter, and a red lipstick!! I would wear this makeup look with my red dress which look so cute and so beautiful!! Want to know more about these blog episodes? Well, you are in luck because the link would be right here: →Makeup and fashion blog page!! Please, go check them out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! Now, for this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about what caused me pain so far this year, what gave me strength this year so far, and how do I feel about my blogging anniversary last Thursday? Now, without any further ado, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started!! Shall we? We shall!!
Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose this blog topic to talk about? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week?
For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what cause me pain so far this year? This blog is dedicated to anyone who has been mean to or no one supported you!! This blog is for y'all!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could pick 3 things that caused me pain so far this year, what would those 3 things be? Why did those things cause me so much pain? Out of those things, which one cause me the most pain this year so far? Why did that thing cause me the most pain? Why did I choose this blog topic to talk about? The reason why I choose to talk about this topic is because a lot of things has caused me pain this year so far and it is hard to let those things run pass in my mind each and everyday and when you have been in so much pain, it is hard to think about what caused you pain!! What is this week's song of the week? I choose a BTS song called "Spring day". When I think about that song, I think about the soft beat it has and I think about the meaning of the song!! Why did I choose this song for the week? The reason why I choose this song is because I love the soft beat to the song and I love how good the song is!!
How would I describe this year so far? Why did I describe this year so far?
If I could describe this year so far, how would I describe this year so far? If I could describe this year so far, I would describe it as full of surprises and emotions!! After not seeing my boyfriend at the time for almost a year, I got to spend a week with him and that was amazing!! When I got to his sister's house, he surprised me with a promise which meant a lot to me! Then, on May 4th, I got to see him for my birthday weekend and not only I got to spend the day with him, but also we went to his sister's house and he proposed to me and now, I am his fiancée!! Ah!!! To think that I am his fiancée is unbelievable!! I am still surprised!! Why did I describe this year so far? The reason why I would describe this year as full of surprises and emotions is because my fiancé surprise me with a promise ring on Valentines day weekend but also on my birthday weekend, I got proposed to!! I am still in shock but I am also happy!! I am ready to spend the rest of my life with my man by my side forever!!
3 things that caused me pain so far this year!!
If I could pick 3 things that caused me pain so far this year, what would those 3 things be? If I could pick 3 things that caused me pain so far this year, the 1st thing that caused me pain so far would have to be people being mean to me! I had some people who were mean to me this year so far and to be honest, it honestly hurts! I never have felt so hurt other than people who were mean to me!! The 2nd thing that caused me pain so far this year would have to be people not being there for me when I need them the most! It hurts when you have been there for people but people are not there for you when you need them the most and that it is it for me!! I would be there for people day in and day out, but who is there for me when I need support? No one!! The 3rd and final thing that caused me pain so far this year would have to be people not being supportive!! What hurts me the most is when people are not being supportive during the good times in your life time and that is what it is happening to me! Ever since me and my fiancé got engaged, there has been some people who haven't been supportive and that hurts a lot! To think about that, it truly does hurt!!
Why?
Why did those things cause me so much pain? The 1st reason why people being mean to me caused me so much pain so far this year is because when people are mean to me, I tend to want to shut down and not talk to others!! When people are mean to me, I don't want to talk to that person and for me, it hurts me when a person is mean to me! I don't believe in people being mean to others and if you are mean to others, you are evil and I don't want anything to deal with you!! The 2nd reason why people not being there for me when I need the most caused me so much pain so far this year is because there has been times where I would be there for people but who is there for me? No one! When I need someone, no one is there for me except a few people and that's it!! The 3rd and final reason why people not being supportive caused me so much pain so far this year is because being engaged is the most important time of your life but a few people in me and my fiancé's life aren't really being supportive and that hurts me a lot!! It is sad that people don't want to be supportive but that's okay!! One day, it will come back to hunt them!!
Most pain?
Out of those things, which one cause me the most pain this year so far? If I had to pick the the one thing that caused me so much pain this year so far, it would have to be people not being supportive!! On May 4th of this year, me and fiancé got engaged and we had a people been supportive but there are few people who haven't been supportive throughout this journey and to be honest, it hurts!! It hurts so much to the point where I don't want to talk to those people or even think about those people!! When you engaged, that is supposed to be the most amazing time in your life but there can be some people who don't want to be supportive and that's fine but those people who have been supportive means a lot to me!! It shows me who is really there for us in this journey and who isn't!!! I love my fiancé a lot and I am glad that we get to do this journey together!!
Why?
Why did that thing cause me the most pain? The reason why people not being supportive caused me the most pain so far this year is because when you don't have that support from people who you thought would support you but they are not being supportive, it hurts a lot and sometimes, I wish those people would be more supportive but it is what it is because if you don't have those people in your life who won't support you, then you don't need them in your life!! I know that I don't need those people who won't support me and my fiancé on this journey! Our engagement is the most important thing in our life and I am blessed that we are on this journey together!!
In closing/ Tip of the day!!
In closing, people are going to be mean to you, people are not going to be there for you, and people are not going to be supportive when it comes to you but you know what, that's okay because you don't need those people in your life because those people aren't worth it and they are not worth it to be in your life anymore! If people don't want to be nice to you, that's fine because if they aren't nice towards you, then you don't need to be nice to them! If people aren't going to be there for you, don't be there for them anymore!! If people aren't going to be supportive, then don't be supportive towards those people because they weren't supportive towards you!! Show the people who were mean to you! Show the people who didn't show up for you!! Show people that you don't need their support because you don't need them anymore!! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is If people don't want to be nice to you, don't be nice to them!! If people don't want to be there for you, don't show up for those people who don't want to be there for you!! If people don't want to support you, don't support those people because if people don't want to support you, then forget about them!! I love y'all so much and so does Jesus!!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day!! You know, this year has taught me a lot this year so far and I am glad that it has because when I saw people's true colors, it made me realize that I never needed them in the beginning and I am glad that they made me realize that!! Those people who have been mean to me, I don't need them to be mean anymore because I have people behind me who are going to stand up for me!! Those people who aren't there for me, that's okay because I have people who is there for me and I am okay with those people!! Those people who haven't been supportive, I don't need your support because I have a ton of people who will support me and I love that for me!! I am okay with the people in my life because they keep me going and I love that for me!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from John 1:5 and it says "And the light shineth in darkness; and the darkness comprehended it not". I love this Bible Verse of the day a lot because God's light will over power the darkness that is in our life because when you have God in your life, the darkness will fade and you will have light in your life because of God!! Have light in your life!! Stay tuned for Wednesday's blog episode where I will be talking about what gave me strength this year so far? Stay tuned but for now, always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and Show people how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today!! I love y'all and Jesus also loves you!! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
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Today's Bible Verse of the day! I love this Bible Verse of the day so much because God's light will brighten up while the darkness will fade and that's good because when you have God's light in your life, the darkness will fade!!  be mean. Don't take it personally. It says nothing about you, but a lot about them". -Unknown. I couldn't agree with this quote because people are mean but don't take it personally because it is not worth it and they might be jealous of you and if they are, that's fine!! You don't need them in your life!!  there for you just because you're always there for them. Not everyone has the same heart as you". -Unknown. I love this quote a lot because don't expect people being there for you when you are there for them because no has a good heart like you! When you have a heart of gold and everyone has darkness in their heart, don't lose that golden about your heart!!  who supports you genuinely. Those are the people you should always keep around". -Unknown. I love this quote so much because always take note who always shows up and supports you because those people will always be there for you, no matter what!! Those people matter!! To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week!! I chose "Spring Day" by: BTS!! I chose this song for the week because of how soft it is and how meaningful this song is!! It is such a good song and I love it so much! I love y'all and so does Jesus!! Have a blessed day or had a blessed day! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday!! I love y'all!! |
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