Blog: Talking about the words "reaching out". by: Brandee Marie Darden! Wednesday, 9/20/23!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that is on my mind or I talk about anything that is personal from bullying or even makeup and fashion!! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are loved and I care about y'all so much! Please, whatever you do, don't give up! I'm here for y'all! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Monday's blog episode!! On Monday, I talked about the song "Praying" by Kesha which is this week's song of the week, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! When I think about this song and the meaning of this song, I think about the people who hurt me but because of those people hurting me, they made me stronger and I am so proud of myself for how far I have come and I can't wait to see what God has in store for me and my Blogger Dreamers! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, the blog is called "Analyzing the song, 'Praying', by Kesha, blog by Brandee Marie Darden". For today's blog episode, I will be talking about the words "reaching out". In this blog, I will be talking about when I think about the words "reaching out", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind when I think about the words "reaching out"? What is the importance of reaching out to the people who you love? Why is it important to reach out to the people who you love and care about? If I have any advice about people who don't reach out to you, what is my advice? Why would I give that type of advice? Now, let's put on our blogging imagination brain on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

 How often should you reach out to the people who you love? Why is it important to reach out to the people who you love? 

How often should you reach out to the people who you love? In my opinion, you should reach out to the people who you love as much as you can! When you reach out to those people who you care about, it shows them how they are loved by you and how much you love them! If you do reach out but they don't message you or call you back, then they are not worth your time! If they don't care to reach out to you or respond to you, it shows you that they never cared about you in the first place! I honestly know how that feels because I had reach out to one of my sisters and she never responded to me which hurts me so much and not only just her but others as well! Why is it important to reach out to the people who you love? I think the reason why it is important to reach out to the people who you love is because you never know when your last day can be and you never know when that person's last day so you need to spend time with that person or even call or text them but if they don't call or text back, then they are not worth your time and you need to find someone who is worth your time and effort, not someone who doesn't care about you and never answer!! 

The words "reaching out". 

When I think about the words "reaching out", what comes to mind? When I think about the words "reaching out", the first thing that comes to mind is asking people that you love and care about if they are doing okay because what if they are not doing okay! They might be going through something that you don't know about and that would make you worry! For me, I will reach out to certain people if they need me but if they don't respond to me or they say "I'm busy! I can't talk right now"! I would totally understand and respect that but if they don't say anything like that at all, it hurts me! I am that type of a person who will be there for people vs where people are there for me! I know a couple of people who are there for me but I'm not sure who else is there for me which is sad! I don't hear from a lot of people!!

Why? 

Why does it come to mind when I think about the words "reaching out"? The reason why it came to mind when I think about the words "reaching out" is because for me, I will reach out to people who I love all day but if they don't respond to me, it feels like a stab in the heart! I will care about people all day and everyday but if you gave me a reason on why you don't reach out to me, then I will walk away from you and praying that you don't reach out to me again! It bugs me when I have a few people to reach out to me but if I reach out to other people, I don't get an answer which is hurtful! I wish some of those people can see how bad it hurts me! I have family who lives in Mississippi but they don't come to see me, which hurts even more! Reach out to those who care about you!!

The importance of reaching out!! 

What is the importance of reaching out to the people who you love? I think the importance of reaching out to the people who you love is making sure how are they are doing or if they are doing okay or not! You need to know if that person who you love is doing okay or not because what if they are not doing okay and they are going through a hard time in their life! Sometimes, I wonder if I have people who actually do care about me or not or who will reach out to me because for me, I am always doing the reaching out and I feel like that's not right for me at all! I feel like it is very important to reach out to your friends, family, or to anyone who you love! You always want to make sure they are okay and well because if you get a gut instinct that they are not doing okay and well, you might be right and so, always make sure to check on those people who you care about!

Why is it important? 

Why is it important to reach out to the people who you love and care about? The reason why it is important to reach out to the people who you care about and you love so much because what if they need you the most? What if they are not doing alright and something is bothering them? If that person reaches out to you and they say "I need you", for me, I would drop everything just to be there for that person because I love and care about people to easily and I would do anything to help another human being because that is how much I care! I would pray for anyone because I care and I love people so much!! I would do anything to keep people safe!! That's the honest truth!! 

My advice! 

If I have any advice about people who don't reach out to you, what is my advice? To my Blogger Dreamers who has reached out to other people but they don't reach out to you, here is my advice: My advice is don't reach out to those people anymore! If you continue to reach out to those people who don't reach out to you, you are going to continue to get hurt each and every time and you don't need that! Reach out to the ones you know that would respond to you and be there for you! Those people matter and they will love and care about you until the very end! Don't give up on those people! They will always care and love you, no matter what!!

Why? 

Why would I give that type of advice? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because if you continue to reach out to the people who don't reach out to you, then you are going to continue to get hurt and who knows if you will ever hear from them again? I haven't heard from one of my parents in a while and it is sad that I did most of the reaching out but when one of your parents don't want to reach out to you, you just want to give up at very moment and which I did! It's like I have to send a text to people who I care about but only few people will respond to me and it stings a little bit but when you grow fond used to it, you are used to it and that's what I am used to! I will be okay though!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day/ Challenge of the day!! 

In closing. reaching out to those people who matter to you in your life, it counts! People who are close to you, they care about you more than anything in this world and they want to hear from you because they would be happy! We need to start reaching out to those people who you love and who you care about it! Reaching out is the most important to me and I started to realize that if I continue to reach out to the people who don't matter me and who aren't there for me or who doesn't support me at all, then I am going to continue to get hurt over and over again and I am not going through that hurt again! Here is my tip and challenge of the day! My tip of the day is keep in touch with those people who do reach out to you because if you keep in touch with those people who do reach out to you, then they are going to be there for you for the rest of your life! My challenge of the day is reach out to those people who you don't talk to and if they answer, then you did your part and keep the conversation going! I love y'all so much and always reach out to those people who matter!!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! The moral of this blog is reach out to the people who matter to you! Reach out to the people who you love! Write that person a letter if you have to because if you write them a letter, maybe they can see how bad you are hurting! For me, I have giving up on reaching out to people who refused to talk to me and it hurts me a lot but I had to do it because it was destroying my mental health! Don't let someone not reaching out to you destroy your mental health either! Focus on people who matter to you! For today's quote of  the day, it goes something like this: "Sometimes, even a little hope will guide you to your destination". -Pragya! I love this quote so much because if you have a little hope in something, it can lead or guide you to the right destination! Always have a little hope in something!! I pray that everyone will have a good Wednesday or in other countries, a good Thursday! I love y'all so much and always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog episode! I love y'all so much and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ☮✌💜

Today's quote of the day! Love this quote so much!!! Have a little hope because having a little hope can go a long way!! 

"People make time for who
they want to make time for. 
People text and reply to 
people they want to talk to. 
Never believe anyone who 
says they've been too busy. 
If they wanted to be around
you, they would".
-Unknown Author!! I find this quote so relatable because people would make time for you if they care about you and love you! If you tell me that "you are busy" then I would understand but if I see you posting online and stuff like that, I am going to think you're lying to me and you stabbed me in the back!!  Make time for people who matter to you!!

"It's funny 
how many friends
you lose when you
stop reaching out to 
them first".
-Unknown! I love this quote because when you stop reaching out to your friends or even your family, they show you they don't want to be in your life anymore and they are showing you that you don't matter to them but hurts!! 

Today's lesson: 
Stop being always 
available to people who
are just there for you 
when it's convenient for 
them".
-Unknown!! I love this so much because if that person doesn't want to be there for you when you need them the most, stop being there for them because if you stop being there for them, it might teach them a lesson and they need to be taught a lesson! I'm just saying!! 



 

                                             Blog: Analyzing the song "Praying" by Kesha, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Monday, 9/18/23!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are loved and I care about y'all so much! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday!! Before I get into today or this week's blog episodes, here is a little recap of last week's blogs!! On Monday, I talked about my favorite clothing that RM wore! The one outfit that RM wore was a black suit which by the way, he looked so good in! Like, omg! He looked so handsome and I just love that suit on him!! On Wednesday, I talked about outfits that I would wear on dates, part 2! I love each outfit so much and I think each outfit are perfect for the vibe of each date but the one outfit that I love and is my favorite is "I'm her" shirt with my black skirt and my white shoes! I love the outfit within itself and I think it is so cute!! On Friday, I talked about makeup looks for each date, part 2!! I love each makeup look a lot and I think each makeup look fits each outfit and I honestly think each makeup look is going to look really with each outfit!! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to check them out, you can check them out at "ilovemakeup17.blogspot.com". Now, for this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about analyzing the song "Praying" by Kesha, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden, talking about the words "reaching out", and analyzing my poem "Don't let the world knock you down" by Brandee Marie Darden. Now, without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing the song "Praying", by Kesha, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I listen to this song and I think about the people who put me through a lot of trouble, who does this song remind me of? Why does this song remind me of that person or people? How does this song relate to my life? Why does this song relate to my life? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about people who are giving you trouble, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I choose to talk about today's blog episode is because we need to pray for those people who might be struggling through their obstacles in their life and they are deciding to take it on you and we need to pray for the people who might be dealing with a lot! We need to forgive those people who hurt you and move on!! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "Praying" by Kesha which is the blog episode that I am doing on! I absolutely love this song so much! Kesha has this powerful voice and I love when she did this song!! Why did I choose this song for the week? I chose this song because I love the meaning behind this song and God can only forgive the people who hurt you and you can also forgive them as well!

Talking about the lyrics! What are the meaning behind the lyrics? Why is there meaning behind the lyrics?

When I listen to the song, "Praying" I think about the lyrics and here is how the lyrics go: 

"Well, you almost had me fooled

Told me that I was nothing with you

Oh, but after everything you've done

I can thank you for how strong I have become

'Cause you brought the flames and you put me through hell

I had to learn how to fight for myself

And we both know all the truth I could tell 

I'll just say this is "I wish you farewell"

I hope you're somewhere prayin', prayin'

I hope your soul is changin', changin' 

I hope you find your peace

Falling on your knees, prayin'

I'm proud of who I am

No more monsters, I can breathe again

And you said that I was done

Well, you were wrong and now the best is yet to come

'Cause I can make it on my own, oh

And I don't need you, I found a strength I've never known

I'll bring thunder, I'll bring rain, oh

When I'm finished, they won't even know your name

You brought the flames and you put me through hell

I had to learn to fight for myself

And we both know all the truth I could tell

I'll just say this is "I wish you farewell"

I hope you're somewhere prayin', prayin'

I hope your soul is changin', changin'

I hope you find your peace

Falling on your knees, prayin' ". What are the meaning behind the lyrics? The meaning behind the lyrics is when you someone has put you through trouble and has brought you down, you finally had enough with it and you can deal with it anymore, so you decided to let go of that person and set yourself free which is good for your mental health!! People need to learn how to let people go of people who are just too toxic for one another and don't let the people who are toxic to stay in your life! You don't need that! Why is there meaning behind the lyrics? The reason why there is meaning behind the lyrics is because people can be mean for bringing you down and when you are done with them, people wouldn't know their name which you, karma is not good and once you bring people down, they tend to forget your name and you forget who they are!! 

Who does this song remind me of? 

When I listen to this song and I think about the people who put me through a lot of trouble, who does this song remind me of? When I think about the people who put me through a lot of trouble, I think about one of my parents. If you know, you know! One of my parents has been in and out of my life and honestly, that hurts me but I pray for that one parent because I want that parent to see how I live my life and how happy I am! I know that when I listen to this song and I think about the people who put me through a lot of trouble, I think about one of my ex's. He thinks that "we should get back together" but he was too late and he put me through trouble with that! He called me names and I blocked him which I glad that I did!!!

Why?

Why does this song remind me of that person or people? The reason why this song remind me of two people is because they have put me through a lot and it hurt a lot but if we pray for them, they can see that we still care about them but at the same time, we need not focus on them because they will bring negative energy and we don't need negative energy in our lives! God can take the people out of your life and you can focus on the good stuff in your life! God would want you to be happy, not sad! Just focus on the good things and not the bad things because if you focus on the negative and horrible things, then you are going to be down on yourself and you won't be happy and you need to be happy! Yes, people are mean and yes, people are going to bring you down, but you need to focus on the good things and don't worry about those people!! Don't let people or those things bring you down because you don't need that in your life and just know that you're loved and I care about y'all so much!!

Song relate to my life?

How does this song relate to my life? This song relates to my life in so many ways! I had people drag me down and be mean to me but I came to realize that I don't need those people in my life and I don't people to drag me down anymore! I had to fight to get where I am today! Because of God, he helped through the battles that I went through! God showed me the light of the end of the tunnel! God showed me that I can live a good life and be happy and I realized I don't need "negative people" in my life but what I need is God because God is my best friend and he take people in and out of my life! I fought battles and I am honestly proud of myself where I am at today! I am so blessed to have people who do care about me and who do support me!! I know that I am loved and I know people care about me! I'm proud to be where I am at today!!

Why? 

Why does this song relate to my life? The reason why this song relate to my life is because I want people to know how far I have came within my life and yes, I have fought too many battles on my own but God has helped through a lot of it and I can't thank God for helping me fighting through those battles! God has sent me an amazing man in my life and I just pray that one day, those people who hurt me, I pray that they can see how happy I am without them in my life and I pray that they can see that I am doing the things that I love doing and I am proud doing those things!! I am not letting anyone stop me because God wouldn't want me to stop! I am going to continue to make myself happy and live my life how I want to and make the right decisions within my life!!

My advice! 

If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about people who are giving you trouble, what is my advice? If you are dealing with people who are giving you trouble, here is my advice: My advice is don't pay attention to those people! Those people need help and you don't need those people in your life! Pray for them because they might be miserable in their life and they are taking their life problems and putting them on you! Pray for those people who are miserable because there are a lot of people who are miserable and I pray that one day, they can see how happy you are and that you are trying to live a good life but don't let them bring you down because you are an amazing person and don't y'all ever forget that! Don't let others bring you down!

Why would I give that advice? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because people who are not happy or they like dragging people down, they are not happy and they love making people miserable! Please, don't let those people bring you down because you don't need that type of stress in your life! Y'all are much better than that! God will never let those people drag you down! God will take those people out of your life and you live your life how you want to because this is your life and you can make the right decisions for your life! I am not going to let someone have affect on my life or my decisions! I will make decisions based on my thinking, not anyone else thinking! Don't let your decisions be based on anyone else! I love y'all!

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, this song has a powerful message and the lyrics hold a powerful meaning to them as well!! I always pray for the ones who are struggling through life and who aren't happy! Don't let anyone make your own decisions for you because you need to make decisions based on your own thinking and don't let anyone tell you what to do with your own life but just respect your parents because your parents play a big role in your life and don't let anyone tell you what to do, besides your parents! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is if you are a big believer in praying, pray for one another because praying can go along way! Always be there for one another and support one another instead of bringing others down! Don't let people bring you down because you don't need that in your life! I love y'all so much!! 

Hello, my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have just reached the end of my blog for today! I hope and pray that y'all enjoyed today's blog episode or understand the moral of the lyrics of this song! If you are struggling, you are not alone in this battle! Give it to God because he sees you struggling! Give it to him because he will help you! Pray about it! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "She has always had a thing for hope, sunsets, and kindness". -Urvashi Khatri. I absolutely love this quote so much because there are a lot of ladies who pray for hope in the future, who love looking the sunsets, and always believe in kindness, no matter where she goes! Guys, if you see your girlfriend or a friend or even your sister who is always pray for hope, who loves taking pictures of sunsets, or believes in sharing kindness, just know that prays for some of those things and that is a good girl to have around! I love y'all and have a happy Monday or in other countries, a happy Tuesday! Stay safe and I will see y'all on Wednesday where I will be talking about the words "reaching out"! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ☮✌💜

Today's quote of the day! Such a good quote and I love it so much!! 

Lyrics to the song "Praying" by Kesha! Sorry! I should of did it before, but there is a cuss word! Sorry!! 

"When you pray for others, God listens to
you and blesses them, and sometimes, 
when you are safe and happy, remember
that someone has prayed for you".
-Quotes 'n Thoughts. I love this quote so much because when you pray for someone else, God can see that and hear you doing it, he blesses you in so many ways!! 

"The greatest gifts we 
can give to each other, 
is to pray for one
another".
-Therandomvibez!! I love this quote so much because when you pray for someone, it can go along way and prayer can work in so many ways!! 

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I love this song so much and I love how soft it is and how meaningful it is!! Don't give up your fight!! I love y'all!! 

                                           🎂🎈 Blog topic: Happy birthday, Jungkook!! Date: Friday, 9/1/23!! 💙🍪 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode for today! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! OMG! It's already September 1st??!! No way!! Happy September 1st or in other countries, Happy September 2nd!! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever you are going through, you are never alone! You are loved by so many people and people care about you! Don't you ever forget that! You have people supporting you and if you don't, I'm here for you no matter what! Before I get into today's blog episode, let's do a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about my main reasons why I want to inspire others? For me, when someone tells me "you are an inspiration", it feels good to know that someone thinks that I'm an inspiration to them and for me, one of the reasons why I want to inspire others is to connect with others! I want to help with connecting people with others and if I can do that, then I am doing my job right!! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, the blog is called "My main reasons why I want to inspire others"? Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! For today's blog episode, this blog is especial because it is a happy birthday blog for Jungkook of BTS!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I had to pick my top 3 favorite songs by Jungkook, what would those top 3 songs be? Why would those top 3 songs be my favorite? How are me and Jungkook similar? Why are me and Jungkook similar in a way? If I had to pick a favorite quote by Jungkook, what quote would that be? Why would I pick that quote by JK as my favorite? Now, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

How would I describe Jungkook? Why would I describe Jungkook like that? 

How would I describe Jungkook? The way I can describe Jungkook is he is very funny in so many ways that I cannot describe how funny he is! He is shy but once he opens up, he is not as shy! He loves all of his BTS members so much! He is the maknae or the youngest of the group! He is literally good at everything he does!! Why would I describe Jungkook like that? The reason why I would describe Jungkook like that is because he has this laughter that it is so contagious that all you can do is laugh and I love his laugh so much!! At first, he can be shy but once he opens up, he isn't so shy anymore and it's okay to be shy!! I can tell how much he loves his hyungs or the BTS members a lot! When J-Hope was about to leave the group, Jungkook cried and so, J-Hope decided to stay in the group because of Jungkook! Jungkook is so good at anything he does! He can draw good and in whatever he does, he is good at which doesn't surprise me at all! He is 26 and he is the youngest while every BTS member is older than him!! He is an amazing person and I hope he has a good birthday like he deserves!! Happy birthday, Jungkook!! 

My top 3 favorite songs by Jungkook!! 

If I had to pick my top 3 favorite songs by Jungkook, what would those top 3 songs be? The 1st song that is my favorite is "Seven". That song is such a upbeat song which I love and every time I watch the music video, it reminds me of my boyfriend because before me and my boyfriend got together, he would chase me but either way, I'm happy to be with him and he makes me happy! I don't mind loving him 7 days a week!! The 2nd song that is my favorite by JK is "Dreamers" which is my Blogger Dreamers theme song! When I listen to this song, it reminds me of my Blogger Dreamers so much! I want my Blogger Dreamers to know that you can dream about anything but you can achieve it if you believe in yourself! Always believe in yourself, no matter what! The 3rd and final song that is my favorite by Jeon Jungkook is "Stay Alive" which is produced by Min Yoongi from BTS! When I hear this song, I think about how hard life can be at times and I am trying to stay alive! Even though people might not see how I am feeling or some of my siblings don't acknowledge me, I still try and stay alive! It can be hard at times but at the end of the day. I am trying to make it and that's all that I can do!

Why? 

Why would those top 3 songs be my favorite? The 1st song that I chose as my favorite is "Seven" and the reason why I chose that song as my favorite because this song reminds me of my boyfriend a lot not the song but the video itself! We were friends for almost 3 years and we will talk at times and with him, he had a crush on me immediately and with me, my crush for him was building and now, I am happy and I love this song a lot! Jungkook did so good on the song and I'm proud of him of this song! The 2nd song that I chose as my favorite is "Dreamers" and the reason why that is my favorite is because when I was listen to this song, it reminded me of my Blogger Dreamers so much and I feel like we needed a theme song and I thought to myself "this is perfect" and I am so glad that I chose this song as my theme song for my Blogger Dreamers! I feel like it fits and I'm happy with it!!! The 3rd and final song that I chose as my favorite is "Stay Alive" and the reason why I chose this song as my favorite is because when you are going through hard moments and you want to give up but you can't because you need to stay alive! Life is all about staying alive and trying to get through hard moments no matter what!! Life can be hard but you trying and staying alive is amazing! You're trying and that's all that matters in life! As long as your trying, you are trying and that's amazing within itself!! 

How me and Jungkook are similar? 

How are me and Jungkook are similar? I feel like me and Jungkook are similar in so many ways! For example, he loves and cares about the BTS members and the people who are around him so much and with me, I'm the same way! I want to help people the best way that I can and be there for people! Another thing that I think Jungkook and I are similar is by being good at a lot of things! With Jungkook, he is literally good at everything and I had someone in my family told that I am good at everything! I don't how but I guess its true!! I mean I did sports and I can write poems and I can paint good! I can also do arts and crafts!! The 3rd and final thing that makes Jungkook and I similar is he is shy and I can be shy at times as well but once I open up to people, I'm not as shy but I still guarded!! 

Why? 

Why are me and Jungkook similar in a way? I think me and Jungkook are similar in a way because he cares and loves his bandmates a lot where I love and care about the people in my life and I want the best for people!! I had someone in my family that I am good at everything and with Jungkook, he is literally good at everything and with me, whatever I am working on, I am working hard and I am trying to make sure it looks good!! When I try to meet people or being around people in general, I am so shy and with Jungkook, he was camera shy! I don't think he is camera shy anymore but either way, shyness can happen and I love Jungkook is confident as well! He has a lot of confidence and I love that!!

My favorite quote! 

If I had to pick a favorite quote by Jungkook, what quote would that be? If I had to pick a favorite quote by Jungkook, it would be "Don't Do Anything You Don't Like

To Do, Just Do Whatever You 

Want". 

-Jeon Jungkook! For me, I found this quote so relatable because if you don't like something and you don't love it, find something that you love to do that makes me happy! I can tell that Jungkook loves doing lives for us ARMIES and I might not watch them when he goes live, but I can see how happy he is and as long as he is happy, then I am happy! As long as you are happy doing what you love to do, then that's what matters to me! You have to be happy in what you like to do! Whatever you like to do, be happy with it! I love blogging and it truly makes me happy!!

Why? 

Why would I pick that quote by JK as my favorite? The reason why I would pick that quote as my favorite is because it hits home for me because I struggled with liking something that I enjoyed a lot! I would quit one thing because I didn't enjoy it but when I found blogging, I found my true calling and I am so happy that I did! Blogging makes me truly happy and I love sharing my stories or what is my opinion on certain things! That makes me truly happy and I can't wait to continue on this blogging journey that I am on and I can't wait to see where it takes me! I'm blessed to have so many fans around the world who supports me! I don't know where I would be without them!! I can't wait to see where the future takes me and my Blogger Dreamers!!

In closing/  Question of the day?

In closing, Happy birthday to BTS Jeon Jungkook! I just pray that he had a good birthday!! He is such an amazing person and I love his confidence and smile!! I love how we as ARMIES can make him happy! As long as he is happy, then I am happy! He taught me to always do my best no matter what and I will always continue to do my best because of JK! I will always to do my best in whatever I do whether it is my blogging or even my book! I will not give up and I will keep trying, no matter what! Here is my question of the day: My question of the day is if y'all can pick by a celebrity that y'all like, which quote would that be? Why would y'all pick that quote as y'all's favorite? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read those comments! Please! Thank you so much!! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode today because I know that I did! Jungkook is the maknae of the group or the youngest and I remember when I was getting into BTS, he look like he could do anything and everything good and he can! I love how much he cares about his bandmates!! I look at BTS as family, not just a band but also a family and I think that is amazing that they treat each other as family!! I hope JK had a good birthday!! He deserved it so much! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes something like this: In Psalm 46:10, it says God says "Stop fighting And Know that I am God! I am The One who defeats The Nations; I Am The One who controls the world". I love this bible verse so much because God is the almighty and if you just believe in God, he will do anything to help you! Let him help you in your life! I love y'all so much and always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all next week on my 1st blog page! Stay tuned for new blogs coming y'all's way! I love y'all and I hope everyone will have a good day or had a good day!! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💙

Today's bible verse of the day! Such a good bible verse and let God help you get through what you are going through because God can defeat what you are going through, just believe in him!

My favorite songs by JK! I love all of these songs so much and they hold a piece of my heart and I just love them so much!! 

Baby Jungkook! He is so cute! I love this picture so much!! Too adorable!! 

My favorite by Jungkook! Love this quote so much!! Do what you want to do! Don't let anyone force you to do anything that you like!! 

For this week's song of the week, I chose "Do It Again" because God continues to move mountains and he doesn't stop moving the mountains! If you believe in God, give your life to him because he can work miracles in your life if you just believe!! Always believe in God, no matter what! 

                                               💜 Blog: My main reasons why I want to inspire others? By: Brandee Marie Darden! Wednesday, 8/30/23! 💜 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode!! I'm so happy to have y'all on a new blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is going on in your life, just know that you're not alone in this world and whatever you are going through, I'm here for y'all, no matter what because I care and I will always care about y'all no matter what! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Before I get into today's blog, let's do a recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about the words "blending in". When I think about those words, I think about being a copycat or you want to be like everyone else in society and the truth is you should never be like someone else because you are amazing as you are and you should always be who you are, no matter what! Instead of blending in, you should stand out! It's okay to stand out than to blend in! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, the blog is called "Talking about the words 'blending in". I love y'all and I hope y'all can check it out! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about my main reasons why I want to inspire others? In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I had to pick my top 3 main reasons on why I want to inspire others, what are those main reasons? Why are those my main reasons to inspire my Blogger Dreamers around the world? Who are my top 3 people who I look up for inspiration? Why are those people my inspiration? What are ways to inspire others? Why are those ways to inspire others? If I could give out any advice about inspiration, what would my advice be? Why would I give out that advice? Now, without any further ado, let's get our blogging brain going and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

The word "inspiration". When I think about the word "inspiration", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind? 

When I think about the word "inspiration", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "inspiration", a lot comes to my mind! When I think about the word "inspiration", I think about the people who have inspired me to never give up and keep fighting no matter what! The 2nd and final thing that comes to mind is when people tell me that I'm inspiration! When people tell me that, I feel honored! It makes me happy!! Why does it come to mind? The reason why the 1st thing comes to mind is because I had people in my life that had told me to "never give up! Keep fighting! You got this" and every time I want to give up, it reminded me that I need to keep going and to never quit!! The 2nd and final reason why the 2nd thing comes to mind is because when people tell me "you're an inspiration" or "you have inspired me", it makes me feel happy and it makes me so happy that I can inspire people in whatever I do!! I will always continue to inspire others, no matter what!! 

My top 3 main reasons why I want to inspire others!! 

If I had to pick my top 3 main reasons one why I want to inspire others, what are those main reasons? The 1st main reason why I want to inspire others is I want to connect with people and tell them that everything will be okay! When I talk about a certain subject, I want to connect with it and if they do, I'm happy! I never want my Blogger Dreamers to ever feel like they are alone!! The 2nd reason why I want to inspire others is to tell my life stories! When I am telling people my life story through my blogs, I want people to understand where I am coming from and understand if I can get through it, then they can get through it as well! The 3rd and final reason why I want to inspire others is to help others! If I can help one person or even a bunch of people, then I am doing my job right! I don't like seeing people struggle and if I can help people through my blogs, I'm happy because it makes me happy!! 

Why? 

Why are those my main reasons to inspire my Blogger Dreamers around the world? The 1st reason why I want to connect with people and tell them that everything will be okay is because if someone can connect with you and they can connect with how you are feeling or how you want through it, then it feels good to know that you have someone on your side who can relate to you! With me, I want my Blogger Dreamers to know that whatever you are going through, they are never alone and I want them to know that they are loved and I'm here for them, no matter what! The 2nd reason why I want to tell my Blogger Dreamers my life stories is because if I tell my life story, maybe one of my Blogger Dreamers can relate to it in a way! If someone can relate to my life story or life stories, then I am doing a good job! The 3rd and final reason why I want to inspire others by helping them is because I never want anyone to feel they are not alone or they are not heard because I know what that feels like! I know what it is like to be ignored and people not hearing you! Just in case no one has told you this today, I'm so proud of you! Keep pushing you because you got this and I believe in you, no matter what! 

3 people who inspire me! 

Who are my top 3 people who I look up for inspiration? The 1st person who I look up to is no other than my favorite Kpop band in the entire world is BTS! Yes! When I am hard on myself, BTS inspires me to never give up and to always keep trying no matter what! If they can't give up, then I can't give up either! The 2nd person who I look up to for inspiration is my wonderful boyfriend, Aaron! My boyfriend inspires me everyday! He reminds no matter how hard life is or how hard can get sometimes, God is on my side no matter what! He is such an inspiration to me!! The 3rd and final reason who I look up to is my fandom, my Blogger Dreamers! Every time I work on a blog, I think about my you guys! Without any of y'all, I don't know where I would be! Some of y'all have been there for me in the beginning but some of y'all just started following me or reading my blogs and that's okay because y'all make everything amazing to me and I can't thank you enough for inspiring me and being an amazing fandom that I could ever ask for!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart! 

Why inspire me? 

Why are those people my inspiration? The 1st person who inspires me is BTS and the reason why they inspire me is because they remind not to give up and to always keep trying, no matter what! They remind if I keep trying, I will never quit! The 2nd person who inspires me is my boyfriend, Aaron is and the reason why he inspires me is because I will have days where I am extremely hard on myself but he reminds that he will never leave me and he will continue to support me, no matter what! He reminds me that I'm loved and he will always care about me, no matter what! No matter how hard we live, he still continues to make me happy and I'm so blessed that God gave me this man!! Thank you for inspiring me, my love! The 3rd and final person who inspires me is my Blogger Dreamers and the reason why they inspire me is because without them, I don't know where I would be without them! I don't know where I would be without their support or just them being there for me through my hard times! I truly love y'all so much! Thank you!

Ways to inspire others! 

What are ways to inspire others? The 1st way to inspire others is to spread affirmation or positive words! If you see someone struggling, inspire them to never give up and to always keep going no matter what! The 2nd way to inspire others is help them whatever they are going through! If you see someone struggling, help them with anything they need help with! If they need any advice, you can try to give them advice! It might inspire them! The 3rd and final way to inspire others is being you! If they see you being yourself, it can inspire them to be themselves! Always be yourself, no matter what! It's okay to be quirky and different! I am different and I'm proud of being different!!

Why? 

Why are those ways to inspire others? The 1st way to inspire others is to spread affirmation or positive words and the reason why that is a way to inspire others is because your words can inspire a person to push through their day and to never give up and quit! Your words can help inspire someone! The 2nd way to inspire others is help them whatever they are going through and the reason why it is the 2nd way to inspire others is because by you being there for someone can inspire them a lot! You just supporting them and cheering them on can help them and that is what people need these days! The 3rd and final way to inspire others is being you and the reason why it is the 3rd way to inspire others is because if you be yourself, it can help others be themselves as well and you should always be yourself and be proud of who you are because just by being yourself is amazing within itself and you are doing amazing!! 

My advice/ Why? 

If I could give out any advice about inspiration, what would my advice be? My advice about inspiration is inspire others just by being the person that you are! By you being you can be an inspiration within itself and that can be amazing! I love being who I am as a person and if I can show people that I am just being who I am, then I'm doing my job correctly and I'm proud of myself! I want to continue to inspire others and I will continue to do that! Why would I give out that advice? The reason why I would give out that advice is because I want my Blogger Dreamers to know if you can be yourself and inspire others, then you are doing a good job and you should be proud of yourself! Never give up and never stop trying to inspire others!! 

In closing/ Question of the day? 

In closing, I never thought in my entire lifetime, I would hear people telling me that "I'm an inspiration". When people tell me that, it makes me feel good because I just want to help people with my stories or help to connect with them! BTS has inspired me in so many ways where I really can't tell y'all! My boyfriend has been my biggest support system when I felt like I had no one and I am so blessed to have someone like him! Everyday, I think about my Blogger Dreamers because I want them to know that they are never alone and they are loved! Everyone here at the Blogger Dreamers is loved and I will continue to inspire y'all no matter what and I want to say a huge thank you for inspiring me! Y'all are such a huge inspiration to me and thank you so much! Always continue to inspire others the way you want to inspire others because your inspiration can go a long way! So, my question for my Blogger Dreamers is if y'all had to pick 3 people who inspires you, who are they? Why do they inspire you? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read y'all's comments!! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode because I know that I did! Waking up everyday and knowing that I can inspire someone makes me blessed! I am just a 25 year old woman who loves to make people smile and help them out when they need help! I will continue to inspire others no matter what and continue to help anyone that I can, no matter what! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: In Isaiah 45:22, it says "Turn to me and be saved, all you ends of the earth; for I am God, and there is no other". I love this bible verse a lot because God saved me! I felt lost and I felt alone! I was always there for people and helping them with their problems but God was burden me with "please, believe in me and give up what you are going through and believe in my son" and that's what happened! Please, believe in God and let him lead you the way!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog where I will be doing a happy birthday blog for Jeon Jungkook of BTS! I love y'all and have a happy Wednesday or in other countries, a happy Thursday and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💙

Today's bible verse of the day!! Love this bible verse so much! Such a good bible verse!! 

"People inspire 
you, or they drain you.
Pick them wisely".
-Hans F. Hanson. I love this quote so much because because people can inspire you or they drain you! People can drain you by doing something that can be mean! Pick wisely!! 

"Fill your life with 
adventures, not 
things. Have stories 
to tell, not stuff
to show". -Unknown. I love this quote so much because when you tell people your life stories, you want to tell them about it, not show them! Tell them about your stories, not show them!! 

"Helping one 
person might not
change the whole 
world, but it could
change the 
world for
one person".
-Unknown. I find this quote relatable because if you can change the world for one person, then you are doing something right for that person! Whatever you do for that person, then you are doing something right!! 

People who inspire me on a daily basis!! BTS, my amazing boyfriend, and my Blogger Dreamers!! I feel blessed to have these three people as my inspiration!! 

                                               Blog topic: Talking about the words "blending in", by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Monday, 8/28/23!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are never alone and I'm here for y'all no matter what! Happy Monday or in other countries, a happy Tuesday! I hope everyone had an amazing weekend because I know that I did!! Before I get into today's blog episode and this week's blog episodes, let's do a little recap of last week's blog episodes!! On Monday, I talked about my top 3 female Korean group or soloist whose makeup that I would love to do!! I would love to work with Jisoo from BlackPink! I love her so much and I feel like she would be fun to work with! I would also love to work with Jessi and IU! I could see myself do a colorful look on Jisoo and Jessi and a soft glam look on IU because I feel like IU will look really good with a soft glam look but in my head as well, I can also see her with a bright color makeup look but either way, all of them would look good with any makeup look!! On Wednesday, I talked about Jungkook's 7 concept photos, campaign edition! Honestly, when I saw these photos and the outfits, I wanted to freak out and scream because he looked so good and so handsome!! He looked so good!! On Friday, I talked about my 3 favorite dresses! The dresses that I picked out are amazing and the pink dress with the ruffles was giving me 1950s housewife getting ready for Easter Sunday!! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to check them out, you can check them out on "ilovemakeup17.blogspot.com". Please, go check them out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! Now, for this week's blogs, I will be talking about the words "blending in", my main reasons why I want to inspire others, and a happy birthday blog to Jungkook from BTS! Now, without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why I chose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song as my song of the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about the words "blending in". In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the words "blending in", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? Do I like blending in or standing out in the crowd? Why do I like standing out instead of blending in? What in my advice to all of my Blogger Dreamers who want to stand out instead of blending in? Why would I give out that advice? Why did I chose to talk about today's blog episode? I chose to talk about today's blog episode is because I don't believe in "blending in". I always believed in standing out because I feel like everyone should be different than the same!! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "Do It Again" by Elevation Worship!! I absolutely love this song a lot and I think about how much God has done in my life and he has done it over and over again! He has blessed me with an amazing boyfriend who is so caring and I'm so blessed! Why did I choose this song as my song of the week? I chose that song as the song for the week is because God has blessed me so many times and he chose to do it over and over again and I am so blessed and I can't thank God for blessing me over and over again!! 

Talking about the words "blending in" vs "standing out". What is the difference between "blending in" vs "standing out"? Why is there a difference the two? 

What is the difference between "blending in" vs "standing out"? The difference between "blending in" and "standing out" is with blending in, you want to blend in with the crowd and you want to wear the same thing as everyone else vs with standing out, you want to wear something completely different and you want to have your own style and that's okay! It's okay to have different styles than everyone else! That is what makes you unique and different! For me, I love dressing up and wearing a dress with my white shoes! That makes me different and I am okay with that! Why is there a difference the two? The reason why there is a difference between the two is because when you are "blending in" with everyone else, you are acting like everyone else and you are not acting like yourself but if you "stand out" from everyone else, you are being different from everyone else and that is okay! It is okay to stand out from everyone else! That makes you who you are! I don't like blending in with other people! I like standing out and that makes me proud of who I am!!

What comes to mind when I think about "blending in"? 

When I think about the words "blending in", what comes to mind? When I think about the words "blending in", I think about being like everyone else in the world or a copycat! You want to be like everyone else to the point where you are copying them! You should never be like everyone else! You are your own person and God made you the way you are! You are an unique person and you should never copy anyone else! You are an amazing person and don't pretend to be anyone else that you're not because what's the point of doing that? There isn't a point of doing that!

Why? 

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because God made you the way you are! You don't need to blend in with anyone else! You don't have to be the person next to you or you don't have to wear the same clothes as that person! Every person is different and that's okay! You don't have to blend in or make yourself "fit in" into society because you're different! We are made differently and I love being different because no one isn't like me and I'm okay with that! A lot of girls don't like headbands but I do! A lot of girls don't like makeup but I do! I don't mind being different because I know God made me like this! I don't like parties or drinking but I know people who like doing that but that's fine! That's me! I am just a girl who loves Christian music, Kpop, blogging, writing, and reading her bible! I'm okay with being who I am!! I love being who I am!! 

Blending in or standing out?  

Do I like blending in or standing out in the crowd? With me, I love standing out! I am that type of that girl who likes to wear bright colors and keep to herself! Don't like bugging people unless it is my boyfriend but other than that, I like to keep myself and keep myself busy with other things! I'm not your average 25 year old who doesn't go party or even drink alcohol! I'm just a 25 year who loves to read her bible and work on blog stuff and work on her book!! I'm different and I'm okay with that!! I don't care if I blend in or stand out because either way , I'm happy the way I am and I love being who I am!! I don't care about blending in!! I rather stand out! That's who I am!! 

Why? 

Why do I like to standing out instead of blending in? The reason why I like standing out instead of blending in is because for me, blending in is boring! You are trying to act like everyone else and that's very boring but for me, I don't like acting like everyone else! My relaxing night at home is doing some skincare, read my bible, and listening to Christian or Kpop music and also talking to my boyfriend on Facetime on Mondays during the day and Fridays at night! That's how I like it and I am okay being different from other people because I know God made me the way I am and I love being me!! I'm okay with being different and if people don't like me, oh well! You don't have to like me because I love me!!

My advice! 

What is my advice to all of my Blogger Dreamers who want to stand out instead of blending in? To all of my Blogger Dreamers who want to stand out instead of blending in, here is my advice to you: Be proud of who you are! Be proud of what you like or what kind of music you like to listen to because it's okay to be different! You don't have to listen to the same music as everyone else! You can be who you want to be because God made you the way you are and that's okay! Just be you and don't be afraid of being you! Instead of being afraid who you want to be, be proud of who you want to be!! You are AMAZING and don't forget that!! 

Why? 

Why would I give out that advice? The reason why I would give out that advice is because I think everyone is afraid of being who they want to be and people might make fun of them but if they make fun of you, let them! You be you and be proud of who you are! Don't let people stop you from being you! You are unique and there is one you and there will always be on you! No one isn't going to be you and that's fine! You be you and that's it! Don't forget that! Always love yourself for who you are and don't forget that either! Don't stop being who you are!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, blending in is so boring! Standing out is more fun then blending in! I love standing out because I can be proud of who I am without being afraid of who I am! I love the listening to the music that I love to listen to! I love Kpop music and Christian music! I don't care about listening to either of them! I don't care about who likes me for me or not! If people can't accept me the way I am, then I don't need your presence in my life! I am not going to "blend in". I am alright! Thank you though! I am who I am and I am proud of it! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is be happy to be you because there is one you and that's you! Don't blend in because someone told you to! Don't listen to anyone who tells you "you should blend in" because you don't need to blend in!! Just be you and that's it!! I love y'all so much! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind y'all that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! Don't listen to anyone who is trying to tell you that "you should blend in". Don't worry about blending in because you shouldn't have to blend in! It's okay to be different and you should be proud of who you are! Don't let other people tell you otherwise!! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: In Ezekiel 34:16, it says "The stray I will bring back, the injured I will bandage, and the weak I will strengthen". I absolutely love this bible verse a lot because when you are weak, you will get better by the power of God! God can heal you and get you back to having strength! God is powerful and he will help you get better! Just believe in him!! I love y'all and I hope everyone will have a happy Monday or in other countries, a happy Tuesday and I will see y'all on Wednesday where I will I will talk about my main reasons why I want to inspire others? I love y'all and remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams". Please, take care of yourself and I love y'all! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ☮✌💚

Today's bible verse of the day! This is such a good bible verse and God will strengthen the weak!! 

"Deep in my heart,
I know I am a loner.
I have tried to blend in with the world
and be sociable, but the more people
I meet the more disappointed I am,
so I've learned to enjoy myself, my
family and few friends".
-Steven Aitchison! I find this so relatable I have tried to blend in with everyone but I couldn't but I came to accept that I am not like everyone else! I try to be social but every time I try to talk to new people, I get nervous! I just enjoy my family who care about me, a few friends that I do have, and my amazing boyfriend who I adore so much!! 

My tiktok about "blending in". Don't blend in because you feel like you should blend in with others, but stand out because God made you the way you are!! 

"You Are Designed By
God Not To Blend In, 
But To Stand Out".
-Myles Munroe. I love this quote so much because God made you the way you should be and you shouldn't have to blend in but you should stand out instead because God would want you to do that!! 

For this week's song of the week, I chose the song "Do It Again" by Elevation Worship because God continues to move mountains and he continues to bless me in my life over and over again and I can't thank God enough for all the blessings in my life!!