Monday, December 19, 2022

What stood out for me in 2022? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden.

                                             What stood out for me in 2022? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, December 19th, 2022! 

Intro to my blog! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! Welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, it's Brandee here and I am so happy to have my Blogger Dreamers on a new blog episode! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Take a deep breath and breathe! Before I talk about last week's blog episodes and this week's blogs, I just wanted to let y'all know that I will be taking a two week break but don't cry! I will be back in two weeks! A new blog episode will be on Monday, January 9th, 2023 on my Makeup and fashion blog page, so stay tuned for that! Let's do a recap on last week's blogs! On Monday, I talked about my poem "People who show their true colors". When people show their true colors, they are showing who they really are until you see the real them and it is hard because you thought you could trust them but you can't and it hurts you!! On Wednesday, I talked about my other poem "Heart of Gold". When I think about someone having a heart of gold, I think about someone who treats someone nicely or is there for someone whenever they need something! I have been told by people that I have a heart of gold and I feel like I do because I am there for people who need support! Sometimes, my heart of gold has been hurt but I don't let it loose my shine at all! On Friday, I talked about me and Aaron: Friendship to relationship!! Me and Aaron have been through a lot throughout our two years of friendship and then, he asked me to be his girlfriend! He is the best boyfriend in the world and I couldn't ask for anyone better than him! For this week's blogs, I will be talking about what stood out for me in 2022, analyzing the song "Unbreakable" by WayV, and what did this year taught me? Now, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I chose to talk about this blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I chose this song of the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what stood out for me in 2022? In this blog episode, I will be talking about since 2022 is ending, what are somethings in 2022 that stood out to me? Why did those things stood out to me? Which memory stood out to me? Why did that memory stood out to me? What is the significance behind that memory? Why is that memory so significant? What am I looking forward in 2023? Why am I looking forward to those things in 2023? Why did I chose to talk about this blog episode? The reason why I decided to talk about today's blog episode is because 2022 was an eye opening for me! 2022 taught me a lot and I am so glad it taught me a lot! What is this week's song of the week? The song that I chose for the week is "Unbreakable" by WayV! I love this song so much! It has an upbeat to it which I love a lot and it is very good!! When I think about the word "Unbreakable", I think about the prefix "un" which means not and people might think "we are not breakable" but sometimes, we are unbreakable and we break under pressure! Why did I chose this song of the week? I chose this song for the week is because some people might think that I am not breakable but in reality, I am. I sometimes break under pressure and it is hard for me and sometimes, I can't handle it even though I try to push hard!!! 


Talking about the year, 2022! Why were there moments that were rocky? 

The year 2022 was rocky for me! I had moments where I cried! I had moments where I wanted to give up! I had moments that were good! The year 2022 threw me some curve balls that I didn't expect which was hard for me! I also had some good moments and bad moments! The bad moments taught me a lesson but the good moments were memories and I am forever grateful for those memories! I started out single this year and I am walking out of 2022 being in a relationship! I learned a lot in the year 2022 and I am forever grateful for the things that I learned in 2022! It was an eye opener year, I can say and I will explain why on Friday's blog! Why were there moments that were rocky? I think the reason why I had moments that were rocky is because I had moments where I was being tested and that was hard on me! I had moments where people would push me to my limits which was hard for me! I had my mental health pushed me to my limits at times to the point where I was thinking about suicidal thoughts which that was hard for me but I thank God for it because I am still alive and I never wanted to think negative thoughts about myself ever again!! 

Things that stood out in 2022!! Why did those things stood out to me? 

Since 2022 is ending, what are somethings in 2022 that stood out to me? I think the first thing that stood out to me was me having fake friends! I never imagined of having fake friends until now and that hurts sometimes! When I think about the word "friend", I think about someone who is constantly there for you no matter what or someone who doesn't give up on you! Not someone who isn't there for you at all! I had friends who weren't there for me at all which broke my heart! The second thing that stood out to me was when my best friend aka my boyfriend now asked me to be his girlfriend! On November 1st of this year, I was laying in bed and just doing my thing and I was texting my best friend, Aaron at the time! Well, he was like "I need to ask you something". Then, I was like "What is it"? Then, he asked me to be his girlfriend and of course, I said yes! That memory will always stay in my head forever! I think that was the highlight of 2022! I am so lucky to have an amazing boyfriend who is very supportive when it comes to me blogging and on Friday, I sent him my blog episode about me and him and he told me he had a little tear in his eye and I thought that was very sweet! I am so lucky! The third and final thing that stood out to me in 2022 was when I was feeling disrespected by friends! This year, I was called "stupid" by a friend of mine and that was hurtful. A real friend doesn't call you "stupid". That is not a real friend! I had been called the "b" word before and that hurt as well. When you have friends call you those things, it hurts you to the core! Don't be friends with someone calls you those things! Why did those things stood out to me? I think these things stood out to me is because these things are something that I will never forget and I will forget the things that happened to me and stuff like that! People are cruel and sometimes, you can forgive but you can't forget!!! 

The memory that stood out the most! Why did that memory stood out to me? 

Which memory stood out to me? The memory that stood out to me the most out of these three is the memory where my best friend aka my boyfriend asked me to be his girlfriend! That is the memory that I will never forget! That memory will live on in my head forever! Something about November 1st will always be my favorite! I am happy to have an amazing boyfriend who is so supportive and do anything to protect me! When he asked me to be his girlfriend, first in foremost I was completely shocked and astonished!! I couldn't understand what is going on but after while, I was happy! I was happy to be his girlfriend and I am happy that he is my boyfriend! I am happy to have someone who is caring and supportive! He is amazing!! Why did that memory stood out to me? The reason why that memory stood out to me is because it is something that I will never forget and it happened in the month where we give thanks and for that, I am truly thankful for that! I feel happy to have someone who loves me for who I am and who is very supportive!!! 

The significance behind the memory! Why is that memory so significant?

What is the significance behind that memory? The significance behind that memory which when my best friend aka my boyfriend asked me to be his girlfriend is it holds a lot of significance to it! The significance is we have been friends for two years! He has been there for me since day one and I couldn't ask anyone better than him! He is a whole lot different from other guys that I have met and he is so caring! He treats me so well and I couldn't ask for a better boyfriend than him!! When he asked me to be his girlfriend, it was one of the best days of my life! I am glad that I can replay that memory forever and I can't wait to see what next year brings for us and I can't wait to see what kind of memories play out for us! This memory for me is so significant and the significance is it holds a special place in my heart and I will never forget that day!! EVER!! Why is that memory so significant? The reason why that memory is so significant is because it is something that I will never forget! It is something that will live on in my head forever! It is something that will live on in my head forever and it is something that I don't want to forget! I will never forget that memory!! I will always remember that memory forever and always!! 

The year 2023! Why am I looking forward to those things in 2023?

What am I looking forward in 2023? I think I am looking forward in 2023 is new blogs, new tiktok videos, and looking forward to see what 2023 has in store for me, my boyfriend, my friends, my family, and my Blogger Dreamers! I am looking forward to see what God has in store for all of us and see where it takes us! I can't wait to work on new blog topics and I can't wait to do tiktok videos where I talk about certain subjects like my blogs! I am looking forward to share my positive vibes and I can't wait to share my advice for the people who needs it! I am feeling positive for next year! Why am I looking forward to those things in 2023? The reason why I am looking forward to those things is because it is a new year and I am looking forward to continue to share what is going on inside my brain and I can't wait to talk about certain subjects for my tiktok videos like my blogs! I am so excited and I am looking forward to share with my friends and my family! I am so excited!! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day? 

In conclusion, 2022 has opened my eyes a lot! I am starting to realize who are my real friends are and I am starting to realize that my feelings for my boyfriend were so strong and that I couldn't ignore it anymore! 2022 has threw me curve balls that I wasn't ready for but I am so blessed to get through each moment and I am blessed to grew strong from each moment! 2022 is the year that I will never forget! I will never forget 2022 but I am excited to see what 2023 has in store for people who I love and me! I am feeling excited! Here is tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is enjoy each moment that you can because once you have that moment, you will never get it back so enjoy it while you can! My question of the day is what stood out to y'all in 2022? Why did those things stood out to you in 2022? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read y'all's comments! Please! Thank you so much!! 

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone enjoyed today's new weekly blog! I know that I enjoyed today's blog episode! This year opened my eyes a lot and for that, I am grateful that this year opened my eyes a lot! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes something like this: "I lie down and sleep; I wake again; because the Lord sustains me". -Psalm 3:5. I love this bible verse because I wake up every morning and I am thankful for the Lord! We wake up because the Lord gave us another day to live and I wake feeling blessed and thankful for what I do which is spread positive vibes! I'm thankful! I hope everyone will have an amazing day or had an amazing day! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Please, stay warm and stay safe! See y'all on Wednesday where I will be talking about the song "Unbreakable" by WayV! Don't forget our slogan: "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"! I love y'all and this blogger queen is out! Peace!! ✌๐Ÿ’œ

Today's bible verse of the day!!! I love this bible verse a lot! Such a good bible verse!! 


Stop being the "go-to" for someone you can't go to. I love this quote a lot because you can be that person who you so called "friends" can go to but you can't go to them which is not fair to you! Find someone who you can go to!! 


On November 1st of this year, my best friend, Aaron asked me to be his girlfriend and I am so lucky to say yes! The memory that will live on in my head and in my heart!!! 


"Getting rid of people who 
disrespect you is the only 
way you learn to respect 
yourself. Family, friends,
lovers, whatever. They 
gotta go". 
-Ed Latimore. I love this quote because I am going to get rid of people who disrespects me as a human being! If anyone doesn't respect me, you won't get respect back!!! Simple as that! 

Song of the week is "Unbreakable" by WayV! I love this song so much and I think it is such an amazing song!! I know that I break at times and I can't help but break under pressure! 








    


Friday, December 2, 2022

Believing in respecting boundaries!! By: Brandee Darden.

                                         Believing in respecting boundaries! By: Brandee Darden. Friday, December 2nd, 2022!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! Welcome back to an all new weekly blog! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, its Brandee here! I am so happy to have y'all on a new blog episode! It's officially December which means it is Christmas! Wohooo!! Happy December!! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! I hope everyone is staying warm since it is getting cold and stuff like that! Before I talk about today's blog episode, I will be talking about Wednesday's blog about the word "respect". When I think about the word "respect", I think about someone respecting what you like or how you identify as and stuff like that! When I see someone disrespect another person, that makes me angry because one, you should never disrespect someone like that and secondly, if someone disrespects another person, walk away and never talk to that person again! None of my Blogger Dreamers don't deserve that! Y'all deserve so much better! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about believing in respecting boundaries by me aka Brandee Darden. In today's blog episode, I will be talking about on Wednesday, I talked about the word "respect" and I also talked about do I think it should be earned or received? What do I think about believing in respecting boundaries? Why do I think about believing in respecting boundaries is important? When people doesn't respect your boundaries, how does it make you feel or in my case, how does it make me feel? Why does it make me feel that way? If I have any advice to give to any of my Blogger Dreamers, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice? Now, without any further ado, let's get started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking in depth about if respect should be earned or received? Why should respect should be earned or received? 

On Wednesday, I talked about the word "respect" and I also talked about do I think it should be earned or received? In depth, I feel like respect should be earned not received! When someone respects you, they look up to you and they admire you but once you did something that a person doesn't like or don't agree with, they don't respect you for what you did or maybe who you love.  I feel people should earn to respect you, not receive it! It is like giving them a free pass because you should respect them automatically which is hard to respect them fast! Why should respect should be earned or received? The reason why respect should be earned is because when you look up to someone, it takes a lot of responsibility to be a good idol for that person or people and it can be a hard job sometimes! For me, when someone says "your blogs are uplifting" or "your inspirational", for  me it takes amount of respect to show my Blogger Dreamers that you should believe in me and that I am trying to show how much of an inspiration that I can be because being someone's inspiration can be hard at times but for me, it takes a lot of work but I am happy to have the amount of respect and being someone's inspiration!! 

Believing in respecting boundaries!! Why do I think about believing in respecting boundaries is important? 

What do I think about believing in respecting boundaries? I think believing in someone's boundaries is important! If someone that you know decided to set boundaries for themselves because of their mental health, I think you should respect it no matter what! If someone steps over the respecting boundaries, not only they don't respect you but they also don't respect your boundaries which is wrong of them to do! If someone doesn't have respect for you or your boundaries, then you shouldn't let them be in your life anymore! Why do I think about believing in respecting boundaries is important? I think respecting in someone's boundaries is important is because if you are setting boundaries for yourself and someone steps over those boundaries, first of all, they never respected you anyway which stinks and second of all,  you should NEVER trusted them in the beginning! You should always find friends who will respect you and respect your boundaries as well!! 

My feelings towards someone who doesn't respect my boundaries! Why does it make me feel that way?

When people doesn't respect your boundaries, how does it make you feel or in my case, how does it make me feel? Every person is different when it comes to people who disrespect their boundaries! Some people get mad, some people get upset, or people just simply don't care at all! It depends on the person! When I make boundaries for myself, I expect for people to respect me but instead, I feel disrespected and it hurts! When people step over my boundaries, it hurts a lot! It shows that they don't respect me as a person who has feelings! If someone doesn't respect me and boundaries, then I don't want to have them in life because it's not worth it! Why does it make me feel that way? The reason why it makes me feel that way because when someone disrespects me and my boundaries, it shows they never cared about me as a person or an individual who loves to be alone at times and who loves to blog! It is sad that people would step over someone boundaries and not respect them at all!!

My advice! Why would I give that advice? 

If I have any advice to give to any of my Blogger Dreamers, what is my advice? If I have any advice about people not respecting your boundaries, my advice is cut those people out of your life! You don't need that kind of toxicity in your life and if people don't respect you or your boundaries, you don't need them in your life and you certainly don't need someone who is going to tear you down at the end of the day! Set boundaries for yourself for your mental health because your mental health is so important! Why would I give that advice? The reason why I would give that advice is because if you set boundaries not only for yourself but also for the people around, they are either going to respect you or not, depending on the person or people in your life! You don't need people who aren't going to respect you and you deserve respect in your life so don't take the disrespect from that person or people and move on from them because you don't need that in your life!! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day!!! 

In conclusion, someone disrespecting your boundaries can hurt you because once you set those boundaries for you and the people around, you expect someone to respect those boundaries for the sake of your mental health but when someone doesn't respect your boundaries, it hurts you and you don't know what to do because you thought you could trust that person but obviously, you can't! If people aren't willing to respect your boundaries and not respect you as a person or respect your boundaries because of your mental health, then you don't need that person or people in your life! You need people who will respect your boundaries and respect you as a person! Someone who respects you as a person and your boundaries is the most important person you need in your life! For today's tip of the day, it goes something like this: Find people who will respect you as person but also your boundaries because if you find someone who will respect your boundaries and you as an induvial, then you will be alright!! There are people who are respectful and who will respect you but you have to be careful who will respect you and be there for you no matter what and who will also respect your boundaries!! 

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, it's Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! I hope everyone will set boundaries for yourself and I pray that people around you will respect those boundaries because someone who respects your boundaries is important and it is also important to have people in your life who will respect those boundaries for your sake!! You just need to find people who will be respectful to you! Now, for today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Regret is the most painful thing you can experience in Life". -Vincenzo Cassano. I love this quote so much because in life, you will regret something that you didn't get to do or get enjoy and you want to enjoy those things before you pass away, so don't regret doing something you want to do before you pass away!!! Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! I hope everyone will have an amazing weekend or in other countries, I hope y'all are having an amazing weekend! Please, stay safe and stay warm!! I love y'all and don't forget our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams"!! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday and I will see y'all next week with new weekly blogs on my fashion and makeup blog page!! Stay tuned! I love y'all and stay safe! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace!!! ✌๐Ÿ’™

Today's quote of the day!!! 


"Pay attention when 
people react with anger 
and hostility to 
your boundaries. 
You have found 
the edge where their 
respect for you ends".
-Unknown. I like this quote because if someone gets angry at you for making boundaries for yourself, then they never respected you in the first place!! 


"I set boundaries 
to respect myself.
Not to offend you". 
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because when I set boundaries for myself, I don't mean to offend everyone but you get offended, then you are stupid!! I am not here to get you mad but I am here to make sure I am happy and to the point where I respect myself as a human being!! 


"Anyone who 
truly wants 
to be in your life
will respect 
your boundaries. 
Period". -Unknown. I love this because if someone wants to be in your life, they will truly respect you and your boundaries and if that person in your life doesn't do that, kick them to the curb!!! 


To end the blog episode for today, for this week's song of the week, it is "Glow" by Stray Kids. I love this song a lot because it starts off slow and then, it has a beat to it which is so good! It is such a nice song and I love it a lot!!! 




Wednesday, November 30, 2022

The word "respect" by Brandee Darden!

                                            The word "respect" by Brandee Darden. Blog episode on Wednesday, November 30th, 2022! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers and welcome back to a weekly blog!! It's your girl aka the blogger queen herself, Brandee here! I am so happy to have y'all on a new blog episode for today! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and okay! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Before I do a recap on Monday's blog episode or talk about today's blog episode, I want to talk about November! November was a month where I don't want to forget! The reason why I don't want to forget about it is because on November 1st, I was just laying in bed and then, my best friend who became my boyfriend asked me to be his girlfriend and of course, I said yes! That stood out to me in the month of November and I can't believe it will be a month on Thursday since he asked me to be his girlfriend! Now, let's do a recap on Monday's blog! On Monday, I talked about Finding out about BTS military enlistment!! When I find out about their enlistment, I knew it was going to happen but I didn't know it would happen this soon! Finding out that Jin was going to go on December 13th of this year, it makes me sad because I love Jin and I will always love Jin no matter what but I will wait for all 7 to come back healthy and strong!! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about the word "respect". In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the word "respect", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind? In my opinion, do I think respect should be earned or do I think respect should be received? Why do I think it should be one or the other? What is the significance behind respect? Why is there significance behind the word "respect"? Now, without any further ado, let's get started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about the word "respect". Why do I believe in respect? 

The word respect to me signifies you are respecting people who are older than you and you understand what they are saying and what they mean! I believe in respect and showing others who respect you! If someone doesn't respect you as a person, you should never show that person or people no respect at all! When people disrespect you, it is like a stab in the heart because you thought they will respect you as a person, but in reality, they don't care about you as a person and they don't care about giving you any respect at all which is so stupid!! Why do I believe in respect? The reason why I believe in respect is because when I give people respect, I respect people as a person and who they love or what I like! I don't judge who they are dating or what they like but if someone disrespects me, they have to earn my respect back and that isn't easy at all! My respect is hard to earn back because once you lost my respect, good luck earning it back! It will take months or even years to get back my respect! Just saying!! 

The word "respect". Why does it come to mind?

When I think about the word "respect", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "respect", I think about respecting people who are older than you! Growing up, I always respected my dad, my mom, or people who were older than me but once disrespected me or my family, I automatically cut them out of my life! I will never tolerate someone disrespecting me or my family! I want respect and if you respect me, then I will respect you! I will respect what you like or who you like but if you don't do the same for me, I will end our friendship in a heartbeat! I am just saying! Why does it come to mind? The reason why it comes to mind is because I feel people should respect other people but once you messed up, then I don't know about others, but with me, our friendship is over! I won't, I repeat, I won't tolerate disrespect towards me or my family or in anyone who I am close to because once you disrespect me, I won't be there for you anymore because you hurt me! Just saying!

My opinion about respect should be earned or received? Why do I think it should be one or the other? 

In my opinion, do I think respect should be earned or do I think respect should be received? In my opinion, I think respect should be earned! Here are my reasons on why it should be earned not received: reason #1: If you disrespect me, I won't tolerate it! Reason #2: If you call me names or disrespect my family, I will call off our friendship or I will just block you. And reason #3: If you are not supporting me or you are just simply disrespecting me, then I am done with you! Once someone disrespecting me, I over it! I am not going to deal with someone who thinks respect should be received because it shouldn't be received but it should be earned! You have to earn it from me! Why do I think it should be one or the other? I think it should be earned not received because when you respect someone, you support their decision whether it wrong or right, you respect what they like and not hate on it, and you should help that person to make the right respectful decision because if you help them make the right decision, it is respectful of you for helping them! Respect is earned not received and don't get the short end of the stick! 

The significance behind respect! Why is there significance behind the word "respect"? 

What is the significance behind respect? The significance behind respect is today, people are lacking respect and it stinks because I think respecting your parents is big thing to me! You might not agree with them with what they are saying half the time, but you should respect them no matter what! I have older siblings and sometimes, I don't agree with what my sisters say to me but am I going to respect them? Yes, I am going to respect my sisters who are older then me and I am not going to argue with them! I think there is a lot of significance behind the word respect and I feel like if someone disrespects you, make them earn your respect, not giving it to them for free! Why is there significance behind the word "respect"? The reason why there is a lot of significance behind the word "respect" is because when you respect someone, it shows that you respect them as a person or what they like or you respect what they do, but if you disrespect them then, you don't like what they do or you don't support it! You should always respect what people do because if you respect what people do, it shows that you support what they do!

In conclusion/ Advice of the day/ Question of the day? 

In conclusion, you are going to have people who are going to respect you for what you do or the decisions that you make and you are going to have people who are going to disrespect you and not support the decisions that you make but that's fine! We learn from those mistakes and we move on from those mistakes! People are going to respect you and love you for who you are but people are going to disrespect you and you don't need that in your life but no matter how old you are, listen to your parents! A lot of times, your parents know best and you should ALWAYS listen to your parents no matter what! I am 24 years old and I still listen to my dad, my mom, my step mom, and my two older sisters because I don't like disrespecting people who doesn't deserve to be disrespected!! Here is the advice and question of the day? The advice of the day is if you notice someone disrespecting you, cut them out of your life because you don't need the disrespect and you deserve so much better! Cut those toxic people out of your life because you don't need that!! My question of the day is Do you think respect should be earned or received? Sound off in the comments down below! I would love to read y'all's thoughts!! I love y'all!!

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode!! Respect is earned, not given and don't give out your respect to people who don't respect you! My Blogger Dreamers deserve so much better than that! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "When you're tired, get some rest. When your sad, go ahead and cry. It's okay to do that". -Oh Ji Hwang. I love this quote so much because when you feel exhausted and tired, you just want to sleep. When you want to cry, just do it because if you hold all your emotions in, you are going to explode and your emotions are going to spill out! It's okay to cry and be tired! That's okay because everything will be okay! I hope everyone enjoy this blog episode for today! Don't forget our slogan: "Dream big. Don't give up on your dreams"! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! I hope everyone will have a good day or I hope everyone had a great day and I will see y'all on my next blog where I will be talking about believing in respecting boundaries!! I love y'all and please, stay safe! The Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ✌๐Ÿ’œ

Quote of the day!! I love this quote so much! Such an amazing quote!! 


"You can't force someone 
to respect you, but you 
can refuse to be disrespected".
-Unknown. I love this because you can't force someone to respect you but you can walk away from the disrespect because you don't deserve that!! 


"If you constantly 
have to tell someone 
about how you feel
and they don't change 
it, understand they 
don't respect you".
-Unknown. I also love this quote as well because if you tell someone how you are feeling and they don't understand it, they don't bother to respect you at all and you need the respect that you deserve!!! 


"Know your place in 
people's lives and act 
accordingly. It's not pride, 
it's self respect".
-Unknown. I love the top quote a lot because you have to have self respect within yourself because if people aren't going to respect you, then you should respect yourself and that's it! Respect yourself no matter what!! 



Monday, November 28, 2022

Finding out about BTS military enlistment!! By: Brandee Darden.

                                             Finding out about BTS military enlistment! By: Brandee Darden. Blog date: Monday, November 28th, 2022! 

Intro to my blog! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, it's Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode! Missed me? I sure did missed y'all! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Here in the United States, we celebrate Thanksgiving and at Thanksgiving, we had turkey and all kinds of stuff! It was so yummy and to all of my Blogger Dreamers who celebrated Thanksgiving, I hope everyone had an amazing Thanksgiving! I had a good Thanksgiving! Before I start talking about this week's blogs along with today's blog, I am going to do a recap of week of Sunday, November 13th, 2022! On Monday, November 14th, I talked about what jewelry would I wear with my plaid outfits? The jewelry that I picked out is absolutely amazing and phenomenal! I think with each jewelry piece would look great with each outfit! On Wednesday, November 16th, I talked about what makeup looks would I wear with my plaid outfits? Now, each makeup looks describes either who I am as a person and my decision on how I want the makeup look to look! With the first look, I wanted to be a soft look which I think would look amazing! The second one would be sassy and fierce and the third one would be cute!! I love how each makeup look looks and I can't wait to wear each look soon! On Friday, November 18th, I talked about the makeup and outfit that I would wear to a BTS concert in the future! I think the makeup and the outfit looks absolutely amazing and so gorgeous! I think the purple look would look great! Now, for this week's blogs, I will be talking about finding out about BTS military enlistment, the word "respect", and believing in respecting boundaries! Now, without further ado, let's get started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! What does this blog signify to me? Why does this blog signifies to me? What is the song of the week? Why did I chose that song for the week?

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about finding out about BTS military enlistment by me aka Brandee Darden. In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I found out about BTS military enlistment, how did I feel? Why did I feel this way? When I say to tell people "Once you Jimin, you can't Jim out", what do I mean by that? Why did I mean by that? When I mentioned before that BTS taught me how to love myself and trust myself, how did they do that? Why they taught me how to love myself and trust myself? What does this blog signify to me? The blog episode signifies to me by me being a big BTS fan and me loving them so much! When I found out they were going into the military, I knew it was going to happen but I didn't know when it will happen exactly which stinks because BTS is so successful and they are doing so good right now with their music and it is going to hurt me and you will find out soon why it hurt me!! Why does this blog signifies to me? The reason why this blog signifies to me because when I have been a big BTS fan aka an ARMY for so long now, you know them going into the military is eventually going to happen but unfortunately, you exactly didn't know when it will happen, but once I found out, man I was crushed! Believe me! I was! What is the song of the week? For the song of the week, I chose "Glow" by Stray Kids! I love this song so much! It is such an amazing song and I love how it starts out soft but then, there is a beat to it which is so good! Why did I chose that song for the week? The reason why I chose that song for the week is because I love how it starts out soft and then, it will drop the beat which is so good!! 

Talking about the military and how long does BTS have to go into the military for? Why does BTS have to go in for that long? 

In Korea, it is mandatory for all men to go into the military! They don't care if you are an Korean actor or even a superstar, it is mandatory for all men to go into the military! Like I said before, did see this coming? Yes, but did I know it would be so soon? No! On October 17th, I was working on a blog episode on my makeup and fashion blog page and BigHit announced on Weverse that BTS is enlisting into the military! When I read the whole thing, I sobbed the whole day pretty much! Not too long ago like last week, I found out on December 13th, Jin (the oldest of the group), will be leaving for his military enlistment! Am I sad about that? Absolutely! Am I going to miss him? Yes! Am I going to miss all of them when they go? Yes, I will! How long does BTS have to go into the military for? BTS will have to go into the military for almost two years!! When I think about BTS being in the military for almost two years, to me it will feel like a long time! They can't have long hair in the military and seeing them with a different hair cut will be hard for me! Why does BTS have to go in for that long? The reason why they have to go in for that long is because like I said it is mandatory and not only that, they might do some training, I believe but I don't know what's going on at a Korean military. I just pray for their safety and they will make it okay! 

My feelings towards BTS military enlistment!! Why did I feel this way?

When I found out about BTS military enlistment, how did I feel? When I found out about BTS military enlistment, I was sad because I love them so much! In the back of my mind though, I just knew that it was going to happen sooner or later but I didn't know it will happen this soon which it stinks because I knew they had to go but for me, this is all new because I never had to experience this type of a feeling before! I know that BTS will make us proud and I don't have any doubt that will be okay! I know that I will be balling my eyes when Jin leaves but for me, it is not a goodbye but it is a see ya later! Why did I feel this way? The reason why I feel this way is because I love BTS so much! BTS was the first Korean group that I got into, so it is hard for me to process about BTS military enlistment and stuff like that! To me, it hurts but I know they will do great because I don't have any doubt in them! 

The phrase "Once you Jimin, you can't Jim out". Why did I mean by that? 

When I say to tell people "Once you Jimin, you can't Jim out", what do I mean by that? When I tell people who might be entering into the KPop world, what I mean by that phrase is once you get into listening to Korean music, you can't get out of it! You are trapped and you are stuck! You might fall out of love with Korean music, but at the end of the day, you are stuck into a hole where you can't get out of and that is how I am! When I listen to a few English songs, I am like "Okay! Let's switch to Korean music" because that is what my mind is used to and I have been listening to BTS since 2018 which the songs where 'Fake Love", 'DNA', and 'Idol'. I love BTS and Kpop and I will always love BTS no matter what! Why did I mean by that? The reason why I mean that is because once you enter the world of Kpop or the world of BTS, you're done! That's it! I am stuck to listening to Kpop music forever and I will forever listen to BTS forever because that is what my mind is used to! I will forever be proud to listen to BTS or to any Korean artist or group such as NCT, ATEEZ, and so much more! If you know me, then you know who I love!! 

BTS teaching me about loving and trust myself! Why they taught me how to love myself and trust myself? 

When I mentioned before that BTS taught me how to love myself and trust myself, how did they do that? Before I got into BTS, I had a hard time in trusting and loving myself and when I listen to their song "Fake Love", I realized their song hit me like a ton of bricks and I realized I have been giving myself fake love this whole time and I didn't like that feeling at all! It was a feeling of me hurting myself and not loving myself! BTS taught me how to love myself by when I listen to their song "Answer: Love myself" and I was reading the lyrics, I realized that I should love myself for who I am and if I make mistakes, then I am going to love myself for my mistakes as well and I know that I am NOT perfect and I will never be perfect! They taught me how to trust myself by just accepting that I need to trust myself before I trust others and I need to protect my heart and make sure I trust my judgement before I trust anyone's judgement! Why they taught me how to love myself and trust myself? The reason why they taught me how to love and trust myself is because I always had trouble loving myself and trusting my judgement! I didn't have trouble trust anyone's judgement because I already had trust issues but I couldn't trust myself! I could love other but I couldn't love myself which was so hard for me but I love and trust for who I am and I am so glad that I can trust myself and love myself! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day? 

In conclusion, finding out about BTS military enlistment was so hard for me because I love each BTS so much! Their music has helped me so much! If it wasn't for them, I don't know where I would be without them! I love and trust myself because of BTS! Because of each BTS member, I am confident, mature, bold, I look at the bright side, I am a love bot, I am okay being who I am, and I always do my best in anything that I do is all because of each BTS member but I know that they are going to be safe! It is going to be hard for me but when I am sad, all I can think about is BTS music and I will be okay! Here is my tip and question of the day!? My tip of the day is always love and trust yourself no matter what! Always have self love and always have trust within yourself no matter what! If you make the wrong mistake, you have to live with that mistake but just know that you made that wrong mistake and you made the call! Love yourself for who you are because the person who you are is absolutely amazing and wonderful! Don't forget that! For the question of the day is how would y'all if your favorite group or singer goes into the military? Why would y'all feel like that? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all! 

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! Y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! How did y'all enjoy it? I hope y'all enjoyed it and I hope y'all like it! For me, finding out about BTS military enlistment was so hard for me! I love them so much and I will always love BTS no matter what!! In my heart, I know that they will be safe and I know they will do great! I don't doubt that they won't do great because I know they will do great! Before I sign off for today's blog episode, here is today's quote of the day: "Even if... you think you won't make it, fight to the end. In life, there are many things you start even if you know the predetermined end". -Oh Sang-shik (Misaeng). I love this quote so much because even if you don't make it to the end, fight until you can't fight anymore! You might start things but how do you know the predetermined end when you are thinking about the future already? Don't predict what will happen until it officially happens! I hope everyone will have or had a great day! Please, stay safe and please, stay warm! Don't forget our slogan on the Blogger Dreamers: "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams". I love y'all and Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Stay safe and I will see y'all on Wednesday where I will talk about the word "respect". This blogger queen is signing off! Peace out! I love y'all! ✌๐Ÿ’œ

Today's quote of the day! I love this quote so much! This is such an amazing quote and might be my favorite quote ever!!! 


On October 17th, the day I found out that all of them will be going soon starting off with Jin which is hard for me but I know that they will be fine!! 


The day that the media announced that Jin was going into the military and Jin posted this on Weverse telling the ARMY not to come because it could be dangerous and it will be crowded!! I love Jin so much and we will miss you so much, Jin! 


Edits that ARMY has done of BTS and to me, they look so real! This is so crazy!! 


This week's song of the week! "Glow" by Stray Kids! I love this song because of how slow it starts and then, the beat drops which I love so much! Such an amazing song! 









 

Friday, November 4, 2022

Analyzing my poem "Heartbreaks" by Brandee Marie Darden!

                                           ๐Ÿ’” Analyzing my poem, "Heartbreaks" by Brandee Marie Darden!! ๐Ÿ’” Date of blog: Friday, November 4th, 2022!! 

Intro to my blog! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! Welcome back to an all new blog episode! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, it's Brandee here! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Let's end on a high note and end this week strong! How's my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Before I talk about today's blog episode, let's talk about Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about what am I thankful for this year? The things that I am thankful for is life, my friends/ boyfriend who is my best friend, and my family! My life has taught me how to be brave and basically, to stand up for myself! Min Yoongi from BTS taught me how to be bold and now, I am being bold and learning how to be brave and stand up for myself and I am thankful for that! My friends are amazing! Well, the true friends who have stand by my side and being there for me! When it comes to finding friends, it is so rare because it is hard to find true friends who will stay by your side or not and my boyfriend was my best friend before he became my boyfriend and he is my best friend no matter what! My family is my blessing! I love my family so much! My family is my everything! Before I talk today's blog episode, thank you to my Blogger Dreamers for showing so much love to my blogs from this week and to my old blogs as well! I love each and one of my Blogger Dreamers so much! Thank you! For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Heartbreaks" by Brandee Marie Darden! In this blog post, I will be talking about when I think about the word "Heartbreaks", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind when it comes to heartbreaks? What are the top two heartbreaks that I have ever went through? Why were those the top two heartbreaks that I picked? If I have any advice to give to any of my Blogger Dreamers about heartbreaks, what would that advice be? Why would I give that advice? Now, without any further ado, let's get started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about my poem! What is the meaning behind this poem? Why is there meaning behind this poem? 

On Thursday, October 7th, 2021, I wrote a poem called "Heartbreaks". It goes something like this: "Heartbreaks" by Brandee M. Darden. 
"The way that 
I can describe 
heartbreaks is 
they are terrible! 
They are sad! 
You feel alone 
when you are 
going through 
a heartbreak 
but you are 
not alone! 
When you 
feel alone 
or sad, talk 
to someone! 
Reach out to 
someone who 
will listen to 
you! Don't keep 
anything in! 
Let everything 
go!!!! Don't overthink 
anything! Everything 
happens for a 
reason and 
heartbreaks 
happen at 
times"!
-Brandee Darden. I love this poem so much! This poem is so good and so amazing that I am so proud of it! What is the meaning behind this poem? The meaning behind this poem is when you are going through a heartbreak, you shouldn't have to go through it alone! Always open up to someone and tell them "I need you. Please, help me"! Don't keep something in that is making your heartbreak because if you keep your heartbreak in, no one can't help you and move on from that heartbreak such as a bad breakup and so many more things!! Why is there meaning behind this poem? The reason why there is meaning behind this poem is because when you go through a heartbreak like a bad breakup, a death in your family, or anything like that, it hurts so much and you don't know what to do but to keep it inside and it makes you feel alone! That shouldn't be the case! You should never feel alone because if you are going through a heartbreak by yourself, open up to people! You are not alone and you will never feel alone in this heartbreak!! 

The word "Heartbreak". Why does it come to mind when it comes to heartbreaks? 

When I think about the word "Heartbreaks", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "Heartbreaks", I think about a bad breakup with your ex boyfriend or girlfriend or loosing a love one or finding out bad news! There are so many things that can lead to heartbreaks! When you loose a love one, it can break your heart to so many pieces to the point where you can't describe it! Loosing a love one hurts so bad but you have to realize that they are much in a better place! They will always remain in your heart forever! When you find out bad news, it can break you so much but when you think about bad news, you need to think about the good vibes that might come out of it! Don't be negative about the bad news, have a positive outcome out of it! When you and your ex boyfriend or girlfriend break up with you, it could ended on a good note or bad not and in case, mine ended on a bad note! This heartbreak was hurting me so bad to the point where I didn't get out of bed! It was bad but I move on from and he is history! Breakups can hurt your heart pretty bad but you need to realize that you are much better than that person!!! Why does it come to mind when it comes to heartbreaks? The reason why it comes to mind when it comes to heartbreaks is because when loosing a love one or you get bad news or even when you and your ex boyfriend or girlfriend breakup, it can hurt your heart and it is not good for you to be sad and you can find someone who can comfort you in a way! 

My top two heartbreaks!! Why were those the top two heartbreaks that I picked? 

What are the top two heartbreaks that I have ever went through? I had plenty of heartbreaks in my life and some of them break me more than others! If I had to pick my first heartbreak, my first heartbreak would be finding out that my grandpa, Flex when to be with Jesus. When my mom got the call from my older sister, I knew something wasn't right at all! I knew something wasn't right by the facial expression and I knew in my heart that my grandpa, Flex went to be with Jesus on Sunday, February 5th, 2017. That hurt and broke me so much! The second and final heartbreak that I went through is when my ex boyfriend broke up with me on May 2nd, 2020, a day after my birthday! That day was horrible but I am glad that I got through it and I have found someone who is way better than him! Why were those the top two heartbreaks that I picked is because when I saw my mom's expression, it did not look good at all and in my heart, I knew something wasn't right and sure enough, my grandpa went to be with Jesus! I miss him so much but I know that he isn't in pain anymore. The reason why I picked the second and final heartbreak as my ex boyfriend broke up with me is because it hurt me a lot! I didn't believe in love like I used to and it hurt me! After my realization kicked in, I realized that I am much better without him and I don't need someone like him! I have someone who is much better than him!! 

My advice! Why would I give that advice??

If I have any advice to give to any of my Blogger Dreamers about heartbreaks, what would that advice be? To my Blogger Dreamers who are going through a heartbreak, my advice is take it a day at a time! Everything will be okay! Don't give up! It is okay to cry and it is okay to feel hurt, but I am here for you no matter what because I care! Please, whatever you do, don't hold your hurt in because it is not good for you!! Don't ever give up! Forget the guy or girl that hurt you because you are much better than them! Focus on the good, not the bad! Why would I give that advice? The reason why I would give out this advice is because learning to move on from a heartbreak can be a difficult challenge, but it is okay! The person that hurt you doesn't deserve your tears! The loved one who passed away is no longer in any pain anymore and you have to realize you need to be happy! The loved one who went to be with Jesus wants you to be happy and you have to show them that you are happy! They are looking down on and I know that they are proud of you! Don't be sad! Be happy! Don't hold in the hurt! Let that hurt go and move on! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day??

In conclusion. heartbreaks are a terrible thing to go through, but you have to realize that you are much better than that heartbreak! You need to realize that you don't need to let that heartbreak bring you down because you are much better than that heartbreak! You don't need your ex boyfriend or girlfriend bring you down! You are much better than them! You are strong and you got this! Don't ever give up! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is don't hide in your hurt because if you tell someone that you are hurting, someone could help me and guide you through that hurt! Don't hide your pain from anyone! Someone will be there for you! Don't give up! My question of the day is, What are your top two heartbreaks? Why would you pick those at your top two as your heartbreaks? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! Please! Thank you so much!! I love y'all! 

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! This blog episode wasn't meant to be sad or depressing! I know everyone goes through heartbreaks, but don't you ever give up! Don't let that heartbreak way you down because it's not worth it! You are much stronger than that! For today's bible verse, it goes like this: "By His Wounds we are healed". -Isaiah 33:5. I love this bible verse a lot because by God, he will heal us! God will lead you the way and protect you from anything that you might go through in life!! God is our protector and he will protect us from getting hurt! I hope everyone will have a great day or had a great day! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Don't forget our slogan: "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams". I love y'all and I will see y'all on Monday on my first blog page where on Monday, I will talk about my poem "Hurting". I love y'all and have a good weekend! This blogger queen is out! Peace! ๐Ÿ’™✌

Today's bible verse of the day! I love this bible verse so much! It is such an amazing bible verse!! I love it! 


My poem that I wrote on Thursday, October 7th, 2021!! I love this poem so much! It is good poem!! 


"No one breaks 
your heart more 
than you do by 
overthinking 
every little thing". 
-Bliss. I love this quote because sometimes, we overthink about a lot of things and sometime when we overthink, it can destroy us and that is not good for our mental health at all! 


"It hurts when you 
realize you aren't as 
important to someone 
as you thought you 
were." 
-Unknown. I love this quote because when people don't recognize your feelings or how you are feeling especially when you are feeling heartbroken, you realized that you aren't as important to other people but in other people's eyes, you are important to them! 


To end the blog episode, here is the song of the week which is "Grand" by Kane Brown! I love this song so much because life is grand and all the people you need is your family and your friends and that's it! Have a good weekend, my Blogger Dreamers! Thank you so much for showing so much love to my blogs! I love y'all! ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™






Wednesday, November 2, 2022

What am I thankful for this year? Blog episode by: Bradee Darden.

                                   What am I thankful for this year? Blog episode by: Brandee Darden. Blog date: Wednesday, November 2nd, 2022! 

Intro to my blog!!  

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the blogger queen, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Before I talk about Monday's blog and today's blog episode, I have a huge announcement! Y'all are probably thinking "Brandee, what is this big announcement"? Well, my Blogger Dreamers! My big announcement is I have a boyfriend now! Yes! You read that right! I am officially off the market and I am so happy and blessed to have an amazing boyfriend who loves me and supports me no matter what! God put him in my life for a reason and I am so happy! I hope and pray that y'all are happy for me! Now, let's do a recap on Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I did a Happy Halloween blog special! I hope my Blogger Dreamers had an amazing Halloween and stayed safe! I enjoy my Halloween with my dad and my stepmom! I think it was fun night but I am never eating a lot of candy ever again! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what am I thankful for this year? In this blog episode, I will be talking about since it is November and it is Thanksgiving month, what am I thankful for this year? Why am I thankful for those things? If I could describe what am I thankful for in three words, what three words would I describe it as? Why would I describe the things that I am thankful for in three words? What is the significance of the things that I am thankful for this year and the words that I described? Why are they so significant? Now, without no further ado, let's get started! Shall we? We shall! 

The word "Thanksgiving". When I think about the word, "Thanksgiving", what comes to mind? Why it comes to my mind like that? 

When I think about the word, "Thanksgiving", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "Thanksgiving", I think about eating turkey, ham, and so much more but I also think about giving thanks to the people who have been there for you and supporting you, stuff like that! When you give thanks to someone who you love, it means to them a lot! You can be thankful for a lot of things and those things can mean a lot to you and you are just thankful that those things or people can help you in the long run! Why it comes to my mind like that? It came to my mind is because when I think about Thanksgiving, I think about hanging out with the people who love you for who you are and who care about you so much and around the table, each person is saying what they are thankful for and for me, I am thankful for a lot of things but there is three things that I am thankful for but I am going to say until the next part, so stay tuned for that! I love Thanksgiving because there is so much good food to eat and plus, you get to see the people who you love which is important because you never know when you can see those people again!!! Always love the people around you!! 

Since it is November and it is Thanksgiving month, what am I thankful for this year? Why am I thankful for those things? 

Since it is November and it is Thanksgiving month, what am I thankful for this year? The first thing that I am thankful for and that I am thankful for every year is life! My life had so many ups and downs, but with help of the people that I trust, I'm thankful to get up everyday and say "thank you, God for getting me up another day". Not a lot of people can say that and I'm so thankful! The second thing that I am thankful is my friends! I have a lot of fake friends but I have a lot of true friends out there and my boyfriend was best friend at first and he is still my best friend! I have a lot of true friends and I am so thankful for my true friends and my boyfriends! The third and final thing that I am thankful for is my family! I love my family so much! My family is the most important thing in my life and I am forever thankful for each family member! For example, my sister, Brandy who shares my blog episodes on a daily and her supporting me! I love her so much!! My dad has supported me since day one and I am forever thankful for my dad! I love my mom so much and I will always love her no matter what! My stepmom came into life in 2019 and has stayed by my side since I could remember! I am thankful to have amazing bonus siblings who love me for me! I'm forever thankful for my family, my friends/boyfriend, and life! I am thankful! Why am I thankful for those things? I am grateful for those things is because I am thankful to wake up and look around and say "I am thankful for what I have" which I am! I am thankful for what I have! I am thankful to have true friends and family who you are very supportive! I am thankful!! 

3 words! Why would I describe the things that I am thankful for in three words?? 

If I could describe what am I thankful for in three words, what three words would I describe it as? If I could describe life with a word, it would be brave! Throughout my life, I would had to be brave and I never gave up which I am thankful for! The second word I would describe friends is rare! Finding rare true friends who would stay by your side through your hardest times and it is rare to find those true friends but once you find those friends, keep them because I found them and my best friend became my boyfriend which I am so thankful for! The third and final word that I would describe family is blessed! I'm blessed to have an amazing family who loves me for me! I don't have to change for them just because they don't like Kpop music! My family is my biggest blessing! Why would I describe the things that I am thankful for in three words? The reason why I describe life with word "brave" is because in my life, I had to be brave for my family and friends and I had to show them that I am strong and that I can get through this, no matter what! I'm a brave person and I will continue to be this way no matter what!! The reason why I would describe friends as rare is because it so hard to find friends who are true to you and would stay through everything but for me, I am so blessed to find friends who will stay by my side and help me through everything! The third and final thing that I would describe family as blessing is because my family is my biggest blessing ever! My family has been through everything through breakups, hardships, and everything beyond the rainbow and honestly, I couldn't be any happier to have an amazing who loves me for me and be there for me! I'm blessed! 

The significance the things that I am thankful for this year and the words that I described? 

What is the significance of the things that I am thankful for this year and the words that described? The significance behind the thing that I am thankful for this year which is life, friends, and family is you only get one life and one family but it is also rare to find true friends! Your life is special and you should spend your life doing what you want to do, not to listen to others what you should do with your life! Don't let anyone dictate on what you should or shouldn't do! Rarest friends isn't the easiest to find and I'm so thankful to find the rarest friends who can be in my life! My family is replaceable! I can't replace my siblings! I can't replace my dad, my mom, or my stepmom! None of those things are replaceable and I can never replace none of them! The significance behind the words that I described which are brave, rare, and blessed is brave can hold a lot of significance and so can rare and blessed! The way that I can describe the word brave is when someone goes through life with a fake smile and act like everything is okay, then that was me! I was that brave person who I fake a smile and act like everything is okay because I didn't want my family to know how I was feeling? I didn't want them to ask me a lot of questions! When I think about the word "rare", I think about a rare diamond you can't find but it is rare! That is what I think about when it comes to friends! It is so rare and I am so thankful to the friends who treat me like their sister! I'm thankful! The word blessed is an understatement when it comes to family! I am thankful for my family!

Why are they so significant? 

The reason why they are so significant is because finding friends who will stay by your side is rare! Having a family who understands you and who is there for you through your hardships is a blessing within itself! You only get one life and if you listen to those people who is trying to tell you what to do with your life is basically them telling you it's not good for you to do this or that! Don't let those people tell you what to do with your life because this is your life and you get one life and that's it! It's your life! Do whatever you want to do with your life! I'm thankful to have a life where I have to go through ups and downs but I got through them! I have friends and family who love me! That's what I am thankful and I will continue to be thankful no matter what! 

In conclusion/ tip of the day/ Question of the day??

In conclusion, I am thankful for a lot of things but my life, my friends, and family is what I'm thankful for! You only get one family and one life! It is rare to find friends who is going to stay by your side no matter what! I'm thankful for my friends, my family, my life, and my boyfriend who became my best friend who is still my best friend! I will forever be grateful and thankful for him! I feel blessed to have people who love me for me and I feel happy! My tip of the day is hug your love ones and tell them "I'm thankful for you" or tell your significant other that you are thankful for them as well! Life is too short and spend your life how you want to and be there for one another!! My question of the day is what are y'all thankful for? Why are y'all thankful for those things? Comment down below and let me know! Please! I love y'all so much!! 

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl, Brandee here and here to remind y'all that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I am forever thankful and I am so glad to have an amazing boyfriend who loves me for who I am! I'm thankful for life and my friends and my family! I feel blessed! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins". -1 Peter 4:8- I love this bible verse a lot because you might dislike that person, but you can still love that person! I might dislike the people who quote on quote "don't care about me" but I still give the same love that they deserve! I am not going to treat someone ugly because they don't deserve that!! I hope everyone will have or had a great day! Don't forget our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams"!! I love y'all and I will see y'all on the next blog about my poem "Heartbreaks"! Stay tuned! This blogger queen is out! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Peace! ✌๐Ÿ’œ

Today's bible verse for the day! I love this bible verse a lot!! Such a good bible verse! 


"Life isn't about 
finding yourself. 
Life is about 
creating yourself".
-George Bernard Shaw. I love this quote because life is about finding out who you are creatively and what kind of a person you are!! 

"Real friends will never 
make you feel like 
an outsider".
-Unknown. I love this quote a lot because a fake friend will leave you out of things verses a real friend would make sure that you are invited to things and make you an outsider!!! 


My greatest treasure 
is my family. 
We may not be perfect. 
but I love them with 
all my heart." 
-Unknown. I love this quote because my family is not perfect but they will always love me with all their hearts!!