Believing in respecting boundaries! By: Brandee Darden. Friday, December 2nd, 2022!! 
Intro to my blog!!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! Welcome back to an all new weekly blog! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, its Brandee here! I am so happy to have y'all on a new blog episode! It's officially December which means it is Christmas! Wohooo!! Happy December!! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! I hope everyone is staying warm since it is getting cold and stuff like that! Before I talk about today's blog episode, I will be talking about Wednesday's blog about the word "respect". When I think about the word "respect", I think about someone respecting what you like or how you identify as and stuff like that! When I see someone disrespect another person, that makes me angry because one, you should never disrespect someone like that and secondly, if someone disrespects another person, walk away and never talk to that person again! None of my Blogger Dreamers don't deserve that! Y'all deserve so much better! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about believing in respecting boundaries by me aka Brandee Darden. In today's blog episode, I will be talking about on Wednesday, I talked about the word "respect" and I also talked about do I think it should be earned or received? What do I think about believing in respecting boundaries? Why do I think about believing in respecting boundaries is important? When people doesn't respect your boundaries, how does it make you feel or in my case, how does it make me feel? Why does it make me feel that way? If I have any advice to give to any of my Blogger Dreamers, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice? Now, without any further ado, let's get started! Shall we? We shall!!
Talking in depth about if respect should be earned or received? Why should respect should be earned or received?
On Wednesday, I talked about the word "respect" and I also talked about do I think it should be earned or received? In depth, I feel like respect should be earned not received! When someone respects you, they look up to you and they admire you but once you did something that a person doesn't like or don't agree with, they don't respect you for what you did or maybe who you love. I feel people should earn to respect you, not receive it! It is like giving them a free pass because you should respect them automatically which is hard to respect them fast! Why should respect should be earned or received? The reason why respect should be earned is because when you look up to someone, it takes a lot of responsibility to be a good idol for that person or people and it can be a hard job sometimes! For me, when someone says "your blogs are uplifting" or "your inspirational", for me it takes amount of respect to show my Blogger Dreamers that you should believe in me and that I am trying to show how much of an inspiration that I can be because being someone's inspiration can be hard at times but for me, it takes a lot of work but I am happy to have the amount of respect and being someone's inspiration!!
Believing in respecting boundaries!! Why do I think about believing in respecting boundaries is important?
What do I think about believing in respecting boundaries? I think believing in someone's boundaries is important! If someone that you know decided to set boundaries for themselves because of their mental health, I think you should respect it no matter what! If someone steps over the respecting boundaries, not only they don't respect you but they also don't respect your boundaries which is wrong of them to do! If someone doesn't have respect for you or your boundaries, then you shouldn't let them be in your life anymore! Why do I think about believing in respecting boundaries is important? I think respecting in someone's boundaries is important is because if you are setting boundaries for yourself and someone steps over those boundaries, first of all, they never respected you anyway which stinks and second of all, you should NEVER trusted them in the beginning! You should always find friends who will respect you and respect your boundaries as well!!
My feelings towards someone who doesn't respect my boundaries! Why does it make me feel that way?
When people doesn't respect your boundaries, how does it make you feel or in my case, how does it make me feel? Every person is different when it comes to people who disrespect their boundaries! Some people get mad, some people get upset, or people just simply don't care at all! It depends on the person! When I make boundaries for myself, I expect for people to respect me but instead, I feel disrespected and it hurts! When people step over my boundaries, it hurts a lot! It shows that they don't respect me as a person who has feelings! If someone doesn't respect me and boundaries, then I don't want to have them in life because it's not worth it! Why does it make me feel that way? The reason why it makes me feel that way because when someone disrespects me and my boundaries, it shows they never cared about me as a person or an individual who loves to be alone at times and who loves to blog! It is sad that people would step over someone boundaries and not respect them at all!!
My advice! Why would I give that advice?
If I have any advice to give to any of my Blogger Dreamers, what is my advice? If I have any advice about people not respecting your boundaries, my advice is cut those people out of your life! You don't need that kind of toxicity in your life and if people don't respect you or your boundaries, you don't need them in your life and you certainly don't need someone who is going to tear you down at the end of the day! Set boundaries for yourself for your mental health because your mental health is so important! Why would I give that advice? The reason why I would give that advice is because if you set boundaries not only for yourself but also for the people around, they are either going to respect you or not, depending on the person or people in your life! You don't need people who aren't going to respect you and you deserve respect in your life so don't take the disrespect from that person or people and move on from them because you don't need that in your life!!
In conclusion/ Tip of the day!!!
In conclusion, someone disrespecting your boundaries can hurt you because once you set those boundaries for you and the people around, you expect someone to respect those boundaries for the sake of your mental health but when someone doesn't respect your boundaries, it hurts you and you don't know what to do because you thought you could trust that person but obviously, you can't! If people aren't willing to respect your boundaries and not respect you as a person or respect your boundaries because of your mental health, then you don't need that person or people in your life! You need people who will respect your boundaries and respect you as a person! Someone who respects you as a person and your boundaries is the most important person you need in your life! For today's tip of the day, it goes something like this: Find people who will respect you as person but also your boundaries because if you find someone who will respect your boundaries and you as an induvial, then you will be alright!! There are people who are respectful and who will respect you but you have to be careful who will respect you and be there for you no matter what and who will also respect your boundaries!!
Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, it's Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! I hope everyone will set boundaries for yourself and I pray that people around you will respect those boundaries because someone who respects your boundaries is important and it is also important to have people in your life who will respect those boundaries for your sake!! You just need to find people who will be respectful to you! Now, for today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Regret is the most painful thing you can experience in Life". -Vincenzo Cassano. I love this quote so much because in life, you will regret something that you didn't get to do or get enjoy and you want to enjoy those things before you pass away, so don't regret doing something you want to do before you pass away!!! Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! I hope everyone will have an amazing weekend or in other countries, I hope y'all are having an amazing weekend! Please, stay safe and stay warm!! I love y'all and don't forget our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams"!! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday and I will see y'all next week with new weekly blogs on my fashion and makeup blog page!! Stay tuned! I love y'all and stay safe! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace!!! ✌💙
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Today's quote of the day!!!  people react with anger and hostility to your boundaries. You have found the edge where their respect for you ends". -Unknown. I like this quote because if someone gets angry at you for making boundaries for yourself, then they never respected you in the first place!!  to respect myself. Not to offend you". -Unknown. I love this quote so much because when I set boundaries for myself, I don't mean to offend everyone but you get offended, then you are stupid!! I am not here to get you mad but I am here to make sure I am happy and to the point where I respect myself as a human being!!  truly wants to be in your life will respect your boundaries. Period". -Unknown. I love this because if someone wants to be in your life, they will truly respect you and your boundaries and if that person in your life doesn't do that, kick them to the curb!!! To end the blog episode for today, for this week's song of the week, it is "Glow" by Stray Kids. I love this song a lot because it starts off slow and then, it has a beat to it which is so good! It is such a nice song and I love it a lot!!! |
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