Friday, January 30, 2026

Blog: What 3 things broke me in 2025? By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 1-30-26!!

                                                  Blog: What 3 things broke me in 2025? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 1-30-26!! This blog episode goes out to anyone who is recovering from whatever it broke them! This blog episode is for you!! 

Intro to my blog/ Talking about Wednesday's blog episode/ Talking about today's blog episode! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for the day! How are y'all are doing today? I hope everyone is okay today! Whatever you are dealing with, I'm here for y'all, no matter what! Please, don't give up and keep fighting! Who is ready for an new blog episode for the day? I know that I am but 1st,  blog recap! On Wednesday, I analyzed my poem "Don't trust people" by: Brandee Marie Darden! When I think about the title of my poem, I think about how I trusted the wrong people in my life! Every time I trust those people, I ended up getting hurt and that's sad for me! Be careful who you trust! Do y'all want to know more about this blog episode? Link right here: Analyzing my poem "Don't trust people", by: Brandee Marie Darden! ←Link right here!! Enjoy!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about What 3 things broke me in 2025? This blog episode goes out to anyone who is recovering from whatever it broke them! This blog episode is for you!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could pick 3 things that broke me, what are those 3 things? Why did those things broke me? Out of those 3 things, what broke me the most? Why did that thing broke me the most? Now, let's get our thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

How would I describe my 2025? Why would I describe 2025 like that? 

How would I describe my 2025? If I could describe my 2025, I would describe it as a lot of memories that I won't forget but also a lot of life lessons!! One of those life lessons I was taught was realizing who my real friends are! I realized who are my real friends are and who are my fake friends are and unfortunately, people can be fake at times and that's sad! Why would I describe 2025 like that? The reason why I would describe 2025 like that is because 2025 had a lot of good memories but a lot of life lessons and I am glad that 2025 taught me a lot!! 


3 things!!  

If I could pick 3 things that broke me, what are those 3 things? The 1st thing that broke me in 2025 is fake friends! I would have these so called "friends" and they would tell me that they would always be there for me, no matter what but they lied to me! The 2nd thing that broke me in 2025 is trusting the wrong people! I have trusted the wrong people and that broke me! Not only I thought I could have them as my best friend, but also they have proved to me that they couldn't be trusted and that is what hurts me a lot! The 3rd and final thing that broke me in 2025 is people not being there for me! When I would support people day in and day out, I didn't have a lot of people supporting me and that me so much! I would have people support me, but I never had people support me and it hurt me a lot!! 


Why?

Why did those things broke me? The 1st reason why fake friends broke me in 2025 is because I would have people in my life who I thought they were my so called "friends" but they proved to me over and over that no matter what, they weren't my friend and to me, that's sad! It broke me so much!! The 2nd reason why trusting the wrong people broke me in 2025 is because I thought there were people I thought I could trust, but it turns out I couldn't trust those people and that broke me a lot! I thought I could trust people but time and time again, they prove to me that they couldn't be trusted and now, I will have my guard up!!! The 3rd and final reason why people not being there for me broke me in 2025 is because when someone that I know needed support, I would support them but when I support, I would have not a lot of people show up for me and that is what hurts me the most!! It hurts me not to have a lot people to support you but I am forever grateful to have people to be at my side! I might not have a lot of people, but I know at the end of the day, I know who is there for me!! 


Hurt me the most! 

Out of those things, what broke me the most? If I could pick the one thing that broke me in 2025, it would have to be trusting the wrong people! Yes, having fake friends and people not being there for me hurt me a lot in 2025 but nothing could ever prepared me than trusting the wrong people! I would tell people how much they meant a lot to me and I'm blessed to have them in my life or I would listen to them talk when they need me but I would go talking with that person pretty much everyday to not hearing from them at all!! My brain would go from I trusted you to I don't trust you anymore! I am always on guard! I am always protecting my heart and I never want to get hurt but unfortunately, I have been nothing but hurt and that hurts me a lot!! 

Why? 

Why did that thing broke me the most? The reason why trusting the wrong people broke me the most in 2025 is because I would talk to a lot of people everyday but then, they drop me and forget about me and that hurts and when it hurts, it hurts! What most don't know about me is I wear my feelings on my shirt and I am a very sensitive! I love talking to people and when I form a close bond with you, I would want you to be there for me and let me trust you but when you give me a reason not to trust you, then I know that you broke my heart and I can't trust you anymore! It's hard to trust people anymore because I can't take them serious at their word and that hurts me so much!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, 2025 was the year that I taught me a lot but also it broke me a lot!! 2025 was the year that showed me who were my real friends are, how hurtful trusting the wrong people can be, and people not being there for me can hurt my mental health! I was always a real friend to people but they were a fake friend to me and that hurts so much!! I would go to talking to people everyday to not everyday and when those people stop talking to you, you start to lose trust and that's what happened to a lot of people!!! I would be there for a lot of people but when I need support, nowhere in sight and that is what hurts me the most!! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is be careful who you trust because once you start to form a bond with someone and then, you lose contact with those people, they can no longer trust those people anymore! Be careful who you open your heart to!! I love y'all so much!! 


Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode! The lesson behind this blog episode is choose your friends wisely, be careful who you trust, and choose the people who will support you because all of those things work when you have two or more people in your life! One person shouldn't have to do all the work!! Always protect heart!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from Psalm 55:22 and it says "Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and he shall sustain thee: He shall never suffer the righteous to be moved". God wants us to go to him with every burden that we have! He wants us not to carry that burden anymore and give it to him! Go to God with your burden!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and stay tuned for next week's blog episodes where I talk about on my 1st blog page, I talk about what are ways that I handle grief, analyzing my poems "Too broken" and "stand firm". Stay tuned for that and with that being said, I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and I will see y'all next week! Don't forget to love like Jesus not just today, but everyday! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! ❤❤❤❤❤

Today's Bible Verse of the day!! Always bring your burden to God because he will take care of your burden! Trust in the Lord!! 


"Some friends are 
like pennies, two-
faced and 
worthless". I couldn't agree with this quote more because sometimes, your so called "friends" can be fake and they can show their true colors!! 


"Wrong Things
Happen When
You Trust The 
Wrong People". 
-Unknown. When you trust the wrong people, things take an unexpected turn for the worst and that can hurt a lot! When you trust the wrong person, they can lead you on the wrong path! Don't let people lead you on the wrong path! 


"People aren't 
always going 
to be there for 
you, that's why
you learn to 
handle things 
on your own". 
-Unknown. Sometimes, the only person that you can depend on is yourself and God because with God, he will never leave you nor forsake you and with yourself, you are there for you!!! Remember that!! 


To end today's blog episode for the day, here is this week's song of the week which is "Who Am I" by: Katy Nichole. Every time I listen to this song, I think about who I am as a person and I should be the person that I was meant to be! Always be the person that you were meant to be! I love y'all and so does Jesus and have a good day today!! See y'all on Monday!! 


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