Wednesday, July 9, 2025

Blog: Analyzing my poem "Being loved wrong" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date of blog: Wednesday, 7-9-25!!

                                             Blog: Analyzing my poem "Being loved wrong" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 7-9-25!! This blog is dedicated to anyone who has been loved wrong! No one deserves that! This blog episode is for y'all!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back  to an all new weekly blog episode for the day! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through or whatever got you down in the dumps, I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for the day? I know that i am but first, a blog recap from Monday! On Monday, I talked about what does right place, wrong time mean? In my mind, the meaning of right place, wrong time is that person or that thing is happening at the right place but the timing was off!! There will be times where the places was right but the timing would be off a lot and that is never good! Want to know more about this blog? You can check it out right here: →right place, wrong time? Please, go give my blog a read! Please! Thank you all so much!! For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Being loved wrong" by: Brandee Marie Darden! This blog is dedicated to anyone who has been loved wrong! No one deserves that! This blog episode is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about what are 3 ways being loved wrong? Why are those 3 ways being loved wrong? How was I loved wrong? Why was I loved wrong? What kind of advice would I give to anyone who is loved wrong? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are loved wrong? Without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about my poem! What is the meaning behind my poem? Why is there meaning behind my poem? 

On Tuesday, June 17th, of this year, I typed up a new poem called "Being loved wrong" and this is how it goes: "Being loved wrong" by: Brandee Marie Darden! 
"Being loved wrong means not 
getting the attention that you
needed! Being loved wrong 
means not being cared for! 
Being loved wrong means the 
person is yelling and the other 
person flinches!! Being loved 
wrong means being abandoned! 
Don't be loved by the wrong 
person! Be loved by the right 
person"! 
Love, Brandee Marie Darden! Typed up on Tuesday, June 17th, 2025!! What is the meaning behind this poem? The meaning behind this poem is when you are loved by the wrong person, they don't give you enough attention or when y'all get in a argument, the person will yell while the person flinches!!! When you are abandoned by the person that you thought you loved, they leave high and dry!! Being loved by the wrong person can be hurtful at times!! Why is there meaning behind my poem? The reason why there is meaning behind my poem is because when you get in a argument, the person who is yelling, they could become violent and the person who isn't yelling is flinching and starts crying because it brings back old memories! Be careful how you love a person because what you do can trigger something from their past!

3 ways!

What are 3 ways being loved wrong? The 1st way being loved wrong is not getting the attention that you absolutely deserve! When I think about being in a relationship, I think about being in love and getting the attention that you deserve but in reality, there are some couples who have to fight to get that attention and that's wrong right there!! The 2nd way being loved wrong is no communication! If you and your partner aren't communicating, things are going to blow over and that's not good at all!! When you and your partner aren't communicating, things can escalate and that's hard!! The 3rd and final way being loved wrong is being accused wrongly!! When I think about that, I think about the guy blaming the girl for something that she didn't do or vice versa!! When the girl is getting blamed for something that she didn't do, things turn into a fight and that's not good at all!! 

Why?

Why are those 3 ways being loved wrong? The 1st way being loved wrong is not getting the attention that you absolutely deserve and the reason why it is one of the ways being loved wrong is because when you are in a relationship, everyone deserves to be loved and have that affection with their partner but that person doesn't get that love and attention, they are hurting and that's hurting them!! The 2nd way being loved wrong is no communication and the reason why it is the 2nd way being loved wrong is because when you are in a relationship or even a marriage, communication should be everything and if y'all are not communicating, then someone is hiding something and that hurts you in the long run!! Communication should be everything and if y'all don't communicate about anything, then is that really love? Nope, that's not love!! The 3rd and final way being loved wrong is being accused wrongly and the final reason why it is the 3rd and final way being loved wrong is because when you and partner are talking and they falsely accused you in something that you didn't do, that's not really love!! Instead of communicating, your partner is blaming you for something that you didn't do! 

How?

How I was loved wrong? The way that I was loved wrong is being abandoned by one parent who I thought would be there for me!! Throughout my whole life, I was abandoned by one parent who came into my life as this parent wants to! Throughout my life, this parent bought my love by getting me whatever I wanted and I didn't like that at all! I wanted to feel loved by this parent and I never felt the love that I deserve!! I always fight for someone's love even though I shouldn't!! There would be times where I would get in my head and in my head, it would say "You don't deserve love" and that would be hard for me! I had people leave me and stopped being there for me!!

Why?

Why was I loved wrong? The reason why I was loved wrong is because throughout my life, I had to find love anywhere I could find love!! I was trying to love myself but I had one person who would abandoned me and that hurt so much!! My dad showed me what love should feel like but I had one parent not show up for me throughout my life and that's hard for me! I struggled for a long time with loving myself because I didn't have the right love from people and that was hard!! 

My advice!

What kind of advice to anyone who is loved wrong? To my Blogger Dreamers who is being loved wrong, my advice to y'all is don't tolerate someone who is loving you wrong! You don't deserve that and you deserve to be loved by the right person! If you are not being loved by the right person, leave and never look back!! Everyone deserves to be loved right and if you are not being loved by a partner or a friend or even a parent, don't tolerate it and leave!! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are being loved wrong? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are being loved wrong is because everyone deserves to be loved right by the right person because if that person is not showing you that buying gifts for you is "love", that is not really love! Buying gifts is not love! Showing you affection, giving you attention, and being there for you is love, not buying you gifts!! That's just my opinion!! 


In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, I don't believe that everyone deserves to be loved wrong! I don't believe in buying people's love because that's not really love! I believe in showing people love by affection, attention, and being there for someone that you love!! If you truly love someone, you would show that person how much you love them, you will give them the time to love that person!! No one deserves to be loved wrong and it hurts to know people can be loved wrong because I was in that situation before and it is hard for me!! My tip of the day is find people that will love you for you and be there for you, no matter what!! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! The moral of this blog episode is being loved wrong is awful and I don't believe in loving people wrongly because it can hurt a person and it can bring people down!! You should always show people love that they deserve because everyone deserves to be loved and if that person doesn't feel loved, then you don't love them which is sad!! For today's quote of the day, it is by Toby Mac and it says "Worrying about if will never change the outcome". -Toby Mac. When you worry, that is not going to change anything but if you put it in God's hands, trust in God because he will take your worry away!! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day and stay tuned for Friday's blog episode where I will be talking about what is my goal as a wife? Stay tuned and don't forget to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's share the love of God and share how cool Jesus is today! Can we do that today? I think we can! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and so does Jesus and see y'all on Friday! Blogger Queen is out! See ya!! 🩷🩷🩷

Worrying about something is never going to change anything but giving it to God will change because if you trust what God has in store for you, God will change that worry!! 


My poem "Being love wrong" that I did on Tuesday, June 17th of this year!! The meaning behind this poem is being loved wrong is hurtful and no one deserved to be loved wrong!! 


"I didn't love the wrong person, But i was the wrong person 
to be loved by you". 
-Unknown. Sometimes, being loved wrong by the wrong person can be hurtful because you know everything about them and they tell things that you are secretive and that's hard when they are being distant from you!! That's hard!! 


"I wanted to feel loved without 
feeling like I was begging for it". 
-Unknown. We shouldn't beg for love because love should be given and if that person doesn't love you, don't go to that person anymore because you shouldn't tolerate it!! 

I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Don't forget to dream big! Don't give up on your dreams and don't forget to share God's love wherever you go and share how cool Jesus is today!! I love y'all and so does Jesus!! I love y'all!! 💚💚💚



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