Friday, March 14, 2025

Blog: Guys showing their feelings! Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 3/14/25!!

                                            Blog: Guys showing their feelings! Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 3/14/25!! This blog is dedicated to any guy who is afraid to show off their feelings!! This blog is for y'all!! 

Intro to my blog!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all might be going through or whatever it is dragging y'all down, just know that God is in control and God is always with you, no matter what! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Before I get into my blog recap and into my blog episode, I want to remind everyone that I will be taking a break next week but I will be back on Monday, 3/24/25! Stay tuned! I love y'all! Now, for Wednesday's blog recap, I analyzed my poem "Making changes". When I think about the changes in life, one of the changes I want to make is to be happy again! I want to be somewhere where I am happy and not sad all the time! I want to feel that happiness all over again!! If y'all want to know more about this blog, link right here: →Making changes! Please, give this blog episode a read! You would not regret it! I love y'all!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about guys showing their feelings! This blog is dedicated to any guy who is afraid to show off their feelings! This blog is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about what is the importance for guys to show their feelings? Why is that the importance for guys to show their feelings? In my opinion, why guys shouldn't bottled up their feelings? Why is that my opinion? To guys who bottled up their feelings, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are male? Now, without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Do I think guys should show their feelings? Why or why not? 

Do I think guys should show their feelings? Yes, I think guys should show their feelings!! I feel like they should not have nothing bottled up and I don't care if they cry or not! People might say "that's not a real man". What makes a real man is when they cry over a girl who they care about! I know there has been times where my boyfriend has cried because he missed me!! I think guys should show their feelings!! Why or why not? Why guys should show their feelings is because every guy has the right to either be sad or even cry!! I know that my dad cried when I got baptized!! Men can cry as much as women do!! Guys, don't bottled up your feelings because someone told you not to cry! Don't listen to them! 

The importance! 

What is the importance for guys to show their feelings? The importance for guys to show their feelings is very important! It is important for guys to show their feelings!! They shouldn't have to bottle their feelings and they should be allow to cry!! No one shouldn't stop a guy from crying! If a guy is crying, then a guy should allow to cry!! Guys can cry as well!! They shouldn't have to hold their tears in!! 


Why?

Why is that the importance for guys to show their feelings? The reason why that is the importance for guys to show their feelings is because they have every right to cry! If they want to cry because they are hurting or they want to cry because they are sad, let a man cry! A man shouldn't have to hold tears back because according to people, it is not "manly" for them to cry but what makes a man a real man is when they show their feelings and the way they protect their lady!! That is what a man should be!! 

My opinion!

In my opinion, why guys shouldn't bottled up their feelings? In my opinion, the reason why guys shouldn't bottled up their feelings is because it is not good for a guy's mental health! They could have built up anger and they could get mad and take it out on someone who they love a lot!! When a guy has so much built up, they could get angry and frustrated with the world! What people don't realize is that guys can have this built up anger from their past relationship as well! We need to stop and making the realization that guys are human beings!! Guys have a heart and they don't realize they can cry as well and that's important for them to let their tears flow! Guys shouldn't have too bottled up their feelings! They shouldn't have too!! Men, let your feelings go!


Why?

Why is that my opinion? The reason why guys shouldn't bottled up their feelings is because it is not good for a guy's mental health and the reason why that is my opinion is because they could have this built in frustration that once they let it go, it could lead to fighting or a guy could hit someone and that is not good at all! Not only girls can have built in frustration but guys can also have that as well! I have seen people who I am close to that are guys lose their temper!! When you see someone holding their feelings, they don't want you to worry and no matter what, a person is always going to worry! It is important for guys to let their feelings go and move on!! Don't hold onto that anger!!

My advice! 

To guys who bottled up their feelings, what is my advice? To my guys who bottled up their feelings, my advice is don't let anger get built up for a long time and then take it out on someone that you love so much! If you let your anger keep building, it could not be good! Talk things out with the person that you love and keep your feelings flowing! It is okay to cry! You shouldn't hold nothing back from the person that you love! Don't hold anything back!! 

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are male? The reason why I wanted to give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are male is because it is okay to be angry at someone but you should never let your anger get built and take out on someone!! You should never hold anything back! If you have so much anger built, you should talk to someone about it! Don't take your anger out on someone that you love because it could potentially hurt them and that is wrong for them to go through! Don't let your anger keep building!! 

In closing/ my advice for the day! 

In closing, it is important for guys to show their feelings but they shouldn't have this built up anger because of someone is telling them that "you can't cry because you are a man". No! Guys, y'all have every right to cry because you are upset or something is frustrating you or if you are having a wedding and you see your beautiful bride walking down the aisle for the 1st time and you can't help but cry, let those tears flow!! Don't let anyone stop you from crying!! You should never let your feelings eat you up because someone is telling you different!! Don't let your anger get build and someone can set it off because they say something wrong!! Be careful what you do!! Here is my advice for the day! My advice goes out to the ladies who are currently dating or even married or has a guy best friend: my advice is if your partner or even your guy best friend is going through a tough time, please comfort them because they are human as well! Not only they protect you and take care of you, but they need the same love as they give you! Every guy deserves love! That's my opinion! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and I just wanted to remind y'all that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! The moral of this blog is it is okay for guys to show their feelings! It is okay for them to cry if they are going through a tough time!! It is okay for the guy to cry when he is watching his bride walking down the aisle because she is so beautiful in his eyes and he can't wait to marry her! Guys, if your girl doesn't allow you to cry, then don't be around her anymore! If you are not allow to cry in front of your girl, then don't be around her because she is holding your feelings back and she is not taking account that you have feelings as well! You have every right to cry and you have every right to have feelings!! Don't hold your tears back! I have to remind my boyfriend at times to never hold his tears back!! Don't hold your tears back!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from Matthew 5:4 and it says "Blessed are they mourn: for they shall be comforted". I absolutely love this Bible Verse a lot because when you lost a loved one, you are mourning over the loss of them because they passed away! When you are mourning, you turn to God for comfort and always turn to someone who can help you through a difficult time! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's show the whole world how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today and also, no new blogs next week!! I am taking a break but don't worry, I will be coming back on my makeup and fashion blog page! Stay tuned! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out!! 💜💜💜

Today's Bible Verse of the day! I love this Bible Verse of the day is because it is hard losing a loved one and when you lose a loved one, you want to be comforted and you want someone to be there for you!! I pray for anyone who lost a loved one, I pray that you get the comfort that you need! I love y'all!! 


"Shout out to the men in 
touch with their 
emotions who can be 
vulnerable and have the
courage it takes to be 
open and express them". 
-Unknown. I love this so much because it takes a lot of courage and vulnerability to open up about your feelings and I would rather a guy to open up their feelings and not open their feelings at all! 


"We cannot teach boys that "real men" either
do not feel or do not express feelings, then
expect boys to feel comfortable getting in
touch with their feelings". 
Bell Hooks. I love this quote so much because if a boy doesn't want to get in touch with their feelings, then you are not teaching them what a real man should be about! Teach them what a real man should be about!! 


"The emotions of man are 
stirred more quickly than 
man's intelligence". 
-Oscar Wilde. I love this quote a lot because people like mix guys emotions and when you mess with a guys emotions especially when it comes to their woman, then it is not good at all! Don't mess with a guy who is protective over his lady!! 


To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "The Truth" by; Megan Woods because we shouldn't listen to the devil and telling us things but instead, we should listen to God's voice! God's voice is more powerful!! I love y'all and I will see y'all soon! 




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