Blog: What is a difference between a boy and a man? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 11/20/24!!

                                           Blog: What is the difference between a boy and a man? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 11/20/24! This blog is dedicated to all of my girlies who might be dating a boy and trying to make him a man!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode for today!! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing well and amazing! If y'all are struggling today, here is my encouragement: Everything will be okay!! You are going to have rough days but you are going to get through it and I believe in y'all! Y'all are loved and I love y'all so much! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but here is a recap from Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I analyzed the song "I Don't Understand But I Luv U" by: Seventeen, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! When I think about the things that I might not understand what I love doing but I love doing is blogging!! I might not understand why I love blogging but I will always love blogging with all my heart because if I can inspire my Blogger Dreamers, I am doing my job correctly and I am praying that I am inspiring someone out there! If y'all haven't read this blog and would love to check it out, link right here: →I Don't Understand But I Luv U by: Seventeen, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden. Please, go give it a read! Please! Thank you all so much! I love y'all! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what is the difference between a boy and a man? This blog is dedicated to all of my girlies who might be dating a boy and trying to make him a man!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about what are some things that different between a boy and a man? Why does those things make a difference between a boy and a man? Out of those things, what makes a boy different from a man? Why does that thing make a boy different from a man? What is my advice to girlies who are dating a boy than a man? Why would I give that advice to my girlies who are dating a boy than a man? Now, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!  

Describing a man and a boy! Why would I describe a man and a boy like that? 

What is a man and a boy? A man is when he opens a door for his lady or tell her that everything will be okay! When a man and a woman get into an argument and a man raises his voice at his lady, he apologized to his lady! That is how I describe a man! A boy is when he doesn't open a door for his lady or doesn't tell her that everything is okay! A boy doesn't apologize for yelling at his girl!! I rather be dating a man than a boy! Why would I describe a man and a boy like that? The reason why I would describe a man like that is because there is men out there who still holds a door for a lady or holds his lady and remind their lady that everything will be okay and when they get into an argument, the man apologizes and I love that in a man and a lady does the same thing!! A boy doesn't know how to be a gentleman and rather doesn't want to admit he is wrong which is dumb!!

Some things that different between a boy and a man?  

What are some things that different between a boy and a man? The 1st thing that is different from a boy and a man is when a couple is in public, a boy really doesn't want to hold his girl's hand while the man wants to hold their girl's hand! When I think about that, I feel like the man wants to show the whole world that he is with his girl and I think that is important to the girl!! The 2nd thing that is different from a boy and a man is respect! When a girl wants their me time, I feel like the boy doesn't respect the girl's me time while the man does! It is so hard to find respect in a guy these days but in a man, they will respect your me time and I love that!! The 3rd and final thing that is different from a boy and a man is loyalty! A boy would go and cheat on the girl while the man would stay loyalty towards his lady! The man has eyes only for one woman and that is the person who he is with!! Loyalty is important in a relationship! It shows how much the couple means to them and I believe in loyalty!

Why?

Why does those things make a difference between between a boy and a man? The 1st reason why when in public, a boy doesn't really want to hold his girl's hand because he wants to everyone think that she is a best friend but when a guy holds his girl's hand and he bumps into someone he knows, he introduce her as his girlfriend! When you go out in public and sometimes, you see someone that you know, a boy would be like "this is my friend" but a man would be like "this is my girlfriend or wife" which I love that so much! The 2nd reason why there should be respect involved is because I feel like a boy wouldn't respect a girl's me time where a man would which I feel like a girl should have some time to herself because it is important to have that time to herself and if the boy doesn't respect that, time to find you a man! The 3rd and final reason why there should be loyalty involved is because with a boy, he would go look at a girl or even worse, cheat on his girlfriend, but when a man is loyal to his girl, that is top tier for me! If a man has eyes for you, then that is very important!! 

A boy different from a man! 

Out of those things, what makes a boy different from a man? I think out of the things that I mentioned that makes a boy different from a man is loyalty! When a boy is in a relationship, the boy would go look at other girls or even cheat on their girlfriend but a real man would look at his girl and make his girl happy! When a man gives his girl reassurance knowing that he has eyes for her and her only, that makes her happy!! For me, knowing that my man has eyes only for me and he would never cheat on me, it makes my heart happy!! I love that about him so much!! It is important to have eyes for one person and don't cheat either but a boy would do that and that is sad!! 

Why?

Why does that thing make a boy different from a man? The reason why loyalty makes a boy different from a man because boys don't care if they hurt their girl and won't have any remorse for it while a man knows that deep down in his heart that he found the right girl for him and he is loyal to her! Loyalty is important in a relationship and if you are dating a boy who stares at other girls and cheating on you, he isn't loyal and you need to find a man who is loyal to you and who cares about you!! 

My advice! 

What is my advice to my girlies who are dating a boy than a man? To my girlies who are dating a boy than a man, let that boy go! If he isn't proud to have you or open the door for you or even being loyal, let that boy go and find you a real man who would do that for you!! It is important to be with someone who is willing to shout "I am proud to have an awesome girl who has captured my heart" or who goes out with you and sees someone that he might know and said "This is my beautiful girl". Find a real man who is loyal and who would respect you just because you want your me time!! Let a boy go and find a real man who loves your for eternity!! Let him go!! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my girlies who are dating a boy than a man? The reason why I would give that advice to my girlies who are dating a boy than a man is because there is real man would be gladly to have you as his girlfriend! There is a man who would open the door for you or be loyal to you! My dad has shown what a real man should be and he opens the door for me and my bonus mom! I have a man who is loyal to me and very respectful! If your man is not a respectful and loyal man, then you are dating a boy and you need to let that go! If he is not respectful to your parents, you need to let him go!! Find a real man to be with, not a boy!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, there is real men out there! You just need to find the right guy who will care about you and who would treat you right! If he isn't loyal to you, then let him go! If he isn't respecting you for having me time, then also let him go! If he isn't holding your hand in public and not introducing you as his girl, then let him go! It is important to have a real man who doesn't mind holding your hand in public or showing how loyal and how respectful he is to you! I know when I met my boyfriend for the 1st time, he wasn't afraid to hold my hand in church or wrapped his arm around me! That is a real man right there! My man knows how to be loyal and respectful towards me and my parents and find that loving to my heart! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is if you are dating a boy and he is not a man, let him go! If he isn't being respectful to you or to your family, then let him go because if he isn't showing respect towards you or your family, then you don't need a boy like that! You need someone who will be respectful towards you and your family! Find you a real man, not a boy!! I love y'all so much!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope and pray that every lady got a lesson out of this blog episode! If you are dating someone who isn't showing respect or being loyal to you and isn't proud to have you, then I'm sorry but you are dating a boy, not a man! I hate to say that but it is true! If your man isn't proud to have you as their girl, you don't need him in your life! I know that my man tells me that he is proud to have me in his life! I love when I am around my family and they tell me how respectful he is and he is! My man is very respectful and very loyal to me! It makes me feel good that he only wants to be with me and that's it!! If you are in a healthy relationship and your man tells you "You are the only person that I rather be with", stay with that person because that means he has the eyes for you and no one else and that is important! For today's Bible Verse for the day, it is taken 2 Corinthians 9:6 and it goes something like this: "But this I say, He which soweth sparingly shall reap also sparingly; and he which soweth bountifully shall reap also bountifully". I absolutely love this Bible Verse a lot because if you are hesitant to give your generosity to God or being generous to God, then you are not showing how blessed God has blessed you! God will bless you time after time and if you don't show generous you are to God, then you are thankful for what God has done for you! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good Wednesday or in other countries, a good Thursday and I will see y'all on Friday where I will be talking about what are some encouraging words to help someone? Holiday edition! Stay tuned and "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams". Let's show how amazing God is and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all! See ya on the flip side! 💜💜💜

Today's Bible Verse of the day! If you are being hesitant to showing how generous God is being to you, then you are showing God that you don't trust him and in no matter what the situation is, always trust God!! 

"There is a difference 
between a boy who 
kind of likes you 
and a man who wants 
your soul next to his".
-S. Mcnutt. I love this quote so much because there is going to be a boy who kind of likes you but there is a man who wants you so much that their soul and your soul is by each other and that is important to have that person next to you!

"Don't Settle
For A Boy Who Just
Goes To Church.
Wait For A 
Man After
God's Heart.
Because Our God
Writes The Best
Love Stories & His 
Choice Is Always
Blessed".
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because if you meet a boy who just goes to church but doesn't lead you to Christ, then who are you talking to? Find a guy who goes to church but out of church, shares his devotions and talk Godly with you as well! 

"A boy will tell you he wants you
but baby, a man will show you".
-Unknown. I absolutely love this quote so much because a boy will tell you all day that he wants you but a man will show you how badly he wants you and if he wants you that badly, he will show you how badly he wants you and that's important! 

I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and I pray that my Blogger Dreamers will have a good day or had a good day! Please, stay safe and let's show everyone how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today!! I love y'all! ❤❤❤