Blog: What are 3 things do I regret? By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, 10/11/24!! Blog dedicated to anyone who is feeling regretful!! 
Intro to my blog!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee Darden here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever it is bothering y'all, just know that I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Please, don't give up and don't quit because God is in control! You can do it! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but 1st, a blog recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about My Happy Color! When I think about my happy color, I think about the color, pink! When I see any color pink whether it is light pink or hot pink, I get so excited and I just fall in love with it! Everywhere you turn in my bedroom, it is nothing but BTS and pink! I love the color pink so much and if it was up to me, I would love to die my hair pink!! I would do it in a heartbeat!!! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, I will leave the link right here: →My happy color! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what 3 things do I regret? This blog is dedicated to anyone who is feeling regretful! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I can pick 3 things that I regret in my life, what 3 things would I pick that I regret in my life? Why would I pick those 3 things that I regret in my life? Out of those things that I regret in my life, which one do I regret the most? Why do I regret that thing the most? What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who regrets something in their life? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without any further ado, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!
When I think about the word "regret", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that?
When I think about the word "regret", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "regret", I think about someone who regrets doing something that they know they were suppose not to do! When you are not suppose to do something, that person instantly regrets it! We need to be careful what we do in our life because we might regret it and we need accept the consequences that we made! Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it comes to mind like that is because when we make rational decisions, sometimes those decisions can get us into trouble and we need to accept what the decisions that we made! We need to learn how to make the right decisions in our life and we had to avoid the wrong decisions to make because those decisions can bug us in the wrong way and that's not good at all!
3 things that I regret in my life!
If I can pick 3 things that I regret in my life, what 3 things would I pick that I regret in my life? The 1st thing that I regret in my life is trusting the wrong people! Throughout my life, I have trusted the wrong people and I thought they would be there for me and I thought I could trust them! Nope! I was wrong! I trusted the wrong people in my life and that hurt but I know they will learn their lesson!! The 2nd thing that I regret in my life is being there for the wrong people! I have been there time and time again for people who aren't there for me! I totally regret being there for people who aren't there for me!! The 3rd and final thing that I regret is being in the wrong relationships! I was in relationships where I didn't feel loved or I got cheated on or I didn't love the other person back! I was surrounded by friends who never cared about me but they taught me a lesson! Each regret taught me a lesson and I am so glad that I was taught that people can show me that I couldn't trust those people ever again or that person showed me that I was there for them but who is there for me? I never felt loved in the relationships that I was in or I was surrounded by friends who didn't care about me but that's okay! Karma is coming!!
Why?
Why would I pick those 3 things that I regret in my life? The 1st reason why I picked trusting the wrong people as the thing that I regret is because throughout my life, I thought I could trust people but man, I was wrong! Throughout my life, I have trusted people time after time but they have showed me through true colors and to be honest, I am so glad that they showed me their true colors because it made me realize that I shouldn't trust people who is going to continue to hurt me! I am not going to trust people who are going to hurt me over and over again! I am not going to do that! The 2nd reason why I picked being there for the wrong people as the thing that I regret is because time and time again, I was there for the wrong people because while I was there for them, they weren't there for me and it hurts so much! When there are times where I felt like I had no one, I was there for someone and supporting that person through thick and thin and to be honest, that hurt so much! They showed me not to be there for them anymore which I am glad that I did!! The 3rd and final reason why I picked being in the wrong relationships as the thing that I regret is because when I was in the wrong relationships or even friendships, to me, it felt off because I can sense something was wrong or someone was toxic and I knew that I had to get away from those relationships and friendships! I do know that each friendship and relationship that I was in was a lesson and I am glad that each one taught me a lesson!!
Regret the most?
Out of those things that I regret in my life, which one do I regret the most? I think the one that I regret the most in my life would have to be trusting the wrong people! I knew trusting the wrong people was going to get me hurt at the end and I did ended up getting hurt by the wrong people who I thought I could trust but every time I tried to trust them again, I ended up getting hurt and that hurts me the most! They will always say "I'm here for you, no matter what and you can always trust me" but time and time again, they have showed me that trusting them wasn't a option and I should never trust anyone again! That's why we need to be careful who we trust! Trusting the wrong people will hurt and they will show their true colors at the end will hurt! Be careful who you trust!!
Why?
Why do I regret that thing the most? The reason why I regret that thing the most which trusting the wrong people is because people will tell me "you can't trust me! I won't hurt you" or "I'm there for you, no matter what" but they are never there for me when I need someone or they continue to hurt me over and over again and it hurts! I have put my trust in a person but yet, they hurt me time and time again and that's why I have trust issues! The whole reason why I have trust issues is because I had people break my trust and it hurts so much!! You can never be too careful who you trust!!
My advice!
What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who regrets something in their life? To my Blogger Dreamers who regrets something in their life, my advice to you is if you do something that is bad or if you had a good job opportunity and you turned it down, you are going to turn it down for the rest of your life! Don't turn down something and regret it later! Don't regret something you might regret later! Do it while you have the opportunity! You might not get that opportunity again! Don't let that opportunity pass you by!!
Why?
Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I gave that advice to my Blogger Dreamers because you never know when a new opportunity will come up and you never know what God has in store for you so you don't want to regret something that you should of done! Do something that you love before you regret it later down the road! For me, I am so blessed to have a good boyfriend because if I didn't have the man that I have now, who knows that the next girl could of got them! Ladies, if you see a guy trying to shoot their shot on you, give them a chance and men, this goes for you as well! If you see a lady trying to shoot their shot on you, give them a chance! Get to know them and don't do something that you will regret later down the road!! Don't regret something that you should done because if you wait until it is too late, the door of opportunities is closing and you lost your chance! Just saying!!
In closing/ Tip of the day!!
In closing, the moral of this blog episode is do not do something that you might or might not regret later on in the future! I am blessed on the many opportunities that God has blessed me with! Last year, I went to GSA or Gospel Singers of America and at 1st, I was hesitant to go, but I am so glad that I got to go and learned a lot and this year, I went and felt comfortable because I saw the people who I knew last year which felt better for me! God reveled opportunities to me and this year, I got to meet my boyfriend in the person for the time and honestly, I do not regret meeting him because that was the biggest blessing that I was blessed with! I had to learn the hard way with people not to trust or being in the wrong relationships or even being there for the wrong people because if people aren't going to be there for me, I don't need to be there for them and I regret being there for the wrong people! I am not going to be there for the wrong people anymore because I don't need that in my life! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is don't regret something you will regret later and get yourself hurt at the end because once you make that decision for yourself, you are going to have to live with that decision for the rest of your life and you made that decision for yourself, not anyone else! I love y'all!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I am praying that y'all can get a lesson out of this blog episode for today!! One of the things that I do regret is trusting the wrong people because I had been there for people but when I need someone there for me, I felt like I had no one there for me! That hurts me so much because I would show people how much I love them and care about them but they stomp on my love and care for them and act like I am nothing to them! That to me is the worst feeling in the world! I regret showing my love and care to people who didn't care about me! That's okay because karma will come around and they will realize how much they hurt me and that's okay because I am going to focus on the people who love me and care about me!! For today's Bible Verses of the day is taken from Proverbs 3:5-6 and it says "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths". I absolutely love these Bible Verses so much because God wants you to lean on his understanding of the Bible! God will lead you on the right path of life! Trust in God because he knows what is best for you and trust him!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my 1st blog page where I will be talking about my poem "stop and breathe", describing my life in 3 words, and my advice to my 4-5 year old self! Stay tuned and I love y'all! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌☮❤😎
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Today's Bible Verses of the day! I absolutely love these Bible Verses of the day because we need to trust God and his own understandings! We can't lean on our own understanding because God knows what he is talking about and he will lead us on the right path! Trust in God's word and his path for you!!  Who You Trust". -Unknown. I absolutely love this quote so much because we need to be careful who we trust because we don't know who is going to stab us in the back or not! Be careful who you come in contact with and with trusting as well!!  reason people take you for granted is because they assume you'll always be there. Prove them wrong". -Unknown. I couldn't agree with this quote more because people are going to assume that you are going to be there for them, no matter what but in fact, you won't be there for them because if they are not for you, don't be there for them!!  relationship. They teach you, change you, strengthen you and prepare you for the right one". -Unknown. I love this quote so much because be thankful for the the wrong relationships because they can teach you a lot of things! It can prepare for you for the right one and once you find the right one, keep them in your life!! To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "How'm I Doing" by: Eric Nam. When I listen to this song, I think about how am I really doing? There are days where I am truly okay but there are days where I am struggling but with God, I will be okay and I shouldn't have to worry people about me not being okay because I will be okay! I love y'all so much and have a good weekend ahead!! ❤❤❤❤ |
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