💕   Blog: What 3 things that make my man different? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 8/9/24! 💙 

Intro to my blog!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! Welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today where I talk about whatever it comes to mind! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through or whatever you it is draining you, you are loved by so many people and just stay true to yourself! Don't need to change for anyone who you come in contact with! God made you the way you the way you are and you shouldn't have to change for anyone!! I love y'all! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about the word "care". I feel like we live in a world where people don't care about others and their feelings which is so messed up in my opinion! We should always care about others and what they are going through, no matter what! If y'all haven't read this blog episode from Wednesday and would love to check it out, I will leave the link right here: →The word "care" Please, go give it a read, whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what 3 things make my man different? In this blog episode, I will be talking about what 3 things that make my man different from guys that I have dated? Why does those 3 things make my man different from guys that I have dated? Out of those things. which one makes my man the most different? Why does that thing makes my man the most different? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about finding a good person for them, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without further ado, let's jump into this blog episode! Shall we? We shall! 

What I love about my man? Why do I love those things about my man?

What I love about my man? There are so many great things that I love about my man, but the 1st thing that I love about my man is how funny he is! I love how he can make me laugh when I am sad! He is such a comedian!! The 2nd thing that I love about my man is how caring he is! When I am feeling sad or depressed, he will drop anything to make sure that he will care about me which I love about him so much! The 3rd and final thing that I love about my man is how family orientated he is! I love how much he loves and cares about his family so much! He would do anything to be there for his family and I love that about him so much! Why do I love those things about my man? The 1st reason why I love my man about how funny he is because I feel like he can crack a joke and he just knows how to make someone laugh which I love about him! The 2nd reason why I love how caring he is because he would do anything to make sure that I am okay or he will pray over someone who needs prayers which I absolutely love! The 3rd and final reason why I love about my man is how family orientated he is because he is always there for his family and how loving he is towards he is which I love about him! I love how much he cares about his family! I think that's great!

3 things that make my man different! 

What 3 things that make my man different from guys that I have dated? The 1st thing that makes my man different from the guys that I have dated is the way he respects me! When a girl asks for me time, usually the girl will get the me time but there are some guys who don't respect girls having me time but my man, he respects me having me time! He will tell me "take all the time you need. I will be right here when you get back"! I love that about him! The 2nd thing that makes my man different is the way he reassures me! I love the way he reassures me that he will never leave me or he will always love me, no matter what! I love that reassurance from him! To me, it is comforting and I love it a lot! The 3rd and final thing that makes my man different from guys that I have dated is how loving he is! The way he loves me and the way he wants to take care of me, I think it is amazing! I am not used to guys who will reciprocate that same love to me but my boyfriend, he will do the same thing! The way he makes me feel loved every day, it makes my heart beat!! 

Why? 

Why does those 3 things make my man different from guys that I have dated? The 1st reason why the way he respects me makes my man different from the guys that I have dated from the past is because when I tell him that I am working on something or that I need my me time, he will respect me for that and I love that about him! To me, when a guys respects you, it shows that he truly cares about you and I feel like with him, I love how we both respect each other! The 2nd reason why the way he reassures me makes my man different from the guys that I have dated from the past is because he always reassures me that he will never leave me and he is always reminds me that he will take care of me, no matter what which I love that so much about him! I never been with someone who will reassure me and having someone like my man who loves me and gives me that reassurance, it feels good to know that I got myself a good man! The 3rd and final reason why the way he loves me makes my man different from the guys that I have dated from the past is because he makes sure that he will give me the love that I deserve and he reminds me that he loves me a lot which feels so good to know that I have a good man! When he reminds you that he loves you, hold on to that because that is pretty special or vice versa! Having a good boyfriend who is loving is the best thing in the world and I feel pretty good to know that I have a good person in my life who is always by my side forever!

The most different!

Out of those things, which one makes my man the most different? I think the one that makes my man the most different is the way he reassures me! Most guys wouldn't reassure their girl about anything, but my man always reassures me that he will never leave me or he will tell me, "if I am not answering fast enough, I am showering" or something along those lines which feels good to know that I can have that peace of mind knowing that my man is reassuring me of certain things and knowing that I won't overthink things! For me, when I overthink, it hurts me because I tend to overthink a lot and it gets in the way of my thinking but with my man, he always reassures me and reminds me that everything will be fine and that I don't have to worry about a lot of things! It feels good to have a good man who reassures me of everything and it makes me feel safe to know that I have a caring man!! I love that about him!! 

Why?

Why does that thing makes my man the most different? The reason why him reassuring me makes my man the most different is because when he doesn't respond to my texts fast enough, it sends me to overthinking a lot and to me, it hurts me but for my man, he will always reassure me that he might be taking a shower or doing his encouragement or anything like that and for me to know that I am not overthinking, it feels great to be reassured and having a man who will reassure you that everything will be fine and that he will never leave me like I had people in my past do! I had people in my past who left me and to know that he will never leave me, it feels good to know that I truly have a good man that I am with and to know that he will reassure me of things, it feels great and it puts my mind at peace!

My advice!

If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about finding a good person for them, what is my advice? To my Blogger Dreamers who wants to find a good person for them, my advice is wait on a good person to come into your life! When that good person comes, don't let go of them! If you let them go, you are going to lose on an opportunity on a good person! Good people don't come by these days! It took me 5 guys to realize that I found the right person for me! I thought the guys that I have dated before was Mr. Right to me but I was wrong! My boyfriend has been nothing but supportive and I am very blessed to have the right guy in my life! Wait on the right person for you!

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because it is hard to come by these days for a good person who has a good heart and good intentions! Some people don't have a good heart and good intentions and that's hard to deal with! Have patience to find a good person for your life because when you find a good person for you, you will never want to let them go and for me to know that I have found a good man in my life, it feels amazing to know that we have been together for almost 2 years and I feel nothing but happiness and his family loves me already which is a good feeling to have!

In closing/ Reminder of the day!  

In closing, to have a man who respects me, reassures me, and loves me is blessing within itself! I wonder everyday, "Am I handful at times"? Sometimes, I wonder how he can deal with me and I wonder how I deal with him! I feel like when it comes to good guys, I finally found me a good man for my life and to be with forever! I feel so loved by him and his family a lot! His older sister asked him one day "When y'all are getting married" and when he told me that, I couldn't believe my ears! Someday in the future, there will be a wedding! To know that my man loves me for who I am and who always there for me, no matter what, it feels good to know that I truly have a good man in my life! I feel like his parents did an amazing job raising him and he turned out to be a good man! I feel blessed to have a man who respects me, reassures me, and loves me! I feel blessed to have a good man! Here is my reminder for today: My reminder of the day is ladies- if a good man comes into your life, keep him because it is hard to find a good man these days! Men- if you come across a good lady, keep her because there are some girls who aren't gold diggers! There are ladies who have good hearts and who won't take you for your money! Best believe in that!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! The moral of today's blog episode is my man is very different from each guy who I have dated from the past! He helps me through things that I have been through! Having a good guy who reassures of everything will be alright and that he will be there for you, no matter what is the best thing in the world! I feel blessed to have a good man in my life because there are not a lot of good guys in this world and for me, I feel blessed to know that I feel safe with my man! I feel blessed to know that his family loves and yet, they haven't met me yet! I feel like his older sister wants me to be her sister-in-law so much which feels amazing! I feel blessed beyond measures! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "I was wrong. When I die, there is someone who cries for me. The fact that you are that person makes me both sad and happy". Kdrama- Crash Landing On You. This quote hits so much because there are people who will cry when you die but there are people who won't cry when you die and to me, that is incredibly sad in my eyes! I know that there will be a few people who will cry for me when I pass away and I know a few people who won't! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good Friday or in other countries, a good Saturday! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog episode where I will be on my makeup and fashion blog page and will be talking about my top 3 favorite colors that me and my bf matched, my top 3 favorite outfits by Jin since he came home, and my top 3 favorite outfits by my boyfriend! Stay tuned! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜💙

Today's quote of the day! This quote hits me so much because I know that there would be a person or two who will cry when I die and there are not so many people who won't cry when I die and to me, that hits me so much! It will made me realize who was really there for me and who isn't!

"A real man will respect you
even when he's mad at you.
Remember that".
-Unknown Author. I love this quote so much because a real man will respect you when you need time or when you need space to calm down! When a man is mad at you, he will still respect you!!

"A real man has nothing to 
hide. He will tell you the truth 
about whatever you want to
know. Because he knows that
if he's honest with you, you
will trust him no matter what.
That's the sign of a man that
wants to grow with you".
-Unknown! I love this so much because if a man is telling the truth and reassuring you whatever he is reassuring you about, chances are he is telling you the truth and he wants to grow with you as a couple and I love that!

"A strong relationship
requires choosing 
to love each other
even in those moments
when you struggle
to like each other". 
-Unknown. I love this a lot because there are moments where y'all would get into an argument and y'all won't like each other but when y'all make up, y'all like each other again! For me, when me and my man get into an argument, I wouldn't like him but I can't stay mad at him forever so I will say "I am sorry" and move on!!! 

To end today's blog episode for today, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "Make It Right" by: BTS! When I listen to this song, I think about if you get into an argument with your partner or a friend, you want to make things right and you want to fix it and you should always fix the problems you have, no matter what! I love y'all and have a good weekend!