Blog: My advice on making new friends! Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog episode: Wednesday, 6/26/24! 
Intro to my blog!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that God has laid on my heart! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! How are y'all doing today? I am praying that everyone is doing amazing and well! Whatever it is bothering y'all or whatever it is dragging y'all down, just know that you are loved by so many people and if people are bothering you and telling you mean and awful things, don't listen to them because you are one of a kind and I care about each of my Blogger Dreamers a lot! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a blog recap of Monday's blog episode! Monday was my 1st day back of blogging and to be back to blogging after being off for two weeks, I couldn't be anymore happier because for me, blogging makes me happy and I love sharing advice or what is going on in my head! On Monday, I analyzed the song "3:16", by: Anne Wilson, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! When I think about the song, I think about the bible verse a lot! For me, God sent his only son to die on the cross for our sins! Jesus didn't have to do that but he wanted to do that! If y'all want to go check it out, please go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about my advice on making new friends! In this blog episode, I will be talking about what are 3 things to remember to making new friends? Why are those the things to remember to making new friends? Out of those 3, which one is the most important when it comes to making friends? Why is that thing the most important thing when it comes to making friends? If I have any advice about making friends, what would my advice be? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without any further ado, let's get our thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!
My thoughts on making new friends! Why are those my thoughts about making new friends?
What are my thoughts on making new friends? My thoughts on making new friends is I feel like making new friends is a good thing! For me, when I find someone who might have a common interest or someone who likes the same thing as me, it feels good to have a friend who have the same interest as me! I rather have someone who likes the same things as me, than not having a friend who doesn't like the same things as me! Why are those my thoughts about making new friends? The reason why those are my thoughts about making new friends is because if you have a new friend who might have the same interest as you or you might have been through the same things as you, keep that person because y'all could get along well and y'all might be good friends for a long time!!
3 things to remember!
What are 3 things to remember to making new friends? The 1st thing that you need to remember is always be yourself! Don't pretend to be someone else! Don't be afraid to be someone else! The 2nd thing that you need to remember is if y'all have the same interest! When you are making friends, you want to talk about if y'all have the same interests or not! If y'all have the same interests, that is cool and keep that person! The 3rd and final thing that you need to remember is if they give off good vibes! When I meet a person, I either get a good vibe or a bad vibe! To me, I rather meet someone who gives me a good vibe instead of a bad vibe! I rather get along with someone than not get along with someone! If I get a gut feeling about someone that has a bad vibe, then I will walk away because I don't want to interact with someone who gives me bad vibes!
Why?
Why are those the things to remember to making new friends? The 1st reason why being yourself is something to remember when it comes to making new friends is because you should never be afraid to be yourself! Being yourself is the most important thing because if you are not yourself, how can you interact with someone? Don't be afraid to be who you are because the person that you are is amazing and never forget that! The 2nd reason why having the same interest is something to remember when it comes to making new friends is because when you have something in common with someone, you want to keep that talk going to see if y'all have anymore interests and if God put that person in your life for a reason, then that is the friend that you need in your life! The 3rd and final reason why if that person gives off good vibes or not is because when you start to talk to a person, you are wondering if they give off good vibes or bad vibes and when you get a bad vibe, walk away because that means they are up to know good and they are probably using you! When someone is giving you a good vibe, keep them because when someone gives off a good vibe, they are a nice person and it is hard to find people who are really nice and sweet!
Most important?
Out of those 3, which one is the most important when it comes to making friends? I think the most important one when it comes to making friends is being yourself! I feel like being yourself is important when it comes to making friends! You don't want to not be yourself and be someone that you are not! I rather be who I am than pretend to be someone who I am not! That person would rather have a friend who is themselves than someone who isn't themselves! Always be yourself because that is important and you are an amazing person! Don't change!
Why?
Why is that thing the most important thing when it comes to making friends? I think the most important thing to making friends is being yourself and the reason why it is the most important thing is because when you pretend to be someone else, you are showing that person who you are not but if you show them the real authentic you, that's the person they want to see! Don't pretend to be someone who you are not because the person that you are not, is the person you shouldn't be! Just simply be yourself because the person that you are amazing and never forget that!
My advice!
If I have any advice about making friends, what would my advice be? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers, it would be just be yourself! Don't pretend to be someone that you aren't because if you are pretending to be someone that you are not, that person is not going to like you! Be your true self! Don't change for a certain person! If a person doesn't like you, then you don't need to be around that person! Be around people who likes you for who you are and if your new friend (s) like the way you are, keep them because they are worth keeping!
Why?
Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because being someone that you are not vs being yourself is important when it comes to making new friends! If you are trying to be yourself and that person doesn't like you for being who you are, then you need to step away from that person and move on! Find a person who is willing to deal with your goofiness and laughter because having someone who is goofy and who can make you laugh is the best medicine! Trust me! I have someone like that and that person is my boyfriend and I am so blessed to meet him almost 4 years ago and we became friends on September 6th and I don't regret becoming his best friend but I also don't regret becoming his girlfriend either! Making new friends is nice because once you start to get to know each other, then it feels like y'all have known each other forever! Find someone who will deal with being yourself because you shouldn't have to change for someone!
In closing/ Tip of the day!
In closing, making new friends can be a little scary but once you start talking to that person and getting to know them, then you are not afraid to be who you are anymore! When it comes to being yourself, you need to show the person that you are because the person that you are is amazing and your new friends will love you for who you are! If your new friend doesn't like you for who you are, then that's their problem, not yours because you are not changing for who you are! The person that you are is amazing and if someone doesn't like you the way you are, then that's their lost! Don't listen to someone who tells you that you need to change! Just stay the way you are! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is just be who you are because you are a wonderful person and don't let someone change you! You shouldn't have to change for someone who can't accept you the way you are! Find people who will accept you! That's important!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee Darden here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode! The moral of my blog is yes, making new friends is scary but being yourself is important because the person that you are, people are going to love you! Let people love you and if you people don't love you for who you are, then that's sad because you are awesome and God made you wonderfully and you should always be yourself, no matter what! Don't let people not liking you the way you are bother you because there are more people who love you just the way you are and that's really important! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "Hate Is Really Heavy. Try And Let It Go". -Toby Mac! I couldn't agree with this quote more because hate is a heavy thing because it can way you down and drag you down! Let it go and move on with your life because you have a lot going for you and don't forget that! Don't let something or someone drag you down because of what they did or why they are so hateful! Move on and live for your life! I love y'all and pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on dreams" and I will see y'all on Friday where I will be talking about how would I describe my passion for singing? Stay tuned and I will see y'all then! I love y'all! Peace! ☮✌💕
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Today's quote of the day! I couldn't agree with this quote because if you have this strong hate, let it go and move on! Don't let drag you down anymore! Move on and live your life! in the heart for one more friend". -unknown! I love this quote so much because if that person is really special, keep them in your heart forever! Don't lose them!  Are Just Friends Waiting To Happen". -Rod McKuen. I couldn't agree with this quote because when you meet someone, they are just strangers but once you get to know them, they become friends! Strangers to friends is the best thing ever!  About New Friends Is That They Bring New Energy To Your Soul". -Shanna Rodriguez. I love this quote so much because when you meet someone new, they could have a bubbly attitude or a positive attitude and they could give you great energy! Keep that person! I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Always give yourself love and share your love with everyone else as well! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! ❤❤❤❤ |
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