Monday, April 15, 2024

Blog: What makes me and my boyfriend's bond so special? By: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date: Monday, 4/15/24!!

                                           Blog: What makes me and my boyfriend's bond so special? By: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date: Monday, 4/15/24!! 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about poems or anything that is personal to me or whatever I went through! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is happening in your life and you are at a point where you just want to give up, don't because one, it is not worth it! Two, you are loved by so many people and three, you have people rooting for you! Whatever you do, don't give up! I love you! Before I jump into today's blog and this week's blogs, here is a little recap on last week's blogs! On my 1st blog page, on Monday, I talked about my poem "Growing up". Through out my entire life, I have made mistakes and I might gave attitude before but I always fixed it because I shouldn't made those mistakes or gave attitude! We make mistakes throughout life, but we learn how to fix those mistakes along the way! Always fix your mistakes before it is too late! On Wednesday, I talked about 3 things that make me strong! Despite what I have been through in my life, I always have a good attitude! I never show how weak I was until I was in my bedroom and that's when I will start to cry! Sometimes, life is hard because I always want to give off positive vibes because I don't want others to see me how weak I am! On Friday, I talked about my other poem called "Standing tall". When I think about those words, I think about someone who stands tall to something or someone who has been dragging them down for months or even years! Stand tall to someone who has been constantly bringing you down because you don't deserve that at all! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to check them out, you can check them out at "brandeemariedarden.blogspot.com". Please, go give these blogs a read! It would mean a lot to me! I love y'all! For this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about what makes me and my boyfriend's bond so special, analyzing the word "blessing", and my advice on how to forgive others? Stay tuned! Now, without further notice, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song for this week's song for the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what makes me and my boyfriend's bond so special? In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I can pick out 3 things that make me and my boyfriend's bond so special, what would those 3 things be? Why would I pick those 3 things that make our bond so special? Out of those 3, which one makes our bond the most special? Why would that thing makes our bond special? If I could give any advice to my Blogger Dreamers about keeping a bond strong, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I choose to talk about today's blog episode because me and my boyfriend have this special bond that it can never be broken! Our bond is so special that no matter what we do or the way we get mad at each other, we can't stay mad at each other forever! For us, our bond is so special! I love our bond and I wouldn't trade it for the world! He makes me happy! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song for the week, I choose "Drowning" by Mew Suppasit! When I think about this song, I think about how negative thoughts can easily drown you and how it can bring you down! Don't let the negative thoughts drown you! You are loved and I'm here for anyone who needs a shoulder to cry on! Why did I choose this song for this week's song for the week? The reason why I chose this song for the week because I have been there when the negative thoughts have been drowning me but I give it to God because I know God would never leave me hanging! 

What does the word "bond" mean to me? Why does it mean to me like that? 

What does the word "bond" mean to me? When  I think about the word "bond", I think the meaning of when someone you have a special bond with! It is hard to find someone to have a special bond with! For me, it can be hard to have a special bond with someone because I had people who left me but having a bond who I can call my boyfriend and my best friend, it is very special! Always find someone who you can have a good bond with! Good bonds are hard to come by these days! Why does it mean to me like that? The reason why it means to me like that is because it is hard to find good bonds to keep these days because people either want to leave you or just don't want to be there for you anymore that can be hard at times! I am very blessed to have an unbreakable bond with the man that I love and the one who loves me so much! God blessed me in so many ways but he surely did blessed me with a bond that will never be broken! 

3 things that make me and my boyfriend's bond so special! 

If I can pick out 3 things that make me and my boyfriend's bond so special, what would those 3 things be? If I had to pick the 1st thing that makes me and my boyfriend's bond so special, the 1st thing is how we encourage one another! Throughout the times we got to know each other and we got to dating, I think what makes our bond so special is that we encourage one another which I love that! I think it is important to encourage your friends or your significant other! When we encourage each other, it is nice to cheer each other on and be there for one another! The 2nd thing that makes me and my boyfriend's bond so special is the little things that we do for one another! When I think about the color "blue" or see something that he likes, I think about my boyfriend or when he sees something that I like, I think that makes our bond so special! He pays attention to the little things and I love how it can be apart of our bond! The 3rd and final thing that makes our bond so special is how happy we can make each other! I think it is important to be in a relationship and y'all can be so happy and I love how we can make each other happy! I think that what makes our bond so special! I love my boyfriend so much! He is such a good man! 

Why? 

Why would I pick those that makes our bond so special? The 1st reason why I would pick how we encourage one another as a reason that makes our bond so special is because when you tell your man that he is doing a good job or your lady that you are doing awesome or your friend that he or she is trying his or her best, not only that is encouraging but that is also a thing that can strengthen a bond! Having someone who can encourage you is amazing and I am so happy that we can strengthen our bond each and every day! The 2nd reason why I would pick the little things that we do for one another as the 2nd reason that makes our bond so special is because when I see something that reminds me of my boyfriend, I am keeping our bond strong or the little things that we do for each other is what keeps our bond so special! The 3rd and final reason why I would pick how happy we can make each other as a reason that makes our bond so special is because having someone who can make you so happy is special! You always want to find a way to make your significant other happy and that is important in a bond because if one person isn't happy then the other one isn't happy and that is not good for a bond that you have someone! Always try to make that person happy! That is very important! 

Most special! 

Out of those 3, which one makes our bond the most special? I think out of the 3 that I mentioned, I think the one that makes me and my boyfriend's bond the most special is how we encourage one another! To keep a bond strong in my opinion, I think the most special is to encourage one another! For us, I think we should always encourage each other through our rough days and our good days as well and I love how we tell each other "good luck" or "I am praying for you", just stuff like that! I think our bond is so special because we always encourage each other! I rather be an encourager to someone than to someone who discourages others! That is not who me or my boyfriend are and I love how we always strengthen our bond by encouraging one another! I love that! 

Why? 

Why would that things makes our bond special? I think the reason why how we can encourage one another makes our bond special is because when you or your partner are doing something like for example, a job and for you as a partner, the 1st feeling that you should feel is happy that your partner got the job but also when then their 1st day of the job comes, you want to wish your partner a good luck because I feel like the way you can strengthen a bond is by being more encouraging for your partner and don't be a discouragement to your partner because your partner doesn't need that! Your partner needs someone who encourages them and strengthening the bond between the two not bring down the bond! I am just saying!! 

My advice! 

If I could give any advice to my Blogger Dreamers about keeping a bond strong, what is my advice? To my Blogger Dreamers who want to keep a bond strong, here is my advice: My advice is if you are not encouraging someone who you have a strong bond with or you are not supporting them in what they do, show them you can encourage them! Show them that you can support them! Having a strong bond is important and if you show that person that you can show them some support, the support can go a long way and that is very important! Having a strong bond is very important because it shows that person how much you care about them and how much strength it shows them that you are willing to put in the relationship or friendship! Always show that person how much you care about them! That's is very important! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because having a strong bond with someone and showing them that they can encourage you in a way and showing that we can keep this bond going is very important to have! I rather having a strong bond where we both encourage each other and keep each other going than having that bond where one encourages the other and the other doesn't say anything nice at all and always bringing the other one down! If you have strong bond with someone, don't bring them down but instead lift them up because it shows them that they can do it and to never give up! Having someone who you have a strong bond with and having someone who you can lift up, I think that is a good thing to have that because people should always have a strong bond and to have someone who can always lift up others! Always lift up one another! Don't bring each other down! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, having a close bond with someone is pretty special because it shows that person that they can have good trust and it shows them that they can lift each other up, no matter what! For me having a good bond with my boyfriend, it has shown me that all guys are very different and that with my boyfriend, he will always encourage me and show me support, no matter what which I love and I am praying that my boyfriend knows that I can always show support towards him and I will always give him encouragement, no matter what! Here is my tip of the day: Always keep a close bond because when you form a close bond with someone, you never want to lose that bond with someone! Don't lose a good bond with someone who you are close with because it is important to have a good relationship and good special bond with someone! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that everyone has reached the end of today's blog episode! The moral of this blog is that always have a good special bond with someone who understands you because if you find someone who understands you, that is a good thing to have someone who understands you! Don't have a good bonding relationship if someone doesn't understand you because it is not good for you to be in a relationship who doesn't understand you! Find someone who you have a good bond with and keep that bond! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "Being weird is the best thing that could happen to me". - Kim Taehyung -. I find this quote very relatable because everyone is born to be weird! It's okay to be weird! If you are weird, be weird! It's okay to be weird! I am weird and I am proud of it! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all next blog where I will be talking about analyzing the word "blessing", so stay tuned for that! Happy Monday or in another countries, Happy Tuesday! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜





Today's quote of the day! I absolutely love this quote is because it is okay to be weird! Don't be afraid to be weird!! Always be weird!!! 




Me and my boyfriend on Sunday, February 25th, the day we met! I am still not over the height difference between me and him! So crazy!! 


"Some Bonds Are 
Too Deep For 
Others to Ever 
Understand".
- Soman Chainani. I feel like I could relate to this quote a lot because I feel like me and my boyfriend's bond is too deep for others to understand and only we understand!! 


My favorite photo of me and my boyfriend! This picture is such a good photo and I absolutely that! 


To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! For this week's song of the week, I chose "Drowning" by Mew Suppasit! When I listen to this this song, I think about the times where I have drowned in my own thoughts and it doesn't feel good! Don't drown in your negative thoughts! It doesn't feel good! 






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