Blog: Analyzing my poem "When people's words bother you", by: Brandee Marie Darden! Friday, 2/23/24! 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today where on this blog page, I talk about anything from my poems or analyze songs or even personal stuff like abandonment issues or even bullying! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are never alone and I care about y'all so much! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about my poem "Focusing on yourself". It's okay to focus on yourself every once in a while! It's okay to have that break because everyone deserves a break! Take yourself some me time! It's okay to be selfish every once in a while! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, the blog is called analyzing my poem "Focusing on yourself" by Brandee Marie Darden!! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you s much! I love y'all! For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "When people's words bother you". In this blog, I will be talking about when people say mean things, how can it hurt a person? Why when people say mean things to a person it can be hurtful? When people say positive things, how can it make a person happy? Why can it make a person happy? What is the moral of my poem? Why is that the moral of my poem? Now, let's get our blogging caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about my poem! What is the meaning behind my poem? Why is there meaning behind my poem? 

On Tuesday, November 21st of last year, I wrote a poem called "When people's words bother you" and it goes a little something like this: "When people's words bother you" by Brandee Marie Darden! "When people's 

words bother you, 

it can take a 

mental toll on you.

People's words 

can be awful

when they say 

mean things, but

when people say

good things, then 

we are good! 

Let's be nice 

and say positive

things to others. 

Let's not tear

each other down"! 

Love, Brandee Marie Darden! Written on Tuesday, 11/21/23!! What is the meaning behind this poem? The meaning behind this poem is when people's words hurt you, you feel hurt and it breaks your heart but when people's words are in a positive way, you feel happy and you will take those words to heart! Words can hurt you or impact you! It only depends on the person! Why is there meaning behind this poem? The reason why there is meaning behind this poem is because people can be negative or positive, it only depends on the person! Sometimes, a person can be negative because life isn't going right but a person can be positive when they are having a good day! Words can impact a person in a good way or a negative way, it only depends on the person! 

Hurt a person? 

When people say mean things, how can it hurt a person? When people say mean things, it can depend on a person and how they react! When someone say something hurtful to me, I tend to want to cry! Sometimes, words can hurt me and hurts so much! What people don't realize is, words can hurt! Words can leave an impact on a person and when you hurt a person with saying "you're ugly" or "you will never make it in life", that hurts a person! You should be careful what you say to a person! Mean words can hurt and can leave an impact on you!! Be careful what you say to someone!! Your words can hurt someone and that is not good! 

Why? 

Why when people say means to a person it can be hurtful? The reason why when you say mean things to a person it can be hurtful because when you say awful things to a person, they are going to remember it forever and always! Words can leave such an impact on a person and to them, they will always remember what you say! Awful words can hurt a person or even when you bullying someone with your words! No matter what you say to a person, always be careful with your words! Be careful what your words can do! It can hurt and damage a person! 

a person happy? 

When people say positive things, how can it make a person happy? When people say positive things, it reminds people that they are doing an amazing job at whatever they are doing! When someone tells you "you're amazing" or "I'm proud of you", it makes a person feel good! It reminds a person to always keep pushing through and to never give up! When people say positive words, it helps a person to get through whatever they are going through! Positive words can help a person and it can remind a person that no matter what they are going through in life, positive words can help them and we need to be positive with our words! Positive words hold power and it can help a person with what they are going through! Be kind and positive to someone and make them happy! 

Why? 

Why can it make a person happy? The reason why when you say positive words to a person to make them happy because it is a reminder for that person to know that they are doing a good job or to remind that person no matter how hard life can get, you are always proud of them, no matter what! Being reminded from someone how proud you are of them or they are doing amazing at what they are doing, it can make their heart happy! For example, before I go to bed at night, my boyfriend would always tell me "Good luck on your blog or tiktok", when I hear that, my heart feels so happy because I know that in my heart, my boyfriend wants me to do well on both of my tiktok and my blog episodes which makes me feel good! When you hear words like "you're doing amazing" or "keep up the good work", it makes your heart happy and for me, positive words can make someone happy! Make someone happy today by telling them positive words!! 

The moral of my poem! 

What is the moral of my poem? The moral of my poem is be careful what you and how it can impact on a person! When you say negative things, it can hurt a person but when you something positive, it can make a person happy! When you are tearing someone apart with negative words, that person can feel angry and hurt! You are suppose to support a person, not hurt a person! When a person hears positive affirmation, it reminds them to keep going and to never give up! People can be mean to other people these days and it is not right for one person to hear positive words where the other person has to hear negative words! Both of them needs to hear positive words! We need to spread positive words around and be positive to one another, not negative! 

Why?

Why is that the moral of my poem? The reason why that is the moral of my poem is because when you say ugly and hurtful words, it hurts a person and sometimes, it makes a person over think things and that is hard for a person! For me, when people say negative things to me, it hurts me a lot! It makes me over think a lot and it hurts but I remind myself that I am much better than that! I don't need negative words to impact my life and I am not going to let negative words tear me down! Don't let people with a negative attitude tear you down because you are much better than that! I love y'all! 

In closing/ tip of the day!! 

In closing, people's words can either hurt you or break you and that hurts to know that people's words can have impact on you and you shouldn't have to go through life with people hurting you with words! You should have people influence in a positive way, not a negative way! People's words are extremely hurtful and people needs to be careful what they say because it can hurt someone! There are people who can say mean things and there are people who can say nice things! Find the people who are really nice and who will be there for you, no matter what! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is be kind to the people around you because you don't know what they are going through until you went through it yourself! Please, say positive things to people, not negative things! I love y'all and please, stay positive!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just made to the end of today's blog episode! We need to be careful what we say to other people because negative words hurt a person and when you hurt that person, you are them forever! Mean words can hurt a person while positive words can make a person happy! People need to feel uplifted when they are positive and great words! Words aren't suppose to hurt! They are suppose to make you feel good and help you through good times! We need to be kind to one another and be there for one another! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "Anyone can lose their way... All you need is the courage to walk the unfamiliar and daunting path again". -Choi Seungcheol. I absolutely love this quote a lot because people can lose their way but you need to build up the courage and walk an unfamiliar path you are not aware of and keep walking until you reach your destination! Don't let anything or anyone stop you! I love y'all so much and I hope and pray that everyone will have a good day or in other countries, had a good day! Happy Friday or happy Saturday! I will see y'all on my makeup and fashion blog page where I will be talking about my top 3 Korean male celebrities who I would love to do their makeup on, my top 3 favorites outfits from this year so far, and my top 3 favorite jewelry! Stay tuned for that and until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog episode! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💖

Today's quote of the day! I absolutely love this quote because people tend to lose their way a lot of the times but people who have courage tend to walk unfamiliar and daunting path again until they reach their destination! Don't stop until you reach your destination!! 

My poem that I did about "When people's words bother you", written on Tuesday, November 21st, 2023! I love this poem a lot because I had people's words impact on me a lot and I shouldn't have done that! Don't let people's words hurt you or tear you down, but instead, let them uplift them and inspire you! 

"Don't worry about 
what others think. Just focus
on yourself and be positive.
Some people are always 
negative, so don't let it 
bother you".
-Unknown! I love this quote a lot because you shouldn't have to worry about what others think about you! Worry about yourself and don't let people's words bother you!! 

"People are so good with words 
that they can make you believe 
anything... however what 
matters are their actions".
-Unknown. I love this quote a lot because people can make you believe that whatever they say, it can be positive but their actions say other wise and that's not good at all! 

For this week's song of the week, I chose "Miracle" by NSB! When I listen to this song, I think about the soft beat to it and how soft the song it is! Such a good song! 

                                      💚💚  Analyzing my poem "Focusing on yourself" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 2/21/24!! 💙💙 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode today where I talk about anything from poems or anything that is personal to me! Welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever it is bothering you, just know that y'all are never alone and that y'all are loved by so many people including myself! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a blog recap of Monday's blog! On Monday, I talked about the word "miscommunication". When I think about the word "miscommunication", I think about someone who didn't discuss anything to someone and it got miscommunicated! Never miscommunicate with someone and always discuss things with them! If y'all haven't read that blog and would love to check it out, the blog is called the word "miscommunication" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Focusing on yourself" by: Brandee Marie Darden! In this blog, I will talking about what is this poem all about? Why did I write this poem all about? What is the importance of focusing on yourself? Why is there importance on focusing on yourself? If I had to give any advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are having trouble focusing on themselves, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without any further ado, let's get our blogging caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about my poem! What was my thought process behind this poem? Why did I have a thought process behind this poem? 

On Tuesday, January 2nd of this year, I wrote a poem called "Focusing on yourself" and here how it goes: "Focusing on yourself" by: Brandee Marie Darden! 

"Focusing on yourself

isn't a selfish thing 

at all! When you need

to focus on yourself, 

you are focusing on 

what you need in life! 

Don't let anyone tell

you that focusing on

yourself is selfish because 

focusing on yourself

is not selfish! You are 

doing something that

is good for your 

mental health! Focusing 

on yourself is okay! 

Focus on your mental 

health"! 

Written on Tuesday, 1/2/24! What was my thought process behind this poem? I think my thought process behind this poem is I wanted people to know that it is okay to focus on yourself and not have to feel a certain way about it! People might think "focusing on yourself is selfish" but in reality, it's not selfish at all! I rather focus on what's going with me than listening to someone say "You're being selfish right now". Why did I have a thought process behind this poem? The reason why I thought process behind this poem is because people might think it is wrong to focus on yourself when it is not wrong at all! I rather focus on what's wrong with me than focus on other people! Yes, it is okay to help people out every once in a while but sometimes, you need to focus on yourself as well and your mental health is important! Focus on what's important!

This poem all about! 

What is this poem all about? This poem is all about focusing on yourself! When you are struggling with mental health, all you want to do is to focus on yourself and wants what is best for you! When people say "Focusing on yourself is not important", in my eyes, when you are dealing with any problems, not just mental health, you want to focus on yourself! Life can be so stressful at times and when you deal with a long day at work or just a long day, you just want a day to yourself and that's not bad at all but people might say "you're being selfish". It's okay to take a day to yourself and focus on you for a little bit! There is nothing wrong with being selfish and it's okay to focus on yourself! Focus on what's important! 

Why? 

Why did I write this poem all about? The reason why I wrote this poem all about is because when you focus on yourself, you want to make yourself feel better and not depressed! You want people to know that you are doing okay without them worrying about you! Focusing on you isn't a bad thing at all but people tend to make it out to be! I rather focus on what's important for my well being than listen to someone who says "you're being selfish". Focusing on your well being and getting better within yourself is much important and I feel like people are just being rude when they are saying that! It is important to focus on your well being than focusing on someone else's well being! Don't listen to others!! 

The importance on focusing on yourself? 

What is the importance of focusing on yourself? I think the importance of focusing on yourself is to make yourself happy and have that self discovery within yourself! I rather focus on what's important for my life than let someone drag me down for saying "it's not important to focus on yourself". To me, finding out what's going and trying to figure out a way to make yourself happy is extremely important! Before you could make others happy, you need to find a way to make yourself happy and having that me time is extremely important! Focusing on what's going good for your life is much better than not focusing on what's not good! Focusing on what's good for you is much better than focusing on the bad! Focus on what's good for you and make yourself happy!! 

Why? 

Why is there importance on focusing on yourself? I think there is importance on focusing on yourself because you want to focus on what's important for your life and what's good with your life! When you focus on what's good. your mood starts to change, your positive outlook on life starts to change and you focusing on the positive stuff is much better than focusing on the negative stuff! Don't let the negative stuff or negative people around you change you or don't let them tell you that "you're selfish" because you are not being selfish and you are doing what's right for you!! Focus on what's good for you!! 

My advice!  

If I had to give any advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are having trouble focusing on themselves, what is my advice? If I have to give any advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are having trouble focusing on themselves, my advice is instead of focusing on what's going on around you with other people, focus on what's good for you! Focus on what's going on inside your mind and try to make yourself happy! Making yourself happy is the most important thing and have that importance to know that you need to make yourself happy is very important! Make yourself happy before you make someone else happy! Don't focus on what's going on around you, instead focus on what's going on inside you that way you can fix what's going on inside you! Don't listen to others!! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when you focus on the negative stuff, it tends to bring you down but when you focus on the positive stuff, you feel much better and you are not worried about the other things in life! Focus on what's good for you instead of the negative stuff! Put your mind at ease and focus on what's good and not what's bad! I rather focus on what's good for my mental health than what's bad for my mental health!! Focus on the good stuff instead of the bad stuff!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!  

In closing, focusing on yourself isn't a bad thing at all! Instead of focusing on what's bad for your mental health, focus on what's good for your mental health! Don't let one negative bad comment hurt you because someone thinks focusing on you is such a bad thing! Focusing on you isn't a bad thing at all! You need to focus on you make yourself happy! Your happiness is what that counts for you! You need to do whatever it takes to make sure that you're doing okay! You need to worry about what's going with you instead of focusing on what's going on with others! Don't let others dictate how you are feeling! You have your own feelings and feel how you want to feel! Here is today's tip of the day! For today's tip of the day, it is focus on yourself isn't a bad thing! Focusing on yourself is okay because you are focusing what's good for you and what's good your mental health! Focus on what makes you feel amazing and wonderful! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode for today! The moral of this blog is always focus on yourself for the sake of your mental health! Focusing on what is good for you isn't a bad thing at all! It's okay to focus on what's important for you and what is important for your mind! Do what makes you happy!! Don't let others make you feel bad for focusing on yourself and making yourself feel better!! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this, "While you're diligently taking a step forward, don't forget to take some time looking up to the sky and see how it always opens for you". - Lee Taeyong. I absolutely love this quote so much because when you are looking up to the sky, you are thanking God and the loved ones who are watching over you! Your loved ones are so proud of you and they know that you are doing a good job!! I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Please, stay safe and always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog episode where I will be analyzing my poem "When people's words bother you". I love y'all and I will see y'all on the next blog episode! Peace! ☮✌💖

Today's quote of the day! Love this quote a lot because when you are looking up in the sky, you know that God is leading you the way and your love ones are protecting you and helping you through hard times!! 

My poem that I wrote on Tuesday, January 2nd of this year! It is important to focus on yourself and make yourself happy! Always make yourself happy!! 

"Never forget three things in life that only
belong to you - your focus, time, and 
inner peace. Never trade them for 
anything else in this world".
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because those things are so important for your life and don't trade those things for anything else!! 

"You Have 
Your Own 
Life, Why
Waste It On
Focusing On 
Others". 
-Nitin Namdeo. I love this quote so much because when you have your own life to worry about, don't focus on other's life! Focus on what's going on in your life than everyone's else life because your life is important and you need to focus on your life! 

Focus on what's important in your life instead of other's lives!! You're life is something that you focus on because you shouldn't focus on people's lives! Your life is important and focus on what's good in your life! 

                                               Blog: The word "miscommunication" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 2/19/24!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! Welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about my poems or songs or anything that comes to mind! I am so happy to have y'all back back on a new blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is bothering y'all or whatever it is going through y'all's minds, just know that y'all are never alone and I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! I hope and pray that everyone had an amazing weekend!! I know that I did! Before I get into today's blog episode or this week's blog episodes, here is a recap of last week's blog episodes! Last week on my 1st blog page, on Monday, I talked about what makes me different? There is a lot of things that makes me different and unique! I think what makes me different is I don't care about partying or alcoholic drinks! I don't mind family gatherings but I tend to stay away from bars because that's not who I am! On Wednesday, I talked about my top 3 dream dates, part 2! To me, a candle light dinner sounds romantic and lovely! I would love to go on a date like that with my boyfriend in the future! On Friday, I talked about what does the word "inspire" mean to me? When I think about the word "inspire", I think about someone who tells their story and someone can relate to it! When someone tells their story to you, they are showing you how courageous they are and to me, that's inspiring! If y'all haven't read this week's blogs and would love to check them out, you can read them at "brandeemariedarden.blogspot.com". I love y'all! For this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about the word "miscommunication" and my two poems "Focusing on yourself" and "When people's words bother you". Stay tuned for new blog episodes! Now, let's get our blogging brains on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose that song for the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about the word "miscommunication". In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the word "miscommunication", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? What are 3 ways to fix the miscommunication problem? Why are those 3 ways to fix the miscommunication problem? What is my advice to anyone who is having a miscommunication problem? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I choose to talk about today's blog episode is because there is miscommunication problems in relationships or friendships or even families and for me, I feel like communication is so important! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "miracle" by: NSB! When I listen to this song, I think about in life, we are given miracles and to me, miracles are precious! Why did I choose that song for the week? The reason why I choose this song is because I love the song and it is such a good song!

The importance of communication! Why is communication important? 

What is the importance of communication? The importance of communication is talking about what is going on or what can it be fixed? To me, communicating about what's going on and fixing it is much better than keeping it inside and not talking about it at all! Not fixing the problem is going to be much worse and it can lead into problems in relationships or friendships! Always discuss things with the people who you love! Why is communication important? I think the reason why communication is important because when you bottle things up inside, it can lead to so many problems and if you don't communicate with your significant other or your friend or even your family about it, it is going to lead to problems and that is not good at all! Fix the problem or it is going to lead into bigger problems!! 

The word "miscommunication". 

When I think about the word "miscommunication", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "miscommunication", the thought that comes to mind is how much it can lead to so many problems? When someone miscommunicate something to you, it can lead to arguing and fighting and you should avoid that at all cost! When you miscommunicate your problems to someone and they take it as something as, y'all should discuss the matter of the situation and fix the problem! Don't leave the problems unsolved because if you leave those things unsolved, it can lead to bigger problems! Don't miscommunicate problems with people who care about! They are willing to listen to you and be there for you! 

Why? 

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason it came to mind like that is because when there is a miscommunication issue, you should always fix it! You should always talk out the problems with the people who you love because if you leave things not fixable, chances are every time y'all are going to talk, things could potentially blow up and that's not good at all! I rather fix things with people than walking away from the situation unsolved! To me, fixing things is much better than leaving things unsolved! Fixing things is much better to me!! That's just my opinion! Don't leave things unsolved! 

3 ways! 

What are 3 ways to fix the miscommunication problem? There can be many ways to fix the miscommunication problem but the 1st way to fix a miscommunication is to talk about it! Discuss the problem or what is causing the problem! The 2nd way to fix a miscommunication problem after discussing the issue is talk about how someone can fix the issue! After figuring what the problem is, find out ways to fix it! Talk about what is going on in the relationship or how you and your significant other can fix the relationship or you and a family member can fix the relationship! After figuring out what the issue is and what is going on in the relationship, the 3rd and final way to fix a miscommunication is to hug it out and tell someone how much you love them and you will tell them that you will communicate with them better! Things are so much better when you talk things out and hug it out! Don't leave the situation mad at at  each other! Just fix things while you can!! 

Why? 

Why are those 3 ways to fix the miscommunication problem? The 1st reason why is to talk about it because when you talk about what is going on, you feel much better telling that person what is going on and you feel much better not having build up in your heart! The 2nd reason why is to discuss how to fix the issue is because when you discuss what the issue is, you can fix it head on and discuss it without any issues at all!! I rather talk about what is going on or what the issue is than leave it! The 3rd and final reason why you should hug it out and tell them that you love them and you will communicate with them better is because after talking about what is going on and how you should fix it, once that is done, telling that person you love them and that you will communicate with them better is much better than fighting and leaving things unsolved! For me, I am that type person where if I see a problem, I need to fix immediately! I can't stand when I leave things unsolved! When me and my boyfriend have a miscommunication issue, I will tell him "let's fix this" and we always fix the issue! Always fix the issues because it can cause an argument and arguments aren't good at all! Always discuss the issues!! 

My advice! 

What is my advice to anyone who is having a miscommunication problem? To all of my Blogger Dreamers who might be having a miscommunication problem with your significant other or anyone in your family, my advice is always talk out your problems with them! Don't leave until problem is resolved and y'all are good again! Always talk about the problems that y'all are having! Talk about what is going instead of going to bed angry at one another! Don't do something that you might regret later on because what if something bad happens and you will think to yourself "I should of gotten things right with that person". Don't go to bed angry because it is not good for your mental health! Always discuss things! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when you leave things not in good terms, it can hurt you and that's not good at all! When you and your partner are having problems in y'all's relationship, discuss what is the problem is and figure out how to fix because if you go ahead and fix it now, it is better resolved and y'all can quit arguing about it! Don't argue with someone who you love because something bad can happen within an instant and you will regret something that you wish you didn't do! Always tell the person that you love them after an argument because if you tell them that you are truly sorry and that you will do better, it shows them reassurance to their mind! Always give that person a reassurance to their mind because it show them that you care! Show that person that you care and you will do better by communicating your problems better! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day! 

In conclusion, always have open communication with the person or people that you love because if you don't, it can lead to miscommunication problems and fighting and non of that is not good at all! Miscommunication is the worst thing ever because when you discuss how you are feeling or what is going on in your life, people are going to assume everything fine when deep down, nothing is fine! Don't let your problems consume you because that is not good for you at all! At times, me and my boyfriend will have miscommunication issues but we always communicate what is going on because I feel like with my boyfriend, we can discuss about anything and he understands me very well! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is always discuss what is the issue is within your relationships or friendships because whatever it is going on within those relationships or friendships, it is better to resolve it now than later! I love y'all! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! The moral of today's blog episode is always communicate with your significant other or someone within your friend group or family because it can lead to really big arguments and that cannot be good at all! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "I see everybody's aura fading. They can't be themselves without being anxious. I was afraid to be judged so I hide amongst the regular".  -Rocket (Seventeen). I would say this hits hard because there has been times where I couldn't be myself because I feel like people would judge me and it made me anxious but I came to realize it is okay to be who I am! Always be yourself, no matter what what! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have an amazing day or had a good day! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog episode where I will be talking about my poem "focusing on yourself". I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜

Today's quote of the day!! Never be anxious by being yourself! Always be proud to be yourself, no matter what!! 

"Between what is said and not meant.
And what is meant and not said. 
Most love is lost". 
-Khalid Gibran! I love this quote a lot because when someone said something completely, love be can lost and that is not good at all! 

"The worst 
distance 
between two 
people is 
misunderstanding". 
-Unknown! I love this quote a lot because sometimes, there be some misunderstanding and that is not good at all! Fix the misunderstanding!! 

"Miscommunication can be 
avoided by the simple act
of asking someone what they 
mean or how they feel 
instead of assuming".
-Unknown! I love this quote because when you think you know how a person is feeling, in reality, you don't because you are just assuming! Don't assume how a person is feeling! Ask them how they are feeling!! 

Here is this week's song of the week! I love this song a lot because it is upbeat but also soft at the same time which I love! Such a good song!! 
 

                                           Blog: My top 3 favorite Christian songs, female edition!! By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, 2/2/24!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! Here on this blog page, I talk about anything from songs to poems or whatever across my mind! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is bothering you or whatever it is going through y'all's mind, just know that you are loved and I care about y'all more than anything! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Happy February! Hard to believe that it is already February!! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday. I talked about my top 3 favorite bible verses! When I first was getting into the bible and reading the bible verses, a lot of verses where popping out at me! For example, in 1 Thessalonians 5:17, it says "Pray without ceasing". When I think about that bible verse, I think about praying over that situation over and over again! When you pray, God hears you! He hears you but it is his timing! If y'all haven't read this blog and would love to check it out, the blog is called "My top 3 favorite bible verses". Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about my top 3 favorite Christian songs, female edition! In this blog, I will be talking about if I had to pick my top 3 favorite Christian song by christian artists who are female, what would those songs be? Why would I choose those songs as my favorite? If I had to choose my number one favorite song by a female Christian artist, what song would that be? Why would I pick that song as my number one favorite? How can each song relate to my life? Why does each song relate to my life? Now, without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

My top 3 favorite female Christian singers! Why are those my favorite female Christian singers? 

If I had to pick my top 3 favorite female Christian singers, who will they be? The 1st female Christian singer that I like is Anne Wilson! When I think about Anne Wilson, I think about how she some country to her which I love about her! I think she is amazing and I think she is an phenomenal singer! The 2nd female Christian singer that I like is Katy Nichole! She has this powerful voice where she can convey a message! She can convey a message with her voice and songs! I absolutely love that! The 3rd and final female Christian singer that I like is Lauren Daigle! To me, she has this voice where it is also powerful and some of her songs are relatable to me! I love a lot of her songs! These ladies have such an impact on me and I love their songs so much! Why are those my favorite female Christian singers? The reason why I chose Anne Wilson as my favorite Christian singer is because when I think about her, when she sings, I could tell how much she loves to sing about Jesus or anything that has to do deal with God and I love that in a singer! The 2nd reason why I chose Katy Nichole as my favorite Christian singer is because when she sings "Hold On', it is such a powerful song and I love the way she sings it! The 3rd and final reason why I chose Lauren Daigle as my favorite Christian singer is because when she sings "You Say", I get goose bumps and I start crying because she is so good! I love that song by her! I love all of these ladies so much!! 

My top 3 favorite songs!! 

If I had to pick my top 3 favorite Christian songs by Christian artists who are female, what would those songs be? The 1st song that is my favorite is "My Jesus" by Anne Wilson. When I l listen to that song, I think about what Jesus has done for us! He can save you if you believe in him! Jesus has done the same for you! The 2nd song that is my favorite is "Hold On" by Katy Nichole! When I listen to that song, it reminds me to hold on to my faith and to never give up! God has thrown me some challenges in my life and to be honest with all my Blogger Dreamers, it hasn't been the easiest but I never give up! I keep pushing through because God would wanted me to and I am so proud of the woman that I am today! For my 3rd and final song that is my favorite is "You Say" by Lauren Daigle". When I listen to that song, my mind likes to think "I am never enough" or "I am never loved" but to me, God knows that I am enough and he knows that I am loved! I need to pray to God because he knows what I am going through! These songs mean a lot to me and I love each song so much!! These are such amazing songs and I think each Christian artist did a phenomenal job on these songs! 

Why my favorite songs? 

Why would I choose those songs as my favorite? The reason why I chose the 1st song as my favorite is because Jesus did a lot for us and it reminds me the things that he has done for me! Jesus didn't have to  die on the cross for our sins but he did! The 2nd reason why I chose the 2nd song as my favorite is because God has thrown me challenges in my life that were so hard but I kept on holding on because I am a fighter, not a quitter! God will continue to throw challenges at me and I am going to keep holding onto my faith because I am not losing my faith! I am not going to give up my faith! The 3rd and final reason why I chose the 3rd song as my favorite is because your mind likes to play tricks on you and likes to tell you "you will never be good enough" or "No one will never accept you" but God tells you "you are good enough" and "I accept you for who you are". God is an amazing God that will accept you for who you are! He doesn't judge you and he loves you! Other people will judge you and wouldn't love you for who you are but God is different! Don't let those voices get to the devil wants to get the best of you and you should never let the devil get the best of you!

My number 1 favorite song! 

If I had to choose my number one favorite song by a female Christian artist, what would that be? If I had to choose my number one favorite song by a female Christian artist, it would have to be "You Say" by Lauren Daigle! To me, this song resonates with me and speaks with me a lot! I will be dealing with the thoughts in my head and God is telling me "you are good enough" and I believe that God is right! When our mind likes to play tricks on us, it can take a mental toll on us and it is not good for us at all but if we listen to God reminding us "you are good enough" or "you will get through it". Don't listen to those voices in your head because my Blogger Dreamers are much better than that and you are loved!

Why is that song my favorite? 

Why would I pick that song as my number one favorite? The reason why I would choose "You Say" by Lauren Daigle is because when I listen to the song and I was thinking about the lyrics, I was thinking to myself "Why does this song fit me so well" and then, a light bulb moment went off in my head and I always tore myself down and reminding myself "I don't deserve love" or "I will never be good enough" and to me, when I think about that now, I remind myself "God loves you" and he cares about you and I know that he does! God is a caring God there is and we don't need to listen to the voices in our heads because we are much better than that! God loves you and don't to what the voices that are telling you!! The can say things all they want to you, but you don't need to listen to them!! 

Song relate to my life! 

How can each song relate to my life? With the 1st song, the way it relates to my life is I believe that Jesus died on the cross for our sins and we would save anyone and almost a year ago on March 15th, I believe that God is real and that Jesus died for our sins! He saved me and he will do the same for you! With the 2nd song, the way it relates to my life is there has been times where I almost lost grip onto my faith but I need to remind myself "hold on! Don't lose the grip" and I am so glad that I haven't lost my faith! God is going to lead me on the right path in my life and whatever he has in store for me, I will believe in him! With the 3rd and final song,  it relates to my life is I would talk badly about myself and it hurt me but when God would say "don't listen to those voices in your head! You are much better than that", I believe in that! I know that I am much better than that and I will never let the words bother me because I have God on my side and I love God more than anything! I will not listen to those voices in my head anymore! 

Why related to my life? 

Why does each song relate to my life? The reason why the 1st song related to my life is because God lead me to Jesus and I know that deep down in my heart that Jesus dies for my sins and that he rose from his tomb!! Jesus saved my life and he can save yours to!! The 2nd reason why the 2nd song related to my life is because when you feel like giving up at times, but you have to remind yourself "keep holding on", yeah! That's me! Every time I wanted to give up, I remind myself "keep holding on because I am not a quitter and I am fighter! I will keep holding onto my faith until I can't anymore because I know that God has me and he believes in me, no matter what! When no one else believes in you, God does and he will be there for you, no matter what! God cares about you and he will be there for you, no matter what! The 3rd and final reason why the 3rd song related to my life is  because I had my mind play tricks on me multiple times and when I wanted to give up on life, God was telling me "nope! Not today"! God was telling me "you are much better than that! Keep fighting" and here I am fighting because I am not going to listen to the voices in my head! I am much better than that!! Don't let the voices tear you down! Keep being you! 

 

In conclusion/ Question of the day? 

In conclusion, every time I listen to these songs, I fall in love with them all over again! These songs are so good in a way that I can listen to them over and over again and I just love how each artist has their own voice! With Anne Wilson, she is giving me country bell type of a vibe which I love about her! She is such an amazing singer and I love that about her! With Katy Nichole and Lauren Daigle, they have very powerful voices and I love that about them! They each tell a story behind each song and I love that! They are all amazing singers and I love that they sing about Jesus or God or holding on to faith! I will always loves these ladies and I will continue to support them, no matter what! Here is my question of the day: My 1st question is what kind of music y'all like to listen to? My second question is who do y'all like to listen to? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read everyone's comments and respond to them! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I know that I enjoyed it today! When I listen to these songs, I tend to start singing along with the artist because I love to sing a lot and when I listen to these songs, I feel happy because I know that I am singing to the sky! I love each song with all of my heart and soul and I love other songs by the same artists as well! These are very good songs and I highly recommend y'all to listen to them! Now, for today's bible verse of the day, it goes something like this: In Psalm 33:18, it says "Behold The Eye of the Lord Is on Those Who Fear Him on Those Who Hope in His Mercy". I love this bible verse a lot because if you put your eye on the Lord, he will guide you to hope in his mercy! God wants the best for you and God loves you! Put your mercy and hope in him! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! I am also praying that everyone will have a good weekend ahead! Always stay safe and always remember "Dream Big! Don't ever give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my fashion and makeup blog page where I will be talking about outfits that I would wear for a valentines day date, makeup looks that I would wear for valentines day date, and Korean female celebrities who would I love to do their makeup, part 2! Stay tuned! I love y'all and stay safe! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜

Today's bible verse of the day! Always have hope in mercy and always keep your eye on the Lord!! He can do miracles in your life!! 

Anne Wilson! My favorite song by her is "My Jesus". I love this song so much because Jesus can save your life and I love the beat of this song so much!! 

Katy Nichole! My favorite song by her is "Hold On"! I love this song so much because I am going to keep holding onto my faith and never give up!! 

Lauren Daigle! My favorite song by her and my number one favorite is "You Say". I love this song so much because when I think about the lyric "You say I am loved, when I can't feel a thing", I feel that because there are certain people in my life or even myself doesn't give myself the self love that I don't deserve and that's hard for me! Always give yourself love because God loves you! 

For this week's song of the week, I chose "By Your Side" by: Tenth Avenue North! I love this song so much because I know that God is always my side and I know that I have people who are always by my side as well! God is an amazing God who he sent people to be in my life!! I feel very blessed!!