What did this year taught me? By: Brandee Darden. Date of blog: Friday, December 23rd, 2022! 
Intro to my blog!!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! Welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, it's Brandee here! I am so happy to have y'all on a new blog episode! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday!! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well today! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay!! Before I talk about today's blog episode or do a recap of Wednesday's blog episode, thank you to all of my Blogger Dreamers for supporting me on my blogging journey! This year on May 15th, I officially made one year of blogging! First of all, I can't believe that I made a year since I started blogging! To all my fans out there, thank you for everyone who believed in me because without y'all, I don't know where I would be without y'all!! This will be the last blog episode for 2022 but I will be coming back! Stay tuned for an all new blog episodes and tiktok videos! Today is me and my good friend, Cain's one year anniversary! Happy one year to my good friend, Cain! Thank you for always being there for me, Cain! I appreciate you so much! Happy one year to our friendship! Before I talk about today's blog episode, I will be doing a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about analyzing the song "Unbreakable" by WayV!! When I think about the word "Unbreakable", I think about the prefix "un" which means not and some people might not be breakable but I know that I am! I feel like I can be broken and that's not good for me! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what did this year taught me? In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I can pick moments from 2022 that were moments of "I knew that was going to happen" or teaching moments, what would those moments be? Why would I pick those moments? If I had to pick my favorite moment in 2022, what is my favorite moment? Why did I pick that moment as my favorite? What is the significance behind that moment that I picked as my favorite? Why is it so significant? Now, without any further ado, let's get started! Shall we? We shall!
Talking about me and Cain's friendship! How does our friendship carry from 2021 to 2022? Why did it carry from 2021 to 2022?
Around last year, me and Cain met through a mutual friend and we instantly connected as best friends! We have been through ups and downs but we always got through them no matter what!! How does our friendship carry from 2021 to 2022? Our friendship carried into 2022 by us staying as friends and we always helped each other through everything together! He has seen me cry and he has seen me happy but through our battles, we always helped each other no matter what! Why did it carry from 2021 to 2022? The reason why our friendship carry from 2021 to 2022 because I couldn't see myself being friends without him! We understand each other and I am glad to have him as my best friend! He is a good friend to me and I am so glad that he is supportive when it comes to me and my boyfriend's relationship!! I am very blessed!!
My moments from 2022!! Why would I pick those moments??
If I can pick any moments from 2022 that were moments of "I knew that was going to happen" or teaching moments, what would those moments be? The first moment that was a teaching moment is true friends! This year, I realized that who were my real friends and who were my fake friends! I realized that I had true friends who cared about me and who cares about my happiness! They also cared about my well being and I appreciate those friends so much! The second teaching moment was happiness! I realized that my happiness is the most important thing in this world! I never thought I would be this happy until I cut the toxic people out of my life! I noticed that my happiness is more important than focusing on the toxic people who are aren't worth it!! The third and final lesson that I was taught this year was standing up for myself! I had people who pulled me down time after time after time and I realized that I need to stand up for myself and that is what happened! I started to stand up to for myself and I am so glad that I started to stand up to my ex because I don't deserve to go back with him! I am so proud of myself! Why would I pick those moments? I think the reason why I would pick those moments is because having people who I can call my "true friends" is important to me! I realized I might not talk to these friends every single day but when I need them the most, they are there for me no matter what! The reason why I chose happiness as my second moment is because I realized I needed to be happy for once and I am finally happy because I have an amazing boyfriend who is truly amazing and I realized I don't need to focus on toxic people when I have people in front of me!! The third reason why I chose standing up for myself as a teaching moment is because I had people bring me down constantly, but I don't need that in my life anymore and I started to stand up for who I am and not worry about people who would call me mean things such as stupid or anything else!! I am leaving everything behind and focusing on the good things!!
My favorite moment in 2022!! Why did I pick that moment as my favorite?
If I had to pick my favorite moment in 2022, what is my favorite moment? If I had to pick my favorite moment in 2022, my favorite moment is when I had to stand up for myself! When I stand up to myself to my ex boyfriend and to one of my friends who called me stupid and to some more friends, I was extremely proud of myself! I was proud of myself because at the end of the day, I didn't give up nor I didn't back down! I wasn't going to back down because someone called me "stupid". I wasn't going to back down because my ex boyfriend called me names! At the end of the day, I am going to be standing on my own two feet and I am going to be standing up for myself! I'm a bold person and I am brave! No one isn't going to push me down because I am going to get back up at the end! Plus, I have a ton of people who are supportive and they will back me up no matter what!! Why did I pick that moment as my favorite? I picked that moment as my favorite is because I was proud of myself for standing up for myself! I wasn't going to take it from other people because I am a big girl and once you get me upset and mad, you are messing with the wrong girl! Don't think I won't stand up for myself because I will be standing up for myself! I am an adult and I am not afraid to put up a fight! I will put up a fight and I will stand up for myself!!
The significance behind that moment I picked as my favorite! Why is it so significant?
What is the significance behind that moment that I picked as my favorite? The significance behind that moment that I picked as my favorite which was standing up for myself is it showed that I am a strong person! It showed that I have a voice and I need to use it to stand up for myself instead of people pushing me down. I don't need to be quite! I need to be loud and brave and from this point forward, I am going to be loud, brave, and continue to stand up for myself no matter what! If people mess with me, I have a ton of people who are behind me no matter what and they aren't giving up on me!! Why is it so significant? The reason it is so significant is because when you stand up for yourself, it shows that you're a strong person and that no one should ever mess with you no matter what! You should always fight for yourself no matter what! Me standing up for myself is important to me because I had to deal with people putting me down over and over again but this year, I realized that I have a voice and I need to us it! No one isn't going to put me down anymore!! I am proud of myself for finding my voice!
In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day??
In conclusion, I am proud of myself for finding my voice! I am proud of myself for finding my happiness! I am happy to have true friends who care about me and who is there for me when I need them the most! I might not talk to those friends everyday, but at least they are there for me when I need them the most! I am so proud of myself for putting up a fight this year! I got through this fight and I am happy! I deserve happiness in my life and I finally found my happiness which is through my boyfriend who loves me for who I am and who is very supportive no matter what! He wishes me good luck on my blogs which makes me so happy and I am so blessed to have an amazing boyfriend like Aaron! I don't need a lot of friends to have a big circle! I am proud to have a small circle of friends and I am so glad to have those friends who are supportive! I am proud to find my voice instead of sitting back and standing down! I will fight until I can't fight anymore and that is what happened in 2022! I had moments where I wanted to give up, but I kept fighting and I ready to fight through 2023!! Here is my tip and question of day?! My tip of the day is find your voice! If someone is bullying you, don't take the bullying and keep fighting! Y'all got this!! My question of the day is what were your teaching moments? Why were those your teaching moments? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read y'all's comments!!! Thank you so much!!
Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! Y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog episode! I know that I did! The year 2022 had tested my patience! I also lost some friends who never cared about me in the end. I might of been called stupid by a friend or nasty things by an ex boyfriend, but did that stop me from anything? No, not really! I kept fighting and I never gave up! I am extremely proud of myself! I am ready to take 2023 by storm and I can't wait to see what 2023 has in store for me and my Blogger Dreamers! I am excited!! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: "Always be humble and gentle". -Ephesians 4:2. I love this bible verse a lot because there are some people who are humble and there are people who are gentle! Find people are humble and gentle because God blesses people who are humble and gentle! I love y'all so much! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the support from all of my Blogger Dreamers! I will see y'all next year in the year 2023! Have a happy holidays and a happy new year! Don't forget our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams". I love y'all and happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Please, stay safe and stay warm!! This Blogger Queen will see y'all next year and she is out!! Peace!! ✌💜
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Bible verse of the day!! I love this bible verse a lot!! It is such an amazing bible verse and I love it!!  doesn't need daily conversations; Doesn't always need togetherness. As long as the friendship lived in the heart, True friends will never part". -Unknown. I love this because I might not talk to some friends everyday or we might not hangout, but at the end of the day, all that matters is if our friendship lives in our heart! I know that I have friendships that live in my heart forever!!  about getting all you want, it is about enjoying all you have". -Unknown. I love this because I don't care about the material things, as long as I have people who support me, love, and is there for me, that's what matters to me! I am not a materialistic type of a person! Money doesn't grow on trees, but if I have love and support from my family, friends, and my boyfriend, I'm happy! I found happiness within my heart!!  give myself a big hug because I am still standing". -Unknown. I love this because I am still standing after the crap that I went through. I am still standing after times where I wanted to give up, but I didn't! I am proud of myself and I am so excited to see what 2023 has in store for me and my Blogger Dreamers! To end today's blog episode, for this week's song of the week, I chose "Unbreakable" by WayV! I love this song so much! Such an amazing song and holds a powerful message to it!! Love it!! |
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