What did this year taught me? by: Brandee Darden

                                            What did this year taught me? By: Brandee Darden. Date of blog: Friday, December 23rd, 2022! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! Welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, it's Brandee here! I am so happy to have y'all on a new blog episode! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday!! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well today! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay!! Before I talk about today's blog episode or do a recap of Wednesday's blog episode, thank you to all of my Blogger Dreamers for supporting me on my blogging journey! This year on May 15th,  I officially made one year of blogging! First of all, I can't believe that I made a year since I started blogging! To all my fans out there, thank you for everyone who believed in me because without y'all, I don't know where I would be without y'all!! This will be the last blog episode for 2022 but I will be coming back! Stay tuned for an all new blog episodes and tiktok videos! Today is me and my good friend, Cain's one year anniversary! Happy one year to my good friend, Cain! Thank you for always being there for me, Cain! I appreciate you so much! Happy one year to our friendship!  Before I talk about today's blog episode, I will be doing a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about analyzing the song "Unbreakable" by WayV!! When I think about the word "Unbreakable", I think about the prefix "un" which means not and some people might not be breakable but I know that I am! I feel like I can be broken and that's not good for me! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what did this year taught me? In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I can pick moments from 2022 that were moments of "I knew that was going to happen" or teaching moments, what would those moments be? Why would I pick those moments? If I had to pick my favorite moment in 2022, what is my favorite moment? Why did I pick that moment as my favorite? What is the significance behind that moment that I picked as my favorite? Why is it so significant? Now, without any further ado, let's get started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about me and Cain's friendship! How does our friendship carry from 2021 to 2022? Why did it carry from 2021 to 2022? 

Around last year, me and Cain met through a mutual friend and we instantly connected as best friends! We have been through ups and downs but we always got through them no matter what!! How does our friendship carry from 2021 to 2022? Our friendship carried into 2022 by us staying as friends and we always helped each other through everything together! He has seen me cry and he has seen me happy but through our battles, we always helped each other no matter what! Why did it carry from 2021 to 2022? The reason why our friendship carry from 2021 to 2022 because I couldn't see myself being friends without him! We understand each other and I am glad to have him as my best friend! He is a good friend to me and I am so glad that he is supportive when it comes to me and my boyfriend's relationship!! I am very blessed!! 

My moments from 2022!! Why would I pick those moments??

If I can pick any moments from 2022 that were moments of "I knew that was going to happen" or teaching moments, what would those moments be? The first moment that was a teaching moment is true friends! This year, I realized that who were my real friends and who were my fake friends! I realized that I had true friends who cared about me and who cares about my happiness! They also cared about my well being and I appreciate those friends so much! The second teaching moment was happiness! I realized that my happiness is the most important thing in this world! I never thought I would be this happy until I cut the toxic people out of my life! I noticed that my happiness is more important than focusing on the toxic people who are aren't worth it!! The third and final lesson that I was taught this year was standing up for myself! I had people who pulled me down time after time after time and I realized that I need to stand up for myself and that is what happened! I started to stand up to for myself and I am so glad that I started to stand up to my ex because I don't deserve to go back with him! I am so proud of myself! Why would I pick those moments? I think the reason why I would pick those moments is because having people who I can call my "true friends" is important to me! I realized I might not talk to these friends every single day but when I need them the most, they are there for me no matter what! The reason why I chose happiness as my second moment is because I realized I needed to be happy for once and I am finally happy because I have an amazing boyfriend who is truly amazing and I realized I don't need to focus on toxic people when I have people in front of me!! The third reason why I chose standing up for myself as a teaching moment is because I had people bring me down constantly, but I don't need that in my life anymore and I started to stand up for who I am and not worry about people who would call me mean things such as stupid or anything else!! I am leaving everything behind and focusing on the good things!! 

My favorite moment in 2022!! Why did I pick that moment as my favorite?

If I had to pick my favorite moment in 2022, what is my favorite moment? If I had to pick my favorite moment in 2022, my favorite moment is when I had to stand up for myself! When I stand up to myself to my ex boyfriend and to one of my friends who called me stupid and to some more friends, I was extremely proud of myself! I was proud of myself because at the end of the day, I didn't give up nor I didn't back down! I wasn't going to back down because someone called me "stupid". I wasn't going to back down because my ex boyfriend called me names! At the end of the day, I am going to be standing on my own two feet and I am going to be standing up for myself! I'm a bold person and I am brave! No one isn't going to push me down because I am going to get back up at the end! Plus, I have a ton of people who are supportive and they will back me up no matter what!! Why did I pick that moment as my favorite? I picked that moment as my favorite is because I was proud of myself for standing up for myself! I wasn't going to take it from other people because I am a big girl and once you get me upset and mad, you are messing with the wrong girl! Don't think I won't stand up for myself  because I will be standing up for myself! I am an adult and I am not afraid to put up a fight! I will put up a fight and I will stand up for myself!! 

The significance behind that moment I picked as my favorite! Why is it so significant?

What is the significance behind that moment that I picked as my  favorite? The significance behind that moment that I picked as my favorite which was standing up for myself is it showed that I am a strong person! It showed that I have a voice and I need to use it to stand up for myself instead of people pushing me down. I don't need to be quite! I need to be loud and brave and from this point forward, I am going to be loud, brave, and continue to stand up for myself no matter what! If people mess with me,  I have a ton of people who are behind me no matter what and they aren't giving up on me!! Why is it so significant? The reason it is so significant is because when you stand up for yourself, it shows that you're a strong person and that no one should ever mess with you no matter what! You should always fight for yourself no matter what! Me standing up for myself is important to me because I had to deal with people putting me down over and over again but this year, I realized that I have a voice and I need to us it! No one isn't going to put me down anymore!! I am proud of myself for finding my voice!

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day??

In conclusion, I am proud of myself for finding my voice! I am proud of myself for finding my happiness! I am happy to have true friends who care about me and who is there for me when I need them the most! I might not talk to those friends everyday, but at least they are there for me when I need them the most! I am so proud of myself for putting up a fight this year! I got through this fight and I am happy! I deserve happiness in my life and I finally found my happiness which is through my boyfriend who loves me for who I am and who is very supportive no matter what! He wishes me good luck on my blogs which makes me so happy and I am so blessed to have an amazing boyfriend like Aaron! I don't need a lot of friends to have a big circle! I am proud to have a small circle of friends and I am so glad to have those friends who are supportive! I am proud to find my voice instead of sitting back and standing down! I will fight until I can't fight anymore and that is what happened in 2022! I had moments where I wanted to give up, but I kept fighting and I ready to fight through 2023!! Here is my tip and question of day?! My tip of the day is find your voice! If someone is bullying you, don't take the bullying and keep fighting! Y'all got this!! My question of the day is what were your teaching moments? Why were those your teaching moments? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read y'all's comments!!! Thank you so much!! 

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! Y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog episode! I know that I did! The year 2022 had tested my patience! I also lost some friends who never cared about me in the end. I might of been called stupid by a friend or nasty things by an ex boyfriend, but did that stop me from anything? No, not really! I kept fighting and I never gave up! I am extremely proud of myself! I am ready to take 2023 by storm and I can't wait to see what 2023 has in store for me and my Blogger Dreamers! I am excited!! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: "Always be humble and gentle". -Ephesians 4:2. I love this bible verse a lot because there are some people who are humble and there are people who are gentle! Find people are humble and gentle because God blesses people who are humble and gentle! I love y'all so much! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the support from all of my Blogger Dreamers! I will see y'all next year in the year 2023! Have a happy holidays and a happy new year! Don't forget our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams". I love y'all and happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Please, stay safe and stay warm!! This Blogger Queen will see y'all next year and she is out!! Peace!! ✌💜

Bible verse of the day!! I love this bible verse a lot!! It is such an amazing bible verse and I love it!! 

"A strong friendship 
doesn't need daily 
conversations; Doesn't 
always need togetherness. 
As long as the friendship 
lived in the heart, True 
friends will never part".
-Unknown. I love this because I might not talk to some friends everyday or we might not hangout, but at the end of the day, all that matters is if our friendship lives in our heart! I know that I have friendships that live in my heart forever!! 

"Happiness is not 
about getting all 
you want, it is 
about enjoying 
all you have". 
-Unknown. I love this because I don't care about the material things, as long as I have people who support me, love, and is there for me, that's what matters to me! I am not a materialistic type of a person! Money doesn't grow on trees, but if I have love and support from my family, friends, and my boyfriend, I'm happy! I found happiness within my heart!! 

"After this year, I actually want to 
give myself a big hug because I 
am still standing".
-Unknown. I love this because I am still standing after the crap that I went through. I am still standing after times where I wanted to give up, but I didn't! I am proud of myself and I am so excited to see what 2023 has in store for me and my Blogger Dreamers! 

To end today's blog episode, for this week's song of the week, I chose "Unbreakable" by WayV! I love this song so much! Such an amazing song and holds a powerful message to it!! Love it!! 

Analyzing the song "Unbreakable" by WayV! Blog by: Brandee M. Darden!

                                              Analyzing the song "Unbreakable" by WayV! Blog by: Brandee M. Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, December 21st, 2022!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be fine! Take a deep breath and breathe in! Before I talk about today's blog episode, I am going to do a recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about what stood out in 2022? There was a lot that stood out in 2022 but three things that stood out to me was my so called "friends" being fake to me, my best friend and now, my boyfriend asked me to be his girlfriend, and feeling disrespected by friends!! I had a friend who called me stupid which it hurt but he apologized after but at the end of the day, it hurt me a lot! When my best friend at the time asked me to be his girlfriend, it shocked me! I was just laying in bed and then, he asked me to be his girlfriend and honestly, I couldn't be any more happier than I am now!! My so called "friends" were being fake to me by not being there for me which hurts so much!! Now, moving onto today's blog episode! On today's blog episode, I will be talking about analyzing the song "Unbreakable" by WayV! In this blog, I will be talking about when I think about the song title "unbreakable", what do I think about? Why do I think about the word or the song title "unbreakable" like that? What does this song mean to me? Why does this song mean to me? What is the meaning behind the lyrics? Why is there meaning behind the lyrics? If I have any advice for anyone who doesn't feel unbreakable but they are, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice? Now, without any further ado, let's get started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about the lyrics! What stands out to me? Why does it stand out to me? 

In the song "Unbreakable" by WayV, the lyrics go like this: "Bei suo zai ni liu 

xia de jin gu Hui 

Zhi bu Qu kun zai 

zhe mi wu Babe. 

Wu fa bu ji de 

ai de tian mi ne 

nan de shi ke shei

zai zhe li (sheng xia 

le zi ji)

ye ye de hua 

mian she fu qing 

xi zhe kong ju 

dang ai kun zai 

chen mo gu di 

deng dai wu ren 

hui ying 

lie feng zhong 

hai zhi dui ai 

unbreakable". These lyrics translate to "Locked up in 

your imprisonment

Lingering in this 

mist Babe

can't help but remember 

the sweetness of 

love who is here at 

the moment of murmur? 

(Remaining myself) 

ye ye's picture is 

clear and sharp 

hysterical fear.

When love is stuck 

at the bottom of

silence, waiting for 

no one to respond. 

Piecemeal broken me 

yeah unmistakable.

In the crack still

attached to love

unbreakable". What stands out to me? I think what stands out to me is when the translation to the lyric goes like "When love is stuck at the bottom of silence, waiting for no one to respond", when I think about that translation, when two people are in love and they get into an argument, it silence between them and there is no one talking to one another because they are quite! Love shouldn't be silenced! When two people are in love with each other, they shouldn't be arguing! Instead, they should talk it out and make peace with one another! Why does it stand out to me? The reason why it stands out to me is because sometimes, love is unbreakable or breakable, depending on the person! Sometimes, people can make up or sometimes, people can't make up and they end the relationship! The prefix un means "not" and the word "unbreakable" means not breakable and when two people are in love and they think they are not fixable but if they want to fight for the relationship, it is fixable!!

The song title "unbreakable". Why do I think about the word or the song title "unbreakable" like that? 

When I think about the song title "unbreakable", what do I think about? When I think about the song title "unbreakable, I think about how someone might we are not breakable but we are! Sometimes, we crack under pressure and sometimes, we fall out of love which is hard but sometimes, we are break and it is hard for us! For me, I can crack under pressure and sometimes, when someone yell at me, I crack and that's hard for me! There are a lot of people don't crack under pressure but I know that I do and sometimes when someone pressures me to think about something, I break and I feel breakable! Why do I think about the word or the song title "unbreakable" like that? The reason why I think about the word or the song title "unbreakable" like that is there is some people who can break and some might think "oh! She is not breakable" but in reality, I am breakable and I can break down easily! If someone continues to pressure me, I would break and I had to draw that line with my ex boyfriend with he would pressure me to get back with him and he didn't realize that I moved on from him and with him peer pressuring me, I felt like I was going to break at any moment and when I got into a better relationship, he got mad and upset and said some awful things! I'm glad that I blocked him!! 

What does this song mean to me? Why does this song mean to me? 

What does this song mean to me? This song means a lot to me and I love this song a lot! This song is such an amazing song and I love it a lot! This song makes me realize that if I stand up for myself, I can hold on and stand up for myself! If I can show people how strong I am, they can understand why I am the person that I am and if I show them how they can break me, then they are going to continue to break me and I am not going to let anyone break me like that! I am going to stand up for myself and I am going to fight for who I am and who I am as a person! Why does this song mean to me? The reason why this song mean to me is because I might have moments where I will break but at the end of the day, I am strong and I got this! I am not going to let anyone get to me or get into my head! That's not who I am and I am going to fight for who I am!!! 

The meaning behind the lyrics! Why is there meaning behind the lyrics? 

What is the meaning behind the lyrics? I think the meaning behind the lyrics is sometimes, when two people are in love, the love between them can go silence after they are done fighting and sometimes, people loose love between each other which is hard to deal with! Sometimes, when people don't say anything, they are lingering in the mist like a lost puppy and when all heck breaks loose, someone might say the wrong thing or another and it is never good!! There is a lyric that goes "Oh baby I tried to forget you Be crazy and never give up Can't stop indulging in love Leng Yemeng woke up to a wolf. Everlasting unbreakable breakable. Don't want to forget unbreakable breakable. Don't let go just keep holding on Continue this dream in the name of love. The end of darkness is an indelible silhouette. Yeah. Don't walk away. We're unbreakable". When someone tries to forget about you and your love, that's hard and that has a hard meaning to it! When someone tries to break up with you because they didn't want to be with you and stuff like that, it can be a hard thing to deal with and sometimes when people loose love for someone, it is a hard thing to deal with but everything will be okay!! Why is there meaning behind the lyrics? The reason why there is meaning behind the lyrics is because some of these lyrics hold such a powerful message and what people don't realize is there are a lot of songs that can hold a powerful message and this song by WayV can hold a powerful message behind this song! You don't want people to walk away from you but sometimes, it ends up like that and that is so hard but everything will be okay!! 

My advice! Why would I give that advice?

If I have any advice for anyone who doesn't feel unbreakable but they are, what is my advice? For my Blogger Dreamers who doesn't feel unbreakable because they been broken up with or something is crashing in front of you, here is my advice: You are going to have days where you want to give up, but y'all are much stronger than that! Just because the world is crashing, doesn't mean that you have to give up!! Every of my Blogger Dreamers can be breakable and I am pretty sure there are people that aren't unbreakable! There is people who can crack under pressure and there are people who can loose their temper in an instant, but don't give up because someone is putting you down and saying awful things about you! Don't give up! Why would I give that advice? The reason why I would give that advice is because I can understand the feeling under pressure or loose their temper in an instant, but that doesn't mean that your not unbreakable because everyone can break or everyone can watch someone that they love walk away but they don't want to because it's hard for them! Don't ever give up because giving up isn't worth it!! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day??

In conclusion, sometimes, we have moments where we don't feel unbreakable and sometimes, we break so much that we don't know what people are saying to us is true or not! Sometimes, people lie to us and we believe them but we shouldn't believe them because they are lying to us! How do we know if they are lying to us or not? That is determined by only you! You probably have known that person for a long time but you have believed in what that person has said to you the whole time but you don't want to believe them which is so hard!! Another thing that is hard is when someone that you thought they loved you but they decided to break up with you and you had to watch them walk away! Now, that's hard!! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is don't let things break you apart because something is that might be bothering you but at the end of the day, you are much stronger than that and you can get through it, I believe in my Blogger Dreamers! My question of the day is what are moments where you felt like you were about to break? Why were those moments where you felt like you were about to break broke you? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read everyone's comments! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all!! 

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers!! It's the Blogger Queen here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog episode because I know that I did! It's okay to have moments where you feel like you want to break but don't let those moments break you! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: "No word from God will ever fail". -Luke 1:37. I love this bible verse a lot because God's words will never fail us! When you pray to God, he will help you with anything that you need help with! God is the ultimate physician and he will help you get through anything!! I hope everyone will have an amazing  Wednesday or in other countries, an amazing Thursday! Don't forget our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams"!! I love y'all and I will see y'all on Friday for the last blog episode of 2022! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌💛

Today's bible verse of the day! I love this bible verse a lot!! Such a good bible verse!!

Some of the lyrics to "Unbreakable" by WayV!! 

"Broke her? Please.
Nothing can break her. 
All you did was make her realize 
how strong she really is". 
-Unknown. I love this quote a lot because a lot people who broke me made realize that I am a strong person and I should never give up!! 

"Some things 
break your 
heart but fix 
your vision". 
-Unknown. I love this quote because a lot of things can break my heart and those things fixed my vision and made me realize that those people aren't worth it anymore!!




 

What stood out for me in 2022? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden.

                                             What stood out for me in 2022? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, December 19th, 2022! 

Intro to my blog! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! Welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, it's Brandee here and I am so happy to have my Blogger Dreamers on a new blog episode! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Take a deep breath and breathe! Before I talk about last week's blog episodes and this week's blogs, I just wanted to let y'all know that I will be taking a two week break but don't cry! I will be back in two weeks! A new blog episode will be on Monday, January 9th, 2023 on my Makeup and fashion blog page, so stay tuned for that! Let's do a recap on last week's blogs! On Monday, I talked about my poem "People who show their true colors". When people show their true colors, they are showing who they really are until you see the real them and it is hard because you thought you could trust them but you can't and it hurts you!! On Wednesday, I talked about my other poem "Heart of Gold". When I think about someone having a heart of gold, I think about someone who treats someone nicely or is there for someone whenever they need something! I have been told by people that I have a heart of gold and I feel like I do because I am there for people who need support! Sometimes, my heart of gold has been hurt but I don't let it loose my shine at all! On Friday, I talked about me and Aaron: Friendship to relationship!! Me and Aaron have been through a lot throughout our two years of friendship and then, he asked me to be his girlfriend! He is the best boyfriend in the world and I couldn't ask for anyone better than him! For this week's blogs, I will be talking about what stood out for me in 2022, analyzing the song "Unbreakable" by WayV, and what did this year taught me? Now, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I chose to talk about this blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I chose this song of the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what stood out for me in 2022? In this blog episode, I will be talking about since 2022 is ending, what are somethings in 2022 that stood out to me? Why did those things stood out to me? Which memory stood out to me? Why did that memory stood out to me? What is the significance behind that memory? Why is that memory so significant? What am I looking forward in 2023? Why am I looking forward to those things in 2023? Why did I chose to talk about this blog episode? The reason why I decided to talk about today's blog episode is because 2022 was an eye opening for me! 2022 taught me a lot and I am so glad it taught me a lot! What is this week's song of the week? The song that I chose for the week is "Unbreakable" by WayV! I love this song so much! It has an upbeat to it which I love a lot and it is very good!! When I think about the word "Unbreakable", I think about the prefix "un" which means not and people might think "we are not breakable" but sometimes, we are unbreakable and we break under pressure! Why did I chose this song of the week? I chose this song for the week is because some people might think that I am not breakable but in reality, I am. I sometimes break under pressure and it is hard for me and sometimes, I can't handle it even though I try to push hard!!! 

Talking about the year, 2022! Why were there moments that were rocky? 

The year 2022 was rocky for me! I had moments where I cried! I had moments where I wanted to give up! I had moments that were good! The year 2022 threw me some curve balls that I didn't expect which was hard for me! I also had some good moments and bad moments! The bad moments taught me a lesson but the good moments were memories and I am forever grateful for those memories! I started out single this year and I am walking out of 2022 being in a relationship! I learned a lot in the year 2022 and I am forever grateful for the things that I learned in 2022! It was an eye opener year, I can say and I will explain why on Friday's blog! Why were there moments that were rocky? I think the reason why I had moments that were rocky is because I had moments where I was being tested and that was hard on me! I had moments where people would push me to my limits which was hard for me! I had my mental health pushed me to my limits at times to the point where I was thinking about suicidal thoughts which that was hard for me but I thank God for it because I am still alive and I never wanted to think negative thoughts about myself ever again!! 

Things that stood out in 2022!! Why did those things stood out to me? 

Since 2022 is ending, what are somethings in 2022 that stood out to me? I think the first thing that stood out to me was me having fake friends! I never imagined of having fake friends until now and that hurts sometimes! When I think about the word "friend", I think about someone who is constantly there for you no matter what or someone who doesn't give up on you! Not someone who isn't there for you at all! I had friends who weren't there for me at all which broke my heart! The second thing that stood out to me was when my best friend aka my boyfriend now asked me to be his girlfriend! On November 1st of this year, I was laying in bed and just doing my thing and I was texting my best friend, Aaron at the time! Well, he was like "I need to ask you something". Then, I was like "What is it"? Then, he asked me to be his girlfriend and of course, I said yes! That memory will always stay in my head forever! I think that was the highlight of 2022! I am so lucky to have an amazing boyfriend who is very supportive when it comes to me blogging and on Friday, I sent him my blog episode about me and him and he told me he had a little tear in his eye and I thought that was very sweet! I am so lucky! The third and final thing that stood out to me in 2022 was when I was feeling disrespected by friends! This year, I was called "stupid" by a friend of mine and that was hurtful. A real friend doesn't call you "stupid". That is not a real friend! I had been called the "b" word before and that hurt as well. When you have friends call you those things, it hurts you to the core! Don't be friends with someone calls you those things! Why did those things stood out to me? I think these things stood out to me is because these things are something that I will never forget and I will forget the things that happened to me and stuff like that! People are cruel and sometimes, you can forgive but you can't forget!!! 

The memory that stood out the most! Why did that memory stood out to me? 

Which memory stood out to me? The memory that stood out to me the most out of these three is the memory where my best friend aka my boyfriend asked me to be his girlfriend! That is the memory that I will never forget! That memory will live on in my head forever! Something about November 1st will always be my favorite! I am happy to have an amazing boyfriend who is so supportive and do anything to protect me! When he asked me to be his girlfriend, first in foremost I was completely shocked and astonished!! I couldn't understand what is going on but after while, I was happy! I was happy to be his girlfriend and I am happy that he is my boyfriend! I am happy to have someone who is caring and supportive! He is amazing!! Why did that memory stood out to me? The reason why that memory stood out to me is because it is something that I will never forget and it happened in the month where we give thanks and for that, I am truly thankful for that! I feel happy to have someone who loves me for who I am and who is very supportive!!! 

The significance behind the memory! Why is that memory so significant?

What is the significance behind that memory? The significance behind that memory which when my best friend aka my boyfriend asked me to be his girlfriend is it holds a lot of significance to it! The significance is we have been friends for two years! He has been there for me since day one and I couldn't ask anyone better than him! He is a whole lot different from other guys that I have met and he is so caring! He treats me so well and I couldn't ask for a better boyfriend than him!! When he asked me to be his girlfriend, it was one of the best days of my life! I am glad that I can replay that memory forever and I can't wait to see what next year brings for us and I can't wait to see what kind of memories play out for us! This memory for me is so significant and the significance is it holds a special place in my heart and I will never forget that day!! EVER!! Why is that memory so significant? The reason why that memory is so significant is because it is something that I will never forget! It is something that will live on in my head forever! It is something that will live on in my head forever and it is something that I don't want to forget! I will never forget that memory!! I will always remember that memory forever and always!! 

The year 2023! Why am I looking forward to those things in 2023?

What am I looking forward in 2023? I think I am looking forward in 2023 is new blogs, new tiktok videos, and looking forward to see what 2023 has in store for me, my boyfriend, my friends, my family, and my Blogger Dreamers! I am looking forward to see what God has in store for all of us and see where it takes us! I can't wait to work on new blog topics and I can't wait to do tiktok videos where I talk about certain subjects like my blogs! I am looking forward to share my positive vibes and I can't wait to share my advice for the people who needs it! I am feeling positive for next year! Why am I looking forward to those things in 2023? The reason why I am looking forward to those things is because it is a new year and I am looking forward to continue to share what is going on inside my brain and I can't wait to talk about certain subjects for my tiktok videos like my blogs! I am so excited and I am looking forward to share with my friends and my family! I am so excited!! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day? 

In conclusion, 2022 has opened my eyes a lot! I am starting to realize who are my real friends are and I am starting to realize that my feelings for my boyfriend were so strong and that I couldn't ignore it anymore! 2022 has threw me curve balls that I wasn't ready for but I am so blessed to get through each moment and I am blessed to grew strong from each moment! 2022 is the year that I will never forget! I will never forget 2022 but I am excited to see what 2023 has in store for people who I love and me! I am feeling excited! Here is tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is enjoy each moment that you can because once you have that moment, you will never get it back so enjoy it while you can! My question of the day is what stood out to y'all in 2022? Why did those things stood out to you in 2022? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read y'all's comments! Please! Thank you so much!! 

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone enjoyed today's new weekly blog! I know that I enjoyed today's blog episode! This year opened my eyes a lot and for that, I am grateful that this year opened my eyes a lot! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes something like this: "I lie down and sleep; I wake again; because the Lord sustains me". -Psalm 3:5. I love this bible verse because I wake up every morning and I am thankful for the Lord! We wake up because the Lord gave us another day to live and I wake feeling blessed and thankful for what I do which is spread positive vibes! I'm thankful! I hope everyone will have an amazing day or had an amazing day! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Please, stay warm and stay safe! See y'all on Wednesday where I will be talking about the song "Unbreakable" by WayV! Don't forget our slogan: "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"! I love y'all and this blogger queen is out! Peace!! ✌💜

Today's bible verse of the day!!! I love this bible verse a lot! Such a good bible verse!! 

Stop being the "go-to" for someone you can't go to. I love this quote a lot because you can be that person who you so called "friends" can go to but you can't go to them which is not fair to you! Find someone who you can go to!! 

On November 1st of this year, my best friend, Aaron asked me to be his girlfriend and I am so lucky to say yes! The memory that will live on in my head and in my heart!!! 

"Getting rid of people who 
disrespect you is the only 
way you learn to respect 
yourself. Family, friends,
lovers, whatever. They 
gotta go". 
-Ed Latimore. I love this quote because I am going to get rid of people who disrespects me as a human being! If anyone doesn't respect me, you won't get respect back!!! Simple as that! 

Song of the week is "Unbreakable" by WayV! I love this song so much and I think it is such an amazing song!! I know that I break at times and I can't help but break under pressure! 

    

Believing in respecting boundaries!! By: Brandee Darden.

                                         Believing in respecting boundaries! By: Brandee Darden. Friday, December 2nd, 2022!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! Welcome back to an all new weekly blog! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, its Brandee here! I am so happy to have y'all on a new blog episode! It's officially December which means it is Christmas! Wohooo!! Happy December!! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! I hope everyone is staying warm since it is getting cold and stuff like that! Before I talk about today's blog episode, I will be talking about Wednesday's blog about the word "respect". When I think about the word "respect", I think about someone respecting what you like or how you identify as and stuff like that! When I see someone disrespect another person, that makes me angry because one, you should never disrespect someone like that and secondly, if someone disrespects another person, walk away and never talk to that person again! None of my Blogger Dreamers don't deserve that! Y'all deserve so much better! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about believing in respecting boundaries by me aka Brandee Darden. In today's blog episode, I will be talking about on Wednesday, I talked about the word "respect" and I also talked about do I think it should be earned or received? What do I think about believing in respecting boundaries? Why do I think about believing in respecting boundaries is important? When people doesn't respect your boundaries, how does it make you feel or in my case, how does it make me feel? Why does it make me feel that way? If I have any advice to give to any of my Blogger Dreamers, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice? Now, without any further ado, let's get started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking in depth about if respect should be earned or received? Why should respect should be earned or received? 

On Wednesday, I talked about the word "respect" and I also talked about do I think it should be earned or received? In depth, I feel like respect should be earned not received! When someone respects you, they look up to you and they admire you but once you did something that a person doesn't like or don't agree with, they don't respect you for what you did or maybe who you love.  I feel people should earn to respect you, not receive it! It is like giving them a free pass because you should respect them automatically which is hard to respect them fast! Why should respect should be earned or received? The reason why respect should be earned is because when you look up to someone, it takes a lot of responsibility to be a good idol for that person or people and it can be a hard job sometimes! For me, when someone says "your blogs are uplifting" or "your inspirational", for  me it takes amount of respect to show my Blogger Dreamers that you should believe in me and that I am trying to show how much of an inspiration that I can be because being someone's inspiration can be hard at times but for me, it takes a lot of work but I am happy to have the amount of respect and being someone's inspiration!! 

Believing in respecting boundaries!! Why do I think about believing in respecting boundaries is important? 

What do I think about believing in respecting boundaries? I think believing in someone's boundaries is important! If someone that you know decided to set boundaries for themselves because of their mental health, I think you should respect it no matter what! If someone steps over the respecting boundaries, not only they don't respect you but they also don't respect your boundaries which is wrong of them to do! If someone doesn't have respect for you or your boundaries, then you shouldn't let them be in your life anymore! Why do I think about believing in respecting boundaries is important? I think respecting in someone's boundaries is important is because if you are setting boundaries for yourself and someone steps over those boundaries, first of all, they never respected you anyway which stinks and second of all,  you should NEVER trusted them in the beginning! You should always find friends who will respect you and respect your boundaries as well!! 

My feelings towards someone who doesn't respect my boundaries! Why does it make me feel that way?

When people doesn't respect your boundaries, how does it make you feel or in my case, how does it make me feel? Every person is different when it comes to people who disrespect their boundaries! Some people get mad, some people get upset, or people just simply don't care at all! It depends on the person! When I make boundaries for myself, I expect for people to respect me but instead, I feel disrespected and it hurts! When people step over my boundaries, it hurts a lot! It shows that they don't respect me as a person who has feelings! If someone doesn't respect me and boundaries, then I don't want to have them in life because it's not worth it! Why does it make me feel that way? The reason why it makes me feel that way because when someone disrespects me and my boundaries, it shows they never cared about me as a person or an individual who loves to be alone at times and who loves to blog! It is sad that people would step over someone boundaries and not respect them at all!!

My advice! Why would I give that advice? 

If I have any advice to give to any of my Blogger Dreamers, what is my advice? If I have any advice about people not respecting your boundaries, my advice is cut those people out of your life! You don't need that kind of toxicity in your life and if people don't respect you or your boundaries, you don't need them in your life and you certainly don't need someone who is going to tear you down at the end of the day! Set boundaries for yourself for your mental health because your mental health is so important! Why would I give that advice? The reason why I would give that advice is because if you set boundaries not only for yourself but also for the people around, they are either going to respect you or not, depending on the person or people in your life! You don't need people who aren't going to respect you and you deserve respect in your life so don't take the disrespect from that person or people and move on from them because you don't need that in your life!! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day!!! 

In conclusion, someone disrespecting your boundaries can hurt you because once you set those boundaries for you and the people around, you expect someone to respect those boundaries for the sake of your mental health but when someone doesn't respect your boundaries, it hurts you and you don't know what to do because you thought you could trust that person but obviously, you can't! If people aren't willing to respect your boundaries and not respect you as a person or respect your boundaries because of your mental health, then you don't need that person or people in your life! You need people who will respect your boundaries and respect you as a person! Someone who respects you as a person and your boundaries is the most important person you need in your life! For today's tip of the day, it goes something like this: Find people who will respect you as person but also your boundaries because if you find someone who will respect your boundaries and you as an induvial, then you will be alright!! There are people who are respectful and who will respect you but you have to be careful who will respect you and be there for you no matter what and who will also respect your boundaries!! 

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, it's Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! I hope everyone will set boundaries for yourself and I pray that people around you will respect those boundaries because someone who respects your boundaries is important and it is also important to have people in your life who will respect those boundaries for your sake!! You just need to find people who will be respectful to you! Now, for today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Regret is the most painful thing you can experience in Life". -Vincenzo Cassano. I love this quote so much because in life, you will regret something that you didn't get to do or get enjoy and you want to enjoy those things before you pass away, so don't regret doing something you want to do before you pass away!!! Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! I hope everyone will have an amazing weekend or in other countries, I hope y'all are having an amazing weekend! Please, stay safe and stay warm!! I love y'all and don't forget our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams"!! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday and I will see y'all next week with new weekly blogs on my fashion and makeup blog page!! Stay tuned! I love y'all and stay safe! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace!!! ✌💙

Today's quote of the day!!! 

"Pay attention when 
people react with anger 
and hostility to 
your boundaries. 
You have found 
the edge where their 
respect for you ends".
-Unknown. I like this quote because if someone gets angry at you for making boundaries for yourself, then they never respected you in the first place!! 

"I set boundaries 
to respect myself.
Not to offend you". 
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because when I set boundaries for myself, I don't mean to offend everyone but you get offended, then you are stupid!! I am not here to get you mad but I am here to make sure I am happy and to the point where I respect myself as a human being!! 

"Anyone who 
truly wants 
to be in your life
will respect 
your boundaries. 
Period". -Unknown. I love this because if someone wants to be in your life, they will truly respect you and your boundaries and if that person in your life doesn't do that, kick them to the curb!!! 

To end the blog episode for today, for this week's song of the week, it is "Glow" by Stray Kids. I love this song a lot because it starts off slow and then, it has a beat to it which is so good! It is such a nice song and I love it a lot!!!