💔How to get over a breakup? Blog episode by: Brandee Darden! 💔 
Intro to my blog!!
Hey, my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka your blogger queen, Brandee here and guess what day it is? If you guess it is blog day, you guessed right! Happy Blog Monday! I'm so glad to have y'all on a new blog episode! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Happy 1st day of August or in other countries, Happy the 2nd day of August! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! I hope everyone had a good week and a good weekend and I hope everyone will have a great week ahead! Before I jump into today's blog and this week's blog topics, let's talk about last week's blog topics! On Monday, I talked about my book so far! When I talk about my book, I get so excited because it means a lot to me! Writing this book and talking about what I have went through means a lot to me!! On Wednesday, I talked about the places that I want to travel in the future! There is so many places that I want to see and visit one day and one of those places is South Korea! I would love to visit there and potentially sell my book there! I would love to do that in the future!! Another place that I would love to go to the Netherlands! Why the Netherlands, y'all may ask? Well, you see; I have two special friends who have been there for me since I could remember and I would love to visit them one day!! On Friday, I talked about my poem "Stay Gold". When I think the word "stay gold" or the word "gold" in general, I think about the song "Stay Gold" by BTS or stars or gold glitter! If you think about, a person who is the Olympics, they either get a gold, silver, or bronze medal! Right? Right! Well, to them, they are a star and everyone else is a star as well! For this week's blogs episodes, I will be talking about how to get over a breakup, J-Hope's new album, and lastly but not the least, me and my good friend, Djarno's 2 year friendship anniversary! Without no further a do, let's get started! Shall we? We shall!!
Talking about today's blog episode! Why do I think this topic is important to talk about? What is the song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week?
For today's blog episode, I will be talking about how to get over a breakup? by yours truly, Brandee Darden! I will be talking about when someone breaks up with you over a text message or even face to face, hoe it make you feel or in my case, how does it make me feel? Why does it make me feel this way? Do I think cheating is right? Yes or no? Why or why not do not do I think that cheating is right? If I could give advice about how to get over a breakup, what would my advice be? Why would I give that advice? Why do I think this topic is important to talk about? I think this topic is important to talk about is because getting over a breakup rather it's with a friend or even a boyfriend or girlfriend is extremely hard! I have went through 4 relationships and it was hard to handle each breakup especially my first relationship! What is the song of the week? The song that I chose for the week is "Burn It" by Agust D ft Max! I love this song so much! It reminds me when you see yourself in the mirror but you don't recognize it is you because it is someone completely different and you want to burn the ashes!! Why did I choose this song for the week? The reason why I chose this song for the week is because it is such a good song! With Max's vocals and Agust D aka Min Yoongi's rap, it makes a perfect pairing, in my opinion!!
Talking about my dating experiences! Which breakup was the hardest for me?? Why was that breakup hard for me?
My dating experiences weren't the best but they weren't the worst! I mean, I had some good boyfriends! I don't even talk to my ex's anymore except for one! I had two who had cheated on me, one who fell out of love with me, and I fell out of love with him! The two who had cheated on me broke my heart! Literally! It felt like someone stabbed me in the chest with a knife and left me for dead! It hurt so bad! My first ex boyfriend fell out of love with me and it hurt so bad! I also ended up falling out of love with my third ex boyfriend! Which breakup was the hardest for me? If I had to pick which breakup was the hardest for me, it would had to be with my first ex boyfriend and my 4th ex boyfriend which he is still trying to get back with me! Why was that breakup hard for me? The reason why those breakups hard for me is because with my first ex-boyfriend, it was my first love and I loved him a lot and it broke my heart when he broke up with me! With my fourth ex boyfriend, we talked about our future together and not only that, I was supportive towards him but after he cheated on me, I decided to move on from him and my first ex boyfriend!
My feeling/ Why does it make me feel this way?
When someone breaks up with you over a text message or even face to face, how does it you feel or in my case, how does it make me feel? In my opinion, the worst way to get broken up with someone is over text message! That is the wrong move and it is horrible! I had that happened to me before and it sucked! It made me feel really sad and heartbroken! For me, I'm that type person who wants to talk about face to face and resolve any issues that we might have type of a person! I rather break up face to face than over text message but it didn't happened that way for me! All three happened over text message and I ended up breaking up with my third ex boyfriend over text message as well which was the wrong move for me! For me looking back on it, I have realized that I shouldn't done it in the first place! I shouldn't done it in the beginning but it is done and over with and I moved on from all relationships!! Why does it make me feel this way? The reason why it made me feel this way is because when get broken up over text message or even face to face, it hurts so much! It hurts you to the point you feel like you can't move on from that person because you love them! At some point, you are going to have to move on from that person and you have to focus on you and only you or if you have kids involve, you need to focus on your kids as well!
Cheating!! Yes or no? Why or why not do I think that cheating is right?
Do I think cheating is right? Yes or no? I think cheating is not right! I think it is wrong and disrespectful! When I think about the word "Cheating", I think about like cheating on a test! When you cheat on your boyfriend/ girlfriend or husband/ wife, it is showing that you can't be loyal or that someone can't trust you! Trust to me is a big thing in relationships and the only reason why I said that is because if you don't have trust in your relationship, then how you are going to trust the other person? You can't unless you have trust and open communication and y'all talk about it!! Communication is big in not just relationships but also friendships as well! If you don't talk to your friend about what's going on, how are they going to help you? They can't help you if you don't talk to them! Cheating is wrong and you should never cheat on a person! If you are unhappy in a relationship, then get out of that relationship! Why or why not do I think that cheating is right? I think cheating is not right because you are being disloyal to someone who you love a lot and if you have kids, you are showing them what a relationship looks like and it is so wrong! No kid should ever have to see their mom or even their dad getting cheated on! It is totally disrespectful and wrong on so many levels!! Don't cheat on someone!!
My advice! Why would I give that advice?
If I could give advice about how to get over a breakup, what would my advice be? If I could give advice about how to get over a breakup, my only advice would be take it day by day! Take it slow! Breakups are the hardest things to ever go through and they are hard to get over so quickly and so fast! When someone you love or you thought that person loved you, it hurts you to know that they don't love you anymore and that stinks so much! Just know if anyone out there is going through a breakup, just know that you are not alone and I'm here for you if anyone needs anything! Just take it a day at a time! Everything will be okay! Also, if a friend breakups with you, it can hurt as well as a breakup with a girlfriend or boyfriend as well! When those friends stop talking to you and they don't need you, it hurts for a while! Why would I give that advice? The reason why I would give that advice is because breakups are hard to move on and forget but you don't need to let it bring you down or as a matter of fact, let that person down because you are much better than that! You are loved by everyone in this world and you are so strong that I believe y'all got this! Everyone is so amazing in their own way and don't y'all ever forget that!! No guy or girl should ever bring you down! EVER!!! Don't let anyone bring you down!! When a friend brings you down, it hurts or when they stopped talking to you, it also hurts as well! Don't trust people who you think you can't trust!
In conclusion/ Tip of the day!!
In conclusion, getting over a breakup is a difficult thing to get over! You have to process everything what has happened in your head and not only that, you have to understand why did this person did you like this? It is hard to get over what a person has done to you because they hurt you a lot and they put you through a lot as well and it is very hurtful! Not only it is hurtful for you, but it is hurtful for your family as well because your family is seeing you hurting and it hurts them to see you the way you are! Breakups can hurt a person and trying to get over it is the hardest thing ever and you should never have to go through this alone! My tip of the day is, if you are going through a breakup, just know that you are loved and you always be loved no matter what! For my ladies out there, if you are struggling to move on from a guy or a girl, you are much better without him or her! He or she doesn't deserve your tears and you better catch your crown because it is falling!! You are a queen and you don't need a man or woman to make you happy! For my guys out there, if a girl or a guy breaks your heart, chances are that you don't need them either! You are much better without them and you deserve to be happy!! Don't cry over someone who isn't worth your tears or time!! Also, friends can break your heart to so you might want to be careful who are your real friends are! Just saying!!
Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! Y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog and if you are having trouble moving from your past relationship, it's okay! It takes time and everything will be okay! Take it a day at a time! For today's bible verse, it goes something like this: "People Look At The Outward Appearance, But The Lord Looks At The Heart." -1 Samuel 16:7. I love this bible verse a lot because everyone cares about the looks and stuff like that whereas, the Lord cares about how good of a heart everyone has! In my opinion, looks aren't everything! If you treat me well, love me for who I am, and is there for me when I needed you the most, then we are good! That's it! Looks aren't everything to me! Knowing you have a good heart will mean a lot to me! I hope everyone will have or had a good day, wherever y'all maybe be at in this world! Please, stay safe and always remember my slogan:"Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"! I love y'all and I will see y'all on Wednesday where I will be talking about J-Hope's album called "Jack In The Box". I love y'all and have a good Monday or Tuesday, wherever y'all maybe be at! This blogger queen is out! Peace! 💜✌
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| "Cheating is the most disgusting, hurtful, and disrespectful thing you could do to someone you say you love." -Unknown. I love this because all of this is so true! How can you love someone when you are going to cheat on them? How? That is rude and disrespectful! |
For this week's song of the week, I choose this song called "Burn it" by Agust D aka Min Yoongi or Suga from BTS ft Max! This song is so good and so amazing because when you look at yourself in the mirror, you don't recognize it is you and all your ashes are burning!!
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Bible verse of the day! I love this bible verse so much!! Such a good bible verse! you really love someone when you can't hate them for breaking your heart." -Unknown! I love this quote because when someone breaks your heart, you can't hate them for it and it stinks! You want to hate them for them but you can't!!  Heart Too". -Unknown! I love this quote because it is true! Your so called "friends" can break your heart and it doesn't feel good at all! |
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