Analyzing my poem "When people don't listen to you" poem and blog episode by: Brandee Darden. Wednesday, June 22nd, 2022!! 
Intro to my blog!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! Welcome back to another blog episode! It's your girl aka your blogger queen, Brandee here! I'm so happy to have y'all on my new blog episode! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! I hope everyone is doing well and amazing and if not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Before I jump into today's blog episode, let's talk about my Monday's blog episode! On Monday's blog, I talked about what did I do on my off week? To be honest with my Blogger Dreamers, it felt weird being off for a week because I am used to doing a blog every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday! I never want to take a break from blogging because I enjoy blogging so much! On my break, I enjoyed working on my book which I can't wait to continue to work on it!! I really enjoy my break but to be honest, I'm happy to be back to blogging! I love blogging so much! What I did on my break was watching a mini BTS concert which was nice! Then, Jin put me in feels with his song "Epiphany" the demo version and not only that, he sang it all in English which got me in my feels! It was so good and so beautiful! I love my break and my only advice for the people who overworks themselves is never work yourself to the point where you feel exhausted! It is not good for your health and always take breaks between! Now, let's onto my blog episode of the day! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about my poem "When people don't listen to you" by Brandee Marie Darden aka me! I will talking about what is this poem about? Why did I write this poem about? When I try to talk to someone about how am I feeling or whatever I am going through and that person isn't listening , how does that make me feel? Why does that make me feel a certain way? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about someone who is like a "brick wall", what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? What is the significance behind my poem and my advice that I gave to my Blogger Dreamers? Why is it so significant? Now, let's get started! Shall we? We shall!
Talking about my poem! What was going through my head when I was writing this poem? Why was this that going through my head?
I wrote a poem called "When people don't listen to you" and it goes like this:
"When people don't listen to you" by: Brandee Darden.
"When you try to talk to
people or when people don't listen to
you, it feels like you are talking
to a brick wall! It feels like
you have to keep everything in
because you have no one to talk
to and it stinks! You wish you could
talk to someone like a parent but
you can't because they won't listen
to you!! Try to find friends who
care about you or who might listen
to you"!!
-Love,
Brandee Darden.
Poem written on Tuesday, May 10th, 2022! What was going through my head when I was writing this poem? The things that were going through my head was when I try to talk to people who are around me, I feel like they are trying to ignore me or I feel like they don't want to talk to me at all which I'm not going to lie, that actually hurts a lot. I am that type of a person who wants to tell someone that I'm hurting or just something exciting in my life! Why was that going through my head? The reason why it was going through my head is because I know how it feels to be ignored or no one doesn't hear you! I know how it feels and it hurts so bad but just know that you are never alone!
What is this poem about? Why did I write this poem about?
What is this poem about? This poem is about when you try to talk to someone like a friend or even someone in your family and when you are trying to talk to them, they are not listening to you and instead of them not listening to you, they are ignoring you! That feeling of being ignored can be hurtful to a person because sometimes, they think they can be a burden on someone and that can hurt someone a lot! Sometimes, when someone doesn't want to listen to you, they seem not to care or they don't care because they are not interested in what you have to say and it stinks! You need to find someone who would listen to you and understand how you are feeling because there is people out there who would listen to you and be there for you no matter what and who is willing to listen to you no matter what! Why did I write this poem about? The reason why I wrote this poem about is because when you thought you had someone to talk to or they thought they were going to be there for you but all of the sudden, they are start to ignore you and not being there you! It hurts a person a lot and it feels like you are talking to a brick wall which it stinks! I mean I have people in my life who are like that! I have a few people who are like talking to a brick wall and they don't care to listen to you because they whether ignore you and not listen to you on what you have to say or they don't care about how you are feeling because it is simple as they don't care about how you are feeling or they don't have any empathy for you at all which stinks because you need in your life because yo need people who are caring and if you need someone through a hard time, you need someone who would listen to you! You are never alone!!
My feelings/ Why does that make me feel a certain way?
When I try to talk to someone about how am I feeling or whatever I am going through and that person isn't listening, how does that make me feel? Honestly, when someone isn't listening to me, it hurts! It feels like I'm talking to a brick wall because that person isn't listening to you or they don't seem care and for me, I want someone who would be there for me or someone who would comfort me through my hardest times! I want someone who would be there for me even when I don't want anyone there for me! Sometimes in life, you would have people who would be there for you and care about you but you meet those people who doesn't care about you! If you meet those people, walk away because they don't care about you at all or your feelings! When I try to explain to someone how I am feeling, it feels like no one cares because it feels like no one cares about my feelings and it stinks! It does hurt so much! Why does it make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because I want someone in my life who is willing to listen to me even though it might sound dumb or I need someone's shoulder to cry on and not having someone who isn't willing to listen to or be there for you hurts so much! It hurts me to know that I know people that are like that! I feel like I don't need those type of people! They aren't worth your time and don't waste your time or tears on those people!!
My advice/ Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers?
If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about someone who is like a "brick wall", what is my advice? If you know someone who is like a "brick wall", my only advice is to let them be a brick wall because if you know someone who won't listen to you because they don't want to be there for you through your hardest times or doesn't want to listen to you because you are depressed or you suffering from your depression, find someone who is willing to listen to you because those people matter! If you find those type of people who is willing to listen to without any judgment or who would lend their shoulder for you to cry on, then that person is the right person to have in your life! Never let person go because it is hard to find someone who would listen to you or judge you! Sometimes, you can't talk to your parents about certain things because they might think you are making something up or they will let go one ear and out of the other! You need someone who is willing to listen to you and cheer you up when you sad not someone who brings you down! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I feel like you don't need those type of those people in your life! The people that you need is someone who is willing to listen about how depressed you are not having someone would tell you to "get over it" talking about your mental health issues! Imagine someone in your family telling you to "get over it". That hurts and it can mess with you! Don't let anyone hurt you like that!
The significance/ Why is it so significant?
What is the significance behind my poem and my advice that I gave to my Blogger Dreamers? The significance behind my poem is this poem means a lot to me! It's not a poem that I wrote based on how am I feeling but it was based on true events that I have happened in my life! When I try to talk to someone, I get ignored or interrupted or no one doesn't listen to me and it hurts me so much! I don't like that feeling of being ignored, interrupted, or even someone who doesn't listen to you! Those feelings stink and it can hurt a person a lot! I don't like when I try to talk to a person about my feelings, it feels like they don't want to listen to you because it feels like no one cares and it hurts so much! The significance behind my advice is you are going to meet someone who is like a brick wall! They are going to let it go one ear and out the other and they acknowledge how you are feeling because according to them, your feelings don't matter and that truly stinks! Just to let you know that your feelings do matter! It just that person or people don't care about your feelings because they might care about their feelings only and that's it! Why is it so significant? The reason the why my poem and my advice is so significant is because I have been through a point in my time where I had people interrupt me or even ignore my feelings because they think my feelings are not as important as they should make it out to be! I feel like if I tell someone how I am feeling, that person isn't going to listen or they won't care because my feelings don't matter to someone and to think about that kind of hurts! Wait! No, scratch that! It does hurt because I feel like everyone's feelings should matter and your feelings do matter!
In conclusion/ tip of the day!
In conclusion, you are going to have people who don't care about your feelings or who don't validate your feelings and if they don't care about your feelings, then they don't care about you! Your feelings do matter and you shouldn't have to feel ignored or feel like you are talking to a brick wall! You should have people in your life who is willing to listen to you no matter what! I'm here for anyone if no one doesn't want to listen to you! I'm willing to listen to someone because your feelings matter to me and I care! My tip of the day is if someone isn't listening to you and they are not validating your feelings, then they don't care about your feelings one bit! Everyone's feelings matter to me and I want to make sure that everyone would be heard and I will make sure to hear you out because my Blogger Dreamers mean everything to me! I love each and one of y'all so much and I want nothing but the best for my Blogger Dreamers! Y'all's feelings matter to me and I care about y'all so much! I love y'all so much!
Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! Just popping in and remind y'all that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! You don't to feel alone and feel like your feelings don't matter because they do matter and you should always feel loved no matter what! For today's bible verse, it goes like this: "Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, and faithful in prayer". -Romans 12:12. I love this bible verse a lot because no matter what, always have joy in life no matter what! Whatever you are going through, always have joy in your life! Always be patient no matter what! Wait for your turn and wait patiently! Patience is key! Always have faith when you are praying and believe that prayer will work because I believe in prayers! I love y'all so much and never forget the slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams"!! I love y'all so much and always stay hydrated! Please, stay safe and don't get sick! I love y'all and I will see y'all on the next blog episode on Friday! Your blogger queen is out! Peace! ✌💜💜
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| "The most basic of all human needs is the need to understand and be understood. The best way to understand people is to listen to them." -Ralph G. Nichols. I love this quote so much I feel like everyone needs to understand what a person is going through and I feel like if listen to that person, you will completely understand them! |
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My bible verse of the day!!   listen with the intent to understand. Most people listen with the intent to reply". -Stephen R. Covey. I love this quote because if people listen to you, they are going to give you a reply and I think that is important! It is good to have people who will respond to you!  to a person when they look at you, not just when they're talking to you." -Unknown. I love this quote because when you listen to someone, not only you are looking at them but you also listening to them and I think it is important to listen to them and looking at them as well. |
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