Analyzing my poem "People who give up on you". By: Brandee Darden. Blog episode on Friday, May 27th, 2022! 
Intro to my blog!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the queen of blogging, Brandee is here! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! I am so happy to have y'all here on a new blog episode! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Who's ready for a new blog episode? I know that I am! Before I get into today's blog episode, let's talk about Wednesday's blog episode! Shall we? I think we shall! On Wednesday, I talked about my poem "Self Doubt". When I think about the word "self doubt", I think about the times when I was doubting myself because I had people doubt me through my entire life and that stinks because if you have people around you who doubted you then obviously you are going to doubt yourself and you are not going to have any faith in yourself. Everyone needs to have faith in oneself because I feel like that is very important to have faith oneself! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about my poem "People who give on you". I will be talking about when I was writing this poem, what was going through my head? Why was that thing going through my head? When people give up on me, how does that make me feel? Why does that make me feel a certain way? If I have any advice about people like your friends or family giving up on you, what is my advice that I would give to my Blogger Dreamers? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Before I start my blog episode, I would love to give a big birthday shout out to my older sister, Brandy! Happy birthday, Sissy B! Thank you for supporting me through my blogging journey! I love you so much! Happy birthday! Now, let's get started with a new blog episode! Shall we? We shall!!
Talking about my poem! What does my poem mean? Why does it mean in that way?
I wrote a poem called "People who give up on you". Before I talk about my poem, I had people give up on me and it is not a good feeling at all! I want people aka my Blogger Dreamers to know y'all are never alone and I'm always here for y'all no matter what! Now, let's talk about my poem! Shall we? We shall! I wrote a poem called "People who give up on you". I wrote this poem on Thursday, October 14th, 2021! My poem goes like this: "People who give up on you". By: Me aka Brandee Darden.
"People who
give up on
you aren't
worth your
time! Those
people who
don't support
for ever reason,
you don't
need them
in your life!
They aren't
worth you
time! Those people
who has been
there for you
since the beginning,
should always
be there for you
no matter what!
They should always
support you and always
listen to you no matter
what! Keep those people
in your life"!
-Love, Brandee D.
The day that I wrote it: Thursday, October 14th, 2021! What does my poem mean? Well, my poem can mean a lot of things! My poem can mean the people who you called your "friends" left you and never texted you or really wasn't there for you in the beginning! Another meaning be your family also can give up on you and don't support you or your dreams at all! My poem can have a lot of meanings but the one thing for sure is that when you have people who aren't there for you and those people gave up on you, they don't care about you or your dreams! You don't need those people who give up on you! You need people are very supportive and be there for no matter what! You don't need people who don't support you at all and who gave up on you! That's not a real friend or a family member! Why does it mean in that way? The reason why it means in that way is because I had people who gave up on me and to be honest, it hurt me but at the same time, I didn't care because I know that I had more people who supported me and was there for me no matter what happened in life! I have a lot of friends and family who supported me no matter what and I'm truly grateful for that! I'm blessed! Those people who left you and gave up on you don't deserve to be in your life! They aren't worth your time and tears! THEY AREN'T WORTH IT!! Stick with the people who are there for you no matter what!
My thoughts!
When I was writing this poem, what was going through my head? When I was writing this poem, there was a lot of things going through my mind! The first thing that was going through my mind was remembering the people who left my side and never supported me! They gave up on me and when you called that person a friend, you thought you could trust them! Right? Nope, you can't trust them because they gave up on you and stop supporting you! It hurts someone to know that person that you thought you could trust or supported you, but they decided to give up on you but you never you gave up on them. It works both ways! If you support me, then I support you but if you don't support me at all, then I don't need that in my life! I need a friend who will support me no matter what! Not just a friend but also family members as well! If your family doesn't support you and they gave up on you, they aren't real family to begin with! The second thing that was through my mind was the hurt and sadness that most of my friends left me and gave up on me but the real friends never left my side and I'm forever grateful for them! To have real friends who didn't give up on you or has been there for you through your hardest times is a blessing in itself! I'm lucky to have those friends who have been supporting me and cheer me up when I am sad or calm me down when I'm angry! I'm lucky! The third and final thing that was going through my head was why would someone give up on a person who is going through a hard time? That to me doesn't make sense! You need a support system who supports you no matter what and if no one is there for you, I'm here for people!
Why was that thing going through my head?
The reason why those things were going through my head is because when you think about have people by your side or your friends, you think to yourself "They are always going to be there for me and never give up on me". That is what you are thinking! Well, your thinking is can be wrong or right, depending on the person who you can trust and who you think will be there for you! With some family, I had my doubts about who was going to be there for me or giving up on me, but as time goes on, I realized I know who is there for me and who isn't and that goes for my friends as well. After I graduated from high school, most of my friends gave up on me but 3 of my friends who I was friends with while I was in high school stayed by my side and never gave up on me! The people who thought you could trust will show their true colors or they might not but you never know who will give up on you or who will stay by your side. You never know until you see a person's true colors and you might not like it but you never, you really don't know! I am lucky enough to have people who are always by my side forever and I'm lucky enough to have to have people who are always by my side and asking me "if I am doing okay" and even supporting me through my blogging journey for a year! I'm so blessed to have good friends and I can't wait to see what the future has in store for me and friends and our friendship!!
My feelings! Why does that make me feel a certain way?
When people give up on me, how does that make me feel? When people gave up on me, I feel hurt in a way! When I was there for people who needed me and my support, I would make sure that they were doing okay and made sure they were happy, but when it came my turn for comfort or support, I didn't get that from my so called friends but maybe a few or more. It's hurts to know that when you thought you had those friends support but in reality, they are not for you and it hurts you! That's how I felt and honestly, I don't need those friends who won't support me or comfort me! I need people who will be there for me through my hardest times and make sure that I'm okay and that everything is okay whether I am happy or sad or even angry! It doesn't have to be friends! It can also be family as well! Family can give up on you as well and that can hurt a person a lot! Why does that make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because when those so called friends or family say "I'm always here for you no matter what and I will never give up on you" but guess what? They turn their back on you and you realized that they are being so fake that you are tired of looking at them or even talking to them! For me, last night was the final straw and I officially had enough with people hurting me and telling me "they are always there for me and never give up on me" but, they have hurt me from time to time and honestly, I'm over it! For now on, I am going to focus a lot on me and people who are there for me no matter what! I am need to stop getting hurt and focus on the good things in life instead of focusing on the negative things that are going through my head!
My advice! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers?
If I have any advice about people like your friends or family giving up on you, what is my advice that I would give up to my Blogger Dreamers? My advice that I would give to my Blogger Dreamers for people who gave up on you is remember who is there for you in the long run! Remember those people who cheer you up and is there for you, supporting you no matter what! The people who gave up on you aren't the real people that you need in your life! You don't need those people in your life! Those people are toxic and you don't need the toxicity in your life! You need to tell yourself that enough is enough and you need to focus on the positive things rather than the negative things in life! There is real people around you who are more supportive and who will always be there for you no matter what and you need to focus on that! You also need to make yourself happier instead of worrying about who is going to be there before you and you is going to give up on you! You don't need to focus on that! That is the least of your worries! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I feel like a lot tend to focus on people who aren't there for you and that cause a lot of hurt! You need to focus on who is around you and who is being supportive around because those people are going to be there for you on days that you didn't expect at all! Be grateful for those people because there is a lot of people who aren't there for anyone and if that person doesn't have anyone to support them or be there for them, be there for that person and be a friend to them! That's the best thing that you can do for another person! Be there for them!
In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Challenge of the day!
In conclusion, if you have people in your life who are giving up on you and not being there for you through your hardest times, then forget about them! You don't need them in your life! You don't toxic in your life because have toxic people in your life isn't good for your mental health at all! They can bring you down and that is not good for you! If they aren't there for you and not supporting you or your dreams, forget about them! NOT WORTH YOUR TIME! Don't waste your tears on someone or people who are continually hurting you! You need to be your own friend and you need to support yourself! You need to remind yourself that you don't need to give up because you are a lot stronger than that! Don't worry about those people who are hurting you because you are stronger than them and show them that you are absolutely amazing and you are loved by everyone else! Show them you don't need them! Here is my tip and challenge of the day! My tip of the day is be there for yourself and no one else because if people are going to give up on you left and right, then you need to be your own friend and supporter! Support yourself and don't worry about anyone else! My challenge of the day is write down people who haven't been there for you and who gave up on you and put that list in garbage and never look at it again! Forget the hurt they have caused you and be there for the people who haven't caused you any hurt! Most importantly, be there for yourself because you need to be there for you and make sure that you're doing okay!
Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! Y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! Just remember that you need to be there for yourself if anyone isn't going to be there for you! Be there for yourself no matter what! Don't give up on yourself because you are worth so much more in life! My quote for the day is "Life is not about your setbacks. It's about your comeback". -Unknown. I love this quote because whatever you set you back, just know that you can comeback from it and you will get stronger from it! Never give up no matter set you back! I hope everyone will have a great weekend and I hope everyone stays safe! Remember our slogan: "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"! Never give up on your dreams no matter what! I love y'all so much and please, stay safe and have an amazing weekend! Happy birthday to my big sister and my Blogger Dreamer, Brandy! I love you so much, Sissy B! Happy birthday! I will see everyone on Monday! Please, stay safe! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday and I will see y'all on Monday! Your blogger queen is out! Peace! ✌💟💜
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| The quote of the day! "Life is not about your setbacks. It's about your comeback." -Unknown. I love this quote because in life, you will go through so many setbacks but you will comeback with a comeback and you will get through it!! Don't give up!   hurt you and then they will act like you hurt them." -Unknown. I like this quote because people in this world would act like they are victim because you quote on quote "hurt them" when in reality, they hurt you and that's wrong!  remember you only when they need you. Feel privileged that you are like a candle that comes to their mind when they are in the dark". -Unknown. I love this quote because people will need you when they are going through their hardest times but when you need someone, who is there for you? Maybe a few people!  you have to give up on people. not because you don't care, but because they don't". -Unknown. I love this quote because you have to give up on people who don't care about you and that is sad. When people don't care about you, then you don't care about them. That's sad! |
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