Analyzing my poem "fake friends who don't deserve you". Blog and poem by: Brandee Darden. Friday, May 6th, 2022!
Intro to my blog!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! Welcome back to another blog episode! It is your girl aka your blogger queen, Brandee here! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Take it a day at a time! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I hope everyone had a great week and if you didn't that okay because it gets better because I love you and I am here for any of my Blogger Dreamers if they need anything! On Wednesday's blog episode, I talked about ..... Oh! Wait! What did I talk about? Oh! Now, I remembered! I talked about a letter to my past self. I wrote a letter to my past self because I felt like it is important to let my past self go and not dwell or focus on my past self or my past mistakes! It would be hard to focus on that if I am not enjoying the things that I am doing right now! Am I right? Right!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about analyzing my poem "fake friends who don't deserve you" by yours truly, Brandee Darden. In this blog episode, I will be talking about what is this poem all about? Why did I write this poem about? From previous experiences, how does it feel when you get hurt by a friend who betrayed you and wasn't there for you through your hardest times? Why does it feel like that? If I have any advice to my Blogger Dreamers about having faking friends who don't deserve you, what would my advice be? Why would I give out that advice?? Now, let's get started with a new blog! Shall we? We shall get started!
Talking about my poem!! Why did I pick a name for a poem like "fake friends who don't deserve you"?
I wrote a poem called "Fake friends who don't deserve you". This poem is based on a true story! The poem goes like this: "Fake Friends who don't deserve you". By: Brandee Darden.
"Fake Friends who don't deserve you". By: Brandee Darden.
Those "Fake Friends"
who don't deserve
you because they
either hurt you
or betray you!!
You either don't
trust them or
they don't care
about you anymore!
But the truth
is the ones
who are there
for you are
your true friends!
-By yours truly,
Brandee Darden. Let me talk about this poem for a little bit! This poem means a lot to me because what I wrote in this poem is true about what I have been through or what may my Blogger Dreamers might have went through as well. People might of left your side or stopped talking to you! They might of stopped talking to you because you aren't worth your time and that is very harsh for them to do that to you but in reality, the ones who have been there for you aka your real friends are the true people who would stay by your side through your hardest times and help you through anything! Why did I pick a name for a poem like "fake friends who don't deserve you"? The reason why I picked a name for my poem like that is because I went through a lot with my friends left me but the true friends who stood by my side are the real MVPS in my life! I am truly lucky to have them in my life! They are like my stars in my galaxy! I wake up and feeling blessed because I have friends who are very supportive and loving! I'm grateful!!
What is this poem about? Why did I write this poem about?
This poem is about your quote on quote "fake friends" who you thought they were going to be there for you but they turned on your back and betrayed you! When you thought that your friends would be there for you but it turns out that they don't care about you or they stopped talking to you and that hurts a person! Everyone needs to realize that fake friends come and go but the real friends, your real OG will always be there for you no matter what! When I was loosing friends left and right, I realized those friends were really weren't there for me in the beginning and that is ashamed! I realized that those quote on quote "friends" of mine never wished me a happy birthday on Sunday but that's fine because I know they are fake and they are not worth my time! I am not going to be petty and call them out because I don't have time for that! Why did I write this poem about? The reason why I wrote this poem about is because you are going to have friends who you thought will be there for you forever, but they can do something that you can loose trust in them and you will never trust them ever again and that is very sad! When you loose trust in someone that used to be your friend, it stinks because you thought you could trust them but it turns out you can't and it hurts you as a person! Always find friends who you can trust because they are going to be there for you in the long run and I am blessed to have friends who are like family to me! I am so blessed to have friends who have been there for me since high school and they never left me! I am so happy and blessed! But the ones who left me after high school, it is ashamed that I called you my "friend". Just saying!!
From previous experiences, how does it feel when you get hurt by a friend who betrayed you and wasn't there for you through your hardest times? Why does it feel like that?
From my previous experiences, I got hurt by a friend who I thought I could trust and them being there for me and I thought they were going to be there for me in a long run but I lost complete faith in them and I literally lost trust in them because they hurt me so many times. I never thought in a million years that I would loose faith or trust in somebody until that person hurt me. I had a lot of friends in high school but after high school was done, most of friends left me! The ones who didn't leave me after high school, I am so blessed they didn't because they have been supporting me through everything and I am so lucky to have their support! The ones who came into my life at a time where I felt like I didn't have anyone, I am truly blessed and grateful! I'm lucky to call some of my friends my family! Why does it feel like that? The reason why I lost complete faith and trust in that person is because when you put complete trust and faith in that person and all of sudden, they did something that you are like "nope. I can't trust you anymore", it hurts you as a person! When you have been there for that person through the hardest time in their life but when you need someone, it feels like no one is there for you and it stinks! It is also hurtful as well! For me, it is hard to trust someone because I have trust issues but there are a few friends of mine who I can honestly trust because when I have friends where I can trust them with all my life and I had friends who has hurt me but they end up apologizing to me and honestly, I love when a friend apologizing to me because it is showing how sorry they are and how much they mean to you in a way! I have a ton of friends who are like family and if something bad happened to them, I would be devastated because those friends who are like family are the most important people in my life and I would be hurt if something bad happened to them because they are like family to me!!
If I have any advice to my Blogger Dreamers about having fake friends who don't deserve you, what would my advice be? Why would I give out that advice?
If I have any advice to my Blogger Dreamers about having fake friends who don't deserve you, what would my advice be? My advice that I would give to my Blogger Dreamers is drop those fake friends! If they haven't been there for you through your hardest times where you need someone to lean your shoulder on or support your dreams, then you don't deserve them at all! Your so called friends shouldn't be the reason why you cry at night! They shouldn't be the cause of your tears! You don't deserve those friends because you deserve so much better and you deserve people who are going to be there for you in the long run! You deserve to have friends who is like family to you! I was fortunate blessed to have an amazing group of friends who I can call "family". I have friends who are younger than me who call me their older sister because I want to protect them as if they are my siblings and I want what is best for them and not to get hurt in the long run! I want them to make the right choices in life, not the wrong choices! Why would I give out that advice? The reason why I would give out that advice is because I feel like it is important to have a friend or friends who are there for you through your hardest times or there to comfort you! I feel like if those friends don't care about you, drop them because they aren't worth your tears anymore! Don't cry over spill milk because you can clean up spill milk and you can leave those friends who definitely don't deserve you because they don't! Don't trust that person who hurt you anymore! Your tears aren't worth the things that they put you through! Don't give them your tears to that person! Instead, waste your tears on someone who is worth crying over! Just a suggestion!!
In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?
In conclusion, friends are going to come and go out of your life but you are going to have those real friends who are going to support you through everything or tell you that they are so proud of you. You are going to have those friends who are going to read through you and say "you're not fine". I have those friends who can read me like a book but I also have family who are also like that as well! When you have friends and family who are like "you're not fine. What's wrong"? type deal, it makes you feel good to know that you have people who are caring and love you for who you are! It makes you feel good to know that they will be there for you and support you through everything! I am so lucky to have friends and family who are loving and supportive! I'm lucky enough to say "I have a big support system that are my family and friends". I feel so loved and so supportive and very lucky! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is find friends who will support you and love you for who you are because the person that you are is the most amazing person ever and you are loved by so many people! Find friends who you can call your family it such an amazing to call those friends your family! My question of the day is Have you been in a situation where most or even all of your friends left you when you were going through a hard time? Did they ever stop talking to you? Why did they stop talking to me? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read y'all's comments down below! Just know that you are not alone! I'm here for anyone who needs support and love! I will give anyone love and support if anyone needs it! This Blogger Queen will support anyone and give anyone love if they need it! I love y'all so much!!
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