23 facts about me that y'all might or might not know about me!! By: Brandee Darden!

                        💟23 facts about me y'all might or might not know about me! By: Brandee Darden. 💜💕 

Intro to my blog!!!

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! It's your girl, Brandee back with another blog! It's Monday already again? OMG! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! I hope everyone had an amazing weekend and I hope everyone had a good week! Well, it's Monday and y'all know what that means! That's right! It is time for a new blog! Last week, I talked about the end of the year, my blogging experience, and my poem "Every Smile Has a Secrete". Honestly, the way I can describe my end of the year is as crazy and full of ups and downs. There was good moments and there was moments that I am not proud of but I managed to get through those moments and I am so proud of myself! My blogging experience has been an amazing experience so far! I am so happy that I am going through this experience and sharing my stories with everyone! I am still shocked about my blog on my 1st personal blog page reached 201 readings! To me, that is a lot of people who are supporting me and it means a lot to me! My poem "Every smile has a secrete", is about people who smiles at times and they are hiding behind a fake smile because they are acting so strong and their smile is telling a secret. Their smile could be hiding that they might be going through a break up or something worse. Whatever you are going through, just know that you are not alone and you have people supporting you! For this weeks blogs, I will be talking about 23 facts about me that y'all might or might not know about me, my bucket list, and my poem, "Dear Past Me". For today's blog, I will be talking about the 23 facts about me that y'all might or might not know about! I will be talking about what are 23 facts about me that y'all might or might not know about me? Why are these facts that you might or might not know might be important for y'all to know? What is so significant about these facts? When I mentioned a fact about "If you make me angry or upset, you will end on my bad side". What do i mean by that? Why did I mean by that? Now, who is ready for a new blog? I know that I am ready for today's blog! Should I get started? I think I shall get started!! 

My 23 facts that y'all might or might not know about me!!! What are my 23 facts about me that y'all might or might not know about me? 

The 23 facts that y'all might or might not know about me is: fact #1- My all time favorite Kpop group is BTS! I love BTS with all my heart and soul! I got into them a little bit in 2018 but in 2019, they changed my life forever! Fact #2 is my signature color or my favorite color is Hot Pink! It can't be any pink. It needs to be hot pink! The way that I can describe that color to me is very sassy but very out there. I have always been that person who is very out there and I am that person who doesn't want to blend in with everyone! Fact #3 is I am that person who doesn't blend in with everyone but I am that person who has her own style and she wants to go with the flow! I live my life how I want to! Yes, I do follow the rules but I love taking chances and I love the fact that it's my life and I can live how I want to rather people like it or not. Life is all about taking chances and it is about living your life without fear, so take chances and be okay with it! Fact #4 is when if someone makes me upset or makes me so angry to the point where they broke my trust or say something I don't like or agree with, they will end up on my bad side! If you say something that I don't agree with or if you mention anyone from my family, you will end on my bad side and you will stay on that side until you apologize to me and you show me that you're sorry! Fact #5 is I want to travel around the world and become an author and a motivational speaker. I want to see different parts of the world and visit different countries! I would love to speak to people my different past experiences and tell them what I went through! Fact #6 is I am a total daddy's girl! Don't get me wrong, I love my mom and my bonus mom more than anything in this world, but when it comes to my dad, I am his baby girl and I will always be his baby girl no matter what! Fact #7 is I have trust and abandonment issues! When it comes to trust and abandonment issues, when people tell me "I will always be there for you no matter what or you can trust me no matter what", but they don't really mean that and they just leave and hurt you no matter what and that's why I don't like getting attached to people because at the end of the day, they are going to leave me no matter what and they are going to break my trust! Fact #8 is I would love to travel to South Korea, The Philippines, The Netherlands, and so many other different countries! The reason why I want to visit those countries is because I want to see the different cultures and see what is so different in each country than here, in the United States!! Fact #9 is when I blog or when I write ideas and poems, I love to listen to soft Kpop music because if I listen to Kpop songs with a beat with it, I might loose focus and I might get distracted. Fact #10 is I love my family and friends a lot. When it comes to my family and my friends, I love them a lot! They are very supportive and I know that they will always be there for me no matter what! Fact #11 is my favorite girl Kpop group is BlackPink! I got into BlackPink in 2019 but I became a Blink last year! I don't remember what month or day but I know I love them and their music so much! They have very good fashion and I also love their makeup as well!! Their makeup and fashion is so amazing! I love them so much!! Fact #12 is when I think about my future, I think about me being happy traveling around the world with someone by my side and having two kids. All I want to be in the future is happy, traveling around the world with my significant other and I want two kids. I love kids so much and I would love to have kids in the future!! Fact #13 is I love my great nieces and nephews so much! My great nieces and nephews are my world and honestly, I love being a great aunt! I am proud to be a great aunt and I wouldn't trade my great nieces and great nephews for the world because they are my world!! Fact #14 is when I am blogging, I feel happy to share my stories and to share what I went through all through my life! Blogging has given me a platform to share my stories and share what I went through!! Fact #15 is I am the baby of my siblings and my bonus siblings! Yes! I am the youngest out of my mom's kids, my dad's kids, and I am also the baby from my bonus mom's kids. I love being the baby at times but at the same time, it can be annoying because I feel like everyone sees me as a baby still not a grown woman! Fact #16 is I love makeup and creating makeup looks with my outfit concepts! I think it is so fun creating makeup looks and seeing how they will look with the outfit! Fact #17 is I prefer fake flowers over real flowers because real flowers die while fake flowers stay alive for a long time! Fake flowers are so pretty and I would put fake flowers all over my future home one day than real flowers because I don't have a green thumb and I can't keep real flowers alive!! Fact #18 is I would love to go to a BTS concert and meet BTS in person! Ever since I got into BTS, I became a huge fan and ever since then, I would love to meet them in person. I have watched their live performances online, but nothing can't compare than wanting to watch it live in person and wanting them to steal my phone and take a selfie of them on my phone! That would be a dream come true! Like, I would die if I saw them take a selfie on my phone! Fact #19 is I would love to meet my online friends one day! If I ever met my online friends, I would cry my eyes out because I wouldn't believe it that I would meet them! It would be the best day ever!!! Fact #20 is growing up, I had people doubt me and never believed in me. Yes! You read that sentence right! I had people doubt me and telling me that I couldn't do something because of my learning disability but I showed them that I could do it and I showed them that I never gave up! Fact #21 is I don't like the word "bye". When I think of the word "bye", I think of not seeing or talking to anyone again! When I text my friends or family "talk to you later", I will talk to them again very soon and I want my family and friends to know that bye is forever and see/ talk to later is temporary! Fact #22 is that I learned how to love myself again when BTS came into my life! When I was going through a hard time in life and I struggled to love myself, BTS taught me how to love myself again by listening to their song "Love Myself". When I listen to that song, it reminds that I should always love myself no matter what and whatever I am going through at this very moment, I love myself for who I am, for who I was, and for who I will become in the future!! Last but not the least, for fact #23 is in the mornings sometimes, I love to make my bed! When I went through a hard breakup last year with my fourth ex-boyfriend, I was mopping a lot and being sad. I told myself instead of mopping and being sad, let's make your bed! So, ever since then, I make my bed almost everyday or when I don't make my bed and the reason why I don't make my bed is because it is my time of the month!! I love making my bed and making it look nice!! 

Why are these facts that you might or might not know might be important for y'all to know? What is so significant about these facts? 

The reason why I think these facts are important for y'all to know is because when you are learning about a person, you want to learn about them as a person and what they have been through! You also want to learn what makes them that type of person! I am that adventurous person who wants to take chances and never be afraid to take chances! I rather live my life fearless than any fear at all! When I think about my life and what I have went through, I think of the risks that I didn't take at all and now, I rather live my life and be happy than not be happy at all! My happiness matters and if people can't accept that at all, then that's their fault, not mine! When I do blog at times, I love listening to soft Kpop music because it calms my nerves and it is soothing to me! I love listening to soft Kpop music and I enjoy listening to it! I also enjoy making my bed as well! I love making my bed look really nice and make it neat!! When I think about me having trust issues and abandonment issues, I think of not trusting a lot of people and I am afraid of getting close to other people because I am afraid of them leaving me and I get into my head with so many scenarios going through my head wondering if they will like me even though I have these types of issues and stuff like that!! The significance about these facts is they are all about me, what I like, and stuff like that! Yes, I might be different from my family but that's makes me who I am as person and I am proud to stand out and not blend in with the crowd! I rather be my own person than someone that I am not. Yes, soft Kpop music calms me down because when I listen to the soft beat of the song then I feel better. I rather feel better than not feel better at all. 

When I mentioned a fact about "If you make me angry or upset, you will end on my bad side." What do I mean by that? Why did I mean by that? 

Yes! I mentioned a fact about me and it is "If you make me angry or upset, you will end on my bad side". What I mean by that is if you say anything that made me angry or upset or you bring my family into our conversation and talk about them, I will get very angry and upset and you will end up on my bad side and you have to show me why I should forgive you and why you should end up on my good side again! The reason why I did mean by that is because I am very sensitive when it comes to my family or even my friends and if someone talks bad about them, I will do whatever it takes to protect my family and my friends because I am not I repeat I am NOT going to listen to anyone talk crap about my family, friends, or even BTS! I don't care! I am a BTS ARMY for life and if anyone talks about our amazing and talented boys, I will protect them and I will say something to that person and put them in their place! I am not going to listen to that person and let them talk crap about BTS, my family, or my friends! I am not going to handle that! I love my family, friends, and BTS and honestly, I am proud to be a big fan of them and also, BlackPink! Both BTS and BlackPink are absolutely amazing and talented in their own way! They have their own way to earn their own success and they are doing it their own way and I am super proud of them! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?

In conclusion, these 23 facts are so true about me! I love BTS and BlackPink! I love to stand out from the crowd and listen to soft Kpop music when I am blogging! Yes, I am the baby of the family! I am proud to admit that I have trust issues and abandonment issues! That's okay! I am who I am and I am proud to be who I am because that makes me different! I rather be different than the same from anyone else! I am unique and I am proud to be unique! I would love to have a partner who would be willing to travel with me and be my support system and tell me "Good luck" before my show and "you did great" after the show! I hope that I can find someone like that! Only time will tell and I believe that I will find a good man for me in the future! I believe in that in all my heart! Here is my tip and question of the day! My tip of the day is stand out from the crowd! Be your own type of person! Never let anyone talk about what you like! Stand up for yourself and be proud of who you are and why you are the person that you are the person that you are today! My question of the day is what are some facts that I don't know about you? Let me know in the comments down below! I would love to know more about my Shinning Star Butterflies!! 

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog for today! I hope and pray you learned a lot more about me! I also hope y'all enjoy this blog! Just know that I love y'all and I care for each of my Shinning Star Butterflies so much! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Please, stay safe and keep yourself warm! I love y'all so much! Enjoy your day or night, whatever it maybe be for y'all! Stay Gold! Shine Like A Bright Star that y'all are! Fly like a butterfly and chase your dreams and never be afraid to be who you are! I💛y'all and stay safe! See y'all on Wednesday! Peace! ✌

BTS, my favorite Kpop band of all time! I love these men so much! I love their music so much! They are so talented and their music has special meaning to it! I love them so much!

BlackPink, my favorite girl Kpop group ever! I love their outfits and I love their makeup a lot!! They are so talented! I love them so much! I would love to be friends with them!! 

                                 My favorite song by BTS! This song reminds me that I don't need to have permission to dance and I love to dance! My room is my stage and if I want to dance, I can dance if I want to! I don't need to have permission! 

                           My favorite song by BlackPink! I love this song because this song reminds me that I can do anything without people telling me that I can't do anything! I will show people that I can do it and I am proud that I can do it. How you like that, Haters?? 

"Life is a 
journey to be
experienced, 
not a problem 
to be solved".
-Winnie The Pooh. I love this quote because life is about experiences and it is about enjoying those experiences! Experience what you want to enjoy and don't let anyone stop you! 

One of my favorite soft Kpop song that I love to listen to by Winner! This song is called "Fool" by Winner! I love this song because when I think about the song, you are fool because you believed in someone who you thought they will be there for you and you are fool because they left you!