💜 Blog: My main reasons why I want to inspire others? By: Brandee Marie Darden! Wednesday, 8/30/23! 💜 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode!! I'm so happy to have y'all on a new blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is going on in your life, just know that you're not alone in this world and whatever you are going through, I'm here for y'all, no matter what because I care and I will always care about y'all no matter what! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Before I get into today's blog, let's do a recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about the words "blending in". When I think about those words, I think about being a copycat or you want to be like everyone else in society and the truth is you should never be like someone else because you are amazing as you are and you should always be who you are, no matter what! Instead of blending in, you should stand out! It's okay to stand out than to blend in! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, the blog is called "Talking about the words 'blending in". I love y'all and I hope y'all can check it out! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about my main reasons why I want to inspire others? In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I had to pick my top 3 main reasons on why I want to inspire others, what are those main reasons? Why are those my main reasons to inspire my Blogger Dreamers around the world? Who are my top 3 people who I look up for inspiration? Why are those people my inspiration? What are ways to inspire others? Why are those ways to inspire others? If I could give out any advice about inspiration, what would my advice be? Why would I give out that advice? Now, without any further ado, let's get our blogging brain going and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

The word "inspiration". When I think about the word "inspiration", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind? 

When I think about the word "inspiration", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "inspiration", a lot comes to my mind! When I think about the word "inspiration", I think about the people who have inspired me to never give up and keep fighting no matter what! The 2nd and final thing that comes to mind is when people tell me that I'm inspiration! When people tell me that, I feel honored! It makes me happy!! Why does it come to mind? The reason why the 1st thing comes to mind is because I had people in my life that had told me to "never give up! Keep fighting! You got this" and every time I want to give up, it reminded me that I need to keep going and to never quit!! The 2nd and final reason why the 2nd thing comes to mind is because when people tell me "you're an inspiration" or "you have inspired me", it makes me feel happy and it makes me so happy that I can inspire people in whatever I do!! I will always continue to inspire others, no matter what!! 

My top 3 main reasons why I want to inspire others!! 

If I had to pick my top 3 main reasons one why I want to inspire others, what are those main reasons? The 1st main reason why I want to inspire others is I want to connect with people and tell them that everything will be okay! When I talk about a certain subject, I want to connect with it and if they do, I'm happy! I never want my Blogger Dreamers to ever feel like they are alone!! The 2nd reason why I want to inspire others is to tell my life stories! When I am telling people my life story through my blogs, I want people to understand where I am coming from and understand if I can get through it, then they can get through it as well! The 3rd and final reason why I want to inspire others is to help others! If I can help one person or even a bunch of people, then I am doing my job right! I don't like seeing people struggle and if I can help people through my blogs, I'm happy because it makes me happy!! 

Why? 

Why are those my main reasons to inspire my Blogger Dreamers around the world? The 1st reason why I want to connect with people and tell them that everything will be okay is because if someone can connect with you and they can connect with how you are feeling or how you want through it, then it feels good to know that you have someone on your side who can relate to you! With me, I want my Blogger Dreamers to know that whatever you are going through, they are never alone and I want them to know that they are loved and I'm here for them, no matter what! The 2nd reason why I want to tell my Blogger Dreamers my life stories is because if I tell my life story, maybe one of my Blogger Dreamers can relate to it in a way! If someone can relate to my life story or life stories, then I am doing a good job! The 3rd and final reason why I want to inspire others by helping them is because I never want anyone to feel they are not alone or they are not heard because I know what that feels like! I know what it is like to be ignored and people not hearing you! Just in case no one has told you this today, I'm so proud of you! Keep pushing you because you got this and I believe in you, no matter what! 

3 people who inspire me! 

Who are my top 3 people who I look up for inspiration? The 1st person who I look up to is no other than my favorite Kpop band in the entire world is BTS! Yes! When I am hard on myself, BTS inspires me to never give up and to always keep trying no matter what! If they can't give up, then I can't give up either! The 2nd person who I look up to for inspiration is my wonderful boyfriend, Aaron! My boyfriend inspires me everyday! He reminds no matter how hard life is or how hard can get sometimes, God is on my side no matter what! He is such an inspiration to me!! The 3rd and final reason who I look up to is my fandom, my Blogger Dreamers! Every time I work on a blog, I think about my you guys! Without any of y'all, I don't know where I would be! Some of y'all have been there for me in the beginning but some of y'all just started following me or reading my blogs and that's okay because y'all make everything amazing to me and I can't thank you enough for inspiring me and being an amazing fandom that I could ever ask for!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart! 

Why inspire me? 

Why are those people my inspiration? The 1st person who inspires me is BTS and the reason why they inspire me is because they remind not to give up and to always keep trying, no matter what! They remind if I keep trying, I will never quit! The 2nd person who inspires me is my boyfriend, Aaron is and the reason why he inspires me is because I will have days where I am extremely hard on myself but he reminds that he will never leave me and he will continue to support me, no matter what! He reminds me that I'm loved and he will always care about me, no matter what! No matter how hard we live, he still continues to make me happy and I'm so blessed that God gave me this man!! Thank you for inspiring me, my love! The 3rd and final person who inspires me is my Blogger Dreamers and the reason why they inspire me is because without them, I don't know where I would be without them! I don't know where I would be without their support or just them being there for me through my hard times! I truly love y'all so much! Thank you!

Ways to inspire others! 

What are ways to inspire others? The 1st way to inspire others is to spread affirmation or positive words! If you see someone struggling, inspire them to never give up and to always keep going no matter what! The 2nd way to inspire others is help them whatever they are going through! If you see someone struggling, help them with anything they need help with! If they need any advice, you can try to give them advice! It might inspire them! The 3rd and final way to inspire others is being you! If they see you being yourself, it can inspire them to be themselves! Always be yourself, no matter what! It's okay to be quirky and different! I am different and I'm proud of being different!!

Why? 

Why are those ways to inspire others? The 1st way to inspire others is to spread affirmation or positive words and the reason why that is a way to inspire others is because your words can inspire a person to push through their day and to never give up and quit! Your words can help inspire someone! The 2nd way to inspire others is help them whatever they are going through and the reason why it is the 2nd way to inspire others is because by you being there for someone can inspire them a lot! You just supporting them and cheering them on can help them and that is what people need these days! The 3rd and final way to inspire others is being you and the reason why it is the 3rd way to inspire others is because if you be yourself, it can help others be themselves as well and you should always be yourself and be proud of who you are because just by being yourself is amazing within itself and you are doing amazing!! 

My advice/ Why? 

If I could give out any advice about inspiration, what would my advice be? My advice about inspiration is inspire others just by being the person that you are! By you being you can be an inspiration within itself and that can be amazing! I love being who I am as a person and if I can show people that I am just being who I am, then I'm doing my job correctly and I'm proud of myself! I want to continue to inspire others and I will continue to do that! Why would I give out that advice? The reason why I would give out that advice is because I want my Blogger Dreamers to know if you can be yourself and inspire others, then you are doing a good job and you should be proud of yourself! Never give up and never stop trying to inspire others!! 

In closing/ Question of the day? 

In closing, I never thought in my entire lifetime, I would hear people telling me that "I'm an inspiration". When people tell me that, it makes me feel good because I just want to help people with my stories or help to connect with them! BTS has inspired me in so many ways where I really can't tell y'all! My boyfriend has been my biggest support system when I felt like I had no one and I am so blessed to have someone like him! Everyday, I think about my Blogger Dreamers because I want them to know that they are never alone and they are loved! Everyone here at the Blogger Dreamers is loved and I will continue to inspire y'all no matter what and I want to say a huge thank you for inspiring me! Y'all are such a huge inspiration to me and thank you so much! Always continue to inspire others the way you want to inspire others because your inspiration can go a long way! So, my question for my Blogger Dreamers is if y'all had to pick 3 people who inspires you, who are they? Why do they inspire you? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read y'all's comments!! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode because I know that I did! Waking up everyday and knowing that I can inspire someone makes me blessed! I am just a 25 year old woman who loves to make people smile and help them out when they need help! I will continue to inspire others no matter what and continue to help anyone that I can, no matter what! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: In Isaiah 45:22, it says "Turn to me and be saved, all you ends of the earth; for I am God, and there is no other". I love this bible verse a lot because God saved me! I felt lost and I felt alone! I was always there for people and helping them with their problems but God was burden me with "please, believe in me and give up what you are going through and believe in my son" and that's what happened! Please, believe in God and let him lead you the way!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog where I will be doing a happy birthday blog for Jeon Jungkook of BTS! I love y'all and have a happy Wednesday or in other countries, a happy Thursday and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💙

Today's bible verse of the day!! Love this bible verse so much! Such a good bible verse!! 

"People inspire 
you, or they drain you.
Pick them wisely".
-Hans F. Hanson. I love this quote so much because because people can inspire you or they drain you! People can drain you by doing something that can be mean! Pick wisely!! 

"Fill your life with 
adventures, not 
things. Have stories 
to tell, not stuff
to show". -Unknown. I love this quote so much because when you tell people your life stories, you want to tell them about it, not show them! Tell them about your stories, not show them!! 

"Helping one 
person might not
change the whole 
world, but it could
change the 
world for
one person".
-Unknown. I find this quote relatable because if you can change the world for one person, then you are doing something right for that person! Whatever you do for that person, then you are doing something right!! 

People who inspire me on a daily basis!! BTS, my amazing boyfriend, and my Blogger Dreamers!! I feel blessed to have these three people as my inspiration!! 

                                               Blog topic: Talking about the words "blending in", by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Monday, 8/28/23!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are never alone and I'm here for y'all no matter what! Happy Monday or in other countries, a happy Tuesday! I hope everyone had an amazing weekend because I know that I did!! Before I get into today's blog episode and this week's blog episodes, let's do a little recap of last week's blog episodes!! On Monday, I talked about my top 3 female Korean group or soloist whose makeup that I would love to do!! I would love to work with Jisoo from BlackPink! I love her so much and I feel like she would be fun to work with! I would also love to work with Jessi and IU! I could see myself do a colorful look on Jisoo and Jessi and a soft glam look on IU because I feel like IU will look really good with a soft glam look but in my head as well, I can also see her with a bright color makeup look but either way, all of them would look good with any makeup look!! On Wednesday, I talked about Jungkook's 7 concept photos, campaign edition! Honestly, when I saw these photos and the outfits, I wanted to freak out and scream because he looked so good and so handsome!! He looked so good!! On Friday, I talked about my 3 favorite dresses! The dresses that I picked out are amazing and the pink dress with the ruffles was giving me 1950s housewife getting ready for Easter Sunday!! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to check them out, you can check them out on "ilovemakeup17.blogspot.com". Please, go check them out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! Now, for this week's blogs, I will be talking about the words "blending in", my main reasons why I want to inspire others, and a happy birthday blog to Jungkook from BTS! Now, without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why I chose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song as my song of the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about the words "blending in". In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the words "blending in", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? Do I like blending in or standing out in the crowd? Why do I like standing out instead of blending in? What in my advice to all of my Blogger Dreamers who want to stand out instead of blending in? Why would I give out that advice? Why did I chose to talk about today's blog episode? I chose to talk about today's blog episode is because I don't believe in "blending in". I always believed in standing out because I feel like everyone should be different than the same!! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "Do It Again" by Elevation Worship!! I absolutely love this song a lot and I think about how much God has done in my life and he has done it over and over again! He has blessed me with an amazing boyfriend who is so caring and I'm so blessed! Why did I choose this song as my song of the week? I chose that song as the song for the week is because God has blessed me so many times and he chose to do it over and over again and I am so blessed and I can't thank God for blessing me over and over again!! 

Talking about the words "blending in" vs "standing out". What is the difference between "blending in" vs "standing out"? Why is there a difference the two? 

What is the difference between "blending in" vs "standing out"? The difference between "blending in" and "standing out" is with blending in, you want to blend in with the crowd and you want to wear the same thing as everyone else vs with standing out, you want to wear something completely different and you want to have your own style and that's okay! It's okay to have different styles than everyone else! That is what makes you unique and different! For me, I love dressing up and wearing a dress with my white shoes! That makes me different and I am okay with that! Why is there a difference the two? The reason why there is a difference between the two is because when you are "blending in" with everyone else, you are acting like everyone else and you are not acting like yourself but if you "stand out" from everyone else, you are being different from everyone else and that is okay! It is okay to stand out from everyone else! That makes you who you are! I don't like blending in with other people! I like standing out and that makes me proud of who I am!!

What comes to mind when I think about "blending in"? 

When I think about the words "blending in", what comes to mind? When I think about the words "blending in", I think about being like everyone else in the world or a copycat! You want to be like everyone else to the point where you are copying them! You should never be like everyone else! You are your own person and God made you the way you are! You are an unique person and you should never copy anyone else! You are an amazing person and don't pretend to be anyone else that you're not because what's the point of doing that? There isn't a point of doing that!

Why? 

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because God made you the way you are! You don't need to blend in with anyone else! You don't have to be the person next to you or you don't have to wear the same clothes as that person! Every person is different and that's okay! You don't have to blend in or make yourself "fit in" into society because you're different! We are made differently and I love being different because no one isn't like me and I'm okay with that! A lot of girls don't like headbands but I do! A lot of girls don't like makeup but I do! I don't mind being different because I know God made me like this! I don't like parties or drinking but I know people who like doing that but that's fine! That's me! I am just a girl who loves Christian music, Kpop, blogging, writing, and reading her bible! I'm okay with being who I am!! I love being who I am!! 

Blending in or standing out?  

Do I like blending in or standing out in the crowd? With me, I love standing out! I am that type of that girl who likes to wear bright colors and keep to herself! Don't like bugging people unless it is my boyfriend but other than that, I like to keep myself and keep myself busy with other things! I'm not your average 25 year old who doesn't go party or even drink alcohol! I'm just a 25 year who loves to read her bible and work on blog stuff and work on her book!! I'm different and I'm okay with that!! I don't care if I blend in or stand out because either way , I'm happy the way I am and I love being who I am!! I don't care about blending in!! I rather stand out! That's who I am!! 

Why? 

Why do I like to standing out instead of blending in? The reason why I like standing out instead of blending in is because for me, blending in is boring! You are trying to act like everyone else and that's very boring but for me, I don't like acting like everyone else! My relaxing night at home is doing some skincare, read my bible, and listening to Christian or Kpop music and also talking to my boyfriend on Facetime on Mondays during the day and Fridays at night! That's how I like it and I am okay being different from other people because I know God made me the way I am and I love being me!! I'm okay with being different and if people don't like me, oh well! You don't have to like me because I love me!!

My advice! 

What is my advice to all of my Blogger Dreamers who want to stand out instead of blending in? To all of my Blogger Dreamers who want to stand out instead of blending in, here is my advice to you: Be proud of who you are! Be proud of what you like or what kind of music you like to listen to because it's okay to be different! You don't have to listen to the same music as everyone else! You can be who you want to be because God made you the way you are and that's okay! Just be you and don't be afraid of being you! Instead of being afraid who you want to be, be proud of who you want to be!! You are AMAZING and don't forget that!! 

Why? 

Why would I give out that advice? The reason why I would give out that advice is because I think everyone is afraid of being who they want to be and people might make fun of them but if they make fun of you, let them! You be you and be proud of who you are! Don't let people stop you from being you! You are unique and there is one you and there will always be on you! No one isn't going to be you and that's fine! You be you and that's it! Don't forget that! Always love yourself for who you are and don't forget that either! Don't stop being who you are!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, blending in is so boring! Standing out is more fun then blending in! I love standing out because I can be proud of who I am without being afraid of who I am! I love the listening to the music that I love to listen to! I love Kpop music and Christian music! I don't care about listening to either of them! I don't care about who likes me for me or not! If people can't accept me the way I am, then I don't need your presence in my life! I am not going to "blend in". I am alright! Thank you though! I am who I am and I am proud of it! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is be happy to be you because there is one you and that's you! Don't blend in because someone told you to! Don't listen to anyone who tells you "you should blend in" because you don't need to blend in!! Just be you and that's it!! I love y'all so much! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind y'all that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! Don't listen to anyone who is trying to tell you that "you should blend in". Don't worry about blending in because you shouldn't have to blend in! It's okay to be different and you should be proud of who you are! Don't let other people tell you otherwise!! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: In Ezekiel 34:16, it says "The stray I will bring back, the injured I will bandage, and the weak I will strengthen". I absolutely love this bible verse a lot because when you are weak, you will get better by the power of God! God can heal you and get you back to having strength! God is powerful and he will help you get better! Just believe in him!! I love y'all and I hope everyone will have a happy Monday or in other countries, a happy Tuesday and I will see y'all on Wednesday where I will I will talk about my main reasons why I want to inspire others? I love y'all and remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams". Please, take care of yourself and I love y'all! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ☮✌💚

Today's bible verse of the day! This is such a good bible verse and God will strengthen the weak!! 

"Deep in my heart,
I know I am a loner.
I have tried to blend in with the world
and be sociable, but the more people
I meet the more disappointed I am,
so I've learned to enjoy myself, my
family and few friends".
-Steven Aitchison! I find this so relatable I have tried to blend in with everyone but I couldn't but I came to accept that I am not like everyone else! I try to be social but every time I try to talk to new people, I get nervous! I just enjoy my family who care about me, a few friends that I do have, and my amazing boyfriend who I adore so much!! 

My tiktok about "blending in". Don't blend in because you feel like you should blend in with others, but stand out because God made you the way you are!! 

"You Are Designed By
God Not To Blend In, 
But To Stand Out".
-Myles Munroe. I love this quote so much because God made you the way you should be and you shouldn't have to blend in but you should stand out instead because God would want you to do that!! 

For this week's song of the week, I chose the song "Do It Again" by Elevation Worship because God continues to move mountains and he continues to bless me in my life over and over again and I can't thank God enough for all the blessings in my life!! 


 

Analyzing my poem "What kills you makes you stronger", by Brandee Marie Darden!! Friday, 7/28/23

                                                   Analyzing my poem "What kills you makes you stronger", by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date of blog episode: Friday, 7/28/23!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that comes to my mind from makeup to fashion to even personal things like bullying and suicide! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that I love and care about each of my Blogger Dreamers so much! Before I get into today's blog episode, let's do a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about the word "stupid". I don't think it is nice to call anyone stupid because when you call someone "stupid", you are basically telling them that they are not "smart" and that's not right at all! Everyone is smart in their own ways and don't let anyone call you stupid! If y'all would love to check it out, it is called  "talking about the word stupid". Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "What kills you makes you stronger" by me aka Brandee Marie Darden!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about what killed me but made me stronger, what things help me got stronger? Why did those things make me stronger? What is the meaning behind my poem? Why is there meaning behind my poem? What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who might be struggling and who might need help? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers?  Now, let's get into our blogging imagination and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about my poem! What was my feelings when I was writing this? Why did I have those feelings when I was writing this poem? 

On Saturday, March 19th, 2022, I wrote a poem called "What kills you makes you stronger" and here is how my poem goes: "What kills you makes you stronger" by Brandee D. 

"What kills you makes 

you stronger whether it is a 

heartbreak or a breakup or even

losing a loved one! Somethings might 

make us weak but we can get

through it no matter what! We are 

strong! There is somethings that 

might make us weak but we got 

this! We are fighters no matter what! 

Even though there is certain things 

that kill us but because we got through it, we are way stronger 

than before"!

-Love,

 Brandee Darden.

Written on Saturday, March 19th, 2022!! What was my feelings when I was writing this? My feelings when I was writing this poem was I was getting flashbacks when I was writing this poem and not only that, I was feeling sad a little bit because I was remembering what hurt me but it made me stronger than I was before and I am proud of myself for coming this far! Why did I have those feelings when I was writing this poem? The reason why I had those feelings is because there are a lot things that made me stronger than I was  before and I am glad that I got over those things!! I am proud of myself and I will continue to make myself proud, no matter what!! 

Things that help me! 

When I think about what killed me but made me stronger, what things help me got stronger? The 1st thing that killed me was not having a lot of people by my side but what made me stronger was when people would constantly being there for me and I am very blessed to have people who will support me and be there for me! The 2nd thing that killed me was constantly being hard on myself but what made stronger is having an amazing boyfriend who is constantly supporting me and giving me encouragement!  There would be times where I would be so hard on myself and that was hard for me and every time I would be hard on myself, my boyfriend would be encouraging me and telling me nice things! The 3rd thing that killed me was when people would show me their true colors and the thing that helped me  or made me strong was seeing who that person actually was and why I don't need that person in my life anymore! When that person showed me their true colors, it hurt me but it made me realized that I don't need them in my life and I am glad that I don't need that person anymore!

Why? 

Why did those things make me stronger? The 1st thing that killed me was not having a lot of people by my side but what helped made me stronger was when people would constantly being there for me and the reason why it made me stronger is because when you have people constantly supporting you and being there for you, it makes you happy and it will help in the long run and that has helped me through a lot! The 2nd thing that killed me was constantly being hard on myself but what made stronger is having an amazing boyfriend who is constantly supporting me and giving me encouragement and the reason why it made me stronger is because when I have days where I am just being hard on myself and I can't do it, my boyfriend who constantly support me and give me the best encouragement ever and I am very blessed to have him in my life! The 3rd and final thing that killed me was when people would show me their true colors and the thing that helped me or made me strong was seeing who that person actually was and why I don't need that person in my life anymore and the reason why it made me strong is because when people show you their true colors, it made you realize that you don't need them anymore and it shows you that they never cared about you in the first place and that makes you want them out of your life! Don't trust people who show their true colors because they aren't trust worthy and you can't rely on them anymore!!

Meaning of my poem! 

What is the meaning behind my poem? The meaning behind my poem is no matter if you are going through a heartbreak or losing a love one or dealing with life problems, it might hurt or kill us, but at the end of the day, we are warriors and we can get through anything that God gives us! God will give us problems but if you believe in God that can help you, pray to God that he can help you through the storm because God can help you! We are warriors and whatever we going through, we got this! Believe in my Blogger Dreamers! Yes, life isn't easy but at the end of the day, we are going to get through it no matter what and we can't give up! We need to keep pushing through, no matter what and never quit because we can't quit!! 

Why? 

Why is there meaning behind my poem? The reason why there is meaning behind my poem is because in life, we go through hardships or we might lose a love one, but when you lose that love one, that love one wouldn't want to you to be sad! That love one would want you to be happy and live a happy life! As for a heartbreak, don't waste your tears on a guy or a girl because your tears aren't worth being wasted on them and you don't need to be sad on that person! Life is hard for me and for everyone, but we don't need to give up because we need to keep pushing through no matter what! Don't quit and keep pushing through no matter what because you are loved and everyone cares about you!! 

My advice!

What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who might be struggling and who might need help? To my Blogger Dreamers who might be struggling and who might need help, my advice is don't be afraid to ask for help! I am always here supporting you and cheering you on! I will always pray for you because God can hear you cries when you are crying! Please, don't be afraid of help! I want to help you the best way that I can because I want to support you and be your biggest fan! Please, whatever you do, don't give up and keep pushing through! I know that you can do it! You are loved and I'm here for anyone who needs support! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I don't want my Blogger Dreamers to struggle through a lot and I don't want my Blogger Dreamers to give up and quit! Don't be afraid to ask for help or I can even pray for you because God can hear my prayers! Please, don't quit! Your love one who passed on wouldn't want you to give up! Please, don't give up and on the Blogger Dreamers, you are loved and I am here for any of my Blogger Dreamers if y'all need anything because I care about each of y'all so much and I know that I will always be here for each of my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what! I love y'all so much!!

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, there can be a lot of things that can kill us but at the end of the day, we are going to get stronger if we just keep pushing forward through life! Life isn't the easiest thing in the world, but that doesn't mean that we have to give up! In your life, you might have people who might bully you or they might be mean to you, but at the end of the day, you don't need those type of people to push you down and make your life a living heck! Don't let those people bring you down because you don't need that in your life! You do what makes you happy and not worry about others and what they think about you!! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day no matter how hard life can get, God has you and will support you through anything! Give your problems to God and don't give up! Keep pushing through, no matter what! You're loved and I'm here for anyone! I love y'all! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and I just want to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode of today! The moral of this blog episode is when you feel like giving up, don't because my Blogger Dreamers are much stronger than that! I love y'all so much because I want my Blogger Dreamers to know that there is someone in their corner and I will gladly be in your corner! Don't let anyone tear you down! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "If you wake up feeling fragile, remember that God is not, and then trust him to be everything you need today". -John Piper! I find this quote so relatable because when you have been through a lot, God has seen it! If you believe in God, let him help you today because you might be going through a hard time today and God will be there for you today! I pray that everyone will have a good Friday or even a good Saturday! Please, have a good weekend and I will see y'all next week on my makeup and fashion blog page where I will be talking about my favorite outfits overall, favorite outfit and makeup combo, and J-Hope's hair throughout the years! Stay tuned! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜

Today's quote of the day! Let God lead you today! Believe in him because he is an amazing God who will protect you from all evil!! 

My poem I wrote about "What kills you makes you stronger" that I wrote on Saturday, March 19th, 2022! A year go, I remember writing this poem and I remembered a lot of things broke my heart but I kept going and I am so proud of myself!! 

"Don't forget 
while you are
busy doubting 
yourself.
Someone else 
is admiring 
your
strength".
-Kristen. I love this quote so much when you are busy doubting yourself and telling yourself that you "can't do it", someone is admiring you for strength and for how far you have come in your life! Please, don't give up! You're loved and I love you!! 

"Your mind has to be
stronger than your 
feelings or you will 
lose every time".
-Via (Dark Secrets). I love this quote so much because if you put your feelings before your mind, you are going to have negative thought every single time and you are going to lose! Don't let yourself lose but it's not worth it! 

To end the blog episode, for this week's song of the week, I chose "I Can't Stop Me" by Twice! This song is very powerful and no one can't stop me from what I love to do or anything like because if you stop me, I will never give up trying!! 

Talking about the word "stupid". Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!!

                                                 Talking about the word "stupid". Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of the blog: Wednesday, July 26th, 2023! 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that comes to mind! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are loved and I am here for y'all if y'all need anything!! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Before I get into today's blog episode, let's do a recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about my poem "Pain that you are feeling". It doesn't matter what kind of pain that you are feeling, you are feeling some type of way which is sad! No one should ever feel sad or angry or even have pain! If you are feeling that type of way, just know that you are loved and I care about y'all so much! If y'all haven't read that blog and would love to check it out, it is called Analyzing my poem "Pain that you are feeling". Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much!! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about the word "stupid". In this blog, I will be talking about when I think about the word "stupid", what comes to mind? Why does that thing come to mind? How does it make me feel when someone calls me or anyone who I love "stupid"? Why does it make me feel a certain way? What is my advices to my Blogger Dreamers who have been called "stupid" or they feel like they are "stupid"? Why would I give those  advices to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without any further ado, let's get into our blogging imagination and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

My feelings towards the word "stupid". What is my feelings towards the word "stupid"? Why do I have feelings towards that word? 

My feelings towards the word "stupid" is I don't like the word and I will never like that word! When I hear that word, it gets me so many mixed emotions! I don't care if you call something "stupid" but when you call a person that whether it is playing or not, it still gets me upset and mad! I feel you should never call another human being stupid because that's not right at all! Why do I have feelings towards that word? The reason why I have feelings towards that word is because I feel like everyone is smart in their own way! I feel like no one isn't stupid! I think we all learn differently and that's okay because sometimes, we figure it out on our own and that's okay!! 

The word "stupid"! When I think about the word "stupid", what comes to mind?  Why does that thing come to mind? 

When I think about the word "stupid", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "stupid", I think about people who makes awful mistakes that are stupid! I don't associate "stupid" with not being smart! No one isn't stupid! We are smart in our ways and I don't believe that no one isn't stupid! When people make stupid mistakes, they come to regret those stupid mistakes and I know that I have made mistakes that weren't smart at all and I came to terms with that! Don't make stupid mistakes because it's not worth it all!! Why does that thing come to mind? The reason why that thing came into my mind is because I don't believe that people aren't stupid! I will never believe that people are stupid because people are smart in their own ways and I know that I am smart in my ways! People can make mistakes and we need to learn from those mistakes!!

My feelings when people call me or anyone that I love "stupid"!! 

How does it make me feel when someone calls me or anyone who I love "stupid"? When someone calls me "stupid", I'm not going to lie; it hurts me a lot but I stand up for myself because I know that I'm smart in my own ways! When you call someone that I love "stupid", I am going to stand up for them because I know I have people in my family or friends who are smart! I had this one friend who I thought I could trust but I obviously and she called me and my boyfriend stupid and after she brought my boyfriend into it, I blocked her after that! No one calls my boyfriend stupid because he is not stupid at all! Never call people that I love "stupid" whether it is family, friends, or my significant because if you do, big consequences will come your way and you will make a stupid mistake! Just saying! 

Why?  

Why does it make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because you can hurt me all you want and I am going to stand up for myself because I am a big girl but when you bring my family, friends, or even my boyfriend into a conversation that is between you and I and you call any of them "stupid", chances are I am going to stand up for the person that I am love and I am going to make sure that you feel the anger coming out of me! I will make sure you are blocked from my life and I will make sure you will regret that decision forever!! I don't like when people say "you're stupid". It makes me so mad because everyone is smart in their own ways but if you call something "stupid", that's okay but don't ever call someone "stupid" because it is wrong and disrespectful! I will make sure to protect the people who I love! Just saying!

My advices! 

What is my advices to my Blogger Dreamers who have been called "stupid" or they feel like they are "stupid"? To my Blogger Dreamers who have been called "stupid", my advice is you're not stupid! You will never be stupid in my eyes! It might take a while for you to understand certain things and that's okay! You're not stupid! My advice for my Blogger Dreamers who think they are "stupid" is no one isn't stupid! Don't ever call yourself "stupid" because you're not stupid! You are smart and don't y'all ever forget that! Don't let the people in this world bring you down and call you "stupid" because you are smart! Ignore those people and focus on you because you are smart and you are loved! I love each of my Blogger Dreamers so much and all of all are smart! Don't let anyone tell y'all other wise!

Why-advices? 

Why would I give those advices to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give those advices to my Blogger Dreamers is because I know that my Blogger Dreamers are smart in their own ways! Don't let anyone tell y'all other wise! No one should never feel stupid because no one is not stupid! Y'all are smart in y'all's own ways and don't let anyone tear you down because you deserve people around you who see how smart you are and see that you are trying in whatever you are trying! Y'all might not get it the first time or the second time, but you will get it and y'all can't give up! Don't quit trying! Y'all got this! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers! Always keep trying, no matter what! I love y'all so much!

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, no one and I mean no one here at the Blogger Dreamers is not stupid! Y'all are loved and everyone is smart in their own way! It might take you so many tries to do something, but you got this! Don't ever think you're stupid because no one is not stupid! Please, don't think you're mindless because you're not mindless! God gave you a brain for a reason and God gave you talents for a reason as well! Show off your talents and be proud of what you can do! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is everyone here is smart in their own ways! You might make a foolish mistakes, but no one here isn't ignorant! Everyone here at the Blogger Dreamers is smart! Don't let anyone tell you that you aren't bright because you are bright and a clever person! I love y'all so much and don't give up! Y'all got this!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here telling y'all that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone learned that y'all aren't stupid! Don't ever call yourself that because that's not what y'all are! I am going to give y'all a challenge for today: My challenge is don't call yourself stupid! If you do call yourself stupid, write down why you called yourself "stupid". Everyone is clever and don't y'all ever forget that! My quote of the day is "Don't Let What's Wrong With You Define You". -Toby Mac! I absolutely love this quote so much is because whatever what is going on with you in your mind or what kind of mental health problems that you have, that doesn't define who you are as a person! You are amazing and don't ever forget that! I hope everyone will have an amazing day or I hope everyone had an amazing day today! Please, take care of yourself and remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog where I will be talking about my poem "what kills you makes you stronger", stay tuned for that! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜

Today's quote of the day! Such an amazing quote and I love it a lot!! Don't let your past problems or even your mental health problems define who you are as a person because you are amazing!

"Only Fools 
Call Others 
Ignorant or 
Stupid, Due 
To Their Own 
Lack Of 
Understanding".
-Tim Burnell. I don't think you should call people any of these names because it might take a while for people to understand and it is rude to call anyone these names! Don't call people these names!!

"When somebody calls you
stupid, if your face turns
red from anger, it means 
that a part of you believes
in this. When you call a 
wise man stupid, his colour 
never changes".
-Mehmet Murat Ildan. I like this quote because if someone calls you stupid, you would be angry and if someone calls a wise man stupid, his color doesn't change because they are probably used to it and he had to prove it to that person! 

"You even called me stupid in your
verse, and I'm almost agreeing,
for where stupidity is involved, 
you are quite an expert, friend".
-Franz Grillparzer. I like this quote a lot because you are agreeing with that person that you are stupid and to me, no one isn't stupid! 

My tiktok that I did yesterday about "Calling others stupid". Never call someone "stupid" because they get it and you don't!! Don't give up!! 

                                        💔  Analyzing my poem "Pain  that you are feeling" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Monday, 7/24/23! 💔 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's already a new blog episode again? I thought we had one last week? haha! Welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back! So happy to have y'all back on a new blog episode! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! I hope everyone had an amazing and safe weekend! I know that I had a fun weekend!!! Before I get into this week's blog episodes, let's do a recap of last week's blog episodes! On Monday, I talked about making this world a better place! I feel like this world is not safe or anything like that! Not only that, people don't know who God or why Jesus died on the cross? I know why? He did it because he wanted to and he did it because of our sins! On Wednesday, I talked about how to motivate others? We should always motivate others to do their best! I feel like you can motivate others to do their best because that's all they can do! On Friday, I talked about ways to motivate yourself! I feel like we should motivate ourselves, no matter what! Instead filling our heads with negative words, we should fill our heads with positive words! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to check them out, you can read them at "brandeemariedarden.blogspot.com!! Please, go read them! You won't regret it! For this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about two of my poems which are "Pain that you are feeling" and "What kills you makes you stronger" and I will always be talking about the word "Stupid". Stay tuned for new blogs!!! Now, let's get into our blog imagination and get started with a new blog episode! Shall we? We shall! 

Today's blog episode! What is the moral of this blog? Why is that the moral of the blog? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this week's song of the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Pain that you are feeling" by Brandee Marie Darden aka me!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I was writing this poem, what type of feelings was I feeling at the moment? Why was I feeling those feelings at the time when I was writing this poem? When people are in pain, how does that make feel? Why does that make me feel a certain way? If I have any comforting words for my Blogger Dreamers, what would my comforting words be? Why would I give those comforting words to my Blogger Dreamers? What is the moral of this blog? Well, the moral of this blog is when you are going through pain, you feel like you are alone in this world but in reality, you are not alone in this battle that you are going through! You are stronger than you think you are! People think you are doing okay but in reality, you're not and that's okay! Reach out to people and let you know that you're not doing okay! Why is that the moral of the blog? The reason why that is the moral of the blog is because when we go through pain, everyone thinks we are fine but deep down, we are hurting and we are to the brink of giving up because we are hurting so bad! We can't give up because we have so many people who loves us and cares about us so much! It might not feeling like it, but at the end of the day, everything will be okay!! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "I can't stop me" by Twice! This song is such a powerful song and I love the title of the song! Why did I choose this week's song of the week? I chose this song because it reminds me no matter what I do in life, you can't stop me from what I love to do and you can't put me down!! 

Talking about my poem! What is the meaning behind this poem? Why is there meaning behind this poem? 

On May 11th of this year, I wrote a poem called "The pain that you are feeling". It goes something like this: "The pain that you are feeling" by Brandee Marie Darden. The pain that you are feeling 

can be losing 

a love one, a 

breakup, or 

not having 

your significant 

other with

you and that's 

hard! When 

you have been 

crying and 

your heart 

is hurting! The

pain that you 

are feeling is

very hurtful

but you need 

to be strong! 

You got this"! 

-Love, 

Brandee Marie Darden! What is the meaning of this poem? The meaning of this poem is when you are going through pain of losing a love one or through a breakup, it can cause you so much pain and with breakups, not only it can cause you so much pain, but it can cause you so much anger because you are thinking to yourself "what did I do to deserve this" but you didn't do anything! Losing a love one isn't easy either! You are sad and so much pain that you would do anything to get them back and it's not easy! When you don't have your significant other by you, it's hard! You would do anything to have them beside you! I would do anything to have my boyfriend beside me! Why is meaning behind this poem? The reason why there is meaning behind this poem is because pain is an awful thing to ever go through and I feel like no one should ever have to go through pain! I am here for anyone who is feeling like they are alone because you should never feel like you are alone! Don't go through things alone!

My feelings when I was writing this poem! 

When I was writing this poem, what type of feelings was I feeling at the time? When I was writing this poem, the type of feelings that I was at the time were sadness, anger, and hurting! With sadness, I know how it feels when you lose a love one! I have lost so many people who I love and it caused me with so much sadness! With anger, I have been broken up so many times and it's hard! When you get broken up with, you want to be sad but you also want to be angry because that person caused you so much pain and they don't deserve your tears at all! With hurting, you are hurting so much but at the same time, you trying to stay strong for the people around you but it's hard! Hurting is horrible and no one should never be hurting and I feel for any of my Blogger Dreamers who are hurting and I am sending y'all a virtual hug!! 🤗

Why was I feeling those feelings at the time when I was writing this poem?

The reason why I was feeling sadness is because when I lost my grandma, Phyllis or my grandpa, Flex, I was really sad because it hurt me to lose them both but for me, I realized that they are no longer in pain anymore and I don't them to know that I am sad anymore and I just wish I could hug them once more but I know that they are proud of me for how much I have changed my life! The second reason why I was feeling anger is because when someone breaks up with you, you want to be sad but you realized you don't have time to be sad but you are angry because they have caused you so much hurt and you're angry because you have done so much for that person to the point and then, they don't want to be with you anymore which is horrible but you realized, you don't need them anymore and you're fine with that! The third and final reason why I was feeling hurt is because I had people cause me so much hurt that I don't want to trust them anymore! When people caused you so much hurt and to the point that you can't trust them, that hurts but people need to realize that you are hurting and you need to realize that you don't need them anymore! You will be happy without them and you don't really that toxic in your life! You can be happier without those people than those people!! Don't be around people who don't care about you!!

When people are in pain! 

When people are in pain, how does that make me feel? When I see people in pain, it hurts me a lot! I care about people and I want what is best for them but when I see people hurting, it hurts me a lot! I would do anything to comfort them the best way that I can and I will drop anything to help a person who is going through a lot! When I see people in discomfort, I want to comfort them with a hug and tell them that everything will be okay because I know that everything is going to be okay! Give it God and God will be there for you, no matter what! He will comfort you the best way that you can be comforted!

Why does that make feel a certain way? 

The reason why it makes me a certain way is because it breaks my heart when I see people crying because it makes me want to cry as well and I don't like crying! I love and care about people so much and when I see people acting "strong" for others, I want to hug them so much because I care about people and I want to make sure they are okay and not suffering! I hate seeing people sad and it hurts me to others like that! I want what is best for others and I want them to see people happy! I like when I see people happy and smiling because when I see them happy and smiling, I am happy and smiling! I love when people are happy because I am happy and that makes my heart happy!! I love when people are happy and smiling!!

My comforting words!! 

If I have any comforting words for my Blogger Dreamers, what would my comforting words be? If I have any comforting words for my Blogger Dreamers who might be going through a hard time, my comforting words would be you're worthy! You're loved! I'm here to support you! You're absolutely amazing! To the people who might be staying home moms, you're doing amazing! Don't give up! You got this! To my Blogger Dreamers who might be struggling with mental health issues, you are not in this battle! You're doing the best that you can and that's okay! Please, don't give up! I am here and supporting you through everything! I love you! I care about you so much and I'm praying for you!! 

Why? 

Why would I give those comforting words to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give those comforting words to my Blogger Dreamers is because when you see people who are struggling, you want to comfort them the best of your ability and I wanted to give my Blogger Dreamers comforting words! I feel like everyone deserves to have comforting words to help them to get through a hard time and I want to help my Blogger Dreamers to the best of my ability! If I can help 1 or 100 people, then I am doing my job right!! I don't want my Blogger Dreamers to feel alone and I don't want them to feel torn down by people who they thought they "cared" about them, but instead they don't and it sad!! I will always support my Blogger Dreamers because I love them and I want what is best for them!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, the way I can describe pain is an awful thing because when someone betrays you or did something that was completely wrong of them doing, it shows that they are a terrible person to you and you don't need that in your life! People are toxic and you don't need to be in that environment where people are toxic and they don't care about your feelings one bit! The sadness, anger, and being hurt are all of pain and none of my Blogger Dreamers don't need to go through any of that because none of y'all don't deserve that at all! Y'all deserve love and comforting words! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day, cut out people who are toxic and who has caused you so much pain because you are loved by so many people and those toxic people are wasting your energy! Cut them out of your love and focus on what matters the most! I love y'all with all of my heart and I'm here for y'all, no matter what!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! You should never go through pain by yourself! You are loved and don't be around people who don't care about you because you don't need that in your life! People are so toxic and no one needs that because it can hurt your mental health! Don't be around people who are toxic!! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Do Not Mock A Pain That You Have Not Endured". -Toby Mac! I absolutely find this quote relatable because when you see someone in pain and you try to mock it, don't ever do that because don't know what that person is going through until you went through it yourself! I love y'all so much! I hope everyone will have a good a Monday or in other countries, a good Tuesday! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog where I will be talking about the word "stupid", so stay tuned for that! I love y'all and I will see y'all soon! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜

Today's quote of the day! Don't mock someone's pain until you felt it yourself!! 

My poem that I wrote on Thursday, May 11th, 2023! Such a good poem with so many emotions!! 

"Pain changes people,
Some become rude, 
And some become silent".
-Unknown! I love this quote a lot because some people can be rude to you or they can be silent! When people are rude to you, it is because you caused them a lot of hurt! When they are silent, they don't want to talk about it!! 

"Just because I'm strong
enough to handle pain,
doesn't mean I deserve it." 
-Unknown. I find this quote relatable is because just because that person is strong enough to handle the pain that they are going through, it doesn't mean that they deserve it! No one doesn't deserve that pain at all! No one doesn't deserve pain at all!

This week's song of the week! This song is so good and it reminds me that no matter what you do in life or what I do in life, no one can't stop me and I will make sure no one stops me because I will keep going, no matter what!!