Blog: What 3 songs represent my life? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 9/25/24!!

                                       💜   Blog: What 3 songs represent my life? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of the blog: Wednesday, 9/25/24! Dedicating this blog to anyone who is trying to find a song that represents their life!! 🩷 

Intro to my blog!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that comes to mind whether it be about songs or even my poems!! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever you are going through or whatever it is dragging y'all down, just know that y'all are never alone and I am rooting for you! I'm so proud of you and you are doing such a good job!! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Happy Blog Wednesday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but first, a blog recap from Monday! On Monday, I talked about having a few people close to you and I dedicated that blog to anyone who has been by my side and supporting me through my times of trouble or even through my blogging journey! When you have a few close people, it is better that way then having fake people in your corner!! I know who is in my corner and I know who is going to support me through thick and thin!! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check out this blog episode, I will leave the link right here: →Having a few people close to you. Please, go give it a read and I put some valuable advice in there! You definitely don't want to miss it!! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about what 3 songs represent my life? I am dedicating this blog to anyone who is trying to find a song that represents their life!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could pick 3 things that represent my life, what songs represent my life? Why does those songs represent my life? Out of those songs, which song represent my life the most? Why does that song represent my life the most? What is the significance behind me picking that song as a song that represents my life the most? Why is there significance behind that song? Now, without further ado, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

When I listen to music, how does it make me feel? Why does it make me feel a certain way?

When I listen to music, how does it make me feel? When I listen to music, I feel good and sometimes, peaceful! When I listen to music that is more upbeat, I feel like dancing but when I listen to peaceful songs, I feel at peace! When I listen to music, I love it a lot! Music is therapy to me and I love it a lot! Why does it make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because when I listen to music, I feel good and I am in my element which feels absolutely amazing and I absolutely love it!! Music to me is the best therapy in my opinion! I love music and I will always love music, no matter what!! I feel happy when I listen to music!! 

3 songs that describe my life! 

If I could pick 3 songs that represent my life, what songs represent my life? Coming in at #1 song that I would describe my life would be "Testimony" by: Ben Fuller. When I listen to that song, it makes me realize that I have much release on life! What I mean by that is Jesus gives me hope! God leads me in the right direction! I can share my testimony with anyone and tell them that Jesus can do the same thing for you and God can also do the same as well! God gave me a testimony and I am going to share my testimony! The 2nd song that describe my life would be "Stand" by: Anne Wilson! When I listen to that song, I think about standing up for anyone who can't stand up for themselves! I think about being an advocate for someone who is being brought down or bullied!! I am going to stand up for what I believe in and if you don't like it, oh well! I am not just going to stand there and not fight! I am going to fight and fight for what I believe in!! The 3rd and final song that describes my life is "Equal Sign" by: J-Hope! Throughout my entire life, I have treated everyone that I have come in contact with equally and I have been kind to everyone! When I see someone in trouble, I treat them with kindness! We need to learn how to treat others with kindness! We need to learn how to be there for others and learn how to love one another!

Why? 

Why does those songs represent my life? The 1st reason why the 1st song represent my life is because Jesus gave me a hope on life! Despite what I have been through in my life, Jesus died for me! God led me to the right direction and he lead me towards Jesus! He gave me a testimony to share with people who I come in contact with! I can share what God has done for me and he can do the same for you as well, if you just believe!! Let God lead you in the right direction! The 2nd reason why the 2nd song represent my life is because I don't need to sit back and let someone tear me down! Instead of someone tearing me or someone else down, I need to stand up for who I am and fight for the things that I believe in! I rather fight for the things that I believe in or be mocked than sit back and not do anything about it at all! I am going to fight and stand up for what I believe in because God would want me to and I am going to do that rather people like it or not! I don't care!! The 3rd and final reason why the 3rd song represent my life is because throughout my life, I have treated everyone equally! In the song, there is a lyric that says "It costs nothing to be kind" and I truly believe in that with all my heart and soul! It doesn't cost nothing to be kind and if I see someone struggling, I want to help them to make they are okay because I know what it is like to struggle!! Let's help someone in trouble today! 

Song that represents my life the most?

Out of those songs, which song represent my life the most? If I could pick a song out of the songs that I have mentioned, the song the represents my life the most would have to be "Testimony" by: Ben Fuller. Last year, I remembered after service, we were singing a song and all of the sudden, I started crying and I can sense that God wanted me to change my life and he wanted to believe that Jesus died for me and gave me sense of hope in my life instead of believe it in my head! Once me and my bonus mom talked to my preacher, I went home that evening and just pray! Everyday and every night, I would pray and that Wednesday night, I went to the altar and told my preacher and I professed my faith in Jesus! I felt like a weight was lifted off my shoulders that night and I have never felt better! God gave me a testimony to share and I am so glad that God led me to the right direction and Jesus gave me hope in my life knowing that he died for me and that if he died for me, I need to give my life to Jesus! I have seen such a major difference in my life from where I am at today verses where I was 2 or 3 years ago! I am who I am because God led me to Jesus and I pray more and read the Bible more! I am so proud of myself on where I am at today! I can share my testimony with anyone who wants to hear about it!

Why?

Why does that song represent my life the most? The reason why "Testimony" by: Ben Fuller represent my life the most is because when I think about the time where God saved me, I think about my testimony and I think about he led me to Jesus and I am very thankful that he led me to salvation and I am thankful to see how my life has changed from 2022 to now! Things for me has changed! I pray more and I read my Bible more! I started to wear dresses and skirts more which I love so much! I feel like I have changed a lot and I wouldn't know where I would be if I didn't give my life to Jesus! I thank God for the people who came into my life and who have supported me through my spiritual walk and one of those people who have supported me through my spiritual walk is my boyfriend! When I told him about how I got saved, he was a happy boyfriend and to me, that makes me happy! Now, we share sermon notes together and we pray together which is amazing!

The significance!  

What is the significance behind me picking that song as a song that represents my life the most? The significance behind me picking "Testimony" by: Ben Fuller that represents my life the most is I could go back to a time where I wasn't happy with decisions that I was making! I was letting everyone dragging me down and stomp all over me and use me! I was letting the devil getting the best of me until Sunday, March 12th, 2023, I went to Sunday morning church and I enjoyed the message a lot and that same night, we were singing a song and all of the sudden, I started crying and I knew God burdened my heart! We talked to my preacher about me and after that, I went home and changed clothes and had my dinner and from that Sunday on, I started praying a lot more and on Wednesday, March 15th, 2023, I went to the altar and told my preacher that I believed that Jesus died for me and I believe in God and once I did that, I felt a weight off my shoulders and I never felt so freeing in my life! God saved me and lead me to Jesus! Jesus died for me and when I think about the song "testimony" by: Ben Fuller, I think about my testimony and how I can share it with others!! God gave you a testimony for your life and you should share your testimony with someone who might need to hear your testimony! If God gave you a testimony to share with anyone, share it!

Why?

Why is there significance behind that song? The reason why there is significance behind that song is because my testimony means a lot to me and I am willing to share my testimony with anyone who wants to hear it! I want people to know that I am saved and Jesus died for my sins! God led me to Jesus and Jesus gave me this sense of hope and I am so glad that I did! I am happy where my life is right now! Jesus died for all of us and if you have a testimony on how God led you to Jesus, share it with people! Don't keep it to yourself! People deserve to hear about it! I am blessed that I got to share my testimony with my Blogger Dreamers and I am blessed that God gave me a reason to write and do blogs because blogging means a lot to me and everyone has a gift! You might not know it, but everyone has a gift and if you have a gift, use that gift and share that gift with the world!! 

In closing/ Questions of the day? 

In closing, I am happy where my life is at today! I am happy that I can share my testimony with people who reads my blogs and want to know about my testimony! I will stand up for what I believe in and not let anyone bring me down! God wants us to treat everyone equally because you never know what that person is going through until it is too late! For me, I am going to stand up for what I believe in because I used to be this shy girl who would hold back but not anymore because I am stepping out of my comfort zone and I am going to stand up for what I believe in and be the voice for someone who doesn't have a voice! I am not going to let someone treat others ugly because God doesn't like ugly and it is not fair to treat others ugly and treat others wrong!! We need to treat others with compassion and be there for one other! Here is my questions of the day: my question of the day is if y'all could pick 3 songs that represent your life, what songs would that be? Why would y'all pick those songs to represent y'all's life? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read everyone's comments and respond to them! Please! Thank you all so much! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I have grown up a lot! I have changed a lot throughout the past year! I am proud of where I am at today! God wanted me to share my testimony with y'all and I'm blessed that I did! I am going to stand up for what I believe in and not hold myself back anymore! We need to learn how to treat everyone equally and kindly! When we treat people with ugliness, it is hurting their feelings and that's not right at all! Today, tomorrow, and forever, let's be kind to others and be there for the person who is in need because they might need you and they might need Jesus! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from 1 John 2:17 and it says "The World Is Passing Away, And The Lust Of It; But He Who Does The Will Of God Abides Forever". I absolutely love this Bible Verse a lot because this world is passing away and the people around you is falling into temptation and don't be that person who falls into temptation! Instead of falling into sin and temptation, be that person who reads the word of God and shares the Gospel with the people around you! God is powerful and he can change people's lives! He changed mine!! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good Wednesday or in other countries, a good Thursday! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on Friday where I will be talking about what are 3 good qualities in a person? Stay tuned for this blog and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮️✌️🩷😊

Today's Bible Verse of the day! I absolutely love this Bible Verse a lot because this world is falling into temptation and lust and we don't need to fall into that! Instead, we need to fall into God's word and share it with people who might need it because God can change people's lives! He changed my life!

1st song which is "Testimony" by: Ben Fuller. I feel like this song represents my life a lot because Jesus gave me hope and Jesus saved me!! He died for my sins and he died for you as well! 

2nd song which is "Stand" by: Anne Wilson. When I listen to this song, I think about the times where I would be quiet and didn't say anything or stand up for myself but now, I am willing to stand up for myself and stand up for anyone who doesn't have a voice! I am not going to be quiet anymore!

3rd and final song which is "Equal Sign" by: J-Hope of BTS! When I listen to this song, I think about how it doesn't cost nothing to be kind! Be there for one another and support one another! We need to learn how to be equal and treat others with kindness! 

I love y'all and I am praying that everyone will stay safe and just be who you are and treat others with kindness! I love y'all! 🩷🩷🩷

Blog: Having a few people close to you. Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 9/23/24!!

                                      🩷  Blog: Having a few people close to you. Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 9/23/24!! To the people who have stayed by my side for years, this blog episode is for you! 🩵 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is going on in your life or whoever is bringing you down, just know that y'all are loved and y'all have people who do care about you and if you don't feel like you have anyone that cares about you, I care about y'all and I will always care about y'all, no matter what! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but 1st, a blog recap from last week! Last week, I did blogs on my 1st blog page! On Monday, I analyzed a song called "Cruel" by: Jackson Wang, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! When I think about the word "cruel", I think about someone who is mean and cruel and doesn't care about others feelings but their own feelings and that's incredibly sad! On Wednesday, I talked about how sneaky can grief can sneak up on you? Grief is so sneaky! One minute, you are totally fine doing things that you love so much and then, the next thing you know, you are sobbing and crying because you miss that person so much and that hurts you a lot! I think about my Grandpa Flex everyday and wishing he was here! I think about him everyday!! On Friday, I talked about when you close our eyes. When I have my eyes closed, a lot of thoughts pop in my head at one time and one of those thoughts is how many more hours until I get to facetime my boyfriend? When me and my boyfriend facetime, it feels like we are totally in a different universe and I absolutely love it! If y'all haven't read last week's blogs and would love to check them out, I will leave the link right here: →1st blog page! Please, go give them read! Please! Thank you all so much! For this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about having a few people close to you, what 3 songs represents my life, and what are 3 good qualities in a person? Stay tuned for an all new blog episodes for this week and without any further ado, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Today's blog episode for today! Why did I chose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I chose that song for the week?

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about having a few people close to you. To the people who have stayed by side for years, this blog episode is for you! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about having a few people close to you, what comes to mind? Why does that thought come to mind? Do I rather have fake people in my corner or a few close people in my corner? Why do I want that thing better than the other? What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who don't have close friends? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I chose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I chose to talk about today's blog episode for today is because throughout my entire life, I had people who showed up for me when it was "convenient" but I had people who stayed by my side throughout times when I was in trouble and I can't thank those people enough!! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "I'm Ok" by: iKon. Every time I listen to this song, I think to myself if I am really okay! Yes, I have days where they are harder but trust me, I am truly okay and I will be okay because I have people on my side who care about me! Why did I chose that song for the week? The reason why I chose that song for the week is because there would be days where I am not okay but that's okay because I will get through it and I know that I am loved by so many people who care about me!! 

When I think about the people who truly cares about me, who comes to mind? Why do those people who come to mind?

When I think about the people who truly cares about me, who comes to mind? When I think about the people who truly cares about me, the 1st person that comes to mind is my boyfriend! Throughout our friendship and the course of our relationship, he has done nothing but support me and been there for me and I feel appreciative when it comes to him! The 2nd person or people that comes to mind is his family! His family has been nothing but nice to me and I can't thank God enough for them and being there for me!! The 3rd and final people who have truly care about me is my dad, my bonus mom, and my bonus mom's family!! They have been there for me more than anything and I can't thank God enough for sending them my way! I feel so blessed and I can't thank God enough for giving me the right people in my life!! Why do those people who come to mind? The reason why my boyfriend came to mind is because when I had no one else, my boyfriend was there! My boyfriend never gave up on me when everyone else did and for that, I feel appreciative! The 2nd reason why his family came to mind is because when we went through a horrible storm, his family especially his parents where asking him "How she doing" and stuff like that and I can't thank God enough for sending my boyfriend's family in my life!! The 3rd and final reason why my dad, bonus mom, and bonus mom's family came to mind is because more than anyone in this world, my dad has been there for me, my bonus mom has been there for me, and my bonus mom's family have truly cared about me more than anything in this world and to me, I feel cared by them than the people who have been in my life since I could remember! I feel truly blessed to have real people who care about me and I feel blessed to know that I have a brother and sister who care about me than the people who are in my family! I have people who have in my life for along time but the people who I mentioned are the main ones who have been there for me!! I am blessed! 

Having a few people close to you... 

When I think about having a few people close to you, what comes to mind? When I think about having a few close people to me, I think how those people are extremely important in your life! You are going to have people who will leave you and you are going to have people who is going to stay by your side through thick and thin and that to me is the most important thing ever! When you have those people who care about you, those are the people you want to keep in your life! When you have people who are close to you, you never want to lose them! Those people care about you the most and that's important!! 

Why?

Why does that thought come to mind? The reason why that thought come to mind is because I rather have people who are close to me than people who come in and out of my life! I had people walk in and out of my life and leave me and I want to have close people who is close to me than someone who walks out on my life which has happened before! I had people walk out of my life before and it stinks! I had a lot of people walk out of my life and stop talking to me and it hurts to think about the people who walk out of my life and stopped talking to me! I have cared about a lot of those people and when I need someone to care about me, it doesn't bother them and it doesn't hurt them! I had to pick myself up when I was hurting! People didn't care about me but the people that were close to me, they cared about me and that's what important to me the most!!

Do I rather?

Do I rather have fake people in my corner or a few close people in my corner? In all honesty, I rather have a few close people in my corner than have fake people in my corner! When you have people who are fake in your corner, they don't care about you and they don't care about your feelings at all but instead, they only care if you are for them and that's it! When you have people who are close to you, those are the most important people who will love you until there is no tomorrow and those are people who will pick you up when you fell and pick you up when you are falling apart! Those are the true and rare people that you need in your life and don't lose them! Don't lose those people who you are close with! Love them until the very end!

Why?

Why do I want that thing better than the other? The reason why I want a few close people in my corner than having fake people in my corner is because when you have fake people in your corner, they are going to use you and hurt you over and over again and you don't need that in your life! When you have people who are close to you and they are going to be there for you, no matter what and that is the most important people that you can ask for! I only have a few close friends and to me, I am fine with having a few close friends because I know those friends won't hurt me! I know that my boyfriend will always be there for me, no matter what! I know that my brother and my sister in law (sister) will never leave me! I know that I have a good bonus mom and my dad who loves me, no matter what! I surely know that I have a God who will never break my heart and leave me! I am so blessed to have people who are close to me and who hasn't left me!!! I feel blessed!! 

My advice!!

What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who don't have close friends? To my Blogger Dreamers who don't have close friends, my advice to y'all is be your own close friend! When you are your own close friend, you won't get hurt and you are going to be there for you from beginning to end and that is the most important thing in the world! Be there for yourself when you are in trouble! You are going to pick yourself up and you are going to stick around when no one isn't there for you! People are going to come and go, but when you find someone who is close to you, you want to keep those people whether your significant partner or even yourself! It's okay to have yourself as a close friend! There have been times where I was my close friend for a little while and I am totally okay with that! I know that I won't hurt myself!

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when you feel like you have no one, you have to be your own friend because there are people who you think might care about you, but deep down, they don't and that is sad! Be there for yourself when you are going through a tough time because when you are there for yourself, it is showing yourself how strong you are and you are being tough! Be your own friend and God will be your own friend as friend! God cares about you and he loves you so much!!

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, you are going to have people who are going to love you through thick and thin but you are also going to have people who are going to not care about you and that's okay because you have close people in your corner and if you don't have that, I am here for you, no matter what! There are people in this world who is going to love and care about you but you are also going to have people who are very self centered and don't care about your feelings at all which is sad! Focus on those people who do care about you and don't focus on those people who don't care about your feelings at all! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is focus on people who is going to be there for you through thick and thin and find people who is willing to look at you in the eyes and say "I am here for you and I am willing to stay with you until the end". Those people matter what the most!! I love y'all so much!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! The moral of this blog is you are going to have people who will leave you and you are going to have people who won't leave you because those people are the ones who need to stay close to! Those are people who is willing to comfort you when you need comfort! When my boyfriend and I were friends at the time, he lost his grandma and I was there for him when he needed someone! He was there for me when I needed someone as well! Having people close to you is important! It is okay to have 1 or 2 or even 3, but what matters is having people who love you for you and not use you! That's what is important!! Don't ever forget that!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taking from Revelation 22:7 and it says, "Behold, I Am Coming Soon. Blessed Is The One Who Keeps The Words Of Prophecy In This Book". I absolutely love this Bible Verse a lot because Jesus is coming soon! We don't know when but he will come soon and when I read the Bible, I will share the words that are in the Bible! I am going to share the Gospel with anyone who I come in contact with and tell them what God has done for me and why Jesus died for me! Jesus will be coming soon and we need to be ready! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Stay tuned where on Wednesday, I will be talking about what 3 songs represents my life? Any guesses on what songs I would pick? Sound off in the comments what 3 songs that I would pick! I would love to hear y'all's guesses! I love y'all and until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog episode! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ✌️🤗🩷🤍

Today's Bible Verse of the day! I absolutely love this Bible Verse a lot because Jesus will be coming soon! Don't know when but Jesus will be coming soon and we need to keep his words in our hearts and share the words that are in the Bible!! 

"If you find someone who makes you 
smile, who checks up on you often to 
see if you're okay, who watches out
for you and wants the very best for 
you, don't let them go. Keep them
close and don't take them for granted. 
People like that are hard to find". 
-Unknown-. This quote hits home for me because when you have people who make you smile or checks up on you to see if you are okay or who wants the best for you, those are the most important people and you never want to lose those people! Never take them for granted either! 

"When it comes to the people
who are close to you, it's not
about who's real to your face.
What really matters is who 
stays real behind your back and 
proves that they have your back".
-Unknown! I love this quote so much because when you have people who are close to you, you want them to prove to you day and day out that they will be behind you every step of your journey through life and they prove to you that they are always there for you, no matter what and that's what matters to you!! 

"When 
you find
good people, 
keep them 
close 
to you". 
-Unknown! I absolutely love this quote so much because when you find good people who are good to you and who care about you, keep those people because good people are hard to find and they will love you until the end!! 

To end today's blog episode for today, for this week's song of the week, I chose "I'm Ok" by: iKon. I feel like I could relate to this song in my life because there are days where I am okay but I will have days where I want to collapse because things are tough, but I try to get through it and I will try to make it! I love y'all and have a good Monday or in other other countries, a good Tuesday! Please, be safe! I love y'all! 🩷🩷🩷

Blog: Celebrating me and my bf's friendship anniversary! blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date: Friday, 9/6/24!!

                                            💙😁 Blog: Celebrating me and my bf's friendship anniversary! blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date: Friday, 9/6/24!! This blog is dedicated to my amazing boyfriend who has been there for me 4 years!! Cheers to many more!! ❤ 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is going wrong in your life or whatever it is bringing y'all down, just know that I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Don't give up and don't quit! Y'all are amazing and y'all are loved!! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but first, a blog recap from Wednesday!! On Wednesday, I analyzed the word "justice". When I think about the word "justice", I think about finding out what happened to a friendship and you want justice for why that friendship ended and you wanted to get the bottom of it!! You always want to get justice for something that is going on this world and I pray that bullying and mental health can get the justice that they deserve because bullying and mental health shouldn't go unknown and I feel like it does and it shouldn't! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, I will leave the link right here: →The word "justice". Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please, thank you all so much! For today's blog episode, today's blog episode is dedicated to my amazing boyfriend who has been there for me for 4 years! Cheers to many more! For today's blog, I will be celebrating me and my bf's friendship anniversary!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about how do I feel about our 4 year friendship anniversary? Why do I feel a certain way about it? What has changed over the course of 4 years? Why those things changes over the course of 4 years? What sticks out in my mind that I think changed the most? Why does that thing stick in my mind the most? What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who is in a relationship but also wants to keep that friendship as well? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without any further disruptions, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

How did me and my boyfriend meet? Why did we meet that way? 

How did me and my boyfriend meet? We meet through a mutual friend!! We became friends on Instagram and then, he messaged me on Instagram and then, he messaged on Snapchat! I am not going to lie, I wasn't too fond of my boyfriend at the time and I honestly thought we would become friends! I was getting out of a relationship and I was still heartbroken at time and I didn't want to talk to guys at the moment but he came into my life and I feel blessed to have someone who would stick by my side and never left me! I feel like I hit a jackpot when it comes to a good man because he surely is a good man!! Why did we meet that way? The reason why we met that way is because I think God wanted us to meet that way and he wanted not only become friends but also boyfriend and girlfriend down the road!! God can work in mysterious way and I feel blessed to have a good boyfriend and a best friend!!! 

My feelings! 

How do I feel about our 4 year friendship anniversary? My feelings about being me and my bf's 4 year friendship anniversary is happiness! I feel happy! To be best friend to this man has been a blessing! At first, I wasn't too fond of him but getting to know him has been a blessing and he makes me laugh everyday and I love the way he makes me laugh! He makes me the happiest girl in the world and I couldn't ask for a better best friend than my man!! I feel happy and blessed!! 

Why?

Why do I feel a certain way about it? The reason why I feel certain way about being our 4 year friendship anniversary is because God blessed me with a good best friend who I didn't know who would turn into my boyfriend but God knew and that's okay because God always plans for our lives and God did have a plan for me and my boyfriend's life which I am totally fine with that! I think God knew what he was doing when he put me and my boyfriend in each other's lives! I think God knew what he was doing and I love having a special bond with my man because he gets me which I love about him! He is special!!

Changed over the course of 4 years?

What has changed over the course of 4 years? I think what has changed over the course of 4 years is our friendship has blossomed and it went from being more than just friends to being in a relationship which has been a blessing within itself!! I feel like another thing that changed over the course of 4 years is we met each other for the 1st time! Meeting him for the 1st time was such a big blessing! I was so happy but also a little nervous to meet him but more than anything, I was excited to meet him! He was so wonderful and so nice! I was happy to hug him and hold his hand for the 1st time! It was such a blessing and I would do it all over again if I had to!! 

Why?

Why those things changed over the course of 4 years? I think the reason why the 1st thing changed is because God knew what he was doing when he put us together and he knew that we weren't just be friends forever and he wanted us to be partners forever! I knew he would be my boyfriend but I was just scared to admit it to myself because I was hurt in my last relationship because the person that was with cheated on me and it hurt me to the core and I didn't know how to deal with another relationship when I have been cheated on but God knew what he was doing! I think the 2nd and final thing why the 2nd thing changed is because God knew when we were suppose to meet and he knew we were going to meet in his house! It was just a great Sunday and going to church and being with my man on that day was perfect to me! I wouldn't want to spend my Sunday in any other way!! It was special and I would go back to that day and live that day all over again because it was such a perfect day for us and it was a good day as well! 

Sticks out in my mind? 

What sticks out in my mind that I think changed the most? I think what sticks out in my mind that I think changed the most is becoming boyfriend and girlfriend! Over the course of us being friends, I remembered him asking me along the lines of "How would you feel if we became more than friends" and I told him "I wouldn't mind just being friends" but I didn't know I had feelings brewing up and I didn't know how it would work with the long distance so I didn't give it too much thought and I just really didn't thought about us being in a relationship until it finally happen and honestly, not only he is a good best friend but he also a good man! He knows how to make me happy and he knows how to take care of me when I am sad and he knows how to laugh! He makes me the most happiest girl in the world and I can't thank God for sending me the right man for me! I wish I knew where he was when I was dating those other guys because this has been the best relationship that I have been! I'm just saying!

Why?

Why does that thing stick in my mind the most? I think the reason why us that changed the most is becoming boyfriend and girlfriend sticks out in my mind the most is because I wanted us to remain friends and nothing more but as time went on, I couldn't ignore my feelings anymore but I honestly didn't know how to tell him until he asked me to be his girl on November 1st, 2022 and that day will always be engraved in my mind forever and always! There are special dates that I will remember which is Sunday, February 25th, 2024- the day we met! September 6th, 2020- the day we became friends! November 1st, 2022- the day he asked me to be his girl! December 16th, 1996- the day my man was born! These dates are very special to me and I will always remember these dates forever as long as I live! I am so glad that God knew what he had in store for us and I am so blessed to have an amazing best friend like him!! He is so great!

My advice! 

What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who is in a relationship but also wants to keep that friendship as well? To my Blogger Dreamers who is in a relationship but also wants to keep that friendship as well, here is my advice: My advice is y'all are always going to be the best of friends! Y'all's friendship will never go away and when you get into a relationship, that friendship is going to stay! I thought our friendship will go away but our friendship stayed and I love that! My advice to my Blogger Dreamers who isn't in a relationship is you are going to find someone out there for you but before you get into a relationship, become friends with a person first! If you see this friendship taking off, then it was meant to be but if you don't see this friendship taking off, then move on and don't pay attention to it! You want the right person for you and not only the right person for you, but you want to have a good friendship as well and I think it is very important to have in a relationship! Becoming friends is very important!

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give the 1st advice to my Blogger Dreamers who is in a relationship is because y'all's friendship will never go away! Y'all will always remain friends together forever and I think the best way to get into a relationship is to become friends and I love that a lot! Being in a relationship with your best friend is the best feeling in the world!! The 2nd reason why I would give the 2nd advice to my Blogger Dreamers who aren't in a relationship is because before you get into a relationship, you want to become friends and I believe in a strong foundation of a relationship is friendship and if y'all don't have that, it is going to crumble and I don't want that for y'all! I want y'all to remain forever and be happy!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, celebrating 4 years of friendship with my best friend is the most amazing thing in the world! I honestly thought we would become friends let alone become boyfriend and girlfriend but honestly, I wouldn't have it in any other way! He is always there for me when I need him the most and he knows how to make me laugh when I need a laugh! He knows how to be a good listener when you someone to talk to which I love so much! A lot of guys aren't good listeners, but my man is a very good listener which I love about him! The way he cares about me which I also love about him! He is very different when it comes to guys and I love how he can get along with his family! He is a good person but don't see that which is sad but it is what it is! I am very blessed that the girls who were with him let him go because he is mine and he will remain mine forever! No questions asked! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is find a good person who will become your best friend and your partner because having the best of both worlds is the best feeling in the world and I am so blessed to find mine!! I feel happy!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! The moral of today's blog episode is having someone who will be best friend but also your partner for life is the best feeling in the world! Some guys only care about being your friend but there are guys who cares about being your best friend and your partner! Don't lose that because it is hard to find a good guy who will stay in your life! Never lose that! I feel blessed to have a good man in my life who is very caring and I love that about him!! He is so different which I love about him! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "Regret is the most painful thing you can experience in Life". -Vincenzo Cassano! I love this quote so much because when you do something that you will regret later, it is going to hurt later! Don't regret something that you love later! Do it now while you can! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my makeup and fashion blog page where I will be talking about what kind of outfits would I wear for fall? Part 4, makeup looks that I would wear for fall, part 3, and what do I love about fashion? Stay tuned! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good Friday or in other countries, a good Saturday! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜😊

Today's quote of the day! I love this quote so much because if you don't do something that you love now, you are going to regret later on and you never want to regret something that you didn't do! Do something now while you can!

"Every girl has this male
friend who is just a friend
but the whole universe 
thinks he is not just 
a friend". 
-Nikita Gill. I couldn't agree with this quote more because in my mind, I thought we would remain friends forever but someone in my family knew that was something more going on and I feel like we were just meant to be!

Me and my best friend/ boyfriend on Sunday, February 25th of this year meeting for the 1st time!! The height difference gets me still but I don't care!! I love the tallness!! 

"A Best Friend Is Someone 
You Can Tell Your Hopes 
And Dreams And Know
They Won't Laugh". 
-Unknown. I absolutely love this quote so much because I can tell him anything and he won't laugh at me! I can tell him anything and he won't judge and I love that about him so much!! He is different! 

To end this blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "Smile On My Face" by: EXO because no matter what we do in life or if we are hurting, we have to do something and put a smile on our faces!! We act like everything is okay but deep down, we are hurting and we need to push through!! I love y'all and have a good day and a good weekend!! Stay safe! 

Blog: Analyzing the word "justice" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 9/4/24!!

                                         🙏 Blog: Analyzing the word "justice" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 9/4/24!! Blog dedicated to anyone who is seeking justice whether it comes to bullying or even mental health! I pray y'all get justice! 🙏 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that is on my mind or whatever God laid on my heart!! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through or whatever it is bringing y'all down, just know that y'all are never alone and y'all are loved by so many people!! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but first a blog recap from Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about analyzing the song "Smile on my face" by: EXO, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! When I think about the song title, I think about doing something and putting a smile on my face because I don't want people to see how bad I am hurting and I rather hide behind a fake smile which hurts for me to say because when you hide behind a fake smile, it shows that you are pretending to be okay when you are not okay at all and for me, I have been hiding behind a fake smile because I don't want people to worry! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, I will leave the link right here: →Smile on my face. Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please, thank you all so much! For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing the word "justice" by: Brandee Marie Darden. This blog is dedicated to anyone who is seeking justice whether it comes to bullying or even mental health! I pray y'all get justice! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the word "justice", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? What do we need to bring to justice? Why do we need to bring that thing (s) to justice? What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who want to bring justice to something? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without further ado, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

When I see someone getting the justice that they need, how does it make me feel? Why does it make me feel a certain way? 

When I see someone getting the justice that they need, how does it make me feel? When I see someone getting the justice that they need, it honestly makes me feel happy for that person! No one should ever have to go through in life without getting the justice in their life! Everyone deserves to have justice in their life and I feel like whatever you bring justice to or awareness, I just pray that everyone will get the justice that y'all deserve! Why does it make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because it is not right for people to go through life without getting the justice that they deserve because everyone shouldn't have to go through life without having justice they deserve! No one shouldn't have to go to bed not thinking about having justice in their life!! Everyone deserves to have justice in their life and I pray that everyone will get justice whether it is closure on what that person did or whatever happened in that person's last days! My heart goes to y'all! ❤

The word "justice". 

When I think about the word "justice", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "justice", I think about finding out what that person did and what how you can get justice for what that person did to you! Sometimes, when a person leaves you, it is unexpectedly and you want to get unto the bottom of it and you demand justice for what they have done or why they left you? Justice is about finding the truth and you want to get to the bottom of it! Leaving things unsolved and leaving things that is not solvable when things are solvable, it is crazy! For me, leaving things that can be easily solvable leaves me puzzle at times! I am just saying! When you have someone who just left you, you are puzzled but you just pray they will comeback but they don't comeback which is hard for you! Don't leave someone and instead of leaving that person, give them justice on why you left? I rather someone tell me why they left me than not giving me justice!! 

Why?

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because when you leave someone and don't give an explanation, they want answers and they want justice and for you to leave them like that, it hurts the other person or when you leave a hit and run and you know that you did it but you left that situation but that person wants justice! When people leave you unexpectedly, it hurts because they didn't give you anything to say or why they ended up leaving you and you leave someone like that, it hurts that person! I still wondered why people left me and I wish I could get justice for that, but I have accepted that and I am going to accept that rather I like it or not!! Sometimes, you just have to demand justice from people and make sure that they can give you an explanation and it might not be the explanation you wanted but at least you got the explanation that you wanted and you can somewhat move on with your life!! 

Things to bring to justice!  

What do we need to bring to justice? There is a lot of things that we need to bring to justice but the one thing that comes to mind that we need to bring to justice is bullying! I feel like bullying has gotten out of hand and it is sad how teens are losing their life because of people bullying that teen! I feel like another thing that we need to bring justice is mental health! I feel like we need to bring awareness for mental health and educate people on mental health! I feel like people don't understand what mental can do to a person! That person can be hiding behind a fake smile and acting like everything is fine but in reality, they are fighting the voices in their head and we need let people know what mental health can do to a person! We need to raise awareness for bullying and mental health and I pray that one day, we can do that!!

Why?

Why do we need to bring that thing (s) to justice? I think the 1st reason why we need to bring justice to bullying is because I feel like a lot of adults are not taking care of it and they are letting the kid being bullied and that is totally not fair for that person who is getting bullied! Instead of sitting back and not taking care of it, you should be an grown adult and take care of it like an adult! There has been teenagers who have taken their own life because of bullying and it needs to end! The 2nd and final reason why need to bring justice to mental health is because I feel like a lot of people don't understand what mental health can do to a person and I feel like people don't realize how bad it can hurt a person! Sometimes, when a person has bad trust issues, I feel like that person don't realize how bad it hurts to trust a person again and it took me awhile to trust people again because I had people break my trust over and over again and it hurt me so much! I pray that we can raise awareness for bullying and mental health because I feel like people don't get it and that's hard!!

My advice on want to bring justice to something! 

What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who want to bring justice to something? To my Blogger Dreamers who want to bring justice to something, my advice to you is if you see something that needs justice, seek it! Don't let someone overlook that situation! Instead of overlooking the situation, give it attention and give that that situation some justice because someone doesn't deserve to overlook that situation and ignore what is going on with that problem! People tend to overlook situations which is incredibly sad and I feel like we should learn to step up and be that person to take care of things and never leave that problem unsolved! We need to be that person to step up and spread awareness about certain things!! Let's spread awareness about certain things and educate people! 

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because a lot people tend to overlook a lot of situations and that is hard on a person who wants justice for something and instead of being that person who overlooks things, get into depth of that situation and fix that situation because if you don't fix that situation, that person is never going to get that justice like they deserve! There are cases that are unsolved to this day and I am praying that whatever case is unsolved, I pray that they can get justice for that or I am praying for the ones who are hurt by the bullying and the ones who are trying to seek justice for that, I pray that they can get the justice that they deserve! To this day, I still don't know why people bullied me and to me, that still hurts! I wish I knew why but I don't think I will ever know!! 

In closing/ Question of the day?

In closing, the moral of this blog is to help people understand that we need to seek justice instead of leaving things unsolved! We can't just leave a friendship without telling people why we left them or we can't leave a hit and run situation without telling that person how I can fix it? I have seen people that would flee the scene and not worry about! Sometimes, we just need to bring justice and light into a situation that needs light to it! I am praying that one day, I can bring light to bullying and mental health because I am tired of people not seeing what it does to people! I went to school not knowing if I am going to get bullied or not which is hard for me! Bullying needs to end and I pray it does! Here is my question of the day: My question of the day is what two things would you bring justice or light to? Why would you bring those two things to justice or light to? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to respond and answer your questions! Please! Thank you all so much! I love y'all so much!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I am praying that y'all can see that we need to seek justice for whatever we need to seek justice for! Sometimes,  people don't get the justice that they deserve which is incredibly sad and I pray that one day, we can get justice on whatever we need justice on because it is not fair not knowing that there are certain things that are unsolved and I feel like we need to resolve things and shine its light on that thing or things! I feel like bullying hits closer to home for me because I was the girl who got bullied because of her weight and I am very self conscious when it comes to my body! I pray someone will bring light to bullying and seek justice for that! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "If we ever end up having to make a cruel choice, I'll choose you. Because I know that losing someone I love is worse than losing myself". -Do Dohee. I couldn't agree with this quote more because I rather lose myself than the person that I love! I never want to make a cruel choice in choosing someone that I love! I rather lose me than lose someone who I love!! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good today! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on Friday where I will be doing a special blog episode where me and my bf will be celebrating 4 years of friendship!! Stay tuned! I love y'all! Peace! ☮✌❤😎

Today's quote of the day! I couldn't agree with this quote more because I rather lose me than having to make a cruel choice in losing someone that I love because I wouldn't be able to live with it!! 

"Never forget 
that justice is 
what love looks 
like in public".
-Dr. Cornel West. I love this quote a lot because when you get the justice that you absolutely deserve, you are surrounded by family and friends and everyone is sharing love because everyone is happy!! 

"The Dead Cannot Cry 
Out For Justice. It Is
A Duty Of The Living
To Do So For Them".
- Lois McMaster Bujold. I love this quote a lot because the dead can't come up and cry for justice! We need to do it for them because they can't! 

"I'm for truth.
no matter 
who tells it.
I'm for justice, 
no matter 
who it's for 
or against".
- Malcolm X. I couldn't agree with this quote more because for me, I rather stand for the truth and I don't care people are against me or for me! I am standing what is right and standing my ground!! 

I love y'all so much and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Please, be safe out there and don't give up! You have people who are rooting for you! I love y'all! ❤❤❤

 

 

Blog: Analyzing the song "Smile on my face" by: EXO, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Monday, 9/02/24!!

                                      ❤ Blog: Analyzing the song "Smile on my face" by: EXO, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Monday, 9/02/24!! ❤ Dedicating this blog episode to anyone who is trying their best and putting a smile on their face!! 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for the day! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all going through or whatever y'all is dragging y'all down, just know that I am always here for my Blogger Dreamers and supporting y'all, no matter what! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Happy September! I can't believe that it is already September! We are 3 months away from December and into the new year! That's crazy!! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but first, blog recap from last week! Last week, after giving myself a break, I came back to my blogging and I couldn't be anymore happier because this is what I love doing and I am so happy! On Monday, I analyzed my poem "The person that you are". The person that you are and the person that you were destined to be is what God wanted you to be! Don't stop being who you are! On Wednesday, I talked about another poem of mine which "Shine your light on others". We need to shine our light on others because we need to encourage others on not giving up and people don't realize when you do something for that person, it makes their entire day or even year and people need to realize that if you do something for that person, they are going to remember that forever! On Friday, I talked about when people don't care! There are people who don't care about you and that can be a little hurtful at times because all they care about is themselves which is incredibly sad! We need to show people how much we care about them! If y'all haven't read last week's blogs and would love to check it out, I will leave the link right here: →Last week's blogs! Please, go check them out whenever y'all can! Please, thank you all so much! Now, for this week's blogs, I will be analyzing the song "Smile on my face" by: EXO, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden, analyzing the word "justice" by: Brandee Marie Darden, and celebrating me and my bf's friendship anniversary! Stay tuned for an all new blog episodes for this week! Now, without further ado, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode for today? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week?

For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing the song "Smile on my face" by: EXO, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! In this blog, I will be talking about when I think about the song title, what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? How can the lyrics relate to my life? Why can the lyrics relate to my life? What can a smile hide? Why can a smile hide a lot? What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who hide behind a fake smile and is struggling? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode for today? The reason why I choose to talk about today's blog episode for today is because everyday, people wake up putting a smile on their face and you don't know if they are dealing with something or someone might be putting them down and they are just putting a smile to hide the pain and that's what I have been doing and acting like everything is alright but deep down, I am hurting but only a few people know about it and that's okay! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "Smile on my face" by: EXO! When I listen to this song, I think about how I just wake up and just put a smile on my face and pretend that everything is alright! Sometimes, I hide things from my boyfriend which is hard for me to do at times! Why did I choose this song for the week? I choose this song for the week by EXO is because I wake up and just put a smile on my face! I might have days where I look tired, but I did it because I want to put a smile on my face!!

Talking about the lyrics! When I think about the lyrics, what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind?

When I think about the lyrics, what comes to mind? EXO wrote a song called "Smile on my face" and here is some of the lyrics go: "I did it all with a smile on my face

The traces have disappeared in my memories

Maybe they'll come back to me

But I'll just smile and send them back

I did it all with a smile on my face

No one has to be hurt

I don't grab onto you as you go away 

I want to send you off with a smile

With a smile on my face". When I think about these lyrics. I think about forgetting the memories that you had with that person! You just want to send them off and forget it what the memories you had with that person! You don't want to hold on what you had with that person which hurts but no one doesn't deserve to be hurt! You want to send them off with a smile!! Why does it come to mind? The reason why it came to mind like that is because you don't want you or the person to get hurt and y'all both want to forget the memories that y'all with each other and that's tough!

The song title!

When I think about the song title, what comes to mind? When I think about the song title, the thing that comes to mind is hiding behind a smile while you are in pain! Hiding behind a smile can be the most painful thing especially when you are hurting deep down inside and you are faking that everything is okay and well when deep down, it is not fine and well! You just want to act like everything is fine and well, but you know nothing isn't fine and well! Never hide behind a fake smile but instead, tell people what is going on because they could help you! 

Why?

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it comes to mind like that is because you just want to act like everything is fine until you feel like you are going to burst and that is when you tell someone what is going on and you just feel better about telling someone about it! When you are acting like everything is fine, you are acting strong for the people around you but the people who know you really well, they know what is going on and they want to help you and want the best for you! If you are struggling, tell people about it! Don't act like everything fine and then, go on your day, acting like everything is fine! Tell people that you are hurting!

Lyrics relate to my life!

How can the lyrics relate to my life? The way the lyrics relate to my life is I had people disappear from my life and had them walk out on my life but I had to pretend it didn't hurt but deep down inside, I was hurting! I had people walk out of my life but I had to let it not bother me! If I let it bother me, then they would of gotten a thrill about it! I had to put a smile on my face but deep down it was killing me knowing that the person didn't want to be in my life anymore! For me, I had to erase those memories and I had to do it with a smile! I didn't want to hang on anymore than did before with a person! When a person hurt me, I had to pretend to that everything was fine and when deep down, it wasn't fine!! Watching the person that you thought you could trust and they left you, you just want to erase the memories from that person but you can't erase those memories from that person! That is what hurts the most! 

Why?

Why can the lyrics relate to my life? The reason why the lyrics relate to my life is because I had to watch people walk out of my life and I had to put a "fake" smile on to pretend that everything is fine and well, but what that didn't know what they were doing to me was going to bother them or they wouldn't care! People don't realize that what they are doing to you is not bothering them! It is hurting you more than it is hurting them but they don't care about your feelings! People don't care what you are feeling and that's pathetic because when you have been there for a person, you want what is best for them and they realize, they never cared about you but you were only good for them to be there for them but when you need them, they are nonexistent and that hurts a lot! Knowing that you are nonexistent to that person hurts because I know that feeling! I am like that with a lot people and it hurts but I became fond of it and I am okay with that!

A smile can hide?

What can a smile hide? Well, a smile can hide a lot of things! I feel like a smile can hide what a person is feeling even though you are acting like your fine, but you are not fine and it hurts you! When you are pretending that everything is fine and people are asking you if you are doing fine, you want to tell them that something is hurting you but you are afraid of telling that person! When you want tell someone about the pain that you are feeling but you can't, it is the feeling of them leaving you and that is what hurts the most! When you try to tell that person how much you are in pain, but they don't seem to care, it hurts you the most because you have done a lot for that person but you are hurting which hurts but you trying to get through it! 

Why?

Why can a smile hide a lot? The reason why a smile can hide a lot is because when you are smiling, you are acting like everything is fine and well with you, but you are hurting on the inside and you want to tell people how much you are hurting, they don't care and that is what hurts you! You want to tell people how you are feeling, but they don't care about your feelings which hurts the most but there are people who do care about you and that is what matters the most! You can only do so much for that person and when you don't get the same thing in return, you are hurting and that stinks!

My advice!

What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who hide behind a fake smile and is struggling? To my Blogger Dreamers who hide behind a fake smile and is struggling, my advice to you is everything will be okay! You should never have to hide behind a fake smile and struggling! You shouldn't have to deal with that and act like everything fine when you know deep down, you are hurting and you want the pain to stop but you have no one to talk to! If anyone needs someone to talk to, I'm here for you because I care! I only care what is best for you and I want you know that you are loved! I care about y'all more than anything! No one shouldn't have to hide behind a fake smile and be struggling! That is what hurts me the most! You are not alone!

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I don't want my Blogger Dreamers to feel alone or people don't think they don't care because while everyone else don't care about you, I do care about my Blogger Dreamers! I care about the people and their feelings! You might know someone who doesn't care about you but I do care about you and I want what is best for my Blogger Dreamers and I don't want y'all to struggle because if y'all are struggling, my heart hurts for y'all and I don't want to hurt! I'm here for any of my Blogger Dreamers! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, you want to erase those memories with a certain person but hurts that you are watching that person leaving you which hurts even more! What people don't realize is when you are hiding behind a fake smile, it is hurting you and it kills you to smile! You are acting like everything will be fine but nothing will be fine because you are hurting and you are watching the people who you thought they cared about you but deep down inside, they don't really care about you! They were only pretending to care which hurts the most! People don't realize that once you hurt them, you hurt them and there is not a thing you can do! You can apologize over and over again but a sorry won't fix a thing which stinks but it is the truth! Once you hurt a person, they lost trust in you and when a person lost trust in you, good luck rebuilding it because it will take years to rebuild and it is hard to rebuild trust! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is don't hide behind a smile that is holding a lot of pain! Instead, hide a smile that is holding a lot of joy because when you are hiding behind a smile with a lot of joy, there is something that is joyous or that brings you a lot of joy! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reach the end of today's blog episode for today! The moral of the blog episode is when you watch the person who you thought you could spend time with forever decides to walk away from your life and you want to erase those memories because you don't want to hold onto those memories forever but instead, you just want to erase from those memories and not hold onto them because it will cause you great pain and that's not good at all! Hiding behind a smile that is painful hurts but hiding behind a smile that is joyful much better! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "It's one of the countless happy days we'll be spending together. If I'm with you, everyday calls for a celebration". -Jeong Guwon. I love this quote so much because when you spend time with someone that you love or people that you love, it calls for a celebration because you don't know when you will be able to see that person again and celebrate like there is no tomorrow! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and until next time, "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog episode where I will be talking about the word "justice". Stay tuned! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Stay safe and I love y'all so much! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌❤😎

Today's quote of the day! I absolutely love this quote so much everyday is a celebration if you are with the person or people that you love and that is what that counts the most! Focus on the person or people you love the most!! They are worth celebrating!

Lyrics to "Smile on my face" by: EXO. When I think about these lyrics, it hits home because I had to watch people walk away from my life and it hurts me to watch people who don't want to be in my life and it stinks but I get used to it after a while!

Eccedentesiast
(n) Someone who hides pain
behind a smile. When I think about this, I think about people who have been through a lot of pain in their life and they do is hiding behind a smile and it hurts a person but it is the truth! I have been through so much pain that all I know what do is hide behind a fake smile which hurts but the truth!

"Just because a person smiles
all the time, doesn't mean
their life is perfect.
That smile is a symbol
of hope and strength".
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because a person can smile because they might be going through a tough time but they have so much hope and strength that they don't want to give up and that is what I admire in a person!! 

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! For this week's song of the week, I chose "Smile on my face" by: EXO and the reason why I chose this song is because when you are trying to erase those memories, you are trying to do with a smile on your face and act like everything is fine, but deep down, it hurts! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart!!