Wednesday, January 10, 2024

Blog: Analyzing my poem "Being around negative thoughts" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 1-10-24!!

                                           Blog: Analyzing my poem "Being around negative thoughts" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 1-10-24! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! First of all, how are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever it is going in your life, just know that I'm always here for my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a blog recap of Monday! On Monday, I came back and I was so thrilled to be back! On Monday, I talked about the difference of "I love you" and "Love you". To me, there is a big difference between the two because when you say "I love you", you are saying you love that person or your significant other vs you are not saying you love that person! You are just saying "Love you". I prefer "I love you" instead of "love you" because it has more meaning to it! If y'all haven't read this blog episode but would love to check it out, please go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! The blog is called "The difference I love you and Love you". Please, go check it out! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Being around negative thoughts" by: Brandee Marie Darden! On this blog episode, I will be talking what is this poem all about? Why did I write this poem about that thing? What can negative thoughts do to a person? Why can negative thoughts do that to a person? If I could give any advice to my Blogger Dreamers who might be dealing with negative thoughts, what would my advice be? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without any further interruptions and distractions, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about my poem!! What is the moral of this poem? Why is that the moral of this poem? 

On Monday, February 20th of last year, I wrote a poem called "Being around negative thoughts' by: Brandee Marie Darden and here's how the poem goes: "Being around negative thoughts" by: Brandee Marie Darden! 
"Being around 
negative thoughts 
can take a toll
on someone's 
mental health
and that's not 
good at all! 
Being around 
positive thoughts 
is much better 
than being around
negative thoughts! 
When you think 
about positive
thoughts, you feel
better! Don't be 
around negative 
thoughts! Drown
those out and move
on". 
By: Brandee Marie 
Darden. Date of the poem: Monday, 2-20-23!! What is the moral of this poem? The moral of this poem is that we should have positive thoughts instead of negative thoughts! We need to have a positive mindset and not get into a mindset where everything is negative! We need to think positive instead of negative! Why is that the moral of this poem? The reason why that is the moral of the poem is because we need to focus on the positive things that is going in our life whether than focus on the negative things in our life! We don't need to be hard on ourselves because something isn't going right in our life but instead, let's turn that thing into a positive! Whatever it is going on in your life, you need to be much stronger than that! Don't let it bring you down!! 

The poem about! 

What is this poem all about? This poem is all about being around negative thoughts! When you are around negative thoughts whether it is your own thoughts or even thoughts of other people, it can bring you down which is not good at all! We shouldn't have negative thoughts of our own or be around others with negative people! We need to be around people who will lift us up and be there for when we need them the most! We need to be there for one another and have a positive mind where we think about is positive! Let's have a positive mindset and let's not tear others down!! When we tear others down with our negative thoughts, it hurts that person and we don't need to do that! So, the meaning of this poem is being around negative thoughts and we should never think negative about ourselves or even others! Let's think positive, not negative!! 

Why?

Why did I write this poem that thing? The reason why I wrote that poem about being around negative thoughts is because when you are around negative thoughts or you are surrounded by people who are are negative, it can bring you down along with mental health! We need to fill our minds with positive things that will bring us joy and happiness! We need to let others know that we should live in a positive mindset and we need to surround ourselves with people who will give us positive vibes instead of negative vibes because if we surround ourselves with negative people instead of positive people, then it is going to hurt us at the end and we don't need to get hurt because if we get hurt, then the people who are negative, they are not going to care one bit!! Don't be around people who can be a negative impact on you! Exclude those  people out of your life!! 

Negative thoughts do to a person! 

What can negative thoughts do to a person? Negative thoughts can do a lot to person! Some people can get overwhelmed with the feeling of the negativity around them or people tend to shut down and not say anything or they walk away! With me, if I feel something or someone being negative around me, I will try to block out the best way that can with either music or think something that will bring a smile to my face! For me, I don't like being around people who will be a negative Nelly! To me, I am all about positive vibes only and when I hear someone being negative, I try to block out the best way that I can because if someone is being negative around me, then I need to walk away from that situation  and be around people who has a positive mindset like I do! I want someone who thinks positive like I do and not have a negative mindset! I want to live with positive vibes but sometimes, people are so negative and I know a lot of people who complain about the littlest things in life and who can be so negative and I can't stand that!! 

Why? 

Why can negative thoughts do that to a person? The reason why negative thoughts do that to a person is because when people get overwhelmed with the negative thoughts around them, it can bring them down and for me, I can get overwhelmed easily and I try my best to block out all negative to come into my life but  it can be hard times because people tend to put their problems on me and it's not really fair because I have my own problems and sometimes, it is hard being around people who can bring you down and be so negative! I rather live with a positive mindset instead of a negative mindset! That's who I am as a person and I rather try to live happy the way I know how to live happy!! I rather focus on the positive things than the negative things! Don't focus on the negative people who are in your life because if you do, then it is going to bring you down and you need focus on what's good in your life! 

My advice! 

If I could give any advice to my Blogger Dreamers who might be dealing with negative thoughts, what would my advice be? If I could give any advice to my Blogger Dreamers who might be dealing with negative thoughts, my advice would be block it from your mind! Think about what makes you happy or if you are a journaling person, write down how you are feeling! Writing down how you are feeling is better than keeping it bottled up!! Don't deal with negative thoughts! Think positive instead of negative! Get rid of the people who bring a negative vibe into your life! You don't need people in your life who are always negative!! Don't let people bother you with their negativity in your life! Focus on the good, not the bad!! 

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I don't want my Blogger Dreamers be bothered with negative stuff! I want my Blogger Dreamers be happy and live in a positive mindset!! I want people to know it is okay  to remove people who are negative out of your life! No one should ever have to feel like you should be around people who can be negative all the time and you shouldn't have to! Be happy and fill your mind with positive things in your mind!! Don't be around people who are going to be negative but instead, be around people will bring positive sunlight into your world! I am blessed to have my boyfriend who is very positive and never negative in my life!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, being around negative thoughts can take a toll on a person! It can overwhelm a person so much to the point it can make that person cry or shut down and for me, both of them happen to me! I cry and I want to shut down, cry, and not to talk to people because I am so overwhelm! When people complain on a daily basis, it bugs me so much because it is another way of someone being negative and that bothers me so much! I rather focus on the positive things instead of the negative thoughts because if you focus on the negative thoughts a lot, it going to bring you down and it is not going to be good!! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is focus on the good in your life because if you focus on the good, you will be okay but if you focus on the bad, it can drag you down and it can make you unhappy! Don't be unhappy!! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reach the end of today's blog episode!! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog episode and get an understanding that if y'all be around negative thoughts, it can drag you down and make you unhappy! Don't be around negative thoughts and be unhappy! I want my Blogger Dreamers to be happy instead!! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "We loved with a love that was more than love". -Edgar Allan Poe! I absolutely love this quote a lot because to me, everyone loves this idea of love and sometimes, people are happy how they are being loved and some people don't get the love that they deserve! Everyone deserves to be loved and I love each of my Blogger Dreamers a lot! Everyone is loved here! I hope and pray that everyone will have a good Wednesday or in other countries, a good Thursday and I will see y'all on the next blog episode where I will be talking about 3 ways how to be happy with yourself? Stay tuned for that and always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog! I love y'all! Peace! ☮✌💜

Today's quote of the day! This is such a good quote and people think love is just love but it is more than that! We need to show how much we care for one another and show people we are here to listen to one another! Let's support one another!! 


My poem that I did about "Being around negative thoughts" written on Monday, February 20th, 2023!! Don't be around people who will speak negative and who will have these negative thoughts about certain things! Don't be around negative thoughts!! 


"Negative
Thoughts 
Stick Around 
Because We 
Believe Them, 
Not Because 
We Want
Them Or 
Choose Them".
-Andrew J. Bernstein. I like this quote a lot because we choose to believe the negative thoughts that we are thinking in our head or what people are telling about us and we should never believe what people are saying about us! Don't listen to the negative thoughts! They are toxic!! 


"Once You 
Replace 
Negative 
Thoughts With 
Positive 
Ones, You'll 
Start Having 
Positive
Results". 
-Willie Nelson!! I like this quote a lot because when you replace those toxic and negative thoughts and switch them with positive thoughts, you will have a great outcome and everything will be okay!! 

Let's think positive over negative thinking!! Positive vibes over negative vibes! I love y'all! 


Monday, January 8, 2024

Blog: The difference of "I love you" and "Love you" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Monday, 1/8/24!!

                                          Blog: The difference of "I love you" and "Love you" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Monday, 1/8/24!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! After being off for two weeks for the holidays, I am officially back and I couldn't be anymore happier with being back! I hope and pray that everyone had an amazing holiday season and I pray that everyone got what they wanted for Christmas and enjoyed time with family! First and furthermore, how are y'all doing today? I am praying that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever might be bothering my Blogger Dreamers, just know that you are loved and I'm always here for y'all, no matter what! Before I get into this week's blog episodes, here is a recap of my blogs before I went on break! On Monday, I analyzed the song "Standing Next To You" by: Jungkook, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! When I listen to this song, it gives me a Michael Jackson vibe which I love so much! I love the song a lot and if Michael Jackson was still alive, I think he would of love it as well! On Wednesday, I talked about my top 3 favorite blogs from last year! The one blog that stands out in my mind is when I did a blog about me and my boyfriend's 1 year anniversary blog and honestly, I love that blog so much! To me, that blog holds a special place in my heart and it will always hold a special place in my heart, no matter what! On Friday, I analyzed my poem "Don't come back". When I think about the title of that poem, I think about the people who quote on quote tried to come back in my life but I didn't let them because they have hurt me so many times! Don't let people come in and out of your life! Too toxic for you! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to, you can check them out at "brandeemariedarden.blogspot.com". Please, go check them out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! Now, for this week's blogs episodes, I will be talking about the difference of "I love you" and "Love you", analyzing my poem "Being around negative thoughts", and 3 ways how to be happy with yourself? Now, without any further interruptions, let's jump into our blogging imaginations and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! #sheisback!! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about the difference of "I love you" and "Love you" by: Brandee Marie Darden! In this blog episode, I will be talking about in my opinion, what is the difference between "I love you" and "love you"? Why is there the difference between the two? Which one has more meaning? Why does one have more meaning than the other? What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who fell in love with someone but they don't know if the love is real or fake? Why would I give my Blogger Dreamers my advice? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I choose to talk about today's blog episode is because I feel like everyone thinks there isn't a difference between the two and for me, I feel like for me, there is! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "Reckless Love" by: Cory Asbury! I love this song so much! When I listen to this song, I think about how God's love is loving and caring towards us and God is amazing! Why did I choose this song for the week? I choose this song for the week is because God has this love that will go on forever and ever and I love how God cares about us!! 

The difference between real love and fake love! Why is there a difference between real love and fake love? 

What is the difference between real love and fake love? The difference between real love and fake love is that with real love, you know when a person loves you and cares about your feelings whereas a person who gives you fake love is a person who doesn't love you or care about you at all and is there for you when it is convenient! When someone loves someone, they care about how they are doing and they show how much they love someone my doing the smallest things for them! I don't like when people give other people fake love! That's wrong and disrespectful! Always show others the real love they deserve!! Why is there a difference between real love and fake love? I think the reason why there is a difference between the two is because people in your life could either give you real love or fake love! Your significant other can also do the same thing! It depends on the person and who the person is because every person is different when they show love! Find people who will show you real love because everyone deserves real love, not someone who comes in and out of other's lives!! Find someone who loves you!! 

The difference between "I love you" and "love you". 

In my opinion, what is the difference between "I love you" and "love you"? The difference between "I love you" and "love you" is that with "I love you" is you are telling the person that you love them and you appreciate them for what they have done for them vs with "love you", you really don't love them, you just tolerate them for someone's sake! I don't like when people say "love you" to someone else! It makes me sad! You are showing that person that you really don't care for them that much and you will do so little for that person which is not fair! When that person has done a lot for you and they care about you, they will do everything in their power to love you back and when you don't receive that same treatment back, it hurts you and you don't deserve that at all! Treat someone with the same treatment as if you want to be treated with the same treatment because I love you can go along way whereas love you really can't go along way! 

Why? 

Why is there the difference between the two? The reason why there is the difference between the two is because I feel like "I love you" has more meaning whereas "love you" doesn't have any meaning at all! I mean it has a little meaning but not no meaning at all! Life is too short to say "love you" to someone who means a lot to you! When you care about that person so much, tell them "I love you". Tell that person how much they mean to you because tomorrow is never promised and they can be gone within a split second! I love you can go along way, but not love you! I believe in the words "I love you" instead of "love you" because I love you has more meaning then "love you". In the word "family", it has the words "I love you" and if your family doesn't love you or care about you, they are not your real family! Find people who love you for who you are and for how much they love you!! 

More meaning! 

Which one has more meaning? I think the one that has more meaning is "I love you". When you tell someone how much you love them, it shows how much you love that person or you showing them how much you will do anything for them! I love has a powerful meaning to it and for me, I prefer to say "I love you" to the people who I care about vs "love you". I care about the people who love me and I feel you say "I love you" to your partner a lot because if they are good to you, your partner deserves a lot of love and they will be there for you, no matter what! People who care about you deserve "I love you", not a "love you". There are people in this world who do love you for who you are! You just need to find the right people in your life who will say "I love you" instead of "love you" because I hear that a lot from people who I thought they love me but I don't know if they really care about me or not! I do hear "I love you" from my church family and my boyfriend! I take "I love you" to the heart because I prefer those words than "Love you" but I hear those words a lot as well! 

Why?

Why is does one have more meaning than the other? I think the reason why the other one has more meaning then the other is because with the word "I", you are showing them that you love them, you care about them, you appreciate them, and stuff like that! You are showing people who you love how much you want to do for them and for that, the are appreciative for what you have done for them! The times that I can remember, I can always remember "love you", not "I love you", ever now and then, I can hear those words but over the past year and two months, my boyfriend has shown me that he is always there for me, no matter what and that he loves me for who I am! When I am having a bad day, he is always there for me and he loves me for who I am which I am so blessed for! Always show your appreciation to the people who care about you because it can go a long way!! 

My advice! 

What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who fell in love with someone but they don't know if the love is real or fake? If you are in love with someone and you don't know if the love is real or fake, well - my advice is ask them 3 or however many questions you want to ask them and if they get all of them right, they love you but if they got all of them wrong, they don't love you! Another advice is if they got you your favorite snack or drink or even your favorite type of animal as a stuff animal, they know very well and they really love you for who you are! Find a person who will pay attention to the small details about you! Small details about small details about a person can go a long way and my boyfriend and I are still learning about each other and we always learn about something new each and everyday day! Find someone who pay attention about the smallest things about you!! 

Why? 

Why would I give my Blogger Dreamers my advice? I think the reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I think it is important to find someone who can learn the smallest details about you and get something from the store that you personally like! With my boyfriend, he knows that I like fake flowers and I love how he remembers! Find a person who will remember what you like because their love for you can run a long way and it is important to have a person who loves you, who will say "I love you", and remembers the smallest details about you because they are showing you how much they love you and that's very important!! Always show the person that you care about how much you love them because you saying "I love you" can go along way and it shows them that they are appreciated by whoever they are loved by!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, saying "I love you" and "love you" are two completely different because with "I love you", you are saying "I' and with "love you" you're not and that is totally different from saying "I love you". When you are saying "I love you" to someone who you care about, it is showing them that they are loved by someone who actually loves them! When someone someone is falling in love with a person and they go to a store and they remember your favorite snack or your favorite kind of stuff of animal, they are showing you they remember the little things that you told them and that is very important because when you are about to enter into a relationship, you should always remember the little details to that person because that can go a long way as well! Here is my tip of that day: my tip of the day is always say "I love you" to the people who you care about because it can go miles and it can show people how much you love them! I love y'all, my Blogger Dreamers!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I have missed y'all so much! I love connecting with my Blogger Dreamers and I pray that y'all can connect to this blog episode! I always had certain people in my life tell me "love you" but not "I love you" until I met my boyfriend and he showed what real love feels like and I will forever feel the love between him and I! Show the love that you have for your friends and family because you don't know when their last day could be! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Stop Worrying Long Enough To Hear His Voice". -Toby Mac! I absolutely love this quote so much because when you stop worrying about the littlest things, you can hear God's voice and to that God is always with you, it shows that God cares about you and he will always be here for you, no matter what! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and I am praying that everyone will have a good Monday or in other countries, a good Tuesday! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"! On Wednesday, I will analyze my poem "Being around negative thoughts", so stay tuned! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen out! Peace!! ☮💜✌

Today's quote of the day! Hear God's voice and let him lead the way because he knows what is best for you!! Quit worrying about the littlest things and focus on things that are important!! 



"iloveyou; I wrote it 
with no spaces so 
there's no room for 
anyone else".
-Unknown! I love this quote so much because when you love someone and you don't see with anyone else but them, there is no space for anyone else but that person! Keep that person! 


"Immature love 
says; 'I love you 
because I need 
you'. Mature love 
says 'I need you 
because I love 
you". 
Eric Fromm. I love this quote so much because when you are young and immature, you will love a person but when you are mature, you realize that you need that person and you care about that person more than anything because you need them and I love them a lot! 


"To love is 
nothing. To be 
loved is 
something. But 
to love and be loved, that's 
everything". 
-T. Tolis. I love quote a lot because everyone deserved to be loved and having someone to love for who you are is the best! Having someone who loves you is the best!! Don't let that person go! 


For this week's song of the week, I chose "Reckless Love" by Cory Asbury! I love this song because God's love is never ending he loves because he loves us so much!! God will always cares about us, no matter what!! 


                                                                                      

Friday, December 15, 2023

Analyzing my poem "Life without you" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 12/15/23

                                              Analyzing my poem "Life without you" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 12/15/23 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that comes to mind! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is going on in your life or whatever it is bothering you, just know that you are never alone in this battle and you are loved by a lot of people including myself! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about my top 3 favorite moments from this year! I had so many moments that I loved this year but the top 3 favorite moments that I picked out are pretty special to me! Those are the moments that will be held in my heart forever! For example, one of the top moments that are my favorite from this year is when I made a profession of faith! To see where I am today since last year has been a world wind change and I am so proud of myself! If y'all want to know what is my other top favorite moments from this year, please go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! The blog is called "My top 3 favorite moments from this year"! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Life without you" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! In blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the title of my poem, who did I write this poem all about? Why did I write this poem about that person or people? When I say "Life without you would be dark and dull", who am I talking about right there? Why am I talking about that person or people? If I have any advice about finding people who care about you, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without any further do, let's jump into this blog episode with our blogging imagination brains on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about my poem! What is this poem about? Why did I write this poem about? 

On November 2nd of this year, I wrote a poem called "Life without you" and here is how it goes: "Life without you" by: Brandee Marie Darden! 
Life without 
you would be 
dark and dull!
Life without 
your smile 
would be
dark, just like 
sun without 
light! Life 
without you
would be
boring! If I 
can't have 
you in my 
life, then 
it would be
sad! Life without 
you would be 
hard"! 
Love, Brandee 
Marie Darden.
Written on Thursday, November 2nd, 2023!! What is this poem all about? This poem is all about not having a certain person who makes you happy or who has been there for you would be difficult! Life without that special person would be hard! Don't lose that person! When you a meet someone who is special to you, you don't want to lose that person! You can't imagine your life without them in it!! Why did I write poem about? The reason why I wrote my poem about a certain person who makes you happy or who has been there for you would be difficult is because when you meet a certain someone or you have special people in your life, it is hard to let them go and you never want to let that person go and so, for you, never let a person go who means a lot to you!! 

When I think about the title of my poem ....

When I think about the title of my poem, who did I write this poem all about? When I think about the title of my poem, there is a lot of people who I write this poem all about! I think about my boyfriend, the people at my church, and even some of my friends! My life without my boyfriend or the people at my church, and even some of my friends, I can't imagine my life without them in it! It would be too hard and too difficult! They all make me so happy and they are there for me when I need them the most! I am so blessed to have people who are amazing and wonderful! God truly blessed me in a way! 

Why? 

Why did I write this poem about that person or people? The reason why I wrote this poem about that person or people because without my boyfriend or my church family or even my friends, I don't know where I would be without them! They make me truly happy! It's like sun without light! When I met some of my friends, my church family, and my boyfriend, my world was so dark and if I didn't have these people, I think my world of been so dark still!! God blessed me in so many ways!! I feel blessed!! 

When I say, "Life without you would be dark and dull".... 

When I say, "Life without you would be dark and dull", who am I talking about right there? When I say "Life without you would be dark and dull", I am talking about so many people right there!! I think person that is coming through my mind is my boyfriend! Everyday, he makes laugh and smile!! Without my boyfriend, I don't know if I would be so happy and smiley! My church family and certain friends make me happy as well! There is a lot of people who makes me smile and my life would be dark and dull without them!!! I love the people who are apart of my life and I am so blessed to have amazing people who are amazing to me and always there for me, no matter what!! 

Why? 

Why am I talking about that person or people? The reason why I am talking about my boyfriend, my church family more people is because when you have people in your life and without them, your life would be dark and dull! That is how I feel with certain people in my life!! Having people who mean a lot to you and having them supporting you through thick and thin and thinking about that makes me happy to think that I have the right people in my life and I deserve those people in my life!!! Always find the right people in your life who is going to be there and support you, no matter what!! Those people matter, no matter what!!! 

My advice!! 

If I have any advice about finding people who care about you, what is my advice? If I have any advice for my Blogger Dreamers who are trying to find people who care about you, my advice is when you find those people who care about you, keep those people because once you find those people, it is hard to find people who care about you! For me, I know a lot of people and I know who cares about me and who doesn't care about me! Finding the right people who care about and who will check on you is a blessing in disguise! When you find out that person doesn't care about you, they are showing you their true colors and you don't need that type of a person in your life! Find people who do care about you and who do love you for you because people will love you for who you are and that matters!! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when you find people who do care about you and support you, keep those people in your life because once you find those people, they are very important and they are worth keeping for a long time because they are showing you how much they care about you and they are showing you that they love you a lot! It's hard to find people who can be caring and supportive but once you find those people, keep them because they are worth keeping and they will always be worth keeping, no matter what!! I love the people who are in my life!!! They are amazing and I love each person so much!!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, the moral of my poem is find people who care about you and who love you for who you are which is hard to find!! I have a friend and he would always made sure that I was happy and made sure that I was laughing! He is going to be missed very much! In life, we will find people who will make our life as bright as the sun and I am so blessed to find people who are my light on a dark day! I feel happy around those people and I am so happy to have those people in my life! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is find people who will care about you and support you, no matter what!! Having people who absolutely care about you and love you for who you are is the most important thing in the world! Keep those people in your life!! They are very important people to have around!! I love y'all!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! Having people who care about you and love you for who you are is the most important thing ever because if that person don't love you for who you are, how they are going to love you at your lowest and your highest? You can't have people who will love you at your lowest but not love you at your highest! It doesn't make sense to me!! Keep people who will care about you! Those people care!! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: In Life, We Never Lose Friends, We Only Learn Who The True Ones Are". -Unknown. I find this quote very relatable because people are going to be there for you when it is convenient but people are going to be there through thick and thin and those are the true friends that you absolutely need! I love y'all so much and I hope everyone will have a good Friday or in other countries, a good Saturday! Stay warm our there and always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all next week where I will be talking about analyzing the song "Standing next to you" by Jungkook, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden, my top 3 favorite blogs from this year, and my poem "Don't come back". Stay tuned for those and I will see y'all soon! Peace!! ☮✌💜



Today's quote of the day! I love this quote so much and the real ones will stay by your side, no matter what! Don't depend on the fake friends!! 


My poem that I wrote on Thursday, 11/2/23. This poem holds a lot of meaning to it and I am so blessed to have people who truly care about me! I am so blessed!! 


"There is a big difference between 
not being able to live without 
someone and loving them".
-Anna Todd. I love this quote a lot because it is hard to live without a person when you love them so much!! 


"It's Amazing How
One Day Someone Walks 
Into Your Life And You
Can't Remember 
How You Ever Lived 
Without Them".
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because people can walk into your life and you don't know if you can't imagine your life without that person again!! 


To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose the song " Please, Don't Change" by Jungkook Featuring DJ Snake. When I listen to this song, I think about not changing for someone else because if someone doesn't like me for who I am, then oh well! Don't make someone change if you can't like them for who they are!! 

Wednesday, December 13, 2023

Blog topic: My top 3 favorite moments from this year! By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 12/13/23!!

                                            Blog topic: My top 3 favorite moments from this year! By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 12/13/23!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode for today! On this blog page, I talk about anything personal to poems to pretty much anything that comes to mind!! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! If not, that's okay because I am here for my Blogger Dreamers and will always be here for my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what!!  Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Before I get into my blog today, here is a recap of Monday's blog! On Monday, I analyzed the song "Please, Don't Change" by Jungkook featuring DJ Snake, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! When I listen to this song, I think about the times where people would tell celebrities you should change and that would make me angry because if you don't like this person they are, then don't be around them! We should never have to change for someone if they never liked us in the beginning! If y'all haven't read this blog but would love to check it out, the blog is called "Analyzing the song "Please, Don't Change" by Jungkook, featuring DJ Snake, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about my top 3 favorite moments from this year! In this blog episode for today, I will be talking about if I had to pick my top 3 favorite moments from this year, what would those moments be? Why would I pick those moments as my favorite? If I had to pick my number one favorite moment from this year, what moment would that be? Why would I pick that moment as my favorite moment from this year? What is the significance behind that moment? Why is there significance behind specific memory? Now, let's get our blogging brain on and let's get started with an all new blog episode for today! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about my least favorite moments from this year! Why would I pick those moments as my least favorite this year? 

If I had to my least favorite moments from this year, what would those moments be? The 1st moment that I didn't like from this year was where I cried a lot! Yes!!! I did cry a lot this year and I wish I didn't but I did!! The 2nd least moment that I didn't like was when I had to block people because of certain reasons!! I don't like blocking people but this year, I had to do it because of my mental health reasons and to me, I had to do what I had to do for me!! The 3rd and final moment that I would pick as my least favorite moment from this year is when a certain person didn't show up to my baptism!! To me, that day was so important but when I didn't see a certain person that, I was hurt but I had to move on and continue to move forward on my day! I was happy to see the people who did come!! Why would I pick those moments as my least favorite this year? The reason why I picked all these moments as my least favorite this year is because they all hurt me this year! Having to cry a lot this year was hard, blocking people was hard, and not seeing that certain person at my baptism was hard but those things made me stronger and I am so blessed that those things made me stronger!!! 

My top 3 favorite moments!! 

If I had to pick my top 3 favorite moments from this year, what would those moments be? The 1st moment that I would pick as my favorite is when I professed my faith in believing in God and knowing that Jesus died on the cross for my sins! When I professed my faith, I felt the weight off my shoulders and I couldn't be anymore happier! I felt good and it was a sign of relief for me!! My 2nd favorite moment is celebrating me and my boyfriend's 1 year anniversary! To think that me and my boyfriend celebrated 1 year together is unbelievable! We have been through so much together already and to think we already have been together for 1 year is amazing!! He has been the best thing that is ever happened to me and he makes me truly happy!! My 3rd and final favorite moment from this year would have to be during the summer, I got to go to Gospel Singers Of America or GSA! Over the summer, I had the privilege to go and learn how to read music and learn how to play the piano and I had an amazing time! Learning a lot was great and I am praying that I get to go next year!! I had a good experience!! 

Why?

Why would I pick those moments as my favorite? The 1st reason why I would pick the 1st moment as my favorite is because I have felt so lost for so long! During the song service, God was telling me something and on the night of March 15th of this year, I professed my faith and when I did that, every weight was coming off my shoulders one by one and I couldn't be anymore happier! When that was finally coming off, I felt like I could breathe again all because of God! The 2nd reason why I would pick the 2nd moment as my favorite is because me and my boyfriend have been through so much! He has seen me cry! He has seen me happy! He has seen me with every emotion that you can think of and knowing that I can have someone who is there for me when I need someone the most is the best feeling in the world! God knew that I need someone and he did send my boyfriend to me and man, I am blessed! The 3rd and final reason why I would pick the 3rd moment as my favorite is because I learned a lot while I was there and learning how to play the piano was a good experience! I got out of my shell and I couldn't be any more proud of myself!! I have grown up a lot this year and I am looking forward to seeing what 2024 has in store for me, my boyfriend, and my Blogger Dreamers! 

My number one favorite moment from this year! 

If I had to pick my number one favorite moment from this year, what moment would that be? If I had to pick the number one favorite moment from this year out of the moments that I mentioned, the moment that I would pick as my favorite is the moment that I professed my faith! Don't get me wrong, I loved celebrating me and my boyfriend's 1 year anniversary and I loved going to GSA but when I professed my faith in knowing that God led me to Jesus being my savior, I feel more happier than I already am! God led me to Jesus and I am so happy that he did! That moment will live on in my head forever and I will pray for the people who don't know God or who don't know Jesus!! God is an amazing God who will lead you to the right path and he surly did lead me on the right path!!! 

Why? 

Why would I pick that moment as my favorite from this year? The reason why I picked the moment where I professed my faith as my favorite moment from this year is because when God burdened my heart for so long and when people put their problems on me, it hurt my heart a lot and finally, I just surrendered all of my problems and gave it to God! I have never felt better that night when I surrendered everything to God and I am so blessed that I did that! When I read the bible, I feel better! When I am in my prayer room, I feel happy because that is a place where I don't mind sitting at for a long time! I created a place for me to feel safe when I pray and when I can talk to God and I'm glad that I did!! 

The significance! 

What is the significance behind that moment? The significance behind that moment is when I professed my faith, I knew for a long time I was lost! I had people putting their problems on me and not having someone that was my parent there for me was extremely hard but when God led me to him and to Jesus, I felt comforted and I knew that I felt safe! To think about how far I have come within my journey, I never felt so happy and felt so much better in my life knowing that God is my Savior and that he sent Jesus to die on the cross for our sins! God blessed me in so many ways and I am so happy that he did! I'm happy about how my life is going right now! I can't wait to see what God has in store for me in 2024!! 

Why? 

Why is there significance behind that specific memory? The reason why there is significance behind that specific memory is because I knew in my heart that I was lost! I knew I needed to be found and I turned to God and I am glad that God saved me and that he sent his only begotten Son to die on the cross! When I am reading my bible, I feel happy because I love learning about the bible! I love talking to God because I know within deep in my soul he will answer prayers! God is a good God and we need to believe in him! I will never forget my profession of faith and I will always have faith, no matter what! God is leading me on the right path and I am looking forward to seeing where it will lead me! 

In closing/ Question of the day? 

In closing, this year was fill of emotions!! To see where I am at today is unbelievable! I feel like I have grown as a person and I feel like I have come out of my shell a lot! Professing my faith and knowing that I can talk to God about my problems is an amazing feeling to feel! Knowing that I have a boyfriend of year that I can talk to him about anything and knowing that he won't judge me is an amazing feeling! Knowing that God gave me an opportunity to learn how to read music and learn how to play the piano is a great feeling! I am so blessed to see how my life has changed drastically! I wouldn't have it in another way! For today's question of the day, it goes something like this: My question of the day is What is y'all's top 3 favorite moments from this year? Why would y'all pick those moments from this year as y'all's favorite? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read everyone's comments!! Please! Thank you all so much!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog episode because I know that I did! Knowing that I can talk about these moments is the best feeling in the world! 2023 had good times and bad times but I will never forget my moments that I picked! Those are moments that will stay in my head forever!! Now, it is time for quote of the day! For today's quote of the day, it goes a little something like this: "A heart that always understands also gets tired". -Unknown. I absolutely can relate to this quote a lot because I can understand a lot of people but when someone hurts me, it breaks me and I can understand a lot but once you hurt, I am tired and I don't want to be messed with! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and I hope and pray that everyone will have a great Wednesday, or in other countries, a great Thursday! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't Give Up On Your Dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog episode where I will be talking about my poem "Life without you". I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💙

Today's quote of the day! When a heart can understand so much but when the heart can't take it anymore, that person is so tired! Let the heart rest!! 


Me on March 15th when I professed my faith in God and when I knew Jesus died on the cross for our sins!! I took this picture before I went to church actually!! 


Me and my boyfriend on our 1 year anniversary! I love these photos so much!! 


My GSA shirt that I got on the first day that I went!! I love this shirt so much!! Such an amazing shirt!!  


Monday, December 11, 2023

Blog: Analyzing the song "Please, Don't Change" by Jungkook featuring DJ Snake, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Monday, 12/11/23!!

                                            Blog: Analyzing the song "Please, Don't Change" by Jungkook featuring DJ Snake, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Monday, 12/11/23!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today!! First and further more, Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! How are y'all doing today? I hope y'all are doing okay and well! Whatever it is going on in your life whether it is personal or whatever it is going on deep down in your heart, just know that you are loved and I care about y'all so much!! Y'all are loved here at the Blogger Dreamers!! Before I jump into this week's blogs, here is a recap of last week's blogs!! On my makeup and fashion blog page, I talked about my favorite clothing by Jin on Monday! Jin's birthday was on Monday and I wanted to do a blog for Jin and when I think about Jin's sense of fashion, I think it is amazing and I love certain outfits by him especially when he wore the white shirt with the black detailing, black pants, and black shoes! When he wore his military, I thought he looked nice!! On Wednesday, I talked about Jungkook's "Golden" concept photos! When I saw these outfits for this concept, I thought he looked amazing and so handsome! I love each outfit a lot!! So handsome!! On Friday, I talked about outfits that I would wear during winter, part 2!! I love the outfits that I picked out for winter! I thought each outfit speak winter and I think they were so cute! If y'all haven't read those blogs and would love to check them out, please check them out at "ilovemakeup17.blogspot.com". Please! Thank you so much! Now, for this week's blogs episodes, I will be talking about analyzing the song "Please, don't change" by Jungkook featuring DJ Snake, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden, my top 3 favorite moments from this year, and analyzing my poem "Life without you" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Now, without any further ado, let's jump into our blogging imagination and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I chose to talk about this blog topic? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I chose this song for the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing the song "Please, Don't Change" by: Jungkook featuring DJ Snake, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I listen to this song and I think about the lyrics, what comes to mind? Why does it come to my mind like that? What does this song mean to me? Why does this song mean to me? If I have any advice about someone telling you to change, what would my advice be? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I chose to talk about this blog topic? The reason why I chose to talk about this blog topic is because people think we need to change for them and it's not fair for us! When people say "you don't look good", it can hurt people to say things like that and we should never change for someone!! What is this week's song for the week? For this week's song for the week, I chose "Please, Don't Change" by Jungkook, featuring DJ Snake! I love this song so much! When I listen to this song, I think about the times where I wanted to change myself but I realized that I don't need to change and I will never change!! Why did I chose this song for the week? The reason why I chose this song is because we don't need to change for anyone! The ones who don't like us for who we are is dumb and we need to be proud of who we are as a person!! 

Talking about the lyrics! What does the lyrics mean to me? Why do those lyrics mean to me? 

This year, Jungkook came out with a song called "Please, Don't Change" and here how the lyrics goes "Lights on camera
Fast life stamina 
Nowhere to hide on a satellite 
Life on camera 
Even if your stars align and you're light-years away 
I'll be the same, I'll be the same
Tell me if my stars align and I'm light-years away 
Will you do the same? 
Could you, could you please
Please, don't change 
Please, please, don't change
'Cause I love you, yeah, I love you
Oh, I love you, love the way you are
Please, please don't change". What does the lyrics mean to me? The lyrics mean a lot to me!! When you are a celebrity and people tell you to "change" because you don't meet their standards, that can be a little harsh at times! You shouldn't have to listen to the people who are saying "You should change", but you look good either way!! Why do those lyrics mean to me? The reason why these lyrics has meaning is because when you are in the public eye, people can be cruel to you and that can be hard at times! It's not just celebrities, it is also regular people as well! It makes me angry at times when people can be cruel at times!! Let's not change people because people can be insecure with the ways they look and the person who is telling that person to change is making it worse! Don't make it worse!! 

When I listen to this song and think about the lyrics!! 

When I listen to this song and I think about the lyrics, what come to mind? When I think about this song and I think about the lyrics, I think about the meaning of the song and the meaning of the lyrics! I think when people have told me to "not to change" because I have this heart of gold and to know that I have this heart of gold means that I care about people! I am not here to change people and I don't want to change people but people should be the ones who are willing to change their attitude towards that person! I don't believe in people changing their looks or the way they dress but if people don't like the way you dress or the way you look, they just need to suck it up! We don't need to dress a certain way or look a certain way to fit in! We need to be who we are as a person and be proud of who we are as a person!! 

Why? 

Why does it come to my mind like that? The reason why it comes to mind like that is because people expect us to change or people should look a certain way and that is frustrating to me! When people tell you how you should dress or you shouldn't wear this type of an outfit, it can be hard at times because you have worked so hard to gain your confidence when people knock down your confidence, that can hard at times and people should never have to knock down your confidence! You should be confident the way you are and you should be happy in your own body! Don't let anyone tear your confidence down because if you do that, you are letting them win and that's wrong! Never let that person win! Tell yourself that you are confident because one day, you will get there and don't let others knock down your confidence!! 

What does this song mean?  

When I think about what this song means, what does this song mean to me? This song means a lot to me! This song hits home for me because I get in my head a lot and there have been times where I felt like "am I good enough to wear this outfit" or "does my makeup look good", stuff like that!! I get so many insecurities about what I wear or the way I do my makeup at times! When I think this song, I think when people need to have a certain way to look when you are a celebrity or just any person, that can be difficult at times! People should never have to tell you how you should look or the way you dress! To me, it feels like when people are telling others how to dress or the way you should look, it feels like you are changing them and to me, you should never tell a person how to dress or how they should look! That's just me!! 

Why?

Why does this song mean to me? The reason why this song mean to me is because God made you the way you are and of people can accept the fact that you are different and that you are happy the way you are, then that's their fault that they can't accept you for who you are! The person who has to accept you is you and that's it! You should never have to become different for someone who probably can't accept themselves!! Never stoop to others levels because if you stoop to their level, you are showing them that they won and you should never let them win!! Don't let others tear you down! You are much better than that and you look amazing the way you are!! 

My advice!!  

If I have any advice about someone telling you to change, what would my advice be? If I have any advice for my Blogger Dreamers about someone telling you to change, my advice is don't change for that person! If that person can't accept you the way you are, then that's their problem, not your problem! You are an amazing person and if people can't accept you for who you are as a person, then oh well!! People don't realize when you tell them to change, it shows them that they think can change anyone and they can't! If you can't accept the person for who they are, then that's their problem, no yours! You don't have to change for anyone if they can't accept you!!! Don't change for someone!! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I want them to know how amazing they are are and they should never change for someone who can't accept them for who they are as person!! I know there is people out there in my life who can't accept me for who I am and I am totally fine with that! I am a Christian girl and I am totally okay with that! If people have a problem with me being a Christian girl, oh well! This is who I am and I am fine with it! God made me the way I am and I love being the person who I am! God change my life and I'm glad that he did!! Don't listen to people who can't accept you for who are because you are much better than that! Don't forget that!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!!  

In closing, don't change for someone who can't accept you for who you are! The person that who you are is awesome and you should never listen to those people don't care about you! The people who don't care about you, they want you to change and that's wrong of them! Don't let people change you! You are much better than that and if you let them change you, then you are changing yourself for them and you are not staying true to yourself at all!!! My tip of the day is don't let people change you! Stay true to who you are as individual person, not someone who listens to others! Stay true to yourself! Don't change for someone who didn't accept you in the first place!! I love y'all!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers!!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today!! Please, don't change for someone who you can't you as a person that you are now!! The person that you are now is the person who you should accept for who you are! People expect you to change and you should never have to change the person who you are!! Be proud of who you are and accept the person who you are!! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "Anyone who takes the time to be kind is beautiful". - Richelle E. Goodrich. I love this quote so much because being kind to someone is beautiful! Show people that there is more kind people in this world than mean people! People are mean but beautiful people are kind! Let's be kind today!! I love y'all and have a good Monday or in other countries, a good Tuesday! I will see y'all on Wednesday where I will be talking my top 3 favorite moments from this!! Stay tuned for that!! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't Give Up On Your Dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog episode! Peace!! ☮✌❤



Today's quote of the day! Let's be kind to one another and not be rude!! 


Lyrics to "Please, Don't Change" by Jungkook featuring DJ Snake! This song reminds me to stay true to myself and that there is people who love me for who I am!! 


"Don't change yourself so that other 
people will like you. 
Be yourself so that the right people 
will love you".
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because if you stay true to who you are, people are going to love you! Stay true to who you are and never change!! 


"Don't change yourself 
just to make 
someone happy,
unless that someone 
is you". 
-Unknown!! I love this quote so much because if you are not happy, then change something about yourself but if someone telling you to change, then don't change for that person!! 



This week's song of the week! Don't let anyone change you for who you are because the person that you are is amazing and don't y'all ever forget that!! I love y'all!!