Blog: What is love? by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 2-13-26!!

              💕 Blog: What is love? by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 2-13-26! This blog is dedicated to anyone who doesn't feel loved or who is looking for love! This blog episode is for y'all! I love y'all! 💕 

Intro to my blog/ Blog recap/ Today's blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever y'all are dealing with, I'm here for y'all always! Before I do a blog recap on my blog episode from Wednesday, I want to remind everyone that I will be taking a short break next week but don't worry, I will be back! Now, with that being said, on Wednesday, I talked about what 3 things knocked me down? One of the things that have knocked me down in my life is people who are mean! When people are mean to me, it breaks me because it hurts me a lot and it shakes me up a lot!! Want to know more about this blog episode? I will leave the link right here: ➡️What 3 things knocked me down? ⬅️ Link right here!! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what is love? This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who doesn't feel loved or who is looking for love! This blog episode is for y'all! I love y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could describe what is love to me, what is love? Why is that love to me? What is my love language? Why is that my love language? With this being said, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

What is not love to me? Why is that not love to me? 

What is not love to me? Love not to me is someone who doesn't support their partner's dreams! Love not to me is someone who doesn't show that same love! When you love someone, you support their dreams and support what they do, not criticize them for what they are doing! When that person say "I love you" but you say "love you", that hurts a person! It shows them that you don't love them! Why is that not love to me? The reason why that is not love to me is because when you don't support that person, you are hurting that person! When you are criticizing that person, you are bringing that person down! Be careful the way you love a person!! 

Love to me? 

If I could describe what is love to me, what is love? Love to me is someone who loves you unconditionally! When someone loves you unconditionally, they care about you and be there for you! When you have that special person, you never want to lose someone who will love you for you! That is pretty special! Having a person who loves you unconditionally and takes care of you, that's pretty special, if you ask me!! 

Why? 

Why is that love to me? The reason why that is love to me is because when you have that person who loves and cares about you, they will do anything to make sure that you are well taken care of! They will do anything to make sure that you are happy! They will make sure that you are well protected! They will do anything and drop anything to make sure you are okay! That to me sounds like love! When a person loves you, they will love you with every being in your heart! That's special!! 

Love language? 

What is my love language? If I could pick two love languages, the 1st love language is writing letters or receiving letters! I am a sucker for letters! If you write me a letter, I would accept it! I will keep the letter and read it forever and ever!! The 2nd and final love language is making stuff! I love making stuff! I don't care about going to the store and buying it! If I can make it for cheap, then I would love to do it!! I will make or paint anything!! 

Why?

Why is that my love language? The 1st love language is writing letters or receiving letters and the 1st reason why I that is my love language is because when I write someone a letter or receiving a letter, I feel happy and excited! I have several letters from my fiancé and every once in a while, I would read them! They are special to me and they will always be special to me!! The 2nd and final love language is making stuff and the final reason why I that is my love language is because when I make something or even paint something, my heart gets overjoyed! When I get overjoyed, I am thrilled and excited! I love seeing the final product and wonder if that person will love it! As long as that person loves it, I'm happy!! 

In closing/ Friday's encouragement!! 

In closing, finding someone who loves unconditionally can be a challenge at times because you don't know if they will love you for you or if they will take care of you the right way or if they will support you or not!! It is hard to find the right person for you but once they come your way, you never want to lose that person! I never thought I would find the right person for me until I met my fiancé but here we are five years into friendship and 3 years and 3 months into a relationship and almost a year to being engaged, I wouldn't want to have anyone else other than him! He is pretty special to me! I love how he is! Here is Friday's Encouragement for the day: My Friday encouragement is Be patient! It's all in God's timing because if you wait on God's timing, the right person will come and when that special person does come, don't lose them!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! The moral of this blog episode is be patient when it comes to love because once you find someone who loves you unconditionally and will take care of you, never lose that person! I never thought I would find someone who would take care of me like my dad ever took care of me but I sure did!! I never thought I would find someone who would support me like my dad has but I sure did! Be patient when it comes to love!! Today's Bible Verse of the day comes from Romans 1:17 and it says "For therein is the righteousness of God revealed from faith to faith: as it is written, The just shall live by faith". When you get close to God, God will revealed to you that no matter how hard life can get sometimes, we need to have faith in him! We need to have faith in God because God will never let us down! Man will let us down, but God won't! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and I will see y'all on my next blog episode which be on Monday, February 23rd because next week, I will be taking a break but don't worry, I will be coming back! Stay tuned for week of Sunday, February 22nd because on that week, I will be doing my makeup and fashion blog page and I will be talking about outfits with my navy blue and maroon skirt, 3 makeup looks with my golden eyeshadow palette, and 3 makeup looks with my Intergrity  Wild Animal palette by: Revelation! Stay tuned for those blog episodes and with all being said, this Blogger Queen is out! I love y'all! Always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and always remember that God loves you and so does Jesus and I will see y'all next time! I love y'all! Stay safe!! 🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶

Today's Bible Verse of the day!! We need to have faith in God because once you have faith in God, he will lead you on the right path! Always trust what God will do! 

"Love Isn't About 
Finding 
Perfection, It's 
About Choosing 
Someone Every
Day, Even On The 
Imperfect Days".
-Unknown. You are going to find person who is perfect for you and you are going to find someone who will love you on those days where they are horrible! When you find that person, keep that person!! 

"You make my heart 
feel seen, heard, and 
deeply loved". 
-Unknown. When someone makes your heart feel seen, heard, and deeply loved, that person wants to make sure that you are seen, heard, and deeply loved because they want to make sure that you are happy!!! 

"Find someone who makes you feel 
safe, loved, and understood. That's the
kind of love worth growing old with".
-R.M. Drake. Find a person who is willing to be your safe place, makes you feel loved, and who will understand you because once you do, never let them go!! 

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! For this week's song of the week, I chose "Light Inside You" by: Allison Eide. When I listen to this song, I think about someone can see the good in you and when that person sees the good in you, they also see the light in you as well!! Be that golden light for that person! I love y'all and so does Jesus and have a good Valentine's day weekend! Be safe!! 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

Blog: What 3 things knocked me down? By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 2/11/26

                                               Blog: What 3 things knocked me down? By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 2/11/26!! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who has felt like they have been knocked down! This blog episode is for y'all! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that comes to mind whether it is my poems to songs that I absolutely love and adore to whatever God has put on my heart! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are dealing with, I'm here for y'all always! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Who is ready for an all new weekly blog episode for the day? I know that I am but 1st, a blog recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I analyzed a song which is the song of the week called "Light Inside You" by: Allison Eide, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! When I think about the song title, I think about how God can use you in a might way! God can use us in a mighty way!! God will use us in ways you weren't expecting! Let God use you in a mighty way! Do y'all want to know more about this blog episode? Link right here:➡️ "Light Inside You" by: Allison Eide, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! ⬅️Link right here!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what 3 things knocked me down? This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who has felt like they have been knocked down! This blog episode is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could pick 3 things that knocked me down in my life, what 3 things that knocked me down in my life? Why did those things knock me down in my life? Out of those things that have knocked me down, which one knocked me down the most? Why did that one thing knock me down the most? With that being said, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

How could I describe my life? Why would I describe my life like that? 

How could I describe my life? If I could describe my life, I would describe my life as full of ups and downs! There are days where I could be happy but then, I have days where I'm down in the dumps! Sometimes, life takes me by a surprise and takes me down which is hard for me and I don't like that but that is apart of life and I need to accept it! Sometimes, the devil will take me down but I will never let him do that! Why would I describe my life like that? The reason why I would describe my life as full of ups and downs because life can be full of ups and downs! People are good at tearing each other and I know that people have tear me down before and not a good feeling at all! Be careful who you are around!

3 things that knocked me down! 

If I could pick 3 things that knocked me down in my life, what 3 things that knocked me down in my life? If I could pick the 1st thing that knocked me down in my life, it would have to be people who are mean! The ones who have been mean to me will knock me down and make me feel like I am not worthy at times! People who make you feel like you are not worthy are people who don't care and that's sad! I had people in my life who will feel make me feel like that! The 2nd thing that knocked me down in my life is the world! I had people in this world who made me feel like I was nothing or even worse, bully me! No one shouldn't have to be bullied in this world and unfortunately, it happens and it's sad!!  The 3rd and final thing that knocked me down in my life is not feeling like I am never good enough! There are times where I might feel like I am good enough but not good enough in other people's eyes and that's hard on me! There are times where people will knock me down and that's hard! 

Why?

Why did those things knock me down in my life? The 1st thing that knocked me down in life would have to be people who are mean and the reason why it knocked me down in life is because people who are mean will unfortunately, knock you down and throw insults at you! People will tear you down and make you feel less of a person and that's hard! The 2nd thing that knocked me down in life would have to be the world and the 2nd reason why it knocked me down in life is because the world will knock you down and spit you out! They will mock you and make fun of you! I had people tear me down and test my faith but I stand my ground and I am proud of myself for that!! The 3rd and final thing that knocked me down in life would have to be not feeling like I am never good enough and the 3rd and final reason why it knocked me down in life is because in people's eyes, I might be worthy but in other people's eyes, there are times where I didn't feel as worthy because maybe I am not good enough to them and to me, that hurts! Sometimes, I feel like I don't "fit in" to that person and that is the worst feeling in the world!! 

Knocked me down the most? 

Out of those things that have knocked me down, which one knocked me down the most? If I had to pick the one that has knocked me down the most in my life, it would have to be the world! Sometimes, the world wants you to be like them but we should never be like the world! The world is nasty and they never cared about your feelings and that is the saddest thing in the world!! People in this world will mock you and tear you apart! I had people in this world make test my faith but I never backed down and I am proud of myself for that!!

Why?

Why did that one thing knocked me down the most? The reason why the world has knocked me down the most is because people in this world are cruel and nasty! They never cared about what you like and what your dislikes are and people don't care how you dressed! People can be very judgmental and that's not right at all! People are awful and mean and they will never care about your feelings at all! I had someone in life who would test my faith at times but did I ever back down? Nope because I stand strong!! People will be mean! Don't be around those people!!

In closing/ Wisdom for the day! 

In closing, we live in a world that people who are mean, the world, and not feeling like I am never good enough! People will make you feel less of a person and I know what that feels like! I had the world tear me apart and make me feel like I am not important! I had people think I was never good enough in their eyes and that was rough!! People don't care if you like this or that! All they care about how they can pick on you and that's all they care about! Here is my wisdom for the day: My wisdom for the day is Don't listen to the people who will tear you down! Don't let that person make you feel any less! I love y'all so much! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just made it to the end of today's blog episode for the day!! We live in a world people are mean and people will make you feel like you are not good enough and that's hard! Never listen to people and never listen to people who will tear you down because those people aren't worth it and those people don't care! Here is my Bible Verse of the day: For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taking from Luke 12:40 and it says "Be ye therefore ready also: for the Son of man cometh at an hour when ye think not". We need to be ready for Jesus' return because we may not know the hour or the day, but he will be returning and we need to be ready! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and stay tuned for Friday's blog episode where I will be talking about what is love? Stay tuned! Always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's share how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! Let's love like Jesus, not just today but everyday! I love y'all!! Blogger Queen out! 💕🫶💕🫶💕🫶💕🫶💕🫶

Today's Bible Verse of the day from Luke 12:40! We need to be ready! We don't know when Jesus is coming back but when he does. he will be taking his children! Get right with Jesus and God today!! 

"Only people who are not 
happy with themselves 
are mean to others. 
Remember that". 
-Unknown. When people are mean to you, they are unhappy with themselves!! 

"The world
will not be
destroyed by
those who do 
evil. But by
those who 
watch them
without doing 
anything". 
-Albert Einstein. People are evil and they will do anything evil! They will watch you and see what you are doing! 

"At Your 
Absolute Best, 
You Still Won't 
Be Good Enough
For The Wrong 
Person". 
-Unknown. Even at your best, you will never be good enough for that person! At your worst, you won't be good enough for that person! People don't care about your best or even your worst! Remember that! 

I love y'all from the bottom of my heart! Always remember that you are good enough in someone's eyes because I know that you are good enough in my eyes! I love y'all and please, stay safe and also, drink plenty of water! I love y'all and see you all on Friday!! 💕💕💕

Blog: Analyzing the song, "Light Inside You" by: Allison Eide, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 2-9-26!!

                                           🧨  Blog: Analyzing the song, "Light Inside You" by: Allison Eide, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 2-9-26! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who wants to brighten up the world! This blog episode is for y'all! 🧨 

Intro to my blog/ talking about last week's blog episodes/ talking about this week's blog episodes! 

Well, hello my amazing and wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is being safe and taking care of yourself! Just know that I love y'all and I care about y'all so much! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Before I get into today's blog episodes or talking about last week's blog episodes, I want to remind everyone that I will be taking a break but don't worry, I am coming back soon! Stay tuned for an all new blog episodes coming for March and towards the end of February!! With that being said, last week on my 1st blog page, On Monday-I talked about what are ways that I handle grief? I handle grief differently and one of those ways that I handle grief is by listening to music! To me, music is my safe space and when I listen to music, I feel safe! On Wednesday, I talked about my poem "Too broken". When I think about the title of my poem, I think about how we are there for people when we are broken, but no one is there for us when we are broken except God! When you are there for people while you are broken, it hurts because you wonder who is there for you when you are broken but God will never leave you!! On Friday, I talked about my poem "Stand firm". When I think about standing firm, I think about standing up for yourself and standing up against the hate! We live in a world full of hate and when we stand firm to what we believe in, people will back off!! Do y'all want to know more about last week's blog episodes? Well, please go check them out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! Link right here: ➡️1st blog page!! ⬅️Link right here!! For this week's blog episodes, I will be analyzing the song, "Light Inside You" by: Allison Eide, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden, what 3 things knocked me down, and what is love? Without any disruptions or distractions, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose this blog episode to talk about? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing the song, "Light Inside You" by: Allison Eide, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who wants to bright up the world! This blog episode is for y'all!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the song title, what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? When I listen to this song by Allison Eide, what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? Why did I choose this blog episode to talk about? The reason why I choose to talk about this blog episode is because we all need to be reminded that we have a light that needs to be sparked and be shown to the world! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I choose "Light Inside You" by: Allison Eide! In this world, we need to brighten up because sometimes, the world is so dark!! Why did I choose this song for the week? The reason why I choose this song for the week is because we all need to be reminded how God can use us to be a light and to shine bright for others!! 

How can I relate this song to my life? Why can I relate this song to my life? 

How can I relate this song to my life? The way I can relate this song to my life is people see the good in me when I feel like I don't see the good in me! Sometimes, I struggle with people seeing the good in me!! I had people hurt me and it hurts sometimes!! Why can I relate this song to my life? The reason why I can relate to this song in my life is because sometimes, the darkness wants to hang over me and people can see how good I am! I want people to know that there is light at the end of a tunnel! Let your light shine!!

The song title!! 

When I think about the song title, what comes to mind? When I think about the song title, I think about having a light inside you! I think about how God can use you in a mighty way! God can use us in a mighty way!! When we have that light inside of us, we need to let it shine bright! People need to see that light shine and we need to show people how God is using us in a mighty way!! 

Why?

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it comes to mind like that is because we need to show people how God is using us in a mighty way! God wants us to be used in a mighty way because he wants us to shine a light into someone's life! He wants us to help and guide people along the way!! We need to guide people on the right path and shine a bright light to help them along the way!! We need to make a pathway glow!! 

Listen to this song!! 

When I listen to this song by Allison Eide, what comes to mind? When I listen to the song "Light Inside You" by: Allison Eide, I think what comes to mind is we need to shine bright no matter where we go in life! People need to see that light no matter what we go! People need to see that light no matter what we are dealing in life! We need to shine the light and people need to see that! We need to help others and we might see the light in others and how good they are doing in life!!

Why?

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it comes to mind like that is because the world might hate what that person is doing for their life, but you see that person has potential in their life! You are hyping that person up and telling them "you are doing so good that I can see the light inside you! You are not a nothing! You are a somebody"! Sometimes, the world might look at you and say "you are nothing" but there is a person that might think you are a somebody! If a person thinks that you are somebody, you are a somebody and that's all that matters! God thinks you are a somebody! You are a somebody to someone!! 

In closing/ Monday motivation!! 

In closing, this world thinks you are a nobody and you are not doing a good job! They don't see any potential in you but there is somebody who sees the potential and the light inside you! They see the good in you and when someone sees the good in you, that means that person believed in you all along! When a person believes in you all along, that is a good feeling! People sometimes will knock other people down!! Here is Monday's motivation: My Monday's motivation is Don't let the world knock you down but instead, shine a bright on someone's life because we need more people to shine a light! Always shine a light where you go!! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my amazing Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! The moral of this blog episode is everyone has potential! Use that potential in your life because once you use that potential in life, people are going to see the light inside you! Your light can shine bright and when your light shines bright, it will shine bright!! Keep shining on! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from Psalm 103:2 and it says "Bless the Lord, O my soul, And forget not all his benefits:". The Lord has benefits for you! The Lord will guide and direct you on the right path of life!! Trust what the Lord is doing for you! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and stay tuned for Wednesday's blog episode where I will be talking about what 3 things knocked me down? Stay tuned and with that being said, I love y'all and so does Jesus and let's have a wonderful day or had a wonderful day today and let's always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and Jesus loves you and so do I and see y'all on Wednesday! Blogger Queen out!  ❤❤❤

Today's Bible Verse of the day!! The Lord has benefits for us and we need to trust his benefits for us! He wants what is best for us!! Trust in the Lord!! 

"in the darkness, the strongest souls don't 
search for the light- they become it". 
-Olivia Ann Rose. Become the light for someone because when you become the light, you can guide others on the right path! Show people the light!! 

"No one knows 
the darkness 
you're overcome
to carry so much 
light in your soul". 
-Unknown. No one knows much darkness that you had to overcome in life to get where you are at today! The reason why you have so much light is because you overcome the darkness in your life! Let that light carry on!! 

"If you want to give light
to others, you first have 
to glow yourself". 
-Unknown. In order to have light, you need to shine your light in your life! You can't just shine a light in someone's life and not yours! Shine your light in your life and others!! 

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week which is "Light Inside You" by: Allison Eide. We all have a light inside of us but people don't see the good in us and that's okay! Sometimes, darkness overcasts our light and we need to be careful not let the darkness do that! I love y'all and don't let the darkness overcasts your light because you are shinning bright there! 💕🧨💕🧨💕🧨

Blog: What 3 things broke me in 2025? By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 1-30-26!!

                                                  Blog: What 3 things broke me in 2025? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 1-30-26!! This blog episode goes out to anyone who is recovering from whatever it broke them! This blog episode is for you!! 

Intro to my blog/ Talking about Wednesday's blog episode/ Talking about today's blog episode! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for the day! How are y'all are doing today? I hope everyone is okay today! Whatever you are dealing with, I'm here for y'all, no matter what! Please, don't give up and keep fighting! Who is ready for an new blog episode for the day? I know that I am but 1st,  blog recap! On Wednesday, I analyzed my poem "Don't trust people" by: Brandee Marie Darden! When I think about the title of my poem, I think about how I trusted the wrong people in my life! Every time I trust those people, I ended up getting hurt and that's sad for me! Be careful who you trust! Do y'all want to know more about this blog episode? Link right here: Analyzing my poem "Don't trust people", by: Brandee Marie Darden! ←Link right here!! Enjoy!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about What 3 things broke me in 2025? This blog episode goes out to anyone who is recovering from whatever it broke them! This blog episode is for you!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could pick 3 things that broke me, what are those 3 things? Why did those things broke me? Out of those 3 things, what broke me the most? Why did that thing broke me the most? Now, let's get our thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

How would I describe my 2025? Why would I describe 2025 like that? 

How would I describe my 2025? If I could describe my 2025, I would describe it as a lot of memories that I won't forget but also a lot of life lessons!! One of those life lessons I was taught was realizing who my real friends are! I realized who are my real friends are and who are my fake friends are and unfortunately, people can be fake at times and that's sad! Why would I describe 2025 like that? The reason why I would describe 2025 like that is because 2025 had a lot of good memories but a lot of life lessons and I am glad that 2025 taught me a lot!! 

3 things!!  

If I could pick 3 things that broke me, what are those 3 things? The 1st thing that broke me in 2025 is fake friends! I would have these so called "friends" and they would tell me that they would always be there for me, no matter what but they lied to me! The 2nd thing that broke me in 2025 is trusting the wrong people! I have trusted the wrong people and that broke me! Not only I thought I could have them as my best friend, but also they have proved to me that they couldn't be trusted and that is what hurts me a lot! The 3rd and final thing that broke me in 2025 is people not being there for me! When I would support people day in and day out, I didn't have a lot of people supporting me and that me so much! I would have people support me, but I never had people support me and it hurt me a lot!! 

Why?

Why did those things broke me? The 1st reason why fake friends broke me in 2025 is because I would have people in my life who I thought they were my so called "friends" but they proved to me over and over that no matter what, they weren't my friend and to me, that's sad! It broke me so much!! The 2nd reason why trusting the wrong people broke me in 2025 is because I thought there were people I thought I could trust, but it turns out I couldn't trust those people and that broke me a lot! I thought I could trust people but time and time again, they prove to me that they couldn't be trusted and now, I will have my guard up!!! The 3rd and final reason why people not being there for me broke me in 2025 is because when someone that I know needed support, I would support them but when I support, I would have not a lot of people show up for me and that is what hurts me the most!! It hurts me not to have a lot people to support you but I am forever grateful to have people to be at my side! I might not have a lot of people, but I know at the end of the day, I know who is there for me!! 

Hurt me the most! 

Out of those things, what broke me the most? If I could pick the one thing that broke me in 2025, it would have to be trusting the wrong people! Yes, having fake friends and people not being there for me hurt me a lot in 2025 but nothing could ever prepared me than trusting the wrong people! I would tell people how much they meant a lot to me and I'm blessed to have them in my life or I would listen to them talk when they need me but I would go talking with that person pretty much everyday to not hearing from them at all!! My brain would go from I trusted you to I don't trust you anymore! I am always on guard! I am always protecting my heart and I never want to get hurt but unfortunately, I have been nothing but hurt and that hurts me a lot!! 

Why? 

Why did that thing broke me the most? The reason why trusting the wrong people broke me the most in 2025 is because I would talk to a lot of people everyday but then, they drop me and forget about me and that hurts and when it hurts, it hurts! What most don't know about me is I wear my feelings on my shirt and I am a very sensitive! I love talking to people and when I form a close bond with you, I would want you to be there for me and let me trust you but when you give me a reason not to trust you, then I know that you broke my heart and I can't trust you anymore! It's hard to trust people anymore because I can't take them serious at their word and that hurts me so much!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, 2025 was the year that I taught me a lot but also it broke me a lot!! 2025 was the year that showed me who were my real friends are, how hurtful trusting the wrong people can be, and people not being there for me can hurt my mental health! I was always a real friend to people but they were a fake friend to me and that hurts so much!! I would go to talking to people everyday to not everyday and when those people stop talking to you, you start to lose trust and that's what happened to a lot of people!!! I would be there for a lot of people but when I need support, nowhere in sight and that is what hurts me the most!! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is be careful who you trust because once you start to form a bond with someone and then, you lose contact with those people, they can no longer trust those people anymore! Be careful who you open your heart to!! I love y'all so much!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode! The lesson behind this blog episode is choose your friends wisely, be careful who you trust, and choose the people who will support you because all of those things work when you have two or more people in your life! One person shouldn't have to do all the work!! Always protect heart!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from Psalm 55:22 and it says "Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and he shall sustain thee: He shall never suffer the righteous to be moved". God wants us to go to him with every burden that we have! He wants us not to carry that burden anymore and give it to him! Go to God with your burden!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and stay tuned for next week's blog episodes where I talk about on my 1st blog page, I talk about what are ways that I handle grief, analyzing my poems "Too broken" and "stand firm". Stay tuned for that and with that being said, I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and I will see y'all next week! Don't forget to love like Jesus not just today, but everyday! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! ❤❤❤❤❤

Today's Bible Verse of the day!! Always bring your burden to God because he will take care of your burden! Trust in the Lord!! 

"Some friends are 
like pennies, two-
faced and 
worthless". I couldn't agree with this quote more because sometimes, your so called "friends" can be fake and they can show their true colors!! 

"Wrong Things
Happen When
You Trust The 
Wrong People". 
-Unknown. When you trust the wrong people, things take an unexpected turn for the worst and that can hurt a lot! When you trust the wrong person, they can lead you on the wrong path! Don't let people lead you on the wrong path! 

"People aren't 
always going 
to be there for 
you, that's why
you learn to 
handle things 
on your own". 
-Unknown. Sometimes, the only person that you can depend on is yourself and God because with God, he will never leave you nor forsake you and with yourself, you are there for you!!! Remember that!! 

To end today's blog episode for the day, here is this week's song of the week which is "Who Am I" by: Katy Nichole. Every time I listen to this song, I think about who I am as a person and I should be the person that I was meant to be! Always be the person that you were meant to be! I love y'all and so does Jesus and have a good day today!! See y'all on Monday!! 

Blog: Analyzing my poem "Don't trust people" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 1-28-26!!

                                                Blog: Analyzing my poem "Don't trust people" by: Brandee Marie Darden! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who trusted the wrong person in their life! Be careful who you trust! I love y'all! 

Intro to my blog/ talking about Monday's blog/ talking about today's blog episode!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode where I talk about anything that comes to my mind! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well and staying warm during this cold weather! I am so happy to have y'all back on a new blog episode for the day! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but 1st, a blog recap on Monday's blog episode: On Monday, I talked about what healed me in 2025? One of the things that healed me in 2025 is people there for me! To know that I have people there for me, it reassured me that I feel loved by those people!! Want to know more about this blog? Link right here: →What healed me in 2025? ← Link right here!! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Don't trust people". This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who trusted the wrong person in their life! Be careful who you trust! I love y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the title of my poem, what comes to mind? Why does that thing come to mind like that? What is the meaning behind this poem? Why is there meaning behind this poem? What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who don't trust people? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about my poem! When I was typing up this poem, what was going through my head? Why was that going through my head? 

On Tuesday, December 16th, 2025, I typed up a poem called "Don't trust people" and this is how it goes: "Don't trust people" by: Brandee Marie Darden! 
"Don't trust people who will

leave you constantly! Don't 

trust people who 

constantly put you down! 

Don't trust people who say

hurtful things! Don't trust 

people because people 

aren't worth trusting! God 

is worth trusting more than

anything"! 

Love, Brandee Marie Darden! When I was typing up this poem, what was going through my head? When I was typing up this poem, what was going through my head was throughout my life, I had people belittle me, put me down, and people were constantly leaving me and that was hard for me and I felt like I trusted the wrong people in my life!! Don't trust the wrong people in your life!! Why was that going through my head? The reason why it was going through my head it is because all through my life, I had people let me down time after time and people left me, but it made me realize that I never needed those people in the beginning! 

The title of my poem!! 

When I think about the title of my poem, what comes to mind? When I think about the title of my poem, I think about how I trusted the wrong people in my life! In my life, all I can think about trusting the wrong people in my life! When I trusted those people, they have broke my heart and they have stopped being there for me when I needed them the most! It hurts for me to know that those people don't even care about my feelings when I would put my feelings aside to make sure people were okay!! 

Why?

Why does that thing come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because I am not afraid to admit that I have trusted the wrong people in my life! I know when I trusted those wrong people, it brought my mental health down and when it did, it hurt so much!! People are selfish and cruel because they don't care about your feelings and they will never care about your feelings! People will never understand what they did to you! 

The meaning behind this poem! 

What is the meaning behind this poem? The meaning behind this poem is don't trust people who are going to stab you in the back or be careful who is in your inner circle! Sometimes, we need to be careful who we trust! People will never care about other people's feelings! They can care less which is sad!! We live in a world where everyone will do anything to be selfish! People are mean and I don't want to associate with those people are selfish! I'm just saying!! 

Why?

Why is there meaning behind this poem? The reason why don't trust people who are going to stab you in the back or be careful who is in your inner circle is the meaning behind this poem is because people will do anything to stab you in the back! They will do anything to go up one and make them better than you and that's absolutely wrong of them! I know that Jesus got betrayed by one of his disciples and that actually hurt him because he trusted his disciple! Be careful who you trust!! 

My advice!!  

What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who don't trust people? If I could give anyone who don't trust people, it is trust is like crinkle old paper!! Once you crinkle it, good luck unwrinkled it! Trust is earned, not given!! You can't have trust for free! Once you broke that trust, good luck earning that person's trust again! It's hard to trust people who once stabbed you in the back!! 

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give the advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because once you crinkle the paper, the paper is messed up! Once you messed up the paper, you messed it up! You can try fixing it, but it can't be fixed! Once you messed up the trust, you can't fixed it! You messed up and you hurt the person! You have to earn that person's trust back and it could take years of trusting again! It only depends on the person! You will have to earn that person's trust all over again!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!!

In closing, we need to be careful who we trust in this world today because once you break a trust, you messed up bad! Sometimes, trust can be hard to fix because once you messed up, you messed up and once you messed up, you can't go back!! People don't care about how others feel and that's harsh! People are mean and they will take every opportunity to stab a person in the back and don't regret it either! People don't care if it hurts the other person! People are selfish!! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is Be careful who you trust because once you trust the wrong person, that person can hurt you into a million pieces! I love y'all and so does Jesus!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! The moral of this blog episode is be careful who you trust because once a person breaks your trust, be careful to not let them back into your life! People are selfish and cruel and we need to be careful who you trust!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is from John 13:34 and it says "A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another"! If Jesus can love you, you can love another person as well! That person might have done something wrong to you, but you still need to love them!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and stay tuned for Friday's blog episode where I will be talking about what 3 things broke me in 2025? Stay tuned for that! I love y'all and so does Jesus! Have a good day or had a good day and see y'all on Friday!! 

Today's Bible Verse of the day!! If Jesus can love you and forgive you for what you have done, then you can love people as well! People might have wronged you and hurt you, but they need people to love as much as the next person down the street!! Everyone deserves love!!! 

My poem that I did about "Don't trust people". We need to be careful who to trust because people will go behind your back! Don't trust people!! 

"I regret opening up to some 
people, they didn't deserve to 
know me like that". 
-Unknown. Be careful who you open up to because they can either judge you or they can help you and you want people to help you!! 

"Nothing worse
than finding out someone
you were so close to was a 
snake the whole time".
-Unknown. You can be close to someone and the whole time you are close to that person, they could be going behind your back! Be careful who you open up to because they can twist your words!! 

I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and I pray that this blog episode helps someone! Always remember that you are loved by people and be kind to someone! I love y'all! ❤❤❤

Blog: What healed me in 2025? By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 1-26-26!!

                                                   Blog: What healed me in 2025?? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 1-26-26!! This blog episode is for anyone who is healing from the year 2025! Whatever broke you, I pray that it can heal you and make you stronger! I love y'all! 

Intro to my blog episode/ talking about last week's blogs/ talking about this week's blogs episodes!! 

Hello, my amazing and wonderful Blogger Dreamers! How y'all are doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through, I'm here for y'all always!! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! It's a brand new week of new blog episodes and I am looking forward to new blogs this week! Before I get into this week's blog episodes, here's a blog recap of last week's blog episodes: On my makeup and fashion blog page, on Monday- I talked about what kind of outfits would I wear with my headbands? In December, I ended up getting new headbands and one is a pearl headband and the other is black mesh headband with pearls on it and if I could pick an outfit to wear with those headbands, I would wear a brown dress with my pearl headband and my brown and beige shoes! This would be so cute to wear for church or somewhere nice!! On Wednesday, I talked about 3 outfits for a Valentine's day date! With Valentine's day coming up, if I could pick an outfit to wear on a date for Valentine's day, I would wear a Dr. Pepper shirt with a black skirt, black leggings, and black combat boots!! This outfit would be so cute to wear for a date to the mall or even to the movies!! For Friday's blog, I talked about makeup looks for Valentine's day date! One of the looks that I put together for Valentine's day date to go with my Dr.Pepper outfit, it would have to be a soft orange with a gold glitter to go on top, red blush, gold highlighter, and a nude lipstick to top off the look! This makeup look would look absolutely stunning and gorgeous! Do y'all want to know more about last week's blog episodes? Well, you can check them out right here: →Makeup & fashion blog page! ← Link right here!! For this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about what healed me in 2025, analyzing my poem "Don't trust people", and what 3 things broke me in 2025? With that being said, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose this blog topic to talk about? What is the song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what healed me in 2025? This blog episode is for anyone who is healing from the year 2025! Whatever broke you, I pray that it can heal you and make you stronger! I love y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about what 3 things healed me in 2025? Why did those 3 things healed me? Out of those 3 things, which one heal me the most? Why did that thing heal me the most? Why did I choose this blog topic to talk about? The reason why I choose this blog episode to talk about is because last year, I went through a lot of ups and downs but I became stronger than I ever been and I am proud of myself!! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "Who am I" by: Katy Nichole. When I listen to this song, sometimes- I wonder who I am when I am pretending to be someone else! I don't to be pretending to be who I am when I can be Brandee!! I might be tearing at the seams, but I am truly being who I am and I am proud of who I am!! Why did I choose this song for the week? The reason why I choose this song of the week is because I don't need to pretend to be a fake person when I can truly be who I am, the real me!! Don't pretend to be the person that you aren't! 

What lesson did I learn last year? Why did I learn that lesson last year? 

What lesson did I learn last year? The lesson that I learned last year was realizing who were my real friends!! When I was taught last year who my real friends were, it opened my eyes a lot! It showed me that those fake friends weren't made to be in my life and I am actually glad that those "fake friends" showed me some true colors!! Why did I learn that lesson last year? The reason why I learned that lesson last year is because it gave me that reassurance of knowing who my real friends are and who are my fake friends and I'm glad it showed me!! 

3 things that healed me!!  

What 3 things healed me in 2025? If I had to pick the 1st thing that healed me in 2025, it would have to be reassurance! I got reassured who were my real friends and it healed me a lot!! It showed me that I never needed them in the 1st place!! The 2nd thing that healed me in 2025 is having real friends! I think what really healed me was having the real friends that was meant to be in my life and I am glad that I know who is really there for me and who my real friends are!! The 3rd and final thing that healed me in 2025 is people being there for me! I think what healed me was having people who were there for me and supporting me through everything! It gave me that felt good moment to have those people in my life who is actually there for me and I'm happy to have people being there for me!! 

Why?

Why did those 3 things healed me? The 1st reason why reassurance healed me is because 2025 gave me that reassurance of people who are actually there for me and who isn't and I'm glad that it gave me that reassurance!! The 2nd reason why having real friends healed me is because it showed me that I am going to have friends who are going to show up for me, no matter what and I'm happy that I have people who actually shows up for me!! The 3rd and final reason why people being there for me healed me is because it reminded me that no matter what, I am going to have people who will always be there for me, no matter what and I am glad that I have people there for me! 

Healed me the most? 

Out of those 3 things, which one heal me the most? If I had to pick the one that healed me the most, I would have to pick people being there for me!! What is so healing about that is having people who actually care about you and who actually loves you, it makes my heart happy to have those people who will be there for me, no matter what! It makes me realize that I am going to have people there for me, no matter what! Sure, having reassurance and having real friends can be healing, but nothing can be more healing when people are there for me and I have realized who is actually there for me and I am so glad that I can have good people in my life who will be there for me!! 

Why?

Why did that thing heal me the most? The reason why people being there for me healed me the most is because it was healing to me to know who is actually there for me and who isn't there for me! Yes, having reassurance and having real friends is healing but nothing beats than having people who is actually there for you and supporting you through thick and thin! It reminds me that no matter what I have been through, people are going to be there for me through everything and having them by my side and reminding me that they will never leave me!! I had people leave me and it was the most hurtful thing to ever experience but realizing that I have a good support system is healing to me!! 

In closing/ Motivation of the day!!  

In closing, 2025 broke me a lot but 2025 also healed me as well!! I got that reassurance knowing that I have people who will leave me! Seeing who were my real friends is healing because I know who does support me and who will pick me up when I am going through tough times!! Having people there for me when I have been through so much is such a reminder that no matter what, God will put people in my corner and I am glad that I have few people in my corner! I don't care who is really in my corner! I am glad that those people have showed me some true colors over the course of this past month!! To the ones who have showed me your true colors, thank you so much for not being there for me when I need you the most especially the hard moments in my life! I never needed you in the beginning! For today's motivation of the day, it is use people not being there for me be a motivating thing to remind yourself that no matter what, you have God that will be there for you, no matter what! God loves you and cares about you so much! Remember that! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! To have reassurance and reminder that I have people who are going to be there for me, it gave me that peace knowing that I am going to have people who will be there for me and who isn't and I am glad that I can have that reminder! Having real friends is also healing because those real friends are going to be in your corner, no matter what and I love that so much!! People being there for me is the most healing thing for me because it showed me that no matter what I am going through, those people are going to show up for me and when people show up for you, they will show up for you! That's important!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is from Proverbs 16:3 and it says "Commit thy works unto the Lord, And thy thought shall be established". When you commit your works to the Lord, it shows you that you will do anything for the Lord and you will do anything to show the Lord that you are committing to him and only him!! Always show the Lord!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Stay tuned for an all new blog episode where on Wednesday, I will talk about my poem "Don't trust people". Stay tuned for that and with that being said, always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's show the whole world how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! Let's love like Jesus, not just today but everyday! I love y'all and Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤☺☺☺☺☺☺

Today's Bible Verse of the day! Commit yourself to the Lord because when you are working for the Lord, the Lord will bless you in so many ways!! 

"Reassurance will take my mood from 
0 to 100. I love being reminded that
I'm loved and appreciated.
Sometimes you need that". Sometimes, you need to be reminded that you are loved and appreciated because everyone deserves that every once in a while!! 

"A real friend would 
never do that". 
-Unknown. A real friend will never leave you! A real friend will be there for you, no matter what! A real friend will love you!! A real friend would care while fake friends won't care!! 

"You'll realize 
who's really 
there for you
when you're 
at your worst". 
-Unknown. You will see who is there for you and you will see how much those people love you!! 

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week which is "Who Am I" by: Katy Nichole. When I listening to this song, I think about I don't need to pretend to be who I am! I am who I am and I am proud of who I am!!